When I was in college . My crush used to avoid me. She knew I loved her. But treated me like a ✋ extra. Later when I joined surgery. She wanted to spend time with me and be closer. She even mocked my relationship with a fellow anesthesiologist who was fat. And fatshamed her. I can't say bad to her but i lost my love for her. Fast forward. The cute chubby girl became my wife and was not so chubby anymore. I told her to loose weight not for I was embarrassed but for health reasons.

It seems like men are casting a wide net and hope to get a fish but women seem to be like snipers and want to take out the one in charge with one shot.

Women would rather share a "winner" than have a "looser" all to them selfs.

4%, just wow! Whole time I thought women liked 20% of men.

The most heavily weighted category in the calculation is height. This is followed by a men’s facial attractiveness which is simply a combination of symmetry and geometry of various facial features. Those are the two most heavily weighted categories. Which, is also worth concentrating on. We never seem to talk about that

Women rarely mate across... Almost always up.

Just called 40% of the female population unattractive.

Women are pickier about what goes into them. Men are less picky about who they go into. Women also are attracted to different types of men at different stages in their cycle. And a lot of the times it's exact opposite the type of men they are attracted to based off their cycle. To make a statement about what women want is reaching. To to that study you can't just ask women. There are multiple categories that need to be taken into consideration. To make a broad educated guess I can't imagine it being semi reliable. Culture, age, upbringing, environment, time of the month, stage of reproductive cycles, if they have children, previous married.

Women date up and men date down

Women only swipe right on the top 5% of men.

Women have to think about what would happen if she had children with any particular man she's dating and will possibly marry. Would he be able and willing to properly provide for the family or would she have to continue working a job and leave her baby with daycare workers. I had to work when my kids were little because I was young and clueless and married a dusty man, and I can tell you that if I had to do it all over again, the better choice for my children's well-being would have been to be hypergamous and stay home with them and watch over them myself. Daycare workers don't love your kid like you do.

#Societypressure #culturepressure some people follow the norm. I follow me and aim for my goals

Why should I as a Chad trade down for anything below me? It would be an insult to my whole bloodline! It makes no sense - I only mate with stacies 7/10 and up!

And to secure and improve the future of their progeny

"Women tend to date men about 4 years older than them." That's very true as the most common age gaps in American marriages are 0-3 years and then 3-5 years with the women being younger. These manosphere channels tell men that if they improve their money in their late 30's and early 40's they can pull women 10-20 years younger than them in their early and mid 20's. But in reality those women are dating men around their own age. They only date much older men if they are extremely wealthy not just average earning.

They like and swipe right only 4% percent of women that is not across and up is only up women are going only above.

Divorce, solo parents, entropy its going to hell because science is so reductive.

Or simply they are just afraid of strange men. You underestimate the fear of strangers in women. When I was on dating sites I rarely swiped right. Maybe one person per month or I forget to logon at all because too many swipe lefts when I did. And the reason was I wanted profiles that gave me a safe vibe/felt right. Some ppl were too old, some ppl had opposite beliefs to me, some ppl had abbreviated profiles so I cldnt get enough info about them to judge, some ppl had scary or rude tones in their profile or offensive pictures and saying etc It wasn’t about hypergamy but i safety in my case. Like it’s scary to communicate with someone who says if you are a ho move along. Like there is anybody who calls themselves a ho. It’s a insult from a third party not something someone calls themselves. So that tells me you are someone I want nothing to do with or I don’t feel safe around. Or you have many muscle pics and nothing else no bio no nothing, creepy. Or just pics and very high amounts of money, no other context or voice behind all that. Or you call yrself atheist, that’s just not my thing. Or you smoke or you say I am “very traditional” that makes me think you want to act out 1950s with me which isn’t my thing etc. Point being the swipes or lack thereof may not be what you assume but many reasons like how safe does the person seem. Or is he worth risking meeting a stranger if we are opposites.

well thats need some revenge iam hypergamous from now and on

Do one hypergammy people

1%

Even Pederson can sometimes be a bit sloppy in the definition of hypergamy. The 4% swipe rate is an illustration of the mating selectivity of women, a large part of which is due to hypergamy. But there is a distinction. JP knows what hypergamy is. But it is not best illustrated by the 4% swipe rate. There are more than 4% of those men who are of equal or higher socioeconomic status than those mostly average women.

Fatherless Behavior. Sugar Daddies. Trix. Thirst Trap.

Do you know what I like how I look up all these newly created words, and every single one of them has explained at the end huh wonder why you have to explain it it’s not like it was just created🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Make woman programed difrantly.😂😂 Think of the comercal potental. Beyond cars beyond electronics planes surgary etc. Plusabile with ge and ai.😂

I just love watching 2 men or just all men in general discussing women. And studies that relate to women. There is automatic bias. Also talking facts even tho it is impossible for men to truly grasp understanding of women, and same for women to men. Talking about other gender is automatic biased to some degree. You can't experience what it is to be a women, what science and biology class as a women. And same for males.

Men and women can be hypergamous, stop this ridiculous generalization. How can you say all women are, what of the women who aren't, where then do you place them.

What hit? Women get alimony , the social state makes sure she wins even if dating up ends up bad ..

in other words our ancestors knew best..