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Sweet Anita

4 жыл бұрын

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@SweetAnita
@SweetAnita 4 жыл бұрын
Hey guys! you may notice that today I'm not having as many tics, a lot of people ask about it, and the simple answer is that tourette's is not a very consistent condition. Some days I have way more tics than others, and some situations, especially emotional ones, cause me to tic more frequently. I know there are going to be some people who are less attracted to videos like this. But I thought I'd upload it anyway for the loyal members of the community who value my experiences and identity beyond my condition. Thanks to those who take the time to watch, and care more about me than just my tics.
@galvanizedjr9681
@galvanizedjr9681 4 жыл бұрын
SIMP
@ghoster7600
@ghoster7600 4 жыл бұрын
Don't worry Anita I enjoy your content and they way presents yourself. You help a lot of people by talking about different topics and I like that about you :) I hope you enjoy your life
@notramesses4790
@notramesses4790 4 жыл бұрын
No prob. Love you and your vids.💙
@valeforedark
@valeforedark 4 жыл бұрын
That intro bit . is pretty much what a lot of broken females sound like.
@tonywalker1954
@tonywalker1954 4 жыл бұрын
Wow your tics are barely coming out. It's awesome
@nugatu4076
@nugatu4076 4 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend left me because I’m insecure. Wait, she’s back. She just went for coffee.
@wolsh22
@wolsh22 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks sir. You just made my day :D.
@mechadrake
@mechadrake 4 жыл бұрын
ooooooooof! this one is gooooood
@jordyv.703
@jordyv.703 4 жыл бұрын
This is an underrated comment.
@Tenzur
@Tenzur 4 жыл бұрын
Bro. That ain’t yo girl, it’s OUR girl
@Kevn3000
@Kevn3000 4 жыл бұрын
I've seen this joke on reddit so many times
@awesimo4684
@awesimo4684 4 жыл бұрын
I'm the opposite of a Simp. When I like someone, I avoid them at all costs and never say anything to them.
@tripledigit4835
@tripledigit4835 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like the opposite of a simp would be like a MGTOW or an Incel. Simps put women on pedestals, incels do the opposite
@awesimo4684
@awesimo4684 4 жыл бұрын
@@tripledigit4835 Pretty sure MGTOWs and INCELs put women on pedestals too. Then they resent them for it. I think Incels and MGTOWs are what SIMPs evolve into when they don't get laid for long enough.
@tripledigit4835
@tripledigit4835 4 жыл бұрын
Awesimo What would you call the guys who treat women like it's the 1800s
@awesimo4684
@awesimo4684 4 жыл бұрын
@@tripledigit4835 Is "misogynist" allowed?
@tripledigit4835
@tripledigit4835 4 жыл бұрын
Awesimo I can't believe I didn't think that
@absurdious
@absurdious 3 жыл бұрын
I was a simp once, all I can say to other simps is: -Break the chain! Stop everything you're doing and start treating yourselves the way you've been treating your crush. -Be selfish (in a good way), you must become your own priority. -Find real friends, friends who accept you the way you are. -Get rid of the pressure of having sex, it doesn't matter if you're a virgin, the only thing that matters is YOU.
@justahuman9273
@justahuman9273 2 жыл бұрын
Idk if that is good advice.. Maybe just: Respect other people's feelings and listen to them. Just care for them genuinely, without other intentions. Give them space when they need it and be there for them, when they need it. Just go with the flow and don't pressure anyone. Don't expect anything and don't try to interpret anything in your delusional state. Not everything revolves around you. Just be honest and tell your motivations straight away and if someone doesn't want it, just stop and move on.
@absurdious
@absurdious 2 жыл бұрын
@@justahuman9273 I agree with what you are trying to say, but that's the next step, many people think that they're already treating you with respect (nice guys), but the truth is that they need to distance themselves from obsessing over their crush and try to learn how to respect themselves, because most of the times they are convinced they're losers or Beta and that society is pushing them down. That's not true, so they need to distance themselves from this "alpha-beta" narrative and discover their own value before being able to truly appreciate a potential crush's value. Trust me, I know, I used to be a nice guy... I know how to escape that "prison"
@jasonwall2861
@jasonwall2861 2 жыл бұрын
@@absurdious as an unironic “simp in recovery”, this is pretty accurate to most of these peoples mindset. You genuinely think you’re doing everything you can and that you’re caring for the other person. They don’t perceive the other side of the relationship because they’re too preoccupied with making sure that the other person remains interested because of awfully low self esteem. You Genuinely don’t realize how your behavior comes across. It’s why I advocate for staying out of serious relationships until you have enough self esteem to at least respect yourself. Gotta love urself before you love someone else. Also, I think to a lot of Simps, Sex is sort like the ultimate “Love” or whatever, so they just aim for that, not cause they’re simply horny, but because they want the validation of attraction that sex brings with it. They don’t feel like they’re actually wanted until they’re given sex. Again, I think it’s just a serious self confidence issue. Not really sure how to fix it besides what’s already been suggested.
@absurdious
@absurdious 2 жыл бұрын
@@jasonwall2861 I don't know either, but what I suggested worked for me...
@absurdious
@absurdious 2 жыл бұрын
@@JiminysCricket ahahahahahahahahahahahah 1. you don't even know who I am, stranger on the Internet 2. you think there's such a thing like "leagues"... how old are you? 12? 3. It's OK to approach the wrong woman/man, people make mistakes when it comes to relationship, deal with it... sometimes people tend to be annoying, yes, but they can better themselves 4. I don't need your sympathy, I'm happy...
@ParadoxEngineer
@ParadoxEngineer 3 жыл бұрын
The best advice I was ever given was being told as a teenager not to date anyone and to "make myself awesome." Now I'm in my 20s and happily in a relationship.
@GZFX
@GZFX 2 жыл бұрын
This made me smile! Yeah!🌝💪👍
@melonhead8052
@melonhead8052 4 жыл бұрын
"they would give me offerings" the cult of Anita
@FryedPidgey
@FryedPidgey 4 жыл бұрын
Blood for the Blood god!
@vollied4865
@vollied4865 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao I laughed a bit too hard at this 😂
@simphiwe4930
@simphiwe4930 4 жыл бұрын
@@FryedPidgey SKULLS FOR THE SKULL THRONE!!
@marcusbergman6116
@marcusbergman6116 4 жыл бұрын
@@simphiwe4930 "What do you mean you won't date me? I literally made a throne out of the skulls of everyone you said you didn't like ;_; "
@whodis113
@whodis113 4 жыл бұрын
@@marcusbergman6116 that's some yandere shit right there.....
@RoninMrtyr
@RoninMrtyr 2 жыл бұрын
Not going to lie this one hit home hard. I thank you for going out on a limb to talk about this and for not attacking the people and staying focused on the triggers/symptoms. This was REALLY eye opening for me as I realize I've totally done these things not knowing the perspective of the other person and the toxicity it brought. I truely thought I was being genuine and expressing myself and that this is what society/social media taught me was right. I wish I had seen this video when it 1st came out or sooner as the simp behavior cost me some relationships. I do truly care about someone but now we'll have to go separate ways. I truly meant the nice things I did and asked for their time for dates, gaming ect and not just in exchange for reassurances or sex but they didn't see it that way. Thank you for reading (if you do) and I liked this video very much. These types of wholistic viewpoints of another help me with my social queue and autism. Since I seem unable to develop intuitively it's refreshing to have a tutorial or example of another POV. PS - NO I'm NOT trying to simp to you. As much as I like your videos I wouldn't fit your lifestyle. I appreciate the video it was shocking to me!
@emiriidesu
@emiriidesu 2 жыл бұрын
This comment takes an awesome amount of self-reflection and self-awareness on your part, good on you! May you keep growing and learning in positive ways. 😊
@RoninMrtyr
@RoninMrtyr 2 жыл бұрын
@@emiriidesu Thank you. Growing up a lot of social media groomed me to feel the need to gift for affection or reassurance. It's something I'll work on but it would have been nice if they had communicated with me about their feelings like Anita is doing here. On the flip side she (ex not anita) got so used to it that she still asks for favors and I've had to point it out a few times. Please don't take advantage of a simp's offers if you're not returning the feelings even if you really need a new thing. I'm getting off course but yeah ty and I'm working on it.
@manubishe
@manubishe 2 жыл бұрын
She's sweet Anita, not Naive Anita. That's why a former simp will congratulate you on your growth. She's mature, much more mature than me, that's why I'm partially here. I wonder if using simps is the aggressive move by women as retaliation for the expectations of simps.
@RoninMrtyr
@RoninMrtyr 2 жыл бұрын
@@manubishe idk sometimes it seems like the types that want to take advantage of people will find a simp and use them for all they offer. It's almost like an enabler for addicts. I wonder if it falls into the addictive personalities genre? It is really hard to be a nice guy and realize that I have allowed myself to simp before but this relationship was mutual, the ex even said she was GF to family, but now as a friend she is willing to simp me and I'm having to say no and that hurts me as a nice person. I don't feel I'm a simp in the terms Anita listed here where I gift and get angry but I will sometimes gift and not read the situation as just friends or a lady afraid to turn men down.
@manubishe
@manubishe 2 жыл бұрын
@@RoninMrtyr 'afraid to turn down a friend' is a problem. Mistrust strangers.
@AlucardsQuest
@AlucardsQuest 3 жыл бұрын
I wish someone had sat me down and explained this way back in Junior high. I was losing friends and I started buying people things to make them like me more, thinking it would get me somewhere. I empathize with the guy who said he had to step away because he was spending too much money. I didn't understand that relationships were not a business transaction, and as I got older I spent money on strip clubs and online cam girls... It was a financial nightmare. But it took a full on irl rejection to understand that none of this was working, and that I had to start taking care of myself for a change. And little by little I found reasons to like myself so that I didn't "require" attention, or sexual gratification (which I wasn't getting anyway lol). I feel like I'm in a much better place now, balancing my own needs and the needs of others. I'm starting to make friends who specifically don't want anything material out of me, and it's nice. It's not a giant group, and sometimes they have to move away, but I'm hopeful for the future again!
@1inchlegendaka.icebrrg156
@1inchlegendaka.icebrrg156 4 жыл бұрын
She's doing 90% of the community a favour by showing them how not to simp🙃
@Shadic24367
@Shadic24367 4 жыл бұрын
@DANK fr, ain't no fixing that shit
@TheRealMirCat
@TheRealMirCat 4 жыл бұрын
@M 40 I hope you grow up some day
@gladiatordragon6245
@gladiatordragon6245 4 жыл бұрын
@M 40 simp
@Yodalemos
@Yodalemos 4 жыл бұрын
@M 40 you are a patheric individual.
@VeganKebabDoRuky
@VeganKebabDoRuky 4 жыл бұрын
@M 40 Big oof, you sound like you're too young for this
@mjtechnoviking44
@mjtechnoviking44 4 жыл бұрын
Anita: I dated a simp Simps: So what you’re saying is there’s a chance? *YEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAA*
@idabthereforeiam7479
@idabthereforeiam7479 4 жыл бұрын
Cursed comment
@joshuamales8263
@joshuamales8263 4 жыл бұрын
just starts sweating profusely "hello are we still dating"
@animelytical8354
@animelytical8354 4 жыл бұрын
@Ariako Ishikawa LMAO
@anisaali6792
@anisaali6792 4 жыл бұрын
this is the simp emoji😍
@abramblackstock733
@abramblackstock733 4 жыл бұрын
NOPE do u know the saying " Stop simpin and start pimpin"
@LinWarai
@LinWarai 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for talking about this, i had a stalker in high school who acted similarly to the guys in your story it ended up creeping me out so badly that i started avoiding becoming friends with guys in general just because it was so hard for me to tell if they were being friendly because they’re nice or because they wanted to get something from me hopefully people like that see this video and realize why what they’re doing is so harmful
@mastercrazyyyd7699
@mastercrazyyyd7699 3 жыл бұрын
I used to be like that, and worked on myself and started fixing myself for me and not for others. This wasn't just in general simping for girls but for everyone around me, I was friends with people I really didn't like or agreed with no anything but I did it because I wanted friends. I lied to myself and BS-ed myself through conversations using this kind of split personality that I'd created to talk with them. I finally let it all go and have been finally being myself for the past few months, I feel confident about myself. I don't expect things from a girl when I'm in a relationship with her, it's just been going through the road being neutral and nice and not me being a weird sexual creep 24/7. Life's been better for me since then, my days of simping are over.
@oliverdennis3115
@oliverdennis3115 3 жыл бұрын
I was called a simp for holding my girlfriend’s coat, like, imagine me being a genuine human being, crazy.
@Bulzack-wr1ii
@Bulzack-wr1ii 3 жыл бұрын
Stupid simp
@ericcjnr801
@ericcjnr801 3 жыл бұрын
Simp 😂😂😂😂
@hellion5206
@hellion5206 3 жыл бұрын
Simp ☝️
@Potato-ee7uh
@Potato-ee7uh 3 жыл бұрын
ok ok since its ur girlfriend ur not a simp
@OneSelfActualized
@OneSelfActualized 3 жыл бұрын
Simp is as simp does...
@philconey11
@philconey11 3 жыл бұрын
I was pretty bad when I was about 15 but my dad found out and fixed my mind-set right quick. He told me that if I was having feelings like that, it wasn't about the girl. It was about my own insecurities, and I needed to fix myself and start giving a shit about myself before I even thought about pursuing a relationship with anyone. He taught me a lot of stuff and got me out of this mindset. "You need to actually love yourself at least a little bit before you can try to give that to anyone else". So I did. Worked on the farm, started going to the gym, started meeting with a free counselor at school and doing a bunch of other stuff. Met my wife, joined the Marines, got married to her, deployed a bunch of times, got out, came home, and now I fly airplanes and raise ducks with her. Life is good. This is also why strong father figures are so important.
@hmvideos3601
@hmvideos3601 3 жыл бұрын
actual life goals, who doesn't want to fly planes and raise ducks
@joelvaultdweller8899
@joelvaultdweller8899 3 жыл бұрын
peepo cry. my dad sucked!
@joeyork9891
@joeyork9891 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice and great exacution of advice
@Amadeusch
@Amadeusch 3 жыл бұрын
Father figures are very important. My mother raised me on her own and while she´s not a Doctor or such, she showed both, a loving Mother and a strict father. Nearly ripped her apart, it´s not healthy way. I´m so thankful for her fighting against sh**ty teachers and the needed "Headwashing" consequences for my BS and looking at nearly all single raised kids in my area, it´s horrible how theire perception is twisted in some ways. Simps, Incels and much more are, at least for me, are a natural end of growing up with an over amount of one mentality. You understand just a fragment, not the whole picture. Nice Content, Video and Commentator^^ Great Value
@czdot
@czdot 3 жыл бұрын
Shit, man. I wish my tractor driver/factory worker dad was as insightful as your dad. 😮❤️
@nickhowatson4745
@nickhowatson4745 2 жыл бұрын
HOW TO BE A SIMP: 1. Never take no for an answer. 2. Have irrational expectations and feel entitled to a relationship. 3. Constantly be obsessive, overreactive and desperate for sexual and emotional intimacy. 4. Be suffocating and overbearing with gifts and acts of kindness. 5. be invasive to their privacy and demand to take part in every aspect of their life.
@THE-WAY_THE-TRUTH_THE-LIFE.
@THE-WAY_THE-TRUTH_THE-LIFE. Жыл бұрын
So a Simp is basically just being an insecure narcissistic sociopath?
@gumshoe2273
@gumshoe2273 9 ай бұрын
I've done my fair share of simping. Your explanation of the process has really helped me a lot. After all the protective orders, and cease and desist letters, I've finally been able to walk away from my many obsessions. That's really cleared the air and allowed me to discover you're my only true love, Anita! Where can I send flowers?
@TheKLing86
@TheKLing86 3 жыл бұрын
"There's love out there for everyone" Aw thanks "For most of you" Aw crap
@angelus_solus
@angelus_solus 3 жыл бұрын
I hate to say it, but I'm starting to represent that last statement, Kevin. I'm not assertive, I am considered "low value" socially, I am eccentric according to society, and I fail in the dating scene. I've been alone for 13 years now with no foreseeable end in sight and am an emotional shell of who I used to be with the eyes of the classic shell-shocked veteran (picture Harrison Ford as Indiana Jones from "The Crystal Skull" and you'll know what my eyes are like). I do have my pride, even if I am shy, reserved and possess atrophied social skills. Still, I soldier on and just suck it up...even though my spirit is tired and worn out, my emotions are jaded, and I feel like I've been around for the last 2,000 years. I honestly think the only way I'll ever find a companion is if "she" notices the pain in my eyes and decides to do something about it. As it's said, introverts don't make friends...they get adopted by extroverts. Even after all that, I've never been desperate enough to beg for affection or attention like an obedient dog. I'd rather stand in the shadows for eternity than pull that spineless shite.
@SkittlesInYourHand
@SkittlesInYourHand 3 жыл бұрын
@@angelus_solus Calm yourself, my dude. As a wise man once said, "You'll never be married if you're already married to your misery."
@Chelle8847
@Chelle8847 3 жыл бұрын
She didn't say "for most of you", she said "i promise you". Just to let ya know :)
@weirdchamp4601
@weirdchamp4601 3 жыл бұрын
@Jm Dromanah yes they do, they just don’t know how to get it properly
@willyum1620
@willyum1620 3 жыл бұрын
Jm Dromanah thanks dude
@360WarfareFirst
@360WarfareFirst 4 жыл бұрын
When you realize that she just describes her audience.
@NonDripHelmet
@NonDripHelmet 4 жыл бұрын
😲
@zeuxlaught2797
@zeuxlaught2797 4 жыл бұрын
"when a girl has a fandom" everyone: simp.
@shadow-man8715
@shadow-man8715 4 жыл бұрын
Only reason these attractive females get a huge following as gamers is because their following for the most part are a bunch of simps.
@jakemelendez7843
@jakemelendez7843 4 жыл бұрын
@@shadow-man8715 i agree with that, but i don't think that applies to Anita? She doesn't sexualize herself and most people found her because of her tourettes clips
@shadow-man8715
@shadow-man8715 4 жыл бұрын
@@jakemelendez7843 I agree from what I've seen I haven't seen her sexualize herself but the fact she is an attractive female still gets her simps to subscribe to her. That's the reason she has half a million subs. That's how most females gain subs whether they know it or not. She isn't taking advantage that she can be showing her breasts all out like these other thots I've seen but in reality she doesn't need too. These simps will just be there no matter what as long as the youtuber is somewhat attractive or a really attractive female. They just come whenever they see a female gamer. She could be bad at games and they will still subscribe to her while a bad Male gamer wouldn't even get people's subs for being bad for the most part.
@HeadbutKneecap
@HeadbutKneecap 3 жыл бұрын
I love how the words "WANK CABIN" pop up when she says it
@kieranoneill8691
@kieranoneill8691 Жыл бұрын
This is such a mature and well-measured response to this kind of behaviour, and really refreshing to see. Have only just started following you, but thank you so much for the effort and maturity you addressed this topic with. Legend!
@chorizodealer
@chorizodealer 4 жыл бұрын
She basically said, "I was thinking about my chat when they reminded me of some other simps that I dated."
@burstingwizard975
@burstingwizard975 4 жыл бұрын
🤣
@Dean123123100
@Dean123123100 4 жыл бұрын
LUUUUUL
@rmhaven142
@rmhaven142 4 жыл бұрын
it is no lie
@pinheadlarry4017
@pinheadlarry4017 4 жыл бұрын
Imposter
@Cj-ym3ux
@Cj-ym3ux 3 жыл бұрын
"I just had this heard of nerds following me around" You still do, they're called veiwers
@Anonimowany1
@Anonimowany1 2 жыл бұрын
lol yea. for example I watched this vid but no reason to follow her, unless you're a simp.
@liambergstrom8183
@liambergstrom8183 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah cause following someone with 1.8m followers is somehow giving them a gift or trying to get them to notice you? You're definitely a simp if you're trying so hard to prove you're not a simp to make a dumb argument like that. If you like the content and want to see more, you follow. It's entirely different from asking her for feet pics or sending your grandmas ring to her PO box or even talking in the chat at all, not that the last one would necessarily make someone a simp either, there used to be this thing humans did called community (it even used to happen on the internet well into the middle years of online gaming). Edit: I actually think OP was joking and second dude was being sarcastic and I just missed it because comments like this usually aren't sarcastic.
@Anonimowany1
@Anonimowany1 2 жыл бұрын
@@liambergstrom8183 Sheesh you're the true definition of a simp.
@liambergstrom8183
@liambergstrom8183 2 жыл бұрын
@@Anonimowany1 lol no I've never even watched her live, just tired of willfully stupid people. One of the few things even worse than simps.
@trifulquita15
@trifulquita15 2 жыл бұрын
Simps are pathetic but what this girl was doing is also pathetic... Dating unattractive men. Men or women should date only their crush, the love of their life
@nickj.7876
@nickj.7876 2 жыл бұрын
I learned so much from this. All these expressions I had no idea existed, or that anyone could act like that. Props to you for acting so nice and having SO MUCH patience! *high five*
@chromasux2
@chromasux2 3 жыл бұрын
This is sweet, intelligent, well thought out and down to the bone. It takes a true honest person to just share themselves and their stories like this, stripped down and simple. It belies a higher intelligence. She even discusses simps without the usual denigration and dislike in the voice that a lot of people do because she's not looking at them or it in the same light, but simply as a description of a certain style of person, which is how it should be. I'd thank her for sharing like this and talking about people as just people. Because it is very simple. Everyone is their best when they're just themselves, not doing things for others in expectation of anything. If you can't be yourself with the one you want to be with, they most likely won't care for who you really are when you're not acting. And those who care the most won't care for your acting but care for who you are all the times when you're not performing or acting for someone or trying to buy their attention, love or anything. Just be yourself and life has a way of making things work and keeping you going and making you happy. Good things come to those who wait.
@matthewrochowski6593
@matthewrochowski6593 4 жыл бұрын
“I had a heard of nerds following me around” I guess nothing has changed
@CGM_Raiden
@CGM_Raiden 4 жыл бұрын
😳
@CGM_Raiden
@CGM_Raiden 4 жыл бұрын
😳
@StoicMeditationsAtoZ
@StoicMeditationsAtoZ 4 жыл бұрын
Bro my days what how the u noticed that wow
@lennyandrade742
@lennyandrade742 4 жыл бұрын
400
@simoncleopater948
@simoncleopater948 4 жыл бұрын
savage
@BerserkerLP
@BerserkerLP 4 жыл бұрын
To the person who edits Anita vids. Intro volume = 100% Anita voice = 20% Headphone users = deaf Speaker users = heart attack Please lower the intro volume to Anita's voice. Thanks
@DivineSeaDragon
@DivineSeaDragon 4 жыл бұрын
BerserkerLP agreed editor SIMP
@canles
@canles 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, its easy to do in premiere: Choose Clip > Audio Options > Audio Gain
@DiiAcid
@DiiAcid 4 жыл бұрын
Headphone user here. Fine for me.
@morza6822
@morza6822 4 жыл бұрын
@@diogomcamilo simp
@lorenzomoseley5926
@lorenzomoseley5926 4 жыл бұрын
You are brilliant 😂
@Rogun987
@Rogun987 Жыл бұрын
This actually turned into a really good and down to earth discussion about these types of relationships. In my teen years I was massively insecure but also massively horny like every other teenager. While I wasnt as bad as anything described in this, this is not an uncommon thing to happen for desperate men who are also horny. It took till I my mid 20's to start realizing my behaviors that pushed not just potential relationships away but also friends. And now look at me. In my 30s, still massively insecure and horny but at least self aware. But seriously Anita is so sweet and has some empathy toward them, its no wonder these guys held on to a smidgen of hope despite her being honest about the situation. Most women are either really really nasty about it, or will disappear entirely immediately.
@kilier8586
@kilier8586 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t help but imagine the dating experience she’s been through to come to these conclusions 😂
@Krizzsek
@Krizzsek 3 жыл бұрын
Big lesson here: a gift not given freely isn't actually a gift
@thomasbrown3793
@thomasbrown3793 3 жыл бұрын
This is a much needed lesson for most of modern day society
@Gyvulys
@Gyvulys 3 жыл бұрын
A better lesson: don't accept gifts from strangers. Or don't accept gifts in general unless you gift something back.
@Krizzsek
@Krizzsek 3 жыл бұрын
@@Gyvulys Yeah that somewhat voids the idea of a gift actually being a "gift," so doesn't apply as broadly as the original statement.
@Gyvulys
@Gyvulys 3 жыл бұрын
@@Krizzsek That's just life dude. If you accept gifts, you are indebted to that someone. Even if they say "it's nothing" now, they still might bring that up later. Personally, I don't like something like looming over me.
@Krizzsek
@Krizzsek 3 жыл бұрын
@@Gyvulys It's telling you've never actually received a gift is all that is
@ChaseKelleh
@ChaseKelleh 4 жыл бұрын
"Everyone has flaws. Their flaws aren't reasons not to be friends with someone, they're just the thing you have to navigate in order to be a good friend." What I will forever take from this video
@elitedesolator
@elitedesolator 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah that's exactly the sort of mindset that lands you in a lot of toxic and one-sided relationships. Take that advice with a grain of salt and don't run with it fully.
@xblowsmokex
@xblowsmokex 4 жыл бұрын
William Ho this. It is possible to be overly tolerant to a fault.
@blacknemesy
@blacknemesy 4 жыл бұрын
It is true to a certain point and depends alot on what flaws we are talking about. If being friends with someone is exhausting then maybe it is time to cut ties and keep it friendly but no close.
@patrickotana627
@patrickotana627 4 жыл бұрын
Would of thought, that'd be common sense.
@Jimmymatthewb
@Jimmymatthewb 4 жыл бұрын
That was an amazing quote!
@ebolarnator1794
@ebolarnator1794 3 жыл бұрын
It's videos like this that make her so awesome as a content creator. Yes, her tics can be funny, but she's a genuinely smart person with lots of great points and life experiences to share with people to learn from or simply to listen to. Anita, you're awesome.
@thesweetlifeofbubba7311
@thesweetlifeofbubba7311 3 жыл бұрын
I just recently discovered I had touretts when a doctor told me and I'm slowly coming out about it, your channel gave me the confidence to do so. I haven't really shown alot of my obvious body movement tics yet, I'm still a little self conscious about it.
@candlewaxicing
@candlewaxicing 4 жыл бұрын
She just described half of twitch chat.
@zeuxlaught2797
@zeuxlaught2797 4 жыл бұрын
@Bigcummer and its not about donating, its about intention, when donating to someone as a gift to make them happy, isn't wrong. but when expecting a relationship for the exchange of deeds or money, thats wrong.
@patsayjack402
@patsayjack402 4 жыл бұрын
Much greater than half
@illansuu9572
@illansuu9572 4 жыл бұрын
@Bigcummer i mean if someone enjoys her content, donating is not wrong or anything. Like people can use their money on what ever they want but expecting something more than a "thank you so much" is just plain dumb
@michaelangst6078
@michaelangst6078 4 жыл бұрын
@Jackson Five I assume people donate and jack off over and over to the clip of them saying their name... I don't know how MGTOW exists when men are supposed to be viewed as strong when there are a decent amount of men doing this.... Women don't do anything near as desperate for companionship....
@Un1234l
@Un1234l 3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelangst6078 I don't think you know what MGTOW is
@lathalassa
@lathalassa 3 жыл бұрын
Anita, i wanna thank you for telling this story. I am a lonely thirsty boi and didn't know that my behaviour was abnormal. This story helped me understand, why people are trying to avoid me. I think i will try to be more patient with people and more. I didn't know that behaviour like this is creepy. Thanks a lot for telling people like me that this behavioral pattern is creepy. I have never been outright told, that this is creepy. Thanks a lot
@9S0dX
@9S0dX 3 жыл бұрын
You learn new things everyday. Good luck on your path to be a better version of yourself 🤗
@lathalassa
@lathalassa 3 жыл бұрын
@@9S0dX thanks
@meyerhans2125
@meyerhans2125 3 жыл бұрын
Cringe
@meyerhans2125
@meyerhans2125 3 жыл бұрын
@@mufferducker822 simping in the first place is cringe
@Fivizzz
@Fivizzz 3 жыл бұрын
@@meyerhans2125 Who hurt you?
@cassidywall1140
@cassidywall1140 2 жыл бұрын
The phrase "treat people like you want to be treated" is the phrase I live by and it has suited me well. You are very well spoken and I really like listening to you talk, you make alot of very good points.
@sydneylee4596
@sydneylee4596 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like Anita gives the best advice in her KZfaq and in her twitch streams. Absolutely love it, everyone needs this advice at some point. Having her explain this stuff so we’ll helps a lot.
@rainbow_fox_
@rainbow_fox_ 3 жыл бұрын
simps are really like "i'm just trying to be a good friend i swear i'm not expecting anything from you" then turn around and act like a possessive manipulative boyfriend even if you're not dating
@thedovah8102
@thedovah8102 3 жыл бұрын
THIS SHIT RIGHT HERE
@meowziwam220
@meowziwam220 3 жыл бұрын
No queen please I’m not possessive at all I’m just so desperate I want to be a doormat for women
@crystalfox8520
@crystalfox8520 3 жыл бұрын
@kobatochan96 please be sarcasm.
@crystalfox8520
@crystalfox8520 3 жыл бұрын
@kobatochan96 you cam be friends with someone who is romantically attracted to. And you dont know the reasons for everything she does. Stop assuming things.
@SonOfASnitch
@SonOfASnitch 3 жыл бұрын
@kobatochan96 you should rewatch for sure because he showed one point of interest and then seem to accept that she wasn’t interested. Then they became roommates and he got weird. TONS of people have been attracted to people, been let down, and then can stay friends and even live together. She trusted him and accepted when he said he understood she wasn’t interested. You also have no idea how much time had passed during the interaction and the roommate situation. It could have been a whole year with no weirdness from him and only friend interactions. You only know a small amount of information and the conclusion you jump to is that she used him? You do realize plenty of friends cook for each other, clean after one another, and buy things for each other? His intentions were the messed up ones. People are not machines you put nice coins in and get sex/relationships in return. You aren’t a friend if you are only doing nice things and expecting something in return. He knew she wasn’t interested and he kept trying. That is 100% on him. You can’t call someone an asshole for just trying to be a friend while said friend is creeping on them. This crap is why so many women are afraid to be friends with men. Maybe you’re young and don’t get it yet but seriously this is not okay. This is the start of some really bad and negative thinking. I’m not sure if my notifications are even turned on for YT but if I get a notification I have no problem educating. However, if you aren’t a kid or a misguided person I’ll just block and report you. I’m seriously done with seeing this bs. No means no. Accept it.
@johnslade9751
@johnslade9751 4 жыл бұрын
I'll admit Anita is my streamer crush but my pride would never allow simping
@shoople
@shoople 4 жыл бұрын
i feel like the line between simping and having a crush is just keeping your dignity lol
@FryedPidgey
@FryedPidgey 4 жыл бұрын
John Slade I clicked because of the Tourettes, realised she’s attractive but forgot about all that when I learnt she’s actually entertaining and stayed for the banter. Definitely the #1 female streamer and she did that without even dressing all revealing and shit 👏🏽
@heythisisntxboxrl5174
@heythisisntxboxrl5174 4 жыл бұрын
probably because your a normal person
@alasuisi
@alasuisi 4 жыл бұрын
i don't think this had much to do with pride, let's just say, not only pride, it's that no one should date anyone that is incapable of being fine by himself, pretty dangerous stuff can arise in time
@Canthus13
@Canthus13 4 жыл бұрын
A crush is fine... but this incel crap/simping is crossing the line where you know it's just attraction and into stalker behavior.
@jessemurray1757
@jessemurray1757 Жыл бұрын
I love how her seemingly genuine, from the heart, rant is casually followed by a double middle finger at 23:28. Caught me off guard but funny AF. But seriously, this whole topic reminds me of how much of a pita it can be to be single and dating.
@I_Don_t_want_a_handle
@I_Don_t_want_a_handle 3 жыл бұрын
The problem here is that men like this cannot read the room, they fail at friendships because they cannot understand the rules. Add in unrequited love and you have a man in great pain who cannot gauge reciprocated interest and any attention is misread. They are broken before they even start so no wonder they act the way they do. Then again without these people how would KZfaqrs get an income? Swings and round-a-bouts ...
@waffleboi99
@waffleboi99 4 жыл бұрын
I'm still stuck in the first story. How does an 11 year old have a porn collection all throughout his room? Where were his parents?
@iboredomi1483
@iboredomi1483 4 жыл бұрын
Wouldn't be suprised if he out it all out for her in some creepy way
@zeuxlaught2797
@zeuxlaught2797 4 жыл бұрын
yeah there are those type of families too.
@josephalbatross5961
@josephalbatross5961 4 жыл бұрын
There are those types of families, and there are definitely those types of 11 year old boys.
@dayoldeggplant
@dayoldeggplant 4 жыл бұрын
@@adarktrap7361 No joke....i couldn't understand that in any way.
@adarktrap7361
@adarktrap7361 4 жыл бұрын
@@dayoldeggplant sometimes a reaction like adiction to porn is a result of abuse as a child. I know this threw personal experience. Im lucky i had good lady friends who helped raise me became a decant man who has respect for people who have respect. Sorry my grammer wasnt perfect you pretentious fuckwit. 🤦‍♂️ here is a tip for life bud.. dont take it so seriously, grammer nazi's are not very welcomed in any community. And it is on you because other people understood what i said.. 👍 (Im pretty sure ant lady would agree that an understanding guy is hella better then a grammatically correct guy that doesnt even try) 🤦‍♂️
@beliasphyre3497
@beliasphyre3497 4 жыл бұрын
How to spot a Simp? Looks around comment section. Catches own reflection in mirror. Better question is how to spot someone not a Simp.
@mapsofbeing5937
@mapsofbeing5937 4 жыл бұрын
the hotter the woman the harder not to simp
@NekoSukaSoul
@NekoSukaSoul 4 жыл бұрын
@@mapsofbeing5937 bulls eye XD
@NekoSukaSoul
@NekoSukaSoul 4 жыл бұрын
That`s damn good question duuuuuuuuuude!! XD
@DeadpoolX9
@DeadpoolX9 4 жыл бұрын
@@mapsofbeing5937 ya isnt waifu culture just make believe simping?
@mapsofbeing5937
@mapsofbeing5937 4 жыл бұрын
@@DeadpoolX9 maybe... it might be better to simp to an idealized version of the feminine than enabling toxic femininity, it probably creates bad habits even when virtual don't look to me to provide advice on this, I'm naturally very aggressive but turned it inwards with my ex, trying to make myself more 'supportive', that didn't work out for either of us
@sandmoon4335
@sandmoon4335 2 жыл бұрын
It's painful but yet so informative, thank you for talking about it and describing it fully.❤ I believe I was a simp for someone and I put pressure on her and I'm really sorry about it. Hopefully I'm constantly learning not to make the same mistakes as before and hope that she can forgive me.
@glenjamindle
@glenjamindle 3 жыл бұрын
Ughh, these stories just made me realize I used to be a simp. I'm so glad I outgrew that.
@wolfgangmerx
@wolfgangmerx 4 жыл бұрын
Lesson learned: there's a difference between being sympathetic and simp-pathetic
@zeuxlaught2797
@zeuxlaught2797 4 жыл бұрын
yeah , not to expect a relationship with exchange of money or deeds.
@DeltaPrime95
@DeltaPrime95 4 жыл бұрын
Lmfaoooo
@magnumopus5661
@magnumopus5661 4 жыл бұрын
No there isnt you simp.
@tracyh5751
@tracyh5751 4 жыл бұрын
nice one
@ImDougDimmadome
@ImDougDimmadome 4 жыл бұрын
Magnum Opus Shut your mouth simp
@akgreengirl9876
@akgreengirl9876 4 жыл бұрын
"...most people have flaws, I don't see that as a reason not to be friends with people, I just see it as the thing you have to navigate in order to be a good friend..." legit the most loving and caring way of explaining life with other people on the planet.
@docferringer
@docferringer 4 жыл бұрын
You can't be friends with a simp. Friendship is just having a spot in the ol' dating queue to a simp. I have dodged two female simps in my life. Both were like Anita described--desperate for love right out of the gate, and once I was clear that was not happening they both switched to the "well why can't we just be friends?" line. Simp #2 threw that one out there after I had blocked her in messenger. And on my phone. And my email. I've known women who have no clue about men like this and legit think they have found the only guys on the planet that want to listen to them talk about their problems for hours on end. (Ladies, no guy wants to hear you complain about the same thing for two months straight. If a guy is pretending to care, he wants something out of it.) I've also known women who are very much aware of this and use it to clean up on gifts and special favors. Just...don't feed the crazies, okay?
@Armatrusse
@Armatrusse 4 жыл бұрын
I would just replace most people by everybody :)
@EarCandyContraption
@EarCandyContraption 4 жыл бұрын
When she said that, it hit me differently...
@akgreengirl9876
@akgreengirl9876 4 жыл бұрын
@@docferringer I wasn't saying people should stay with SIMPs, or any toxic person for that matter. Please, if someone is being toxic get out and get out FAST!! I do, however, feel like many people don't take the time to get to know someone else despite their flaws. In a world of swipe right or left, sometimes it takes a bit to find out about who someone is beneath the surface, and it's who they are beneath the surface that is valuable. I feel like toxic behavior is a symptom of mental health issues. Generally though, fuck toxic behavior and I hope those who exhibit that kind of behavior find the help they need to get better.
@docferringer
@docferringer 4 жыл бұрын
@@akgreengirl9876 I know, I wasn't replying to you so much as commenting on the quote from Anita. Her roommate story is a case in point.
@michaelsaxonson251
@michaelsaxonson251 3 жыл бұрын
Narcissism doesn't necessarily mean high self-esteem, and when narcissism is coupled with low self-esteem it becomes incredibly dangerous.
@douglasbaek4656
@douglasbaek4656 2 жыл бұрын
Haha this is great. Kinda blows my mind folks don't seem to understand that relationships are evolving and should be no pressure, else it's just desperation and just awkward. Love your story videos, you should do more! You're a great storyteller!
@krazykian9512
@krazykian9512 4 жыл бұрын
Her whistle sounds like the Nintendo Switch whistle when you go on your profile.
@EclipsaMyrtenaster
@EclipsaMyrtenaster 4 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah wtf hahahaha I actually checked if it was and it is
@krazykian9512
@krazykian9512 4 жыл бұрын
@@EclipsaMyrtenaster XD
@krazykian9512
@krazykian9512 4 жыл бұрын
@The Spirit of the color Blue both lol
@thunderstormbad
@thunderstormbad 4 жыл бұрын
LOOL fuck
@siddy2068
@siddy2068 3 жыл бұрын
Anita: "how awesome you guys are." Also Anita: " you guys suck." l that tic was lowkey funny ngl
@shadower227
@shadower227 3 жыл бұрын
Her tic definitely has a fantastic sense of humor
@Jobe-13
@Jobe-13 3 жыл бұрын
“You’re all sluts!”
@Nick-dx2pt
@Nick-dx2pt 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jobe-13 lol that reminded me of beebo
@Reflexoesdeumtatuado
@Reflexoesdeumtatuado 3 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: the "you guys are awesome" is just a tic
@zachall101
@zachall101 3 жыл бұрын
@@Reflexoesdeumtatuado lol 😂
@thomasjones5649
@thomasjones5649 2 жыл бұрын
You just earned my sub! Not that it’s some incredible achievement, I’m one of…very many. I haven’t watched many of your videos, to me you’ve been the cute Tourette’s streamer chick. Not to minimize your success or what you do, I just don’t follow twitch much in general, and if I do it’s for a specific game or streamer. So, i was surprised when I watched this to find such an honest, weirdly heart wrenching, well thought out take on a…fuckin weird subject that I didn’t understand before. I thought it was a white knight or the like, too. Just, excellent, it was an excellent perspective, sage advice for some younger folks, expressed diplomatically yet it cut through the bullshit. It was well said and succinct and punchy, i was frankly a little blown away. I think a LOT of folks need to hear the end of your video, and the way you delivered it was..fuckin, superlative, I dunno what word. You succeeded in doing what I try to set out to do when I’m talking friends through a hard time, or when I’m trying to make headway with a seemingly intractable subject…effortlessly, and said far better than I would have. So, well done, thanks for the content and the perspective, best of luck. I’m gonna steal your advice, give it as my own, and I probably won’t give you credit. Sorry not sorry
@chaseyoung9628
@chaseyoung9628 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve known of your Channel for a long while now but jus recently started getting into ur stuff I’ve only seen clips and man can I say ur a completely different person than I thought I watched ur stream today and this video and it’s actually changed my perspective on a lot and has helped through a tuff time anyway Ik this is a old video and you won’t see it but please keep doing what ir doing the energy is helping people like me more than you know.
@Way_Of_The_Light
@Way_Of_The_Light 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t be a simp, don’t be a Chad. Be a monk and achieve enlightenment.
@MitchDrums22
@MitchDrums22 3 жыл бұрын
Become the Avatar and defeat the Firelord
@pearshaped9116
@pearshaped9116 3 жыл бұрын
Reject society, become monke
@nhlanhlashamase3453
@nhlanhlashamase3453 3 жыл бұрын
How do you become a monk?
@Way_Of_The_Light
@Way_Of_The_Light 3 жыл бұрын
@@nhlanhlashamase3453 Start with nofap/semen retention, combine that with the noble 8-fold path, and do work for the wellbeing of nature and society. When you try to master spiritual disciplines, great things will happen. Even met my wife like that.
@Way_Of_The_Light
@Way_Of_The_Light 3 жыл бұрын
@@pearshaped9116 You can live like a monk and still be actively involved in society.
@MattFitVlog
@MattFitVlog 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: caring about other people is CRINGE. Real men only care about their CATS and die ALONE like a MAN
@exile3965
@exile3965 4 жыл бұрын
Fax
@PapeProduction
@PapeProduction 4 жыл бұрын
Yo women are `bout cats,REAL MEN only care for their bears lmao.
@AngeloMorandini
@AngeloMorandini 4 жыл бұрын
Stray faccs
@austinpowers8550
@austinpowers8550 4 жыл бұрын
Yea cuz nothing says manly like owning a cat. Get a pitbull pussy.
@Septiviumexe
@Septiviumexe 4 жыл бұрын
@@austinpowers8550 Cats rule, if you dont wanna be a pussy go get a bear or a lion. Pitbull pfft. Might aswell get a chiwaawaa
@robertzblewski3909
@robertzblewski3909 2 жыл бұрын
WOW! Thank you for being sooo open and truthfull in your stories. It's tough out there trying to date. So many obstacles.
@dimitriosvasilakis2663
@dimitriosvasilakis2663 2 жыл бұрын
Great talk. There are some thin lines that seperate love, friendship and respect from manipulative and egoistic behaviours and you've highlighted that lines in a very descriptive way.
@dakshmalhotra2223
@dakshmalhotra2223 3 жыл бұрын
I cracked up so hard at Anita calling the dude's wardrobe a Wank Cabin.
@Outland9000
@Outland9000 3 жыл бұрын
Where do these phrases come from? 🤣
@jokersace8832
@jokersace8832 3 жыл бұрын
I wana know what happened with the rest of that story where she said self defence was needed.
@Gyvulys
@Gyvulys 3 жыл бұрын
@@jokersace8832 Obviously she changed her mind and the guy had to defend himself from her. She got a restraining order too.
@jokersace8832
@jokersace8832 3 жыл бұрын
@@Gyvulys you saw the video right? There was no interest on her part and I would say she had to defend her self.
@Gyvulys
@Gyvulys 3 жыл бұрын
@@jokersace8832 Mate I was joking. smh Though then again. Look at her. She looks scary man.
@mr559
@mr559 3 жыл бұрын
This was an enjoyable TedxTalk. Remember people, "expectations is the root of unhappiness." Her roommate set himself up to be disappointed doing all these things Anita didn't ask for. Just be genuinely kind to people around you, and vigilant around shady people and situations.
@gundam0039
@gundam0039 3 жыл бұрын
Expecting nothing good will come every annual military training exercise is exactly why I come out on top 😂🤣. Expect hell & never get disappointed.
@kanalisationerstellen
@kanalisationerstellen 2 жыл бұрын
Good one :P i feel the Dao in you
@rickpickle
@rickpickle 2 жыл бұрын
my friend likes to say expectations are premeditated resentments.
@manubishe
@manubishe 2 жыл бұрын
Hope you get vibechecked for that virtuesignaling.
@TheMewtata
@TheMewtata Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate how you presented this in such an empathetic way.
@ErikBenedict
@ErikBenedict 2 жыл бұрын
You are a wonderful person and I just saw this video popped up in my feed and I watched it not thinking you'd be so expressively genuine and thoughtful and empathetic towards people who really shouldn't be so transactional with emotions and gifts and things. Every video that I've seen where you come from the heart and talk directly about your personal life experience allows the world to see the real you and that is a great individual. Thank you for sharing and I hope you have to deal with this way less than you've had so far in your life.
@Mass-Deportation2024.
@Mass-Deportation2024. 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is a larger mental health issue.
@totallynotfbi5837
@totallynotfbi5837 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah we should divert time and resources from schizophrenics just trying to live a normal life to beta pay-pigs who feel sad about being pathetic sometimes lol
@robertmunroe9635
@robertmunroe9635 4 жыл бұрын
definitely not a mental health issue, this is definitely a learned behavior. It's what happens when you tell someone they are toxic because they exist. Thanks feminism
@VexylObby
@VexylObby 4 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't diagnose it as such. This is VERY normal behavior that people learn from often. It is generally difficult to understand how another person feels if there isn't much experience or communication on the topic.
@bestfriend5814
@bestfriend5814 4 жыл бұрын
@@totallynotfbi5837 we can focus on more than one disorder at once, and these people deserve help too
@Anna13Tonks
@Anna13Tonks 4 жыл бұрын
I've had a friend with BPD with intense abandonment issues do that to me intensely (not with romantic intentions) so yes, I believe a lot if times there are underlying issues
@josef7461
@josef7461 4 жыл бұрын
I respect that she calls out simping, even though at least half of her income comea from it lmfao
@ultratronger
@ultratronger 4 жыл бұрын
not everyone who donates to a girl on twitch is a simp tho, of course there are some, but if you actually read any of her donation messages you would realise they're much more on the supportive end
@ultratronger
@ultratronger 4 жыл бұрын
@Benjamin Roberts so you stopped liking someone when other people also started liking that person? what are you, a hipster?
@wagstaff4921
@wagstaff4921 4 жыл бұрын
Respect for a woman? Simp
@Sonof_DRN2004
@Sonof_DRN2004 4 жыл бұрын
@@ultratronger simp
@ultratronger
@ultratronger 4 жыл бұрын
@@Sonof_DRN2004 what are you, funny?
@MrBadassheavymetal
@MrBadassheavymetal 2 жыл бұрын
What an interesting channel, really tempted to binge the vids, but it's midnight and I've work, but this is all very pleasant and strangely calming to watch. Also you seem an alright person.
@jameskenny4558
@jameskenny4558 2 жыл бұрын
I’m not in English class, but the part of the video that resonates with me is the part about giving gifts, I’m happy when I but stuff, but I’m more happy when I gift stuff, not only because it makes me feel like a good person, but because I find happiness in seeing other people happy.
@e2002m
@e2002m 2 жыл бұрын
i feel like it’s clear when someone has good intentions. i’ve had male friends buy me stuff for no reason and i do it back and it’s fine and doesn’t feel weird. but there’s other guys where i’ve rejected them and they keep trying to buy me stuff and it just feels like it’s for the wrong reasons.
@livngain9074
@livngain9074 4 жыл бұрын
I was a simp at one point in my life. It comes from severe loneliness and having suffered abusive unstable relationships, I basically copied the unhealthy relationship around me and it bled into any relationship I had. Thankfully through years of counseling and forming healthy relationships I am in a stable and healthy marriage with an incredible human being, whom I do not worship, but love dearly no matter her faults, because like myself, we have many haha but yea, I notice when other men are exhibiting said behaviors and I try my best to get through to them. Having gone through it myself, I am able to do so. And so to those who have done these behaviors, reach out to those who are, and to those who are, there is a light at the end of that tunnel. A lot of the time it takes counseling and realizing mixed with self-evaluation to realize that it is unhealthy and it usually stems from an unhealthy environment, but there is a way from it where you can experience a healthy unconditional relationship. Which is truly beautiful and rewarding. Totally worth the heart-wrenching work it takes to get there.
@HNM69
@HNM69 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, thanks for sharing. So how and what type of counseling did you seek out? I feel like that could help.
@timothychibuzor4755
@timothychibuzor4755 4 жыл бұрын
CAP
@dumbass4204
@dumbass4204 4 жыл бұрын
SIIIIIIMP
@qwertyasdf4081
@qwertyasdf4081 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, hating on simps, isolating them, and just making them outcasts doesn’t help them. It actually amplifies their toxic/unwise behavior
@Vik-rs5sz
@Vik-rs5sz 4 жыл бұрын
Takeda Takahashi these kids who are repeatedly commenting “SIIMMP” are more than likely children who are under the age of 14, who crave attention due to them not receiving it at home or anywhere else. Best thing to do is ignore them.
@ditherdather
@ditherdather 3 жыл бұрын
That roommate story is pretty chilling. I'm a grown ass man and would be legit creeped the F out if I had a roommate like that. Yikes.
@CTSSTC
@CTSSTC 2 жыл бұрын
My gut was sitting over here the same, being like, "Damn at least she got out alive!"
@WorthlessDeadEnd
@WorthlessDeadEnd 2 жыл бұрын
@@CTSSTC Exactly. These types are so insecure, that they have to keep the delusion alive at all costs. Everyone must adhere to their alternative form of "reality", in which they are always the star, the best, the strongest, the fastest, the best looking, et cetera. This isn't a harmless private fantasy - this is forced compliance with anyone who interacts with them. These people have become walking black holes with all the life sucked and crushed out of them.
@ZIbroweed
@ZIbroweed 2 жыл бұрын
Lets be honest. The real moral of this story is: If you're a woman, don't room with a man who has given you any gifts in excess of what you have given them. They are probably not your friend. They probably want something more. People are often not honest enough with themselves to be honest with you.
@ditherdather
@ditherdather 2 жыл бұрын
@@ZIbroweed Facts
@valenz1234
@valenz1234 6 ай бұрын
@@porcelinaofvastoceans She was an outcast, so she's more lenient towards people's red flags
@RogueJyn
@RogueJyn 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely used to be a simp. My last relationship was definitely started like that. I wasn't usually into relationships through high-school but after graduating and the passing years I started to feel alone and all I wanted was to be in a relationship. I toned it down. Lost weight and made myself feel better and stumbled across a girl I liked. Would love to work shifts with her. But she had a boyfriend so I was very hands off when it came to expressing that. She had no idea. But she broke up with her boyfriend and a friend of hers spilt the fact that girl actually had a crush on me. And it was full simp mode after that, we had a little fling but she decided to give her ex another chance. It was nine months of me being sad until we started another fling. I thank God that relationship lasted a whole 2 years. And it was kind of my call on the end of it. And my view point on wanting a relationship has changed drastically. Yes it would be nice to love someone. But I'll cross that bridge when I get to it. I'm happy being single
@I3urton
@I3urton 2 жыл бұрын
Why is this funny streamer I've been watching on and off giving heartfelt and genuine advice that takes me back to my horrible, horrible teenage years? And why does it feel like a warm and long hug from a good friend?
@blackraptor1154
@blackraptor1154 4 жыл бұрын
“I thought we were gonna play computer games” Oh sweet Anita, the only game y’all playing is Super Smash Brothers.
@niemand125
@niemand125 4 жыл бұрын
*Stepbrothers
@zakariyahussain7931
@zakariyahussain7931 4 жыл бұрын
@@niemand125 sweet hoooooome Alabama
@shaheenthomas
@shaheenthomas 4 жыл бұрын
I respect that mate😂👏👏👏👏 Well doneeee
@yato.692
@yato.692 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@yato.692
@yato.692 4 жыл бұрын
M 40 as a guy I can sorta confirm this. I’ve had friends who are girls and even best friends who are girls without ever thinking of smashing them. But I’ve seen my friends not have this same distinguish between friend and ‘potential smash buddy’
@AjuntaPall316
@AjuntaPall316 3 жыл бұрын
And now, years later, the "herd of nerds" has grown into a full fledged horde.
@shitass6963
@shitass6963 3 жыл бұрын
the horde of nords
@DoggoWillink
@DoggoWillink 3 жыл бұрын
Lol yeah
@void8960
@void8960 3 жыл бұрын
This deserves so many more likes
@kayohm1604
@kayohm1604 3 жыл бұрын
for the horde!
@jamesfranco5939
@jamesfranco5939 3 жыл бұрын
WE ARE LEGION
@PopeCop
@PopeCop 2 жыл бұрын
This is insightful, some of these examples are pretty intense, but as a guy who was really really awkward as a teenager, I am definitely guilty of some of those things and glad I don't do this anymore, insecurity and self pressure is such a handicap and can ruin friendships
@sensibleopinionsofusa
@sensibleopinionsofusa 2 жыл бұрын
I love your techno music interludes! It shows me you are comfortable expressing yourself, sometime I have trouble getting going everyday... ...your an inspiration!
@specialknees6798
@specialknees6798 3 жыл бұрын
Me: “wow this stuff is craaaazy..” Anita: “I think I was 11” Me: WHAT THE FUCK
@Gyvulys
@Gyvulys 3 жыл бұрын
I don't really find that so strange at all. She was talking about guys of her age. And 11 - 12 year old guys are... crazy, man. They really are like that.
@userunknown4331
@userunknown4331 3 жыл бұрын
@@Gyvulys Yeah but... the parents... Where the fuck were they? If I did that I would've gotten my ass whooped
@jippo91
@jippo91 3 жыл бұрын
@@Gyvulys when i was 12 we were riding bikes and going fishing. That kind of sexual obsession is not normal at that age and probably has something to do with the family structure and faulty parenting, a lack of a proper father figure etc.
@drgrey7026
@drgrey7026 3 жыл бұрын
@@jippo91 I mean I wouldn't have even thought to do that shit till 8th even then I didn't come close 9th on the other hand well let's not talk about that
@briank1263
@briank1263 3 жыл бұрын
I think "simp" behavior is unhealthy for both parties the simp and the simpee. You're both unwittingly devaluing each other until you lose all self respect.
@vice2versa
@vice2versa 3 жыл бұрын
@Hardy Harhar cause men and women are different and court differently.
@hmvideos3601
@hmvideos3601 3 жыл бұрын
@Hardy Harhar what is actually nice about performative niceness with expectations? if you're acting like a nice guy because people told you that girls like nice guys then you're not really nice. nobody likes someone who's pretending to be something they're not
@adibsiddiki7409
@adibsiddiki7409 3 жыл бұрын
You get a like for "simpee"
@briank1263
@briank1263 3 жыл бұрын
@@adibsiddiki7409 thank you
@raphaeljacobmendoza9893
@raphaeljacobmendoza9893 3 жыл бұрын
nice we have terms now simpology is getting real
@bpugsy719
@bpugsy719 3 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel, and i know this is an older video so i doubt youll see this.... but as a very social, confident guy that has been friends with a lot of nerds and stuff i seen friends act this way a lot.... and i hated it. I ended up being the guy that shit on "nice guys" all the time because i seen all the things you see. anyway, all this is to say i fucking love the way you explained all this. specifically the details of intentions and doing small things with the expectations they have but dont say. you explained it all so perfectly and i love it, i will absolutely be sending this video to people.I see it all the time, whether its my friends who are GREAT guy friends but i see them act this way towards women but refuse any kind of criticism. I also instantly recognize this behavior with some men that try to befriend my wife. im not overly jealous, but i will drop a small comment saying "hes a "nice guy", he is absolutely gonna pull some bs." and she will always say he wont, and he does. i dont rub it in her face or anything, but i make sure she knows i see them. Anyway, i hope you have a great day. you explained this perfectly and i love it.
@spenser9908
@spenser9908 3 жыл бұрын
Are you trying to satirize a simp with this message? 😂
@prckotrtic6253
@prckotrtic6253 10 ай бұрын
The problem with "simps" is that this type of girl never admits how much she likes the attention, despite it being creepy. You get a free ego boost every now and then and that's why you didn't move out the second it started to get creepy. Could've just as easily found a girl roommate, although I sincerely doubt that you'd have trouble finding a solo apartment without any roommate at all. After like the 5th red flag, there's no real excuse not to remove yourself from that situation entirely, so you can't really blame the guy.
@OneFinalAutumn
@OneFinalAutumn 3 жыл бұрын
Just realized I was a simp for a girl in my early high school years. Painful memories. Painful.
@alejandrogorricho4791
@alejandrogorricho4791 3 жыл бұрын
Same here, all my highschool crushes lol Tho tbh I these were not too bad. There was this one girl I was unhealthily obsessive with, but I was able to let go off her mentally, thank god. There was this girl in college that I creeped the fuck out tho....I still feel extremely bad about that....also ruined my first and only relationship because of my clinginess....
@AaronCMounts
@AaronCMounts 3 жыл бұрын
Lessons from the past. Focus on yourself. Forsake that ho, because she really isn't worth it.
@benhayes5396
@benhayes5396 3 жыл бұрын
Tbh same, I wasn’t someone who showered people with gifts and shit but I was a bit of a simp back in the day.
@likaner1
@likaner1 3 жыл бұрын
Every guy has been there dude, shame turns boys into men.
@nintruendo6411
@nintruendo6411 3 жыл бұрын
We've all done some weak stuff around women when we were young. Now that I'm married and the pressure to "impress" women is off, I find it way easier to interact with them and I can see they react to me much better than they did in my youth. Don't be desperate, women can smell it from a mile away.
@georgivasilev8428
@georgivasilev8428 3 жыл бұрын
I've been that guy to girls in my life when I was younger. And it's not cause I'm a psycho, but cause I was genuinely confused and not raised right when it comes to this type of communication (and communication in general in fact). I've grown a lot as a person I've had great relationships, I have had shitty ones, but all mutual and two-sided and just... I wish someone had sat me down and taught me the message in this video sooner. For our generation that's raised on the Internet, where it's easier to be socially awkward than ever so many people need to hear the truths on here. Thanks for taking the time to make this.
@CTSSTC
@CTSSTC 2 жыл бұрын
If I had met my KZfaq crush(es) back when I was 15-18 [~2007] I'm certain I would have came off as a creep, I just wouldn't know how to handle myself or socialize correctly (I was already a mute and anti-social to begin with), and feeling like you know every detail about the person when they know nothing about you,,, yeah that's going to be weird AF. Especially when you have some online personalities that are just that -- they are personalities, which may not reflect who they are as a person. Even people like Jim Carrey bring this up that they've constructed themselves to play themselves, but feel lost like they don't have a real identity. Not to mention too while you're a teenager there's still a ton of brain development, critical thinking, and decision making that is still being developed, so naturally people are going to be socially weird and make weird decisions until they mature more.
@moemo70
@moemo70 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you Anita. You're descriptions and explanations regarding this topic made a lot of sense to me. I think in a lot of ways, it's the cliff notes version of my entire social life. I have a lot of stuff ro unpack with my therapist now. God bless you.🤔
@anthonyblackwell4695
@anthonyblackwell4695 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this video was very insightful, and humbling I related to the mentality I had for a long time about trying to empress and be the most awesome only to try and get or keep a relationship. I am 38 and these days I have a balance I want to give my friends and myself the best version possible. I have an attractive woman I call my friend, and by not pushing for the relationship because she is totally worth one, I relished early on in talking to her and hanging out every once and awhile that her friendship is indispensable a true blessing. I realize the reason this friendship blossomed is I gave her the most genuine me I ever had. I am still single and temptation to want to move to another level hits me but because this friendship grew into something indescribable I am grateful selfishness stayed away. Today I realize if it forced, all be it by trying to convince the interest you are the once than it is not of the heart. I know today I am the best version of me and the relationship that fits will come in time. And like my amazing friend I never even imagined having. I will be surprised and most grateful for. Besides currently I am enjoying continuing to get to know myself
@blackmamba9089
@blackmamba9089 4 жыл бұрын
The fine line between simping and crushing is literally keeping your dignity🤦🏾‍♂️💀 But the first guy isn’t a simp, if he was the same age as you at the time, he’s just an 11 year old starting to go through puberty😂
@MsHojat
@MsHojat 4 жыл бұрын
I would say it's not a simp, but it's messed up. A room full of porn at 11? I've never heard of this, and a bit surprised that parents would be fine with it.
@awesimo4684
@awesimo4684 4 жыл бұрын
@@MsHojat "I've never heard of this" Oh sweet child of summer.
@charlesapplebee4274
@charlesapplebee4274 4 жыл бұрын
That is a gross ass kid. Holy shit, I hope he got help. I have been sexually active and aware since I was a kid and let me tell you, that is not normal behavior. He learned that somewhere.
@lucaseduardo9605
@lucaseduardo9605 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, it is truly amazing how I overcome all the thoughts I had about you and your channel. You truly come from a place of passion and share your views without trimming them to the viewer, at first I thought, that you were playing the regular role of E-Girl + Tourettes. Now I'm very impressed with how much care you have for the people that watch your content, especially the man that watch it. Well done Anita, you rock!
@henrykostenzer2746
@henrykostenzer2746 3 жыл бұрын
Simp
@lucaseduardo9605
@lucaseduardo9605 3 жыл бұрын
@@henrykostenzer2746 lol love you too bro!
@henrykostenzer2746
@henrykostenzer2746 3 жыл бұрын
@@lucaseduardo9605
@fendermon
@fendermon 3 жыл бұрын
@@henrykostenzer2746 Too funny :)
@tonyguillen3224
@tonyguillen3224 3 жыл бұрын
Ok simp😆 Just joking bro
@georgemcelroyII
@georgemcelroyII 2 жыл бұрын
I really like you are talking 100% sincerely about very sensitive social situations we all have encountered, one way or another. I hope you stay like that and I do wish you all the best in your life.
@elexirghutz9540
@elexirghutz9540 3 жыл бұрын
This by far is the best content I’ve watched from your channel so far.
@AntoineHorns
@AntoineHorns 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of people haven’t learnt to see the value of other people being happy. They give, not because they want the best for the other, but because they expect something for themselves. Everybody is capable of selfless love, but not many people have learned to experience it and see the value in it.
@basedgod4807
@basedgod4807 4 жыл бұрын
SIMP
@Macheako
@Macheako 4 жыл бұрын
It's not as simple as just "Seeing other people be happy".....it's like "WHO are those people...and do they have sex with little children?????" There's some people in life I couldn't give less of a fuck about seeing happy....I didn't realize everybody was fuckin struggling with finding THEIR OWN goddamn happiness lol 🤣
@watchonjar
@watchonjar 4 жыл бұрын
Nah, the reality is you can't have appreciation for seeing people happy if no one does things to make you happy. The problem is there are a lot of guys, who don't have any friends or have any female attention.
@watchonjar
@watchonjar 4 жыл бұрын
Anita should have just told the guy at the start, he would have moved out but at least he wouldn't have wasted his time.
@Macheako
@Macheako 4 жыл бұрын
@@watchonjar THANK YOU!!!
@LonelyRiver21
@LonelyRiver21 4 жыл бұрын
W a n k c a b i n
@StealthTheUnknown
@StealthTheUnknown 2 жыл бұрын
"Love is when you crave someone's company" I really love this!
@davidjames4314
@davidjames4314 3 жыл бұрын
Never watched you before today, I got diagnosed with BPD earlier this year and I needed to hear this. Thank you
@brandonpetersen5710
@brandonpetersen5710 3 жыл бұрын
I used to be a simp. I've got no shame in admitting it, because kinda like Anita didn't realise what was actually going on psychologically, neither did i. I had no idea how to interact with girls and that was mainly because i was such a young dude at the time, and all i had learned from my parents was to just "be nice to them". So i took that advice very literally and in doing so, completely forgot to also be nice to myself. I came to realise that a lot of girls take advantage of these guys by leading them on and accepting the attention without ever returning it, which can cause a lot of psychological damage as well, causing them to "simp" even harder than before. It wasn't until i got older and matured more that i started realising that being "nice" wasn't impressive at all, it's just the minimal expectation. If you're nice, thats great, but you should also take care of yourself, be independent, respect yourself and also respect any boundaries your crush has set. You can never control how somebody else feels about you, no matter how much you shower them in love or affection, how many gifts you buy, or how nice the car you drive is. They are a human being with infinite value, and so are you. The question is not "What will it take to woo this girl", but rather "How should i improve myself so that she notices me?" Thanks for reading :)
@nessuno1984
@nessuno1984 3 жыл бұрын
Very few girls take advantage. Girls are taught to be nice and be agreeable all the time so they will accept anything guys say or give to them to not hurt the guy's feelings. Girls actually feel really bad and worry about hurting boys' feelings, even if they are smiling at the time. Boys need to be taught by their parents how to treat girls correctly and girls need to be taught how to say no and stand up for themselves.
@lucasdarianschwendlervieir3714
@lucasdarianschwendlervieir3714 3 жыл бұрын
This a mature take and I'm glad you are sharing it with the world :) Only issue I take is the last statement, where I think it's fine to have 'she notices me' as a motivation, but the goal in the end is to improve yourself, full stop. The noticing will just be a consequence, but not the goal.
@mikelee2654
@mikelee2654 3 жыл бұрын
i'd iterate on that last question one step further and make the question "how should i improve myself for my own sake". im sorry but if your only motivation for self improvement is to impress someone else it's just advanced simping.
@kittycat3638
@kittycat3638 2 жыл бұрын
@@lucasdarianschwendlervieir3714 I agree
@czdot
@czdot 3 жыл бұрын
I wish someone had a sit down with me when I was a teenager to tell me I had a mild simp problem. I could've gotten my crap together much sooner. I was infatuated with a girl who dated someone till the end of high school and had no idea other girls liked me until they told me years later. Shit, I had no idea girls liked me when I was in college. I felt lonely and unloved till I turned 28. That's when I met my wife. That was the first time I knowingly and purposefully didn't let us become friends and asked her out instead. Damn, it worked. I
@goldenpony822
@goldenpony822 Жыл бұрын
Duck I had the same issue... later in college I realized that it's been months every other week some girl would stare or smile when long commutes in packed cities was a thing, and I wouldn't do jackshit about it and deny myself... Then you realize 'ugly ducks' with meh jobs of either gender can have very interesting personalities and values that attract 'catches', and that there are actually tons of women looking for you or me when we just become a decent, strong version of ourselves basically.
@THE-WAY_THE-TRUTH_THE-LIFE.
@THE-WAY_THE-TRUTH_THE-LIFE. Жыл бұрын
Isn't almost every teenager a simp though? Especially the males.
@czdot
@czdot Жыл бұрын
@@THE-WAY_THE-TRUTH_THE-LIFE. I think you're absolutely right. 🙂
@dinomite29
@dinomite29 2 жыл бұрын
The best example of "a nice guy" vs "a good guy" has to be Titan v.s. Megamind.
@LoranskiNightinhop
@LoranskiNightinhop 2 жыл бұрын
You should never do something nice for someone and expect something in return, especially a friend. Never assume that you'll be rewarded, especially with something specific in mind, just because you were a decent human being for a moment. When I do something nice it's because I wanted to do it. I don't expect anything from anyone or for them to even thank me for doing what I thought was right, I don't need them to. I do it because I know who I am, what I wanted to do and that I was capable of doing it. I know everyone has heard it by now but when you spell out the word "Assume" it's "ASSuME". You feel horrible for not getting what you want, you make the other person feel horrible for not giving you what you wanted, because they realized you were keeping tabs expecting something in return and ruin the entire possibility of you ever being with that person. Or they may just not see you in a romantic way. But doing that will surely end what could've been a good friendship. Also, thank you for sharing the story(s). Very well explained and detailed, perfect for getting your point across. And respect for your tolerance with it. Your friends are lucky they have you.
@MelfickVaragon
@MelfickVaragon 3 жыл бұрын
As a former simp, thank you. I had never heard the full emotional explanation of the girl's view of the situation. You helped me a lot today.
@trifulquita15
@trifulquita15 2 жыл бұрын
Once being a simp you allways be a simp
@jin00305
@jin00305 2 жыл бұрын
@@trifulquita15 people can change
@CTSSTC
@CTSSTC 2 жыл бұрын
SA - Simps Anonymous, we meet at the church every Friday™ there is coffee and cookies to ease your soul as God touches and forgives you. You will never be cured; always recovering.
@trifulquita15
@trifulquita15 2 жыл бұрын
@@CTSSTC no more OnlyFans? No more strip clubs?
@CTSSTC
@CTSSTC 2 жыл бұрын
@@trifulquita15 only if you consume the content for your enjoyment, and do not care or give money because you want to help or marry them.
@shampoochamp5223
@shampoochamp5223 3 жыл бұрын
I got this one: “SIMP” stands for “Strongly interacting massive particles.” Keep scanning the universe people, that dark matter can’t hide forever, people.
@mrfraud7403
@mrfraud7403 3 жыл бұрын
dark lives matter
@crazycarl00
@crazycarl00 2 жыл бұрын
Dark matter does not exist and as a result of that fact it will never be found.
@jadiel_jimenez
@jadiel_jimenez 3 жыл бұрын
I just realized that Anita showed me that I was a simp for a girl I said to myself I used to like, but still like when I try not to. She is indeed a beautiful girl with a beautiful personality, but is already taken and has made it clear that she doesn’t want to date me. She also decided to tell me after about a couple of days of us being friends that when I asked her out that my best friend was actually dating her at the moment. My friend had asked her out as a bet, and after they broke up she ended up finding another guy. Then later when we become friends she makes it clear “ohh I have a bf” and I’m cool with it. Then we’re talking and I make a edit that she says I put no effort into at all when I made it. I was sadly on my man period and she was on her period period. Point is I did simp for this girl for a very long time, and I would do anything that she would need me to do as friends now that I have realized how bad it is to have a simp for a friend. Damn that’s quite personal but hey Not like I should care
@Pyne56
@Pyne56 Ай бұрын
Telling these stories as an example for other people is helpful(I like to hope it is). I appreciate you giving tips as what not to do. That’s why I love being single. Thanks Anita for being so open, it was insightful for me.
@michaeljburt
@michaeljburt 3 жыл бұрын
the measuring stick is that if he wouldn't do those "favors" for his male friends, or his close friends, then yeah, he's doing with an expectation of a romantic relationship
@fjrapper436
@fjrapper436 4 жыл бұрын
Nice quote there “generosity should be done with no expectation”
@DrXerrad
@DrXerrad 3 жыл бұрын
I disagree. If you let someone pull out in front of you from a parking lot and they don't wave to say thanks, I think most get angry.
@fjrapper436
@fjrapper436 3 жыл бұрын
@@DrXerrad well the only act of generosity I ever done was that somebody had a crooked nose and I try to fix by punching it but now I’m suspended
@idam8555
@idam8555 3 жыл бұрын
Thats simping by definition.
@MrRainoir
@MrRainoir 3 жыл бұрын
I’m new to driving etiquette. How should I respond to another driver simping?
@MrRainoir
@MrRainoir 3 жыл бұрын
@Frank Bird it didn’t work, they followed me to Walmart I think they are still simping.
@tacticalartist2231
@tacticalartist2231 3 жыл бұрын
You know, I never thought of myself as a simp...but looking at the definition and how you explained it, i am. I'm self aware of who and what i am and looking at how i act...i am a simp. I kind of don't want to be because it lowkey sounds like a toxic mindset. But at the same time i do feel desperate at times and my loneliness overtakes me. I've been called toxic for this reason...idk what to do to fix that. But at the same time i feel hopeless like the way you describe how simps are. So most times i let the demons take over because i feel really hopeless. And i want to make sure that you know that im not criticizing you for this, not that you may have felt like it, but i at least want to sort of thank you for making me realize it. I kind of didn't have a word to describe my behaviors, so thank you. Now i just gotta find a way to improve myself. But some(most)times, it feels comforting to listen to your inner demons, as bad as it is😔
@yannk95
@yannk95 2 жыл бұрын
Super intimate.. Thank-you. That middle pic really tugged on my heartstrings.. Love your Hollow Knight poster. ** pop!!
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