I’m back to share some of my past. My behavior during my divorce was nothing to be proud of.

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21 күн бұрын

Graphic Content Warning**
I speak about poor behavior that mentions self harm, if you are struggling at the moment this video could trigger negative feelings.
A handful of people reached out and asked me for more detail on the “gun situation” I spoke about with Daniel. Here is a brief breakdown as well as me owning my part in my divorce.
Technical difficulties cut the video short, it abruptly ends but I’m not too focused on the quality of filming. I am more focused on the message and transparency so I felt it important to upload as is.

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@dmg912008 8 күн бұрын

The level of self awareness you’ve made it to in only 2 years is remarkable.

@jackdoherty1412 4 күн бұрын

@@dmg912008 thank you for seeing me!

@rightshoe21 3 күн бұрын

Your self reflection is admirable Jack 💚 And thank goodness you are in a more positive headspace and made it past that time in your life - many many people will benefit from your honest conversations now and as this channel grows! 🥰

@jackdoherty1412 2 күн бұрын

Greatly appreciate you seeing me for who I am. Thank you for being here and participating.

@dannyrey3403 16 күн бұрын

Wow, you were just getting into the realization of how you could have been a better spouse, dad, and friend, but you cut the video short. Anyway, I wanted to encourage you in your journey of sobriety. I realize that being drug free clean is good. However, we can get addicted to other forms of behavior that are non life threatening, like gambling, shopping, binge watching TV.. etc.. and as a result, we neglect to nurture our important relationship with family & friends. Thank you for sharing, Jack..👍🏽

@jackdoherty1412 16 күн бұрын

I know the video got cut short and I apologize for that. More to be revealed. I totally agree with your comment about behaviors outside of drugs that cause issues, I’ve struggled with them myself since getting clean. I really appreciate you being here, I hope you stay!

@toodaloo3 19 күн бұрын

I appreciate you sharing your story and taking accountability for your part of how things turned out. Really appreciate you. Your 12-step work really shows.

@jackdoherty1412 19 күн бұрын

I appreciate you being here, I am going to finish the video today. Welcome in!!

@ScottCampbell-wy4ie 15 күн бұрын

You have done some incredible deep thinking and reflections on past actions and behaviours. It is so gripping, at times so sad too.

@jackdoherty1412 15 күн бұрын

Not proud of these behaviors, but I’m taking accountability is important to me in order to grow.

@fernandasiallagan2183 19 күн бұрын

It's really exciting to hear your story. I learned so much from you and your story

@jackdoherty1412 19 күн бұрын

Welcome in, very happy you’re here. Thank you for the kind words and I hope you stick around!

@CharleneCavileer-et8th 15 күн бұрын

Owning your side of the road.. bravo Jack! Your vulnerability is refreshing and inspiring. Your program seems strong. Keep charging.👊🏻

@jackdoherty1412 15 күн бұрын

Thank you Charlene, I hope you stick around! Grateful to have you here.

@JohnR.Luv2luvu 12 күн бұрын

I first saw you on Soft White Underbelly and Jack you still inspire me to this day. You are so genuine and truthful. I’m so glad we are doing great in our recovery. Keep it up Jack. ❤❤❤

@jackdoherty1412 9 күн бұрын

Thank you John I’m glad you’re here. Please stick around and continue to participate.

@eduardosanta5844 11 күн бұрын

I love your honesty. Stay true to yourself and everything else will align itself.

@eduardosanta5844 11 күн бұрын

Stay close to God and you will accomplish great things!!!

@thinktonka 18 күн бұрын

I remember you from Soft White Underbelly. I'm not sure how you got into my youtube feed but I'm glad you did. I turned 62 and feel a little lost. Sometimes we feel we are all alone with our problems. Glad you are another human that is reaching out!

@jackdoherty1412 18 күн бұрын

I am so glad you found me! Stick around and I am confident we can grow together, what is currently causing you to feel lost?

@thinktonka 16 күн бұрын

Never married, no kids. Raised by an emotionally abusive mother and neglectful father. I'm realizing how much it effected my life and that things could have been much better had i had better parents. In many ways it feels like a fucked up life but in many ways i overcame it and have had a good life! But always still alone! I do have a small dog which makes things much better! Thanks for responding! Looking forward to staying with this channel!@@jackdoherty1412

@carlorizzo827 19 күн бұрын

ThankU for this amazing disclosure. Self destruction is a subject with which I am all too familiar. Thank goodness it didn't happen. I sense perfectionism, which can be emotional violence. I depart from program rhetoric regarding self pity. I distinguish that from actual grief, which is a healthy ennobling response to loss. Your ex-wife committed a betrayal. That's a significant loss. If she was that discontented, she ought to have separated first. That's her lack of accountability. You can & will improve

@jackdoherty1412 19 күн бұрын

This was not a comfortable thing for me to speak about, but I feel it is important to be open and honest. Thank you SO much for the comment. I’m glad you’re here!

@carlorizzo827 18 күн бұрын

Noticed your playlists, heard Breathwork. Whoa how beautiful. You have sweet ear. Leaning into the Celtic, hunh 💚 ThankU

@jackdoherty1412 17 күн бұрын

Breath work was a big part of my early recovery, thank you so much for being here!

@anitarose7915 11 күн бұрын

Your insecurities screaming out loud!!😢❤❤❤

@Delaquintiny 19 күн бұрын

Courage

@jackdoherty1412 19 күн бұрын

More to come! Thank you so much for joining.

@dmg912008 8 күн бұрын

Part 2?????

@jackdoherty1412 2 күн бұрын

Just posted a part 2 this morning.

@anitarose7915 11 күн бұрын

You sound a bit like Boston!

@ez-zayanyilyass 18 күн бұрын

I love you men ❤

@jackdoherty1412 17 күн бұрын

I love you too. Thank you for being here.

@mattfladude8491 17 күн бұрын

Almost impossible to hear, might wanna upgrade mic....

@jackdoherty1412 17 күн бұрын

Working on that Matt, I apologize for the low quality. Thank you for being here and I will improve on that.

@lialacombe71 4 күн бұрын

I can hear him fine, are you using headphones?

@stevendaniel8126 17 күн бұрын

Can't hear you......

@jackdoherty1412 17 күн бұрын

I’m sorry Steven I am working on getting better. In the future I hope to be able to get some real equipment to upgrade the quality. Thank you for being here!

@me-li8kd Күн бұрын

Dude. She cheated because she wanted to cheat.

@jackdoherty1412 Күн бұрын

100%

@quintineperry3441 12 күн бұрын

All of your vlogs gave very low volume!

@jackdoherty1412 12 күн бұрын

@@quintineperry3441 working on that, I will get better equipment as soon as I’m able to. I’m still new to this I’m doing the best with what I’ve got. Thank you for being here!

@quintineperry3441 12 күн бұрын

@@jackdoherty1412 forgot to say I like your content ~~ I just ran across you recently ~~

@shanedorival3177 17 күн бұрын

Mate, we all go through the, would have, could have, should have. It’s not all a one way street. You both should have communicated, talked about your wants and needs as a couple. Instead, you sought escape from sports cars and gambling. She sought affection and self worth in an affair. Neither are good, but are the result of no communication. Life ain’t easy, we all make mistakes. You’ve taken accountability and are looking at how to repair yourself. Keep going, it’s not an easy road. I’m sure, when you’re ready. You’ll move onto bigger and better things in your life. All the best from Melbourne Australia.

@KoalaBeer. 17 күн бұрын

Hi Adelaide

@jackdoherty1412 16 күн бұрын

Love this comment, you couldn’t be more accurate. Thank you for watching and thank you for being here, I hope you stay!

@FOOTBALL_MANIA-s6i 19 күн бұрын

Bro What's your channel about

@jackdoherty1412 19 күн бұрын

My channel is about growth through honesty and vulnerability. Hoping to reach people on a human level and help them understand good people make mistakes.

@FOOTBALL_MANIA-s6i 19 күн бұрын

@@jackdoherty1412 fix your audio bro, your volume is very poor

@jackdoherty1412 19 күн бұрын

@@FOOTBALL_MANIA-s6i still learning how to do this brother, I will for sure get better as I go. I appreciate the input and I will try to do better.

@lonelyrider606 19 күн бұрын

Chapter One of My Life. I walk down the street. There's a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in. I am lost. I am helpless. It isn't my fault. It still takes forever to find a way out. Chapter Two. I walk down the same street. There's a deep hole in the sidewalk. I pretend I don't see it. I fall in again. I can't believe I'm in the same place! But it isn't my fault. And it still takes a long time to get out. Chapter Three. I walk down the same street. There's a deep hole in the sidewalk. I see it there. I still fall in. It's a habit! My eyes are open. I know where I am. It is my fault. I get out immediately. Chapter Four. I walk down the same street. There's a deep hole in the sidewalk. I walk around it. Chapter Five. I walk down a different street.

@jackdoherty1412 19 күн бұрын

@@lonelyrider606 The Hole. I remember reading this story many times in different treatment facilities, it always stuck with me.