if i will need to make him miss me just to keep him, then i don't want him. when two people really want to be with each other, all these mind games won't be necessary. i'm in a 2years long distance relationship, we talk everyday, we have a routine and we love it. no one is feeling choked up. we talk while he works. i can call him anytime of the day and he can call me anytime of the day. we got married last year and i'm waiting for our immigration process to join him. please, don't allow anyone convince you to chase a man. a man that wants you will not stress you.

Been in 9 years Long Distance, before marriage. Things will get dull on many days, you feel like your partner has lost interest. You won't have topics to talk about. Expectations and feelings were hidden. To tackle these we played some questions games like Lovify. It was a game changer. We never thought a game can add excitement to our relationship. It was a game where we had to guess each others expectations. And, it got us talk and know a lot about each other. Now, whenever we get time, we try to enjoy it. 💞

the distance is already more than enough room to breathe

I am in a long distance relationship for 5 months now . He is the one who needs more connection even though we talk every day . I feel overwhelmed , he is needy and insecure and I am starting to be done . I love him so much …

It's only realistic to know that he's got a schedule with his job, & a time difference can be tricky, but everyone gets the same 24 hours in a day. No one works 24/7. Time difference aside, make your partner a priority during their off hours.

I recently reconnected with my high school boyfriend from 45 years ago and it’s been great. We’ve been talking on the phone for almost a year and we met a couple of weeks ago and it went fantastic but I understand about giving each other space. We talk five nights a week and we’re running out of things to say so we choose not to text or contact each other during the day on the nights that we’re going to talk so that we’ll have something to talk about. Excellent advice.

If you both have full lives... long distance isn't boring, as long as you share your experiences throughout the day.

I have a long distance relationship as long as my man is in God's hands and well-protected I know he couldn't be in no better hands but the best God's hand amen

don't play any of these mind games women, you should be talking once a day and he should initiate the contact

I particularly love the last 4min about creating own happiness so that the relationship is an enhancement. Amazing! Thank you 😊

Just started a long distance relationship with an amazing man. Thank you Matthew for your great advice. The gratitude attitude is so true😊

I made the above mistakes in my younger naive years. I needed guidance. I’ve learned that giving space and not being in contact for a period of time makes it a lot more interesting

What am I thankful for? Birds, bees, Sunlight, Starry skies and the song in my head! Thank you so much Matthew for saying such powerful things!🙏❣

if he doesnt have the desire to talk to you once a day then he isn't serious about you or the relationship

Wow!!!! That was incredible! Was saying “Preach!” through your whole video, this hit me in my soul! I’m so on the right track 🙏 Sooooooo much wisdom laid down, from the heart ❤️ Powerful, deeply true stuff Mathew, thank you 🙏

Awesome, thank you So much! So uplifting and empowering 😊❤️

I learned this all the hard way... I would just like to say that you are spot on!

One of the best,wonderful ,brilliant coach in the entire KZfaq, I truly appreciate the way MATHEW explains each and every aspect in detail with examples, that helped me a lot in my LDR relationship , Thanku MATHEW bcs of watching your KZfaq channel, I really transformed myself into a high value woman... And I have starting focussing on my life more than him....

Hi Matthew, your advices really awesome. I'm in a long distance relationship for nearly 7mos now, he's on his way to Thailand today to close the distance. He's from Hawaii I'm originally from the Philippines :)

Thank you so much for this! I have been so clingy lately and I have a feeling it's affecting my relationship. Now I know better to create a healthy space👌

Bravo....bravo....!!!👏👏👏👏 Thank you Matt💋 👍

Thanks for sharing this with us, Matt Coast.

These are really really great advice 🙂 thank you so much Matthew..much love

What if he likes us being in touch most of the times ? Why then should the space be necessary ? Yet the distance in it self is really a distance enough .

Thank you so much. Your direct and truthful suggestions when Dealing with relation .

Nice video, very informative. Thanks for sharing and I subscribed.

WOW. This is so insightful for me! Also, I love how you put everything. 💖🙏. I will say, seeking only happy feelings is obviously ideal. Of course, neglect is the ugly under belly of it tho, so its more about harmonizing our dreams with reality.

All his words are just .... Mind-blowing 💯

You are simply the best and so realistic. Thank you. I needed this❤

Thank you so much, I really need to hear this.

Just amazing !!!🎉🎉🎉

Good advice noted:thanks matt

Love this 👏🏻

IF I WILL NOT TALK TO HIM FOR ONE DAY HE WILL WORRIED.. WE ALWAYS KEEP IN TOUCH

Never ever be clingy and needy

You really helped me I needed it.

Gratitude... Thank you 🙏

Thank you for sharing this Video very informative nice advice 💛

Thank you for the tips 💞💕♥️❤️

Connecting or connection in relationship yes that really important in relationship Thanks mattew

I’m in a long distance. This is so helpful. Thank you Matthew!

Your advice is incredible i really appreciate it

Thanks so much i love this advise

Thanks for this message coach😊 I just watched this im gonna put this in practice. Im subscribing too because of this message 😊

Hey Matt........ Golly, need to touch up on all your tips, talks and confidence.... Missed your voice, it's so "at home" for me so is nice to see you.... ☺️💜

Thanks 🙏 Matthew for this wonderful advice, I think have learnt something because I'm in a long distance relationship.

Good to know what the side feels about women. I Still think each relationship is a little different but I’ve learned from your talk that these are pretty common aspects of relationships. One thing I don’t like about men is when someone distant says yes to what I say all or almost all the time just to make unrealistic reassurances. I am intrigued by being challenged to think. But Thanks!

I'm in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend always has to talk to me everyday and my boyfriend has put up with alot with me in 14 months from the death of my daughter to my niece being diagnosed with cancer 3 lockdown in the UK my cousin and great uncle dying. But we talk about our future like our wedding our house family the lot so usually the men want you too it's not just about woman

Amazing tips from the point of view of a guy. Thank u. So good

He is younger than me by 7yrs... I am constantly worried about my aging and appearance.... It has affecting my self confidence and self esteem

Thank you this is a very good advice 🥰😊

Thank u so much ...I have learnt something special from here.wooooo🙏

Thanks for ur advice

Exactly We text when we can, both busy and long time difference)) We don't like small talk 😂

I'm queen I don't chase guys when he pulls out I give him space when he ignores my messages many times and negligence me I block him the most thing I hate about LDR when they stuck in your day and emotionally for short time then they gone this is very bad I'm tired and sick of that hell

I used the NC and it made EVERYTHING BETTER ❤️ We are very connected,and I had to become the UG girl!! I ask 1uestions,I keep the newness alive! And we are BOTH Committed to making it work! This is a different take on things,appreciate the insight Matthew 👍

Matthew, you are truly inspiring ❤. Love the way you explain plus all the different perspectives are amazing 👏. Thank you.

Thank you for your direct and truthful suggestion when dealing with relations. I am in a distant relation and it really put me in ?? What is that guy that I really like think about me. Its a questions that has an unreliable answers. But now I realised that what's more important is what was ..my life like ..before I met him.

Thank you, your words save me

Your the best ❤️

Cool thanks

We chat a few mins twice a day and a phone call once a week..I think that's minimal and not clingy. Yet be ghosted me after 3 years and he knows I'm meeting him on Dec 16th to spend christmas with him. I'm just letting it be. He asked me to marry him and now I'm just waiting for a text. I'm stronger now. 18 days now. Yes I agree some mistakes have been made. I'll pray for strength

Now i know why he sometimes pull back . Thank you for such wonderful information from a man 🙂

Thank you Matthew so much for this, I’ve been in a long-distance situation ship for around seven months now with a very dear old school mate 35 years ago, so far so good! He loves my energy apparently! I’m going to subscribe to your forever woman e-book, cannot wait to read your inspiration and thoughts

My ex ended our relationship because they found it too far to travel, now impossibly going into another I don’t mind distance I lead a busy life.

It is true, what Matthew says will happen when you use his program “the forever woman”. I am still in disbelief at how well these tools have benefited my new love life.

Love you

I gave him space and he contacted me once or twice month.....done with him,this is very good video ,but if there is a normal connection and attraction,if you are dealing with a person who is manipulative or seeking options and attention it never works

Hey actually I like the way you're teaching

Thank you so much for your advice dear Please sorry,hw many do i have to chat him? Because me early morning i

The problem that I'm having with this video right is at one point the man say give him some space. Next min he's saying well how much space should you give your man, it's up to u, u don't have to give space at all... sure saying other things are said but really, just stick with give space. Not everyone knows the time of needed space. It could be 1 day, it could be 2, it could be a week. Single guys, are used to being alone. So to have someone constantly check up on them, it could be alright, but the it can be bad. Space, is needed.

Love you lots

if he doesn't talk to you once a day i guarantee he's talking to other women and you're not his priority

I'm in LDR with him....🇮🇩🇺🇸 It's so hard to be through but I'll try to be with him. His jealousy often comes...

I'm so scared,he keeps asking me for nudes and says it will make our relationship strong!😢I don't wanna loose him cuz he has what I want in man,but whenever he asks for nudes I feel disgusted

Nice content I'm attentive the baiting...

How do you connect with a guy who has ADHD and “out of sight, out of mind” is a big thing for them? - but still giving time to breathe and not being too clingy or being too boring?

I am 41 and my boyfriend is 56. We have long distance relationship now he said he love somebody else what I have to do ? I love him so much . I can’t live without him .

What if is him who is constantely looking for me? He feels ignore if I create space.

How much space is advisable to be given to him ? Should this be in terms of Hours, Days or Weeks ?

Hello Matthew 😊

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Please talk on online relationships

Under water basket weaving?.. Lol Now Matt..i am focusing.. Better late then never... A awesome day for you.. Thank you😊

You shouldn't even try to connect all the time with a man you live with. I promise.

In a 4yr long distance relationship

What should I do? I’m in a 2 and half hour long distance with a man who is 22 year older than me, We are planning our second date and he’s ok with me booking a hotel for us in my city when I offered which is a big turn off for me, I wanted him to do that without me doing it

My boyfriend does this to me All the time. He is obsessive Texting when we are apart and he does not give me a minute alone. He cause arguments all the time blowing up my phone

Had LDR blow up. Ex needed big big money. Had me show what turned out to be catfished photos of his son to my daughter on Christmas Day. Then he ran.

yes, let's just pretend and not ask any of these crucial questions

But if you go on dates with other guys isn't that hurting the other guy as he might fall for you and you will hurt him when you tell him there's a guy your in love with already!!

In one i don't see anything wrong with a check in even if boring. If you don't talk to me or call im bored

Hi from Italy

What about when the guy is connecting with me 2-3 x/day?

I have known a guy from 2 years now we both live in different counties . He texts and voice messages me once a week sometimes every 5 days , shares and send pictures etc . Isn’t it awkward that he doesn’t video call or call ?

I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm not a smothering person I like to give him space but when I do he gets upset and thinks there is something wrong?? Is there a happy medium when it comes to men??

I am giving space it is my idea

I am not a woman shom love poursuit I love loyalty honesty

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