I noticed that, too. I always say, "you never know a person until you live w/them". He knows her!

Facts!

They were probably both abusive. He was financially and emotionally abusive, you can tell that just from this clip, he used to not buy her medication, he used to leave her to do the majority of the childcare, and he has recently sold her a faulty car. She used to hit him. It's all abuse. It's good they are not together anymore, their relationship was obviously toxic.

Exactly. Let's of people use bipolar as an excuse to act a fool. That is the reason why they have to take their meds and gave coping mechanisms.

Okay well not everyone had healthy coping mechanism and sometimes the disease does get the better of you, and you don’t have HER bipolar… or her temperament- bipolar people aren’t a monolith, sighed someone with adhd, bpd, and anxiety. Not saying violence is ever okay, not saying she was justified, but u inserting yourself into the equation of her life and her emotional maturity is downright obnoxious and dogmatic.

As a war veteran, I struggle with PTSD. You are right that it is our responsibility to take care of ourselves. Self-care mentally is important. For a couple of years, I was in total denial that I can handle myself just fine. But if you don't take care of yourself mentally you will break down.

I wished my dad had been one of those men.

So a women would have stepped aside to raise kids

Where do you like to go on the weekends? I’m just trying to figure out where i can find myself a woman like you. PREACH IT

agreed 100%

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OH NOW 😅

Yes please.

i kinda get it but i do believe her story should matter. i am all for parents needing to help support their children but not taking into account other things in their lives is wrong. if she has debt shes working to pay off fixing a car etc taking almost a thousand from her could result in her not having power or gas to work or money to pay rent etc. thats wrong imo

@@anthonyruiz8519 So we shouldn't hold people to their financial responsibility as parents because they have proven to be financially irresponsible by racking up large amounts of debt? She has no explanation as for why she quit her minimum wage job but left without anything else lined up, relyed on credit and built up debt and now she wants to be cut a break on her child support obligations so she can save up money to pay off her debt. See unfortunately considering someone's debt is irrelevant in child support cases, your support obligations are based on your income so even if she was allowed a grace period to take care of her debt she would just be accumulating more debt in the back payments on support from the date of the ruling

@@anthonyruiz8519 she needs to pay her debt yes but the kids come first so they should not miss out because the mother has debts... she needs to pay up...

@@tylergartner4069 She actually explained that her husband refused to buy her medication that she needs to manage her mental health condition. I believe it is relatively obvious with that information why she quit her job, and I believe that he should be considered an abuser in this scenario.

@@nellysmith6006 "he let my medication..... well I was off my meds and he said he couldn't afford to cover my medication" It's convenient that everything is his fault, notice how she claimed the reason she went upside his head was because the child was crying all day and he wasn't giving her enough help. Then when the judge asked if was an isolated incident and the husband clarified it wasn't suddenly the story changed to it being because she was off her medication. Seems to me she's just allergic to accountability, her debts are his fault, her violent outbursts are because she's bipolar and he's not helping her enough but then they're actually because she was off her meds and that also wasn't her fault because he couldn't afford to pay for them....

Those are the ones that beat yo ass when nobody's looking!!

Right

Yup

I agree with you and I have bipolar and I don't do that

I to have bpc and I never have at any time hit or hurt my husband. I've had it for years,I take my meds every day

Same here. It's like "the devil made me do it".

Eye of the beholder . But he's very ugly emotionally bc you can tell he drug her through the mud. Sickness and in health. Bipolar is Sickness. So he should have been there for her.

Time stamp?

@@Shade557first one was 3:16

@@Shade557oh and the second quote comes from the judge right after maybe 3:19

Well he is a handsome man fr

Is that a real court?

@@taeggukvlog nah

Heard they working on one

I don't think they will give her a channel but maybe a TV program

They need to, I'm sick of Judge Mathis, always have Bitter Single Mothers, he always downgrade all Black Fathers down when it comes to Child Support, he never had any Single Dads Cases.

It’s called acting.

I think she mentioned it, because her partner was stealing/hiding/witholding her medication.

@@nellysmith6006 neither he couldnt afford it

@@Leo42.069 he was in charge of the finances and didn't give her the money to buy her the medication for her mental health condition, so that she would become unstable and he could use that instability as an excuse for having full custody, and then claiming child support. He was just manipulative.

@@nellysmith6006 bro you cant give someone money you dont have plus she should be working to get money even if its just enough for her medicine as everyone in chat who says they have bpd it is no one's responsibility but hers that she stays medicated

My mom does it all the time and will use as an excuse to belittle people and wanna fight people.

i agree but these are just scenarios and actors so that’s why it’s not as official as it should be

@@ilianamartinez3658 I was about to ask is this real because should they have proof of all this

Yes agreed they should have to bring proof of the things not being mean but people can easily lie about something like that and the proof should have to be shown on paper of what they are paying

Oh man it's a pet peeve for me

yeah we deal with that and get called pussies for being hit by a woman

She probably went upside his shit in the parking lot.

Probably

"I said put my food in the mf microwave it's cold"!🤣 (Throws plate upside dude head like color purple 😂)

I didn’t mean to laugh at that part but it was the way he said it with the face expression 😂😂😂😂

They are both abusive to each other in different way. The relationship was a dumpster fire, but she's not the only one at fault. Witholding someone's medication is also abusive.

@@nellysmith6006 💯 and there is a VERY clear relationship between her condition being adequately treated, her symptoms, and what he alleges as abuse.

I agree an apology and follow it up with permanently changed behavior. Bc unless they mean it an apology is just words.

​@@brianawhittaker8152 Praying you never need medication to live and can't get access to it.

He looks nervous the whole time.

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Right

My god, thanks for sharing your story. I just learned a lot. I’m glad your children had you, and your ex eventually received the help she needed.

I would never hurt my baby and I'm bipolar but when I was unmedicated before I knew, I had bad hallucinations and paranoia so hopefully she got the help she needed. Sounds like more is going on as well but I'm happy for you and your kids. Does she talk to them at all?

@@mmokuso I get along with my ex very well. She called me yesterday for some advise. My son has a limited relationship with his mom. My daughter has three children and has no contact with the ex by her choice. The ex is ok with this arrangement and is doing well. I can hold decent conversations with the ex and I know when to either change the topic or end the exchange before she goes into her usual ranting. I can tell if she skips her meds but she rarely does that as she doesn't like herself from it. She can't keep frends or even get along with her own family. She is not a bad or evil person at all. She simply gets confused with her emotions like she is on overdrive. There is no middle ground once she gets an idea in her mind she has a difficult time understanding how to change or let it go. It wasn't all bad all of the time but when it went wrong it was definitely a struggle as she could see the harm but couldn't stop herself from her mission to make everyone see it her way. That's why many people have a hard time being around her as her behavior can be disturbing. The good news now that she is much older and understands how her thought process was off kilter she is aware and is on proper medication and is living her best life. I'm actually very proud of her for being able to defuse her own behavior. She has the ability to slow down and think about things and what's the best outcome where before she just bullied her way through. The best news for bipolar sufferers which has many different levels there is help if you find the right doctor and choose to listen and learn.

@@BuellXB12SDucati1198 good for her I'll keep all of you in my prayers. I hope my illness never gets that hard for me :/

So your perfect? Everyone deals with her when it's convenient for them. But if anything happens to her I can tell you now a lot of y'all have to check your own flaws? So are your children punishing her because of the disease and she has no choice other to agree not to go around people.

I came for this 😂😂

I think she was being sarcastic. At least, I hope so. 😩😩

True. And financial abuse is still abuse. Witholding a mentally ill person medication is extremely abusive behaviour.

@@nellysmith6006 it wasnt tho he just couldnt afford it

The difference is her loved one was not responsible and was witholding the medication. This is also abuse.

Same! I was walking back holding my phone trying to finish the video

ME TOOO BRO

That’s what I thought !!!

Does the other parent ask for child suplort

@@Francofit When they first separated it was supposed to be 50/50 custody (3 days with the child and then the next week 4 days). Each would pay for what the child needed. Then it dropped to one day a week (usually it is about 3 days a month they see their child). I suspect looking after a toddler half of the week was too daunting.

@@shannonbrice8012 -This happened with my ex. As soon as I had our child 95% I went straight to court for full custody and support. What is stopping this mother from doing the same? If she isn’t going to take him to court then she can’t complain. Once he is ordered getting behind will have ramifications like jail time or losing his dr. License

My stepdaughter’s mother just started paying child support that has been in arrears for years. My stepdaughter is 30.

Welcome to the Judge Vonda B. Family 👩🏾‍⚖️❤👀🍿☕

Just remember it's actually not a real courtroom. They are all actors and she isn't a judge, just making sure

@@stevenazilazian7248 yesh i know its still entertaining

Or, if every time the man says he's a rapper. 😂😂

That how con artists do👹🤛🏾💯

She sounds absurd 🤡🤛🏾

😅glad I’m not the only one on my lunch break

🤣 oh man do I feel you on this… I’m a truck driver and I’m out here thinking hurry up I gotta get back on the road…

Bye 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Man 🤣🤣🤣

i dont understand that either, when the judge said that with the insurance it was going up to 900 i was like what bout the guy? isnt he going to pay half?

@@ultimateevilz8937 in the state of texas apparently the person paying child support pays for insurance unless agreed with the other side

I mean stealing a bipolar persons medication is kind of abusive.

@@nellysmith6006 bro didnt steal it he couldnt afford it

I also dated someone bipolar and had the complete opposite experience. You just dated a shitty person. People with mental health issues are more likely to be victims of abuse than abusers. That being said I’m still sorry for all of the pain and potential trauma that they may have caused you and I hope you’re able to heal.

@@mackenziek830 I’m glad it’s only my experience with them because now I’m actually afraid to even go near one to friend them. I don’t want to discriminate so I definitely need to work in it (:

It's not discrimination it's keeping yourself safe. Don't feel bad at all.

no no feel bad lol mental illness is a spectrum the people you dealt with were unstable and whatever qualities came with that but to slap that label on every bipolar individual is childish yes you went through something whatever that is you can go get that fixed though and learn to cope and move along

​@ominouscherub you sound the like type of person who would go piss a bear off and be upset it mauled you

I have as nurse has taken care of people inpatient psych hospitals. Alot of patients have reported to me that the meds side effects are the reason why they stopped taking their meds. I hope one day your children will understand you. I commend you for sticking to your vows because you could have gotten a divorce. People with mental illness need not just medication they need a support system along with therapy. Next time your children give you grief over staying with your wife. Tell them how would they like to be diagnosed with schizophrenia (I don't know your age) a mental disorder that usually affects young adults in their prime, should you have left them or kicked them out. Good luck

Sorry

Word ! And then the case is short as hell

She was abusive...

God I hope he doesn't end up back with her psycho ass

She was so abusive she has to have supervised visits. If a spouse hits, smacks, throws things or is violent; the other partner should not get back together. If he gets back together with her the child should be removed from their custody.

They are both actors, all of the cases are actors and she isn't even a judge, look it up

@@stevenazilazian7248 yes we know. It is also taken from real court cases

don't ruin it for the rest of us lol 😅😂😊

@@shamekacollier1323 lol I'm sorry😭it says it in her description on her channel tho lol

I'm totally joking 😆

Even though it’s scripted, it does hit very real life situations. I find it interesting that in Texas they require Medicaid for a child be repaid. I think that’s brilliant!

Thanks for ruining it for me!