No one can judge someone else. No one understands you're story better than you. Life is too short enjoy it and be happy. Do what makes you happy

Love this story. It sure brought tears to me

Everyone deserve to be loved. I’m glad you met someone who gave you hope and inspiration- as you were to him.

You were sad and lonely and your own lousy husband essentially abandoned you so it's no wonder why you were willing to find a little happiness and companionship with someone else for a brief time. It's not our place to judge you because if we were to, then your husband is guilty first!

Tsis txhaum rau leej twg li yuav tsum nrhiav kev lom zem koj thiaj li zoo sai....koj tu txiv nws twb nrhiav kev lom zem rau nws ne....

Zoo siab koj rhiav tau ib tug hlub hlub koj thiab pab koj muaj txoj kev kab siab.

Lady- don’t worry what people think about you and Don. I think something saw that you both needed each other and send you his way. I’m sad that you didn’t choose him. If you had chose him you would have known what true love is even if for a moment. I wish you well. ❤

Txhob cem tus niam tsev no. Nws tus txiv twb mus yuav ib tug tshiab lawm.nws yuav tsuj muaj txoj Cai nrhiav kev Kaj siab thiab. Yog koj yog nws Los koj yeej xav ib yam.

Viv ncaws aw... hlub koj os koj yeej tsis txhaum li os mog ❤❤❤❤

Hmong men can do that to us but if we do that to them they'll cry like a baby. I'm happy you made a friend for a short time.

Such a heartbreaking story. Keep going out, and I hope you find more companions.

Txawm naj nub nua los koj yeej muaj cai nrhav 1 tug lug hlub koj mas es moog nrhav Vaajtswv moog ntseeg nwg hab nrhav tug tshab os tsi txhob khauv xwm moob txuj nam kev ntseeg kws tsi muaj kev hlub os. Have a happy life.

I feel very sorry for you sister 😢 txhob tu siab is ya neej nyias muaj nyias ib txog hmoo zoo os mog kuv mloog koj zaj no kuv hlub koj heev 😢li os tus me viv ncaus aw..

You have the right to be love. I’m sorry for your loved, Don. 😢

Good job lady ❤❤❤❤

It’s ok os. He’s your friend to keep you alive. That’s what a friend is for.

Don was your friend and companion. Everyone deserves some kindness, love and hope and that’s what he gave you. You both cherished each other and your time together. Always remember the memories.

You do nothing wrong sister. I’m proud of you.

Nrog koj tusiab os tus me niam tij aw, thov Vajtswv ua lubteeb ci rau koj mog.

tu me niam tsev aws ca yuav tu siab ua luaj li os yu cov me nyuam lo lawv tseem yuav tsi coj yus mu nrog lawv nyob li thiab lo

Your true love is Don, not your Hmong husband. When you cross path with someone who has the same kindness heart, value, appreciation of life and love, and share equal enjoyment, and love you whole hearted, now that is a true partner, regardless of race.

Save yourself, sister. Did your hmong husband stay and love you and care for you? No, he saved himself, too. Life is short, be with the person who is there for you.

Do not feel guilty & you dont need to explain yourself. Your husband already committed the ultimate sin, what you did was nothing. Good for you sister-- for having a friend who was supported you for a short period. Cherish those memories.

We are proud of yoy

Kojbyeej tsis muaj kev txhaum dab tsi hlo li os niam laus aw. Hlub2 koj os😟

Zoo kawg tsi txhaum qhov twg li yog luag muaj ib tus lawm ua dab tsi ua rau yus kaj siab xwb os

Good for you, lady.

Thawj thawj zaj ntawm koj cov neej neeg uas ua rau kuv poob kua muag.

You deserve to be happy. There is nothing wrong with you have a friend to talk to. I feel sad that he died.

Twb yog lub ntuj tso nws los pab koj kom kajsiab rau ib ntus. Koj yeej tseem mus muaj tau kev hlub kev kaj siab nrog luag lwm tus os tus sister.

Tsis hlub ces thawm tuag ua dab txhob tos nws tseg kiag li..los ua mob rau nws kom nws disable nws thiaj paub kom nws taug koj txoj kev nyuaj siab chim siab mob siab.

Txaus tu siab ua luaj. 🥲

To the sister in the story. No one has the right to judge you including your husband. I feel like your husband no longer love you and already found a new wife. You have every right to find your happiness and a new lover. I pray that you will find love and peace again soon. God bless you ❤

Ua phooj ywg xwb yeej tsis ua cas.

I understand what u did and so happy u got to experience a real man. U are one of the lucky ones. 👍You did nothing wrong. I'd rather have a real love in a friendship. (Which is so amazingly better sometimes) than a douche bag that has left u long ago but holds a stupid title. Plus what is right or wrong anyway. Ppl have their prospective however we all need to let that go too. We mirror each other and your husband has his reason but it's not because of you. It's because he's still a peterpan boy. And it's easy for him to blame u. Hmong men are worse at admitting their or weak to guide as a real head of the household. It's not your job to teach him how to be a man. You are still young. Got out have fun and live each day as your last. I am sending love and light energy towards you. Good luck beautiful sister!! 😘❤️

Tu siab ua luaj li os vivncaus aws. Nrog Koj mob siab kawg. Cas txoj hmoo phem ua luaj. Luag nim mus yuav kiag ib tus los rau yus ntsia os. Es nim yog tim tus dabtsi naj. Peb ua neeg nyob es nim xav kom txhua yam zoo xwb os.

Nws twb yuav lwm tus tau yus tham xwb tseem tsawg dhau

So sorry to hear this. If your husband was in your shoe, I know you probably still take care of him & not marry a Txiv yau. Most Hmong men are like your husband. So sad. 😢

Kavtsij ua li kos thiaj tsi mob xwb peb ua neeg yeej yuav tsum muaj kev Kajsiab xwb os yog nyuaj siab ces kawg mob xwb

Zoo kawg. Koj ua pauj kua zaub ntsuab rau koj niag txiv ntshaw niam yau siab phem. Tabsis tu siab rau koj tus phooj ywg zoo. Thov kom nws mus zoo. Zoo qhov uas koj tsis yuav nws. If u r lonely, why not find a hobby that u like to keep u busy or get a pet.

Cheater is still a cheater, you new your heart is not clean but at least you came forward and admitted

Txob tu siab os viv ncaus aw koj twb ntsib nws ib ntus ua koj kaj siab lawm ib ntus

Sister if you have any life insurance, make sure you dont leave anything to your husband. Put all your money, retirement money in your kids name. Your lousy don't deserve a penny. You did nothing wrong. Your husband is the biggest sinner.

Txhob quav ntsej tu neeg sau ntawv phem rau koj.....yog nws nyob koj qhov chaw nws thiaj li paub

Nrog koj tu siab ua luaj thiab os tus vivncaus

Your husband died the day he married another woman. You're no longer in his heart and mind. Move on. Why don't all these Hmong women understand and can't let go of a dead relationship.

Cem kiag

😢😢😢😢

Tu Siab ua luaj li os tus Vivncaus 😢

😢 Even if you’re not feeling well, there are so much more in this world for you. You’re already alone anyways, find your happiness. This life is too short to be sad, mad, or however you feel. Live your life to the fullest!

Tsis ntev koj yuav muaj kev Noam li nws

cas ntuj ho tsi cia nws mob nws thiaj tsi nyuab siab nws thiaj tsi phov siav 😅😅😅😅

Qhov koj ua tham thaubmekas yog cawm koj lubSiab txojSia xwb ua yog lawm

😂u😢twb yuav tuaj lis tseem deev miscas thaib niag pog laug ntxhim ntxhub

😂😂😂sounds alot like an excuse to cheat on your husband 😅😅😅getting no love from me.😂😂😂😂

I’m so sad for you. Why aren’t you living with your children? I would never allowed my own mother to live alone, especially if she is not well.

😢

Mi koj niam aw kuv nrog koj zoo siab os mog kav tsij Nrhiav kev kaj siab thiab os mog luag twb muaj luag ib tug lawm os mog no yog yawm saub tswv ntuj pub rau koj os nawb