I also believe that attraction grows. The moment you spend time together and get to know each other, so as the chemistry.👌👌👌

The woman in the middle knows what she is talking about. Let her do a segment by herself. She is very good at this.

"My husband chased me like a dog in a heat for a year and a half"...she's hilarious🤣🤣🤣...I love her way of thinking👌👌👌

I love the woman in the middle because she has values and understand morals

Attraction definitely grows, but I gotta at least feel somewhat attracted beforehand whether that’s their height, smell, nose or personality, SOMETHING!

I had instant attraction with my husband, and my attraction also grew the more I got to know him...We've been married for 10yrs. now 😍

People today don't know what real love is and they don't value character. This is the reason there is so much dissatisfaction in life and marriages.

Attraction can grow but make sure you aren’t dismissing red flags as well. Some times the men that pursue you the most are the ones that don’t respect your boundaries. No should mean no.

Attraction when grow, but a "spark" is more than physical. If there is no spark, I don't think there is anything there to grow.

The fact is Growing attraction leads to long lasting marriage. Instant attraction leads to divorce

I agree with Siggy. Something has to exist in order for it to grow. Attraction is important. You are not going to get wet or hard for every amazing person you get to know. Even Steve is contradicting himself with the "have your hair and nails right" bit.

Rachael Lindsay is so pretty omg😍😍🙌🤗🤗

Wtf is Steve talking about? Saying that you’re the best he can get is not a compliment. It implies he wanted something more and had to settle for you. Which means that if circumstances change and he can now get better, he’ll leave you for the better. Why is the audience clapping? Lol smh. This is why women need to look out for what’s best for themselves.

Attraction can definitely grow. It's not every time, but it does happen sometimes.

6 months...you the best he can get. Am I supposed to feel flattered by that or...

Did you notice the ladies glancing at themselves to make sure everything was perfect, when Steve talked about being put together. 😂

I really like how Kim explains what love really means to those who seek for a long-term relationship. Personality absolutely matters. Steve is able to explain it everything.

I believe attraction growns.Steve is 💯 percent true. 😂😂😂

Steve thank you for schooling your panel and women in general. You are right on with your response. A good man is going to work his behind off for the women who has captured his heart and who is by his side no matter what.

I literally ignore them and listen to Steve

Rachel has a cute hubby indeed!!!

Wow Steve... your commentary at the end speaks to your realness and is eye opening. Actually softened my heart with an openness to gratitude that when a good man chooses me I’m truly blessed because he chose me, he didn’t settle. Celebrities are always a fantasy for men and women❣️🥳🤗 Marjorie is a blessed woman!

The 2nd speaker

I feel like instant attraction is dangerous, I tend to build attraction to someone after getting to know them. I wasn't attracted to my partner at first but he was such a gentleman so I gave him a chance and a few months later I found him irresistible.

You should have both. You should have an instant attraction, and for it to last you've gotta have all those other things too. Don't settle. Know what you want and go after it.

I love the panels 😍

" i don't know who told ya'll that " 😂😂😂 love this man.

I can say from experience that I was working with my now fiancé for one week and never looked at him as anything other than a friend. I assumed he was 25 years old and that’s a deal breaker for me. Our boss set us up on a date and after 6 hours of talking laughing singing and dancing, I knew he was the one. Two and a half years later, he still is. We’ve had so many struggles but we’re gonna make it.

"Chemistry"...the fool's gold of relationship.

Steve must be the most honest man to step foot on this planet when it comes to opinions.

Attraction grows for women as we want the whole package which we don’t see based on one date. Its not the same for men. If a guy is not attracted to you he will never be attracted.

The women clapping at the end are dilusional😂. They thought Steve was giving them a complement when in fact he was giving it straight about how male psychology works 😂😂

I have to be attracted. I'm not seeing personality I see looks so if i don't see myself affectionate with the guy that it's a no. I love personality but I need both I'm not settling. "Attraction grows" it's like settling for whatever comes along because you think you're not able to get a good looking man of your preference who will actually treat you right. They're out there, be patient and wait.

"ATTRACTION GROWS" Best line in the Video. This should be taught in School.

Rachel is getting more woowish n gorgeous by the day.

Attraction can grow with a great personality, just like instant attraction with someone gorgeous can be ruined by a poor personality.

I can relate to the blonde lady. I went on a date with a guy once, he was nice and all, but I just wasn't attracted. Mostly was because he looked so nervous on the date (I have to say, I was young haha). I didn't really want to see him again, but he insisted, so I eventually said yes. The second date was completely different. The nerves were gone and I could actually see who he really was. The more he talked, the more attracted I was to him. He was the same normal looking guy (pretty men aren't my thing), but he was confident, he had himself together and he walked, holding my hand, like he was carrying a treasure. Oh, I was really attracted to him after.

He said something similar like this a long time ago. He said, "give lil Ugly a chance". Ask him if he has a Job, if he works-out, how good is he with kids, what are his plans for the future?. Steve said it don't matter how he looks, just How good he treats you. Because ladies, you can be dating the most gorgeous man on the planet, but he knows and you know that there are other women lining up to take your spot and he knows that he has plenty of other women to take your spot instantly. Meanwhile, lil ugly be lucky if he even had another contender besides you.

Nah lol, we date the one we want! No makeup own hair and nails. Cofidence is key even if it's quiet. Love yourself and we will love you too!!!😎

“I gotta go home now” lol I felt that!

Love these videos

That's probably the best topic ever. One I have been waiting to hear.

Thank you for adding captions for your deaf and hard of hearing viewers!

can’t get a “Jennifer Lopez” but will settle for a “us” 👈🏽👈🏽👈🏽best he can get? 😔

Me and my boyfriend felt instant attraction to each other when we met. I could be in a room fillled with 100 men but my eyes are only on him.

Steve I love your shoe everytime I watch your show I feel so excited so lovely please keep it up

Owww Steve your feedbacks and opinions is really practical..👌🏼

Of course you can be instantly attracted to the physical appearance of the person. I also think attraction can grow..especially as I learn more about the person and if they have the qualities I'm looking for. Never just go for a pretty face.

Chemistry is really important. The key factor I think is to pay attention to the first 30 seconds of talking to that person. Not looking at them, but actually engaging in a conversation and that will let you know what to expect in the future. This has also worked for me friendship wise. I’ve had awkward, yet warming and kind first 30 second interactions and best believe I still get it from that person to this day. If you’ve been talking to a person online, it doesn’t count and you’d still need to meet that person in real life to know. One guy I remember our first conversation in high school and we were just lab partners. But our conversation just felt right even if it was similar to ones I had before. And yes, that feeling continued forever despite me having doubts throughout time and not attracted by him physically, I still loved talking to him. To this day the best banter I’ve ever had because we just understood each other. Then eventually my physical attraction to him grew. Chemistry can affect your physical attraction to a person over time but if there’s no chemistry from the beginning, you’re just forcing yourself to like the person and go on more dates with them. 30 seconds to tell if you have chemistry, 3 months to really know a person, and 6 months to tell the type of relationship you guys have and if it can last.

Yeah Rachel did get a pretty man lord anyone can spot these two and their attraction. Love the bachelor and bachelorette. They get you hooked I missed a couple seasons since the bachelor fall season but I can hand it to Rachel considering the time she had she did great picking Bryan and someone who hits her on every level. Attraction exists for a reason cause you can't just be attracted to a handsome man or beautiful woman. She or He has to have so much more to offer qualities that can spark your mind your brain, your heart, your conversations, and what they are about. The physical part can fade if you don't build intimacy.

I'm amazed by the bitter and nasty people that only clicked on this video to hate. I hope you receive double the positive or negative energy you put out.

As long as you're not instantly repulsed, then you can continue to get to know that person, because the more you get to their personality, they will either become more attractive or less. So I agree with Rachel on this question.

This is so annoying. Men are constantly sending the msg to women to entertain men you're not physically attracted to, when they know good and well, they don't even know you're alive, never mind give you their time and attention, if they don't find you attractive. Man plzz!

Honestly, I was not initially attracted to my ex, when we first started dating. We were set up by a mutual friend. I had nothing to do that day so I thought why not, maybe I could make another friend out of it. So the day of the date came. I wasn't really expecting much to come of it. But let me tell you by the end of the date, I could not stop thinking about her. We had almost perfect chemistry. The original plan was just to have a meal, and go. But i ended up extending the date by inviting her to go bowling. If it wasn't for the friend, that relationship most likely would not have happened. As I would have never approached her. I was attracted to her personalty

4:26-4:38 spoke volumesss🙌🏽🙌🏽🗣🗣🗣🗣

Steve is right. I know the guys that I attract wants this. (A chance) And the one who says I grew on them was not interested but attracted to me. Both weren't presently a good option to embark on. And so I wait and work and pray for the next I love KIM!

period.... xD i love how he said that

If I am not instantly attracted to her I would never consider her as a potential girlfriend I want a relationship with. But that doesn’t mean we can’t have a good time together. When I’m not looking for a relationship I just date girls I’m not instantly physically attracted to. Doesn’t mean they are ugly. No, they are just not my type and therefore I won’t feel THAT spark ⚡️ . I do have to feel something though to get things going. I went on two dates with a very pretty Swedish girl. And I felt absolutely nothing. I realized being pretty/ handsome and being attractive are two completely different things.

Attraction does grow! I’ve had someone chase me for 30 years and one day recently it just clicked! He literally grew on me.

This is very true. Men date the best one they can get and when they realise they can do better they want to upgrade. So women, you babes better up your game all the time.

Steve says “do something with your nails” and all the ladies looked down at their nails 😂

I love my husband and he's fine to me. But when we 1st met, I didn't see him like that. (idk y). Our friendship grew. As our feelings change so did the way I viewed him. And he is fine, 6 pack muscular, chocolate and funny. 😜

You've got to give me something to work with for anything to grow lol

Attraction varies

When I first met my ex bf he was so into me and I felt bad bc I wasn’t that into him and I would kinda just be cold to him and I really regret it bc then I realized what I lost :( but if I didn’t feel happy then why should I feel sad now ? Like it just goes to show that none of us have the answers and that life is messy

Attraction can grow based on the content of their character. It’s a added plus if he looks as good as his character reflects. Which is unique to find.

Absolutely True

Steve’s really smart. It is true; a girl a guy holds down long term is the best girl he can get

I haven’t even watched it yet... my longest relationship was with a guy I wasn’t even attracted to @ first. It took us talking all the time & just getting to know one another. He was my best friend & first love. No matter what I’ll always have love for him. Hope he is happy doing w.e he is doing.

The last point 👏👏👏

Attraction grows. Factssss. When you see a mans work ethic, loyalty, morals, character. It completely changes perception for the better or worse of that person.

Yes! Kim Gravel hit the nail on the head! It was the same for me...even though he's a handsome man there was no instant attraction, but the other traits she mentioned were the same exact ones that I grew to love about him. We've been married almost 16 years now. ❤️

Haha steve what you said at the end made me laugh because I had a crazy thought. So the rule is: the man gets the best women he can get. What I thought was, maybe these men think I’m out of there league, and that’s why I’m single. Lol 😂 that’s the most narcissistic thought I’ve ever had, because I can’t think of any reason why I’m still single

"He's dating the best one he can get"... What if he finds a prettier woman that can do everything she can do... That ain't love.. he should be the last one to speak on these topics

I've had that instant spark and I've had that attraction grow. It depends on the person for me. As long as you catch my eye in some way, I'm heading your way ;)

That in the middle said on national tv that her husband chased after her like a dog. What a nice words to describe a man who loves you.

Attraction can grow!

Attraction grows!

I believe that a woman has to feel that there is a chance she would have sex with a man in order to develop attraction if it isn’t there from the start. It may not be obvious straight away but over a short period of time she needs to feel she could eventually see herself sleeping with him. If she knows FOR SURE straight away that that’s not likely to ever happen, I believe it would be a lot harder to develop attraction.

Kim was on it on this one. Steve should have her on more often

Everything grows!! Attraction grows!

I think what Steve means is if you're still dating after 6 months then you both have enough in common to continue dating and as far as attraction you're both obviously mutually attracted to each other enough at that point

Like any situation it’s different for everybody

Attraction can definitely grow! I can lose attraction for someone easily.

Periodt Steve!

I believe attraction grows. Yeah you might be fine. But what is your personality like? That’s the question

“Men have to respect us for who we are” and then Steve says nah you should be well put together lol Women next week: does their hair, nails, dress up, heels, looking their hottest to pick up a guy. Man, thats like a base model slow Volkswagen with a rosso corsa Ferrari red wrap on it. The moment you get the car, you realize it actually its as nice, its just a wrap, and under its still the same old VW. Women, just like men, should all take care of themselves. If you are obese, lose the weight. If you lack money, learn to make more money. If you lacking style, get style. If you have an ego, be more open and humble. As Dr. Joe Dispenza says in his book; if you want to change your life, your personal reality, you need to change your personality. Change everything about yourself. Don’t worry if your friends join you or not. You’ll make new friends. Focus on yourself. Seek higher standards. Live your only one life you have to the fullest. Be the best you can be.

Steve said “PeriodT” 💀

We are all made to love certain types. The chances of liking the people you meet, in the love circle are high, because you share their pulse.

It happened to me🤣🤣it was so odd

I'm the exception too. My beau is the total package

😂😂😂 her man does look good

Nice video

Attraction can definitely grow, sometimes for me, I become attracted to someone after I develop an emotional attachment to them.

I did press it Steve 😊

Steve is 1000% accurate.

Steve is right as always. We have so many messed up women in Hollywood! Embarrasing!

Attraction can grow. If the person has a very loving character & a great human being if you give it time you will usually develope feelings. Looks is like an accessory. It does not last. The person of who he is does. As long as you are willing to look at the importance of what you really are looking for in a partner & what will make you happy. The person who carries that torch will be the smart choice.

A man Does have to "accept me as I am". Or he can go be with the "put together woman" he desires. I ain't never been made up from head to toe, and I ain't ever had a problem with men either.

Nice