Thank you to each and everyone who helped me get comfortable with my own hair. ❤️

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Sabiha Nur

3 ай бұрын

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@XandraHart 3 ай бұрын

Those curls at the end give me life! They are so gorgeous, and so are you!

@sabihaanur 3 ай бұрын

Thank you 🥹

@Alex-pt6pu 2 ай бұрын

Curly = unhygienic

@nishasharma7308 Ай бұрын

@@sabihaanurhey girl, actually mostly people with curly hair don't know that they should not comb curls. Let them be...the way they are...& they become life of someone...!!😅❤ Beautiful hair...!!❤

@deegralak-roe 27 күн бұрын

Absolutely ❤

@Valerierose_playz8 3 ай бұрын

I love how you call it straightening machine!! It made me chuckle haha! Ur hair is absolutely drop dead gorgeous!! :)

@sabihaanur 3 ай бұрын

Wait! I just realized I’ve always called it a straightening Machine…. 🤭

@pr3ppyxpeaches 3 ай бұрын

It's called a straightener hehe

@sabihaanur 3 ай бұрын

@@pr3ppyxpeaches No, I know … 😅 that’s just how I call it 🤭

@pr3ppyxpeaches 3 ай бұрын

@@sabihaanur hehe I like you're namee

@AlexisTwoLastNames 2 ай бұрын

@@pr3ppyxpeachesyou can also call it a “straightening iron” so idk if the term really matters lol.

@jessmarielianney 2 ай бұрын

My Dominican hairstylist told me that every time she would style my hair. Sweetheart, you can be walking around with messy hair. “ You have to get your hair done at least a couple times a month“ I looked back at her and told her I appreciate my curls. Meanwhile, her hair was damaged. 😔😔💯💯 ever since last year I never went back to her!

@sabihaanur 2 ай бұрын

God ! Back in my teenage years when I started accepting my natural hair. My country had no wavy/curly hair products available and every-time O went to hair salons they had no idea how to deal with my hair…. I went back home few months ago and someone offered me to permanently straighten my hair *smh* 🤦🏻‍♀️

@THEDOORIZCLOSED Ай бұрын

Hair stylists usually have damaged hair for some reason unless its Tina Knowles😂😂😂😂

@august21xp Ай бұрын

Well done

@LtrishaMartina Ай бұрын

Yes I went to get my hair straightened at a Dominican/jamacian hair salon and the hairstylist a Dominican lady hair was damaged because she tell me if her mom even sees a curl she would perm. Her mom was also a stylist there. Her daughter hair was like mine so when her mom saw my hair she asked if I want a perm and I said no and she was like are you sure ? Yes I like undamaged curls , her poor daughter

@SM-2gmnl Ай бұрын

Healthy curly, wavy, straight hair is gorgeous. Who would want damaged fried lifeless hair? The stylist was trying to shame you so she can fill her pockets. Glad you have self respect and said NO to her.

@_f1r3breather_ 2 ай бұрын

Omg, I thought that I was the only one living this nightmare, I completely understand you

@sabihaanur 2 ай бұрын

Staying strong and loving our natural self 💪❤

@glittergamer765 2 ай бұрын

When my hair went from Straight as a Pin to full head of A3-A4 curls, my Dad started telling me I looked gross, I was lazy, I needed to shower more because my hair was messy/disgusting, and that I needed to brush my hair nearly everytime he saw me to the point where he dropped it and started asking "Have you brushed your hair today?" Yes. Yes I Did. My Mom has Wavy hair, and straightens it because she likes that, so I had no help. Seeing all of these kinds of vids validates the little child in me that got bullied by my parents for how my hair was (because if my Dad asked the "Did you brush your hair today?" My Mom would too and start commenting on my hair as well, knowing full well are ancestry). My Grandma was Native American and Irish 25% each, where my Great Grandma was 50%-50% of either side. They both had the beautiful black hair of Native Americans, and the curly curls of my Irish Great Great Grandfather.

@_f1r3breather_ 2 ай бұрын

@@glittergamer765 i'm so sorry, i hope that you're doing alright now

@glittergamer765 2 ай бұрын

@@_f1r3breather_ I'm fine now, accepted that it's literally a temperamental beast that has good days, bad days, and "I'm stubborn but I may be nicer" days, but I love it. I call it Mufasa from the Lion King, because it used to be so frizzy and fluffy that I could look like Mufasa if I joined two parts in the front. Now, I manage it as best and as cheaply as I can, and my Dad has realized I don't care if I have just showered, haven't showered in three days, or wake up with incredible bed head, I'm ignoring him entirely if he makes any comment on my hair. If he can't keep his comments to himself, then I have nothing to say to him!

@Emmie1 3 ай бұрын

I have curly hair but mom is still convinced that puberty and flat-ironing in my teens "ruined" my hair texture even though I have distinct memories of her calling me messy head when I was little plus I had wavy hair* in candid baby photos 🙄 *my hair got curlier as I aged

@sabihaanur 3 ай бұрын

I know how it feels! I always thought it’s a bad thing and is my fault that I have curly hair.

@subratanandy2142 2 ай бұрын

My mom too . She has pin straight hair and expected me to have so . She thinks my hair is messy and I need to brush it more , I wore braids in school yet the teachers complained about the fly away freeze 😂😂. My mom still thinks I have turned my hair curly ... The thing is , my hair is just like my father, he has thick , coarse , wavy hair like me ...

@killlalia 2 ай бұрын

I understand this deeply, i grew up hating my curly hair cause "straight" was the norm. All hairs are beautiful, all textures are beautiful. We are all beautiful, we are all human ❤❤❤

@isidorazivk8276 2 ай бұрын

As a girl with wavy hair I can 100% agree. I always thought my hair was straight but extremely frizzy until I tried curly hair products and it finally looked good.

@sabihaanur 2 ай бұрын

Somehow it feels amazing to learn how we learn a little more about ourselves everyday 🥹

@BrooklynKeenan-eq8uw 2 ай бұрын

As a person with straight hair, I think hair with waves or curls are so pretty. My hair will NOT stay curled, I’m jealous of how beautiful your hair is. ❤

@sabihaanur 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🥹. Every hair is beautiful ❤️

@treblemakers1492 2 ай бұрын

I relate a lot to this, I just found out that my natural hair type is 2b-2c (depends if we’re talking inner or outer hair, unfortunately) and I grew up in a fully straight-hair household. I was also told I’m lazy and just need to brush, so my hair always was huge from frizz. I recently have been trying wavy hair routines but they don’t work well because I need mousse and cream, but my mom refuses to get them because my “hair is not curly enough” for those types of products :(

@sabihaanur 2 ай бұрын

My hair is mostly wavy as well. I’ve fingered coiled and brush style it on this specific day. But honestly speaking since I’ve started listening to my hair, my hair’s gotten healthier overtime ❤ you just need to keep trying different products and techniques.

@yoongisamericano2722 2 ай бұрын

I relate to you a lot! (But it's not the same situation. My hair was just straightened for years on end and ended up straight because of damage.) And honestly, my best reccomendation is to somehow get a few bucks for mouse. That's honestly your best friend when in those situations. That's how my mother finally got convinced to get me hair products. Because she slowly saw my curls coming in BECAUSE of mouse. But there's still the lingering problem that your mama may think the products are "making your hair curly" which isn't realy how it works- but yk, ignorance. But if you can't save up for a mouse, you could try and look for some jelly, water it down and add it into your wet hair and finger coil. Or maybe even hairspray on wet hair (that's how one of my friends did it. But idk if it'll work since he has curly hair in the sense of 3b or so) Idk, I invite you to be creative !

@treblemakers1492 2 ай бұрын

@@yoongisamericano2722 THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I have gel so I’ll try the watering-down thing, and I’ve try my luck again convincing my mom to guy mousse ❤️ thanks so much for the advice!!!

@yoongisamericano2722 2 ай бұрын

@treblemakers1492 Ofcourse!! I'm always here to help on somebody's journey. Hope it works out for you and you can finally embrace your hair ✨️💕💕

@lucianaromulus1408 Ай бұрын

If you have conditioner in the house, just load up on that to help your hair. What I mean is, after the shower, put a lot in your hair, brush it through and leave it in

@sabridottavio945 Ай бұрын

You hair is beautiful ❤😍 I’m so glad you decided to embrace your natural waves/curls…my whole life I’ve always loved my natural waves thankfully because it is not easy to straighten my hair what a headache that would be…but I believe people look their best when they are the most natural and this means embracing your natural hair…what makes us all beautiful and unique is our diversity…how boring would it be if we were all the same right?

@LillianaK238 3 ай бұрын

I have curly hair and I was always embarrassed to have my natural hair out so I would put it in a braid or straighten it, but now if embrace it and it is like a part of my personality .❤

@sabihaanur 2 ай бұрын

One you accept your natural self, there’s no going back . 🥲❤

@roshanakkazemi3273 2 ай бұрын

Girl I love you gorgeous hair like you have beautiful curls

@sabihaanur 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much ❤

@aj-us5qp Ай бұрын

Knowledge is power, when you learn better you do better. Glad to see you mastered your hairstyling routine, your hair looks pretty. 👍 ❤

@Viciousfalafel 2 ай бұрын

No matter the ethnicity or culture or country we should be taught to embrace the natural beauty we have, and learn to embrace the beautiful differences in others

@sabihaanur 2 ай бұрын

Yes ! I completely agree. I am trying to normalize embracing natural hair despite of cultural norms of the country I’m from 🥹

@anselmnova Ай бұрын

YOUR HAUR IS GORGEOUS.🤍

@sabihaanur Ай бұрын

Thank You 🥹

@ezvalt1323 2 ай бұрын

I don't remember having such great products for curly hair back în those days

@92spice18 Ай бұрын

Gotta give props to black women for starting the natural hair movement back in 2006 and setting the stage for curly/coily hair products and appreciation They did the leg work for everyone.

@ezvalt1323 Ай бұрын

@92spice18 also the best products I've used are owned by them (not saying that other brands are not good, haven't tried everything yet)

@Butterfly.lifeee Ай бұрын

I am a straight hair girl. But believe me I just love the curls you are having. It's gorgeous 😍😍 sometimes I like to curl my hair and I do it overnight without applying heat and it looks amazing. Don't ever let people to put you down. Everyone are beautiful naturally❤️

@Tricks4Life 2 ай бұрын

Girl those curls are beautiful!!!

@PansyF Ай бұрын

I would sell my soul for your hair 😍 My hair is thick and frizzy and wavy. When I let it air dry it gets super curlyish but curls don't hold. And the second a brush touches it I look like cousin it. So I've always straightened it because I just can't figure out a good curly hair routine. I've spent tons of time and money trying. So frustrating. I just gave up and went back to straightening it. I would die to learn how to but I'm 43 so sometimes I figure why even try at this point. Heh.

@Sarahlinaabdullah Ай бұрын

You Can try its not too late for beautifful hair

@Slewenski 2 ай бұрын

Glad to hear! It is beautiful!

@kellysimone7623 3 ай бұрын

Absolutely stunning! Embrace those curls that’s what makes you unique and beautiful ❤

@sabihaanur 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much ❤

@kellysimone7623 2 ай бұрын

@@sabihaanur your welcome ❤️I’m 35 and only just embracing mine xx

@sabihaanur 2 ай бұрын

@@kellysimone7623 better late than never 🥹❤️

@kellysimone7623 2 ай бұрын

@@sabihaanur definitely 💯 ❤️🥰🙌x

@clarypop2422 Ай бұрын

Your curls are soo pretty 😍🩵

@camwilliams1 3 ай бұрын

Love your curls! All of you natural is a great choice

@sabihaanur 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much ❤️❤️

@Andrea286x 2 ай бұрын

Gorgeous hair ❤

@katt1996 2 ай бұрын

Found out that the hair dryer was the culprit of why my hair always looks so damn dry and ugly. Now that I air dry it, it always looks so much less frizzy and dry.

@shravanin6827 2 ай бұрын

Curls 😍

@medepresed5123 3 ай бұрын

Those cuuuuuuuuuuurls!!!!! 😍😍😍

@sabihaanur 3 ай бұрын

🥹thanks

@HmRm10xx Ай бұрын

I completely understand! I'm 51, have mega curly hair & heard some of the most rude comments about my hair for my entire life. Your hair is gorgeous! Embrace it! 🩷

@ahhwe-any7434 Ай бұрын

Low key makes me feel bad. I'm just Asian. As a brat, I just kept chopping off my hair bc that was my version of rebellion. Bc I wasn't supposed to cut it till I left ... & Idk wth it was but I truly must've been the parents would freakin kill me. So I didn't dye it, nothing. Colored on it w/ black marker just bc I gave a tint of blue. Even when I did leave, I really went from red streaks, to blond streaks to oh sh my parents r in town in no tine. Back to black. And then I had to paint my nails black. Anyways, I remember I had a friend who was half white/ half Mexican. Her hair was soooo curly. & She wore it in a pony tail all the time. And used like a bottle of hairspray to I guess keep the wifey strays down. & I really called her a helmet head. Bc even if she took it down, it was still in place. & Then she got a "perm"?. & To this day I think I half way still don't know ish about hair. I would've assumed the vid person had super super tiny curly curls of poof

@tansimabdeslem7313 Ай бұрын

Guuurrllll curly and natural hair is soooooo beautiful I don't even brush my hair only when I shower

@margueritahayworth6820 15 күн бұрын

Your hair is beautiful! Don't let anyone, not even your mom, tell you that it's not! Oh, those silky curls are stunning! Keep it up girl! ❤🎉

@NancyLopez-rb4jb Ай бұрын

You R beautiful Your curls R priceless Do not let anyone imply Straight is better We all have beauty To be unique is liberating I grew up being shamed for my Curly hair As a young woman I did so much damage to keep it straight I regret falling into a cruel society To be accepted Not judging straight haired people They also have beauty Let's just accept our uniqueness Make your own decision Your curls R beautiful !😍 I learned that Iworthy with my Nat

@Jameela01 Ай бұрын

In my culture curly hair is seen as something exotic and beautiful and a lot of girls curl their hair💗

@findingluvinyhwh 3 ай бұрын

Ur curls are so cute ❤

@sabihaanur 2 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

@xmx005 Ай бұрын

My sister has curly hair and I have straight hair, I grew up envious of her curls and she wanted my hair 😆. After decades, we’ve both happily learned to appreciate & rock what we got.

@someoneelse8295 2 ай бұрын

so relatable, i thought i was alone. always "just brush it, you need to brush ur hair" when i was always tryna explain i cant brush it when its dry and i dont know why. It wasnt their fault tho (my parents and friends) they didnt know

@Iluvchickenfry 14 күн бұрын

Even the hair color looks better when it's all natural

@mrsaqeelahmed 2 ай бұрын

Indeed they are beautiful 😻

@Aima952 2 ай бұрын

If you have truly straight hair you can roughly towel dry it (while running to turn off the oven so your pizza doesn't burn (optional)), ignore it for >10 hours so it dries and then run a brush through it for 30 seconds in the morning and it'll still be impossible to tell if you straightened it if its in a half up-half down style - depending on how it was sat when it dried you might even get away with it down! Comparatively though, my hair genetics can destroy any attempt at curling it in under 30 mins - if its got any real length and not been permed.

@midgeyjean 3 ай бұрын

ur hair is soooooo pretty curly 😍😍😍😍

@sgayles11 Ай бұрын

Your curly hair is beautiful! 🥳🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

@karlaschmid8757 3 ай бұрын

You have glorious hair.

@abbysmith-eo9gg Ай бұрын

I love my curly hair ❤❤❤

@simone6822 Ай бұрын

If I had hair like yours, I’d never want it straight! People are cruel. Your curls are beautiful.

@cha00222 Ай бұрын

No cause your hair is gorgeous !!

@joannacervantes777 Ай бұрын

Your stunning, and your curls are amazing!❤

@dj_krissemus6531 3 ай бұрын

Go you! Your hair is beautiful and you should do whatever YOU want with it! ❤❤ SLAY!

@TheStrawberrySnake 2 күн бұрын

You're natural hair is super pretty

@sabihaanur 10 сағат бұрын

@@TheStrawberrySnake thank you ☺️☺️

@n09p 29 күн бұрын

I’m Indian with pin straight hair. Your hair is what dreams are made of 🥹✨ I absolutely love your natural hair!!!

@vinayakvyas8728 Ай бұрын

Babe! them curly looks amazing....👌

@tamaramorton8812 Ай бұрын

That’s so terrible that you grew up getting that message about your own hair! Those curls at the end were really pretty.

@mistkhan4824 2 ай бұрын

That’s so true! My south Asian parents were always like that

@holiromi Ай бұрын

YESSS!! I feel u girl ❤️❤️ grew up in a Filipino household with ingrained white woman beauty standards and everyone having straight hair 😪😪

@sabihaanur Ай бұрын

But natural wavy and curly hair is so beautiful as well 🥹❤️ we are blessed. Can switch when we want!

@monystire8024 2 ай бұрын

Your hair looks healthy when ita curly❤️

@Divine1Energy 3 ай бұрын

I wish my hair looked like this naturally, I have to curl it everyday. Your hair looks beautiful!!!

@Sonyahenry268 Ай бұрын

Your curls are gorgeous

@YasAdele90 Ай бұрын

Same! My hair is so fluffy frizzy and puffy cos poeple used to be so mean. I’ve straightened my hair since I was 11 years old. I’m 34 this year and I don’t use any heat on my hair anymore

@zwxka26 2 ай бұрын

your hair looks sooo healthy and beautiful!!! 😻

@glo85ria Ай бұрын

Girl, your natural hair is absolutely stunningly beautiful ❤❤ My uncle is half indian half kenyan and has similar hair. Just beautiful

@kiddnans 2 ай бұрын

Your hair is beautiful.

@ayran2226 Ай бұрын

You are very pretty ❤

@Nuraishah-zo3xd 2 ай бұрын

Girl me too my mom always be telling me

@krayozmines 2 ай бұрын

OmGee why do people with straight hair always tell us we didnt comb our hair. It really made me so insecure as a kid. Im so glad the internet has embraced textured hair.

@PremiumAli Ай бұрын

Curly Hair Is The Bomb.. amazing hair wow

@trashcannot7750 Ай бұрын

I had the same experience and ended up not even knowing I had curls until I was 14! Up until then I thought I just had the worst hair structure in the world + the dryest hair in the world. I would brush my hair while blow drying and it looked exactly like in the first clip, no one at school would believe me and they thought I’m not taking care of it properly (which they were actually right about, just in a very different way). It always gave me the idea that taking care of your hair correctly would always lead to straight hair

@shalinisv2429 Ай бұрын

That curly hair is epic and classy 😮

@priyam5946 15 сағат бұрын

I feel this. My mom has ringlet curls but in Indian culture it looks better straight. She never wears her naturally curly hair and I have been trying to embrace my curls as well. Sometimes i straighten my hair but I don’t hate the fact that I have curly hair. My mom says that she has to FIX her hair when she straightens it like theirs something wrong with her natural hair type 😢

@disha4613 Ай бұрын

I Can fully relate

@ariaoliv6258 Ай бұрын

Your curls looks like made with a curling iron. So beautiful

@debjani8311 Ай бұрын

I love wavy hair

@Kimberly._.Faulkner 3 күн бұрын

It is!!❤

@Lavanyayadav8118 Ай бұрын

I also have curly hair and in my teenage whenever i have to go outside either i have to tie them orr ended up crying....bcoz everyone used to style their staright hairs but now i accepted my curls as they are unique in their own way!!

@nanachan3164 Ай бұрын

YOU ARE A HERO ❤❤❤❤

@JDfaith2024 Ай бұрын

Love your curls 💕

@CherryMaraschino77 Ай бұрын

Just subscribed!♥️ I’ve got Spanish and Mexican ancestry. I have hair with your texture, but it’s fine and I do not have a lot of it. My complexion is fair with an olive undertone and freckles. I was always picked on when I was younger. I learned to embrace and be grateful for the blessings which make me who I am. I will never be your typical beauty that turns heads. I’m just an average pretty female with unusual and unique features. You are naturally beautiful and your hair is gorgeous. I love your curl pattern. May those who struggle find themselves in a more positive place. God bless you for sharing and everyone.♥️🙏🏼♥️

@Jheinsmith Ай бұрын

I went thru the same. My dad hair shame me. That I was lazy. My dad qas always comparing me with other girs with straight hair. So I grew up hating my hair So when I had my own money I went to a salon for a hair straightening. I did it 2 times a year and kept doing it for like 3 years straight so I loved how it looked. However there was a lot of chemicals going through my head that are actually dangerous and plus my hair now is worse than when I was younger. Dry with a lot of frizzy So even though I loved my straight hair. I am just now accepting that my genes are curly. It is like that This year I took the decision of get a treat to restore my hair and have it healthy. I’m learning how to fix my hair so I do not look like “lazy” is costing me a lot of energy. But I want my natural hair back

@fefe1179 3 ай бұрын

This is so heartbreaking 😭 Making you miss out on years of loving your curls and hair 💔💔

@MariaPereira-mu1ct 3 ай бұрын

That color is really pretty ❤

@JannatulFerdous-xj6ic Ай бұрын

I've been bullied my whole childhood for curly hair, everyone used to say my hair is ugly or I have a bird's nest on my head . My mom also hurt a lot combing my hair . So i was crazy after having normal(straight) hair! Horrible experience.

@sunialife Ай бұрын

Wow your curls❤

@victoriadime9057 Ай бұрын

Please don't blame ppl for your own insecurities beautiful. That's all you!

@p2bkrf233 Ай бұрын

Beautiful hair❤

@masiyafuentez6378 2 ай бұрын

More brown girlies finding their curls!!!! The algorithm loves me today❤️❤️

@lucianaromulus1408 Ай бұрын

Hell, even as a White girl, growing up, it's like everyone forgot that curly hair was a thing 😅 I swear something happened in early 20th Century that just ignored curly hair, because before that, it was more common. Natural curls I mean

@bluebirdstar879 Ай бұрын

Am struggling with the same issue!! And my hair is same as yours!😢 Could you please tell me what product you use for your hair and the steps to how to use them? Please tell me I don't know what to do with my stupid hair!😭

@ohbrandyjune Ай бұрын

Your hair is gorgeous and I did the same growing up! 😒

@LunaC101 Ай бұрын

Hahaha this is me 😂 Can’t brush my hair without it looking like a frizz ball. I love my curly hair, I do however have bangs which I straighten, it was raining on my walk to work a few days ago and by the time I arrived my carefully straightened fringe was sticking in every direction not to mention the rest!

@ryrify 2 ай бұрын

I was late for high school so many times because I didn’t understand my hair, and no one helped me. I washed it EVERY morning because that’s what we did, and it was dry and frizzy and horrible, as a result. My Mom had a different hair type, and wasn’t helpful with anything related to beauty. I didn’t figure out my hair until I cut it off and kept it short for years, during which time I grew up and discovered my curls. Journey is the word. Wow.

@chemicallycalm5878 3 ай бұрын

despite your hair being so damaged you managed to find your curls. you look so much better, look at the shine 🫠

@safeyaalhameli3361 Ай бұрын

Beautiful curly hair ❤️😍

@Fianacraft 2 ай бұрын

I'm trying to do the same, straightened my hair almost everyday for akmost 2 years. Hope i could get my curls back one day ❤

@sarahrose7269 Күн бұрын

When I try to embrace my curls, my mom makes me brush them saying that I look like a begger

@curlylyric Ай бұрын

beautiful curls for a beautiful girl ❤️

@jain3484 Ай бұрын

Literally got smacked on the head for not brushing and had the exact experience. Why you smacking me for your negligence smh😅🤣

@fatimaabdullah7962 Ай бұрын

really pretty ❤

@honeysickle Ай бұрын

Those neglected curls at the beginning.... I have stick straight hair, and I can SEE the poor curl pattern 😢 I'm so glad to see them revived and flourishing. Love your hair!

@sushantikabanerjee555 Ай бұрын

So beautiful hair ❤

@Toohottohandle01 Ай бұрын

Even after trying curly hair products, it is such a huge pain in the ass to maintain curls for me I get chemical treatment every 6 months and its keeping me sane. Curls are beautiful but high maintenance & we can’t have good hair day everyday.

@Nikkid4 Ай бұрын

My hair is exactly like this!

@emma_nutella58 Ай бұрын

I have wavy hair it got tangled all the time because I didn’t take proper care of it so I would just chop off the knots, and then I just cut it all off

@Cocobeeh Ай бұрын

Same I have the same hair , my friends say it looks like a broom 😢, and my aunts sister in law (her hubby's sis) said I didn't brush it , and said why I minded her saying the truth