I have divorced and went back to my ex husband but only to find that it was worse than before ,he bought me a ring on my birthday and call everyone to witness our reunion again, after a week a came out of that marriage the second time despite what people will say ...my peace first,my self first ,ladies lets love ourselves enough to come out from toxic relationshitttttt😢
@bumblebee70827 ай бұрын
It never gets better. Sorry you went through this twice
@pertuniasegabutla30237 ай бұрын
I celebrate you for loving yourself❤
@Vv-fl2rm6 ай бұрын
What was your reason for going back?
@zodwaxiviti88686 ай бұрын
@@Vv-fl2rm i felt like it was my fault it didn't work i felt like i didn't fight for my marriage enough ,i went back there with the aim to fix n perfect myself becouse i felf like if the other woman can make it work n stay with my husband i can do better sonce i know him n having children with him so the society was claping for me for going back...but heyyyyyy i saw a ghost my friend
@nette21445 ай бұрын
@@zodwaxiviti8868I love your honesty. You chose your peace and that's all that matters! May God continue to heal and restore you.
@user-kd4ww9qz6h7 ай бұрын
Aowa Banyana baka. Men may not be honest but we need to be decisive about what it is that we want and proceed to move on if we are not receiving it.
@nomantombela20897 ай бұрын
MINA I JUST LOVE HOW WE ARE LAUGHING ABOUT THESE EXPERIENCE S😅😅😅 BEEN THERE AND I HAVE HEALED
@zodwaxiviti88687 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@anthiadintsi1857 ай бұрын
And we are laughing about it yaz😂😂😂😂😂
@amandamaphosaphumzile23487 ай бұрын
Every women especially the married women should be on PREP at this point haini!!!
@sparrow622107 ай бұрын
What i have learned is that men can be cruel.That is why I prefer to be single cause just imagine being a wife or girlfriend and someone decides to turn ur life into a circus also playing God with your life😢
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
Yooohhh you can say that again 😢
@bulelwamboyi22067 ай бұрын
And it becomes a real circus 😂😂😂
@thatorasutho91617 ай бұрын
That's why is hard to love again after u been hurt ,physically, emotionally and financially .pls God bless us .send us the Man we deserve .
@Ameerah077 ай бұрын
Ladies by nature a man is meant to love a woman more. If the relationship is like that he wil be respectful to u. Mara once he notices that u love him more than u are in deep trouble
@overstandself99546 ай бұрын
Shame ande thina we love the ones we love more. Whooa we sesi ngibazi kahle ntombi.
@mrsspringbok6 ай бұрын
Louder!!
@robbylebotha3 ай бұрын
The excuses yall make to give the bare minimum lol... basadi le sele shem. But be that way, we get more love from our side chicks, while you are loving me less on purpose, the side chick is doing the most.
@lutendofaith29987 ай бұрын
😭😭😭 madam speaker woman are going through a lot
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
Trust me I know 😓😓😓💔💔💔
@moselantsasekhuthe80657 ай бұрын
Your laugh when she said o entse#7 Madam Speaker,it murdered me😂😂😂
@Reset_With_Louisa7 ай бұрын
I can’t believe I listened to the entire live. That was a very interesting conversation
@neegee37557 ай бұрын
Also in South Africa. Fornication and adultery are normal
@ntobemkhize37817 ай бұрын
Ngeke second lady has attachment issues 😢😢 this is not love, its a trauma bond.
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
That’s why I think therapy will be the only thing that can save her
@madamtt20907 ай бұрын
Dankie! There's no way
@user-tm4zf9nh5j7 ай бұрын
I know a lady who onced told me that her husband was able to be in a call with the sidechick while they are in the same bed, and be telling the sidechick how he loves her and miss her, yoh the worst of them all is that now she continued to say that they were even discussing their tlof tlof infront of her. But even today she is still with the same husband. And I'm like some women were born to persevere
@user-nh5se7hx6i7 ай бұрын
The only advice i can give to Tshepang pleasure take PrePs just to be on the safe side my sisters.
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
😢😢😢neh.
@katmatlou7 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. 😢
@mrsspringbok6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 the 3 months 😮girl is my girl!!!🥂🥂
@nette21445 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Hey...I am hollering. She is in love shem! She is the girl that she thinks she is😂😂😂
@user-tm4zf9nh5j7 ай бұрын
Nna I say big up to those brave ladies who cheated on men and get pregnant 😅
@fifisenna68397 ай бұрын
Heart puree😂 Jeso
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
Yoweee 🤣🤣🤣😩😩😩
@joycesebati46957 ай бұрын
Leave us alone madam speaker😂😂it's not that we misbehave is just that we say it like it is my dear love yourself and leave that nonsense before it gets worse people like that never change
@busisiwemichelle53914 ай бұрын
Second caller yooo yooo 8th child kkkkkk
@miyelaniminyuku51747 ай бұрын
Caller no two 😢😢😢 she needs a serious intervention, im hurting on her behalf .
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
😢😢😢 I am
@khetimthembu84657 ай бұрын
She needs therapy tjhoo! My mouth is open haikhona. The man is a bad husband mxm
@user-tu5pg5qw9d7 ай бұрын
You are really special madam
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
Thank you ☺️
@julietmahlangu87757 ай бұрын
Mother of the Nation 😅😅😅
@maboj3847 ай бұрын
I was in the early talking stage with this guy.who told me had a GF at the time and when i told him that i don't date men in relationship. He said he should have told me once i had fallen inlove with him so that i wouldn't leave. I rold him i would have left him regardless because its a hell noo for me.
@elsiemaluleke24797 ай бұрын
Continuation of the episode pls❤
@mikovheshares54837 ай бұрын
After God fear men😢😢
@adelaideseopela29117 ай бұрын
Madam speaker please plug us on where one can get free counseling ❤
@winniematjila54697 ай бұрын
Google SADAG
@Maria-yp6le7 ай бұрын
I got it at a public hospital. Check your local hospital or social welfare offices.
@ExploreLifeWithVee-eo4mp7 ай бұрын
Nani ladies you quick to fall pregnant maybe uthwele stayaway child might be sacrificed.
@sihlendwandwe57776 ай бұрын
You know what you have to do u just i n denial that man will never change he will keep on making those babies trust me he knows u will forgive him he will take you serious
@nette21445 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nette21445 ай бұрын
My beautiful sisters, please get yourself a book titled "WOMEN WHO LOVE TOO MUCH". This book will save you from these men with bad intentions. You will see all the mistakes you've been making and understand yourself more!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
@tintswalontlhamu54395 ай бұрын
Where can I get it?
@Blacklist_Entertainment7 ай бұрын
The 2nd caller has attachment issues n theres nothing anyone can say or do to firce her to leave . What's disturbing is her laughter when narrating the story. Maybe xe was molested or raped. Therapy will be her only solution. 😢😢😢
@entertainmentt.24357 ай бұрын
Self esteem issues
@sihlendwandwe57776 ай бұрын
Or father figure was not there when growing up or he experienced abuse she had a void she's trying to fill with this narcissistic man the guy as well is broken 😢
@user-mj6cl4qj3c7 ай бұрын
I had a network problem i wanted to share my story 😢
@nompumelelomzobe80902 ай бұрын
😱 yho 😱😱😱 the stories, oh my word we ladles are going through the most 😱😱😱
@SindiswaMathe7 ай бұрын
Haibo 😢 girl wena you agreed for him to have his surname on your child birth certificate? The child he is not even coming to see 😢 Yho girls
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
😢😢😢yeh sisiii
@buyisileradebe81087 ай бұрын
Heart puree😅😅
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
I’m sorry 😔 😂
@mmamammutlwane93257 ай бұрын
I want to share my story too
@ExploreLifeWithVee-eo4mp7 ай бұрын
Ladies men will say no child they do have but not maintain them no relationship with them.
@jmuhlava15437 ай бұрын
Man like 😢😢😢 what makes them hate woman like this😢
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
😓😓😓
@mrsspringbok6 ай бұрын
Woman don’t love themselves enough le bona
@blessingchauke6961Ай бұрын
Jhooooooo kunini ngithi jhooòooooooo😮😮😮
@buyisileradebe81087 ай бұрын
Happy New Year ❤
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
Same to you!❤️❤️
@marthamolepo12167 ай бұрын
Happy le a married man? I don't agree le bofebe
@nette21445 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@marthamolepo12167 ай бұрын
Ga ke fetse gore jo jo jo. A di nnele. No basadi, batho ba bolayana cause of dilo Tse so. Therapy must be nationalised. Be part of primary school cirriculum. Aowa basadi re loilwe, aowa bathong.... Boefebe bona ga bo fele
@kekeletsoralake-pl4ph7 ай бұрын
Heart Puree😁😁
@hlanzekakhonzinkosi58996 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@nette21445 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@busisiwemichelle53914 ай бұрын
The first caller l think that man has onother child now maybe 2 kkkkkkkk
@marthamolepo12167 ай бұрын
❤Puree 😂
@auntyb41307 ай бұрын
Mara madam speaker stay for baby no 7.....I hear u madam
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
I can’t tell an adult to leave 😩😩
@mrsspringbok6 ай бұрын
Even if you do, will they listen ?
@mutondilinda51407 ай бұрын
Some of us can't hear what they are saying because of the language barrier😢
@zanelemaseko84467 ай бұрын
The 8th baby 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
Imagine 😢😢😢
@auntyb41307 ай бұрын
Ohoooo maybe there number 14.....Men😢😢
@Reegan3177 ай бұрын
Pls Do a live were ladies request n say who are they looking for since opposites gender run away from their kids n mommies don’t know where to find them,Esp 4Maintenance cases since court won’t help trace his location 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@khetimthembu84657 ай бұрын
She had a live like that with a lawyer, just scroll through the channel 🤍
@DimphoM-pv8kr7 ай бұрын
It's so sad how you confide in a so called friend, only to find your story all over the media, worse part is that she even laughs while narrating the story, she first went to ask a man with my story now its on KZfaq, anyway I left our home in late September 2023 and I'm still healing.
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
I’m so confused Dimpho which one is your story here?
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
You’re more than welcome to come share and narrate your own story and also the friend who’s laughing at your story.
@BridgeMA297 ай бұрын
Hi please bring the guy back again, I don't understand whats his problem, like his story is so confusing.
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
He’s not willing
@thabangmalepe16637 ай бұрын
Gape bare didada hle.
@mikovheshares54837 ай бұрын
Lols😂😂😂😂
@jmuhlava15437 ай бұрын
My brother xam needs help therapy 😢 he enjoys being ben10 attachments he missed in his life
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
True 😢
@tshepisodiremelo95243 ай бұрын
She has lost herself to this situationship
@nette21445 ай бұрын
Ditori tsa bo my sister...Caller number 2 wa the 6th child😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂..Guys! We must laugh at ourselves😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. She killed me! I'm hollering at Madam's facial expressions😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. "Did he trip and fall on a vagina" - 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Stop!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@busisiwemichelle53914 ай бұрын
He knew exactly what he was doing kkkkkkk he didn't trip and fall at all
@marthamolepo12167 ай бұрын
Ha e na bothata re ira number 7. Thusang self abuse mo basadi g. Ke tlo ba kgona.... 😢😢😢
@anthiadintsi1857 ай бұрын
Even mine is no 7 and I broke things off ,my baby is 12 years today, and worse the guy played his cards very well,I found out after 4 years in a relationship
@anthiadintsi1857 ай бұрын
Heart purée 😅😅😅😅
@user-iv5ti8qy4p7 ай бұрын
Yoh! Modimo😭😭😭💔
@jmuhlava15437 ай бұрын
He was a narcissist yhooo
@prisca2blessedxoli6627 ай бұрын
Yoh what a trigger
@madams___speaker7 ай бұрын
😢😢😢big one
@bongiwemaqolo91947 ай бұрын
It's not the man's fault he is fertile.
@auntyb41307 ай бұрын
Wow
@mashudumunyai9317 ай бұрын
🤔💔
@katmatlou7 ай бұрын
Even so but a man who plants his seed everywhere lacks integrity.