Marriage of children, specially the daughters: |Prof Dr Javed Iqbal|

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Professor Dr Javed Iqbal

4 жыл бұрын

Prof Dr Javed Iqbal's response to various questions regarding planning of children's marriage, specially the daughters.

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@ghousiakhan5623 4 жыл бұрын

I live in Canada, where kids can get indulge in Haram relationship. My son came to me and said he wants to get married in order to avoid a sinful life and have a halal relationship in order to protect his Deen. . He is a 2nd year student in university. We supported him and got him married with a practicing muslimah. He is very happy. Allhamdulillah. Also we have a large social gap in terms of financing but we ignored that part since our main focus was on the nature and Deen of that girl. Allhamdulillah we all are very happy.

@mohammadumar763 4 жыл бұрын

Jazakalla Hu khera fid dunya Wal aakhira sis... I pray to u and hope to others that Allah make their thinking like u..

@sidsid9808 4 жыл бұрын

Allah unhein hamesha khush rakhey. Best wishes from Michigan.

@rushdajubin8475 4 жыл бұрын

Assalamu alaikum Sister . Hope you are all well Insha Allah. Your comment is very positive and Masha Allah inspirational May Allah Taala bless your family with success and happiness Ameen. My son is at university and I wish for him to marry because of the rising Fitnah trials and challenges we all face in UK. Making marriage simple and following our Deen guides us rightly to our family members responsibilities socially and morally safeguarding us. Trust and always rely on Allah Taala to know what is good for us make Duas continually.

@zoyasehar 4 жыл бұрын

But u r acknowledging this that there is a gap in between both the families... I would suggest U should take this out of your mind.

@kamranaslam781 4 жыл бұрын

Your son is naik larka who adopted hallal way of living life and you have done a great job for him Naik maan baab naik aulad

@31saqibali92 4 жыл бұрын

لہذا حضور نبی اکرم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی زندگی کا مطالعہ کریں۔ اور خوشی خوشی پوری زندگی گزاریں

@moodmeditation4458 4 жыл бұрын

Rasool SAW ka apni bevion se sulouk ka bhe mutalya karen na ke sirf un ke tadad ka , wo talwar or Jangoon wala zmana tha yhan mard kisi aurat se badtar or buzdil ha or sirf gharon me jangeen larte han aurton or bachon per hukum chalate Han. Admi per apni bivi ke har kishi puri karne ka hukum ha use alag rehna chahe to us ko alag rakhne ka hukam ha use narmi or mujabat se rakhne ka hukam ha magar nahi admi to bus char kar ke in ke zindagi kachra karna ha or ulad ke bhuk or taleem bhe apni zimedari nahi. To tumari bache tumara baap pale kia ya wo bhe Allah ke hwale tum bivi ke goud me pareh raho sara time. Allah bhe mehnat or rizq ke taq o do ka hukum deta sab Allah per chor kar tum raaten manao bivion ka jina haram karo.

@afia9641 4 жыл бұрын

@@moodmeditation4458 un kee tou buhut saari wives theen...he didnt have nuclear family. Lets say if he had 5 wives at a time, he was away from every wife for one week (because it would take one week for a wife to get her "turn"). Secondly, The most important thing between husband and wife is LOYALTY. If husband has multiple wives, then he is not loyal to any of them because he has relationship with multiple women. If loyalty is not there, then there is no love between them

@kamranjameelkhan6418 4 жыл бұрын

it brings tear in my eyes.hope some parents get benefit from it.ان شاء اللہ

@Sardar00077 4 жыл бұрын

My favorite motivational speaker.. Allah salamat rky

@ranasajid5619 4 жыл бұрын

Waqia e dr sahib aisay krtay hain k aik b word mis krnay dil ni krta

@ahsanbaig74 4 жыл бұрын

mine as welllllll ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@anjumsiddiqui6951 3 жыл бұрын

AMEEN

@kidzhub6382 2 жыл бұрын

AMEEN

@sabajamil7995 2 жыл бұрын

Ameen

@31saqibali92 4 жыл бұрын

مختصرا کامل اور خوشگوار زندگی کے لئے ہر شخص کو حضور نبی اکرم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی ازدواجی زندگی کا پتہ ہونا چاہئے۔ لہذا حضور نبی اکرم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی زندگی کا مطالعہ کریں۔ اور خوشی خوشی پوری زندگی گزاریں

@afia9641 4 жыл бұрын

un kee tou buhut saari wives theen...he didnt have nuclear family. Lets say if he had 5 wives at a time, he was away from every wife for one week (because it would take one week for a wife to get her "turn"). Secondly, The most important thing between husband and wife is LOYALTY. If husband has multiple wives, then he is not loyal to any of them because he has relationship with multiple women. If loyalty is not there, then there is no love between them.

@princessza4141 4 жыл бұрын

اسلام علیکم سر بہت اچھی باتیں جن سے آج کل کی نسل محروم ہیں بڑوں کی باتیں بزرگوں کے مشہورے ان سب کی بہت ضرورت ہے آجکل ہمارے معاشرے میں بیٹوں کی شادی کرتے وقت فیملیز کا خیال اور جس سے بیٹی بہن بھائی بیٹے کی شادی کر رہے ہیں کیا وہ ایک دوسرے کے قابل ہے ہمارے خیال میں بچوں کی شادیاں جلدی کرنی چاہئے کیونکہ اُن کی عادت پختہ نہیں ہوتے وہ ایک دوسرے کی عادت کو آپنا سکتے ہیں سر بیٹیاں بہنے تو وہ ہیں جو مرضی کا سوٹ نہ ملنے پر منہ بنا لیتی ہے لیکن نہ پسندیدہ شخص کے ساتھ ساری زندگی گزار دتی ہے

@TheMississippi 4 жыл бұрын

Finally someone spoke for the daughters too.. Jazak Allah for this.. It's common in our society that family be tend to get rid of their Girls as soon as possible..

@sultanshariff4366 4 жыл бұрын

As said by Dr sab every body is for every one but they doesn't know the real life sister , let you learn first and pass on to next generation

@noor14-5 4 жыл бұрын

This is right in some context

@Murshidbaahoo 4 жыл бұрын

You are right sir. Kash k sab ki soch aisy ho jaye ... Islam is a complete guidance ...

@rohit1kumar740 4 жыл бұрын

Sir you are a very good consultant. I am a Hindu but I am a devotee of Khawaja Garib Nawaj

@waseem1781 3 жыл бұрын

No problem sir u are hindu or I'm Muslim we all are human being we are all one unity.

@AA-up6xk 3 жыл бұрын

Respected Brother Shri..Rohitji. very nice to see your comment. Please just go through HOLY BHAGWAD GEETHA VEDAAS PURANAS n TALLY with QURAN in your mother TONGUE. All HOLY BOOKS are from the CREATOR. I have studied BHAGWAD GEETHA VEDAAS PURANAS. We are all HUMANS and BROTHERS and sisters.....we need SATYAMARGAMU n SPIRITUALITY.....

@amiriqbal5914 3 жыл бұрын

may ALLAH SWT guide you towards islam

@user-pi3hl8ew1j 4 жыл бұрын

ماشاءاللہ بہت ہی معلوماتی ویڈیو بنائی ہے۔ جزاکم اللہ خیر

@maryambangash8478 4 жыл бұрын

One thing I want to add to your last point k beti ki grooming krty howe ose agli family k challenges k lie prepare kren this is absolutely right but agr hum ose ye bh sikhaen k jab koi or larki bhabi ban k ya ksi bh rishty se ap k ghar ati hy ... to os k sath kese behave krna hy... q k mostly jo chez humari society me dekhi gai hy wo ye k aik aurat hi dosri aurat k lie problem create krti hy instead of supporting or keeping a good relation with her... So this point should be kept in mind while grooming and building the personality of a girl ☺💫

@alikhansahab8356 3 жыл бұрын

Well said

@namrahkhan2887 3 жыл бұрын

100% agreed!

@toponborah5916 4 жыл бұрын

Salute to your thoughts Sir..The way you line up your words, viewers will definitely gain in tremendous quantity with quality that could be very useful.

@atifnawaz1380 4 жыл бұрын

Kash ita smjhdar baap sab ko milay ameen

@alvinaadnan6010 4 жыл бұрын

AlhamdulilAllal I m lucky to have such great parents and after them brothers maine aj tk sb descions khud lye study abroad ki shadi k lye b apni marzi sy han ki but rishta bhai ne hi dhondha☺

@mahparaqamar9087 4 жыл бұрын

Finally someone is talking very logically about religious issues of marriages.😊😊

@nahidfatamah8475 4 жыл бұрын

Sir ap kitne suljhe hue insan hn salam h apki sonch ko 👍👍

@zameerahmed536 4 жыл бұрын

Great advice. Allah bless you from ZAMEER Ahmed

@ashifamirza 4 жыл бұрын

Sir the way you explained it’s marvellous Thankyou for giving this talk

@khanit7729 4 жыл бұрын

MashaAllah 😊 bht umda batain kien

@medinject1299 4 жыл бұрын

Sir lots of prayers for you MA SHA ALLAH.. yesterday your guidelines to students of ayub medical college students was remarkable ❤❤❤

@muhammadadeelkhan5877 4 жыл бұрын

Another Great Video with a Great Lesson / Advice / Guidance!

@SultanKhan-ei5zi 4 жыл бұрын

I always prefer to listen to your each new video because there is almost always something stunning and universal to learn from you.

@HamarayBachay 2 жыл бұрын

Jazak Allah Khair Dr. Sahib. Every word of you makes sense. I live in U.S and a mother of four daughters. None of my daughter is married yet, but over time I understood that how to change my values living in a Western society. Our deen allows us more freedom in choosing spouses while our values contradict with Islamic principles. I pray that Allah Pak let your words to touch hearts of parents and children as well.

@mustafamalik785 4 жыл бұрын

Allah ap ko hamesha salamat rakhe ap ke bachon ko sehat dey salamti ho bohat sari dua hai ap or ap ke family ke liye thanku jazakAllah

@bushra_24 4 жыл бұрын

Jazakallah khair Sir.May Allah give you a long and healthy life with lots of happiness. I like to listen and learn things from your knowledge and experiences. Jazakallah khair.

@higujglkkk7836 4 жыл бұрын

mashaAllah .....such a great lines

@bani652011 4 жыл бұрын

اللہ تعالٰی آپ کو جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے آپ نے بہترین راہنمائی کی ہے

@drsyedmunawarhussain9672 4 жыл бұрын

Aslamoalaikum sir...stay ever blessed..you are the asset and legend of us.....I always please to see your videos on different topics specially social and motivational issues while living in London...salute to you ..Sir...keep me in your prayers sir .regards.

@ranasajid5619 4 жыл бұрын

Dr sahib aap ko ALLAH sehat wali lambi zindagi ataa kray .boooòoohat e impressive batain hoti hain k bnda sontay hoay aik trance main chala jata hay

@rushdajubin8475 4 жыл бұрын

Assalamu alaikum , We hope you are all well Insha Allah. May Allah Taala bless you with success and health and happiness-Ameen. I really find your advice very informative and here in the UK these issues are pertinent to our children's future potential marriages. It's a difficult clash of cultures and struggles. Communication skills are imperative and I have learnt through active listening and teachings like yourself based on logical reasoning to pinpoint and address our family concerns. Your Masha Allah invaluable guidance is much appreciated ! Jazak Allah Khairan

@islampowerfull1219 3 жыл бұрын

میاں بیوی کا رشتہ دنیا کا بہت خوبصورت رشتہ ھے کیونکہ اس رشتے کو ھمارے نبی علیہ سلام نے بہہہہہہت زیادہ اھمیت دی ھے

@sameernazar2429 4 жыл бұрын

Sir aap blkul sahi kah rahy hy logo ko is baat pur ugagur kurna chahiay k shaddi mein larka larki ki pasand na pasand ka khiyal rahka jaay lakin hamari society me khas kur larkion say poch nahi jata

@rabirabig650 4 жыл бұрын

Allah pak apko zindagi dy sir Ap mery favourite motivational speaker han

@faizantahir5808 Жыл бұрын

sir aap jesey log hoty hain jo mashrey ma islah krny ki koshish krty rehty hain aur nizam ko behtar krny ki koshish krty rehty hain, sir really thankful to you, u r doing great work, Allah pak apko icka ajjar e azeem atta farmaey

@aishanadeem3693 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much sir for the Golden words 💕

@Just_feel_nature 4 жыл бұрын

Mashallah sir ap bht achi baten bataten hen Allah apko salamat rakhe ameen

@TaleemESaqlain 4 жыл бұрын

MA SHA ALLAH... very inspiring vedios and very helpful...

@sultanshariff4366 4 жыл бұрын

Sir I really appreciate your way and need of explaining the key concept which now a days can't able to do by our elders , coz they themselves doesn't know the concept . I really like you as my real time Samaritan to find the real life thank you

@vanilla7100 2 жыл бұрын

verry good clip aap ki baatein bohot usefull hain bohot shukriya

@amnakhanlohani8189 11 ай бұрын

ماشااللہ سر ہمیں اپ سے بہت زیادہ موٹیویشن ملتی ہیں اللہ پاک اپ کو سلامت رکھے صحت تندرستی کے ساتھ لمبی زندگی دے جزاک اللہ

@Mrnobodypk 4 жыл бұрын

Assalam O Alaikum. Sir you're very great person and motivational speaker. Allah bless you. LOVE and RESPECT from. Okara

@NisaCuisineVLOGS 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks forsharing such an amazing video.

@nasrakhalid908 3 жыл бұрын

Love your background 😘Excellent topics.Very intelligent person.👏🏽👏🏽

@Polyskill 4 жыл бұрын

Sir, excellent issue highlighted. I second and endorse all discussed points.

@water2963 4 жыл бұрын

Ek ek bat dil m utar gai..zazakallah

@sadia2198 3 жыл бұрын

Great, Super Very powerful message!!!

@drsaima6728 4 жыл бұрын

Wonderful points highlighted by dr sb

@zahidarana2821 4 жыл бұрын

I wish ,all Pakistani parents should watch this video. It is the burning issue of our society . When will we learn these commendatory norms. All these principals should be implemented in our society...but in our society all these values are not totally available . There is a lack of some of these combined values. I live in Canada ,life is much smoother as compared to back home but still facing lots of issues.

@jigerkijeet 4 жыл бұрын

Dr Sahib, thank you so much for sharing your experience..

@UsmanPublicTV 4 жыл бұрын

بھت اچھی معلومات ھیں،

@saeedashaikh54 2 жыл бұрын

I m living in USA since 20 years , with two girls and two boys. Alhamdulilah three of them got married and youngest son got engaged. InshaAllah will marry soon They were allowed to choose their spouse and let us know so we could help them to decide

@saeedashaikh54 2 жыл бұрын

I m really proud of them because they picked Muslim and family oriented person to marry

@jannatimran6511 4 жыл бұрын

Jazak'ALLAH khairan kaseeran

@adnanrathore5357 4 жыл бұрын

Dr sb Allah pako hmesha salamat rakhy aaameeen.... I m adnan Rathore advocate from bahawalpur......

@sabadoc3543 4 жыл бұрын

JazakAllaha sir!! Allaha pak apko lambi zndagi sehato tandrusti de.. Ameeen

@AllMotivationalHeroes 4 жыл бұрын

Ameen

@alikhansahab8356 3 жыл бұрын

Allahumma Ameen

@shireensadia9604 3 жыл бұрын

Aameen

@zahrasyed3694 4 жыл бұрын

Kash sabh parents ap jaisa sochty sir

@Zilmaz 4 жыл бұрын

Wish no parents loose their relationship with their kids after doing this kind of stuff...!!!

@AllMotivationalHeroes 4 жыл бұрын

Beshak

@abdulazizabbasi9140 4 жыл бұрын

beshak true

@Anisamusa8727 4 жыл бұрын

@@AllMotivationalHeroes subscribe me plzzz

@muhammadzubairazam3234 4 жыл бұрын

Assalamualukum. Please share you email address

@muhammadzubairazam3234 4 жыл бұрын

Mine Zubair.marine@gmail.com

@mohammadhussain3328 4 жыл бұрын

Great advice thanks Dr.

@asadjass7347 4 жыл бұрын

Allah bless you and your family....Ameen

@shooters99 4 жыл бұрын

Welldone Sir, alot of appreciation for u

@misstwinkle3142 4 жыл бұрын

Very informative it would be nice to see a video on parents seeking for a daughters in law

@haqeeqattv2.023 3 жыл бұрын

Mashallah boht pyari batain share ki hain ap ne ☺☺☺

@surindercheema3 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Phaji -excellent video -what I needed to hear

@khddf367 2 жыл бұрын

Masha Allah Subhan Allah Alhamdulilah Allah ho Akbar pyary sohny Habib pak Sal Allah Alyhy wa Alyhe wasalam aur unke kul pyare sohne Aly pak pa lakho karoro arbo khrbo darudo salam

@khddf367 2 жыл бұрын

Masha Allah sir bht ache btn jazak Allah ho khyran kasera sir

@rashidawan2742 4 жыл бұрын

MASHA ALLAH VERY well said sir

@alikhan-zz5jc 4 жыл бұрын

جزاك الله خير

@sazidkhan3782 3 жыл бұрын

Jazakallahu khair professor sahab❤️🇮🇳

@muhammadashrafrana2118 4 жыл бұрын

Sir Very Thanks Great Advice

@ayesha58839 3 жыл бұрын

Well said Sir. I appreciate that you don't consider a specific religion while sharing your thoughts, in fact you keep in view the cultural and social system. As there are people listening to you from different religions. It feels like you are speaking to each and every individual, and not to one particular cast or group. God bless you Sir.

@asmashamim9878 3 жыл бұрын

May Allah bless you always ameen,well said👌

@lamsahbeauty2764 4 жыл бұрын

Jazakallah khair very much needed your guidance Sir i follow n listen to every lecture n try to implement it ur words r like pearls of wisdom please continue its a great contribution love from India

@sobiaarif8780 4 жыл бұрын

Beautiful n very true informative lecture

@kaneezkassim8037 4 жыл бұрын

Beautifully explained.

@wasiraj5149 4 жыл бұрын

Great advice!

@mrsfaisalwaheed3132 Жыл бұрын

Great. MashAllah Deep knowledge sir. Impressive

@namrahkhan2887 3 жыл бұрын

Assalam o Alaikum Uncle Walaikum Assalam This is the first time I saw your video! Very well explained but one of the drawback is that we girls are mostly close to our mothers than fathers and we can communicate with her easily than a father! 🙂

@anamkmirza2349 4 жыл бұрын

JazakAllah kher Sir Ap ka bohut thanksss Ap ki batyn mashwary bohut mofeed hyn Ik guzarish hy. Ap plsss english ky words na use kryn Ap ki language simple hy Lakin agr Ap mazeed simple urdo mein kryn to ziyada behtr hy Ap bohht achy program krty hy Allah Pak Ap ko bohut ajr e Azeem dyn Ameen suma Ameen 💐💐💐💐💐

@hassansalman2923 4 жыл бұрын

جی سر واقعی یہ بہت بڑا مسلہ ہے آپ کی باتوں سے کافی رہنمائی ملی

@ambreenmalikawan 4 жыл бұрын

In case of expatriates following your suggestions is some how possible. But in Pakistan, you have given an ideal situation. Provided with the social circumstances of our women its extremely difficult for parents to find such spouse for their daughters.

@amanamanullah5227 3 жыл бұрын

Asslamualikum Dr sahab Bahoot acchi bat bat batai Mashallah

@Ch-Yasir-Jakhar 4 жыл бұрын

ماشأاﷲ سدا خوش رہے۔ آمین

@connectwithyahya8547 4 жыл бұрын

Bilkul sahi farma rahe hn ap..

@daizywrites.2841 3 жыл бұрын

Sir apki ek ek baat sach ha.. Awllaa. ❤.

@ayeshaaman7259 4 жыл бұрын

Jazak Allah Khair

@lyallpurtv4112 4 жыл бұрын

بہت زبردست گفتگو

@mohammadshafeeq5820 4 жыл бұрын

Accha naseehat jazakallah

@MUHAMMADBILAL-lz6ls 4 жыл бұрын

ماشاءاللہ, ہر ویڈیو کی طرح 100فیصد مفید. سر! آپ سے رابطے کا کوئی ذریعہ؟ مزید آگاہی کے لیے.

@kamranaslam781 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent suggestions Well done sir

@MrRK1049 3 жыл бұрын

I am Your fan from India and wish you to talk on better INDO PAK relations also

@fearlesssoul1833 2 жыл бұрын

YeS we neeD dialogue between us

@aimanfarooq7805 3 жыл бұрын

Dr sahab you're just amazing personality...

@abeehafatima3640 4 жыл бұрын

uh are really great sir .... ap bht achi batein bataty hein ...sir plz is topic pr bat krein k beti or beton mn bht frq rkha jata hai beti ki gltion pr bht zada sazaein di jati hein jb k bety glti krein to usy itna serious ni lia jata....maa baap bht pyar krty hein apni ulaad sy mery b mjh sy bht krty hein lekin bht esi batein hoti hein jo wo shyd ni smjhty.kya kia jaye ? maa baap ko glat ni keh skty wo hmary lye bhtr hi krty lekin beti or bety mn bht frq rkha jata beton ko bht zada azadi di jati lekin beti k lye mana krdety

@farahgilani7618 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. Can you also explain how to prepare your daughter for post marriage issues.

@naheed_34 2 жыл бұрын

You have said very well, first of all it is very important to understand the ment level of a person and without this life is not good for others.

@zakiyasaif7419 4 жыл бұрын

U r a beautiful soul👍

@harisnasir4775 4 жыл бұрын

Sir please make a video on balancing between mother and wife and also how a girl should face the problems in joint family

@rumanadeemkhan 2 жыл бұрын

Very informative mA thank you.

@sciencelearninginstitute1551 2 жыл бұрын

Very well explained, Sir. Thanks.

@saniyabiomentors3045 4 жыл бұрын

Mashallah ❤ wow great sir..😊😊

@noorulaamin7739 4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you

@RizwanAsadvlogs 4 жыл бұрын

ماشاءاللّه 🇵🇰 پاکستان زندہ باد 🇵🇰

@asmaroshan1023 3 жыл бұрын

Asssalmoalikum sir aap bilkul sahee kh rahe hain, Mere aur susraal ke environment me zameen Aasman ka frq hai . Aur me ne bahut zyda difficulties suffrr kin