بچوں کی تربیت کرنے میں سب سے اہم بات ہے کہ صبر ، صبر اور صرف صبر بے شک اللّٰہ صبر کرنے والوں کے ساتھ ہے

Ya Allah sb fathers k dil m bchon k liye narmi r piyar dal dy Ameen

یا اللہ پاک میرے بچوں کی مزید اچھی تربیت کرنے میں میری میرے شوہر کی اور تمام والدین کی مدد فرما آمین 🤲

اللہ تعالیٰ آپ سے راضی ہوں ❤️🌹

bht acha tareeqa hy samjhany ka allah hum sub ko bacho ki naik tarbiat krny waly maa baap banaey ameen

You are the best ... I always feel guilty when I listen to you .... Trying to be a good mom but sometimes your own stress overtake

ڈاکٹر صاحب آپکی باتیں بہت اچھی ہیں اللہ سب باپ کے اندر اپنے بچوں کے لیے نرمی ڈال دے آمین

I think for this purpose we should change our educational system

Dr. Sab Allah apki zindgi mai barkat dey ... 1 baat ye keh apki baat boht simple lagti hai pehli dafa mai lagta hai samajh aa gai lekin dubara sunney se koi nya point samny aata hai ... 2 dusri baat mai samjhta hu keh ye aik ba qaeda subject bna ke hamary nisab mai dakhil karna chahiye hai ... Dil se ye chahta hu ...

May Allah remove all our difficulties and ease all our tasks. Aameen

MashaaAllah u are lectures are so true. I am feeling so guilty after listening to our lecture. I a mother of 5 kids AlHamdulillah, but sometimes get so stressed as there are so many things going on through out the day and becomes difficult to mange and then I get stressed and irritated. I know I am wrong and In Shaa Allah will over it and not get angry on my kids. JazakaAllah Khair ur lectures are very motivational.

اللہ تعالیٰ تمام والدین کو اپنے بچوں کی اچھی تربیت کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین۔۔۔۔

My mom and dad are fighting from years... And this makes us alot stressful

nahi nahi : ) ap bohat acha samjatay hain Dr sb hum ap k sath hain,. ap ki muhabtin be rohani tur pr hamray pass ati jati hain..with out net,.. ager zendgi rahi tu inshaallah khaeen pr mulaqaat ho jaey gi,.. ( I am spiritual student )

Kash mere parents ne ye sb kuch hme sikhaya hota to hm b achy bachy hoty

Doc sahab, thank you for such amazing parenting guidelines. But please, also discuss behavioural problems of age 7-12, where parents have already done this damage to their children. Please please talk about how to fix n recover this problem in kids. Where due to parents mutual arguments, kids are already affected and don't listen to parents or are hyper and have aggressive behaviours specifically from age 7-12. Buhut Shukria, hamari society ko ap jesay Naseh Ki buhut zarooret hai. ❤

Wonderful information. I think pre-wedding or during the pregnancy tenure, both parents should get such awareness sessions at hospital level to enable them good practices on patenting..

Dr sahab pahle to bahot thank you aaj m ne pahli baar aapka video dekha aisa laga ke Allah tala ne aapko khaas humare liye bheja h

Allah Pak hmain behtreen walidain baneny ki tofeeq de aur Sahi tarbiyat krny ma hmari madad kray aameen

Sir u r great I always use to listen to ur precious thoughts...ALLAH apko sehat wali lambi Zindagi ata kry Ameen...

The main reason for stress in students is comparison with other students. Especially in teens

My father did all these thing to Us and now I give stress to my child I'm sorry I will never I do all these things and I will avoid it.Insha Allah

Allah mere bacho ko acha hafza ata kr Aameen 😢 mera beta sbq boht mushkil se yad krta Allah pak mere bachy ki مدد frma Aameen 😢😢

Sir u r great and kind and i wonder that still sincere people like u are still with us❤ thank u so much God we are blessed MashaAllah❤

JazaakAllah doctor sahab. Apne bohat bra ehsaan kia ye bta kr. Allah apko hmesha khush rakhay ameen.

Sir, I really admire your knowledge . I thank to Allah swt that we are blessed to have a teacher like you .

Apki bat se main 100% agree krti hn. Hmarey parents ki kbi fight ni hue thi halan k mere father well educated thay aur ami jan illiterate thi. Unho ne hm 10 behn bhayon ki behtreen prwarish ki. But hm being parents dono educated hn but 3 bachay hm se control nahi ho rahy. Iski wja hm dono ki different approaches hn. Allah pak hme aur hmari aulad ko siraat e mustaqeem pr chalaey. Ameen

Allah hum sb k bachun ko naik raah pe chlae ar aik sacha ashiq e Rasol SAWW bnae aameen

Allah bless u doc shbb... Hmesha kuch naa kuch seekhny ko milta hy

Nice guidelines for the parents and teachers.

Al ham du Lillah Allah pak ka shukr h k ap jaisy behtareen raah numma hamry darmyan moujood hain thank u so much Dr sb

MashAllah Sir 👍👍👍 Last Year mein Apne mohlay k doston se ye baat karha tha Wo dost mujhe bewakoof kerhay thay per aaj khushi hue aur aap jese Professor ki baat yehe sahi hai MashAllah Sir thanks for information about Stress free happy life 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

I am sorry but I don’t agree with this theory. I feel that parents get afraid due to this theory and fail to deal with their kids. I am experiencing this fear of parents. Parents are afraid of crying and showing stubborn behaviour of their kids and as a result of this so called stress they allow almost everything to their kids. They can use the mobile because otherwise they will cry due to stress, they can sleep late in the night because early going to bed will stress the kid and it cries, they can eat sweets as much as they want otherwise there will be a great drama due to stress and so on. The result is that I observed parents falling on knees before their kids to ask what do you wish to do, have or get for being stress free, they are allowed and as this child grows up his demands for being stress free grow with him. Sorry, our Islam has told us very nicely and deeply how to bring up a child. And there it is clearly said that do yourself first what you want your child to do. Creating an environment is just created and not real. And kids are clever enough to find out a just created scene or real. If you want to be him respectful than be respectful yourself, be honest, humble and polite yourself the kid will copy. If you just pretend to be then it will not last long. And that is the point. We adults fail to be ourselves like we want our kids to be. If you are harsh or angry for some reason to your kid it’s not the end of the world. The kids learn from that stress that this was a situation I don’t want to be ever again so I will change my behaviour. And then parents should distress their kid and everything will be fine. A 5 or 6 years kids go to school then why can’t we feel the kid you are going there to learn interesting things which will guide you throughout life, you will meet other kids and learn how to deal in companies. Near to Yaumul Qiyamaa one sign is that parents will give birth to their lords and literally I am observing several scenes where parents sit in front of their kids and ask for their wishes and beg for relief of their stubborn behaviour. Yes make the kids stress free and take all the stress on your own, tell the kid you are my lord and we have to obey you and make sure that you get no stress. Islam is a religion of balance. Love your kid, give him safety, love and confidence but stop him from things that are harmful for him or others. And for the last you should start with yourself. Stop harming people, stop lying, stop fighting, stop betraying. Don’t pretend to your kid. It is a piece of yourself, you can’t pretend in the long run the kid is like yourself

I always ashamed of my attitude whenever I listen ur lectures bt each and every moment I try to become k good mom and always pray to my God to bless me.

Most of Pakistani school give stress to students Teachers give lots of homework Mentally and physically torcher

Very important video kash yeh video phly mil jati.information ki kumi ki wajha sy hum sy bht ghalti ho jati hy.Allah pak madad kary ameen.

جزاک اللہ خیرا و احسن الجزاء

Dr Dil to krta he ap bolte Rahe or hm log sunnte Rahe..bht zrort he hm logo ko guidelines ki... Allah apko jazae kher de in kaamo k lie.. amen

I want to like your every video even without listening just because of that you have built a lot of trust in my mind and my heart my most respectable personality. May ALLAH PAK bless you abundantly

No words for your good words Dr. Sahab, very nice 👍

ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ بہت ہی عمدہ نصیحت پروفیسر صاحب زید مجدھم جزاک اللّٰہ خیرا کثیرا و احسن الجزاء فی الدنیا والاخرہ

اللہ تعالیٰ اپنے فضل وکرم سےہم سبھی ماؤں کواپنے بچوں کی تعلیم و تربیت سہی اور اسلامی طریقہ پر کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے اور شوہر حضرات بھی ساتھ دیں تاکہ ہم ان کے لئے اچھے والدین ثابت ہو ں۔اللہ ہم پر اپنارحم کرم عطا فرمائے ۔آمین

ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ بہت اچھی باتیں کرتے ہیں

Yes of course. Very important message for all to understand in real sense

Jazak Allah doctor sahab .

بہت عمدہ مسرت ہوئی مسرتوں کے ساتھ شکریہ ادا کرتا ہوں

Osm mind-blowing information for me as a teacher thanks my ideal ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Helping video jazak allha

Absolutely Informative... JAZAAK ALLAH Khair Dr. Sb... 💝💝

Bilkul sai bt ha yh mere b 2 bachy chuti wly din yhi bolty han k aj mza ni aya school bht mza ata ha from Spain Madrid

اسکول میں سات سال کے بچے کو تو ریلیکس رکھا جارہا ہے مگر 9/10 سال کی عمر میں سٹریس دیا جاتا ہے۔۔۔بچہ اسکول سے نجات چاہنے لگا ہے۔۔۔

Aslama O alikum sir ap blkul thk keh rhy Hain bachy K lea maa bap EK E hoty I have quintpltes ma Sha Allah or wo hmsha yehi khty Hain K mama K baba or baba Ki mama unhe HM EK E lgty Hain💞

Allah apku or taraqqi day Dr sb bht sari duaen apky liye

السلام عليكم ورحمۃ اللہ بہت بہت شکریہ سر۔۔۔۔ مستقل آپ کی ویڈیوز دیکھ رہا ہوں اس قوم کو آپ۔اچھی رہنمائی کررہے ہیں بہت عمدہ قابل ستائش دلی مبارکباد نیک خواہشات

Sir g u r such a great person Allah pak apko ajar e azeem ata farmaye ameeeen

Allah pak ap ko slamat rakhy or Allah pak mere or mery shohar ke madad farmay apny bacho kee or ache tarbeat Karny ke or Allah pak sab k bacho kee hefazat farmay ameen sum ameen

Doctor shab allha hameesha Salamat rahky ameen

Jazak ALLAH

Very nice topic for parents. Thank you sir .Allah apko jaza dy

Best ever teacher mentor, who can guide u anywher❤❤❤blessed to have such mentors in our society....

MashaAllah keep it up sir..You are great and graceful as always.

جب تک بچہ اپنے اسلام کی تعلیمات سے نہیں جڑتا وہ کبھی بھی دنیاوی معاملات کو خوف خدا کی نظر سے نہیں دیکھے گا اور آپ کو ہر پروفیشن میں ایسے بد دیانت کرپٹ والدین کے نافرمان وغیرہ وغیرہ ملیں گے۔ اس کے لیے دعوت اسلامی کے ادارے Darul Madina بھترین جگہ ہے جہاں آپ کا بچہ دنیاوی تعلیم کے ساتھ ساتھ دینی تعلیم و تربیت سے آشنا ہوگا۔

Bilkul sahi sir! Giving stress to kids is a disaster for them!

under constant stress your brain cannot process information accurately and hence your academic performance goes down, you cant get the grades that you want, constant frustration of the parents creates new problems if the child finds a bad company to vent those feelings out. unfortunately in our society beating and punishing kids physically is a norm. If your kid is acting different always try to figure out the reason in yourself first then other settings and then fix the underlying problem. Children behave in a very predictable way. In psych this leads to oppositional defiant disorder, conduct disorder, antisocial personality disorder, Obsessive compulsive disorder, acute stress disorder and PTSd, major depressive disorder, bipolar disorder etc etc. And remember in children depression presents differently. Teens usually have a high ego which means whatever they say is right, with time we learn other people have their views also. so when ego is hurt they get depressed. in our society adults think kids cant get depressed.

Every word is precious n important to practice in daily life

kash Ap ki videos us time Available hoty .Jab mary betian choti thi...

Ameen

Only if parents understand this it’s very important topic ty for sharing this hopefully it will help many kids

Sir yours such informative videos, really have a deep impact on understanding parental caring & child parent relation.

Great zbrdst👍 Allah pk apko r kamyabi ata kry🤲

MASHALLAH so good and interesting videos I love your voice

Ok sir, you are saying a good thing that children should understand at the age of 7 years, they should do this. See, my point of view is that if we do not expose our child to anything good or bad right from the beginning.

thank you hame gaed karne k liye jaza kaAllah

ایکن ایسا نہیں ہوتا ہمارے معاشرے میں ۔اکثریت

Proud to have stress in an early age Thanks Almighty For Poverty 😍😎

This talk is gem piece advice for those still not married (Y) Noting it down !

Thanx Dr....big fan of u from 🇮🇳

Aoa sir g mujy mashallah sey ap bhot acha sajhty han bacho k barey me

Boht achy questions kiay ap ny

جزاک اللہ خیرا

Yeh comments dr sahab ke liay naheen baqi sub logon ke liay hain. Mai ne apne bachon pe kabhi sakhti naheen ki 16 saal ki beti hai 11 saal ka aur aek 4 saal ka beta hai. Un ki training maa karti hai mai sirf un se achi achi baaten karta hoon aur apne uper un ki puri zimedari leta hoon. Mera koi bacha yeh kabhi naheen kehta keh baba aap ne meri yeh ya woh khwahish puri naheen ki. Mere do bade wale bache shuroo mai pudhai mai weak the lekin jese jese badi class mai aate gaye apna kaam sumbhalne lage. Aaj kal ke dor mai bache bohot samajh daar hain aur samajh jaate hain keh pudhai kyoon zaroori hai. Bache bechare aap ke yani maa baap ke rehmo karam pe hote hain unhain bohot pyaar dain taake woh bade hokar is mushkil dunya mai kamyab ho saken. Zimedari nibhane ki umer aap ki hai un ki naheen.

Dr.sahib ap se iltaja hai bacho ka jab bhi koi topic ho almost 1 hour ya half an hour to baat kiya karain please Mery jaise insan ko bht kuch seekhna hai khas tor pe bacho ke hawale se I'm not a mother right now lekin mein chahti hu apne bacho ki achi tarbiyat karna

Doctor sahab u r really good guy mahalalah

Please Recite Surat Fatiha For My Lovely Parents

Mashaallah aap bahut ache s smajhate hai

May Allah bless on you Dr saib,🙏

Plz es topic py mazeed video bnae

محترم جناب ڈاکٹر صاحب۔السلام علیکم۔please ye sari conversation share kary

Execellent guidelines for parents....main ap ki de hui gui

the guidelines are very good but difficult to implement in reality!

Dr sahib You doing Great job

MashaAllah Allah bless you Sir

JAZAK ALLAH Dr Sahab

Ap ne bilkul sehi kaha .

ماشاء اللہ زبردست عمدہ پیغام

Kia bat hai kash mera beta b sir javed bny ameen ❤❤❤❤

Please share the full talk .. its Amazing

ma sha allah sir! most effective talk!

Very informative video doctor shib Allah bless you always ameen

Ya Allah Mary bacho k trbyt krny ma Mary hsbnd or tmam parents k help kry