Stray Kids' Changbin & Han | Communication Skills Analysis

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Max Beaumont

Max Beaumont

Күн бұрын

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Kids, Stray. [2 Kids Room] Ep.20 Changbin X HAN. Stray Kids. KZfaq, June 6, 2022, • [2 Kids Room] Ep.20 Ch... .
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@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
What next? My uncut reaction & analysis here (50 minutes): www.patreon.com/maxbeaumont
@hanniejaf
@hanniejaf Жыл бұрын
it would be a bit of a longer project, but if you’re interested in all of them interacting with each other and a lighter, more humorous side, you could check out “SKZ CODE”! they have also done a few english interviews again, i’d love to see your reaction to the “besties on besties” one!
@aya-wd5is
@aya-wd5is Жыл бұрын
maybe you would like to analyze I.N’s kids room! I’ve noticed that you already reacted to every member except I.N so i would love to see it
@98fran
@98fran Жыл бұрын
Seungmin x Lee Know 2 Kids Room?
@mayamohan1632
@mayamohan1632 Жыл бұрын
@@98fran ^^^ I wanted to request this too! I'm curious of your take on Seungmin and Lee Know ! In my opinion, their relationship's a little hard to comprehend easily
@lauraamns706
@lauraamns706 Жыл бұрын
Please react to Skz room of Chan and Felix! They have a special relationship and I really love them both
@LAYUOR
@LAYUOR Жыл бұрын
Fun fact: when changbin does fancalls (they do video calls with fans 1:1) he always looks away from the fan when he responds/speak to them. i love him!
@Pauline.Lloret
@Pauline.Lloret Жыл бұрын
I hadn’t thought about it but it’s true! Good point :)
@yangdelion
@yangdelion Жыл бұрын
oh I haven't noticed that but it's actually true!
@LudmilaRamirez7
@LudmilaRamirez7 Жыл бұрын
Why? Like he is shy?
@mitzy8182
@mitzy8182 Жыл бұрын
@@LudmilaRamirez7 I haven't watched the video so maybe they're referencing something I haven't seen but people usually look away when they're recalling an anecdote or collecting their words. Changbin does this a lot imo, he's well spoken. I think they meant that it's sweet that he takes STAY seriously, he comes across as a sincere guy
@kyqueenn
@kyqueenn Жыл бұрын
Changbin is the ideal man. He set the standard so high.
@skzstay2467
@skzstay2467 Жыл бұрын
CHANGBIN cares the most about Han in the group and actually he's more than a real sibling for HAN
@abby-xf1ef
@abby-xf1ef Жыл бұрын
from the start i've always thought of changbin as the ultimate big brother of stray kid. the brotherly dynamic of han and changbin hits especially differently remembering changbin's interview once where he said he's always worried about han's happiness (knowing han's struggles with his mental health) and makes sure all good comes his way like iM NOT CRYING YOU ARE
@ameliayarwood1032
@ameliayarwood1032 Жыл бұрын
Your comments about Changbin's eye contact struck a cord with me. I think your observation about eye contact potentially distracting him is accurate, mostly because I find this true for myself. If I am thinking about what another person is telling me regarding life, experiences or personality then I tend to look away while I cycle through my thoughts and formulate my responses.
@skzoteight0325
@skzoteight0325 Жыл бұрын
yeah, same! it personally helps me to look away when processing someone's words. coz having to keep my eyes on someone like how ideal communication tends to require, i'll be in extremes of getting lost in their eyes or feel uncomfortably vulnerable 😂 the contact snaps the communication chain instead.
@ameliayarwood1032
@ameliayarwood1032 Жыл бұрын
@@skzoteight0325 Can't say I would feel uncomfortable but it eye contact does snap the communication chain as you put it. Body movements and facial changes are distracting!
@mistelzweig7284
@mistelzweig7284 Жыл бұрын
Same! I always look somewhere else too, most times the table, bc otherwise I wouldn't be able to really mentally digest what the other person is saying. If I look them directly in the eyes and can see the face structure moving while they talk it distracts me a lot. 😅 And yeah concentration poof and "what did you say"? xD
@berbearis
@berbearis Жыл бұрын
honestly same. making eye contact both makes me lose focus and feel uncomfortable at the same time. i can be the most observant person in the room but i still won't look at you in the eyes. so i actually relate with you and changbin a lot.
@anneraether2259
@anneraether2259 Жыл бұрын
i agree as well! i'm on the autism spectrum - i'm not saying changbin is, but anyway this is my experience: the main thing about avoding eye contact in autistic people isn't actually social akwardness, but sensory information processing! or rather, trying to avoid processing overload. as max also said, a lot of information is gained by watching a person gesticulate and emote while they speak, BUT if your brain doesn't filter sensory input that well, it's just overloaded by too much happening. So only listening will give LESS sensory information for the brain to handle and make it much easier to process the most vital information (words + tone) :)
@hannahgrzzz
@hannahgrzzz Жыл бұрын
Changbin has always been a little cold to Han because he wants to push him to be more mature and an even better artist. Han is already shown so much love so Changbin can be the one to push him harder. He once said that he actually worries about Han the most especially with his anxiety. Changbin is the ultimate older brother of SKZ and really takes responsibility within 3racha to support the whole group!
@MiracMartinezGonzalez
@MiracMartinezGonzalez Жыл бұрын
I give them double credit as they are two very talented rappers within the same group and they probably spent the first years of their trainee life trying to be the better one. There must have been some kind of unhealthy dynamic within them but look at them now!
@pheonixangel_
@pheonixangel_ 11 ай бұрын
(I know it’s an old video but) Yeah they did have a lot of arguments, and most stemmed from petty things to big fights. It took all that fighting and discourse for them to be so comfortable and communicative now :))
@pinkanblacc
@pinkanblacc Жыл бұрын
i love how you see changbin as i'm seeing him, the more i see him the more i see his quality. he's not just good at singing/rapping/producing but as a human he's just so great too in general. he oftens jokes here and then at shows as the funny one, but as you said, when they're alone like this we can see how he actually is. he's my bias for a reason.
@rosalia7482
@rosalia7482 Жыл бұрын
Han is always looking for changbin’s validation and really looks up to him. Before changbin came to JYP as a trainee, Han thought himself above the other trainees (in his own words). He said that Changbin really helped in humbling him and they both now work together and although Changbin is a bit hard on Han(he’s not as affectionate with him compared to the other members), he really loves him. Such an iconic rap duo!
@melonapel49
@melonapel49 Жыл бұрын
The way you described HAN personality, the way i more in love with him. Han is my number 1 ultimate bias from all of my biases on each every kpop male&female group. I see myself in his personality so much.
@AmalaFrequents
@AmalaFrequents Жыл бұрын
I suspect Changbin and eye contact is because he feels quite deeply. So when he's listening or thinking he doesn't make eye contact much at all because he is focussing and I think he can be wary of showing too much emotion inadvertantly. For example, in some older clips like on the survival show etc. you can see that Changbin really isn't the best at schooling his expression sometimes, if he's mad about something you see it. And the younger ones talked of how he could be kind of scary because of that I think. But also, Changbin was the first to cry when he got a letter from Chan when they debuted and his instinct was to hide it. He likes to be the protector but he's actually very easily touched by emotional or adorable moments. He feels so strongly I think he might be a little wary of letting that show too much. With a lot of the guys he controls it with a more playful or flirty persona. But he'll often go still if something deep is said like he's wary if showing a reaction before he's in control of the emotion he felt for it. It's one of the reasons I love him around Felix. At the very beginning Changbin was a little more 'bro' like, but Felix is so unfiltered in his expression and affection you now often see Changbin being surprised and delighted by something, or suddenly touched. And he sometimes says (playfully) that Felix is in unrequited love with him- but I think it's because the affection is so overwhelming Changbin can't always control the situation so sometimes he plays like he's being hard to get when secretly he's loving that open expression. Han is someone Changbin deeply respects and during trainee days these two were sort of twin stars so their relationship is so interesting because Han is the only younger one Changbin doesn't approach with the flirtier control the conversation style.
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
Well said. I agree. Although there could be a few different reasons, that’s sort of been my leading theory with him and eye contact. Appreciate the insight!
@nellybaechimi1874
@nellybaechimi1874 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your reactions video about Hannie, because Hannie is everythink for me
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
No problem 😊
@sem8aa
@sem8aa Жыл бұрын
My fav duo, they give me siblings vibes Han was always nagging about changbin's hugs🤣(that changbin doesn't hug him like the other members), and changbin has said before that he is cold in front of han but thinks the most about him Love their relationship
@abby-xf1ef
@abby-xf1ef Жыл бұрын
i really hope you do a chan x felix analysis soon! their dynamic is on a whole other level from the others
@bittersweetmacaron8185
@bittersweetmacaron8185 Жыл бұрын
Yasss this one. I'm waiting for it too
@bruhh_angel
@bruhh_angel Жыл бұрын
I know for a fact that I'm not the only one who couldn't stop staring at the spoon thingy behind him
@alexnewsoul9152
@alexnewsoul9152 Жыл бұрын
I'm waiting on Lee Know and Changbin two kids room. Lee Know older so Changbin sometimes "shy"(or smthn) around him but, from what I can see as a fan, Lee Know cares for Changbin and I feel like Changbin doesn't always realises that because Lee Know is very subtle about it while Changbin shows his affection loudly) I remember Changbin saying that things awkward between them and Lee Know was like "no their not") now after a lot of time I'm interested whats up)
@dreamy_mary
@dreamy_mary Жыл бұрын
awww... I think you're completely right about Changbin and Han' relationship: there are so much of mutual respect, care, understanding... they don't need to say 'cringy' words to each other because they know what they are. I just adore these two
@gretavanotti9706
@gretavanotti9706 Жыл бұрын
they are my two biases in skz for so many reasons but the main ones are they I relate to Han so much coz we have similar personality ( both introverts but when we're with people we fell comfortable with we became very hyped and also I relate to his anxiety) and he seems the type of person who won't ever judge you like you said and Chanbin I honestly would love to have him ad my big brother. I always feel like I could lean on him and he is my comfort person in skz, he takes good care of people around him and he'd make me feel very safe
@jadefrog
@jadefrog Жыл бұрын
I really don't think that Changbin avoids eye contact for emotional protection, and although cultural differences play a part, I also don't think that is the main source of his lack of eye contact either. I really do think that there are some people (I am one) who are distracted by eye contact when conversing and find it much easier to get close and intimate by avoiding eye contact. You notice in these 2 Kids Room episodes that none of his fellow members are bothered by his lack of eye contact. They know him well enough to understand that it has nothing to do with lack of interest or connection. They don't need it from him. Your focus in these videos is identifying good communication skills, and so you point out which behaviors support classic good communication. But there are other aspects to good communication. One of those is learning to accept divergent communication styles, learning to read the sincerity or intention behind non-standard behaviors. One reason Han is so popular and why you like him as a communicator, is that he is extremely accepting of divergent styles. He totally gets how present and sincere Changbin is, he does not need him to make eye contact, because he feels that total presence. We saw with Lee Know, who is not especially verbal, and who makes all kinds of outrageous comments partly because he just doesn't take words that seriously, that Han is totally unfazed--he is connecting with Lee Know on a completely other level than the verbal. The points you make about communication are useful and good, but it is also useful to remember that if your conversation partner is not following those "rules", they might still be actively engaged. Lack of eye contact is not always a sign of disrespect or distance. It can also be the natural style of a neuro-divergent person. Another aspect of good communication is learning to accept when one's own communication style does not fit the standard. Changbin does this very well. He knows what works for him, he is not ashamed of it, he has learned that it is easier for him to be present and attentive when he does not make extreme efforts to make eye contact. You could see the difference in his communication with Felix, who is very big on eye contact. In that session, Changbin really tried to make eye contact, and he was uneasy and giggly the entire session. When he was being most sincere and speaking most deeply, he was not looking Felix in the eyes. When he did make an effort at eye contact, his manner changed to a sort of "flirty and cute" style. Changbin really cares about all the members, and he cares a lot about Felix, so he often tries to do things which would put Felix more at ease, such as speaking English, making more physical contact, or making eye contact. But that session is a good example of what it looks like when people who have a very strong natural tendency toward a non-standard communication style, try to force themselves to fit the norm. Changbin was restless, kept changing the subject, interrupted Felix a lot (notice how he almost never interrupts Han) and often seemed to lose track of what he was saying. It is also funny that you identify Changbin as being quiet and thoughtful. That is definitely how he behaves in these one on one talks. But in non-formal gatherings, such as backstage or behind the scenes footage, or in filmed group outings, he is often really loud, he blows his top easily, yells, shows off, acts silly.....He seems to crave attention and compliments and does all kinds of things to get them from other members. He and Han live in the same 4 member apartment now, and they have worked closely as part of the production unit 3Racha (along with Chan) for four or five years now--since before Stray Kids was even a group. They have lots of experience adapting to one another, making allowances, working through disagreements. Aside from being friends and "brothers", they are also colleagues working in a fairly equal relationship, with a lot of respect for each other's skills. That gives them a lot of familiarity and ease with one another, which really shows in this session. Changbin is very aware of body language, but my guess is that he soaks that knowledge in via other channels than the visual.That is how I do it, and I know many kinesthetic people who also are very aware of body language without using visual cues. I understand that there are certain behaviors that tend to foster good communication, and that eye contact is one of those behaviors. But I also believe that it is important to encourage understanding of diverse conversational styles. I cannot count the number of times when I have been accused of being afraid, shy, angry, rude, etc. at times when in fact I was being my most alert, attentive and present self, when I had been giving many verbal cues to show I was listening, nodding my head to indicate attention, reflecting back phrases, etc (all of which come naturally) but because these people had learned to judge others based on certain things like eye contact, they were not able to get past that superficial aspect to recognize what was really going on. Han can do that, he can tell if people are really present regardless of whether they present in a "normal" fashion, and that is one reason why he is so effective as a communicator.
@yvonneyang5145
@yvonneyang5145 Жыл бұрын
One possible cause about Changbin's lack of eye contact might be his eyes. His stares are fierce and intimidating, which may result misunderstood. In Chinese culture, we have a particular name for eyes like Changbins'(not a very good one though). Maybe in Korean culture too. If so, it's very likely that Changbin avoid eye contact from very young age, trying not to intimidate others or cause trouble. He is my bias and from their debut I notice how this feature contrast to his soft and thoughtful personalty.
@misotang
@misotang Жыл бұрын
this is such an insightful comment! i deeply relate to how eye contact distracts changbin from the conversation(i’m very guilty of avoiding eye contact when speaking with others lol), and both he and han are similar in that they can both be quiet and reflective yet the life of the party when in a group setting - i think both of them thrive off of the spotlight as performers and entertainers in these situations. you broke down han and changbin’s communication styles and dynamic incredibly well… thanks for sharing!
@Reldas
@Reldas Жыл бұрын
These two are my favorite too. Like genuine brothers.
@Kat-xc6cz
@Kat-xc6cz Жыл бұрын
I've also noticed that changbin is the master of compliments, the effort he makes for people is one I'll never know
@yanaxan3995
@yanaxan3995 Жыл бұрын
I watched their vlives since the first year, and even the survival show, Changbin really is good at speaking that is why the group relies on him when it's about talking. What he says always has deep meaning on it and is really sincere. That's how i got hooked to him while stanning SKZ. He also is a big brother to all the members including Chan on how he acts. They even said it on 2kids room. Chan relies on him so much. He cares for the younger ones so much that is why they love him and clings and cuddles with him freely❤️
@nia3934
@nia3934 Жыл бұрын
i honestly think changbin processes and thinks very deeply at every second of conversation, that’s why he doesn’t look in the eyes. it probably distracts him from his complex thought process to make eye contact
@haveialigned
@haveialigned Жыл бұрын
I think this too. I get the impression that he's looking away so he can follow and consider all of his thoughts while still being locked into the conversation.
@girlwithjutdae
@girlwithjutdae 7 ай бұрын
If the highest IQ and the highest EQ were a person, Han and Bin ❤️
@tessachandler2776
@tessachandler2776 Жыл бұрын
Hello, I was wondering if you were planning on reacting to one of the two kids rooms with I.N in it. I personally love his one kids room episode, but there is a newer two kids room with him and Han that I adore. Thanks for making me smile :)
@user-el7wj6pc5h
@user-el7wj6pc5h 5 ай бұрын
Fun fact: Changbin can't multitask. I think his (for lack of a better phrase) lack of eye contact is a way for him to focus fully on what he is being told or on delivering the message he wants to convey, accurately.
@hanniejaf
@hanniejaf Жыл бұрын
i was just about to go to sleep, but i then i saw you uploaded stray kids content and as a stay with huge interest in human relationships and psychology i could never just skip this! as always i love your insight and professional perspective as much as your personal one!^_^ thank you for taking interest in the kids, stays appreciate your content a lot
@SKZ_8kings
@SKZ_8kings Жыл бұрын
Loved the reaction. Actually, if Changbin obviously loves every member, he definitely has a very soft spot for Han. It's not as obvious because it doesn't really manifest itself physically or by direct words, but perhaps when he talks about Han. In a video he almost cries talking about how he wants to protect him and how much he just wishes for Han to be able to make music he loves all his life so he can be happy. He also once said that his greatest fear for Han was for him getting hurt. So Changbin is indeed the big brother of the group, but esp for Han. :)
@emilou3747
@emilou3747 Жыл бұрын
the eye contact thing with changbin is something i do often! i find eye contact distracting and i feel that i can absorb more info by not making eye contact and its something im working on so i can make others feel like im more receptive, but its cool to see that im not alone in doing that! thanks for unpacking that for us! your videos are always so insightful and useful i always love your content!! much love!
@sarahb5686
@sarahb5686 Жыл бұрын
Same here 🥲my mom gets pissed off with me for not holding eye contact, but for me to really pay atenttion, I need to look away and only take glances of the other peoples faces, hehehehe I get distracted if I looke someone in the face
@goddiline
@goddiline Жыл бұрын
About the eye contact habit... I personally think that when I was little, I found people judging me maybe too often and this disturbed me too many times when trying to speak my mind out accurately. It was really bothersome even tho when I reflect on it now, I was the type to stare right into the person's eyes from the beginning to the end of conversations (to the point when people tell me afterward if there's something bothering me for me to stare at them 😵 I was just giving them my attention tho idk). Then I myself realised that my eye contact could make other people feel uncomfortable. That's when I decided to not give attention with my eyes in order to give people more space to express themselves (like if someone is giving a presentation in class, I stare away purposedly). If I don't look at them and look like I'm processing the infos, they'll surely speak out their mind comfortably. I wonder if this is Changbin's case too, especially since he talked about the fact that he kinda have trouble processing how people view him. If he has trouble with his image, maybe he felt judged a lot in the past by people's gazes. I think this can be the reason for Changbin's not looking at people speaking
@elina3734
@elina3734 Жыл бұрын
I once again would like to recommend watching 2 kids room with Changbin and Hyunjin. They are very close and their dynamic is so interesting to watch. Would be glad to see your reaction to it
@faleyahh
@faleyahh Жыл бұрын
Hello, I’ve been watching your reactions on Stray Kids since the very start and I’m really looking forward to your reactions and opinions toward I.N. No pressure, but can you someday do a reaction to I.N’s two kids room too? Thank you so much for making these kind of videos, I’ll continue support you! ❤️
@ittybittybias
@ittybittybias Жыл бұрын
I never noticed the eye contact thing but now that you pointed it out, it’s really clear retroactively! I’ve never once felt or thought that he wasn’t listening to the others though, pretty much the opposite. Like he focuses very clearly on the words and processes what they could actually mean. Also saw something about gentle parenting that said not to force eye contact with children as a sign that they’re listening, because there’s a whole slew of reasons why kids (and grownups too, I’m sure) look away when processing, immediately thought of that when you were talking about potential reasons.
@kimbraswain9485
@kimbraswain9485 Жыл бұрын
Just a suggestion on Changbin's eye-contact... I find myself doing the same thing, but it has nothing to do with emotions or protecting myself. If I look at someone for too long or knowing that they are deeply tuned in, I will lose my train of thought for whatever important information that I'm trying to convey. Same for listening, and you mentioned that when he listens. I'm an auditory learner, so the tones of a voice and delivery tells me more than looking at their facial features ever will.
@lunalovegood6357
@lunalovegood6357 Жыл бұрын
I think changbin is just really shy with eye contacts, he's like that to everyone
@sadsoul888
@sadsoul888 11 ай бұрын
I watched all ur videos about changbin. It feels so good that u can speak my mind. What u said about him is the major reason why i love and respect changbin at the first place 👏👏👏👏
@agusaraya3697
@agusaraya3697 Жыл бұрын
I've been subscribed to your channel since you uploaded one of the first skz analysis videos and i can't begin to express how happy your content makes me. Not only i listen and take note of a lot of your remarks and try to apply them to my life, but i'm also surprised at the way you can break down the guys' personalities as if you had been keeping up with them for years. I've been a stray kids fan since 2018 and i still learn a lot from your takes. Han and Changbin are my favorites so i'm sitting here aggressively nodding my head at everything you say. I feel like people don't talk about Changbin's observation skills enough, so it's refreshing to hear someone put into words the reasons why i like him this much. Keep up the amazing work! (and sorry for the broken english)
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
That's so cool! Thanks so much for the comment. I'm really glad you're here. And yeah, me and you both have Han & Changbin as our favourites. I'm continually impressed with Changbin's communication skills. And your English reads perfectly.
@goquokka1252
@goquokka1252 Жыл бұрын
These two are my favourite too 😚
@LaYonku
@LaYonku Жыл бұрын
Yay! SKZ again. Thanks Max, love your skz content!
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@LaYonku
@LaYonku Жыл бұрын
@@maxpbeaumont Thanks to you!!!
@Maryam-un1cr
@Maryam-un1cr Жыл бұрын
its so satisfying how the spoons in the back fit together like a puzzle
@devianatikayuniari9964
@devianatikayuniari9964 Жыл бұрын
You should check out their dynamic in a performance! They are the best rapper pair I’ve seen so far. Their connection, how they flawlessly take turns will blow you away. And maybe it’s one of few moments where Changbin feels comfortable enough to make eye contact with Han, try this kzfaq.info/get/bejne/j86SZcpkudfNemw.html
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the recco!
@spitegames
@spitegames 8 ай бұрын
not making eye contact but you can see like the gears in his head constantly turning-- when hes talking about something his eyes are always moving too even if not looking directly at the other person
@AngSu
@AngSu Жыл бұрын
Changbin once said he's quite self aware of his eyes. bcuz ppl used to think his gazes are very strong so he always tried to tone down his stares and smile more instead. i guess his insecurity becomes a habit
@alexrose5466
@alexrose5466 Жыл бұрын
Fun fact! During one of the SKZ-Code episodes they were writing a song(Him, Lee Know and Felix) and he said himself his mind is going all the time. He's always thinking (which would explain his eyes darting as well.) But that's generally why, his mind is always going. Math Prodigy, violinist, dancer, rapper/singer. Understandably his mind doesn't shut off lol.
@ARGhostie
@ARGhostie Жыл бұрын
All the talk about the eye contact is so damn interesting!
@victorialrosa
@victorialrosa Жыл бұрын
just love seeing max head over heels for binsung, mostly because I feel the exact same way hahahah as usual, max, you have some really great thoughts and insights and I love watching your skz analysis videos. so, thank you!
@DorcusT
@DorcusT Жыл бұрын
I always love your changbin videos because you just don’t miss!! I’m glad you help others realize how deep he is! Always look forward to your content!
@hethal50
@hethal50 Жыл бұрын
ahh loved this analysis like always!! would u consider doing the lee know hyunjin 2kr? it’s one of my favorites :)
@RoseMary-gs6lt
@RoseMary-gs6lt Жыл бұрын
the members said a thing that Changbin can only do one thing at a time, like he explained maybe Changbin does it to focus on what the person is saying than making eye contact which makes him not focus in the conversation because he is trying to keep eye contact.
@misotang
@misotang Жыл бұрын
oh my god i am SO glad you reacted to this!!! these two probably have my favorite dynamic in the group, and i think i couldn’t have said it any better than you in this video. they’re just so effortlessly vulnerable with each other, and i love watching them bicker and tease each other because they have such different mannerisms. they have a deep connection, with changbin playing a huge part in han’s growth and the two of them making music and exploring different interests together, and they complement each other quite well, so i really loved being able to witness this conversation between them.
@ravenclawwitchdaughterofat4025
@ravenclawwitchdaughterofat4025 Жыл бұрын
I am sure you know this by now but. Han was the first member bang chan pick changbin was the second. Those three were a group called 3racha for a while. They are now the subunit who handle almost all the producing side of stray kids and also produce songs for other groups ( Japanese groups included) So those three probably spend these most time together because they also share a dorm. (Hyunjin li e with them as well)
@everyaveryday8259
@everyaveryday8259 Жыл бұрын
10:30 THATS SO TRUE 😭 Because Changbin is a horrible multitasker. This feels like such a eureka moment
@lei5155
@lei5155 Жыл бұрын
always love your skz reactions! thank you, Max!
@JCPearson
@JCPearson Жыл бұрын
Love this, they are my favorites too!
@prodbyhan
@prodbyhan Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for reacting to this 2 kids ep. They’re one of my favourite duos in Stray Kids.
@cb97s
@cb97s Жыл бұрын
i always love your analysis with stray kids dynamics 🤍
@pheonixangel_
@pheonixangel_ 11 ай бұрын
7:40 Changbin is known for not being able to multitask, he can’t hear anyone when he’s trying to draw something or finish a task, happens frequently. The eye contact could be him trying to focus his thoughts, but I do see it being him not getting too personal. He openly shares his feelings but doesn’t want to ‘feel’ them, if that makes sense 😂
@Lulu_villain
@Lulu_villain Жыл бұрын
Amazing analysis as always. I really enjoyed it. Thank you!!!
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for supporting the channel :)
@seolixi7314
@seolixi7314 Жыл бұрын
3:45 i think that was more like a "OHH i know exactly what you mean" kind of reaction
@laurel8547
@laurel8547 Жыл бұрын
I really really like your observations and, for the most part, they kind of articulate the things I've considered about them already. One thing I had only ever noticed on a subconscious level (ie never quite at the point of realization) that you pointed out was the eye contact, and as someone who's neurodivergent, I think I can explain this one if some similar logic might apply. For me, I *despise* eye contact from the depths of my heart. Like, when people look into my eyes, it gives me the same feeling as when somebody is asking you if you did something wrong, expecting it to be true, when you know you didn't do anything wrong but you're still in the hot seat. I can do it when I'm not thinking about it, so people don't often realize it, but if I think about intentionally making eye contact, it's super uncomfortable. Because of that, you're right. It's absolutely distracting and easier to pay attention if I'm not looking at the other person a lot. In that way and in the way of observations and compliments, this video has made me realize that I have a lot of similarities to Changbin, and I feel really humbled and honored by that since my appreciation and respect for Changbin only grows more for the exact reasons you've mentioned. As another side note, I think their constant creative partnership in 3racha as well as living with each other is a huge part of what adds to their bond with each other because there's so much intellectual, emotional, and habitual knowledge that you can learn about a person in those situations. I know Changbin seems really serious in this one, and he can be, but especially when you get him and Bang Chan together, there's also a much lighter side to him that just feels very refreshing to watch 😊 So thanks for what you do here!
@AL-stay
@AL-stay Жыл бұрын
Love your Communication Reviews - Of course, love Han and Changbin. My two favorite SKZ. Thank you!!!
@elenaperez4383
@elenaperez4383 Жыл бұрын
Loved this video!! I always enjoy hearing your analysis of Stray Kids cause you catch things that really highlight their relationships and their personalities! About the eye contact, I don't know if this applies to Changbin or not but your comment on how you wonder if it distracts him from taking in information to make eye contact made me think of how I feel about it. I struggle making eye contact with people because it does distract me from what they are saying, I often find myself focusing on the fact that I am making eye contact and start freaking out about it and it becomes all I am thinking about so I end up not actually hearing what the other person is saying. My attention gets taken away from their words by my panicking about making eye contact, almost like my thoughts are louder then the other person. There is one person I don't feel this panic with, with some closer friends I can do it for a short period of time but in general I cannot make eye contact with people and be present in a conversation. After watching a lot of Stray Kids content and hearing your analysis of Changbin throughout the 2kids room I have often wondered if he feels this way too or if not making eye contact allows him to focus on their words, or like you said if it feels too vulnerable for him to do with the guys.
@user-gk2lw9ne3z
@user-gk2lw9ne3z Жыл бұрын
9:24 that's why i love changbin
@annnie6133
@annnie6133 Жыл бұрын
Loved your reaction and analysis!
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
Thank you!! 😁
@arsa1143
@arsa1143 Жыл бұрын
omg i've been waiting for a new skz video letz gooo
@chloeengel5616
@chloeengel5616 Жыл бұрын
You're videos are so informative and engaging. It's really entertaining to watch.
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
Thanks Chloe - so glad you enjoy them!
@dandelion8798
@dandelion8798 Жыл бұрын
I really learn a lot how to be human from skz, and watching your review to them, makes it easier for me to learn.. thank you ✨
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@sunshinehannie
@sunshinehannie Жыл бұрын
I know you probably cut the part where they talked about Han crying in front of Changbin. That part is actually so sweet for me but the rest of it also has a special part 🥺
@nevaehgallegos3755
@nevaehgallegos3755 Жыл бұрын
I’m just like Changbin with the eye contact thing it does help me concentrate but also eye contact often makes me feel uncomfortable, especially when I’m expressing my emotions
@mnbn
@mnbn Жыл бұрын
i genuinely just think changbin is uncomfortable with eye contact in general, not just due to the vulnerability but probably exaggerated in those moments
@mixtape_5.mp327
@mixtape_5.mp327 Жыл бұрын
Always love your analysis and attention to details, but other than that I like that you also get something from the people you react to, you get inspired by them, you learn something, and then "teach" us about it afterwards. You're amazing Max
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate that!
@JAMoore-zz3ki
@JAMoore-zz3ki 11 ай бұрын
FYI - for a very funny video showing some of the relationship between Changbin and Han, check this one out. Video title: han and changbin bickering for 8 minutes straight
@may5936
@may5936 Жыл бұрын
I love your reactions to stray kids always, i want to see more of them🥺🤍 Can you please react to I.N and han or chan and hyunjin episodes?
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support!
@s.heilman5308
@s.heilman5308 2 ай бұрын
I'm with you. I do have favorites, and Han and Binnie are it!
@hugs272
@hugs272 Жыл бұрын
Thank you max! X
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
Thank you too! :)
@user-ik1qj8ni4o
@user-ik1qj8ni4o Жыл бұрын
LOL I love how you said Changbin is coming around to understandin and then the “all excuses” part came and you were nopeee nevermind 😆😆 these 2 have great personalities “Changbin is like a grandfather” 🥲
@hanhngomy6175
@hanhngomy6175 Жыл бұрын
Please react to Hyunjin and Seungmin 2 Kids Room. It’s a really wholesome one
@cfuyuz
@cfuyuz Жыл бұрын
i’ve been following stray kids for quite a long while now and i too like changbin a looot. talking about the “OH” changbin blurted out when han started talking about him quitting his workouts to focus on music wasn’t a kind of “he just dissed me” reaction. i’m not fluent in korean myself, but after watching korean content as much i think the “OH” means something more similar to “wow wait i never thought about that” or like a realization moment (even if the situation is different for himself) kind of feeling if it was articulated trough a sentence. especially when changbin does, since he uses the “OH” expression quite often!
@OkieDoak19
@OkieDoak19 Ай бұрын
Your noticing of Changbin's aversion to eye contact really struck me--because I do the same thing. I can do better at making eye contact when listening, but when I am talking, I am looking everywhere but at the person I am talking to, lol. And especially if it is a serious conversation or deep or complimentary; I am really uncomfortable making eye contact then. It sort of feels like too much pressure and that I will forget to say something I really want to say. I feel like that is Changbin's habit too--especially knowing that he is horrible at multi-tasking 😆 Though he tends to sort of cutely or jokingly "brag" about himself, it is usually quick and sort of a throwaway comment, he gets very shy about compliments. I am the same way, I cannot look someone in the eye when they are genuinely complimenting me. I tend to joke or brush it off to quickly move on to something more comfortable to talk about.
@mindyrussodavis6760
@mindyrussodavis6760 Жыл бұрын
A thought about Binnie's lack of eye contact... he **cannot** multi-task. Not even a little. So I think some of that miiight be reducing input so that he is focusing on listening to what he's being told when in serious conversation. 🤔
@sissi7909
@sissi7909 Жыл бұрын
A lots of communication teacher says that having eye contact with people you are talking with is very important. But when I whach those conversation with you insight and observations well it seems that we can also not look in to person eyes to have a good conversation...
@charlizepate
@charlizepate Жыл бұрын
I do know someone who can't look people in the face when they're trying to communicate because it's too much information or distracting or something along those lines. They often try to reassure me they're paying attention verbally if they ever do that because sometimes people think they're being rude or just zoning out and they're really not. I don't know what it's like for Changbin, but that's something really interesting to consider. Thanks for this video, Max!
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
Great point, thanks for sharing your thoughts with me Charlize!
@wonhunny179
@wonhunny179 Жыл бұрын
I think it's cringey for them cuz they really do act like brothers 😭 like how real siblings....they don't really go around saying "I love you" or acting all cute and older siblings usually tend to be more strict on you. I guess that's how Changbin is with Han and chanbin once said that Han is a member that makes him worried a lot. Not because he's in a bad situation or whatever but it just feel natural to feel worried about Han. He treats Han like a real brother. While for Han... from what I observed, just like Changbin said he's not that desperate for love from any members in particular. There's of course,members he's extremely close with but yknow it just feels like he can survive even if he's alone? He doesn't necessarily needs to be loved 24/7 lol. I guess that's part of him being an introvert. (I relate with him because when I'm with my friends I want to be the center of attention but actually I prefer to be in my room alone. There's that up and high moment)
@user-ik1qj8ni4o
@user-ik1qj8ni4o Жыл бұрын
Yes Changbin is SO aware! ☺️
@jinwang4927
@jinwang4927 Жыл бұрын
my BinSung finally 😭😭😭♥️
@fabluvsu
@fabluvsu Жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOUR REACTIONS AND ANALYSIS TO SKZ VIDEOS 😭🤍
@sanjanahossain9601
@sanjanahossain9601 Жыл бұрын
I also avoid eye contacts like Changbin. Our reasons might not be same. But I do that because it’s too much for me to focus on the conversations going on and meantime making eye contact. I start stuttering if I try to do both at once. But when I am hyped, I make eye contact, talk loudly while jumping. It happens only with similar aged people whom I care about. But still it’s quite rare for me. So most time I behave like changbin (except I am not good at remembering things)
@sprklychngbn9641
@sprklychngbn9641 Жыл бұрын
the spoons??
@mira-lunaandresen3047
@mira-lunaandresen3047 11 ай бұрын
I think the reason Changbin doesn't look people in their eyes that often, is for the reason I don't either. I feel very naked during eyecontact (and not in a good way) and I feel it uncomfortable to look people in the eyes for too long. also I think better when I can move my eyes freely and zone out a bit :)
@behindzerosp
@behindzerosp Жыл бұрын
If you like you can read my long comment ,I write so long comments under your videos. Changbin doesn`t like to focus the conversation on himself so I think this is why he can`t keep eye contact for long time but he finds it easier with some people like Han because believe it or not he looked at himquite a bit. I think he tries to be composed since he is quite emotional but doesn`t show it as much so to do that he has to avoid eye contact a bit more,maybe he starts to feel too open if he doesn`t? Same with huging people he had that period as Han said after which he started huging both Han and Felix,I think because as he said before he realised he has to show what he feels more even tho he himsef crave attention but plays it off as if he doesn`t [like he reacted to Felix asking him if he is reeally hurt by him not texting as much] His observations work on himself too he is selfaware and knows what he isn`t that good at like he said here. And I agree he is interested in what other people think about him,maybe even too much in some cases for some things where he is self consious. He had live recently on Vlive and said how he is happy that STAY like 2kids room since he really like it too because of the opportunity for one on one conversation especially with the people from the second dorm [Chan,Han,Hyunjin and Changbin are in one dorm so he talks more often with them,Mee Know,Felix,I.N and Seugmin are in the other. Both dorms are in the same building but they still can`t catch up oneon one often because of the schedules,I reccomend you to see the live,it`s very fun one but also shows who he is again and how observent he is]. The loud -Oh is more like his comedic side +genuine reaction, he can be quite loud. Love how he waited Han to finish the working out excuse to make half joke holf serious statement that Han use excuses. I think Changbin really think that but also understands not all people are like him in the same Vlive he talked about each of memebers interests was praising them including Han love for anime and just being in his room. About Chamhbimm helping Han I think he helped in grounding him,showing him that what he does isn`t that good without hurting him or making himfeel small
@cheerfulrayofsunshine213
@cheerfulrayofsunshine213 Жыл бұрын
hello! id like to recommend hyunjin x i.n's 2kr or i.n x felix :) his 2kr with hyunjin was more vulnerable but i think i.n was most comfortable in his 2kr with felix! please consider :) thank you!
@playfulchild5493
@playfulchild5493 Жыл бұрын
Agreed! The Hyunjin x IN episode was my favourite!
@smad8254
@smad8254 Жыл бұрын
personally for me I don't look someone I'm really so close with in the eyes especially when in a similar intimate setting because I always get overwhelmed when talking to/about them, like I always feel like crying when I do. so I avert my eyes, this is especially between me and my sisters. maybe it's the same with Binnie
@Akkarri
@Akkarri Жыл бұрын
I hope you do Seungmin x Lee Know. Because that is the one relationship NO ONE can understand lol 😂
@alyantys
@alyantys Жыл бұрын
I tend to avoid eye contact when talking to people too and a big part of it is because of what you said about Changbin, that it distracts me from fully paying attention to what the other person is saying (or what I'm trying to say) during a conversation. I'm trying to work on it because I've heard it's rude but it's hard TT
@ley2861
@ley2861 Жыл бұрын
I've been hoping u do one on I.N since FOREVER 🥺 i hope u do it soon . Great video as always btw !
@maxpbeaumont
@maxpbeaumont Жыл бұрын
Coming soon!:)
@ley2861
@ley2861 Жыл бұрын
@@maxpbeaumont thx for the reply very appreciated i'm super excited now have a nice day:))
@knivspit
@knivspit Жыл бұрын
i’m like changbin as well. if i’m really focusing on what you’re saying, especially if it’s serious, i tend to not look them in the face so i can take in the information. i might get distracted if i look at them 😂
@tamaranisevic3268
@tamaranisevic3268 Жыл бұрын
this is just from my instance but when i talk but not look at the person its so i can concentrate on what im saying so i was thinking it could be a case for changbin as well myb.
@elenapicco1412
@elenapicco1412 Жыл бұрын
i usually do the same, when speaking/listening to someone i rarely make eye contact probably because it intimidates me, but mostly because i get easily distracted so when i see celebrities communicate the same way i do i feel comfortable and understood lol, another example is tyler from twenty one pilots, he’s also hyper emotionally aware of everything so you can say i have a type
@Gojoarea
@Gojoarea Жыл бұрын
Han with bangchan ce connaissent depuis le début , une analyse entre les deux serait très intéressantes !
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