Adrienne Friesen joins us on this episode about supporting a friend through trauma. She has been our friend for over 20 years and we can attest that she is naturally gifted at supporting and comforting friends during difficult and traumatic times in their lives. Today, she shares her wisdom and practical advice on how to be a steadfast friend during difficult times.
Key Points Discussed:
Active Listening: Adrienne emphasizes the importance of truly listening to your friends. It's not just about hearing their words but also about understanding their emotions and validating their experiences.Offering Encouragement Without Bypassing Reality: Adrienne discusses encouraging friends without minimizing their pain or trying to fix their problems quickly. Acknowledging the reality of their situation is crucial.Creating a Safe Space: Learn how to create an environment where your friend feels safe to express their true feelings without judgment.Helping Others Stay Connected: Adrienne discusses the significance of assisting friends to stay connected with their community and support systems, even when they feel isolated by their trauma.Offering Practical Help: Practical support can be incredibly beneficial. Adrienne shares examples of ways to provide tangible help without overstepping boundaries.Notable Quotes:
"Strength and steadiness are what a friend in trauma needs. They don't need us to fix their situation. They need to be heard and to know they aren't alone more by our actions than our words." - Adrienne Friesen"Don't manipulate the circumstances for a better outcome. Just be there." - Adrienne FriesenTune in to this episode for insightful tips and heartfelt advice on being a supportive friend to someone navigating the rough waters of trauma.
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