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@kittynoir2787 5 ай бұрын

"I am just done with your laziness, to be honest..." Same, girl, same. That's why I'm here. Thank you so much, you absolute wonderful queen! Have a Happy New Year, darlings!

@Jennie-vq6ig 5 ай бұрын

How to exit your lazy girl era 1. Mindset shift - there is someone else out there who has the same dream as you but is working harder than you - dreams don’t work unless you do - the path of laziness only has one outcome, regret - your younger self is counting on you while your older self is wazing on you - failure is just not trying in the first place 2. Lazy girl productivity hacks - simplify large goals - get a driving force - lists will save your life - make your tasks enjoyable - pomodoro or 3-minute rule - remove distractions - habit stack - get the right environment - real dopamine addiction - strive for completion - make tasks less icky through technology 3. The key to discipline - the addiction to discomfort 4. Homework - get real about what you want and prioritize it *what would be the one thing you would achieve this month? - plan the next seven days of your life according to the goals you need to achieve in order to become the best version of yourself - create lists - create your productivity environment - implement one service

@just_mee9250 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much❤

@alicentabathia8790 2 ай бұрын

thankyou

@starfire4839 2 ай бұрын

Arigatooooo ~ ✨️💖 this will help me a lot to look all the things to write down each everything and plan everything accordingly and enter into my productive self 🤝😼✨️✨️

@bby_angellllll 14 күн бұрын

THANK YOU SO MUCH OH EM GEE God bless you!!

@faizaahmed9784 5 ай бұрын

1:04 exact same goal but working hard than you 1:22 dreams don't work unless you 1:48 laziness=regret 2:07 failure 2:41 productivity hacks - Simplify - driving force pair with why - list will save your life - motivation ⭐ - goals ✨ romanticism - 8:03 pomodoro timers - remove all distractions - reward - enjoyment - scroll through right reels - dopamine addiction - stop for perfection - small goals - less icky - work smart 🤓 apps - online platform: learning KEY TO DISCIPLINE 15:09 - DISCIPLINE 15:20 - YOU LOVE COMFORT HW 16:53 - plan - create list - create productivity environment - implement one service ⛅✨

@sreyanshi3371 5 ай бұрын

tysm bestie! I have a test in 2 days and your comment helped me save sm time🩷

@lightsapple-kv3ge 5 ай бұрын

❤thanks

@andreeabodea6514 5 ай бұрын

00:55 mindset 1. someone else is working harder for the same goal as yours 2. dreams don't work unless you do 3. laziness has only one outcome: regret 4. your younger self is counting on you - make them proud your future self is talking shit about you - prove them wrong 5. failure is a part of the journey 02:40 lazy girl hacks 1. simplify your goals into small, achievable steps 2. think of the 'why', your driving force, purpose, mission 3. lists and planning 4. make it enjoyable 5. Pomodoro timer or 3 minute rule 6. remove all distractions and create a reward that is waiting when you're done 7. new easy and accessible routine 8. right environment 9. dopamine addiction - real not fake source of dopamine 10. stop striving for perfection and start striving for completion 11. make tasks less icky 15:00 key to discipline ! 16:40 homework 1. set goals and prioritize them 2. plan out next 7 days 3. create productivity environments - Pinterest boards, romanticize 4.implement one service

@123positive_vibes Ай бұрын

Thank you ❤💟

@ecstasy3692 5 ай бұрын

'remember that you betray yourself every single time you decide to neglect taking a step towards fulfilling your full potential'

@moniquehansen4551 2 ай бұрын

Wow I really needed to hear this thank you 🙏🏼 I’m grateful I ran into this video and these comments ❤

@tansytansy 5 ай бұрын

for those who can't get themselves bored and get to work because of daydreaming: if you can't stop yourself from it, set rules for the daydreams, limit them for instance to only a certain scenario or language (pick the one you use less on the daily), thus making daydreaming less enjoyable

@richasaxena7314 5 ай бұрын

Such a good idea!! Ty

@gracebowerr 3 ай бұрын

Tomorrow i am exiting my lazy girl era! Thank you ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Girls, we’ve got this

@dhyanashah9045 Ай бұрын

why not today?

@ankitadhami5463 28 күн бұрын

@@dhyanashah9045 i was about to write the exact thing 😂😂

@jeshthaac 5 ай бұрын

I WAS LITERALLY IN MY LAZY GIRL ERA....you saved the day again like an elder sister...thank you so muchhh💗💗

@limitlesslizzie 3 ай бұрын

gurl this is the first "leave your lazy girl era" video I've seen that's actually realistic and helpful!!! thankyouu

@kook307 5 ай бұрын

When she said I'm done with your lazyness. I felt that :)

@callisto2408 5 ай бұрын

2024 is such an important year for me!! im going to achieve my dreams, im going to work for it.

@muskansmile3249 4 ай бұрын

1. have self-respect to do the work 2. change your neural circuitry to love discomfort

@fakename254 Ай бұрын

I watched this a month ago when I decided to finally accept that to a point--I am naturally lazy. My parents were able to provide me enough stability and resources that I had the privilege to be lazy about taking care of myself and getting my life together. Yeah, my family is toxic and I was parentified to take care of my younger siblings, but because I picked up on lessons easy and didn't have to work hard, I still had the opportunity to be lazy. Now that I'm adult, dropped out of college after my first semester and stayed at a shop job for 2 years. Something happened within the toxic family structure that crossed a boundary I didn't realize I mentally had set. I put backbone in myself to learn how to not be lazy and how to build myself past my personal barriers. I'm still working on it but I had to come to this after this past month. I'm going from Lola to Athena, and it's genuinely the hardest work I've had to do in my life. I'm starting a youtube business, starting freelancing and getting a part time job because it now feels worth it. I'm still learning from you and other self improvement people, but I can not stress how much good you've done for me. 💕

@kat_ilming 5 ай бұрын

This is wild, I am LITERALLY RIGHT NOW listening to one of your videos on Spotify (the TMI questions part 2) and opened up KZfaq to see that you posted this video. Girl you are all over my life right now and I'm so enjoying listening to you and learning from you! When I was 22 I was a big hot mess and I'm so proud to see young people doing so well 👏👏👏

@Dipi650 5 ай бұрын

To be honest , you are really helping me cope my depression bestie....right now i am going through soo much that i am not deserving of but i am facing and fighting against it anyways.....but bestie believe me you are motivating me every day to work more harder towards my goals....u taught me how not to betray myself and you most importantly taught me that working on my self rather than blaming will help me throughout the way....thank you soo much bestie 🌷

@Berryberry_789 5 ай бұрын

I respect you!! How brave you're!! Hats off to you!! Congratulations for being the most strongest person of 2023..!! 👏🎉

@ranmalnimathew2706 5 ай бұрын

so... proud of you!!!

@lifebytama 5 ай бұрын

So proud of you!! Let's get better together

@Dipi650 5 ай бұрын

@@lifebytamayess babe!! 😭🌷

@Dipi650 5 ай бұрын

@@Berryberry_789 thanks bestie😭🌷!!

@Liishha 3 ай бұрын

Do you know thewizardliz? I think the both of you can get good friend

@sabamufrin381 Ай бұрын

I follow both... And trust me i love both of themm💜💜💜

@SheenasInstinct Ай бұрын

⁠@@sabamufrin381Fr they both help me so muchhhhh

@Diana-ez6ud Ай бұрын

Right

@sawdarchitects4803 24 күн бұрын

I follow both

@yasminaibrahim6289 13 күн бұрын

Yesssssssss I agreee

@mschrisfrank2420 5 ай бұрын

I think there is a lot of good stuff in this video, but it is important to recognize the difference between “laziness” and mental illness, chronic illness, and neurodivergence. There is often no way to just push through long term if you’re dealing with those. Instead, you have to find ways to work around those issues and make sure you are actually getting enough rest.

@XeniaLys8 4 ай бұрын

After seeing a video with you where you presented 15 good books I got dressed and went to the public library and borrowed 6 books. I am on this path of learning and levelling up from 5 years ago and the results were 0 zero!!! But before declutter ing my ideal self I said to myself to give it another chance so here I am eating your videos and reading non stop. When I saw you I liked you and you inspired me so much. Thank you❤

@iheartstar 5 ай бұрын

Girl your energy is so immaculate like as soon as I click on the video a few seconds in and I'm already feeling full of energy ❤

@user-bn4jh8qk2y 2 ай бұрын

this is the first video of urs im watching and im already in love with you the way you caught my problems with solutions and the energy you have i just loved it and thank u very much ill definetly work on myself for sure i need to get done all the pending activities and ill start working again and ill soon enter in my productive girl eraaa yayyy. im literally so tired of my laziness i hate it noww!!!! all the best to every women out theree!!! we got this we gotta make it. we have goals to achieve we have responsibilities!! we cant be always laying on our bed all day , eating napping and sleeping. we have to get out of our homes and comfort zone. lets start our era togetherrr!!!

@Angeladwani9 26 күн бұрын

Her advicess! Seriously she is life changer 💌

@cecilecali 5 ай бұрын

GUURL WTF !!! I was literally in a lazy period this whole week..you’re the best !!!💌💌

@iamchristinakelly 4 ай бұрын

Love your tough love right from the start! You have my attention! 👑

@kim_ifynta 5 ай бұрын

*THE MOST NEEDED VIDEO* Thank you Queen

@emmanuellaslife 5 ай бұрын

godsent video honestly - you always deliver, tam!!

@Bhaaavs_ 5 ай бұрын

I swear this girl has changed how I look at life! She changed my whole perspective ❤ There aren't enough words to express my gratitude 💓 also I started my own channel only because she gave me the confidence! Love you Tam ❤

@anvi3642 5 ай бұрын

Literally what I needed right now!!

@alessiastasi9992 5 ай бұрын

Hi, I’ve been watching your videos since forever and I’ve been supporting you but I’ve never commented on one. I just wanted to say “thank you” because I love your channel and your videos and I absolutely love what you do for us. Every time I watch your videos I feel like a better person, for example I’ve finished this video and now I feel like I could run the world and that’s all thanks to you. I’m extremely grateful to you, I also see you as my therapist and I will continue to support you. I’m stepping into the new year with a better mindset and new habits thanks to you. I just love you ❤

@sandhinisen32 5 ай бұрын

honestly tam's videos on saturday feel like a whole treat after the whole week of productivity, and motivates me to go onto the next week having even more knowledge ☺☺

@throughtheblueside 5 ай бұрын

ugh yes 🥳 i needed this vid for new years coming up. got some goals to accomplish!!

@sonakshirajawat2641 5 ай бұрын

HOWWW MUCH I NEEDED THISSSSS

@user-jb1ij7qy9y 5 ай бұрын

tam you are on my new vision board!!!! I love itt love youuu❤️❤️❤️

@JourneywithGigi 5 ай бұрын

the QUEEN has spoken!! So happy you make these videos, Tam!! thank you for the extra dose of motivation going into 2024!! 💪💥🚀

@sweetener_aesthetic 5 ай бұрын

I was literally looking for a video like this yesterday ! thank you tam!

@loveskz_music 5 ай бұрын

I LITERALLY NEEDED THIS VIDEO, OMGGG!!!!!!! THANK YOU TAMMM, Love you ❤❤, youre such a big sister to me!!!!!

@shreyachaudhary5176 5 ай бұрын

I feel thankful for coming across your spotify podcast a while ago. I mean I just admire and respect you in your perfections and in your authenticity🤍.

@ruthmetcalfe7391 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for being so awesome. You really inspire me and this video came at JUST the right time. Much love to you, Tam.

@Alwayslearningandgrowing 3 ай бұрын

I’m loving this! Thank you! 🤍

@anverreehan9983 Ай бұрын

I've been watching your videos for 2 months and it helps to change my lifestyle. Thanks a bunch tam Kaur sister ❤

@ily5990 29 күн бұрын

I love you so much because you dont only talk about self improvement you also tell us how to do it and give us so many tips💘💘

@leegurl309 5 ай бұрын

honestly Tam gurllllll... you have the best timing everytime you post a video, it always at right time and it comes at right situation too. Wow I love you for that. You are like a sis who I can count on in my dark days and worst too, hoping with your help I can give a good turn in life ♥♥♥

@Cutieesweet4321 5 ай бұрын

Most needed videooo ❤❤❤ , i was struggling with consistency and was just scrolling and then notification poped your video❤❤

@lifewithloulou 5 ай бұрын

I listen to you as a motivation!! That's so great!! You are old enough to be my daughter, LOL!! But I love your motivation and the steps you give. There are ppl who charge thousands of dollars for the information that you provide. You have a client for life!! I love your minimal space.

@s22centuaryfox 4 ай бұрын

Love your videos so straight to the point

@Slachelle1123 5 ай бұрын

I don’t think I’ve ever heard a piece of advice quite like I did in this video. The studying mindset change is exactly what I needed. I’m trying to get my CPT and I dread studying, rather than dreading it I’ll be taking your advice and seeing the positive in studying like how much brighter it will make my future

@mel-me3rf 3 ай бұрын

okkkk the points she made in the intro ateeeee!! drag us (in a helpful and motivating way)

@Vidhyanshi 5 ай бұрын

HEY TAM! Please make a detailed video on how to set up your business on Squarespace! A detailed guide for young entrepreneurs! Love❤

@JaiMahishmati 5 ай бұрын

Much needed Thankyou Tam❤

@sarvaepc 4 ай бұрын

Every lazy move is a betrayal to your future self Set steps for your main goal every month Remind urself abt the long term benefits and future attitude before doing it Make an aesthetic abt the things you hate Watch study timelapses Starting is what’s hard While you’re enjoying do the task as well (music while studying, phone while walking etc) Just do the small step and it will lead to the next step Use apps to do stuff for you Discipline is the addiction to discomfort and laziness is the addiction to comfort

@kookyphoria7 5 ай бұрын

OMG thank you so much, I was procrastinating and have exams and I was desperate to find motivation and you just help me

@zahriyasader_writer 5 ай бұрын

Just what we needed to make a great start of 2024. Love you Tam, you are one of my favorites influencer

@anushkameena8337 5 ай бұрын

Thank you Tam for this video i needed it the most because I was in my lazy girl era but after watching this I saved my whole day !!!! Congratulations for 800k+

@reshma5652 Ай бұрын

Thank you sooo much because of you my life has changed into a better version of me ❤❤❤

@dija7738 5 ай бұрын

WAIT IM NOT EVEN KIDDING I WAS SEARCHING UP PRODUCTIVE VLOGS WHEN I GOT A NOTIF U POSTED THIS PLSS U DID THIS FOR ME ILY

@_selenophile-ep4kk 5 ай бұрын

Thank u so much tam....this is much needed😊

@nisargashelke3489 Ай бұрын

It motivated me enough just in the first half that i left her video in between and started studying without even second thought. ❤Thanks for the periodic dose of self love Tam.

@marccolomayt82094 5 ай бұрын

Ultimate relaxation in this vlog! ❤

@Yourguyemziii347 5 ай бұрын

Just what I needed, truly Queen

@artmarefuel 5 ай бұрын

Girl, literally woke up needing this video

@winternight514 5 ай бұрын

Yall I needed this video esp cause of the holidays

@bibidibabidiboo222 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for all your work girllll

@eshajain6565 5 ай бұрын

It is so crazy how you know exactly the type of video and advice I need

@Vino.R. 4 ай бұрын

im grateful about watching this video on Sunday so i can plan a whole new week❤🎉

@triciamanglona 5 ай бұрын

I watched this morning on the way to my new gym that I pushed myself to finally get after watching one of ur videos! absolutely loveee the gym, btw! 😍 and love you, Tam!

@_akanksha2016 4 ай бұрын

Watching this every morning with my morning tea aftr my pilates like a fact check to keep me with a burning zeal to make 200% out of my 24 hours...Tam you're a bliss ❤️i mean it.

@mahlajhoon1909 5 ай бұрын

You know I love you❤️? Your videos are big reminders to become better ✨

@vanessaprincesssa 2 ай бұрын

The mindset shifts in the beginning are absolutely fire ❤❤

@tanishasaparia5679 5 ай бұрын

Your videos helped me very much!!! Love your videos. May you be more and more successful!!!

@sarboshreedas1702 Ай бұрын

whenever i feel like i am procasinating or getting burnt out. i sleepy open this video and bam girl i am straight to my task.

@brendahmusic1048 3 ай бұрын

This makes so much sense, amazing tips thank you 🙏 ❤️

@sal-lu_22 5 ай бұрын

We love any content from our queen 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

@Mahityagi778 5 ай бұрын

Hey Tam!! Very helpful video, keep motivating us Tam. Your videos are the game changer for me. Keep working hard you are doing great.Love you bestie ❤❤

@ladyash1 5 ай бұрын

If this isn’t a Godsend I don’t know what is!?! Loved every bit of this vid but felt… not great realizing I’M a LAZY GIRL!!!! Sheesh! Tough love but deffo needed. Thank you.

@user-yb3ik1nm1x 5 ай бұрын

Congratulations on 800k your an amazing person and you deserve it!! 1:06

@bloatedcorpse2728 5 ай бұрын

needed this so bad today!

@EmanElkhamissy 4 ай бұрын

Great reminder for when i get out of depressive episodes bc i always get off track and repeatedly have to put the work back in to get into my good routine

@HEYYISHIIII 5 ай бұрын

My girl just came when I needed her ❤️🌸

@varnikagoyal7492 5 ай бұрын

you always bring video on topic which i need omg

@user-fv5if6er6g 5 ай бұрын

I have been getting so much more serious in life than I have ever and i especially want to thank you tam you keep going girl and making more videos and please more vlogs I have literally been downloading all your videos it's insane❤😂anyway love you girl.

@soiloveme9441 4 ай бұрын

Calendar has literally changed my life too! Love u for that tip

@zara-cm3kv 5 ай бұрын

u always upload at the right time!!!

@user-js6vd7cn7n 5 ай бұрын

Needed this rn!❤

@littlemai6778 5 ай бұрын

Gurl ive been unmotivated recently after having a school burnout, always thankful for your vids to make me feel motivated again

@drishtiispeaks 5 ай бұрын

Amazing amazing video omg! So helpful

@cameliaaa598 5 ай бұрын

Needed this aaaa def will be rewatching this video often lolz

@veraostrovskaya 5 ай бұрын

Tam, you're wonderful😭❤️

@kt.ph777 4 ай бұрын

U got some really good tips!!

@kkeerthikareddysuchitraaca2969 5 ай бұрын

She's such a positive energy..I love her therapy..❤

@lilyellis6468 4 ай бұрын

You are the best at thinking of the best ways thank you so much you've helped me like literally so much Xx

@alessia11112 5 ай бұрын

i love you girl, you are my inspiration 🫶🏼

@leostudiesxoxo 5 ай бұрын

Tam knows what we need atm! ❤

@leah6805 5 ай бұрын

A good day just got better 💖 excited for this vid

@ananyakh1111 5 ай бұрын

ahhh tam!! tysm for this vid🎀💝

@janhaviie 5 ай бұрын

Tam!! Watching your videos helped me so much throughout the past months- ♥️✨️ and helped me stayed organized, be productive and alot more to make a better version of myself and Made me totally ready for 2024.. it'll be new year and new me 👑💪 THANKYOU