Thankyou for watching once again Kelsey. 🙏🏼🌸

Hi Anirudh! What a beautiful comment. And thank you so much for your loving message and words of encouragement. I will make sure to relay this message to Matt incase he does not see it on his own. I too believe we are incredibly lucky to have the relationship and communication that we share. It’s not often I come across other “couples” who appear to be as open and truthful with one another as we are. I do think that’s special, even if it’s not the norm. Appreciate you for watching and sharing your thoughts Anirudh.

Feeld. It’s legit.

in a club. at least for us in Berlin is actually really easy

online dating profile with you and your partner

@@jessicabertram7610I’ve used feeld for months and I’ve never met anyone on it! The dynamic is very different for couples vs single women vs single men (be it straight/gay/bi etc)

We got on a couple of swinger sites, checked out a few that we may be interested in, like our wants and likes . Contacted him for a MFM wife's picking and she had the say on everything sex wise and what she wad comfortable with. Needless to say we had a good time. That was our first time.

Yes, it create diseases?

We are a couple that swap and love to do 3soms. It's very exciting for both of us to be there watching and joining in knowing how much the other is being satisfied. Set your limits if any and do and feel what a lot of people dream of.

Hi Katharina! wow! what a beautiful comment and thank you SO MUCH coming back to share your beautiful and EXCITING experience with your partner and another friend

I'm interested

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Hi just wondering if it was a mfm or ffm ? Our first 3som was a mfm and my wife loved it so much wanted another one soon. It was easier to find a mfm than a ffm but we figured it out. Good luck in the future.

Awww that’s beautiful Theresa. It’s all about freedom for each person to evolve without the expectations of the status quo. It takes some work to let go and 99.99999% will stick to the script but there is something comforting about creating a new form of relating and I hope that we shed light on that creating process. How ever uncomfortable it can be for most. ❤️❤️

Hey Theresa! Thank you so much for your comment and taking the time to watch / share your thoughts and feedback. We love hearing other people’s views and ideas. I love that you’re actually taking to the time to THINK / FEEL / BE AWARE of where the uncomfortable-ness comes from! That’s a big step ahead of most people, in my opinion. We’re so happy that you’re happy and in love in your 8.5 year relationship! That’s incredible! I hope we get to enjoy a happy and healthy 8 years together! And then many more, if it’s meant to be! Again, we appreciate you being here Theresa! 🤍

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@theresa Just try it who knows u like it too

I completely understand what you mean by uncomfortable. I think part of it may simply be that you have that feeling because these behaviors aren’t actually healthy for a loving relationship. Why have any sex with strangers when you could have a meaningful sexual experience with someone that you love and who loves you back? These types of relationships are actually really depressing 0:04

Hi Mia thankyou for you question and watching the video. I can only talk from my own experiences. I think as an adult you will only let kind, compassionate, loving people into your life. I think we connect to many people, hoping to make life long friendships whether the connection is physical or not. So you become the gauge for who you allow your children to be exposed to, will these connections diversify your children in positive ways, will they learn from these people and so on. Of course, you wouldn’t explain the physical aspects of your connections to your children until they are at an age where they are completely competent in understanding sex and sexual connection. Children exposed to love and interaction in any form (non sexual of course) will develop appreciation and acceptance of love and varieties of love not just the abrasive monogamist one way street. Most children are exposed to argument’s within the family dynamic, it’s inevitable within monogamy because nobody is free. From my experience, children exposed to love and a non confrontation atmosphere environment blossom into beautiful adults versus children exposed to two parents at each other’s throats daily. So yes, expose your kids to many of your connections. If your kids turn out loving and caring and compassionate, you attracted the right sorts of people to influence. If your kids turned out to be assholes then it’s a great time for some self reflection, because ultimately our own gauge was off and we attracted a likeness. Like society is cruel. Full of expectation. Full of competitiveness. Religion places judgment on freedoms. So find people that are of a gentle nature. ✨🌸

Aww thankyou Alicia that’s a beautiful messages. We keep trying to push the limits of our beliefs.

Thankyou for watching Katherine. Stoked to see others expanding in creative ways too. We are all individually on such unique journeys. To share them positively with another is so beautiful and accepting.

Hey Katharina! Awesome! Some of the best experiences of our lives (so far) have been spent enjoying + connecting with other people in new and exciting ways! Love that your “order” has happened to look like ours as well. It’s empowering and UPLIFTING to sit with yourself and get to know your TRUE self (and true desires, passions, purpose, etc.) rather than just copy and paste what so many around us are doing at all times. Good on you both! Keep us posted with how you two go - or if you have any other Qs along the way!

@@SaltSandandSmoothies Yes, I agree, it's so so important! I am really looking forward to all the future connections we are going to have! And I hope your channel grows and is able to inform and inspire others the same we you inspire me! Very stoked to be there from the beginning and to be able to grow with you! :)

I have been in three sums

Glad you enjoyed Sinja! We’re just here to share our personal experiences, with hope that it may help or comfort someone along their own journey - we’re ALL unique and individual. And should be celebrated as such!!

Hey John! Thank you so much for sharing this perspective. We’re so glad you resonate with some of the topics we discussed and are appreciative of you sharing what’s working for you in your alternative lifestyle too! :) 🤍 be well xo

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My wife and I decided not to get into a relationship to often with the same person, keep some distance between them and us. Now we do have a couple of couples that we are close friends with now that we hot tub with and dinner but not always sexual.

Hi R Ramirez! What a great comment ! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and opinions here. It’s so interesting for me to read and consider. I appreciate you taking the time to watch the entire video and share how you feel. If you’re open to discussing it further, I’m so curious to know which differing biological needs / genetic coding you believe men and woman have? Thanks for having the discussion!

I think you underestimate Amelia's ability to choose as a conscious uninhibited female to make decisions openly and honestly. The genetic coding you speak of doesn't exist, in fact the need for a woman to choose several men ensures survival for the woman and her children. The ultimate act of love is to love your wife/husband/partner and realise that love begins and ends only where you as a couple agree to.

@@Apbt-rv7zw I agree, I find these comments very strange when people start going off about what women in general need in bed from other partners or men, etc, I don't buy that much at all.

Thanks Clare! 💋 Sometimes I don’t even know what’s about to come out of my mouth. 👅

I also do have a question for either or both of you! Since you guys are engaged but also have mentioned the space to leave if it is not aligned or exciting anymore, why did you feel called to propose or be married? Just curious your feelings on this cause we all three know our worldviews are opposites haha 😂🤍 all love

@@clareforchrist I won’t answer for Amelia 🙈, but I do believe in a union of sorts or marriage under our terms only, representing love, bearing witness to each other’s journeys without the aspects of any conditional contract formed, which of course, won’t be representative of religious dogma , nor societal. It will be a celebration of course and you gotta come too. 💕 We haven’t sent invites out yet though but we will let you know when we do.

@@resilience4477 beautiful. I am happy for you guys getting married. I’d be honored!! Any dates/ location yet?

@@clareforchrist yep we have the location in Uluwatu. No confirmed date but sometime in September. We will keep you posted x

Did you ever get std tested before doing one?

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Don't have anymore children. Also try to give your children for adoption. They will be much better off without parents like you.

Hit me up I went through the same thing

It is tried? And what will impact?

It tried?

We had more luck using AFF . We used SLS some but it seemed just to many playing games. There are some newer ones but not sure about them, good luck.

I want to try but scared my relationship will mess up

@@cindyayala8937 Its always possible and that's the reality imo. But I do think finding someone who isn't to attached and maybe even in another area is better. We got lucky cause it was traveling we didn't exchange numbers or anything we will never see them again. But me and my wife communicated on it and knew we were both in on it and trusted each other. We set healthy boundaries. But the honest truth is it is impossible to truly control our significant others and if they develop feelings cheat run off we don't have a ton of control. I wasn't jealous I was happily giving doing my wife from behind while she gave our new friend oral it was a wild moment cause I knew what he was feeling and enjoying while I was enjoying what I was doing. My wife I believe felt the most awkward in the end. We didn't say we won't do it anymore but we haven't done it since that experience. But I comes down to you and what you are comfortable with and explain your feelings and worries and maybe it works out maybe it doesnt. I hope everything goes well.for ya!

I think a younger man’s fantasy of this would always be with two women, but doesn’t it seem like MFM must be more common in real life?

Lol right this guy will get left soon but ovbiously wont mind lol

We are glad you had that experience, its very exciting to have a 3som for all involved, congrats

Lol let them live their fucked up lives 😂😂😂😂 we aren't cool enough for them. If my man wanted another woman to add or me being f**ked by some guy, I would literally vomit on him. What else's left ? Animals ? 😂

😅 its entertaining at least deff cult vibes for sure but yeah he cant be that into her in reality

Don't knock it until you've tried it

@@elenaolszewski871monogamy is a cult if anything. Read Sex at Dawn.

@@raytreherne26 lol ok just tried it i was wrong

Men are more insecure than most women.

Why exactly?

Are you from or near Ohio?

Excellent thought

HOT!!!

@@michaelmclean2363 Thanks!

bro she just cheated on you with your permission damn if you are not added in than it is cheating for me bud

One option that me and my ex almost explored, she had a female friend whom she knew loved threesomes that we almost arranged, that would have been no problem for any of us bc the mutual friend was not jealous about it and didn't mind sharing.

@@kbanghart well i need to find a dude. I know one, but hes in another city

@@somnvm37 so you're a straight woman?

@@kbanghart a bi guy. thats what makes it harder, I need to fond another bi guy me and my gf would like, and this person cant be a very close friend or a complete stranger.

Oh wow! What a thought to have. I can assure you I’m not being taken advantage of sexually or financially. Thank you for your concern but I don’t believe it comes from a place of knowledge or truth, only assumptions and guessing? I wouldn’t be in any type of relationship that I wouldn’t want to be in, I can assure you. I enjoy our open relationship just as much as Matt does .. in different ways … with different people .. and would very much so leave a partnership completely if it felt it wasn’t serving me or my heart, growth, happiness and expansion. I am completely comfortable and sovereign on my own, which leaves me in a very fortunate and privileged situation where I don’t need to rely on a partner or relationship for safety or financial security. I’ve been in monogamous relationships in the past that never lasted more than 6 months because we both knew it didn’t make sense to “be tied down” to one person in life at such a young and exciting age. As for your comment on being taken advantage of financially, I have no idea where this came from, but I can assure you Matt and I are both very well taken care of by our businesses and personal assets. It’s OKAY if our relationship/ ideas / beliefs / lifestyle triggers or annoys you, we’re not here to persuade or manipulate or convince anyone. I too am exposed to MANY relationships that don’t impress, inspire or excite me. It’s all part of everyone having their own life experience and creating a reality that serves THEM the best, as an individual. Thank you for your concern, but in the future I kindly ask that you resort to sharing your thoughts with us privately, rather than on such a large public platform as your assumptions / judgements about may cause us and our family more harm then they do good. Thank you 🤍🤍 Again, we’re just two people living our lives in a way that excites us and inspires us. We love all sentient beings, rescue animals, surf, spend time in nature and have the occasional threesome (or foursome!) with open minded, creative, lovely, respectful and beautiful people. We’re safe. We’re happy. And we treat each over very, very well. I promise you!

Thanks for your reply Yasmin. I am glad that you have that awareness to unlearn. I am also happy to see such judgment of someone that you don’t know, which also allows us to work through judgments. I am sorry that I am responsible for triggering your past traumas. Women in relationships must be given total freedom, absolute equality, otherwise there will be no possibility to relate. I cannot reiterate this enough. Up to now, man has exploited woman, woman has exploited man; there has not been any real relationships. I feel that sometimes that I am the advocate for freedom within our relating. It’s easy for one of us to fall into the toxicity or traps of monogamy/ownership of another person/human being and want that secure feeling of being owned by the other. In other words to live in a constant state of bondage. I want to be me. I want Amelia to be herself. Monogamy is up for grabs if either of us want that, but we love being individual. Within a monogamous relationship you lose equality and we are showing people, viewers that equality exists when you see your partner as an individual not just to have someone that adheres to a conditional contract or another’s wants or needs and if those needs including self happiness and evolution are not met then we discard that person and repeat that pattern with someone else. I have 15 years experience in monogamy so I speak from experience from both sides. 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️

@@resilience4477 thank you both so much for this very elaborate and friendly answer. I come from a 9 year marriage where I was both financially and also sexually and maybe seeing a very unconventional relationship makes me want to protect myself and all other women from this very hurtful experience. I am sorry for making assumption with a large audience seeing them, I really didn't think about it tbh. Thank you both for expanding my mind. I am however in a very happy monogamous marriage now for 4 years and fel incredily held and free, but obviously there is still so much in me I need to work on.

@@yasminanyalechi6514 Awww that’s a sweet message to receive Yasmin. Thank you. ❤️

Yasmin - Yeah hunny definitely seems like your own trauma is coming through. Usually if we are triggered by others' actions it comes from an imbalance deep within ourself. It's good to have awareness of it so it can be healed and transmuted, which is what the purpose of this interaction must've been for.

There are non-binaries. They have chromosomal defects. Trisomy 21 is a non-binary condition. The people claiming to be non-binary have no idea how horrible it is to really be non-binary.

Only men and women? What are you talking about, sex and gender?

@@kbanghart they’re the same thing bro

@@hmmlemeeshink um no. You can literally search the definitions, they're not the same.

@@kbanghart um no, you can literally search for the original definition, they are the same.

Hi Victoria! Thanks for watching our video and sharing your comment. All good - to each their own! I have nothing but love towards all others and their beliefs / views / desires in relationships. In my opinion everyone is different and no love or lifestyle should ever look identical to anyone else’s. That’s the beauty of this incredible human experience ! We all get to do things uniquely with our own twist and style! Just because someone prefers something different than you do doesn’t mean its wrong or “wack” ! Xx

Is it you that desires a threesome, or is it your husband. I would encourage you to watch RC Blake's you tube videos. He talks a lot about our culture and media promoting what he calls female slave conditioning. I'm sorry women are not built to be non monogamous. Why don't you get a guy that just wants to be with you. Don't understand you. Either you know deep down inside that this is not making you feel good, or you don't care about your husband maybe you don't really live him derp down.

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