Surprising Things Your Body Does After Childbirth
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Күн бұрынYour body is capable of so many things!
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Tired mother with newborn baby at home resting
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Mother breastfeeding newborn baby next to window
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Loving mother playing with baby in bed. Newborn child smiling mother
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Fat girl having problems with getting into her favorite pants
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SLOW MOTION, MACRO: Grandmother's enlarged varicose veins running down her calf.
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@lynnstanley5126 4 жыл бұрын
This really solidified that i don’t want to be pregnant ever
@sarahlee4781 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@madisonhicks1220 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@beccafiedler5166 4 жыл бұрын
This video actually gave me a few pros on my pregnancy list 😂
@matthewwilson9749 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@theprowitzproject9403 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve got 2 girls. Hated pregnancy and postpartum both times but I love my girls to pieces! Couldn’t imagine life without them. 😊
@angelaorr1315 4 жыл бұрын
So yeah I’m not getting pregnant
@camilac2432 4 жыл бұрын
LMAO same! 😂😂
@froog7068 4 жыл бұрын
Same XD
@matthewwilson9749 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@apriladelewhyte 4 жыл бұрын
That's fair 😂 my son is about to turn one and my hair is still falling out like crazy and I think I have more skin covered in stretch marks than not. One day we will all be old and wrinkly anyway, at least now I have someone who can come around and open my jars. 😂
@shelbysanders2366 4 жыл бұрын
Coraline Cool 😂😂😂
@gialittle6655 4 жыл бұрын
All the 15 year olds claiming they have baby fever need to watch this 😂
@mysleepy_head5509 4 жыл бұрын
Gia Little 17 year old here and I second this! (I only like babysitting kids, don’t want my own, but these are informative.)
@emilyshaver8364 4 жыл бұрын
I feel called out.
@hayleythething3071 4 жыл бұрын
Oh trust me I'm a 15 year old and I have never had baby fever, I've always known I don't want kids😂
@unicongirl2049 4 жыл бұрын
@@hayleythething3071 same!! This video just reassured me of my desicion
@leticiamgomesz 4 жыл бұрын
omg thats exactly me lsdjksejkdkdd im 15 having this baby fever (didnt even know it had a name) but i still wanna have kids soooo bad
@anastasiafleitz1974 4 жыл бұрын
The lady that had twins looks so good! If I was pregnant with twins I’d look like a potato
@ndpd7695 4 жыл бұрын
I already look like a potato
@extremeballpain 4 жыл бұрын
@@ndpd7695 same lol
@mariasoto1837 4 жыл бұрын
She said her belly looked like crape paper.
@cecilewac5778 Жыл бұрын
same sis Q_Q
@haleymichelle4919 4 жыл бұрын
This video is free birth control
@alaijahdeleon3207 4 жыл бұрын
Fr, i used to be open to the idea of having kids... not anymore 😂
@thatlizzu8315 4 жыл бұрын
@@alaijahdeleon3207 same haha
@TheJaiNetwork 4 жыл бұрын
haley harmicar 😂😂
@DragonQueenThalatte 4 жыл бұрын
Same😂😂😭😭
@kamilekavaliauskaite2341 4 жыл бұрын
I mean it's not really free... you have to get a phone and pay for internet soo...
@Bandgeeeeeek78 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine going through all this after giving birth to a baby boy just for him to grow up and disrespect women.
@Vale-dh1tn 4 жыл бұрын
PeechieMeechie11 hun, a child isn’t born disrespecting women. In order for this to happen, they had to have experienced something (verbal or physical trauma), and/or never taught how to deal with their emotions so they project it out on women in violent ways, and/or simply weren’t taught or modeled respect and boundaries in general. Adults that do these things are just broken and wounded children. They are a result of their childhood experiences. All of us are. The way our brains process those experiences is different for everyone so that’s why people act out in different ways. For example, some sexually abused people may get depressed, some may abuse drugs or alcohol, some project it out on men/women through physical violence. The way our brain defends itself is out of our control and until we become aware of it, we can’t truly heal and change. Don’t blame the boy, he’s unknowingly a product of his childhood experiences, negative and positive just like you an me.
@notrealperson3 4 жыл бұрын
Vale ooooooorrr could be bad associations
@sugarplumfairydied9484 4 жыл бұрын
@@Vale-dh1tn you might trigger someone with these sensitive topics your talking about
@lilymares114 4 жыл бұрын
That depends how you raise him what you're basically saying is that all men disrespect women
@Vale-dh1tn 4 жыл бұрын
SugarPlum FairyDied I apologize for not giving a trigger warning. People need to open their eyes and start looking up the answers to human behavior. All seeds are planted in childhood. Our childhoods are the reason we are the way we are.
@leenaparsons9876 4 жыл бұрын
Other viewers: "Wow, I'm never giving birth." Me, 4 months pregnant: "Welp...it's too late now..."
@afigreentv3678 4 жыл бұрын
Same girl 😂
@maggi2055 4 жыл бұрын
5 months pregnant... Too late 😂
@ginabelle7 4 жыл бұрын
Same! Currently 6 months. 😂
@leeleel.674 4 жыл бұрын
Big same here 🙋🏼♀️
@noodlenado7827 4 жыл бұрын
You got this!! 💕Congratulations!!
@katiehozian6451 4 жыл бұрын
Other girls: “I’m never getting pregnant” Me: my due date is Saturday 😳
@aliyahmclean4233 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my god! Hope you have a safe labour ❤
@devanese4994 4 жыл бұрын
Katie Hozian have a safe delivery 🎉🎉
@sixempress6671 4 жыл бұрын
Aw congratulations girl !
@annafjerstad1088 4 жыл бұрын
how did it go??
@mizzy8139 4 жыл бұрын
Oh man shes probably so busy
@Wasabi00009 4 жыл бұрын
I want a baby but this pregnancy thing doesn’t sound like a motive
@BrittardWatts 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone is different not every woman has horrible pregnancy’s
@20somethingsworld97 4 жыл бұрын
Wasabi00009 Adoption sounds like your go to
@reyale. 4 жыл бұрын
Get a sergeant
@Anna-xh6fk 4 жыл бұрын
Wasabi00009 adoption/fostering is an amazing thing!
@ThaliaCrow 4 жыл бұрын
Adoption is also an option, there are so many kids without loving parents. Lets care about them first before over populate the earth even more
@friendlyneighborhoodgoth 4 жыл бұрын
buzzfeed genuinely puts out the best forms of contraceptives.
@crystalallen10 4 жыл бұрын
Loool girl ... Listen !!!
@audraasbury4493 4 жыл бұрын
@Juan Cortez Muro nobody cares
@d.leighannbatemon3192 4 жыл бұрын
This comment made me laugh so hard. Thank you.
@marybricontreras7211 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly tho
@rafaelaparollari603 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I laughed to hard 😂😂😂😂
@ilove2929 4 жыл бұрын
From now on i will wish pregnant moms: a healthy pregnancy, safe delivery, and smooth post delivery recovery. Amen
@leturlightshine9646 4 жыл бұрын
ilove2929 thank you so much, also with this crazy coronavirus going on, its scary. But i pray that all the pregnant women reading this have a safe delivery.
@christengardner1466 3 жыл бұрын
Amen and also thank you
@christengardner1466 3 жыл бұрын
@@leturlightshine9646 thank you so much
@lifehack182 4 жыл бұрын
Now i understand why its a sin to be disrespectful towards your parents
@haechanssunflower2052 3 жыл бұрын
Same they go through so much
@user-hh8wf8lc2b 3 жыл бұрын
I still don’t get why all mine do is abuse me 🤷🏻♀️
@lifehack182 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-hh8wf8lc2b well that is also a sin
@vibrantgleam 2 жыл бұрын
@@lifehack182 Sometimes I don't get it. Like you have a child just to abuse it, if you really didn't want to have them then why didn't they just get an abortion (if they wanted to) or put them up for adoption or just accept the fact they have a child and actually take care of them I don't know how all of this works but I'm pretty sure there's many ways
@phuck8627 2 жыл бұрын
Men don't give birth so
@heyitsjamila7343 4 жыл бұрын
***baby fever has left the chat***
@maolor1603 4 жыл бұрын
HeyitsJamila💜 😂😂😂😂
@edithnavarro2260 4 жыл бұрын
Istfg☠️☠️☠️
@tiffakang4525 4 жыл бұрын
Good!😝
@sabrinaortiz7132 4 жыл бұрын
Yep long gone
@someonewhoexists7350 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, same. I am no longer super excited to have children when I grow up.
@00aga00 4 жыл бұрын
I’m pregnant, I’m not sure if I should be watching it 😳
@levim7184 4 жыл бұрын
Not sure how far along you are but MOST of these "post partum" changes happen BEFORE you give birth not after. I'm 33 weeks in and have only gained 16 pounds, have none of the common issues females have in pregnancy.
@ketomamalife114 4 жыл бұрын
Better to know now than be surprised:) Also you can have different things happen in different pregnancies. I'm 20 weeks with baby #4 and every pregnancy has been different:)
@cherylseybert5669 4 жыл бұрын
It's good to know though! Congrats!
@megatubalub 4 жыл бұрын
One of y’all’s BEST videos!!
@kuy416 4 жыл бұрын
As scary as all this is, you will forget. lol. IT IS LITERALLY THE CRAZIEST THING. I think it's how people keep having babies.
@The.Catholichoney 4 жыл бұрын
“Whatever marks they left on my body, they were all worth it “ Made me think of my mom and how she really did give everything for me
@jasminenicolec 4 жыл бұрын
I see why so many mothers get plastic surgery after pregnancy. That will definitely be me if I’m not happy with my body after
@Hypocricy_rules_supreme 4 жыл бұрын
My post-baby vanity surgery list is so ready 😨😧
@LihlCherry 4 жыл бұрын
SAME. Saving up money now.
@Zzz76788 3 жыл бұрын
U shouldn’t be insecure I mean u will FUKING GROW A BABY AND POP IT OUT OF UR 😺 so just be happy about bc I’m for sure going to adopt 😌
@silvervase 3 жыл бұрын
Part of you will get used to it/ not care because you'll be sooooo busy taking care of a baby. And usually your body does (mostly) bounce back in about a year with exercise and diet. Also breastfeeding helps.
@danielat1420 2 жыл бұрын
this is why it's important for the men in new mom's lives to make them feel loved and appreciated and never point out all their new bodily imperfections, and even with this support if a woman still wants to reshape her body then no one should judge imo
@sarapalczynski4218 4 жыл бұрын
This video solidifies that we need to do better telling women about post-birth changes. We need to prepare them and make them feel confident.
@superschmolz 4 жыл бұрын
Most of my prenatal classes did a great job preparing me for life post birth. The only thing that didn't come up is that you still look pregnant for awhile after giving birth. Takes a little time for the uterus to shrink and to get all of your organs back in the right place.
@thecodexclub4742 4 жыл бұрын
This. Education!
@noodlenado7827 4 жыл бұрын
Like... if it wasn’t for this video, I would’ve gone all the way into adulthood thinking that pregnancy and childbirth are simple, cut-and-dry.
@estherjohannes9785 4 жыл бұрын
Ideally, also telling men
@sarapalczynski4218 4 жыл бұрын
Esther Johannes absolutely correct!! That is certainly the ideal :)
@nugget938 4 жыл бұрын
comment section: “never having kids” **Triggered mom is typing...**
@goldachupin2860 4 жыл бұрын
Hun, your body your choice. But a shame that you don't see the beauty of it all.
@Angie-et5gq 4 жыл бұрын
Goldy Borodkin why a shame? Tf. A shame you think people are going to see beauty in something just cus you do.
@jaymmxii7332 4 жыл бұрын
🤣 they just feel defensive cause most moms, if they could go back in time wouldn’t have kids.
@zaynmalik879 4 жыл бұрын
No use of women who dont wanna give birth! Useless
@clothildaasoalla545 4 жыл бұрын
Zayn Malik honestly you are soo ridiculous
@vanessaclark5927 3 жыл бұрын
Unpopular opinion: I'm still excited to have a baby even after watching this - I feel like I'd be a really great mom and I'm excited to be proud of my body for its accomplishment
@christengardner1466 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly I'm pregnant now and im scared but extremely excited plus it helps.to have such a supportive man.
@idonthavethink6270 2 жыл бұрын
literally same
@daughteroftheking4301 2 жыл бұрын
same
@katiem9923 2 жыл бұрын
I just had my first a month ago and it's really not so bad! I even had some small complications and a premature delivery and I'd 100% do it all again. You really do forget the pain almost immediately 🙂
@maryharmon1308 2 жыл бұрын
Same here girl. You posted this comment 9months ago, I hope you had a safe and healthy delivery ❤️
@chelseawilliams8538 4 жыл бұрын
me: ain’t no way i’m doing this also me: *is pregnant*
@faithbutler1225 4 жыл бұрын
You can do it.😊❤
@selinaaylin7224 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@crispynuggets1580 4 жыл бұрын
Did you summon your baby into the world yet?
@chelseawilliams8538 4 жыл бұрын
@@crispynuggets1580 not yet just turned 36 weeks 😅
@rezcowlishaw991 3 жыл бұрын
same 😔🤚
@danid7174 4 жыл бұрын
*So who is addopting a child after watching the video*
@ShristiMystery 4 жыл бұрын
Me
@klaraxkat_k6454 4 жыл бұрын
I was already gonna adopt before I saw the video but this confirms it a million times more
@madeleinereads 4 жыл бұрын
Me! 🙋♀️
@alydiaforten5011 4 жыл бұрын
Me
@carleciaw1215 4 жыл бұрын
Meeeeeeee!
@Schnitzlarn 4 жыл бұрын
Me currently pregnant: oh no excuse me what..
@aminag4836 4 жыл бұрын
nehe ne good luck hon
@Schnitzlarn 4 жыл бұрын
@@aminag4836, pray for me
@littlegrey7532 4 жыл бұрын
What they were talking about is commom but it doesn't happen to everyone. Postpartum hair loss is temporary and genetic, many women don't lose their hair. Hemorroids are made when you push too long or when it's unessecary because that pressure cause the veins to swell and pop out. Prevention there is to only push when you get the urge, otherwise you will do more harm than good. And the blatter being weak, belly being loose is nornal because your muscles got loose even the one controlling your bladder. What you can do is exercise before and after pregnancy like mild gymnastics it's actually recommended. So yeah, no woman have the same experience and what you go trough can be either prevented or helped
@AH-qn3vc 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@leeleel.674 4 жыл бұрын
nehe ne Omg same here, currently 8 weeks in and I’m now terrified 😂😭
@sarahsteele7055 4 жыл бұрын
Would have loved to hear a black woman’s experience, especially when it comes to the veins and hair thinning.
@707tich 4 жыл бұрын
Sarah Steele that’s what I thought
@Gumbier_Than 4 жыл бұрын
No veins, but my hair has thinned out. Pregnancy is awful.
@kariswatie3167 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! That was my hope as well.
@ayeshiajackson7364 4 жыл бұрын
Due May 17 with my 3rd child first BOY. hair is super dry and brittle pink oil was a LIFESAVER. No varicose veins but you can start to see the veins in your boobs. Palmer's lotion is a MUST skin starts to stretch and itches like crazy! weird dreams lol.. nipples never turn back to the same size/color 🤣 I also didn't swell as much and feet stayed same size (but shoes got very annoying after awhile) nails grew and I STAY HOT ALL THE TIME! a weird dark like start to appear from the bust line to the panty line be mindful of new body hair ( sideburns, middle of the back) gets finer ugh I'm glad I'm almost done!
@mothergoose80 4 жыл бұрын
My hair isn't thinning, but I guess that's after delivery.
@lillianaalfaro8476 4 жыл бұрын
I actually don’t feel bad about not wanting kids ever, I didn’t grow up in an affectionate home and I’m not an affectionate person, I don’t feel comfortable saying”I love you” to anyone, I would feel bad knowing that I wouldn’t be able to show affection and have patience to raise a child, and to be honest a lot of women don’t have children, I just don’t see myself ever see myself as a mother, I see myself as like a cool aunt in the future
@ericaamato5010 4 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with not wanting kids.. But thats how i felt when i was younger.. Now im 38 and 34 weeks along and already telling baby i love her whenever shes kicking. Funny how time works
@lillianaalfaro8476 4 жыл бұрын
EricA Amato I know I’m still a minor ... but I feel really happy for loving mothers, and I have nothing against baby’s, but that just doesn’t seem like the life for me , maybe I’ll change my mind in the future but idk, also congratulations!
@bernadettestrubing4491 4 жыл бұрын
yeah yeah my cousin said the same .......now she has a son and would kill for him...
@Attackontrashcan 3 жыл бұрын
@@lillianaalfaro8476 I know exactly how you feel
@rue3848 3 жыл бұрын
And that’s 1000% valid, you don’t owe anyone kids and if you know you don’t want to or if you can’t emotionally that’s 100% fine as well
@kaim0nd 4 жыл бұрын
I have so much respect for mothers (The ones who have respect for their kids tho)
@sabrinasoistmanofficial 4 жыл бұрын
Parents expect kids to act like adults. Thats the biggest problem nowadays.
@audraasbury4493 4 жыл бұрын
@Juan Cortez Muro you realize that nobody cares right
@idk-gp5ki 4 жыл бұрын
Juan Cortez Muro why did you- you know what nvm
@jayisajellyfish 4 жыл бұрын
@@sabrinasoistmanofficial not just parents, most adults do too. I remember that the past school years, my teachers have just expected us to be perfect adults...we weren't even adults, not even mature enough.
@sallaj2959 4 жыл бұрын
Audra Asbury it’s a spam bot replying makes no difference
@arielise.9700 4 жыл бұрын
she really said,”a double chinned beach whale” I-
@promise4453 4 жыл бұрын
sis we twinningg
@leahkatz3250 4 жыл бұрын
@@promise4453 *confusion*
@domodeuceslomo 4 жыл бұрын
Lovely_ xo they have the same profile picture
@luhbabya9531 4 жыл бұрын
ari elise 🤣🤣🤣
@mazzyy5915 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@emeraldcollier178 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 22 weeks pregnant and watching this has truly scared me lol. Lord be with me.
@languagenerd2231 3 жыл бұрын
How’s that going for you? I’m in my first trimester cx
@hermosabrowning21 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao me right now 🤣😩😩 just praying for healthy baby , save delivery and recovery 🙏🏼
@christengardner1466 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your baby. I'm 20 weeks now😊
@Ebruz2 2 жыл бұрын
22 weeks currently!! 🥰
@mk-tl8pi 4 жыл бұрын
if someone doesn’t want children respect that decision and don’t force it on them
@MahoganyonEarth 4 жыл бұрын
mk thank you.. i get thats it’s nature but not every women on planet earth has to reproduce thats how this world doesn’t get over populated (even though it already is) but get I get funny looks when I say I don’t want any kids (25 years young)
@henrietjames1645 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@goldenliz3321 4 жыл бұрын
Freak. She can say whatever she wants. LMAO stop being delusional.
@yudithdm9302 4 жыл бұрын
Yup, very true. Respect others decision
@lageena8642 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@clairel883 4 жыл бұрын
“Your feet grow permanently” Ummm I wear an 11 already yeah no thanks
@Combfish 4 жыл бұрын
claire - its ok.... ive had three little faces and my feet were and are still a size 11
@lisaaxx8608 4 жыл бұрын
yeahh same
@zay406 4 жыл бұрын
Dont worry at least it's not MENS size 13 nikes
@annak804 4 жыл бұрын
Claire Lepine I've had two and am carrying my third and my feet haven't grown but I'm a size 11.5
@deadlittlebunny 4 жыл бұрын
I went from a size 11 to a size 12. All my shoe collection i had to give away.
@divindra2393 4 жыл бұрын
I am an Indian mother and it's a pity that after childbirth we stop taking care of ourselves and dedicate life entirely for the newborn.. I think it's time to take care of oneself..
@user-dc9oq2pr6v 2 жыл бұрын
Yea but kids are first priority 🤩
@mogs2523 2 жыл бұрын
@@user-dc9oq2pr6v They never should be. If you’re unhealthy how will you take care of a newborn?
@eminem2996 2 жыл бұрын
@@mogs2523 yes they should. If you think you’re more important than your child then why have a child?
@dr.bartfratze9354 Жыл бұрын
@@eminem2996 because unexpected complications can ALWAYS happen. Dhivya talked about not dedicating life "entirely" to the newborn and she is right.
@sallyenki4440 Жыл бұрын
@@user-dc9oq2pr6v noone should be more important than yourself.
@buhlenkosi3840 4 жыл бұрын
The woman who pushed twins 😳😭😪 Shea deserves an award
@cheyenneautumn8345 4 жыл бұрын
I felt when she said her mentality changed. That was my biggest change too.
@ladyrose1993 4 жыл бұрын
THIS!! I don't think enough moms talk about it... I am 14 months postpartum and I'm still having bad anxiety.
@Tara-id3rk 4 жыл бұрын
Same!!! I feel like becoming a mother made me agoraphobic! Like this woman, I worry if something happens to me my kids will not have their mother. Postpartum anxiety is real. Postpartum depression is real. I believe my mental processes changed the most as well
@Tara-id3rk 4 жыл бұрын
ladyrose1993 My daughter is 17 months and it’s still bad for me. I also have a three year old and had post perfume anxiety after him. There are medications out there that can help.
@dominiqueeeee6179 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! I have anxiety and after I had my 2nd child, that anxiety went sky high! Even after she was older! It’s crazy!
@cheyenneautumn8345 4 жыл бұрын
@@Tara-id3rk Exact same for me. I used tI love going out! I can barely make it to a doctors appointment without hella anxiety now. The thought that no one would love him the same if I was gone breaks my heart. 😭
@carolinenochasak3375 4 жыл бұрын
Noone mentioned the post partam bleeding. It's like having your period for a month straight. 💯 And you can feel your organs slowly shifting to the right places again...
@someonewhoexists7350 4 жыл бұрын
SCARY!
@janine911ful 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly i bled for 6 weeks than got my period right after so another week
@lauralee7146 4 жыл бұрын
janine Bean can I ask how you knew the difference between the PP bleeding and knowing it was a actual cycle?
@janine911ful 4 жыл бұрын
Laura Lee because around 4 weeks i was only spotting and not bleeding as much for another 2 weeks. Then i got my period it was heavy and lasted a week thats how i knew. Also i never got cramps after giving birth at all but did with my period
@KRL1999 4 жыл бұрын
I bled heavily for the first week after birth, and experienced light spotting the next week, and that was all. It's different for everyone!
@mariahmontgomery7423 4 жыл бұрын
I’m pregnant and this genuinely makes me feel better and more prepared !
@KitkatAlnahyan 4 жыл бұрын
Stay safe💞
@sket91 4 жыл бұрын
Imo I think what would've been a good addition to this vid is having a doctor or someone explaining why some of the things are happening or how to help these situations.
@ioannavalathan9290 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, for example it's most common for women's feet to grow if they gain too much weight or if they eat too much sugar, salt or not walk enough.
@michelledank8692 4 жыл бұрын
Me: Wow I’m never getting pregnant Also me: *Has two kids already
@rockittylima7095 4 жыл бұрын
Me too 😂😂
@tiffakang4525 4 жыл бұрын
Right!!!
@rainbowgirlism 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@potatotrain7813 4 жыл бұрын
This is a whole mood 😂
@designercate 4 жыл бұрын
This so funny😂😂😂
@kinkykirby4798 4 жыл бұрын
So basically, having a baby sucks the life out of you😳
@annak804 4 жыл бұрын
Kanisha Chinn actually its nutrition deficiency that causes most the problem if you are really good and took good vitamins it would get better
@ccjammy5270 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, after my first child I had to get my gallbladder removed and my second child I had a milk abscess develop in my breast the size of a golf ball that had to be surgically removed. I love my babies but never again.
@breonawarren1507 4 жыл бұрын
Pregnancy too, cause the baby basically feeds off of you & then birth, and postpartum tries to regulate everything but in some cases the damage is done
@audreya2348 4 жыл бұрын
yes
@Zainygreenstone 4 жыл бұрын
It does
@tinateevee5067 4 жыл бұрын
Watching this while 17 weeks pregnant and am so thankful these conversations are being normalized. I appreciate all of these amazing moms for being so candid and for educating me on what can happen and what to possibly expect. Cheers to all moms and moms to be! 🤰🏻
@languagenerd2231 3 жыл бұрын
C: I love this comment. (8 weeks)
@tangelahawkins7403 3 жыл бұрын
I was told I couldn't have kids so when I found out I was pregnant it was a shock....I'm so thankful to be Momma to my happy, healthy 2 year old!
@Rickpotato 3 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@christengardner1466 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations. I was told the same 20 weeks pregnant now wish me luck
@brunettepotato6133 4 жыл бұрын
whenever i have baby fever i'm gonna come back and watch this again
@AwesomeChickk101 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@kitsontuli2713 4 жыл бұрын
Same here
@gins_on_skates 4 жыл бұрын
Gurl me too 😂
@Czarina888777 4 жыл бұрын
This made me realize that I need to start saving money for our surrogate.
@patrishanotpatricia6456 4 жыл бұрын
Sui Caedere i think this is why Kim K W resorted to it after the second time. She was like might as well quit while I’m ahead
@dudamendesmili1071 4 жыл бұрын
That’s disgusting, so many foster children needing homes and you rent a woman to have a child for you
@Czarina888777 4 жыл бұрын
Duda Mendes Mili Do you go thrifting for your dinnerware, clothes, utensils, food? I hope so. Otherwise how disgusting of you to go buy new dishes, clothes, and food that are polluting our earth and filling our landfills. Your argument of why go get new when wcan use existing ones can be applied to everything. And why am I disgusting for wanting to have someone else have my children that I am clearly planning and desiring? Go call out the parents letting their kids down by giving them to the system or the family of the parents that don’t take them. Or the pharma companies that have ruined many a person into incapable parents!
@Czarina888777 4 жыл бұрын
Claire from experience the woman* not girls, that do surrogacy do iit because they have children of their own and understand the toll and are able tp put a price tag on it. Paying a surrogate isn’t cheap! And they get paid whether pr not a birth is successful. Do NOT make it seem like there’s a rich class paying 20 year old to pop out kids. There’s a requirement for these women go be previous mothers and to understand the situation and risk. They don’t do it out of need or greed! They do it to help another couple have a child regardless of there being infertility issues or just issues of employment and lifestyle not allowing for a biological pregnancy! You’re so uneducated.
@acid-bxnnies5885 4 жыл бұрын
For all the people showing their disgust to having a suroggate dude its their FLIPPING CHOICE NO NEED TO JUDGE
@cadieblanchard6474 4 жыл бұрын
"your skin gets more sensitive" me: *4 skin conditions, allergies to foundation and certain makeups, and bath and body works, and any soap that isnt specifically sensitive skin, and permanent rashes no matter what i do* o h.
@e.r.4988 4 жыл бұрын
deadass me 😂😂😂
@Brogaaaannn 4 жыл бұрын
omg girl me too! my face has recently decided it doesn’t like ANY of my pillow covers 🙃 even products made for sensitive skin make my face basically melt off...
@ioannavalathan9290 3 жыл бұрын
I have skin sensitivity myself. Pregnancies didn't alter anything about that, except at some points when I got drier skin and hair or when they became more oily (I have normal skin). I'm back to normal though.
@hannahpetrick8443 4 жыл бұрын
is nobody gonna talk about the fact that one lady really said she was a size 9 then grew to a 10 but then literally said she grew 2 sizes bigger
@brookelyncowles2458 4 жыл бұрын
I guess she was including half sizes too?
@MadeInBarbados 3 жыл бұрын
Im thinking she meant 9.5 - 10
@Golddusttwin1 3 жыл бұрын
I thought that too lol but then assumed she meant 9.5 to 10.
@olgacs8280 4 жыл бұрын
Now I feel bad for my mom
@dinkyboss 4 жыл бұрын
Olga Cs why she chose to have kids 😂😂
@angelluhv7272 4 жыл бұрын
@@dinkyboss well im pretty sure she wasnt expecting the after party lmao💀 and what if she was just getting it on amd found out she was pregnant but she didnt get an abortion cus she dont belive in it or just didn't wan to kill her baby
@mya5555 4 жыл бұрын
your momma that’s what happened to my mom 😔✊
@shannalese 4 жыл бұрын
Don't feel bad. She chose to breed. You didn't ask her to. But she did. All the problems that came with it was her choice (hopefully)
@angelluhv7272 4 жыл бұрын
@@mya5555 oh my💀
@rhi3698 4 жыл бұрын
When she said she started pumping blood, I cringed so hard
@sandobrownski 4 жыл бұрын
Rhi3698 honestly she was being hysterical. She pumped so hard she did it to herself. I looked it up too- you can’t lactate blood she was just being dramatic
@tweetthang96 4 жыл бұрын
caitosanna She wasn’t saying she was lactating blood, just that she was pumping it which is unfortunately thing that does happen.
@DaniANDNoe 4 жыл бұрын
caitosanna she could have had a blood clot and you will pump out blood. It’s called “strawberry milk” and it is definitely a thing.
@sandobrownski 4 жыл бұрын
kennyfromdablock oh yes but that’s a clot 🤷♀️ I’ve had two Ehhh it’s not a contest lol the more you know 🌈
@thechristelle4 4 жыл бұрын
caitosanna JUST HOW DARE YOU say that to a young mom who tried to feed her baby with her boobs and failed. If you don’t know just don’t say anything but that’s so rude of you to say that she’s too dramatic. That’s her experience, she’s kind enough to tell us so expecting mothers can know what could happen but you and your stupid face decide to make a stupid comment that you should have kept to yourself.
@thetruth2270 4 жыл бұрын
I just had my son one month ago, I'm 17. During my experience so far, the birthing process was exactly how it was described to me. Period cramps to the extreme...plus I lost a lot of weight throughout, and after my pregnancy. But my son is healthy and that's all I want.
@CoffeeQueen03 4 жыл бұрын
Awww! Best wishes to you and Baby
@languagenerd2231 3 жыл бұрын
I just turned 18 and just got pregnant. I wanted it, and so does he. We love our little bean, but so far, pregnancy has not been easy, and even watching this video wouldn’t have been enough to stop him. It’s been really rough tho and I’m only on 8.5 weeks 🥲
@christengardner1466 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 👏 girl I'm proud of u and idk you. I'm going to have my baby this year hoping it goes well
@christengardner1466 3 жыл бұрын
@@languagenerd2231 hey hun how's it going hope your doing great and definitely praying for all three of you😊☺️
@AmyHoldaway27 2 жыл бұрын
@@christengardner1466 doing good, I changed my username haha. My baby is 4 months now c:
@Dollybouzi 4 жыл бұрын
“Pumping blood” *exist the chat*
@iceprincess2134 4 жыл бұрын
Based on her description she wasn't actually having a problem producing milk, but having trouble getting it out. My only guess is she didn't learn to latch properly and had the wrong funnel size for her pump because bleeding shouldn't happen when you have a good latch and you certainly don't have engorged, hard boobs if you're not producing.
@katiemccarty6351 4 жыл бұрын
She likely had cracked, dry nipples that bled into the milk. She was not actually pumping blood, lol
@bongiwexulu2091 3 жыл бұрын
SAME
@ioannavalathan9290 3 жыл бұрын
What Ice said. Engorged boobs mean there was too much milk in them that wasn't getting out.
@namjune1933 4 жыл бұрын
I literally just changed my mind about having kids. ✌🏻
@annansanchez 4 жыл бұрын
namjune everyone is different because what they explained never happened to me, none of it except the after belly of course but mine stayed tiny, you might not get some of that either every one is different 😀
@maceyporter7827 4 жыл бұрын
People don’t talk about this because then no one would want to have kids... this video solidifies that
@alyssal1773 4 жыл бұрын
Than do the watch the video, it's your and their caught for clicking on the video not the channel's problem it's yours :)
@sunnyneonraye1459 4 жыл бұрын
Nah, I still want kids.
@aditirawat5412 4 жыл бұрын
I always wanted 3 kids... NOW its just me myselfand I😅😅
@linchuue3090 4 жыл бұрын
I've always flirted with the idea of adopting, I think I might actually ask it out now
@breenm8805 4 жыл бұрын
And then they wonder why younger generations don't want any kids.
@cynthiamahaffey4680 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 41 no kids watching this to insure I never do
@lindiwengwevela524 4 жыл бұрын
Well, it's also cause we don't even get paid enough to take care of ourselves, much less another human.
@cheesetoast2659 4 жыл бұрын
@@lindiwengwevela524 Thats for sure my mom always ask me to have another baby . I'm like when I get rich sure lmao.
@lindiwengwevela524 4 жыл бұрын
@@cheesetoast2659 LOL
@svasianfilipiname6603 4 жыл бұрын
It's too expensive even if they wanted to!
@ariannajennings5271 4 жыл бұрын
They need more videos like this as a young single mom without a lot of help, it’s cool to hear other people stories so I know that I’m not the only one and feel more connected to society.
@lastchance1101 4 жыл бұрын
💛💛💛
@mazayashah213 4 жыл бұрын
😭 I feel you on the not a lot of help part. Lots of love and hugs for you and your family
@litastardreams 4 жыл бұрын
I was a young single mom, too. Still am, in a way! (Maybe not so much "young" anymore... haha...) And it was overwhelming and felt lonely. I didn't have any friends in the same boat so I didn't get a lot of true understanding. You're not alone! And I'm sure you're doing a better job than you know.
@ariannajennings5271 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you alll!!! I ow your kindness is insane
@nlellison99 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you so much I'm a young mom to and have delt with alot of these issues I struggle with accepting my body now but wouldnt change it for the world because my baby is worth all the insecurities
@averageapple2691 4 жыл бұрын
And this my friends, is why i want to adopt kids. You still get the joy of having kids WITHOUT making your body suffer AND then you can give kids without a family a loving new home. Win win all around
@kim-ancao8996 3 жыл бұрын
All the pain, blood, gore, etc is soooo worth it. My body will never be the same but the love I have for the little alien inside of me was something I never thought i knew. I used to cuddle my bump to sleep and now I can cuddle my baby ❤️❤️❤️
@ceciliechristensen2585 4 жыл бұрын
If i get a Boy. Im going to learn him how to take responsibility, respect every women. Respect every man. Learning him that you shouldnt judge People by sexuality Learn him that his feelings Are okay. Teaching him not to call Girls swear words or sexuallising words. Not to harras Anybody, Treat People nicely like you want to be treated yourself. And that they need to work like clean, cooking, Laundry, And Teaching Them house chores Arent a "womens work. If i get a girl. Teaching her that women and men Are equal. That they can do what They set their heads to. That they can wear whatever They want. That they Are buatifull without makeup. That you shouldnt treat someone for a Thing somebody Else did. Not All men Are bad. But alot is. And alot is going to use Them. That they have to work twice as Hard as men. But overall. I Would teach Them how to be themselves. And teach Them that not All opinions matter.
@lizk6007 4 жыл бұрын
Hey look, more reasons to never have a baby. I’ll add them to the giant Everest-sized pile of NOOOPE! *shudder*
@sarasamaletdin4574 4 жыл бұрын
So did you miss them all saying it was worth it? And we are all getting old anyway. So you don’t have to have kids but vanity is poor reason not to.
@lizk6007 4 жыл бұрын
Sara Samaletdin Did you miss me clearly saying I had a huge pile of other reasons why I don’t want kids? I’d say the already overburdened and overpopulated planet, the physical pain and horrors of pregnancy, my own mental health, time, freedom, career, creativity, travel, and alone time rank above the vanity. I didn’t mention anything about the way I look. And what on earth does getting old have to do with it? Yes, we’re all going to get old and wrinkly one day (if we’re lucky!). That’s a fact of life and happens kids or no kids. What matters to me is what I do and how I live on the way to that point.
@Lovagechannel 4 жыл бұрын
Amen to that. I can respect the amazing work moms do, but it is definitely not for me.
@hillarybanks2773 4 жыл бұрын
Sara Samaletdin there is no “poor” reason to not want kids... that’s like saying theres a poor reason for not liking or wanting chocolate ice cream, or the flu shot. Any reason is a good and valid reason. Not everyone wants certain things and that’s fine and no one should have to have an explanation to justify their life choices
@thechristelle4 4 жыл бұрын
You should watch a video on the great aspects of pregnancy l/having a child too before making a decision
@gemayescasaleman8350 4 жыл бұрын
Other people: the best contraceptive Is The pill Me: check out this buzzfeed vid
@micaelasilva4629 4 жыл бұрын
Gema Yescas Alemán idk about the pill being the best, I got pregnant while taking it daily exactly as directed 🤷🏻♀️😂
@e.1419 4 жыл бұрын
@@micaelasilva4629 my mom did too. I'm trying to not think about it 😂 (pls spare me)
@o0pinkyyy0o 4 жыл бұрын
2 weeks postpartum, i can relate to almost everything said here and i dont regret carrying and growing my baby for the past 9 months 💖
@yulaixo6722 4 жыл бұрын
Ok let me tell you not every women go through this, I’m pregnant and most of these things never happened to me.
@DL-idk 4 жыл бұрын
But you'll never know unless you try. And once you try there's no going back...
@sunnyneonraye1459 4 жыл бұрын
Which is why you need to know that you really want it.
@SwayTree 4 жыл бұрын
Read the title. It's about what's happens AFTER the pregnancy. Everything ahead of you!
@ldavey1398 4 жыл бұрын
This video is the best contraception. I’m 37 and never wanted them. Recently I had a couple of “hmm maybe...” thoughts but this just cemented it. I like my body as it is. Fair play to all the mums out there though - you’re all heroes and you have my utmost respect!
@sandobrownski 4 жыл бұрын
Louise Lowe at 37? Dude I’m 35. Are you also like ridiculously-good-looking? Cause I have two. Keep hmmm maybeing cause it was worth it for me and im vain
@thechristelle4 4 жыл бұрын
To had to your reasons not to have children : du to all the changes the body goes through during pregnancy, I heard the more you have children the less life expectancy you have 🤷🏽♀️ don’t know if it’s true tho.
@pavithraravi3452 4 жыл бұрын
You do you girl ! 🤗
@sandobrownski 4 жыл бұрын
thechristelle4 I’ve heard quite the opposite the more children you’ve got the more will you have to live and you body produces natural antioxidants
@abcdefg2174 4 жыл бұрын
@@thechristelle4 It could be because of the constant stress, stress has such a huge effect on your physical health
@ariab9889 4 жыл бұрын
The mother of the twins is so classy and cute
@daniellajustine7176 4 жыл бұрын
I have a 9 month old daughter and I have none of these I guess I’m blessed 🤷🏼♀️
@madalynberry7611 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone is like “this video is free birth control” but this just makes me wanna have babies more. I’m ok with going they the pain for the beautiful baby I will have in the future.
@angxxox 4 жыл бұрын
Madalyn Berry I was thinking the same thing! Like it’s so worth it for such a beautiful tiny human
@miasmunchkins3948 4 жыл бұрын
I love babies and small kids. I love all the cool gear. I still definitely want to be a mom in the future.
@CoffeeQueen03 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@riverclark6847 4 жыл бұрын
I just got comfortable with my body.... and now I'm 8 months pregnant. Yay....
@sarahgumball8597 4 жыл бұрын
River Clark you can do it 👏🏻💕
@SuelyPio 4 жыл бұрын
Me too... Got into Keto lost weight without suffering for the first time in my life and was happy asf... then boom.... Pregnant
@corablah9809 4 жыл бұрын
When you give birth, you'll realize just how strong you are, you're stronger than you will EVER realize. Be patient, educate yourself, and don't trust doctors with everything
@Tayona1095 4 жыл бұрын
Same. Lost 25lbs and was finally content with how I looked then got pregnant less than 6 mo the later. I just had my baby a month ago.
@neenweenbean 4 жыл бұрын
Was gonna send this to my pregnant friend... only 5 minutes in and I decided not to after all..
@toukatee9303 4 жыл бұрын
Would be a really bad decision
@gdfbmvjsvb 4 жыл бұрын
lol same. i wanted to send it to my sister in law as a cute entertainment. well i don’t want to scare her lmao
@princess_sonianevermind 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@RosemaryTurner2002 4 жыл бұрын
@@gdfbmvjsvb Darn. You should've sent it to her. It would have been hella entertaining for to see her freak out.
@thegirlwiththecontroller1164 4 жыл бұрын
Same. I don't want to freak her out.
@1nellychick 4 жыл бұрын
I’m asexual and have no desire in having kids lol still find these videos interesting.
@shamimjafari 4 жыл бұрын
I have nothing to comment but much much love for these wonderful human beings. As a 30 year old woman who has never been in a serious relationship let alone being a mother I admire you all to go through all of this and most importantly to share them with us so openly.
@abbyo5199 4 жыл бұрын
I read this as *"surprising things your baby does after childbirth "*
@mymo_on4722 4 жыл бұрын
SAME, I didn't even realise I read it wrong until you said so. I should've realised by the video...
@abbyalert8737 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@skylar8277 4 жыл бұрын
Live
@simplyitsashley5009 4 жыл бұрын
Mymo_on same
@katchmeifyoucan1131 3 жыл бұрын
That's a whole nother video.
@jessflo9 4 жыл бұрын
this has solidified the fact that i don't ever want to get pregnant
@hydebordercollie5620 4 жыл бұрын
I’m planning on getting pregnant this year and I’ve watched so much on the positives that now it’s an eye opener to see what happens after birth. Thank you so much for this video!
@racheld9897 2 жыл бұрын
This is wholeheartedly the best video I’ve ever watched. The sheer honesty and how this had a comical touch is what we all needed to break the barrier to the scary side of pregnancy. Thank you ladies for your stories 😂💕
@kassandrab665 4 жыл бұрын
They also don’t tell you that when you breast feed it’s also painful in your uterus because it’s contracting. And then it feels like labor again but not quite as bad. Eventually it goes away but still hurts a lot.
@QuietlyCurious 4 жыл бұрын
Wow.
@kimberlypaul3656 4 жыл бұрын
This didn’t happen to me with my first. Holy cow did it get me the second time around. Next baby will be taking a hot water bottle to the hospital for after.
@louisen6834 4 жыл бұрын
Omg yes, my first wasn’t too bad but it was horrible with my second. I’ve been told it gets worse with each pregnancy 😬
@juliecross9387 Жыл бұрын
Not everyone has this but it can be a shock to have "pains" during feeding. Knowing this prevents bleeding too much and helps shrink your uterus back to normal size is worth focusing on till it subsides.
@elizabethzenner8457 4 жыл бұрын
I have so much respect for these women for talking about this on such a public platform. But I’m also keeping/replacing my IUD for the rest of my childbearing years
@SamanthaTimm 3 жыл бұрын
I’m almost 9 months pregnant and y’all are scaring me.
@danny55430 2 жыл бұрын
How's your baby now 😊 bet your happy
@ashleybonato8958 4 жыл бұрын
“You’re breast tend to get bigger” Me being an A cup: Yes please🤩
@karachristiansen192 4 жыл бұрын
Me being an I cup: 😳😢
@isab8563 4 жыл бұрын
i’m 12 and a b cup
@katelyntapia3056 3 жыл бұрын
@@karachristiansen192 I'm a f 😫 I couldn't imagine anything bigger
@raygan5466 3 жыл бұрын
@@isab8563 same
@raygan5466 3 жыл бұрын
@@katelyntapia3056 holy -
@ishellsea_ 4 жыл бұрын
So you’re telling me all the money I’m putting into laser hair removal is a waste? 😭😭
@NVME480 4 жыл бұрын
I had laser prior to pregnancy and I am still good after having my baby. Just depends on each person.
@radha8949 4 жыл бұрын
@@NVME480 Thank God. Atleast there is some hope. My heart just sank after I saw that.
@angelinajolie8164 4 жыл бұрын
😝😝😝😝😝
@nickelpennybanks 4 жыл бұрын
Where I go they have a lifetime policy. So if at any time the hair comes back you can go back for free to remove it.
@ishellsea_ 4 жыл бұрын
CJ WHERE DO YOU GO!?
@jsaenz1992 4 жыл бұрын
Shout out to my brand new IUD!
@LP-vd3hn 4 жыл бұрын
Jessica Saenz 🙌🏻
@elizabethc1722 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@abb2234 4 жыл бұрын
omg I loved this video.. all of it is so true.. I laughed I cried a moment.. it's so nice to hear other moms going through what i have with both my pregnancies but it's the best gift in the world to be a MOM!!!! I love it more than anything ever!
@muno9715 4 жыл бұрын
Dear moms, thx for sharing these 'embarrassing' details, it is soooo nice to hear them and gives us a little insight and a lot to think about🖤
@ariellenats 4 жыл бұрын
Me reading the title: Surprising things your *baby* does after birth. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@tiffanysnodgrass2136 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@somethingsomethingsomethin8366 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@jabulilenkambule4166 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@Blackrose-yx4ed 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@chloecharbonneau4307 4 жыл бұрын
Only reason I clicked on this.
@1122leotie 4 жыл бұрын
They didnt even cover C-Section births. Those come with all that and a whole nother list of things that happen to your body afterwards.
@-A-09 4 жыл бұрын
This! 👆
@chelseatermane5499 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss...I had a c section a month ago and my lower abdomen is still numb
@Lex29302 4 жыл бұрын
Chelsea Guinn is that normal?
@chelseatermane5499 4 жыл бұрын
According to what my doctor said Yes but it’s very weird to me lol
@joanagarcia5427 4 жыл бұрын
Chelsea Guinn i had my son 2 years ago and my lower abdomen is numb too it feels so weird at times
@BirdieGates 4 жыл бұрын
6 weeks after having my son and I’m still sore. I feel like I’ll never been the same again. People tell you what to expect after having the baby baby-wise, but don’t tell you what to expect with your own body. You are so unbelievably sore and emotional and tired but still have to look after this little bundle of joy. It’s crazy.
@alenisrodriguez1774 4 жыл бұрын
6 months after having my son and I still feel drained and not pleased with myself , after birth could be temporary or permanent . And they never tell you what your going to expect after birth.
@lemab8971 2 жыл бұрын
Just had my second baby 3 weeks ago and I can say yes to every single thing these women experienced are true. I got all of them. Nobody tells you these things happen and how much your body changes but women are built differently. Our bodies are like magic!
@nenaj1 4 жыл бұрын
I had a good pregnancy thank God. Easy natural labor....I did have 3 doses of epidural though. Morning sickness was 24/7 for 3 months straight. I was glowing. My skin and hair. I didn't get any stretch Mark's. It's genetic on my mom's side of the family. Never had postpartum depression. My baby was born in the summer. I was out with her all the time. Didnt have to be locked inside the home in the cold. She was a pretty easy baby. At 4 months old she started sleeping the whole night. She is now 11 years old 🧡
@diora266 4 жыл бұрын
good for you God bless
@HollehhMarie 4 жыл бұрын
Natural isn't with epidural though..? That just a vaginal birth which is still AMAZING and honestly giving birth (I've had an epidural and a natural) was the best thing I've ever done and my biggest accomplishment lol
@nataliebatista651 4 жыл бұрын
Holly Long a natural birth is a birth that doesn’t need medical intervention, such as c section. Different people have different mentalities on what’s natural or not.
@aditi3333 4 жыл бұрын
@@nataliebatista651 actually an epidural isn't considered natural. Natural is no drugs/ interventions, as the name suggests.
@nataliebatista651 4 жыл бұрын
aditi3333 like I said depends on the person.
@shrekisamazing6098 4 жыл бұрын
Nobody: KZfaq: tImE to recommend this
@sydneymccarthy7015 4 жыл бұрын
Shrek Is amazing it’s was just posted
@Em-mu8ne 4 жыл бұрын
Is see your a woman/man of culture too.
@SweetGee321 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo 😂
@FearonlyAllah-fh5kw 3 жыл бұрын
I had PUPPS rash, "morning sickness" that lasted all day, every day, my entire pregnancy, horrible edema third trimester, mild pre-eclampsia, mild cholestasis, and severe anemia during my pregnancy/immediately post delivery. It was miserable, but so worth it once I saw my baby boy for the first time, ma shah Allah!
@dani-mitebakes2064 4 жыл бұрын
So good to have this out there. I'm 2.5 years post partum and this stuff is so common but no one talks about them!
@boopboop3416 4 жыл бұрын
Never having kids I didn’t want them anyway but this is the cherry on top
@mauricelynn6291 4 жыл бұрын
My brother grew up too fast.. poor guy lmao Father at 15, single father at 16 (gf’s suicide) But he’s mature now. He was never able to hang out with his friends, go to parties, get drunk and high. He wanted to be there for his twin girls. He did online school, graduated and is becoming a cop. He’s 21 now, still there for his girls.
@soumyaagarwal8872 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@user-dc9oq2pr6v 2 жыл бұрын
😎
@juliawincentsoprano5744 4 жыл бұрын
I am beyond thankful to the women who make and who are in these videos, it truly helps alot!
@shakuntalasingh2178 2 жыл бұрын
The end of this video was so good and assuring. I am 21weeks pregnant now and and really scared but at the same time I realized its a miracle to give birth and embrace the imperfections it brings. God bless these ladies they are giving hopes to expecting moms like me.
@Riyaanreality 4 жыл бұрын
Is a child worth all this?😱😱 I might as well adopt. Pregnancy and post-pregnancy sounds like a horror movie.
@Tara-id3rk 4 жыл бұрын
riyaan Totally worth it. That’s why many women have more than one baby.
@minchen3171 4 жыл бұрын
@@Tara-id3rk when your body is already distroyd. A secound rund is almost for free.
@midnightmist814 4 жыл бұрын
I’d definitely rather adopt
@sleepyote 4 жыл бұрын
@@Tara-id3rk there are many kids who need a family, adoption is just as important.
@sleepyote 4 жыл бұрын
I'd rather adopt too. One, because I'm scared, and two, a genetic condition (NF) I don't want to pass on to my child.
@erikadalrymple2054 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t like the “I don’t know if it’ll ever go away” part 😂😬
@casianfelix1932 4 жыл бұрын
I love the fact that they're embracing their bodies... I have a toddler and I have no problem with mine... especially my stretched marks😁
@cosmicbodyguards4285 2 жыл бұрын
These moms are STUNNING! All of them. To the mom’s in this video - you are not just a mother. You are a woman & how glorious that truth is. I have a lot of residual body changes after my pregnancy 13 years ago. I was 17 years old & it took a toll on me for sure. Now I am 30 as of June this year and God decided it was randomly time for me to get to have this journey again as a grown woman, who loves herself, knows her value & I see this whole experience so differently so far this time around. It’s okay that we look in the mirror & see scars but don’t forget to also see the strength.
@XumerRaine 4 жыл бұрын
This is my biggest issue regarding having my own biological children.
@mahrysa12 4 жыл бұрын
My feet never grew. I didn’t gain weight anywhere besides thighs and booty, both went away right after birth. My skin didn’t get more sensitive. I didn’t get weird veins. My breasts and nipples didn’t change. I didn’t get hemorrhoids. These are all very relative to each mother. I’m thankful to have had none of these issues.
@KRL1999 4 жыл бұрын
Same here! I never even bought maternity clothes, I just had to unzip my jeans. Literally left the hospital wearing a pair of jeans that fit even before I got pregnant lol. I personally think a LOT of these things are related to the lifestyle of the mother.
@kc3014 4 жыл бұрын
Kaitlyn 990 It’s not really lifestyle, it’s mainly genes. Just like how your period can be similar to your biological mothers because of genes, your pregnancy is the same. (Obviously not for everyone but definitely for most)
@KTKRules 4 жыл бұрын
More men need to watch this so they know what happens if it was a partnered decision, if it wasn't so they know what their baby mommas went through or will go through.
@liam9716 4 жыл бұрын
It really touched me when she said "my body is capable of growing a human being" that is indeed the best part, you have given so much up for him, that is love and he grows from it like a feeble seed planted who grows into a strong tree, it is really beautiful. That is how God loves us, gives us everything and that is how we should love him, giving him everything.
@katrienvdk 4 жыл бұрын
Watching this while pregnant and after every person talks about their experience I’m like “fml”
@lindseypoyner2839 4 жыл бұрын
katrienvdk not everyone has the same experience my first time I didn’t have any of these issues. I even was within the same weight range pretty quickly, if you exercise and take care of yourself they say it can help with some of these issues.
@myownheroisonlyme5721 4 жыл бұрын
Those faces they made when talking about their babies. You can tell they love them. Wait until they're teenagers.
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