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@amuseme56752 жыл бұрын
Love this couple, they are the real American who make up this great country, honest, sincere, brave, positive and bright.
@callienash17984 жыл бұрын
This answer is address to Richard Marx. The answer to your question Richard, is YES it's very possible to change what you don't like in yourself or what you'd like to improve in yourself. It's what I like to call giving an overhaul to our persona, or renewing Your mind. As believers, we do it all the time in our faith to become more like the salt-of-the-earth! So why not do it when we don't like something about ourselves or we wish - want to improve something in ourselves?! And if you want to change something in yourself, you've already won half the battle there. Because you've come to the conclusion that change is very achievable, possible, and acceptable to you. So the answer is YES I do believe a person can change if their heart is totally in it, and they're being genuine about it! I hope this helps you in your quest for change. Also there is always room for self improvement. And we should always strive to be a better version of ourselves no matter what age we are, or where we come from! But like I was taught from a tender age, nothing worth having in this life comes easy! So if your heart is in it to win it ... You're already halfway there!👍👍 Callie from Apple Valley California 🍎
@zitolover4 жыл бұрын
Love, love, love Tequilla talk!!!! Keep doing this.
@callienash17984 жыл бұрын
This is address to Daisy Fuentes and Richard Marx ... As you both are well aware social media is a very powerful tool! I do agree that most of the information that I've received on covid-19 comes from social media everything from Twitter to Facebook to KZfaq. And yes you have to sift through the BS, but for the most part I think a lot of it is spot-on. But I do agree with you when it comes to social media and being informed. And yes I truly agree with Daisy Fuentes it does create a lot of anxiety having this 24-hour news going on non stop! Especially for the elderly. It really stinks! And I'm proud to say that I followed you Daisy Fuentes and Richard Marx on Instagram, Twitter and KZfaq, you guys are very cool people!! 👍👍 Thank you both for being so real!!🤙 Callie from Apple Valley California 🍎
@luannscardino8854 жыл бұрын
Daisy! We need you to do an eye makeup video for us. You look great.
@sheer2waist6374 жыл бұрын
Richard DON’T EVER go grey please don’t just keep coloring your hair makes you look younger and stay younger longer....Daisy I totally agree with everything you say about coloring hair and staying and acting young 👍😀👍
@mercedeszeta4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful stunning couple indeed and one ☝️ of my favourite celebrities couple of all time ❤️❤️😍😍😘😘🤗🤗
@mercedeszeta4 жыл бұрын
I love you guys no ends ❤️❤️😍😍🥰🥰🤗🤗
@MoPoppins3 жыл бұрын
Richard, if you read/see this, just wanna say that it’s fine for you to dye your hair...HOWEVER, skin tone does change as we age, and the point is to make your hair color suit your CURRENT skin tone. You might need to go a shade lighter or mix in some highlights(?) or something. The color is currently too UNIFORM. Same goes for your brows. I don’t have a sophisticated-enough knowledge of color-blending, but I do know that people who have it done well, look amazing. It makes the skin look warmer & more radiant, rather than...matte/dull.
@sylviamjames9 ай бұрын
I watched you two back when this was going on 2020. First off, I always been a fan Richard Marx, I was living in Florida at the time. I think it might of been 1986 when I had purchased your cassette.😂 Daisy! You are a beautiful lady, and it’s good to see you two together. I hope the best endures for your family! 🫶🙏
@sylviamjames9 ай бұрын
I was gonna delete but it’s been a few years. Hope it doesn’t sound like a voicemail 😂
@sylviamjames4 жыл бұрын
I always loved Richard Marx, love your music! I love to hear your songs Summer Nights was the first time I heard of you, but yea, you found a sweet lady! All these negative 👎 people on here, no time for individuals like that Back when & especially now! God Bless guys love to hear you soon! 👍♥️
@lalimorales28184 жыл бұрын
Los amo Richard .idolo.saludos Daisy.salud por eso.Desde chile.Los queremos pronto en chile.Salud.
@callienash17984 жыл бұрын
I agree with a lot of things you're saying Daisy Fuentes. I mean I understand the connection that has to be there between a couple. But I believe that when you fall in love with someone, or love someone ... It comes naturally. Because you can't help but connect with them, you're rendered helplessly in their warm abyss of love! In fact It's like hearing a good song that you've tucked away in your brains archives, and every time you hear it it sums up that same ole' feelings as it once did when you first heard it. Because you connected with that song the first time, and the song remembers when! The heart is the same so to speak, it knows what it desires. And when it finds it, it holds on to it very tightly .. hence the feeling you first remember when you fell in love with that person the first time. My mom and dad have been married fifty-three years and still love each other the same way as they did when they were young. I only hope to oneday find a love like that. And while intimacy maybe an important part of a relationship, I have to agree with you, it's not the main thing! when you love someone you automatically just want to show them every day of your life - 365 days of the year every year that you love them endlessly! It's just that simple! Callie from Apple Valley California 🍎
@BagznBirdz2 жыл бұрын
Smart talk about sex, and with no blushing and censorship. And very true - for some people, sex in a long relationship gets boring. A nice routine is great but most people need a little spice in the mix as well. If a person is much into that familiar routine it might be a bit of a shock when the partner brings up that they might want something different. The relationship either survives it or it doesn't.
@magdalenasaeger28874 жыл бұрын
Growth? Experiences change us. Age changes us. Responsible changes us. Emotions changes us. Yes, I believe we can change our personalities.
@helenymclennan9539 Жыл бұрын
Yes you can change.! Firstly you must WANT to change.. Secondly begin the change, and the more you practise this change the more the practise becomes a habit which enforces a natural change....❤
@irina_dust77993 жыл бұрын
Guapísima Daisy!!! Linda pareja
@TheCanadianrockies8 ай бұрын
Daisy Fuentes, my favourite host of MU pageant. Please come back and fix them, as they are really bad right now. They might not know this but they seriously need you to fix the wokeism that infiltrates in their organization.
@k.4624 жыл бұрын
I miss beachin!!
@whatever71234 жыл бұрын
I'd rather beachin too.
@linoamv193 жыл бұрын
love love la pareja ... bellos, guapos, talentosos e inteligentes
@jerseystotler36154 жыл бұрын
Agreed haircolor does influence how we see ourselves I will always keep my hair colored. It makes me feel better as I age I keep fit and like to look up to date! Love your show you guys!!!!💖🌈💖
@franknorton76864 жыл бұрын
Quedate en America donde perteneces. Gracias!
@il30604 жыл бұрын
I dont think they actually hear what they're saying. They are coming across obsessed with looking/acting/being young. We get it, most men like young, hot women. It's pretty obvious Richard traded up to a more "hip" model. Big deal.
@Jo-il9rf4 жыл бұрын
I think they are in a different lifestyle than most of us. People really suck up to celebs and that makes them who they are.
@blueberrymuffin49344 жыл бұрын
I am just a little put off by Daisey. I'd rather listen to Richard. Sorry not sorry.
@Jo-il9rf4 жыл бұрын
@@blueberrymuffin4934 I really thought Cynthia was a class act. It's hard for me to get used to Daisey. I'm trying, though.
@danacarter91474 жыл бұрын
@@Jo-il9rf I heard that Richard Marx and one of his sons had a tussle. I wonder if they patched things up, or if their relationship was (or is, for that matter), unfortunately, damaged beyond repair; I mean, it just comes to show that not all parent/child relationships are salvageable, and not all sibling relationships are salvageable, either.
@ii-sq9uj4 жыл бұрын
@@danacarter9147 Well, he chose the girlfriend over his mom. That's got to hurt.
@michellelasky86494 жыл бұрын
I like him. She's annoying.
@terriel6301 Жыл бұрын
I was blindsided. Devastated.
@sophrosyne37602 жыл бұрын
We are the only arbiters of our own identities, personality and actions. It may not be an easy task, but I think that even the fundamentals of ourselves can be augmented if we are serious about making positive change.
@ETIENNE81003 жыл бұрын
Daysi is the most beautiful Cuban woman
@nickkellie2 жыл бұрын
great talk!
@marcelacarrillo60724 ай бұрын
Qué hermosa y talentosa es Daisy Él ? Total
@nikkivenable37004 жыл бұрын
I'm 47 and I feel like I am old...like my best days are behind me. I have battled illness since 2012 and I lost 8 years, what I felt like would have been my best years, in a fog of surgeries, horrific pain, and depression. I am better now, but I do feel like I'm now officially way past my prime(which isn't the worst thing in the world...but not super pleasant, either). I didn't realize that Daisy was 53! She looks unbelievable for 53. Men tend to age better than women(imo), but she looks amazing. If she doesn't feel old herself, I need to get my head straight as she has a few years on me.
@callienash17984 жыл бұрын
And to comment on what Daisy Fuentes is saying regarding change. Taking little bitsof what you like about people that you've met in your life or whom have made an impact on your life is totally normal, and very acceptable! It's called, people having influences on us. It's like being a singer-songwriter which I am. I've been singing since I was three years of age. Self-taught. And my greatest teachers and influences when it came to styles and techniques of writing was people like Johnny Cash, George Jones, Don Williams, Merle Haggard, Loretta Lynn and Dolly Parton that's just to name a few whom have had a great influence on me as a singer songwriter. I love the storytelling of a song. And that influence me a great deal as a songstress! My point is, why can't we do the same when it comes to our personalities and traits?! The answer is YES WE CAN, and many of us already have! By the way Daisy Fuentes and Richard Marx I love the topics that you guys are touching on! Thanks for sharing with us all and letting us interact with you guys! Callie from Apple Valley California 🍎
@cynthia83333 жыл бұрын
Yes it is possible to change. But do know that because you have changed you will lose some friends because they do not fit into the new life you are creating. But you do gain new friends who shares in the same path of happiness as you are.
@gengland86013 жыл бұрын
I agree. Self love ❤️ for me equals keeping my hair colored w blonde and caramel highlights n lowlights. Makes me feel pretty, younger, sassy. With COVID around I had to break down and get my hair styled, cut and colored recently. Such a big pick me upper. Richard u r hilarious. And Daisy you are a doll. Understanding a true man will love the banter w other women, ie his hairdresser. But your understanding and maturity and non jealous behavior makes u a class act. Haha. I hope you two keep this tequila talk going. I’m trying to keep up w social media and technology. My kids have kept me young and open minded. I think it’s important.
@angelwallace1007 Жыл бұрын
1942??😁😁😂😂 I think I just fell back and I'm not even drinking. LMBO just kidding guys just kidding
@angelwallace1007 Жыл бұрын
Seriously in all talks I fight with trying to cover up my gray hairs. I'm with Daisy on what's she's saying.
@AntoninaRivituso4 жыл бұрын
i think that we can change our personality its all in the mindset and our life cirumstances, but there is always that part of us where life makes us who we are, the part we are born with. its like those people who come across always happy and smiling like nothing bothers them. i also think its about having an open mind you dont have be someone else you have to be who you want to be, we all are not perfect and wont be showing up to work all happy go lucky everyday we have our good days and bad days.
@callienash17984 жыл бұрын
I feel so compelled to answer Daisy Fuentes question as to why leaving a voicemail - and the fact that it's a waste of time leaving a voicemail if you're going to leave text as well. perhaps this answer will change your perception regarding leaving voicemails ... I'll start off with a example ... sometimes it's comforting and warm to hear someone's voice rather than a text. The text just reaffirms the voicemail, but without the emotions behind it. I'm not particularly a big fan of of texting I have to say, but that's beside the point. And the other example is ... What if that was the last voice you heard from a love one huh?!, let's just say God forbid???!!! I'm Not trying to sound morbid about it, just keeping it candidly honest and real!! My Awesome Precious Son is in the United States Coast Guard - law enforcement. And I still today save particular voicemails of his! Because his voice is so precious to me, and he does a very dangerous job day in and day out while serving his country! I'm going to respectfully push back on this topic about voicemails being annoying Daisy Fuentes ... I beg to differ on Voicemails being annoying. In my humble opinion, they are precious to no end and the key to communication! There shouldn't be a length or timeline on a voicemail, or a protocol on how to leave a message or voicemail when someone is trying to communicate with you. Perhaps it's more the person who's annoying than the voicemail! But no matter how you slice and dice it, emails by are far more incredibly essential when it comes to communicating. There are things in texts that can be misconstrued, that on the other hand if you were to leave a voicemail would be clear! Voicemails are the best form of communication just saying Daisy Fuentes. And hopefully from my previous examples you'll both realize and understand the WHY they are such an important part of communication while at the same time being precious. Callie a proud mother of the United States Coastguardsman 🇺🇸 From Apple Valley California 🍎 God bless!
@deborahblough18344 жыл бұрын
i love 80s music
@meenasmith2933 жыл бұрын
You two are wonderful human beings I know my hair started on both sides ear-line gray so is hard to color lols💕🙏
@michellelasky86494 жыл бұрын
April must be her publicist - a little over the top with all the false compliments. The public obviously feels differently reflected in this forum. Anyone who claims to be vegan for media attention and then sells products that tests on animals in the same breath is unethical and lacks integrity and character. Clearly, April doesn't think there is anything wrong with hypocrisy and lies. His wife is even mocking trained chefs now apparently as some sort of joke. Another unethical character flaw to add to her resume.
@mercedeszeta4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️😍😍😘😘🤗🤗
@michellewilliams86634 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys..loved the video ...I think the right answer in life is "be true to yourself". Greetings from Australia xx
@vanessaprew57664 жыл бұрын
Hey you guys are awesome together, so funny, i was actually sharing a glass of wine with you too.. Love and Light from Co.Tipperary Cashel Ireland.xxx
@MoPoppins3 жыл бұрын
28:05 - RICHARD: Yes, it’s possible to evolve past/through the parts of us that we’d like to supplant...but only SOME of the time, This is where we figure out (pretty much through trial and error, and also knowledge of personality ARCHETYPES) which parts of us are FIXED vs. MUTABLE. You’ve probably heard of Myers-Briggs (MBTI). That’s helpful, to a degree. I’d also recommend ASTROLOGY (the real stuff), which explains the “why” behind who we are. If you haven’t already, google “free natal chart” (maybe you can leave off “free”), and for whichever platform you pick, you input your birthdate, birth place, and birth time. Your natal chart (EVERYONE’s natal chart) serves as a blueprint for our lives (go ahead and test it w/ everyone you know), and through free will, we decide the outcomes where there are variable factors. Knowing the basics of astrology serves as a very useful tool in life for understanding ourselves & others, teaching us how to extract our full potential, and to help us love & accept the things that we can’t change. As you mentioned, you wanted/needed the youthful energy that Daisy injected into your life. That’s exactly how we learn to evolve into the self that we want to become. You see & experience her “brand” of energy, and it rubs off on you in both conscious & subconscious ways. This is why we need to be discerning about who we spend time with, because it’s gonna happen, anyway. As you mindfully condition/reprogram yourself to EMULATE being more carefree by using your empathy to experience in your mind’s body how someone with Daisy’s psychology works to allow her to be more carefree & adventurous, you’ll notice that it becomes easier to BE like her. At first, it feels like you’re just pretending/role-playing, but as with ALL conditioning, we develop CELL/MUSCLE MEMORY, so you can genuinely become more laid back. That said, you do have your HARD WIRING, so you’ll always maintain your constitution. The conditioning is just software that can be swapped in and out. Daisy mentioned that you’re a very responsible person. That makes you naturally more “serious,” but being responsible is a GOOD thing, right? Many happy-go-lucky types can be quite flaky scattered, and unreliable. Fun though they may be, when they need to get their shit together, they LITERALLY can’t...so as w/ many things in life, there are pros & cons to being like them, as well. Just keep practicing being the type of carefree person you want to be, and one day, you’ll notice that it’s become second nature, and that you no longer have to make a conscious effort at it. 👍 I think you’re describing an ENFP or ESFP, when you speak of carefree types. Just keep studying them, and culling the best of their qualities to adopt.
@AnthonyCambray4 жыл бұрын
Any chance of increasing the stream quality?
@ivettecortes22264 жыл бұрын
Hola daisy como estas dile a tu marido gue cante las canciones de los 80s🤗
@jennifergraves40474 жыл бұрын
I love watching yall
@danacarter91474 жыл бұрын
They don't cease to make us smile, or even, laugh.😍😂
@tiffanyharkins65414 жыл бұрын
Love you guys! Preach!! I totally agree, people can grow and change, you just have to put in the work! And I agree with emulating traits that you admire in others - I’ve done this myself because people are so inspiring 🥰
@Ili-ana4 жыл бұрын
Daisy! I also do not like to leave voice mail 😋 I enjoy your Talks guys, Could you do it twice a week? 🙃
@justinecarter30644 жыл бұрын
we can all become a better person, the way we act treat ppl etc. but our actions or ugh im not saying this right. ok im a virgo, as you are Richard. when i first started watching your podcast i noticed you said something that all virgos say quiet and dont like to cause confrontation. but if someone bothers me or brings out anger in me thats different than im quiet and subdued because that is who i am because of when i was born (sept). idk how else to say it
@melissahill92204 жыл бұрын
Richard marx and his wife beautiful daisy Fuentes are funny and hilarious and on their apple podcast on my cell phone and I like the music videos and the beautiful couple and richard marx is handsome with his dark brown hair look nice with his hair color is nice and daisy Fuentes is beautiful and pretty lady
@kerriwilson7362 жыл бұрын
I have seen people change really bad traits about themselves to better themselves. It is possible but it doesn’t necessarily change their fundamental personality because that’s who they are. But they don’t become defined by their bad traits any longer they rid themselves of them , though it does take time.
@jessefig52814 жыл бұрын
1942 is my top 3
@justinecarter30644 жыл бұрын
i remember the test pattern on the tv
@kristinwatsonheintz43814 жыл бұрын
Long thought regarding changing personality: Super complex, I think. Part of me feels like let's all be ok with who we are but one point that was made "Things that don't make you happy". Hmmm. I think that's the clue. Figuring out why that thing doesn't make you happy. Is it societal pressure to be a certain type of person? Is it a legit dislike you have about yourself and feel you need to change? From the perspective of seuxal abuse in childhood and the recovery from that, you learn that your personality was formed from many inputs and coping mechanisms. And then you are encouraged to look through your coping mechanisms and cast off the things that don't work for you and embrace the ones that do. Sense of humor for me is a coping mechanism. For instance: I laugh a lot at things and make jokes about some of my own dire circumstances. It works for me. Manipulation was a trait that was not working for me and I no longer wanted, so I worked hard to cast it off. Loads of therapy that led to tools for self-actualization, reflection and most importantly, making the thing I no longer want conscious. Once it's conscious, when you have the reaction or situation arise, you can do self-talk and simply say "ok, this is right here. Why am I reacting this way? Can I choose another way?". It takes a damn long time but for me, it's been a helpful tool. Also, voicemail is bullshit.
@elisandracruz29362 жыл бұрын
I love you! OMG you rock it
@WitchWithin3 жыл бұрын
Yup
@WitchWithin3 жыл бұрын
You should take time..
@lucineiadasilva18003 жыл бұрын
Não beba Richard marque
@farhanarahman90094 жыл бұрын
I love watching these too! Farhana 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
@lucyhillery81444 жыл бұрын
Love watching on KZfaq
@blancanavarro254610 сағат бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@dobeward37034 жыл бұрын
I don't know if you read these replies, or not, but if you do, I would like you to know I enjoy your podcasts. and I REALLY hope you don't pay any attention to the negative comments.
@privateprofessional21704 жыл бұрын
I don't have to agree with everything said here to know that testing on animals is a zero sum game. I don't respect anyone who exploits the torture of animals as a career choice. The sentiment with the comments seems to be one of anger regarding her lack of integrity and character and the disconnect between what she says and what she does. That's not negativity it's a fact. Be part of the solution not the problem. You seem to be the only one who doesn't care about animals or her hypocrisy, which is your right but don't try to discredit people who hold struggling TV personalities to the same standard they espouse to others. Your inability to see the common denominator is doing a disservice to society, the environment and humanity as a whole. I'm sorry you can't see that. Metacognition is a tool meant for self-refection, she should try it sometime, she might learn something about herself other than the shallow desire to feed her own ego.
@privateprofessional21704 жыл бұрын
In case you're wondering, I didn't have to watch the video to know that, I just read all the posts and used common sense. The trailer was a buzzkill, so I didn't bother to waste my time. I saw YOUR "negativity" toward another post, maybe practice what you preach is a good philosophy for you as well. Happy Covid-19.
@dobeward37034 жыл бұрын
I'm here to be entertained. I don't agree with Mr. Marx or Ms. Fuentes on many topics. But they are entertaining to me. And I'm just tired of all the negativity.
@dobeward37034 жыл бұрын
And I'm a nurse. Nothing happy about COVID. I'm choosing to believe you mean that you want me to stay healthy. Thank you!
@privateprofessional21704 жыл бұрын
@@dobeward3703 Entertained really... is that what you call this. By the tone of your responses seems you need to take some time off and heal not be entertained by an animal killer. As a nurse you think being angry at complete strangers for expressing themselves who actually stand for something is good for your mental health? If you were my nurse sick or not, I'd file a formal complaint. BUT, my guess is you're highly stressed considering the conditions you have to work under during a pandemic. Which, is even more reason why trolling the general public doesn't make any sense. Happy Covid -19 means whatever you want it to mean. This is KZfaq not the Mayo Clinic. Namaste.
@godwillguideme.37734 жыл бұрын
Are they going to become alcoholics?
@user-em8ws1bi6j4 жыл бұрын
Become? LOL
@jerseystotler3615 Жыл бұрын
I doubt it!! They would not do their jobs as well as they do if they were!
@lopedevega29474 жыл бұрын
great
@lucineiadasilva18003 жыл бұрын
Não Al alcoolismo destrói sua carreira
@lucineiadasilva18003 жыл бұрын
Não beba álcool não ao alcoolismo vc pode destruir sua linda brilhante careira se virar alcoólatra
@gypsydragongal3 жыл бұрын
I was reading the comments & saw that you're vegan yet testing on animals for your products. I remember you having a Guatemalan sweat shop when your clothing was with Kohl's. Taking advantage of both animals & people seems to be a common thread with you.
@cynthia83333 жыл бұрын
Since I turned 50 last year and about to be 51 this year I noticed don't like to have gray hair yet so I do color it. When it comes to sexual connect. I prefer my lover to stimulate my mind though out the day with sex talk (note it's clean not that nasty talk)that when I do meet with him. I find sex is intensified. But that just me.
@markcanton10164 жыл бұрын
At leat they have "ONE" super fan below out of a population of 320 million - Mazel Tov
@juancasiezar16114 жыл бұрын
Salud amigos!!
@oscarpalacios71984 жыл бұрын
Daisy fuentes en control ....super BELLA
@irisholfert69722 жыл бұрын
Ihr sauft nur 😉zwei Männer unter sich.
@AntoninaRivituso4 жыл бұрын
yep tv went off lol no more shows
@rachelblanche29074 жыл бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻
@danacarter91474 жыл бұрын
I can't enough of this! Btw, how's the making of your movie coming?😀
@rachelblanche29074 жыл бұрын
@@danacarter9147 My new movie is going good. 😊😊
@danacarter91474 жыл бұрын
@@rachelblanche2907 That's great. I can't wait to see it!😀
@rachelblanche29074 жыл бұрын
@@danacarter9147 Me too.😊😊
@AntoninaRivituso4 жыл бұрын
thats weird Ashley Maddison
@WitchWithin3 жыл бұрын
🤔
@WitchWithin3 жыл бұрын
Possible to break the shell..linZ
@romankrylov6054 жыл бұрын
No, new stuff sucks. The duet you mentioned is s-word. It's extremely difficult to change one's vibe because it's largely driven by biology, energy, hormones etc. News: would you tell them how many new illness cases are there in the last day or how many total since the beginning? Depends on what you want the reaction to be. Voicemail: it's a thing from 80s...
@AntoninaRivituso4 жыл бұрын
i like hot and cold coffee and i hate leaving voicemails lol is it a female thing.
@vg2binkey8843 жыл бұрын
You both need to Lay off of the booze! And when your both taking about this kind of crap! Drunks arent attractive and to those of us that are are sober thru us! Drunks are a hazard! Richard! They arent good influencers either! I thought you quit drinking thru you!:( as a fan of yours and who has loved your music and since your hazard album, it saddens me to be hearing you say that instead of you wanting to be being a dad thru you to your sons thru you that youd rather not and to want to just be drinking thru you and with daisy even? Thats a change youd want to be making? For who? Whom do you love more thru you? You or them thru you?:'(why would you want to be changing that thru you? Your sons will always need you to be their dad to them thru you! Not their drinking buddy thru you! So like how you are thru you! And lay off of the alcohol thru you and if this how you think when drinking even is just down on you thru u even