Exactly

이미 문제 해결 했다. 걱정마라

Frr

Knetz can't manage kids only know how to bash around kpop idols

EXACTLY

REALS

@@Blueocean42crazy some of them are adults and have the time to sit around to talk abt how much weight an idol gains💀💀

Maybe you are over reacting. As long as they all know that they love each other and also people loose their temper sometimes, it's okay. The is no - 'never do this'.

@@desibigfoot3874he’s FOUR and he literally verbalizes that he thinks his mother hates him. They physically hit him. Where is the love? Are you kidding me??

what is the show?

@@iminlovewithu3”My golden kid” that what is they called.

Or overworked parents who shouldn't have had so many kids, and if they were going to have more kids. They should have waited until J was older

니가 끔찍한 부모를 못봐서 그렇지...

Exactly. The time and energy they've wasted yelling and hitting the kid but cant help put together a puzzle for a 3 year old

Exactly

I know this might sound odd to you but it's pretty common asian household

@@nanasekunurugi yup. it's not right, but it's what they learned from their parents (not only Asians though). People often think that what kids need is punishment, or "discipline" when they are acting out. They think they are showing "tough love", and that they're actually helping their kids grow strong and independent. For better or for worse though, kids don't think like adults. What a parent might understand to be an expression of love or concern can be perceived as hatred or disdain. Which can obviously be immensely traumatizing for a child. It's sad

Back then with myself plus I have seen others I m Asian tho, the amount of beating I got was immense, such thing if occured in today's time it would have been considered crime lol, tho it does put me in trauma but discipline is imp too, it's a thing once married there's press to bring kids in the world, it should be stopped, one should conceive when ready, parenting should be learnt

@@nanasekunurugiIts common in black households too, to get “whoopings” to get their children in check and it’s extremely encouraged . I didn’t know it also happened in asian households too😮

It teaches the child they are not invincible and has consequences for their actions. Obviously it should be controlled and not an actual beating. There are children in free range households who hit and curse at their mom with no consequences. These children w/ no consequences also take their behavior outside with them cursing at teachers etc.

A child needs siblings, if not now, then when he is older. You will not be around always. By the way, don't try to do too much parenting. Just enjoy it and let them enjoy. It's not a competition - who has the most successful child. Just protect them physically and guide them sometimes. Rest they know.

​@@desibigfoot3874 "a child need siblings" like do you even hear yourself 😭

​@@desibigfoot3874 not every child need a siblings I'm talking with 2 siblings

There is no borderline about it. This is emotional and physical abuse and neglect. This poor child doesn’t stand a chance of thriving in the environment without intervention. And the baby isn’t exempt from this form of abusive parenting either. This is an extremely toxic household.

shut up

I’m Asian too and my family is extremely backward. But the kind of person you are is up to you. Don’t blame the background you come from.

@@Hanna_63332_it is not able blaming. If you understand how childhood psychology works you will understand how much impact it will have on a child. Let me ask you a few questions: Do u have bad relationships with people? What do you do when it happens? When someone tells you that they have an issue with you, do you pay attention to their problems or do u try to reason with them about why there is nothing wrong with you or the problem lies with them? Do u find yourself “attracting” bad people in your life without knowing why? If for the second question ur answer is reasoning with others or that nothing lies with you then yes you have experienced unhealthy relationships. If for the last question you answered yes then yes u have experienced some kind of trauma in childhood and do not know how to identity a unhealthy person because of the way you were treated by your caregivers. Acknowledging trauma serves as a way to transform unhealthy patterns into healthy ones. And finding the right people who can love you correctly

​​@@Hanna_63332_background will definitely have an influence on how you turn out. Same as them or different from them.

The therapist is also korean. Im not korean or asian and i was born more than 30 years ago. It was the same shit with both working parents, and there wasn't even a grandmother in the picture, i was in childcare from 8am to 6pm and my parents still had the store open until 8pm so instead of going home i was dropped at the store and had to sit in the corner. It was 12hours of work for me already, 12hours outside of the house and then get more yelling and beating and bullshit. And im the second child. Birth control already existed back then and exits now. These people have kids for the picture and have someone to abuse.

It’s in Korean

But then she wanted to get something harder si it would hurt

@@zaza_rat123 that’s not the point. My point is that the lady who’s narrating this wasn’t giving an accurate account

@@Lex-rc1gr yea if the video wasn’t there i would be concerned why someone is hitting their kid with a wooden bat

@@zaza_rat123 you should be concerned for this child because any form of abuse is detrimental the development of a child. SMH semantics aside, who cares about the narrator? I only care about the abused and neglected child. I hope the professionals on this panel helped him.

@@denagustafson6070 true now that I think about it why can’t she just use her words to explain to him instead of hitting.

And?

and?

Madarchod teri ma tere ko hospital se adopt kya tha kia??

He is literally a kid

He is a child

He is litrally 4 years old wtf is wrong with people like you? Did you grew up like that too without love? Cause i see no reason for You to pinpoint a LITERAL CHILD

it depends on how you teach them. When they become adults, this speaks louder than anything and reflects how their parents treat them.