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it hits home want he says. Been dating this guy for like two years.I am 27 he was 36. We met when i was 26 doing my masters then. And the stipend thing happened, he even wanted to pay my rent and even wanted to get me a car, i said no. As soon as i was done i applied to do my phd. I think he started to get scared, the relationship suddenly became quiet and a few days before i decided to end it. He called in a month to ask how i was and how sorry he was that he wasnt supportive of me to pursue my dreams. So i forgave him, 2 weeks later i was receiving calls like, uko wapi sahii, na nani, why are you not this and that, started even dming my male friends online... i decided to just call it quits. please dont waste your years. watch the red flags...n always put you first

I just love Benjamin because he opened my eyes and everyone around me saying that have changed but it's you Benjamin who did a job in me. I really thank you am from Uganda love the show

"Its foolish for a person who has helped you as a friend, to reward them with marriage"

Ohhh I love that statement "A man who doesn't call you or check on you is dysfactional" period. Communication is key.

Who else is watching while reading comments....I'm taking notes in every episode and I always feel transformed thanks Mr Zulu and your team every show is super

wow this I totally agree. If as a woman you cannot pay for your own lifestyle, you ain't ready for dating....finally someone agrees with my thinking. Thanks Zulu.

Started watching shows of Benjamin Zulu when i had my first heartbreak recently... I feel he is God sent coz the wisdom he speaks is profound hits to my innermost core.. Jst at 20, i feel more focused in my studies, my dreams and my walk with God. I love u Mr. Zulu. Keep sharing these wisdoms, its saving lots of youth here. God bless 🙏❤.

For a financially stable woman, sometimes u can just desire a man to give u money, not because u can't afford.... But Kuna that cute feeling that comes with it.

"Don't date for 4 years. It is not a degree!" - Benjamin Zulu

We need to clone this man! Many women (young & old) need this wisdom. Thank you

Stand firm no one should pay for you fees my siz was paid fees and that guy married him after that she got several abuses until today and the guy keeps reminding him of the fees he paid its not worth it. I salute you benja wise words as usual.

"Even if he works for Redcross" 😂😂😂. I love Benjamin for free.

Benjamin is right... At 25 exactly my eyes got opened i knew what i wanted and where I want to go.

I just reflected on the fact that the things addressed on this show encompass the motivation, self-assurance and life advice young women without a doubt need as young adults from 16-30 years of age. It is the readily available precious information we should be seeking in self-development books surrounding matters to do with love and romance, finances and self-esteem. What makes the show such a treasure beside Benjamin's advice is the personal experiences of the Host and Guests interviewed that make you reflect on your own experiences hence connect with the topic of the day, and leave this chatroom a little better than you came.

"An empty stomach is not a good political adviser" 😂😂😂

I like this. I wish he can do more of this relationship teachings. After watching this I know that I have made a blander in marrying someone I don't love at 23 years because of the pressure from my parents. My mom's biggest fear was that I might get a child out of wedlock. She mislead me in my life. It's a long story. But I did not have a good childhood. N when I met my husband I thought he will rescue me from my narcissist mom. Now I am 38 n three kids, a good job but unhealthy marriage. I keep cheating my husband from time to time to fulfill the feeling that I want because I don't have feelings for him. From South Africa.

May God keep you in good health Benjamin. You continue nurturing us with your wisdom into our best selves. Love from Uganda❤

Been watching this segment for the past 2 weeks, and the gems of wisdom Benjamin spills are exactly what I need in the season I'm in in my life

And I just love how Benjamin is very comfortable around Mwikali. she let's Benjamin be himself. A beautiful host. Great Job Mwikali.

“You thought someone would Boomerang you to Success..”ahhhhhahhahha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I love Benjamin’s wisdom I wish I had this kind of advice in my twenties our girls listen in and build your Carreers so you have leverage and don’t make any important decisions before you are 25 food for thought 🤔 thank you

The fish and food analogy is on point!

"Marry right or don't marry" lol!!

"When you pass the interview, that's when you perform according to the position"..."Don't reward a friend with marriage." Wow.. Amazing wisdom.

I really like Benjamin because he talks about reality...Thanks for inspiring lives💞🙏

"As a woman if you cannot pay for your own life style then you ain't ready for dating"

I swear this has been my best show ❣️ much love and appreciation from Kampala

I just learned of this beautiful show last night by "mistake", BUT I thank God. This show is absolutely a godsend. I am watching from Dallas, Texas, USA. Please keep doing a beautiful job in teaching and preaching. God bless you all!!!

Money is earned. No man gives it for free. I love what dad told us as we grew up. And it has kept me till date. I don't look up for a man.

When you look for short cuts your will be cut short. Now that was a good one. May God continue to bless and keep you

I don't have words to describe how I love and I am inspired by this Man right here! ❤️

Living within your own means..Very peaceful because you don't have to be a slave to anyone... Benjamin Zulu.. wisdom reloaded!

I know what Benjamin Zulu is talking about from experience. By resigning to care of the family through direct hands on approach.

People perish because of lack of Knowledge. Keep up the good work Benjamin.

I landed on this platform in the right time.My guy is wondering about me and has become kind of afraid of me. Aahhhhh!!!

Can someone tell him short hair on us is expensive it's expensive like expensive! 🤣

Enhe fellow ladies let's value ourselves and be principled...our bodies are the temple of the holy spirit.

Team Benjamin Zulu & Mwiks😍❤️

The only channel that all Kenyan Youths MUST subscribe.

I am 16 i have listening to you since forever dont worry am not in a relationship because of your advices you have saved from a lot of hyenas til i reach 25 relationships are bullshit i will focus on self development thanks so much

Benjamin Zulu you are a blessing to many. I wish you could reach every young souls in Kenya...

Ben, you are just God sent. Thank you so much for all the life lessons that you pour into our lives. You never disappoint, always apt/on point. God richly bless you!!! Hello from Ghana.

I have been following full circle for some time because of Mr Benjamin Zulu and kindly asking if the host may speak english or production can look into putting sub titles for us who cant understand your beautiful language. I really feel left out. Ms Mwitwa - Zambia

If you take shortcuts , your life will be cut short ...go Benjamin 😂

May God bless you Benjamin Zulu for the good work. You are an eye opener.

I love Zulu 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 he talks FACTS ONLY .... TRUTHS ONLY ......

Saying the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Thank you sir watching from Lagos Nigeria.

Eeeeeeeiiiiish!!!! Benjamin is such a snack 💓. Thanks for taking the initiative to educate the youth.may God bless you,

am 28 and am patiently waiting thanks to Benjamin btw so long as I have a nice and well paying job,,am not bored at all

Benjamin is shoutiiiiing !!! The accuracy is at 100%!!!

Thank you so much Benjamin Zulu!

Benjamin speaks too much wisdom

The wisdom this guy oozes weee...

“When you take short cuts you,ll be cut short!” 🔥🔥🔥🔥

Benjamin is so right ! As a woman alaways live by the saying there's no free lunch.

Benjamin Zul is really something else 😊you actually talk sense! 💯✔️👌

I have been a very independent lady Zulu amechoma mimi huweka music alafu I hold a container to work like a microphone in my house 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Man! Mr Zulu speaks so much sense into me. I am so glad I get to hear all this truth you share. Thanks for encouraging that 2-5 years to focus on yourself & career post graduation. I needed this. Asante!

Switch TV- please, this show has great insight however... would you please include closed captions? I understand all languages spoken however I see lots of other Africans here concerned that they are missing your great advice.

Mwikali and Ben if you read the comments, you have a lot of foreigners who watch this show.. So they miss a lot when you switch to Swahili, please work on sub-titles. Great show!👌🏿🇰🇪

mimi sijui kupinga zulu.....I wish I met this info in my early 20s singewaste time

Oh this is so amazing.Benjamin always open my head and all topics he motivates me alot.

19:13.....my life is soo boooring....oooh my God i want somebody to talk to....😂😂😂 Woow!!! Mr.bejamin i always salute you for pure enlightenment to us gal, môre grace🙏

Always taking notes 📝, love you guys ❤️

Nowadays the word Bullshit is allowed on national media? 🤔

Thanks alot Zulu...always learning new thing each day. God bless 🙏

This the best speech ever ive listen from benjamin,i like it

Wow this was Powerful and The Truth. Thanks again Mr Zulu for your Honesty.

I always learn new things from these two wonderful soul am changing every new day🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

MY MENTOR FOR LIFE!!!!!!!

The FISH thing oh my God! Zulu, yr wisdom is surely God given..thanks for sharing it freely. A very grateful soul here..grtgz Mary

THANK YOU ZULU.

Am Ann from Uganda am simply addicted to Zuluz words

Benjamin is jus always on point.always glued to this show.keep it up guys.

Ooh my God! ! Benjamin Zulu you are a God sent. Thank you so much Sir, I wish to meet you one day and tell you how much you have really done in my life. How I wish I listened to you from the beginning. God bless

I started taking care of my self at age 19 and am still doing it I love taking care of my self Zulu your correct

Wise word's...keep up guys

Taking notes every episode thank you so much

I like how you call "Mwikali"👀

Thank you Benjamin. so much insight.

You know I wish I knew how I could contact this guy. So I have been reading a book that was telling me that courtship is not for someone who is still in school. I got confused because I will only finish my first degree when I'm 25 years. I prayed to God and asked Him to make it clear for me if the author is right. Then I was browsing looking for something to watch and boom I found this guy Benjamin! He has answered my questions. I believe it's not a coincidence, I'm glad God has answered me.

Your wisdom is unmatched 👍

Men will never give freely,....they expect sth in return

Bravo Benjamin.... Although the term 'stupid' is a little counterproductive. Let me tell you it is actually all rounded women that are the biggest targets. The younger the worse it is. Don't forget that there are narcissistic predators with the ability to shape shift into perfect lambs when they are really wolves.

Mimi I got tired!! Started dating at 28 yrs. Very focused strict and morally on course. No results but a series of disappointments..... at 40

Its infuriating to date once you have your own things, i still feel the need to be taken care of every now and then. Am 26 my boyfriend is 33, we are both having stable employment. When we met i was an intern and he used to buy me gifts occasionally and pay for dates. We have been dating for 4 years now and for the past three his been so stingy, his communication is on and off, we have that relationship where sometimes if i don't call he doesn't call. I am still with him because am comfortable in that space, i can go visit whenever i want and not have to worry about anything. Its a mess i don't know .......

Please Mwikali speak english 😢😢 I feel like am missing an important info 😂😂

This is deep! Kudos Benjamin

Thanks Benjamin Zulu ....always true and real ....your words and wisdom has always saved me from soo many men.

The kind of realities that benjamin is spitting here wueeh

My best episode yet. Facts left, right and centre.

Well said, Benjamin Zulu...

Always the right place to be 🙏

Thanks for reminding us to first of all focus on our purpose before anything else

Zulu, you’re so full of wisdom

Wow, thanks a lot brother for the great words. God blessed u both. much love 😍

For sure thanks alot sir for the wisdom 🙏🙏🙏 am learning more each day

Full of wisdom Benjamin ❤️

Amen wise man ....Trusting God when you are stack...