girl everything you said is literally me. for what, bragging rights?? sis i am tired. no point of pretty hair that can never stay out

GIRL.. I feel you. I’m OVER IT. I’m steady STRUGGLING. It’s a nightmare trying to manage my THICK, DRY, KINKY ass 4Z hair. I am not caring for it like I should because it’s so difficult to manage. Plus the “natural community” is kinda toxic. I’ve been holding off doing a texture softener for a while now because of the harsh judgment and guilt from the natural community. It’s not an easy decision but something’s gotta give. I can’t live like this rn and my mental health is trash and my hair has been in the back burner. Hoping to change that by making my hair more manageable.

Yoooooo!!! Everything you said touched my soul. IM SICK of doing these protective styles. The time and energy invested in the natural community with 4c is unfair. I'm texturizing it to lift the weight of my shoulders. I love black hair, but I no longer have the patience to manage her I'm never able to rock outside my home.

I been natural for 5 years and everything you said is literally me !! I’m ready to throw in the towel ❤

I did mine 3 days ago and it was the best decision I ever made

YAAASSSSS!!!! YAAAASSSSS!!! YAAAAAAAASSSSSS!!! "What's the point of having nice hair if you can't wear it?!" My point EXACTLY! I've been wearing crochets for 3 years and my hair is longer than it has ever been. I want to wear it out but like you, I workout 4-5 days a week. It will be tiring to prep and tie up my hair to workout. This second time natural as an adult I have only worn it natural maybe 2 instances. Relax me, texturize me, just let me and my hair be great without the issue of frizz😩. I'm with you sis👌🏾

Yaaass I texturized mine I’m 1 year in my hair has grown soo much and sooo much easier to deal with…. I was nervous at first but I just love it sooo much more now I love doing it and now I can goooo days without having to do it now

I definitely get the struggle with natural hair in humid climates. I also struggle with having one look leaving the house and then getting a completely different look by the end of the night but I've come to realize that a trusty hairtie can pull me through those moments. The winter months tend to bring some easier styling though since the humidity is gone, but then the issue is dryness. I'm here for your video though. You had me at fine hair! Great video btw!!!

I feel you I just texturized my hair tonight😂 I’m watching this while I’m deep conditioning my hair! I feel like all the work and combing my hair while it was natural, did more harm than good for me, so I’m looking forward to being able to style and care for my hair better😊

Sis when you said "For what bragging rights?" I was like YES, I'm so over this struggle! Your hair looks gorgeous and it motivated me to get it together, so I'm getting a texturizer done this weekend and I can't wait. Freedom here I come! You've definitely got a new subscriber here, thanks for keeping it real.

I had to throw in the towel too after shaving my hair so many times and going natural for 9 months until yesterday 😂. The shrinkage was a struggle and doing twist as a go-to style.

I think ima do this before I decide to loc my hair. Your hair looks amazing!

Best video by far!!

Okay this was the sign I needed 😭😭 ima texturise my hair!!!

That’s it I’m sold 😭😭

The nails are beautiful btw...very helpful video. Will be trying this with my bomb ass hairdresser. ❤️😍

Sis. You are so pretty ❤️🥰Hunty your hair is beautiful before and after. Love your channel, new Sub!! Same struggle and the struggle is real. I've never done wigs (Not for me 🤦🏽‍♀️). I'm either natural or wearing braids. Mostly braids because I moved to the south and this humidity with my shrinkage....GOOD LORD. I mean people here compliment my natural hair but I need this thick stuff to be more manageable. Sitting here watching your video debating on braiding it up (I don't feel like it) or texlax? HMMMM TEXLAX FOR THE WIN 🙌🏽 Thank you ❤️

I love your nails!!!

I had to like and subscribe from the opening sequence because I understood and related straight away. I need to texlax asap!!

Chil I’m natural my hair is getting longer n more difficult. I’m not trying to gaur hate but my arms are tired so I might just texturize

Thank you. This was very helpful.

Great video im convinced!! Will you be retouching the roots in future ? 🔥

I'm contemplating the same thing. Watching for ideas.

Your hands are so pretty!

Oh please update us on how you maintain your length!!! 😍

Skin care routine please .. you’re glowing 😍

Girl you cute, thanks for video and keeping it 💯

You are literally me. I woke up today fed tf up and bought texturizer

Let’s gooo

please keep us updated im really thinking about doing this

I want to try this I never wear my natural hair out it’s so thick it’s 4b I think and it’s low porosity every natural hair style I do doesn’t last and I’m always hair depressed when it comes to my hair it’s so much maintenance I can’t stand it. I wish it was looser it’ll be easier to manage.

Wow we are hair twins!

Girrrl I feel you! Maybe I will texturize mine... ugh! the hair struggles.

I get it! I used to live in Tallahasse, FL and the humidity and hair sucks. My sister lives in Orlando, FL and I do not visit often LOLOL cause I cant

I need to do this 😩

Girl, I am so tired of detangling. This about me to be me 🙂

Let’s see it air dry ! 😊

I don't wear my hair because it's super thick and gets dry so fast ..I have low porosity hair. I always keep it in a protective style but I don't want to have to keep doing that

Make sure to deep condition weekly,protein treatment once monthly

I used to get relaxers when I was younger then about 4 years ago I cut my hair and got a relaxer and did the finger waves , I let my hair grow out and my hair grew out beautifully but it never reached the length it was before and I’ve been wearing my hair in slick backs for the last 2 years back to back I haven’t straightened my hair in a very long time as well my hair is isn’t very manageable and I really want to wear my hair out in a curly fro or just out and curly but my hair is low prosperity and curly styles don’t last long and shrink up very fast resulting it to look ugly and become tangled I think a texturizer would be the best option

I literally woke up this morning feeling like this !!!! Quick question.. when you work out do u feel like u smell the chemical/egg smell?

Have you been able to just leave the house like mentioned without all the work? I live in SC and the humidity messes up my styles and my hair is crazy thick which is hard to deal with as it gets longer and I just don't have the time

So as far as styling afterwards can you blow dry it out and run a ceramic comb through it without damaging the new texture? I really been trying to wear a sleek ponytail but my chin length 4c hair is like nah ho the side be sticking out and shit even after the blow drier and comb

I’ve been natural since I was 19 and I’m OVER IT lol 😅

I texturized mine last week!!! Lol…I couldn’t take it anymore… 👠👠👠

Can someone please tell me the name of all the products used?

Also what do you use to maintain hair health after this please?

i texturized my hair about a year ago, and my hair literally died 💀 so I had to do a big chop. and a year later my hair is a little bit longer but now I wanna do it again 😭😭😭 but i’m scared lol

15 minutes TOP ladies ! We do not need that full 30 minutes!!

Please what texturizer did you use? Its not in your Amazon Front Store

maybe i missed it but how long did you keep it in your hair?

Does this have the propensity to burn your scalp like a perm?

It’s looks like a unfinished relaxer. It look less defined and frizzy

What texturiser product did you use???

I want to see how the fro look air dry

Is it possible to texturize your hair without going all the way to the end like just doing the root of your hair? Or should I just take it all the way down? Wanting to texturize my hair but it's just my roots not the length of my hair I'm just looking for some guidance on this being my possible first time wanted to texturize my natural hair how I should go about it

i also texturized my hair but what the ladies know is..... put product on THE ROOTS AND ENDS LAST.. they will take product fastest and you do not want the new growth look.....

If your hair is 4C, mine must be 4Z.

Mentally I’m here.

Yeah if I wake up with a dry crunchy Afro again tomorrow I’m shaving my head . Like this is ridiculous, everyday having to do the whole routine over

I want to texturize it but my biggest fear is it being stringy 😭😭

𝓅𝓇𝑜𝓂𝑜𝓈𝓂 😍