so glad you're bringing in the split attraction model. i think a lot of crushes that confuse people may just be aesthetic attraction, and then you don't actually want to do anything about it

Life gets complicated and confusing most of the time. There is joy and freedom when you can freely express the love you have for someone else. To have a love and partnership that both of you share is amazing. I appreciate both of you very much💙💙💯

Alexis and Lilian are my Queerspiration! They’ve inspired my coming out journey and now I’m living a more free life as a queer woman with my partner! Thank you both for your videos! You both are thee absolute best! Much love From NY!

In reality this is a wide open topic. I have several straight friends that are at different places on the scale. One is comfortable simply watching, but I can tell she thinks about going further. Another is willing to touch and kiss. Two have actually allowed themselves to explore, and I was chosen to be their test subject. Secrecy is key in those situations. I love your willingness to explore these topics. It's time to subscribe! 😊

deep down, almost everybody is bi ! Sexual orientation is a spectrum, very few people are 100% straight

I had been in a marriage to someone I was very much in love with for 30 years. I am trans gender and I didn't transition until about five years ago. My wife knew I was trans prior to our marriage, and was supportive of my decision to transition when it became possible to do so. Neither of us new what would happen post transition. Neither of would have said we were at the binary bookends as far as sexuality goes. Despite all of our years together, the reality of seeing me as woman has meant my wife is no longer attracted to me sexually, and further to that has said that she does not wish to be viewed socially as lesbian or bi, which means we no longer display affection publicly. Today we are friends and support each other that way, but the magic that made us so close and things so perfect in the past is gone.

Alexis can you please so a minimalist make up tutorial or fun video for us! Or even skincare. Your face is gorgeous and I wanna know that minimal makeup set up ❤

i like the idea of there being a culturaland affective dimension to the label. Like there being "culturally straight" and then "affectively straight" (straight feelings wise) dimensions. In the past a lot of bi people, while affectively bi lived a culturally straight lifestyle, and it's changing increasingly, though many remain in this situation regardless

Love it! Howdy from Texas 🤠

There's lots of different types of attraction, it can be tricky to navigate!

Howdy 👋🏽, As a Christian (25) who has always identified as straight, I'm feeling confused and scared because I've developed a crush on a lesbian woman, and I don't understand why this is happening. 😢

I love these two 🤗✨

Thank you both for your inspiring, very helpful and fun videos, this has helped me a lot on my coming out journey! Groetjes uit Amsterdam!!

Having a friend who is a girl or a "gurl" friend. Which one are you looking for?

I have crushes on people's minds sometimes. Intellectual crushes. Can you even call that a "crush" when you want to exchange more thoughts with that person because you find their way of thinking to be inspiring, refreshing and maybe comforting, too?

Great msg from beautiful couple

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Not a trend, because feel more comfortable around women, that's why I think

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Im ancient and still confused. 🙃

Good to see y'all, hope the family project is coming along💁🏼‍♀️. Just had a Persian buffet served to me by a Persian queen who is the most beautiful woman I've come across is a long time. We've both been in het marriages and we both are wide open to new things... stay tuned and YES gender is dead last on my list of qualifications 😎