from one uncomfy person to another, i hope this video brings you comfort. thank you so, so much for being here

I almost cried when you talked abou helping your parents with their trip and their health (teeth). You are really wonderful, and I'm glad you found your way to success and happiness.

i didn’t expect staring a small shop would be so hard until i did it myself. it took me 4+ months to even post one listing/product and now that its been 7 months I only did 1 sale. However that one sale is what keeps me going. Awesome video!

"If you are nervous about something just find a way to be excited about it" - loved it

This video hit me hard. I'm a young father, broke with no parents so no support. Times looking bleak but I have to do right by my daughter and just start somewhere.

I cried with you... that line "If I mess up, who was gonna help my family" shook me for real. The pressure of being the eldest just hit hard. Even though there are 4 of us, I can't lean on anyone. Everyone has their problems, and it's tough for me to open up to any of them. But thank you, Tammy. I felt that I wasn't alone in my problems and was able to let out some steam. Much love

your point about "not having to be the best" really resonated with me because I recently came to this realization too! I see people on Instagram all the time who are just so much more naturally artistic, who have more training, who are seasoned professionals, etc. And it discouraged me for years because I wasn't at their level despite drawing pretty much all my life and sometimes being older than these talented people! One day I sat down and had this realization though: I'm good enough at art that I can draw pretty much anything that makes me happy. Anything I want. And for now, that's good enough. If the time comes that I can ever afford to go to art school then I'll take it, but for now, I study on my own schedule, improve at my own pace, and rest happy knowing that my childhood self would be really happy with what she can do now~

I started my business in 2023 and have a year under my belt. 200+ sales with minimal advertising and no social media. Sometimes I get down on myself bc I can only work so much and also have to be available to help my kids in homeschool. I'm at the Sapling stage and I'm proud of it. I wonder what will happen this year when I create a Shopify and steer my sales funnel directly at it via Instagram and Pinterest. I struggle with balancing "me" time, "family" time and videogaming for relaxation and my burgeoning watercoloring hobby. Discipline, focus, balance, and Sleep. I'm adding in daily walks now for the endorphins. Loved your video. I heard "you", so thanks for sharing. It resonated w me. ❤❤

"I don't have to be the best. I'm still valuable". How healthy of a mindset. Thank you! I'll post it somewhere around the house to remember.

This is so true, I started making jewelry but I was so scared, literally cried when I got a first order and then I didn’t have orders but a complete stranger gave me the motivation to keep going and now it’s my income, i do what i love its amazing, some stress of course but support really helps

I reallly resonate with the thought that you "don't see self-employment as a risk -- people go through life working hard 9-5, being unhappy, and in the end they're laid off anyway". When you have the knowing that you have the skills to sustain yourself, it's a superpower. You don't depend on some X employer, it's just one of many options. 💪

As someone who is also pretty anxious I loved the idea you mentioned of turning that anxious feeling into a feeling of excitement. Changing my mindset is the first step!

Thank you for sharing. This is truly inspirational. Things I am learning from this video: - Take calculated risks (develops courage) - I may not be the best in something, but I still can be valuable in that. (develops confidence) - Be excited about what makes you anxious. (develops mindset) - Set boundaries, improve yourself, forgive yourself, correct yourself. (develops discipline and self-love) - Starting a small business is like planting a tree, it requires patience, hard work, and persistence on a daily basis.

Childhood trauma is real. Self care would include going to a supportive therapist so you can really work through what happened to you. I worked at Yale Medical school where so many young adults were healed. You deserve it. Everyone does. You rock!!! ❤❤❤🐶🐶🐶👁️🧬🌗🌷🌺🌋🎨🎨

Nice perspective! Although as someone more pessimistic I must say luck is often involved in the success of many businesses, even when it doesn't seem that way. I think the fact that your social channel grew so quickly in the beginning probably gave you a nice boost to keep pursuing your dream. And of course, your hard work and dedication also pays off. However, I've seen many people who have struggled for years to gain tractions on the things they love to make. Artists who make great art and yet their work never get picked up by the algoritum. And while I love seeing the success of your small business. I have seen so many other similar arts & crafts stores having to close down due to falling sales because of the recession. And it can be more soul crushing than doing a boring job that pays the bills. I'm not suggesting that people shouldn't take risks in starting their own businesses. But I do suggest not entirely believing that hard work will lead to success. Luck is a very important factor. And it is often out of our control. We mostly hear from stories of sucessful businesses, but I think hearing the stories of how businesses went down can be beneficial too. And to build a more realistic picture of starting a business.

I work for a corporate company currently and I hate it, I feel stuck to start my own craft business, I can make art and design art, still try to find my way to get there…that’s why I come here to see how you do it, you are doing great! Now I still think of what to make for sell and get it started. So happy for your achievement.

thank you for showing that being vulnerable means being strong. and I also love names of the chapters, it's so poetic! ✿

Your journey sounds exactly like mine, which is incredibly encouraging. I grew up in a financial struggle too, went to university for fashion design for the exact same reasons. I didn't think taking the fine arts route was a smart decision in terms of risk. But like you, I never had that passion for what I did. I got my degree and went straight to working low skill, dead end jobs just to survive without grinding at something mentally exhausting that I wasn't interested in. In May 2023 I started Coy Apricot. At 500 followers I also thought 'this could be something'. I'm still small, but I really relate to you. Following your journey gives me a sense of comfort within my own.

Here's a graphic design student and universe is giving me all the signs to embrace the discomfort now and do sth out of the normal...thank you❤

Hi Tammy, I was also a graphic designer too. (The fact that I said "was"...) I actually yearn to be a fine artist and also produce my own merchandise. I really identify with the worry that no one would care about my art and that there are so many people out there who are already established and started way earlier than I had. I always wanted to be an artist and not a graphic designer. I went into graphic design because I was afraid I couldn't make a living from my art without someone else giving me a direction or purpose for my art. And yet while I was a graphic designer, I hated that I had very minimal creative freedom. In the end I was just afraid to stand alone and I severely lacked the confidence back then to pursue my dreams of starting my own creative business and expressing my creativity my own way. I felt like my creativity only had value if it was in the service of someone else's purpose because then I would get paid. It was such a unhealthy place to be in, now that I realise it. The transparency and honesty in your sharing here in this video is so encouraging and refreshing to me. It gives me so much hope for my dreams because up til then I only found myself around very judgemental, negative people who made me feel like my art and my ideas and my voice were worthless. Thank you so much for your video. It brought some healing and hope to me :)

Your voice is so calming and very supportive, I quit my job 8 months ago and I don't ever want to go back! I want to work for myself at my own pace :) Thanks for sharing your journey!

Thank you so much for this!’ It was much needed🥺💓

I always feel so warm and fuzzy after watching your videos, thank you for being you!

i literally admire you! thanks for all the advices you encourage a lot of people 🙌🏽

Thank you for this video. Been watching for a while and your personality has definitely flowered and shines so much now. Wishing you all the best!

This video popped up on my feed on my tv and I had to come to my computer to comment! I'm so glad at watched it! From one small business owner to another, I'm sooo proud of you! Thank you for sharing your journey!

So proud of you and happy for you ❤ wishing you so much love and happiness!

Beautiful, glad I ran into this video. Best wishes and thank you for spreading your knowledge and positivity 💗

Ahhh thank you so much for sharing, I relate so hard to everything you're saying. Also cried. Felt like I was talking to a friend who really understood what was happening in my head, and I felt really seen. Happy for you that you're seeing so much success after all the hard work, and thank you for giving us fellow small artists this pep talk. It is sometimes truly delusion that it'll all work out hahaha and I'm so grateful we have the internet to cheer each other on 💛💛💛

You have inspired me so much. Thank you, Tammy ❤

I also started a small business where I design custom Lego models and sometimes 3D models. It's been 8 months or so since I started and it really pushes you to explore life in general, it makes you understand how money works and how selling / buying works, it makes you understand the value of money and so many other things and all of those things can actually be fun to explore. I think that for me the most important lesson I got from all of this so far is that peace of mind and satisfaction can come to us at any moment, but we delay that moment or think that it is somewhere else to be found. When I combined my passion and business together, I also found the satisfaction I was craving and I am more relaxed since I know I may be able to fully support myself in the future. I should mention that it took me 3 years of trying and giving up all sorts of business ideas, first time I tried at 18

Thank you so much for this video! I really love these kinds of videos where you’re kind of like a big sister giving advice to us newer artists who are still trying to figure themselves and their small business out. I feel like this came at a perfect time for me because I’m just starting out my small business since I’m in between jobs. I just got into my first small market, but as I’ve been prepping for it, I’ve been feeling a sense of imposter syndrome or even that maybe I would disappoint my parents if they found out that this is what I’ve been spending my time on. I’m also from a Vietnamese-American family, so I really relate to you and your story. But you’ve made me feel more optimistic, and I look forward to continuing to watch you grow❤️

amazing dude! so happy for all your success, wishing you the best for your future

I am grateful for you and your channel. Finding you a year or so ago was one of the biggest blessings. Keep up the wonderful work ❤

This is so sweet!!!!!! Happy for you, and a VERY good message for anyone and everyone!

I'm so proud of you! What a beautiful testimony of courage and faith in yourself. Very encouraging

I've watched many videos on KZfaq, but Tammy it's really yours (and lofi music) that *truly* bring me comfort

One of your best videos yet. You're doing great, keep going and we'll keep watching and being inspired by you.

Thank you for sharing your experience, this video was so inspiring and warm and fuzzy to watch. I’ve been watching your videos for about a year and a half and it’s been so enjoyable to watch you grow through the ups and downs. You helped inspire me to start my own small business too. Thanks again for putting yourself out there, you and your art is a joy to watch!

I appreciate this video so much. It’s been a dream of mine to own my own small business, even as just a side job and your stories really help seem like it’s possible. My family and I need a lot of support right now and I’m hoping I find a way. Love your comfy uncomfy cozy channel.

Thank you for being so open and honest!

This really touched me❤ I so needed this, thank you.

Thank you for sharing! I'm starting to grow my small business this year and I always watch your videos for inspiration and a boost for self-confidence :)

I love this so much - you're so inspiring! I had always wanted to start up my own business or side hussle, because I hate the drain the 9-5 has on me. After watching your videos (I only found you like three months ago), I've decided to take the leap! Thank you so much

❤the boost I needed today! 🙏🏼 Thank You so much

This is beautiful to hear about your journey and growth! Truly inspiring and I look up to you❤

I love this perspective so much! Thank you for sharing! May you continue to spread your light! 🤍

This video was so sweet! Thank you for the vulnerability, your journey is always inspiring to me

I absolutely LOVE this video and all your insights!! Thank you so much for sharing and being vulnerable about what prompted you to pursue your own business

i love the way you talk! and it's amazing to hear that it's a self-taught skill. you are soft but assertive, calming but charismatic. you're a shining star💛

Thank you for always sharing and inspiring me and others! As a small business owner (4 months in ) it really helps to hear that my hard work will be appreciated by others one day and that I just have to be me 🌷thank you

you’re the last sign and confirmation I needed to really get started and stay motivated. You’re such an inspiration as a college student I think you’re bad ass for accomplishing so much. Today my boyfriend’s mom bought me a tripod for my phone to start making videos of my art making. And then I get home and watch your video and it’s just 🥹 I want this for me so much. I really can’t do 9-5’s and working for things I’m not passionate about/working in toxic environments solely for the money. I wish nothing than more successes for you and your business, fly high! And wish me luck! 😊

seeing your growth and hearing your story confirmed alot of the troubles i've been having when it comes to taking this kind of risk, much loves

You spoke to my soul! Thank you so much for doing what you do 💜

I love the love you have for yourself 🤍 Amazing content as always

i love your videos so much. i have never been inspired to be me and do what i truly want this much before. thank you for sharing your journey.

you have inspired me so much, thank you for sharing your work and life❤

This was truly so inspiring, I related to your story so much (being an introvert, having had to financially support my family, being hard on myself and almost letting this stop me from pursuing my dreams). I usually don't do this but I took so many notes so I don't forget the valuable things you shared on this video! I aspire to achieve this too one day. Thank you so much

Needed to hear this, perfect timing, thank you so much for showing up so authentically

Thank you so much for making this video! So helpful and encouraging!!!

Very inspiring, as always! Thank you for sharing your experience, Tammy.

I love this girl. She gives off great vibes

I feel so inspired and calm after watching this video, I'm graduating in the next few months and the anxiety of getting a job and becoming an entrepreneur simultaneously has been eating me alive, but now I realize that I've stopped believing that my dream future it's possible. Thank you so much for sharing your story, accepting that we will succeed is difficult when survival has always been difficult but now I see that it is NECESSARY to live a happy life.

sweetest and comforting speech ever...thanks

Thank you so much Tammy, you can’t imagine how valuable your story is for me and the others who aspire to be the same like you ❤

YOUR SKIN IS SO GLOWYYYY

I love this. It’s so cool to look back at your self and see how much you’ve grown. ❤

you are a massive inspiration. i've been wanting to change something in my life for a few months now and i think i've narrowed it down to a creative small business and watching you inspires me so much

I’m from Brazil and you have been such an inspiration for me! Thank you so much!❤

This video popped up on my feed as I’m starting a small business for myself ! Thanks for being motivational ❤

this was so wholesome and you are so sweet and inspiring, thank you

as another person finding confidence in himself all.. i want to say thanks for sharing and i am proud of you.

OMG, I am listening and crying 😭, such a valuable words

Wonderful to get a better insight into Uncomfy's initial beginnings. Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring early small business owners like myself as we set out to forge our own paths.

This is so inspiring. ❤ Thank you for sharing and your transparency.

I feel like you're my best friend, thank you for being here and sharing your personal experience

Thanks for sharing your journey. You make me feel that I am not alone.

You have motivated me so much. I am a very anxious person and this gives me hope. ❤

Such a sweet video. I loved how compassionate and appreciative you are of your past and your growth. Thank you 🙏🏼

I've been with you since you had 7k subs. I have definitely seen your transformation. 💕

Thank you for sharing your journey. I appreciate your perspective and insights from the experiences you’ve had. I truly enjoy watching your content.

Love your business journey and videos. You give us hope for our own business journey. Keep making great and inspirational videos! Thank You for sharing them with us, cause your voice is so comforting to listen too.

You are doing so great and you should be very very proud of yourself! You are setting such a great example for all young artists and you are doing it even though most people would not have the skill and effort to pull it off!! You are doing amazing 👏👏 proud of you!! ❤

I’m so in love with your mindset and all the value that you put out here. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your story so authentically. ❤❤❤❤❤

Aww Tammy, I am so touched by how grateful you are with all that you've achieved. You are so thoughtful and mature at such a young age, and I am genuinely so happy for you! Glad that the algorithm had recommended this video to me

Thank you Tammy, that was really encouraging!

you're so sweet to your parents, you've got my respect

I am so happy for you, this video brought joy to me and tears to my eyes, I feel really related to it. We are moving our business from fairs and events to online and it has been quite a transition and journey for us, both professionally and emotionally.

This is so inspiring, glad your dreams are coming true. Thanks for sharing 😊

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story! Being a 1st gen Viet, your story really resonated with me about growing up and seeing our parents go through financial struggles. Growing up, I felt as though I had to push away my artistic passions to pursue something more stable or better income, so I majored in computer science. And it took me a lot of courage these past few years to completely change course and start to pursue art again.

Such a beautiful video! Hearing your whole journey and your bravery in taking steps towards being a business owner is very inspiring! I really respect the way you help your parents..I actually think a lot of people do this after I watched a video of secondary kids in NZ going to school then working 20 -30 hours pw as well to be able to help their parents pay for living costs. Love your content and hearing about your life journey, wishing you all the very best ☺️🫶🏼💚

Hi Tammy, as a Vietnamese I do understand every thing you were going through with finalcial struggle and family expectation. I used to taking interior design as my major in university and was going to have a full time job in front of the PC for endless hours. And at my internship time during 3rd year I also felt the need to pursuit other paths that would fulfill me more. And yeah, the pandemic hit and I got the chance to reflect so much and decided to go other way. Now I am teaching art for kids to fill up the bills while doing handicrafts and study astrology to pursuit my dreams. In Vietnam its kinda hard to sell handicrafts at its true price cuz people still not willing to pay higher price for "just a handmade stuff" :( but your vids give me so much strength and compassion for keep going on w this path. thank you so much & wish you peaceful love ❤

I just subscribed 5 minutes into the video. This is the most beautifully spoken and inspiring video I’ve found on small business. Thank you

You’re the cutest person ever. I can sincerely feel your kindness, sensibility and emotions.

I am a four kids Mom, your videos can give me the motivation to start my own business, love you! I can feel you how happy and enjoy your life now. Such as good example for me. You do what I want to do. Good Jobs!!

this is so inspiring! i just did my first art market and it was so scary, but i'm glad i put myself out there and to my surprise got a lot of love for my work. your reminders are so motivating for folks like me with a dream to start their own small art business ☺

Everything you have said really resonated with me as I have been considering for the longest time to follow your path as an artist myself. I may not know you personally, but I'm proud of you and your achievements in life. You inspire me so much. Thank you!

That's like my story about early years and my inner feelings to the T. Wow! Thank you for sharing!

I feel proud for you while watching this. It's also almost like I needed to hear this today 💖

I'm SO glad the algorithm put this video in my recommendations. Chapter 3 made me want to cry...I'm on my business owner journey right now. It's more like a side hustle, but my dream is for it to grow and become my full-time career. But there is so much I'm learning-which is super exciting and rewarding, don't get me wrong-but this makes me feel like I'm behind and late to the game. I don't have much traction yet, but when I get out of my head I truly feel like I'm on the verge of something wonderful. Thank you for the nudge to keep going and for telling me to be open to the *inevitable* opportunities that will come my way. I just subscribed and I'm so excited to watch more of your videos and check out your store!