How to know whether to pursue a woman using the Brad Pitt Rule. Read the original article: www.artofmanlin... Written, Directed and Filmed by Jordan Crowder: / jordancrowderfilms
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@daleoncoyabercrombie10 жыл бұрын
Sandra was way hotter anyway.
@gregjones99019 жыл бұрын
Haha this was the main thing that I took from this video. She would have been my first pick.
@jonathang.20829 жыл бұрын
Yup
@efisgpr7 жыл бұрын
Coy Abercrombie Nah, she was hot. The other one was *not*.
@vasthepirate56737 жыл бұрын
came to the comments to say that exact thing, saw this was already a comment, thumbed up!
@psedach7 жыл бұрын
Maybe the other takeaway is practicing your lines on the poorer prospects so ya don't get nervous!
@JosephGallagher9 жыл бұрын
Sandra > Darlene
@BreadCatMarcus8 жыл бұрын
+JosephGallagher Indeed. Good for Bill.
@TurnOntheBrightLights.8 жыл бұрын
+JosephGallagher Agreed. Sandra is cute.
@TheDankCat1278 жыл бұрын
+JosephGallagher Sandra's got it going on.
@efisgpr7 жыл бұрын
JosephGallagher Sandra: 8 Darlene: 0.0014
@Yusuf11877 жыл бұрын
Darlene was moderately attractive. Sandra has creepy extremely thin lips, low eyebrows, and chipmunk teeth. Wtf are people seeing in her?
@OutrageIsNow9 жыл бұрын
The poor guy with the wedding ring can't get a date...
@Mangomx9 жыл бұрын
hahaha i just noticed that.
@mananoushadi14316 жыл бұрын
Nice one
@GidzPaul6 жыл бұрын
Lol
@cheetajoe49126 жыл бұрын
Mikey Koza woah. Should we tell Bill's wife?
@davidsmythe22236 жыл бұрын
😂😂 I just noticed that too!!!
@JP-199010 жыл бұрын
This made me realize alot about myself. Thanks Art of Manliness...
@artofmanliness10 жыл бұрын
Glad to be of service.
@Azael19919 жыл бұрын
+Kaito Michishige I feel the same way
@tuerkefechi11 жыл бұрын
The Brad Pitt Rule? I thought it was something about establishing a secret Fight Club and fighting Zombies ;-)
@chandangarg67302 жыл бұрын
Yeah me too
@zackmcclean774110 жыл бұрын
That Sandra sure is a swell gal.
@mengoingabroad85767 жыл бұрын
LOLLLLLL perfect
@knightofnights16936 жыл бұрын
Jokes
@tskwared6679 жыл бұрын
If they want to see you, they will make time.
@meNtor8909 жыл бұрын
tskwared667 What do I do if I feel that she would like me if only I got to show off on a date - but she's hesitant and doesn't make time. As in she doesn't know any better. I feel like I should pursue, but with this brad pitt idea I also feel I shouldn't.
@UhnTahoex9 жыл бұрын
meNtor890 Whenever you ask yourself a maybe question like that she is not into you. No if and or but. You will know if she likes you. If your guessing forget that bitch and move on her lost.
@cerberus.talking Жыл бұрын
@@meNtor890 it hasn't worked out is it? ;)))
@fjoo9 жыл бұрын
Last month I asked a woman out 3 times, because I figured she was just hesitant and shy. Then she updated her facebook relationship status a few weeks later. I'm such a cabbage-head.
@BloodShutEyes17 жыл бұрын
Fadaourl It takes a man to admit it.
@Kingiron885 жыл бұрын
Thailand is the best option here. You will never run out of opportunities
@immortalXMONsta4 жыл бұрын
Youre a pretty cool cabbage head but something similar like this happened to me as well and i was head over heels for her always asking her out and shit because she was a shy and introverted person but she was just plain uninterested in me lmao i thought she liked me though
@coiledsteel83444 жыл бұрын
Fadaourl Go to mgtow channels immediately!
@danpenia2194 жыл бұрын
@@Kingiron88 50% of those opportunities have a dick
@jaggedsigns3O119 жыл бұрын
I bet Sandra is the type of gal to show a bit of ankle on the first date :D
@P3trarch9 жыл бұрын
Hugh G. Erichawn **slow clap**
@rickyricardo219 жыл бұрын
Good show, boy-o!
@duplicateyeti68839 жыл бұрын
Hugh G. Erichawn Maybe even a SHOULDER!
@rickyricardo219 жыл бұрын
***** guffawing at the response.
@Digital_Dude20008 жыл бұрын
Maybe she might show her *gasp* b-bellybutton!
@artofmanliness10 жыл бұрын
From the Archives.
@SuperSheepKing9 жыл бұрын
why does every women so damn sexy in your videos? lol
@vtecboi189 жыл бұрын
SuperSheepKing the last one was amazing
@alonzoslade25318 жыл бұрын
+Ariesticnig It is entertaining how men are expected to determine whether or not women are interested in dating rather than a woman asserting herself and saying no.
@langolieralphas8 жыл бұрын
+alonzo slade That's because they are trying not to crush your feelings.
@dekutja8 жыл бұрын
+langolier alphas nonsense. you can be clear and polite at the same time
@SKBottom8 жыл бұрын
Insane to get involved with a woman at work anyway. I've never wanted HR to be involved in my breakup.
@Byzaxreviews8 жыл бұрын
Hahaha, This guy just read my mind 😂😂😂
@hybby7 жыл бұрын
10000%. Even in a work environment where everyone is self-employed... I've never felt it to be a good idea to get involved with a woman i work with. So many ways that could go totally wrong.
@Saber232 жыл бұрын
Why would you break up? Are you that insecure?
@SKBottom2 жыл бұрын
@@Saber23 Wow. Reading comprehension really isn't your thing. You're not only a troll, you're an unintelligent troll. Since you're probably also about 14 years old, let me spell it out to you as simply as I can. 99.9% of all relationships break up. Otherwise, you would marry the first person you dated. Even that isn't a guarantee, since 2/3 of marriages eventually end. Therefore, anyone you date at work you are probably going to break up with them, or they with you, eventually. When that happens, I wouldn't want the end of my relationship to become an HR issue, which is a very real possibility if your relationship was with a co-worker. If you can't understand that, you don't need to be on this page where adults are having a discussion. Go download clips of SpongeBob or something.
@anirudhsilverking57612 жыл бұрын
@@SKBottom Why would it become HR issue? Can't they end things secretly?
@gdaymates4318 жыл бұрын
As a lady who has dated a lot of ladies I can tell you, this is 100 percent the best advice a person could give. If people don't suggest a different time to see you, do not bother. They are not interested. As hard as it is to stop yourself from going crazy with "what if" just don't. Instead just me like "k, well, she/he isn't interested. I won't ask again." and maybe, she/he will actually ask you out or maybe you will never hear from them again BUT at least you can walk away knowing you didn't chase. Also, my advice, never take a rejection personal. It is very rarely personal. It really is a miracle that people fall in love, given how different we all are. It took me a very long time, and a run of really horrible dates to meet my partner but I am so glad I did because all those horrible experiences really showed me what I actually want in a partner. Good luck fellas :)
@incredibletoms17 жыл бұрын
Temps thanks for the advice! And Im happy you found the perfect partner for you! :)
@eggycat7 жыл бұрын
Temps I disagree with this, some people are shy and it makes them anxious to go out on date or schedule something with someone when you know very little about each other. People can also be hurt be older relationships and are unwilling to trust new people. Showing persistence communicates a certain seriousness and not just treating it as a fling etc. I don't disagree entirely with your statement, it can happen mine and your way. Sometimes just best to use your intuition.
@efisgpr7 жыл бұрын
Temps This is about hetero women. Bye now.
@incredibletoms17 жыл бұрын
Temps , I disagree with neosapiens. Your point is perfectly valid. Cheers
@hybby7 жыл бұрын
-_- : " Showing persistence communicates a certain seriousness and not just treating it as a fling etc. " I don't completely agree with this. Persisting shows a lack of respect for their "No". If a 'hurt' person repeatedly is shown that their "No" is respected, and they WON'T be chased, they'll then likely recognize that their ''No" won't get them any dates they desire, and will shift the answer to "Yes". If someone is shy and it makes them anxious to go on a date/schedule something with someone... sometimes they have to get over that and think of ways to make that connection in a place/situation that makes them comfortable. Anxiety is something to work through.
@JordanCrowderFilms11 жыл бұрын
Sorry for the wedding ring mistake, Lacy warned me about it, and then I forgot once we shot it all. I can assure you, Bill is not a player.. desperate? Yes, but not a player.
@tojiroh9 жыл бұрын
"Oh Bill, movies on a first date? Wrong move, boy-o." Take her eating somewhere instead, you wanna talk, not sit side by side without speakng for two hours... :-P
@ethankriegel59579 жыл бұрын
tojiroh I wouldn't do a movie for the first date except if the date was initiated because of shared interest in a specific movie. Then after the movie a meal can be shared and conversation can be had.
@Digital_Dude20008 жыл бұрын
Your profile makes you look like that your body is ready
@tojiroh8 жыл бұрын
Brandon Correia My body is always Reggie.
@joachimehrler61998 жыл бұрын
+tojiroh It's bad manners to talk when sitting at the table. Take her for a walk in the park instead.
@tojiroh8 жыл бұрын
"It's bad manners to talk when stuffing your mouth at the table." FTFY Meals are one of the best ways to socialize, both with dates and friends. Unless you prefer to be the guy that sits down, lays his face to munch on the plate, and gets up without a word. You know, *that* guy.
@EdoKwin8 жыл бұрын
"I think I might have...a boyfriend." Priceless.
@nialahmad7 жыл бұрын
This video is illustrated in such a way that harkens back to a bygone era. An era where asking a woman out was just THAT straight forward, without them getting completely weirded out.
@fbcpraise2 жыл бұрын
I asked a good woman out and she said she couldn’t make it. I never would have called her again, but she ended the call by saying “you will call me again. I’m serious, I’m taking revenge if you don’t.” So I did ask her again. Married 35 years last week.
@yokuri10 ай бұрын
Congratulations.
@wanderlustwarrior9 ай бұрын
I'm sure her voodoo doll of you had nothing to do with it.
@Srd112611 жыл бұрын
hey, Bill, the wedding ring only picks up women in person, not on the phone
@DamnCanucks11 жыл бұрын
sandra's hotter anyway, no worries buddy
@saxonjf11 жыл бұрын
I want more of this style. I love the conversational tone and I love the dresses the girls wear, YOWZA! But under-emphasized is the idea that idea that you actually have to get out there and make the effort. The narrator guy told him to do it, but hitting the idea harder would make the point that the girl saying no isn't the end of the world and moving on isn't hard, either.
@Saber232 жыл бұрын
It isn’t that big of a deal 😂
@westerling8436 Жыл бұрын
Perv
@m359269 жыл бұрын
Why is Bill calling women when he already has a wedding ring?
@teh_blazerer9 жыл бұрын
+A Whether Moments Poet You know.
@Kenny2100vn8 жыл бұрын
Brad Pitt rule. Brad Pitt screwed of Jennifer Aniston as this guy does.
@shahrukhguru95364 жыл бұрын
Her wife gone to her parent's home with kids
@reillyrutherford81143 жыл бұрын
He's a player
@lynnsims95333 жыл бұрын
Really take that ring off your finger ..daaaa!!
@COYOT3_710 жыл бұрын
BILL HAS A WEDDING RING ON...THAT CABBAGE HEAD.
@matteroftim310 жыл бұрын
That "manly handshake" thing made me laugh so hard :)))
@jakobthe328 жыл бұрын
Next AoM Instructional: "How to practice kissing with couch pillows" 10/10 would watch.
@Cambaudio3 жыл бұрын
Hi I'm in the future. I wish there was a next..
@direnbhatsavesoil96282 жыл бұрын
Corona? Wthell bro!!???
@p0ng0h8 жыл бұрын
Bill had a frigging wedding ring on!!! How dare he call another woman!
@AvyScottandFlower8 жыл бұрын
Bill you mischievous rascal..
@John-oo8dn8 жыл бұрын
He's married to Jesus
@ronmak864211 жыл бұрын
haha it's actually common sense if u think bout it, if the gal is into u but can't make up of course she would suggest another date! nice vid though;)
@isabellouise81647 жыл бұрын
you won't believe how many guys lack that common sense! ;)
@PriusRaj7 жыл бұрын
For real man. Heck, we freak out thinking that you think that we think that you're lame when in reality we actually think you're pretty cool and just CAN'T go.
@PP-yx4rv7 жыл бұрын
well its kind of understandable that guys think this. Romance, as portrayed in popular culture is all about the guy fighting to win the girl over. If thats your reference, you might think that its just part of a normal romance, she is playing hard to get, to make you go out of your way to get her. Although this might be true for some girls, I would not recommend pursuing them regardless, as that is a huge red flag imo. And thats really the important thing here. imo being "that guy at the office" shouldn't really play any part in your decisions, as you have to risk some to get some.
@mathew633man7 жыл бұрын
Love blinds us all.
@Philosophal9 жыл бұрын
Art of manliness has a lot of potential, I feel it would attract more attention if it had better website design and more stuff was posted more often
@Saber232 жыл бұрын
Oh my how things have changed since then
@thefreshman0711 жыл бұрын
Sandra IS beautiful, though.
@RGrant25049 жыл бұрын
I literally laughed out loud at this well done
@hoia3110 жыл бұрын
"really manly handshake" lolol
@animationfanatic21333 жыл бұрын
"Sounds Promising"
@ChloeDunIT8 жыл бұрын
Love these videos! Please make more of them Brett!
@NaturopathicMed8 жыл бұрын
Holy shit, does the author of this video know me?? I've been using this exact phrase for years! I LOVE IT! SO DAMN TRUE. I ask a girl twice, and if she doesn't suggest a follow up date on the 2nd ask --> Goodbye, your loss.
@cloverclover76387 жыл бұрын
Tim Salotto That is a good rule.
@Saber232 жыл бұрын
Or she may have dodged a bullet be humble my guy 😂
@KingTesticus8 жыл бұрын
the video was great, but the comments are AWESOME! lol
@iceman6349 жыл бұрын
Couple of years ago I asked a girl out and she rejected because she had to study and said she wouldn't go out even if I were Brad Pitt (also no alternative date was offered). So much for the "Brad Pitt rule" lol
@tiburciouetela54136 жыл бұрын
555-123-48 I'm gonna call that Darlene now!!! hahaha
@JoshuaMNielsen Жыл бұрын
Honestly, this is one of the best videos on the Internet. I keep coming back to it year after year for a good laugh.
9 жыл бұрын
Don't be THAT guy at the office.
@FirstBurns10 жыл бұрын
Nice couch, I have the same one!
@dbpooper75127 жыл бұрын
Bill's sloppy seconds.
@CachoTelch7 жыл бұрын
Do you also practice your kissing on the couch with the pillow like billy?
@Vlad8866711 жыл бұрын
I never knew this was the "brad pitt" rule, for me this has always been rule n°1
@Knuckles9811 жыл бұрын
I wonde how Bill's wife feels about him asking all these women out on dates.
@shepiro11 жыл бұрын
such a great quality video. subbed.
@artofmanliness11 жыл бұрын
Is she worth pursuing? Or would it just make things awkward? Use the Brad Pitt Rule to find out! Based on our popular article: www.artofmanliness.com/2008/02/05/the-brad-pitt-rule/
@jmwoodham11 жыл бұрын
Why is Bill trying to get a date? Looks like he's married - he's wearing a wedding ring (:45).
@LedByDemons10 жыл бұрын
Mike Woodham I wear a wedding ring to pick up chick, you should try it sometime. Works like magic!
@GardeningtheYard8 жыл бұрын
+LedByDemons Actually, Bill was wearing a wedding ring.
@stewart73468 жыл бұрын
+Colleen L B Mathis in the 50's that was acceptable behaviour from a married man.
@richlrn64 Жыл бұрын
This is the only advice any man needs. This video should shut down any other content provider who thinks they have the right advice for men.
@battler11119 жыл бұрын
Sandra was freakin adorable.
@Winterhe4rt7 жыл бұрын
what you actually should do is NOT waiting for her to give another date time but actually ASK her directly. Something like: "Oh yeah that was actually on a very short notice anyway. Sorry for that. Maybe we could find time together next weekend or in a fortnight?" If she still has no time within a 2 week timespan its pretty clear she just dont WANT to go.
@k24s23nov060811 жыл бұрын
Like the video shows, There is always a hotter woman that will be into you so If you are wasting your time with a female I say NEXT, general rule when dating multiple of them.
@surajrajesh39896 жыл бұрын
Thank you Narrator
@MrNathanasher11 жыл бұрын
Lol @ 1:17 - Saturdays the Sabbath.. I am Seventh-day Adventist, and that is LEGIT funny.
@mike365fly7 жыл бұрын
I'm a Jew and this is not funny.
@mike365fly7 жыл бұрын
Also to me, SDA are the group of people with least sense of humor
@amosmgz7 жыл бұрын
I just love the fact that someone else actually knows that Saturday is the Sabbath😂
@ChaoticMatters8 жыл бұрын
Hey, my mom's name is Darlene. Back off Bill!
@abomesai188 жыл бұрын
Bill is your father.
@NaturopathicMed8 жыл бұрын
My mother's name is Martha...
@ChaoticMatters8 жыл бұрын
And Bob's your uncle
@NaturopathicMed8 жыл бұрын
This guy? a3-images.myspacecdn.com/images03/3/7d6c3e902f2c427ab31ced347c6ebf6e/300x300.jpg
@ChaoticMatters8 жыл бұрын
* shivers *
@Gurianthe11 жыл бұрын
that's so true... and I love their dresses! they're so awesome
@allysmat22527 жыл бұрын
1st video of yours I've watched. Nice. Subscribed.
@bistro48 жыл бұрын
Or, women could stop being cowards and say "No, thank you. I'm sorry." and leave no question.
@gMcMullen19 жыл бұрын
The guy calling the girl in the opening is rocking a wedding band.
@trbossdoggy9 жыл бұрын
Another tip : When talking to girl think yourself as if you are Brad Pitt and BEHAVE like him. That really helps too. (I don't mean copy him, be yourself, but have the confidence of being Brad Pitt, there is a thin line, I hope you see what I mean)
@Cinemagic5310 жыл бұрын
Yowzah! Sandra is gorgeous!
@LuisandLily7 жыл бұрын
Can you start making more of these , this is the best part of this channel !!!!
@Pongowl5 жыл бұрын
Ha, I knew I recognized that guy from somewhere. That's Jordan Crowder :P
@dsbs11 жыл бұрын
Love the 50s tutorial style and the overdone dramatizations.
@Munchausen459 жыл бұрын
He's like Cary Grant but without the ascots. Best line ever!
@Sulimankhayyat9 жыл бұрын
In other words "Get over it" and keep the ball rolling
@jiff232310 жыл бұрын
Recently started watching your vids. You're awesome! Keep em coming!
@johnnyloc27407 жыл бұрын
that moment when bill has 3 more girls phone numbers and u cant even get 1 XD
@MrPorteporte11 жыл бұрын
So tomorrowland brought me here...
@weshoweth802710 жыл бұрын
Anyone else notice that Bill is wearing a wedding ring? Dude's cheating on his wife here
@titanpower42848 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much.This video helped me a lot and I feel more confident now
@MrNewlife19682 жыл бұрын
Calling a girl from work can be the quickest way for a lawsuit.
@johnt58758 жыл бұрын
I wish that phone was a rotary.
@mtflieutenant76934 жыл бұрын
Man I really love these videos...2020.
@1hdsquad11 жыл бұрын
I just love these videos, thank you :)
@autarchyan54268 жыл бұрын
I don't agree. 8 months ago I asked a nice girl for a date but she refused 3 times because she said she was busy. She was busy for real because on the fourth time we went out and now she is my girlfriend since 7 months.
@autarchyan54268 жыл бұрын
***** Onestly I can't be sure. Just try but take the risk of failure. Maybe ask her for "next week"?
@anymoose8 жыл бұрын
+Autarchyan wow your single anecdote disproves the whole thing, especially since you're like 14 years old might as well just take down this video
@autarchyan54268 жыл бұрын
WELL DONE
@autarchyan54268 жыл бұрын
Anonymous I'm 26 man (and have been in a relationship for 8 years).
@h.ar.29378 жыл бұрын
+Autarchyan Well, the point of the test isn't really whether or not she is busy. The point is to see if she claims that she is busy and mostly ignores you or if she says she's busy and offers a different timing rather than just being quiet. Now it really depends on the girl herself. My friend's girlfriend was too shy to tell him "how about next week" or whatever it is. Oh and an indication might be "maybe next time" it generally means 2 things (depending on the tone she said it with and some other factors) 1) Fuck off. 2) I can't go today and I don't know when I can but I still don't want to miss out this chance and so I want you to ask me out again.
@carlosenriqueulloa9 жыл бұрын
My (Now) Wife did that. Couldn't go that time, but suggested another. Yeah, she was into Yours Truly.
@Noirflux3 жыл бұрын
Bring back these videos, 1M views vs 1k views. Please!
@Uroboros6637 жыл бұрын
I like how they had iPhones back in the 50's.
@berryb7458 жыл бұрын
cabbage head sounds exactly like howard from the andy griffith show.
@hguy44917 жыл бұрын
I love how Bill is actually Steven Crowders brother. lol
@StressJudoCoaching3 жыл бұрын
The Morticia Adams Rule: if a man asks you out & you have a funeral to go to, invite him along. If he turns out to be a dud or a creep, then hey! You've got a place for his body!
@adamcatamco5623 жыл бұрын
One of the most informative dating videos out there!
@Kellen_Quigley11 жыл бұрын
Maybe his wife passed away a couple of years ago, but he still wears the ring to keep her memory alive. Like Adrian Monk.
@13thNemesis9 жыл бұрын
Wow the second girl is really beautiful!
@cloverclover76387 жыл бұрын
It is not the Brad Pitt rule. Only a desparate as heck girl would drop everything to meet up a guy. It should be called the alternative rule. So if the girl offers an alternative date she is not just making excuses and blowing you off.
@Locke3503 жыл бұрын
Don’t you know what figurative analogies are?
@ZakkFair11 жыл бұрын
he could be a recent widower and still wants to hold those memories but is also trying to move on
@VirtuousTrueMicah7 жыл бұрын
The guy that played Bill was the perfect Beta male, Lol I love it 😂
@kristopherkinsinger74118 жыл бұрын
Sandra's going to be pretty ticked when she finds out that Bill asked out Darlene out not two minutes before he called her.
@BlndJQadr2 жыл бұрын
Anyone watching this in 2022?!
@Avi.Kashyup5 жыл бұрын
nice video....explained the point with help of a common example and also there was no bullshit in the video. I like it. Teach me more .
@mergned7 жыл бұрын
Awesome Mr. Narrator, good advice.
@SabbathSOG8 жыл бұрын
NO movies on a first date.
@rafaelll.477811 жыл бұрын
Damn! Its so awesome that you made that video for everybody. But what is crazy about it, its the thing that i figure it out on my own, word by word. Even using Brad Pitt. Its just a mind blown right now...
@xToboesxGirlx10 жыл бұрын
Oh DC
@personalinvestor21437 жыл бұрын
I think your grammar has a funeral to attend to.
@mikeohernia54987 жыл бұрын
Loser!
@Zacchattack11 жыл бұрын
I'd take Sandra any day.
@Technique19952 жыл бұрын
I wish found this video 6 years earlier.
@Dootmaster-iw3yl Жыл бұрын
brad pitt comes from my hometown, pretty awesome knowing he's been to the same places I have
@mengoingabroad85767 жыл бұрын
Hilarious, well-produced, thanks!
@ShelleyG10146 жыл бұрын
☺️☺️I’ve used Saturday is The Sabbath
@om3g4z3r07 жыл бұрын
This is the kind of video that turns any video you watch next into an ear rape.
@travisr.erickson615610 жыл бұрын
Bill had a wedding ring on. Smh. That is not so manly. Be a man, stay true to your gal!
@yanyan85297 жыл бұрын
the actor just probably forgot to remove it XD hahaha
@chaddad12366 жыл бұрын
Anybody else notice he had a wedding ring on?
@aaronjohn16238 жыл бұрын
The awkward moment when Bill's married (he has a ring lol)
@DOSRetroGamer6 жыл бұрын
Hmm, I really hope this is common sense for most men
@Locke3503 жыл бұрын
We get bad advice from people like “she’ll come around eventually” and they pretend that it’s all complicated.
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