Your Ultimate Superpower When Dealing With A Narcissist

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4 жыл бұрын

Narcissists, controllers that they are, want to drain you of your psychological energy. They seek to elevate themselves by keeping you feeling uncertain about yourself. Psychotherapist Dr. Les Carter calmly asserts how you can find ultimate power as you focus on your inner resolve to be who you choose to be. As you build upon your inner strength, there is one statement that will become foundational to your superpower to deal with the narcissists in your life.
Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who lives in Dallas, Tx. In the past 40 years he has conducted over 60,000 counseling sessions and many workshops and seminars. He specializes in anger management and narcissistic personality disorder.
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@teachersusanute199 4 жыл бұрын

My narc ex said: If you leave me you and your kids will starve on the streets. Well, he was wrong. My sons and I built a great family life and I started a new career path in teaching. He was so wrong. 😁

@nelumbonucifera148 4 жыл бұрын

Indifference. Do not react and give them the fuel to play on. When there is no audience, they will take their show elsewhere to perform for others. Stay empowered and safe, dear survivors!

@McJc09 4 жыл бұрын

Repeat after me.. what someone thinks off me is not my business!

@sarahstrong7174 4 жыл бұрын

If the poor narcissist is so unhappy with you & finds you such a bad person to be with then maybe you should leave in order to help them make their life better. "Yes I quite agree with you dear. You will be so much happier without me."

@hyde33 3 жыл бұрын

It amazes me just how real this personality disorder really is.

@wandag.1997 4 жыл бұрын

You can't even imagine how much you have changed my life. I had a child with a narcissist 24 years ago. I felt useless, unattractive, and other emotions that I cannot even describe. Its like if I needed his approval to just live. I didnt know why I stayed with him even though he never said sorry for the many many things he did. A HUGE THANK YOU. Now I have the strength to walk away from him. He no longer has a hold on me. Now I have to work on feeling...because I dont find pleasure in anything. I think I am numb but not in a good way. But I know that time heals. Im giving myself time.

@skunkproductionsMLA 4 жыл бұрын

The wind changes when a narcissist comes. You can never change the direction of the wind, but you can adjust your sails. But if you are sick of changing sails all the time, find your peace in more tranquil waters.

@rangerdoc1029 3 жыл бұрын

Having emotional maturity & self control is your superpower. It's the very essence of what they lack.

@rethinkingchange1319 4 жыл бұрын

"I cannot change others, and so I change myself."

@meggallucci5300 4 жыл бұрын

Trusting yourself is a deterrent to gaslighting.

@latenitetubing 2 жыл бұрын

Survival Thinking Style:

@ezrc9294 3 жыл бұрын

Dignity and self worth are the primary targets for destruction in the narcissist pathway. For to stand up for truth and honesty marks you for annihilation

@ministryontheroad5052 3 жыл бұрын

Watched this on the edge of my seat through to the end! When doc finished with the question. Do you trust yourself? I bawled my eyes out with relief, joy, validation. Thank you doc you're a good man. You're keeping us out of the lions den.✌❤

@janiegonzales7991 4 жыл бұрын

It has nothing to do with me, their actions are a reflection of who they are. A narcissist is a toxic person, so run as far as you can from them and free yourself.

@allthingsarepossibleinChrist 4 жыл бұрын

Staying calm and focusing on self.

@onispookr1117 4 жыл бұрын

“I’m good at being me.” Duuude you just blew my mind

@laurarader6846 3 жыл бұрын

Trust the one who's earned it. Yourself.

@vitalule8889 4 жыл бұрын

You are the most loving person I ever heard speaking, I mean extremely helpful, I am so thankful for your supporting the needy and the poor people like me.....

@mightymouse1005 3 жыл бұрын

My cryptonite was..i let him know " I know my value and its much higher than yours "

@hudsonneuro7796 4 жыл бұрын

To me, the hallmark of narcissism is their insistence on setting up a one-down-one -up relationship with you. Making you doubt yourself and your judgment is necessary to put and keep you "one down".