How To Resolve Conflict

How To Resolve Conflict - Teal Swan -

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Conflict is both the invitation to expand our consciousness and the potential cause of complete destruction. Like a root that can either grow a fragrant flower or a poisonous weed depending on how it is tended. If it is poorly tended, it is the root of the damage that we do to each other on this earth. It is the heart of war. It is the destroyer of connection and as such, it ruptures relationships. In this episode, Teal provides a protocol for conflict resolution.
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@Lee-Leee 8 жыл бұрын

I don't understand why she gets death threats. She's just a genuine personal putting out her perception of life. Take it or leave it. She's not forcing her beliefs on anyone. She teaches personal ideas and loving yourself. How can.anyone be mad at that lol

@Racye-bf7vn 8 жыл бұрын

Religious puritans... "Any ability she has is a gift of Satan, or the devil." So they believe...

@1Rose007 7 жыл бұрын

Ridiculous. What she talks about should be taught in every school; its world class education and training. Powerful beautiful women inside and out always have many haters. Good for you Teal for your success and thank you for all you do for humanity!

@33insight83 6 жыл бұрын

Elise Graziano cuz humans are a disharmonic species

@rabianolan1838 5 жыл бұрын

Because the ideas and advice she is giving challenges the status qou

@vburke92 5 жыл бұрын

Jealousy

@Zaria526 2 жыл бұрын

I had to come back and comment on this one. After watching this about 3 times over these last couple of days, I was finally able to apply your teachings to a conflict within my relationship. My bf is in the military and puts a LOT of effort into his career, but not into our relationship (my perspective). I’m in the military too so at times I belittle his excuses for not having enough time for us. After using the change of perspective method I felt the overwhelming stresses that he deals with at work and I couldn’t imagine how I would be able to cope if I were in his shoes. We were able to come to a resolution 10x faster than usual and he expressed that he notices how much safer he feels with my willingness to understand, rather than ridicule his actions (or lack there of). Thank you so much for reading. I hope you all get to feel the same sense of great relief and happiness we feel😌 and thank you Teal (and your amazing team)❤️

@seekingthemiddleway4048 8 жыл бұрын

This is indeed how it should be in an ideal world where everyone is self-aware. Unfortunately many people see self-examination as an attack on their identity and these are the people we are most likely to be in conflict with, people who would never get past the first step. It may work in loving families and with benign employers or friends, but when in conflict with someone damaged (e.g. borderline or narcissistic personality disordered individuals) willingness to resolve conflict is more often than not perceived as weakness to be taken advantage of. In fact getting anyone who is not extremely self-aware to stick to a final agreement is easier said than done, because people soon fall back into learnt behaviour and unconscious patterns of reacting to negative emotions. Learning to have solid emotional boundaries to avoid abuse is therefore just as important. Sadly then this kind of conflict resolution can only work with people who already have developed the humility to actively try to grow emotionally. I wonder what percentage of the general population that is.

@RoseMarieJamesJr 2 жыл бұрын

And six years later, humanity is reaching the critical year of determining whether to keep avoiding conflict and therefore escalating to world war, or face the fear of conflict and take steps towards achieving true resolution.

@Sigalhodbh 8 жыл бұрын

I love you so much Teal!!!! You have truely changed, and are changing my life. And also my close circles. Thank you so much. You are a true inspiration.

@Mancub2b 4 жыл бұрын

We must choose love over our own egos sense of survival

@melissaoconnell5648 4 жыл бұрын

Wish I'd seen this video 50 years ago. You and those supporting you have such a wealth of understanding. Seeing this...and so many of your videos in my 'down' time, have me with streams of tears for the wisdom and hope.......of meeting - somewhere in Rumi's beloved field 'between right and wrong'. I am grateful for you Teal Swan and all those who've taught me more than I ever did, could or would consciously acknowledge - from realms of little understood worlds and inexplicable time lines - into recognizing what it takes to see both the giant steps and quantum leaps it takes to live authentically, while remaining open to others and integrating ourselves toward alignment. Thank you for finding the strength and courage to share your intuitive gifts and speak with clarity and compassion...giggles and all for the often seen absurdities in it all. 💗🙏♾🔭✨

@elizadahmen2960 8 жыл бұрын

I love you so so much Teal!! Thank you for inspiring and teaching me everyday. I can't express how grateful I am for your guidance.

@gingerhealerstefany 8 жыл бұрын

So enlightened, so wise. Endless thanks, so helpful!

@lorab1912 10 ай бұрын

Wow! Love part about Begin without one side as the underdog. Wish I had this video 55 yrs ago! Need to watch again. Thank you Teal

@Craftymama1234 8 жыл бұрын

this is the best video yet Teal! thank you so much! i will be using this in my life from now on

@ATunson 8 жыл бұрын

LOVE IT!!! Ironically I had a conflict to address today and listened to this clip as a guide on how to respond. I found that resolution wasn't going to occur bcuz I was the only one who wanted it. I also found sympathy for the other person bcuz they are so stuck and damaged that the ideas of this video are so far from their ability of comprehension. I also feel VERY fortunate to be elevated in my heart and spirit that I have not allowed anger and life to have robbed me from loving peace and goodness MORE than conflict and disarray. It takes two for any other Teal's advice to work; and compassion. Without compassion, we as humanity are doomed. Those of us wise enough to see this must lead and show what conflict resolution and harmony looks like!

@maggit6431 8 жыл бұрын

Apply this to international circumstances.

@QSnarf 8 жыл бұрын

There are some people with whom it does more harm than good to resolve conflict, but I think this is what you're talking about. You talked about this in the video you recently did about toxic spirituality. I have to be very careful about the people with whom I choose conflict resolution, since there are a lot of people out there who will throw spiritual shit at your feelings instead of just dealing with your feelings.

@garywilson7883 8 жыл бұрын

I ALWAYS ENJOY YOUR TEACHING, TEAL!

@mcguyver3360 8 жыл бұрын

Wow i'm impressed by the way you deliver you're vision. Well done

@tiaturnbullchampionscoachi9587 5 жыл бұрын

It was actually somewhat relieving to see so many comments about people who see that conflict resolution seems to be impossible. There are simply people who are getting what they want when they don't attempt to resolve conflicts. This is why the neurotic codependents are the ones who usually go to get help because they're the ones being used the most. For people that actually do want to resolve conflict with dignity and respect some other people who I have found helpful to study are Harville Hendrix\Imago process, Marshall Rosenberg onviolent communication, of course Byron Katie who you already mentioned and Stephen Covey\ 7 habits. If someone comes from a dysfunctional family not only do they need to change their core beliefs but they also need to find principles to live by so in order to change every individual really needs to do some research and work of sincere focus on their own inner process. A life skill I find invaluable is learning assertive negotiation skills. Swotch perspectives can be hilarious and fun if people atent defensivrly closed in right\wrong. My mom and I used to do it and often we ended up laughing which brought us closer. BTW, Eckhart Tolle helped us to not be attached to role story expectations. "Im the mom so...." A doughter is supposed to.." We would say " That's my story and I am making it up!" Then laugh.

@robertmiles4022 7 жыл бұрын

Very good materials, may have to watch several times.

@ghassansah 8 жыл бұрын

please talk about the fear of rejection and gender

@santanagoff4807 8 жыл бұрын

+Rahaf Ghassan i would second that

@nfc598 8 жыл бұрын

me to. I'm curious

@marinawerneck1655 8 жыл бұрын

please talk about fear of abandonment!

@DecodeIsHere 8 жыл бұрын

I want to know about it too. Oh, please.

@ulol95 8 жыл бұрын

+Rahaf Ghassan I think its already part of the shadow work and emotional healing videos

@MissVirmaCaramia 6 жыл бұрын

I wish I had watched this one last year.. Thank you again, Teal :)

@ceedubb1341 4 жыл бұрын

I have been watching your videos back to back all day thank you ♡

@marinakonstantopoulou163 4 жыл бұрын

Teal you are unique and the way you analyse various topics is surprisingly helpful. Thank u! Could u please make a video about the inner conflict we feel when a problem arises between logic and emotions. Is there a guide to understand that can help us choose the best “internal tool” to use , in order to find peace? Wishing the best to you 🌸🌺

@bi.o.8324 8 жыл бұрын

I usually agree with you, Teal--like one-hundred percent, honestly moreover, you said that people, drowning into victim consciousness don't want a resolution with the opposing party simply because they want validation and I've been a victim by all forms of emotional abuse (shaming, gaslighting, smear-campaigning, scapegoating, isolating, 'chastising', constant, sarcastic remarks and so on) since I was insecure and I was raised by parents who were wholly insecure, had power struggles, needed constant validation, et cetera. I disagree with that statement and even tried re-watch that part after watching the entire video--although I've always wanted incessant validation myself, I did strive for a resolution with those who've abused me, in the past. I understand that I have been a powermonger (due to feelings of powerlessness), but I even--CRAVED a resolution with them I swear, to the point of resisting my own authenticity, which was my mistake. I'm not trying to play the 'martyr' here and nor am I trying to look like the 'good guy'. I think a lot of other victims also desperately wanted a resolution as well, but the other party sometimes wants to perpetuate the issue and to render us, victims to being uncommunicative. It's not always, but in many cases the opposing party (the emotional abuser) doesn't want to even care for a resolution at all. I wish you elaborated upon that point; that's all!

@romanr9977 8 жыл бұрын

+I JUST KNOW I DONT KNOW And mine.

@romanr9977 8 жыл бұрын

+Bibiana O. Wow! You just described my life with my family. It's scary how everything you describe matches my experience 100% ! Two things: "people, drowning into victim consciousness don't want a resolution with the opposing party simply because they want validation". Teal's right. My ex was exactly like this. He would simply say that he didn't want to talk about it so NOTHING was discussed let alone resolved. Frustrating ! This sounds like your parents (and mine) who did not want resolution with you. Second: "although I've always wanted incessant validation myself, I did strive for a resolution with those who've abused me, in the past." Yes, you craved validation however, you craved resolution. That, my friend, is the difference between you and parents (victims). I don't think you are a victim at all, or I should say have a victim mentality. I know this by definition and more importantly, through experience because that is EXACTLY why I used to to do with my family. You wanted resolution because you knew you weren't being listened to and validated. My opinion is that you're enlightened.

@GrahamMilkdrop 8 жыл бұрын

+Bibiana O. There is a mass rejection of justice.. possibly because they do not see that the function of justice is to restore balance and re-define boundaries and challenge distorted thinking and assumptions that caused people to move away from relating to the truth of their experience... Instead, it is seen as being JUDGEMENT and PUNISHMENT. I just wrote this on another post... "One of the craziest things is the realisation that there seems to be an entire movement dedicated to persuading you as the victim, to not follow your anger through and push for justice... How is this possible? Why is it so important to ignore what has been done and pretend everything is fine? What does it mean when an entire society rejects the truth of it's actions and the resulting suffering that it causes? Since when was truth the only perspective that was inadmissible? What could we reasonably expect of the future in a world where the actual experience is not taken into account in making plans, assessing progress, reviewing performance? Not only is it not taken into account but actively suppressed... Who the fuck is deciding this shit? Why are people accepting it? What do they expect to gain? Justice is only revenge because it's the last thing they want... It is ignoring their wishes as they no doubt ignored yours. They should simply not be so foolish as to have their own happiness or state of mind defined by your actions... I think that's their own firm belief... Justice is restorative and it serves a purpose for all mankind. The 'karma' alternative of sitting back, saying nothing and allowing them to drive themselves over the cliff is perhaps more attractive to some but.... they'll be taking the rest of us with them... " It's a process that's ongoing and currently subject to massive amounts of propaganda and psychic pollution. The power of non participation is an easy option for those in fear or under the executive control of their ego.

@khatack 5 жыл бұрын

That's the female way of dealing with conflict; appeasing the aggressor. It's only natural, and it is your very own authentic self in action.

@kalidoscope3270 3 жыл бұрын

Abuse is not a conflict to resolve. It is a danger you have to get out!!

@timlester1204 8 жыл бұрын

thanks teal this is what i've been trying to address my ex seems to be on a power trip and is keeping me from pursuing my education and has the police harassing me as well as others :] thanks for giving me some ideas to help resolve these negative issues :]

@melanieharvel8467 8 жыл бұрын

great timing! thanks Teal!

@themennoknight Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this! Really had me look at what the need was behind someone’s complaint / request. And also what need of mine might have been in play for feeling like I didn’t do anything wrong.

@brethahuncho2824 3 жыл бұрын

Teal we are kindled spirits I told my sisters exactly everything you said to my sister and her girlfriend, how I knew this I really don’t know I just tap in and speak ! And it flows from some other worldly plane

@caddy1201 5 жыл бұрын

AHHHMAZING!!! Seriously amazing. Thank you!

@TheTyee86 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your wisdom. I love you thank you.

@alex-ander-13 17 күн бұрын

Thank you Teal.

@amor2827 8 жыл бұрын

OMG! i love the concept about your eyes in this video.

@lilravergrl420 5 жыл бұрын

excellent tips! Thank you!!

@marinanabutovskiy1161 7 жыл бұрын

The information you give is very useful just like Marshall Rosenberg's Non-Violent Communication techniques. However, deep-rooted conflicts are very difficult and a lot of times impossible to resolve. Look at Middle East, Russia,North Korea as well as personal conflicts on smaller scale. People have to be ready and willing for this to occur.

@shanekanhai6020 8 жыл бұрын

I've reached the edge of my life. its scary. I've never been here before do I jump or do I stay and continue to fight my everyday and night endless struggle. I really don't mind jumping. sound good right now.

@jessemireles3983 8 жыл бұрын

listen to tool and, instead swing on the spiral. start with the grudge. Badass song

@dididey3481 Жыл бұрын

Wonderful Video!

@nataliedickens2094 8 жыл бұрын

Can you please make a video how to move forward in life. How to change your life and have wonderful experiences so you are not stuck for years

@melreetv888 5 жыл бұрын

Natalie Dickens have u made these changes?

@simonneslezak4540 8 жыл бұрын

You post the video the day I asked the question always

@heyyoo72 Жыл бұрын

oh my goodness. thank you so much.

@robinsanchez5937 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Teal. :)

@FreeFlow__ 6 жыл бұрын

Every type of conflict, resistance can only live with a force that fights back.

@CerebralAssassin 8 жыл бұрын

thank you Teal :)

@santanagoff4807 8 жыл бұрын

Interaction I believe could solve a lot of problems... In the matter of conflict-- succumbing to the integration toward something therapeutic is highly beneficial. Such as pottery, together etc.

@Cricketwala643 8 жыл бұрын

really useful videos

@TheHolyEclipse 8 жыл бұрын

Another one that I came up with is, how do we learn to accept others for who they are and how they are?

@TheHolyEclipse 8 жыл бұрын

Hey Teal, I think this would be a good topic to talk to the public about and I believe you are one of the best people to communicate this to the public. What makes people wage war and how do we overcome it?

@lorab1912 10 ай бұрын

Teal for President of USA

@foodievlogs9072 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@syfriamedia 8 жыл бұрын

Great video

@destinations7133 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@talkshh 8 жыл бұрын

you look soo beautiful here teal! i realized i'm trapped in that victim mentaliy you described and i don't wanna resolve conflict

@Racye-bf7vn 8 жыл бұрын

Okay... "You're trapped in a victim mentality, and you don't wanna resolve conflict." I picture a horse tied to a plastic chair. You've been tied down by lack of desire to find resolution until you think you're tied down to being a victim. BOTH of these ideas have to change, or both don't. You can't escape one or the other, you have to address both. I'm not trying to talk down to you, but I was in the same boat, but you have to resolve the conflict to stop being a victim. To forever be is victim is to forever be wronged. To be a survivor is to resolve the issue or conflict, and move on. You'll never move on if you can't let the past go. Honestly, which do you want? "I wanna be a victim and never move on." Or "This happened, I've resolved it, and I'm going to move on. Someone else's opinion does not have to be my reality." The is yours, talk.

@Racye-bf7vn 8 жыл бұрын

+talkshh choice*

@oli4159 8 жыл бұрын

great video :) making the world a better place

@hopespringseternal7028 7 жыл бұрын

when dealing with narcissists/sociopaths.... NONE OF THIS APPLIES. the only way to "deal" with these sorts is to avoid them altogether.

@wikedwhich1 5 жыл бұрын

The thing is to see where the trigger is from which the energy within you/me arises..that which pushes away and does not see the all one ness. It is a difficult process as we are resistant so often to such an engagement and do not wish to engage at all/...This is entirely understandable but true healing will never occur without the entering into the fire. It is so easy to see such energy as absolutely NOTHING to do with us but maybe thatswhy the universe perhaps has allowed such people to ''govern us' ..because we are unwilling to heal this part of the collective consciousness and integrate such energy by owning it as a manifestation of the wounding..(ie Hitler as an example..He would not have held sway without being the embodiment of a group wounding)

@hopespringseternal7028 4 жыл бұрын

@@JoRobertsGaming1984 lol....worship whomever you choose. i will use my own guidestones and heart/mind. xo

@MaKaElectric 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you! :)

@belledecaucase 8 жыл бұрын

Bless you. 🙏🙏🙏

@billwhite5011 7 жыл бұрын

EXCELLENT!!

@tonyr.5111 8 жыл бұрын

...you look very young and I might add, very beautiful. From the "WISDOM" that you teach..., its easy for me to deduce you are a "VERY OLD SOUL"... I ENJOY YOUR INSTRUCTIONAL. AND INSPIRATIONAL VIDEOS... ...take care...

@santinossantamonica 8 жыл бұрын

gracias dulce.....

@khatack 5 жыл бұрын

Crush your enemies, see them driven before you and hear the lamentation of their women. Works every time. In short, you resolve conflict by winning.

@linhbanh4614 2 жыл бұрын

It certainly does take courage to soften in a conflict rather than defend.

@energyreflecting9779 6 жыл бұрын

Thankyou

@GokuMilla 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I love you forever :)

@albrightenyourday 8 жыл бұрын

sigh. it's really cool you exist as a female during this cycle at this time and that I'm here now and that I can benefit from just watching a video. I have so much gratitude for you making these videos for free. I actually had a thought the other day, wow I wonder if teal's process would have been altered or eased if she could have listened to her future self talk about healing hahaha. I really feel your success stems from non-attachment to money, true intention, and obvious passion. Have you ever been to Mt. Shasta, California? I live here and I believe you would like the energy. I'm super clairsentient or maybe just empathic/learning to tone that down a bit actually lol but its realllly nice to heal from your words and to wipe my own damn tears. You empower whoever can open their heart and I feel how much this serves you and everyone who watches. I've been watching you for a year and a half, always wanted to leave a comment, so I finally am. it's awesome that I can just type this gratitude here in a little box. xo

@albrightenyourday 8 жыл бұрын

+Delaney Albright p.s. when ur hair is like this my brain totally associates you with an elf princess. tis a honor miss. your ancient lineage is showing.

@ElunearaStarsong 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you...

@megalomaniac29ify 8 жыл бұрын

Sweet earrings Teal!

@Nikkinikita87 8 жыл бұрын

TEAL- can you please do a video on autoimmune conditions. Thanks.

@essenceoftranquilityandcal5872 7 жыл бұрын

It's also referred to as the "Pillow Method"

@lopezalejandra1031 7 жыл бұрын

Hi Teal! I love all your work, thank you for all the great information however I would like to know more about abandonment issues and how to let go of it!? I always had this issue and I have tried it all but i don't seem to let go of this resentment and of cours my love relationships are a disaster hahaha I hope you could help me and many others! Thanks!

@destinyvasquez4068 8 жыл бұрын

you are awesome

@Adriana.Gabriela 2 жыл бұрын

You know, these videos are making me want to reconciliate with a former friend, but then I remember I'm better off without her 😅 and probably she without me too. I guess we're only superifically compatible, but in reality we are incompatible

@EnviroArtiste86 7 жыл бұрын

what if one of the party is a narc? is it beneficially to work on conflict resolution or is there no point because they can not be open?

@DemandCapture 8 жыл бұрын

I love what you do. Much respect. You reading a scrip makes your delivery less effective. Thanks for your intention

@DemandCapture 8 жыл бұрын

Also, in times when priority of things is so important, what do you advice when it comes to these countless, low impact issues?

@iaelborntosing9756 8 жыл бұрын

Teal, i adore your videos. ¿Could you talk about how to attract love? In terms of energy, how to open up to romantic love. Thank you.

@val2372 8 жыл бұрын

Grounding everyone with those colours :'D

@waitingforgigi 8 жыл бұрын

What can one do if they are in a relationship with a partner who is not self reflective and most time there is conflict, your partner is unable to allow your feelings and rarely allows you to have a voice? It's becoming a problem in particular to decisions regarding the children

@lexysanderson5013 8 жыл бұрын

can you make a video about how to overcome phone and Internet addiction

@thisisraveamok 8 жыл бұрын

lovely as always. can anyone tell me what the name of the music at the end of the video is?

@jazzjazzjj26 8 жыл бұрын

how can you resolve conflict with psychopaths.

@naileaolivas2788 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@naileaolivas2788 3 жыл бұрын

Conscious Manipulation btw

@wikedwhich1 3 жыл бұрын

depends on your intentions...

@kellyv6075 2 жыл бұрын

Walk away. They do not want to resolve conflict, they want to get away with as much as they can

@taraclark4356 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@destinations7133 8 жыл бұрын

Can't do it. it is really hard.

@humblehedwig 8 жыл бұрын

Should conflict resolution be a priority over removing abusive people from your life (especially after having manifested illness)? If the other party is unwilling to understand and does not fully desire resolution and we cannot find a unbiased third party, do we abandon the effort? thank you for this

@humblehedwig 8 жыл бұрын

+Jessi Gonzalez Thank you for your perspective and I hope with all my being that you can find health, safety, freedom, happiness and Love (self and external)

@kellyhayford 8 жыл бұрын

+bloodroses Funny -- that's exactly what I was thinking when I watched this. I currently have a situation where I have REPEATEDLY attempted to resolve conflict with someone, originally believing that they wanted to do the same. Now I realize that they have no intention of resolving conflict. They are committed to being 'right', manipulating, lying and abusing. At some point there is no point in continuing to try. If someone isn't consciously capable of operating with integrity and has a pattern of abuse, you have to let them go. THAT is the conflict resolution in those cases!

@brightwithspirit 8 жыл бұрын

+bloodroses good question! I think we should abandon the effort but its very hard to do. :(

@kikki2012 8 жыл бұрын

+bloodroses Absolutely, it is about taking care of your self - an act of self love to let them go. I believe it is possible to work on resolution without the other participating in for instance psycho drama, gestalt therapy, project sanctuary (by Silvia Hartmann) or a personal inner communication process that you make up as you go. You can talk to their higher selves or their projected selves inside of you or whatever else that works. It can really make a difference - and in some cases even affect the abusive, neglective part in a positive, transformative way. It's worth the effort! It can also be tried before you give them up entirely.

@KarmicBeats 8 жыл бұрын

+bloodroses I think there are times when the best solution is to remove certain people from your life. It is nice when we can resolve conflicts and live happily ever after. However as +Kelly Amrit mentioned, sometimes getting away from the person is the conflict resolution.

@aphilzitrone 8 жыл бұрын

I had a dream about teal being my sports teacher :D And when i looked into her eyes i could feel something.

@protectedbygod77 8 жыл бұрын

+crisisofconsciousnes lolol

@aphilzitrone 8 жыл бұрын

***** :D Well i cant argue with Teal being hot. But it was more like desire. Maybe i desire more spiritual growth. I dont know.

@aphilzitrone 8 жыл бұрын

***** start a dream journal. i usually meet people i have conflicts with. Teal is not one of them xD so it was something new. But .... the day i dreamt about her she makes a video about conflicts..... mindblown xD

@waynenolan4726 8 жыл бұрын

+PhilBo goto dream moods dot com, it will help you decipher what your dreams mean, usually a dream has very literal meanings and/or very complex ones.. Mostly very literal, I had a dream about her too, but I was just looking at her from her being on stage and me just looking at her. Dreams bring messages

@Snake-snek 4 жыл бұрын

So what do you do when that person DOESNT want to talk again? DOESNT give an option for resolve?

@Theodoric3 4 жыл бұрын

I feel like I will be alone forever, I might as well be dead. This is killing me to be so far away from each other. 😢

@bikash334 8 жыл бұрын

Teal does andreaz moritiz's liver flush actually work and has no side effects please please reply

@liannevanes7732 3 ай бұрын

What to do if you just want the conflict to end and the other person just wants to get the most out of your position/ goodwill?

@matthewball5526 8 жыл бұрын

i hope you're whats waiting on me. be gentle

@IrisMitrovic 4 жыл бұрын

What if you’ve tried to resolve the conflict, but the other person doesn’t know what he wants?

@CarnalKid 8 жыл бұрын

Do you have videos where you explain why you think conflict is undesirable? I notice a lot of our videos make internal sense of one accepts a few basic premises, but I never see you explain why your viewers should accept those premises. This isn't an attack, I'm just wondering if you have made such videos?

@wings8099 8 жыл бұрын

what's your take on migration?

@wisdomfromthewaters1123 5 жыл бұрын

I have a conflict scenario I haven't been able to solve: She is full (coz she ate something she really liked happily) and he prepares delicious food for her, that he wants her to eat now, coz later it'll get cold and not that savoury. Do respond with some win-win suggestions for both him n her.

@samuelregalado506 8 жыл бұрын

hi teal . love you

@celinekhuu2213 4 ай бұрын

Can someone tell me more about the Trauma Resistance book? Like does anyone recommend it in the heat of the moment?

@loveinfinity8884 6 жыл бұрын

From the 8:45 image is from Bulgaria :D

@luticia 8 жыл бұрын

Where does she get all this from. I'm more than fascinated.

@milaknowslight6307 8 жыл бұрын

+luticia its common sense to her.

@jessemireles3983 8 жыл бұрын

from listening! spread the word

@MrMikkyn 8 жыл бұрын

Its great, a lot of what she talks about is similar to clinical psychology

@billwhite5011 7 жыл бұрын

some of it she gets by going out of body and exploring for answers.

@emaambition9378 5 жыл бұрын

Simply she is just smart

@SebastianPapp 8 жыл бұрын

I love you

@TheCheck1982 8 жыл бұрын

the Picture at 7:50 how do i get it ? ^^

@Fuliginosus 8 жыл бұрын

Should all conflicts be resolved or is it sometimes appropriate to leave them unresolved?

@GrahamMilkdrop 8 жыл бұрын

+David Maxfield Conflict that seeks no resolution is not "conflict", but "diversity". When one aspect of diversity is imposed upon or restricted, it highlights an underlying imbalance or lack of acceptance in the whole... Conflict is the process by which this is restored. It IS resolution by another name. Avoidance of it causes escalation and a greater sense of imbalance.

@Fuliginosus 8 жыл бұрын

+Graham Loines Great answer! Thanks.

@GrahamMilkdrop 8 жыл бұрын

David Maxfield Thank you.

@reginerunge6379 5 жыл бұрын

But what if the OTHER party doesn't want resolution

@emmamcdonagh7189 5 жыл бұрын

If your question is "I feel I would love to resolve this conflict about X situation, how do you feel about it?" - and their reply "No, I don't want resolution." that is their choice. in which case, we keep working on our own side of the street. xx

@jayyang6516 3 жыл бұрын

how do i get coaching?

@InvertedSeal 5 жыл бұрын

Under normal conditions I would agree with Swan, however none of this would work against a sociopath, or someone with major self esteem issues.

@kevindavalos9389 8 жыл бұрын

Hey teal not sure if you'll see this but I'm having a hard time in life with a situation. I really like someone romantically and I've been thinking about this person everyday for about four or five months. Literally all day everyday and can never seem to grow a pair and actually talk to them. Come to find out today they are moving half way across the us in less than a week. So basically I feel like it will never happen but I want it to SOO bad. Anyway I was hoping for some advice, even if there is anybody out there who can help me find out spiritually why this happening. It really hurts me and I don't think it should being as though I've never spoke to this person. Well I hope someone replies thanks.

@kfuentezz 6 жыл бұрын

kevin davalos i hope u talked to them!