The #1 Secret You MUST Know To Have Great Style

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Today I’m sharing the secret to finally loving your style. It doesn’t matter how much you study or invest in fashion unless you understand this one key concept.
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@satuallonen9951 2 жыл бұрын

Me before taking Bethanys masterclass: Frumpy, sad, lost, not seen, not knowing myself and basically just hiding in my clothes. Me after taking Bethanys masterclass: Actually, really, getting compliments from strangers about my style, feeling happier and much more confident, knowing myself and my goals in life, daring to show my true self to the world and portray that through my style. Feeling great in my clothes. This course literally changed my life and I dearly recommend it. Thank you Bethany!!

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

Just over here crying... I'm SO overjoyed for you Satu! 😭🤗💛

@sirribeckline6844 2 жыл бұрын

I have always always hated trends. That's one reason why I was so drawn to your videos when I discovered you. You're my inspiration to go deep within and find my style

@LacyKayYoutube 2 жыл бұрын

Yessss, its not even worth trying to stick to trends if they don't speak to you for the long run!! It's better to be authentic with what you wear!

@LifeWithElyse 2 жыл бұрын

It’s like someone said, ‘Your superpower is that no one is you.’ Beautifully said, Bethany 💕

@louisefletcher6911 2 жыл бұрын

This reminds me of something I read once "Celebrate being you, because everyone else is taken " Thankyou for the reminder Bethany 😊 I loved your insightful, inspirational talk. 💐

@michellerrnn 2 жыл бұрын

Sadly I cannot afford to pay for the course right now, although I’d LOVE to. I, however, have to thank you for this channel and for this video. It is because of you that I have managed to start discovering my own personal style. It is because of you that I have started building my wardrobe into something I enjoy!!! Thank you so, so much!!! I hope to be able to attend your class next year 💖

@Dipanjanakusary 2 жыл бұрын

My biggest takeaway is "your personal style should honor you" this is so profound and beautiful ❤️ I really needed to hear everything you said in this video thank you Bethany 💙

@selina7150 2 жыл бұрын

5’1” and 60 years old you have given me confidence to embrace my own style

@rajshreeayushee5150 2 жыл бұрын

I have never heard anyone make SO MUCH sense about personal fashion. Thank you dearest Bethany. Listening to you gives me confidence in my choices 😇

@baloemonty 2 жыл бұрын

Dear Bethany since I did the course i have peace in my heart about who I am and my own personal style and i do not get overwhelmed anymore by all the trends online. Thank you ❤️

@sarahbreisch4750 2 жыл бұрын

Fantastic spiel Bethany. It's like Keats says, beauty is truth, truth is beauty, that is all ye need know... And a thing of beauty is a joy forever. When we allow what we show externally to reveal the truth of our inner selves, then beauty will be achieved. The problem is, so many of us confuse beauty with trendiness, attractiveness, or just looking good for someone else's sake. I imagine in your course you must talk about how finding your own personal style is about much more than just the clothes you put on your body.

@sejalb725 2 жыл бұрын

You’re so eloquent! Cool!

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

100% Sarah. We are on the same wavelength. Yes, I focus in on this through the first 3 weeks of the masterclass. Discovering the true you and removing all the past judgements that hold us back from style freedom.

@valentinaateljevic2531 2 жыл бұрын

👍❣

@dhenukita 2 жыл бұрын

What you said is so true and such a relief for me. I used to always wonder why I liked and followed people with such distinctive and different styles. Until one day it hit me that I follow people more for their content (about style), personality, and their approach than their personal style itself. You couldn’t have put it better. I always find something in your videos to get inspired from. Much love 💕

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

Such great insight 💕

@sirribeckline6844 2 жыл бұрын

I totally relate with the lack of confidence to wear pieces I'm drawn to most especially the hat 😅

@themagnetonurfridge6932 2 жыл бұрын

As a petite person u have helped me so much with my fashion and my style. more love and power to you ❤ Also LOVEEE the top

@islagillespie6534 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for being authentic, that is why you have the loyal following you have. I adore your videos, I love your style too. I’ve never forget when you in one of your videos, style is taken from the art, music etc what you love. I feel grateful to have found my “style”. Although that looks different depending how I’m feeling. I can go in my wardrobe and I have something high quality that I love to wear. Thanks to your helpful advice over the years. 💗💗

@stephannielinares1616 2 жыл бұрын

Beautifully crafted words, Bethany! it is so refreshing and inspiring to come across a channel like yours! Thanks for sharing 💗

@thegoldenhost 2 жыл бұрын

Love your videos! You’ve really helped me gain confidence in growing my style and looking more my age. As a petite girl, it can be so hard but all of your tips have helped so much! So great to see you almost at 1 million subscribers! 💕

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

I LOVE this! Thanks so much, friend 💛🤗

@thegoldenhost 2 жыл бұрын

@@bethanyleonardo 💕💕💕

@steff9821 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for encouraging us to truly listen to our inner voice to find and embrace our own style ❤️✨

@kwit7377 2 жыл бұрын

Beautifully said…thank you for your thoughts!

@akshitashahi1376 2 жыл бұрын

You're such an inspiration. Love you ❤️

@taralll 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your wise words!

@ceciliarodriguez3136 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you thank you thank you for this talk. Very helpful for me. ❤❤❤

@LisaLisaD1 2 жыл бұрын

So true, Bethany, I just love this! ❤ Lisa

@Ayushi_Roy 2 жыл бұрын

I am binge watching your video's for the past 30 minutes and I need to say this THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR EXISTING! You're just amazing ❤

@TheWildAlexa 2 жыл бұрын

Almost 1 million! So excited for you!!!

@TravelwithDollyy 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sending out your message so loud and clear!❤️ We all are unique,we should embrace that 🥰

@allforchristsglory 2 жыл бұрын

I really love this! It feels so candid, and it is SO relevant. I started your course with the first round, but life has gotten in the way and I haven't finished it yet. I need to do that soon though.

@constancemuller9775 2 жыл бұрын

Congrats on 1M Bethany. Thanks for all you share and for your masterclass! Constance.

@cleliamattana6582 Жыл бұрын

I'm so happy to hear this. Since age 13 people mocked me for my blue eye pencil. I LOVED it. So much that I was able to subtly use it the day of my wedding too (I did my make-up). The blue represents part of my style. I feel great in it. it's like part of my eyes. So I let them mock me and didn't care. Then came my beloved pink legwarmer. Handmade. And no, it wasn't the 80's :) I used them so much that I have at least 50 photos around the world wearing them. People mocking and all. But they became SO me that even those who previously mocked me started to identify me (or my style anyway) with the pink legwarmers. At some point, if I'm not wearing them in pictures people get worried that I got rid of them :) ... NEVER! For the rest, I know what I like but I was too lazy to pull off a nice outfit. And when I do, everyone says that I have style. Weird for someone who mostly dresses in trainers. But when I want to rock something, I do it. Because this is who I am, messy... a mix of different styles, but they became ME. So I totally agree with everything said in the video. I'm even thinking about putting a note in my testament saying that I want to be buried wearing my pink legwarmer and a touch of blue eye pencil :D

@caitlinpatrick3610 2 жыл бұрын

As always, so grateful for you stepping into your truth and sharing these gems with us! So many deeper truths about self-expression and self-acceptance at play here. Also, thank you for the master class. I absolutely loved it 🤗❤️

@caitlinpatrick3610 2 жыл бұрын

And for anyone considering her class, give yourself the gift 💝 it is so beneficial.

@rocioguillen2995 2 жыл бұрын

Great message. It really resonated with me.

@talithaabraham4505 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love this ❤️

@chawsuumyo1140 2 жыл бұрын

Love you ❤ Your videos help me a lot Thanks💗

@savannah6280 2 жыл бұрын

Ur voice is really soothing, making me feel like even if i dont have the coolest style, that's totally okay! Thxxx so much!

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

Much love!

@lizasoliman723 2 жыл бұрын

this direction is what i encourage my interior design clients to do. they're always the first to ask about trends, which i explain, and then i also explain why not to follow trends. we discuss adjectives & lifestyle to discover what is relevant to the individual.

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

I love to hear that you experience the same!

@thebalotchronicles6382 2 жыл бұрын

Road to 1M Bethany! So proud of u!

@Tere_tere 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! Your words are so wise and comforting. I'm curious about your masterclass now. I might try it in 2022 if it's available.

@luvsmiling513 2 жыл бұрын

Enrolling in your course was one of the best decisions I’ve made all year! Thank you so much for your guidance, I never thought about personal style in the way you taught us and now I can’t stop thinking about it! I work in retail and I use what I learned everyday even on my mannequins haha so grateful to have discovered you ❤️

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

Love your words SO much. So happy you found success with the course!

@elenapolenichkina6460 2 жыл бұрын

Great message!

@shelby3755 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I absolutely love your whole philosophy and insight on personal style! I love how you’re not superficial at all. I also believe in discovering your own identity and being authentic to that ♥️ but a lot of what you said here truly resonates with me. :’)

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

Much love, Shelby! 💛

@sejalb725 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@karenmickens1239 2 жыл бұрын

Beautifully said Bethany.😍

@3lla387 2 жыл бұрын

I agree with u so bad, the most important thing in any outfit is to explain you resembles and feature you even if it doesn't match the place cause you don't have to fit in at all just something that feels right when you wear it. Even if everybody else told you that maybe a blazer on this looks better or this color or this shoe if it doesn't feel okay and calming when you where it and didn't feel confident and you don't wear it even for change..🤍

@lisalatkowski1543 2 жыл бұрын

People must tell you this all the time, but you must be an old soul! You are wise beyond your years... ❤

@vs765 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on 1million Bethany🎉🎊 I love all ur videos, you are so amazing and inspiring, lots of love❤❤❤

@vs765 2 жыл бұрын

Oh wow I can't believe I got a heart from Bethany😍 I truly follow all ur tips about style and it had helped me a lot in recreating my wardrobe,thank you so much❤

@p.sailaja2882 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Bethany! I have recently been watching your videos and even started applying them in my life. Tbh, I have started getting a lot of compliments for my dressing sense. Thank you for this 🌻 Love from a petite ❤️🌻

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

Aw yay! Congrats on your new style freedom 💛🤗

@medhakauluri9350 2 жыл бұрын

that is soo true once we realise that it helps us in so mnay ways my style is related to the art i do monochrome yet dark yet soft

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

Love it, friend 🤗

@Maumau21 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on a million subscribers 🥰🥰❤️🙌🏾🎉💃🏾

@ashleykron8803 2 жыл бұрын

Just signed up to take the course, and I am so excited to learn from your insight! I really resonate with your artistic approach to the subject. ☺️

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

So excited to have you a part of it, Ashley!

@emmacurrens1617 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on the success of the master class!

@jeevikamy1977 2 жыл бұрын

I will be waiting for your vedios .. love u soo much ❤️

@SingingSingh 2 жыл бұрын

I am eagerly waiting to join your master class Bethany ❤️ And yeah Congratulations you are going to hit 1Million soooooon... Only 2k remaining 🌼😀❤️

@gladismendez6596 2 жыл бұрын

We need to feel awesome and beautiful when we are wearing something no matter if it is trendy or not !!!!....you are the one that makes your outfit Rocks 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

@ZeoArgentine 2 жыл бұрын

I bought the Master Class this morning 🥰 Can't wait for the 25th!!!

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

Woohoo!

@callieobuckley50 2 жыл бұрын

I’m from High Point! So interesting that you have attended furniture market. Thank you for helping me style myself as I start as an executive director at the age of 24.

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

So cool, Callie! Yeah, I grew up in Winston-Salem and my mom worked at the furniture market.

@ukansari5635 2 жыл бұрын

I always look up to u for fashion n personal styling, finding this channel was such a great fortune this year. Wanna know ur fav fashion (styling) books? Thank you 💕

@aatiqasuhail2660 2 жыл бұрын

❤️😍such an amazing person!

@aakritipandey8784 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations for 1M (almost) subscribers ❤️🥺

@redsquare4835 2 жыл бұрын

For anyone considering taking Bethany’s master corse on personal style, let me encourage you to take it! 👀 It easily became the most exciting part of my week and I really learned a lot of invaluable stuff that I can reuse in the future 🤓👍🏻

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much! Your support being one of the first to take it means the world! 💛🤗

@redsquare4835 2 жыл бұрын

@@bethanyleonardo oh snap I got pinned!😂 Haha I meant every word! ❤️

@hannapham6378 2 жыл бұрын

100% Agree 🙌🏻

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

@@hannapham6378 Thanks Hanna!

@calissatreat36 2 жыл бұрын

I miss your chatty videos like this one! Loved your Master Class. Can’t recommend it enough!

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Calissa! So glad you loved it!

@nora-cu1de 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing amazing tips. I love my own style.But when people around me complain about my outfit, I feel so uncomfortable and feel bad about myself and lose confidence. Why do they do that? I think it's so rude.

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

It’s a lack of confidence on their part, I’ve found.

@aatiqasuhail2660 2 жыл бұрын

We love you Dearly Bethany>>>❤️👀🤧

@paulamayjinayon4534 2 жыл бұрын

Hoping you reach 1M subscribers. You deserve it. ♥️ Stay beautiful ate Bethany 😀

@ksubasinghe 2 жыл бұрын

Watched hundreds of videos but yours is the ONLY ONE that actually helped💕

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

🙌💛

@TheZeyre 2 жыл бұрын

Yes. It is all that! Xo

@michelleclark8099 2 жыл бұрын

Bethany. Thank you. Now, that I honor myself more in my clothing, I get more looks from people. I do not try to. I am just honoring myself and the life given to me. On elevators, some women actually slowly look me up and down. I keep looking straight ahead, but such behavior is incredibly rude. But, I will continue to find myself. Because of the lockdowns, I think that people are expecting each other to dress in lockdown or prison like style. I will not. And if you dress like you are happy and still find beauty in life and in dressing, people are startled.

@aiyehnbautista1645 2 жыл бұрын

HAPPY 1M ! 🥳

@wioletadudka3448 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on 1M, I was counting down for some time and finally there :)

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

thanks so much! 💛

@kanishka.s7610 2 жыл бұрын

Love from India ❤️✨.. new subscriber

@amanagladys481 2 жыл бұрын

Happy Birthday Crystal and Simon our Children lots of love from London from Lawrence and Anne Marie 🏡💒 God bless you and your business Thank you for your time and consideration I understand everything u say.

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

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@cristalbueno7226 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Bethany my name is cristal, i have a few days watching your videos and thank god i found them because before i watched them i didnt know i was lost, like I was aware that i didnt have nice clothes but lost in style. Thank you for your videos, im just staring to buy clothes and im taking your advices and not lie but im taking some ideas of your own to have something to base on. I hope that isnt that bad 😳

@user-nm6dr4uy3d 5 ай бұрын

When I was a teenager, I constantly felt the urge to dress in ruffles and tulle and all things feminine, but at the time, that wasn't considered cool at all, so I suppressed the urge and pretended to be a tomboy like everyone else. I still feel an inexplicable sense of clumsiness when I pick up a pretty handbag, but this time, I do it anyway. It's so true that it's really hard to own up to who you really are inside.

@leahcardzansi3924 2 жыл бұрын

Your points are not rants meny fall videos at the moment are you should not be wearing this or that """""" if you want to be on trend""""" Which can be disheartening for someone who has found or saved to purchase something that just brings them joy my monto to myself is that I can't take it when I'm gone I am going to wear it now and rocket because what I have acquired brings me joy each time I put them on regardless weather its on trend or current, I had found my ascetic from quite a young age I greatly admired the 1930,40 50 60 but the more tailored classic very feminine looks I know what suits my frame but I will admit that monochromatic is my go to I just love the that one colour look from top to bottom I feel even more put together when it just comes together as I envisaged in my mind. I live your content and you have reinforced what I have been thinking when I whach content that tells you put this away or buy this when at the end of the day one size dose not fit all. Be blessed always 🙏🏼 😊

@coppercatsandcoffee6655 2 жыл бұрын

Love this one! Small question: could you please link (or take a more zoomed in photo) of the books on your desk? I've been trying to look them up to buy, but I can't get my laptop to let me clearly see titles and authors! Thank you! I do feel as though we grow into a more genuine self as we age, especially once we start to realize that the influences of our peers or parents from our youth aren't quite as all-important as we thought. I'll dress in outfits now that I am completely happy with, with no care as to how strangers may view me, and that would have never happened a few years ago. Last thing: love the High Point market! My mom is actually a rep there every year!

@mrsdewdrop9678 2 жыл бұрын

Bethany, hello. New here. Would you address issues of being top heavy and short waisted? I am both. Plus side I have long legs. I dont know where to begin. Thank you.

@cocoparisienne1779 2 жыл бұрын

Would you tell me the titles of the books on your table? They look so great and interesting

@shafiyasiddeek1197 2 жыл бұрын

🔥THANKYOU 🔥 LOVE FROM SRILANKA ❤❤❤❤

@adrianadelia6957 2 жыл бұрын

My major dilemma is how do I figure what my personal style is when all I have done for a lifetime is buy clothes that look great on other models, online, in pictures, in magazines, on social media, etc? For example, I love your style and they way you look - always polished and chic. I would love to look like you, but is that finding my own true style? All I know is looking at others and wanting to look like them in that outfit and consequently buying that outfit. How do I get away from that?

@payalpayal3491 2 жыл бұрын

Please please make. A vdo on ur hair color

@jamespittman7260 2 жыл бұрын

I like your pretty video is very awesome.🤩

@shashwatikalita8580 2 жыл бұрын

Countdown for a million

@MinimAlex 2 жыл бұрын

Hi, I love your videos, its really interesting, I just wanted you to know that Pablo Picasso wasn't maybe the best example I think for your idea, a lot of testimonies from that time are saying he was constantly using his "friends" like Georges Braque to stole their ideas. He was mostly interested in success and selling his pieces, I have read a book about him and even when he painted Guernica, it was because he knew it would had an impact (before that work, most of his work are not politically engaged). So maybe he didn't know instagram but he was doing what would sell after all he is one of the most productive artist in history.

@dianapalmerbrooks 2 жыл бұрын

You have a beauty that is both inner and outer with a beautiful voice. I'm glad you are petite too since I am too.

@naturemeeu8385 2 жыл бұрын

1st comment love you so much

@themomd3233 2 жыл бұрын

just wanted to say, you are so beautiful and peaceful. keep going

@danyf.1442 2 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏

@study5536 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, my dear Bethany! Love you so much❤ Could you please say what's your phone in the video?

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

Much love! It's the iPhone 13 Pro

@study5536 2 жыл бұрын

@@bethanyleonardo Thank you❤

@anniemeridian270 2 жыл бұрын

Oh if Picasso is in our time I definitely believe he would be a huge Instagram icon since he’s such a successful merchant. He is a genius of selling himself man!

@rashikasaxena1432 2 жыл бұрын

Dear Bethany I really need your help. I am petite (5 feet) but also my hips and buttocks are really narrow. So, I am utterly lost with what kind of jeans or dress should I wear. Can you please please help 🙏

@koromar1037 2 жыл бұрын

One milion sub soon! I watch your channel long time and Im so happy for you Bethany

@dikshakashyap2839 2 жыл бұрын

HEy BEathaNy .............. missed dear ............. luv u

@riyapandey5973 2 жыл бұрын

Can you tell sub nice apps to buy clothes online even in India and also mention some clothes in your discription box

@joyandolvlogs1739 2 жыл бұрын

❤

@soumyagaur7137 2 жыл бұрын

You have a good body proportion, that's why u look tall despite being short:). Can you make video on how to look in proper portion.

@morganacaramba4082 2 жыл бұрын

🥰

@maitri7197 2 жыл бұрын

Hey I just started watching her videos! Would u mind sharing ur height and weight

@MissS1989 2 жыл бұрын

Is your masterclass set up so that a student goes through all of the lessons once, or is set up so that you can go back to the lessons and videos and watch them again? :)

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

Hi! You will have access to the lessons forever and receive all updates to the lessons I do in the future. :)

@MissS1989 2 жыл бұрын

@@bethanyleonardo Wow, that's awesome!! tysm for your reply :)!!!

@Fraoulitsa244 2 жыл бұрын

I think you should cut your hair a little bit. Since you are giving style advice for shorter women you should have known better you look shorter if you have long hair

@bethanyleonardo 2 жыл бұрын

I do know better and I don't mind taking the hit because I love my hair longer. It's important to not change what you love just because of some styling tips. They are just guidelines.

@cleliamattana6582 Жыл бұрын

@@bethanyleonardo well said. I have alopecia and my hair is not the greatest but I don't let it beat me. My hair is long as long as it can be and I'm also short. Not even true that long hair always shortens people. it all depends on the proportions of the person. If you see my full-frame photo with super long hair without any background reference, you'd say I'm super tall. Well, I'm definitely not. Proportions are everything, but even better, do what makes you feel great no matter what is everything :)