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Life is kind of trippy. You walk through life expecting everybody to like you at first, and then they don't and you're sat there like "wtf did I do?" And you can't please everybody. No matter how stupid it seems, that's a "them" problem. They don't appreciate, nah, leave me alone and let me do my moves. Great content!

Julien: "Did you notice the anxiety boiling up?" Me at home with no risk of being picked: Nods yes as heart beats furiously and my brain struggles to think of a captivating story.

I was in a supermarket an hour ago. Tried to talk to a girl in the parking lot after 2 years of not approaching a single soul. It went horrible, of course. Even worse: she was with her mom and dad. They just ignored me as if I was a homeless guy. Stayed inside my car with facepalm for half a hour feeling like the most useless creature on the planet. Then I got home and this video actually gave me some comfort. At least I felt alive again and for a moment people weren't mere shadows passing by.

I work as a Kindergarten substitute teacher. What i learn from these kids is invaluable. You get to feel that its all real. The energy fields, everything. When all the kids ignore you, until you find that sensation and you become surrendered, all the kids jump on you like you are a magnet for cuddling Or when and a kid is on his way to you, so you notice and become needy. Almost every kid without fail will just turn on their feet and go do something else.

Takeaways: Do your best and dont take yourself too seriously. Enjoy improvising, along with having some structure.

Dude you keep smashing banger after banger for FREE. You know what I watch with your vids?? Your body language. You seem so calm and chill I am trying to be like that man

i like you demonstrating freedom through honesty. thanks for your energy.

@21:19 the voice goes up like asking for a question or approval. @22:19 it is grounded and self-assured. That’s the difference.

I used to do spoken word competitions and go to performance workshops all the time, now I interview artists and do podcasts and still deal with everything you talked about, all those workshops yet never seen a speaker like you before. Everything I really needed to hear, cool, direct, relatable, and called me out on a lot about myself I hadn’t realized I became comfortable with yet left me feeling uplifted and refreshed. Thank you!!

I was at a park yesterday in stormy weather. I saw a woman around my age (30 ish) feeding stray cats in the park. I saw her from a far and approached her. I commanded her for taking care of the cats. She smiled and said she's doing what she can. We chatted a bit about the cats then walked off. It was a nice exchange, a little unexpected but that's what makes it memorable. I wasn't expecting to see anyone in that damn weather. Now, I am a very private person but I'm authentic. My outside persona isn't a fake one, it's the real me and it gets to flex it's muscles and act freely when I'm in the presence of strangers. I'm a lot more unhinged while talking to new people. The thing is, I've learned to look at the big picture kind of like watching the situation from the third person. I know nothing's gonna happen romantically and knowing that makes you free from the shackles of idealized to death romantic situations and fantasies. So just approaching her from a neutral standpoint and actually mean what I say was my goal. It was important to let her know her taking care of stray animals was appreciated so she would feel motivated to keep going. I was very isolated since the pandemic as well but for different reasons. I got stuck in living conditions I don't like while at the same time shedding my old friendships after realizing they have become harmful to me. I have social anxiety but I guess it's in a different form and not very visible to the outside. I have no problem chatting people up or going into huge crowds and events. What I have a problem is when my privacy is broken. I don't like going to intimate events like birthdays, gatherings where there is only a handful of people and they all know me. I guess it's not social anxiety but I have no tolerance left for familiar people anymore. I'm not sure what to call that exactly. I've been binge watching Julien for a while and it's so helpful and entertaining but even he would get confused about my feelings lol. I can be very social and am very in tune and comfortable with myself but have no tolerance left for people who wronged me, suppressed me, oppressed me in some way. This includes my family as well. Perhaps I was always meant to be a lone wolf and start my life fresh in a distant place.

Free Julien wow just wow your really hear to help thank you

Very interesting video, thank you for posting, helped me a lot understanding some things about myself.

Being nice secures you

Thank you! This really clicked!

I’ve struggled with social anxiety most of my life. My conclusion is that ego danger is similar to actual danger. The difference is that ego danger is based on beliefs so you can change what is or isn’t ego danger but you can’t eliminate ego danger entirely.

Loved it

REQUEST - Sir please could you please guide your last life lessons on relationship in this Valantine's day. - From India 🙏🏾

Long form content always wins!!!

That's what it happens to be imagining right now. The next second who knows what it could imagine. It can imagine anything it wants but it just so happens that it keeps imagining something consistent so that we can get a sense of reality.

Genius🔥👏

Hey man, you should make a course!!

I would like to have a free coaching call but I am french and I do not speak english that very well

Tough crowd, lol... but the beauty is it doesn't matter :)

people don't know what it feels like to REALLY be in danger. they lack context. it's like when you're always depressed but you think you're ok because you never experienced actually being ok. that's how i was for the last 10 years. of course i don't know how it feels to really be in danger either. but i have experienced much worse than not being captivating in front of a crowd.

I'm an empath so being nice is my programming

I understand but I still can't let go because I have too much fear to open myself to the world

I love you Julien 😭

Julien, please read this. I need help. I've let go of a desire I had for a girl about a month ago and I've since been in a constant fight or flight response, I've alienated a lot of people, my parents think I have depression I've tried to explain to them what happened but they just laughed at it, I need help ASAP I've been shamed in the past for liking a girl so maybe it's a response to that but my RAS is so fucked up that I'm scared I will do more harm than good.

when you do the meditation on social anxiety for example do you feet the same EXACT fear as when you are outside with people or is it different ??

Has anyone had a consultation with him?

I would like to read your book, if you wrote it

THAT was perfect to start yelling at the numbnuts crowd...! Funny as Sh!t...!!

I love DG but i gotta admit he can be a little over the top.

I read "Socially Invisible" 😅 damn.

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From my experience I don't think my social phobia will decompress in the externality. People are a complete nuisance. They have a lackluster of knowledge and consolation.

Steve Martin vibes when you were raising your voice as an example 🙌😄 that's awesome, I love your content @JulianHimself

When you're Happy and you follow the trail of "whys" you always end at Love or God. Try it :) But don't go the goodfellas route: "well because I'm funny!" "You mean funny like a clown, do you amuse everybody? How the hell are you funny, what The FUCK is so funny about you? Tell me!" :D But even that one would work

Gucci suit 😳

I don't believe him he was definitely getting some resistance during the day before this speech it is normal and everyone gets it some more than others. We are not children anymore our minds have experienced a lot you don't just shed that away.

We’re all NPC’s !!

1 minute in ...he's wasted

10 seconds in and i all ready find this guy obnoxious

Why bother?

I don’t know why, but I just don’t trust this guy.

Cringe

Maybe I haven't watched enough of his videos. But he loojs very awkward in his skin. Like not authentic.

While im agree that andro is very technical with is Masculinity and have no this mumant but is masculine is fake to But Papa Dan is different story He is pure masculine Without this mumant But is masculine is real and pure Thats why Dan P is the Goat I mean literally everything Cv, Cc, Leading, Commandments, Is hunter henergy is pure, Legs on the ground pure, Full masculine box, Dream Papa Dan is the Goat