Intrigue - How to Create Interest and Connect with Anyone: Sam Horn at TEDxBethesdaWomen

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10 жыл бұрын

When asked the secret to life, E. M. Forster said two words, "Only connect."
Yet many of us don't. It's not that we don't want to; it's that we're not taught to.
In this interactive TEDx talk, Intrigue Expert Sam Horn shows how to earn the favorable interest and respect of customers, investors and decision-makers by finding out what's important to them .... and focusing on that FIRST.
Sam Horn, founder of the Intrigue Agency, is on a mission to help people create clear, compelling communications that connect. She works with entrepreneurs and executives from such organizations as Boeing, NASA, Capital One, ASAE, Cisco and EO to design and deliver one-of-a-kind legacy messages that matter. She also serves as a presentation/pitch coach for Springboard Enterprises which has helped startups receive $6.2 billion in funding.
Sam's books POP!, Tongue Fu! and the upcoming INTRIGUE have been endorsed by Seth Godin, Tony Robbins, Ken Blanchard and featured in New York Times, BusinessWeek, Washington Post, and Fast Company.
For videos on how to earn interest and connect with anyone, anytime, visit www.intrigueagency.com.
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@KDD8
@KDD8 8 жыл бұрын
She's like the 1/20 substitute teacher that every kid wants to come back
@aamburrito
@aamburrito 7 жыл бұрын
Hakasauars EXACTLY
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue 10 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your valuable feedback. I'm on a mission to show that speaking is not just about giving an excellent presentation. Even if it's well-done, that is still one-way communication. It's about creating two-way communication and creating an interactive community where everyone has a chance to connect and contribute their insights and experiences. Hope you have a priority project in mind and take notes as you watch this video so you can instantly apply its techniques to create interest, earn respect and win buy-in to your priority projects. Enjoy!
@GeorgeKaoCommunity
@GeorgeKaoCommunity 10 жыл бұрын
Great speech, *****!
@EuniceDeCampi
@EuniceDeCampi 10 жыл бұрын
***** What a great lesson, from experience most 60 seconds tend to be a one way communication. I like the 3 Question technique to create interest. Thank you!
@ElaineNieberding
@ElaineNieberding 10 жыл бұрын
***** , how great to hear again about *creating intrigue*. here on G+. I'm grateful you gifted the Atwood/Atwood/Shimoff Million Dollar Mastermind group of September 2012 with your Skype visit where I first experienced the power of your insights. Pop on! Tongue-Fu on! Thank you.
@SoulShineLiveMichele
@SoulShineLiveMichele 6 жыл бұрын
Sam Horn this was so amazing, I'm watching a second time and sharing with my friend who has an amazing project to get his portable water filtration system for third world and natural disaster situations. I'm so excited for him to have another took to get his invention out to those in need.
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue 3 жыл бұрын
@@SoulShineLiveMichele ... thanks for your feedback and for sharing this. Best wishes to your friend and his invention.
@jamesmanley9414
@jamesmanley9414 8 жыл бұрын
What a likeable person
@Blessed2Dance4God
@Blessed2Dance4God 8 жыл бұрын
Her ovation was much deserved, her 'pleasantness' doesn't feel as calculated as most who discuss these topics.. obviously she knows what she's doing and knows her craft (that's why she's teaching it) but at the same time it seems very sincere and easy absorb and learn - Great info, God bless you maam.
@richardboe2130
@richardboe2130 8 жыл бұрын
yep, one of the best ted talks I've heard in a while, great mix of info and comedy and vocal pace.
@LoveMoneySecretsTV
@LoveMoneySecretsTV 3 жыл бұрын
Useful applicable and doable!
@ADANESHAL
@ADANESHAL 8 жыл бұрын
Best speaker ever, beautiful lady.
@aquarianhealer
@aquarianhealer 8 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what compelled me to invite an acquaintance I met through facebook, and a common interest in a horse ranch, to a movie. Once upon a time, he had a zest for life and excitement, fast cars, and many friends. He is now in a wheelchair from an unfortunate accident and volunteers on a horse ranch that helps individuals with special needs. I invited him not only to expand my circle of friends with a compassionate human being, but to appreciate the experience of a simple thing such as going to a movie being confined to a wheelchair. I believe that people could very easily learn a handful (ha) of signs so that if they encounter a deaf person, they could at least have minimal dialogue and help them feel connected to society. Great talk!
@muhammadshoaib1962
@muhammadshoaib1962 6 жыл бұрын
Undoubtedly one of THE best ted talks.
@leanalyden444
@leanalyden444 6 жыл бұрын
This has helped me talk to people alot. If we want to succeed we must intrigue! Love that. It reminds me of a quote that says, "People won't care how much you know until they know how much you care" learned alot Thank you.
@AAvfx
@AAvfx 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true! Love life and love will love you back, is what I'm experiencing the last years as an artist! 😍🙏 The most important thing I've come to realize is that, in everything that you do in life, the energy that you feel while making it - passes on to others. 👌😇 So never loose faith in by thee!
@marilynrabinowitz8369
@marilynrabinowitz8369 8 жыл бұрын
I have watched this a few times and now I am going to try and use it. What a wonderful speaker.
@alicefaye4636
@alicefaye4636 8 жыл бұрын
that hands down is the best ted talk I've seen in ages, BRILLIANT!!!
@Rijwan887
@Rijwan887 6 жыл бұрын
alicefaye17 PLZZ talk to me my what's up number is +919782579339
@benjaminmcgrand5961
@benjaminmcgrand5961 2 жыл бұрын
She might be the best speaker I’ve ever watched.
@ellatang8084
@ellatang8084 8 жыл бұрын
Sam, You are so intriguing that I want to listen to you all the time. Thank you for the talk.
@Rijwan887
@Rijwan887 6 жыл бұрын
Ella Tang plzlzzl talk to me my what's up number is +919782579339
@nafisadmankhan
@nafisadmankhan 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rijwan887 dude did she talk with you 🙄
@TheFreshspidey
@TheFreshspidey 8 жыл бұрын
This was a really good Ted Talk!
@EileenMcDargh
@EileenMcDargh 9 жыл бұрын
As always, your style, insight and clarity make every word magic. Thanks, Sam
@blespere
@blespere 8 жыл бұрын
Absolutely EXCELLENT. Just what I needed for my business.
@heathersavage7365
@heathersavage7365 8 жыл бұрын
One of the best things I have EVER seen on the internet!
@belindapruyne
@belindapruyne 8 жыл бұрын
Love love love the step by step insights and advice!! Something I can really put into practice. Thank You Sam for sharing your brilliance and for being so intriguing!
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue Жыл бұрын
So glad you found this valuable, and thanks for sharing this with others so they have an opportunity to put it into practice.
@phimhaytonghop2673
@phimhaytonghop2673 10 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sam Horn. Very powerful, very practical. One of the best speakers I've ever watched.
@leahgodson2319
@leahgodson2319 10 жыл бұрын
I really like this; so applicable. Thanks Sam, Intrigue Expert!
@SoDoneWithUsenames
@SoDoneWithUsenames 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk. And I could listen to her speak all day long!
@jessicabehrens7
@jessicabehrens7 3 жыл бұрын
Tomorrow is the day that I will meet the person who has the power to say yes and change my life completely, enabling my biggest dream to come true! Thanks a lot! From the deep of my heart, thanks a lot!
@majorasmask_8288
@majorasmask_8288 2 жыл бұрын
how did it go?
@mittylem
@mittylem 2 жыл бұрын
Your meeting Jesus?
@joeboy225
@joeboy225 2 жыл бұрын
congratulations!!!
@AndrewHorn
@AndrewHorn 10 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing a true idea worth spreading Sam. This is universally applicable advice for anyone who is working on something they care about. Kudos!
@JamesJonesReverendJ
@JamesJonesReverendJ 8 жыл бұрын
This talk is BRILLIANT!!
@dancain9614
@dancain9614 8 жыл бұрын
I'm implementing these principles immediately! Thank you for sharing this information!
@tokunboiginla9454
@tokunboiginla9454 8 жыл бұрын
Really great talk with so much practical take away. Thanks Sam
@danialbrown6068
@danialbrown6068 8 жыл бұрын
Extremely underrated talk.
@IncomeBeast
@IncomeBeast 4 жыл бұрын
"If you love life, life will love you back" Great🌞
@joymcclendon5156
@joymcclendon5156 10 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely informative and relevant. I will immediately use the principles.
@sirarthurfrentzel1434
@sirarthurfrentzel1434 8 жыл бұрын
Very enlightening.
@colinkramer8734
@colinkramer8734 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks @SamHorn for clearing the pathways to new vistas of expression - awesome
@saheedsomoye1293
@saheedsomoye1293 6 жыл бұрын
I love this, I'm following her on KZfaq asap.
@HonoluluAunty
@HonoluluAunty 8 жыл бұрын
Great food for thought, will work on my 3 questions. I look forward to meeting Sam Horn in the near future.
@vesnaeastelysium
@vesnaeastelysium 6 жыл бұрын
Higly practical and useful knowledge and wisdom, brilliant. Thanks Sam.
@Tracyanndavis25
@Tracyanndavis25 8 жыл бұрын
Awesome presentation with content that's very practical and easy to apply
@RandyPeyser
@RandyPeyser 10 жыл бұрын
Great ideas, Sam! Always a pleasure to see you in action. You share such great content!
@candyearp2653
@candyearp2653 8 жыл бұрын
Love this Ted talk
@samanthagoebel6886
@samanthagoebel6886 6 жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved this
@ScottErtl
@ScottErtl 10 жыл бұрын
Sam, you always amaze me with your intriguing ways to keep it simple and make it real! Thanks for sharing your awesome insights! :)
@shannatedder2310
@shannatedder2310 7 жыл бұрын
Awesome talk, very engaging and informative!
@terieseful
@terieseful 8 жыл бұрын
this is great! thank you!
@anuyew9537
@anuyew9537 6 жыл бұрын
What a Dynamic Lady!!
@hamza99772
@hamza99772 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this talk.
@priscillacastaneda5478
@priscillacastaneda5478 8 жыл бұрын
this is incredibly valuable information! wow my mind is blown
@CIsays
@CIsays 5 жыл бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyed this, I took notes! You know what else I figured out? A permanent smile and a great sense of humor goes a long way!
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Chidera for your gracious note. Katherine Graham of the Washington Post said, "To do what you love and feel that it matters , how could anything be more fun?" I agree. I feel lucky to love and enjoy what I do and feel it matters. Katherine's right. I'm not sure it gets much better than that.
@CIsays
@CIsays 5 жыл бұрын
@@SamHornIntrigue I never expected this, and I am honoured by your reply. I already practiced the "Did you know?..." yesterday. I have social anxiety and I get really nervous sometimes so this means a lot to me. I hope that I can be happy doing the things I !genuinely! love to do and not be forced by society to do what society/the world needs me to do to survive. Thank you once again ❤
@lisacook763
@lisacook763 5 жыл бұрын
Sam Horn's talk is both entertaining and informative. Watch it if you have a new idea, business or strategy and you want to convince others to jump on board! Thank you, Sam!
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lisa. That was my goal - to hopefully engage people in this important topic of how to connect, model the principles, and share actionable insights people can put into practice and get real-world results. Glad to hear that this talk is having that impact.
@HarrietMeyerson
@HarrietMeyerson 10 жыл бұрын
Wow! Your advice is amazing. Right away you are putting the focus on the other person even when they ask about you. That's genius. I am throwing out my elevator speech and using your guidelines to connect. I love the part about the eyebrows, too. Very enlightening. I never thought about that. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with the world.
@JanineGregor
@JanineGregor 10 жыл бұрын
Hi Harriet, Wanted to stop in and say 'hello'. Saw you on Marisa Murgatroyd 's Super Hero Summit pre-view today. I'm a big fan of her work! Was a fun webinar!
@presentlyhappy
@presentlyhappy 8 жыл бұрын
one of the best talks
@aivytran5872
@aivytran5872 6 жыл бұрын
This is a very relevant talk . Thank you!
@nicole-secondaryemail-mort9617
@nicole-secondaryemail-mort9617 6 жыл бұрын
This three-part question seems like a great way to engage a new acquaintance with what you do. Benefits both sides.
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Nicole. Yes, many people have told me this has helped them win the favorable attention of people even when they were distracted or not initially interested in their topic, request or recommendation.
@jwbbccp
@jwbbccp 9 жыл бұрын
what a great message and excellent delivery! practical and practiceable ideas for making quick connections in an ever-quickening world :-)
@WallStWarrior11
@WallStWarrior11 Жыл бұрын
This is fantastic
@Corporate_Carolyn
@Corporate_Carolyn 10 жыл бұрын
Sam this is great stuff!!! Thanks so much!
@bethannfischberg3874
@bethannfischberg3874 4 жыл бұрын
Love this and your infectious energy Sam! I can’t wait to take on this challenge and looking forward to meeting you at your Portland workshop in October! ❤️
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks BethAnn - what fun we're going to have. Looking forward to crystallizng a Meaningful NEXT that puts the light on in our eyes.
@giochacon8354
@giochacon8354 8 ай бұрын
great talk, really full of value and practical uses.
@deeptc1
@deeptc1 10 жыл бұрын
Great way to make your 60 seconds and get people intrigued !!!
@cve4me
@cve4me 8 жыл бұрын
yesterday. Went on this morning to try and write a blog post. Forget it. Sam you made such an impact that here I am this time really taking brake down note. Thank you
@mobk9774
@mobk9774 5 жыл бұрын
I have this Cheshire like smile on my face. You definitely connected with me. What a fantastical ray of light you are. Thank you for sharing your music.
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your gracious feedback. It made my day. Glad you found this intriguing and useful. - Sam Horn
@tomheitz1651
@tomheitz1651 10 жыл бұрын
Awesome Sam! I will share this with the people I coach who are struggling to craft their commercial.
@BennyBoy_1010
@BennyBoy_1010 8 жыл бұрын
That was awesome! I know what to include in my marketing plan of my business
@dawn1607
@dawn1607 6 жыл бұрын
She is great!
@scottmcdonald8657
@scottmcdonald8657 5 жыл бұрын
Our team at Royal Roads University just used this method to present to our final residence MBA clients. We had them in the first 60 seconds and one was brought to tears by the end of the presentation. Thank you Sam Horn for your guidance that led us to a 99% grade.
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue 5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome Scott and thanks for sharing your success story. It makes my day when people are kind enough to take the time to get in touch and let me know how these INTRIGUE approaches are helping them create more genuine connections with people. Congrats!
@arttubelady
@arttubelady 8 жыл бұрын
yes, yes... I am a believer. thank you.
@jerry76152
@jerry76152 7 жыл бұрын
AWESOME... thank you
@peggystreetinfluencer
@peggystreetinfluencer 2 жыл бұрын
This is an awesome class!
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed these insights on how to intrigue people, Peggy. Thanks for your positive feedback.
@dfaria1000
@dfaria1000 4 жыл бұрын
An awesome presentation..........really intriguing.............
@herlambangbudiprasetya3241
@herlambangbudiprasetya3241 6 жыл бұрын
thanks for your enlightenment..
@ayeshamoonmoon1863
@ayeshamoonmoon1863 7 жыл бұрын
Very very Incredible, Loved it so much. She was great there.
@Rijwan887
@Rijwan887 6 жыл бұрын
Ayesha MoonMoon ASLMUALEKUM WA RAHMATULLAHI WABA RAKATUH plz talk to me my what's up number is +919782579339
@galactickim
@galactickim Жыл бұрын
You are such a fantastic speaker (you intrigued me!) with amazing advice. Thank you 🙏
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue Жыл бұрын
Glad you found this valuable. Hope this Did You Know opening helps you get interest in what you care about.
@williammedford5891
@williammedford5891 5 жыл бұрын
A real gem. Must see.
@nameless3211
@nameless3211 8 жыл бұрын
brilliant!
@debbiewilley9428
@debbiewilley9428 6 жыл бұрын
Brilliant!!!
@j-y1524
@j-y1524 6 жыл бұрын
Super funny and very doable!
@patpattison3152
@patpattison3152 10 жыл бұрын
Very good talk Sam. Will use this strategy in selling my TV Show. Hope all is well.
@UKissBreezy
@UKissBreezy 9 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@Lori90Alih
@Lori90Alih 6 жыл бұрын
I think this video just changed my life
@uncommonsense9711
@uncommonsense9711 8 жыл бұрын
OMG I've done that before. Went through all the trouble of accessing an opportunity only to chicken out at the last minute!!
@PetalynSwartHeartFueled
@PetalynSwartHeartFueled 10 жыл бұрын
Boy, did my light bulb go off, I finally got my 6 second 'here's what I do' down pat. Thank you...I've struggled with this for years! So simple and so effective. Ever since I've been using my new version, EVERYONE who has hear it stops in their tracks. I can't believe I found you.
@johnk4934
@johnk4934 4 жыл бұрын
So, what do/did you do?
@shashiranjan392
@shashiranjan392 6 жыл бұрын
SO WONDERFULL...
@mariamsoofi9371
@mariamsoofi9371 6 жыл бұрын
I loved it❤
@doubledancer
@doubledancer 8 жыл бұрын
awesome!
@arlenehutchinson9259
@arlenehutchinson9259 4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾 Thank-you
@Aritul
@Aritul 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk.
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you - glad you found this valuable.
@letitia4423
@letitia4423 4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this so much.. When asked how I spent my time during quarantine/lockdown I will simply reply, with intrigue, did you know?...
@candinajanicki324
@candinajanicki324 4 жыл бұрын
Great Ted Talk, entertaining and a great approach to the "elevator pitch" and answering "what do you do?". She talks about how to "raise the eyebrows" and gives some solid advice and a method to create intrigue and interest.
@SamHornIntrigue
@SamHornIntrigue 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Candina - glad you found this inspiring and useful!
@danutam1716
@danutam1716 5 жыл бұрын
Bravo!!!
@jezilmehta
@jezilmehta 9 жыл бұрын
Amazin ....only connect ...
@sachisachi7666
@sachisachi7666 6 жыл бұрын
💞....aaaahhhhh...Sammy,my eyebrows always goes up and down...even without thinking,been accused on that....love your Talk..Thank You💞‼️
@GrayMatterOfficial
@GrayMatterOfficial 8 жыл бұрын
For the next tedx event there is going to be someone speaking about "how tedx changed my life"
@didthatreallyjust
@didthatreallyjust 8 жыл бұрын
yessssssss. Someone has to teach this
@mergaafa2617
@mergaafa2617 8 жыл бұрын
Hey
@Rijwan887
@Rijwan887 6 жыл бұрын
alicia gannon PLZZ talk to me my what's up number is +919782579339
@sanjaayy3033
@sanjaayy3033 6 жыл бұрын
Awsome!!!
@camilaschneider386
@camilaschneider386 8 жыл бұрын
what a sweet lady, and great and enjoyable talk
@mossgroup2001
@mossgroup2001 8 жыл бұрын
Excellent
@ParthoBanerjee_Astrology
@ParthoBanerjee_Astrology 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks, very helpful. Your ideas and appearance are equally pretty ..
@QuietBoyMusik
@QuietBoyMusik 6 жыл бұрын
Nailed it. 💪
@denishead1045
@denishead1045 5 жыл бұрын
She is my Mother from another Mother. Love you ma
@gypsieladie
@gypsieladie 8 жыл бұрын
WoW!
@andreewert1142
@andreewert1142 6 жыл бұрын
Gee, I like your Style a Lot..funny, witty, humble
@carengaudiel3845
@carengaudiel3845 6 жыл бұрын
valuable!
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