How To Charm People & Make Them Feel Incredible

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In today’s video, you’ll learn how to be extremely likable, whether you’re an energetic extrovert or a soft spoken introvert.
We’ll cover how to make an amazing first impression AND how to turn that first impression into deep relationships with people that love and admire you.
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
0:11 - #1: Charismatic body language
- Listening With Warm, Soft Eye Contact.
- A Duchenne Smile.
- Speaking Through A Smile.
- Expansive Gestures.
1:34 - #2: Capture attention
- A Pre-Story Laugh.
- A One Line Hook.
2:54 - #3: Making someone feel good around you
- Laugh When Someone Makes A Joke.
- Adding A Light Platonic Touch And Compliment.
- Be Universally Kind.
- Playful Teasing.
6:31 - #4: Be a shield in their shield wall
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@reshpeck 10 ай бұрын

The best thing about this channel's advice is the way it emphasizes how being kind and making others feel good cannot be manipulative but genuine. The general message is that to be likeable you actually need to be a good person.

@ChutneyRomero 10 ай бұрын

Great comment!

@conforzo 10 ай бұрын

The worst thing about this channel is how it's always the super-celebrities which are used as examples.

@sambhavjain8422 10 ай бұрын

But you need to learn some manipulation tips also for backup 💯

@skaylingop9673 9 ай бұрын

@@conforzoif this video was about me doing those things, you wouldn’t have clicked on it

@mariamkettani 9 ай бұрын

@@sambhavjain8422 I ain't gonna manipulate nobody

@__m__a__x__ 10 ай бұрын

Finally one for us introverts

@vinzenzs2805 10 ай бұрын

Yeah, i only need to learn to laugh like a human and not like an awkward darf

@Dabaiko 10 ай бұрын

All of these videos on how to temporarily impersonate fictional characters are for 'introverts' (and more specifically people who are carrying a lot of baggage, not just introverts). People who are sane are simply themselves, no need to copy phrases or attitudes or any of that insane bs...

@deleted01 10 ай бұрын

Just be handsome bro

@ciroelim 10 ай бұрын

This channel made me realise being an “introvert” or just avoiding people and claiming to be one is just a lazy excuse for not being a nice sociable person. I’m an introvert and been watching this channel for years and made me realise that I can be an “extrovert” and still retreat to my room at the end of a long day and be alone to recharge … got a way better job that pays x3 times better than I was doing menial office work avoiding people which I had before.

@Rise876 10 ай бұрын

@Davi2010jk Most people are carrying a lot of baggage. That's part of life and part of being human.

@hipnhappenin 10 ай бұрын

I'm glad you made that caveat: Not everyone you go out of your way for will stay in your life. BUT it shouldn't stop you from continuing to be kind and generous. Don't do favors for people expecting a certain response.

@marijajanicijevic8211 9 ай бұрын

This should be a common sense. People like their relationships to feel genuine, and that rule aplies to people who tend to be fakers too, so you should not expect that every kindness needs to be out of some favour, because people will notice and noone will actually want to associate. However, it's true that not all the people deserve kindness, but that's where the rule of never chasing after people comes. If you feel you have to force the relationship (romantic and friendly), than give it up, it's dead already.

@CorruptDemocratsJ6 4 ай бұрын

females always pick the wrong ones and hurt the good ones

@darss10 2 ай бұрын

I hate that this is simply a tutorial on how to be a human being, and yet I still needed it 💀

@Cen-estpaslameraboire 28 күн бұрын

😭😭😭

@PinupSticknerd 12 күн бұрын

What is 'human' in this context is just learned behavior. -secound chance😢😊 I appreciate you 👍

@OArchivesX 3 күн бұрын

You don't have to do any of these things.. look at Eminem for examples. He's loved, and hes awkward and barely talks, never smiles. All this stuff is BS and for fake people. The point is just be yourself, be interested and listen to other people, And don't lie.

@skubi7 10 ай бұрын

Just want to say, I love myself more because of your videos and little things I changed in my behavior. When I am at work, with friends, girlfriend, with just one person or group of people, I am a more approachable and make better connections. Also I feel like I am respected more. It is hard to sum it up in one comment here. I never did any of your paid courses, but just from your free videos here on this channel I changed my life to better.

@thecoffeecurator 10 ай бұрын

no, thank you for posting this dude i whole heartedly agree, i realize now i have been watchin their videos since i was in high school. truly they helped me grow into myself and for not a dime off my back

@goldiegolderman1842 10 ай бұрын

You done deepthroating him?

@dannymarchiori4289 9 ай бұрын

@@thecoffeecurator I've had the same experience. I've got a ton of value out of the podcast as well (which is also free)

@the21stsergeant 10 ай бұрын

Brad Pitt has always seemed like the nicest dude you could meet.

@matthewjohansson9159 10 ай бұрын

I've watched almost all of the videos released by Charisma on Command, and here's one of the big self-corrections I had to make on my journey of putting these tips into practice: Many of their videos give the guidance to make others feel comfortable around you, by 1) Complimenting 2) Playful teasting I've found that when I watched these videos, I often forgot the 1st and tried to capitalize on the 2nd. Because I've focused so much on how to get a laugh through teasing, I eventually lost what natural skill I had in complimenting others. And it's shown. So to anybody with a similar experience, go back to the first point, and be free in your conpliments to others. Thank you Charisma on Command for the awesome video!

@armorykittington 10 ай бұрын

Man, I feel so emotionally dumb watching this, lol, but it's like every time I talk I forget there's this whole world outside my head. Sometimes I knock and there's nobody there. This video sets me back in place. Much love!! ^__^

@egb8728 7 ай бұрын

I used to do these things naturally. But life happens. I’m really appreciative for these examples and insights. They serve as reminders to be your best self.

@HeroicKhalid 11 күн бұрын

Same here.. used to be the #1 in the room.. now totally different due to live changes. Now i want bring back my old self

@1936840 10 ай бұрын

This channel but this video specifically is so amazing. They really teach you emotional intelligence and act quick with social ques and make yourself memorable in the best way. Being a genuine human being. Just fantastic. I’ve been watching for years now and have made such drastic changes in my life.

@marcob5549 10 ай бұрын

It is spot on that when you say "fake laugh", a clip of Jimmy Phallus briefly appears.

@ebarr9476 10 ай бұрын

The quiet types don't gossip and that's a plus

@MeatCatCheesyBlaster 10 ай бұрын

We have nobody to gossip to

@sparklepugtea 10 ай бұрын

Brads really just a great guy. Period 😂

@FeliciaSandiego 10 ай бұрын

thank you for the summary at the end! that really helps. I have today a big group event and feel uncomfortable talking (or just even being there: social anxiety), but I will try some of these tips. 🤞

@danielfdez4140 9 ай бұрын

This channel should be at the top of KZfaq, amazing content, congrats.

@moviewryter1985 10 ай бұрын

I love your correct placement of Jimmy Fallon when you talk about a forced laugh.

@SabrinaConstance 10 ай бұрын

You're videos are amazing. Keep on rockin'!

@noblepolygon8694 10 ай бұрын

@3:52 I find watching comedy has taught me to make quips about different situations on the fly and making others around me laugh

@COLOMBIASXE 10 ай бұрын

You’re my favorite channel ever. Thank you for your work. 😍

@witch-kx8oe 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for the re-cap! 😊

@adilbek.ermekov 10 ай бұрын

We need more of these videos for our fellow introverts

@ChristianSoschner 9 ай бұрын

This channel is awesome. Thanks for the content

@JohnVandivier 9 ай бұрын

Wish I had a curated short list of the best content from this channel

@pandurangacr7863 9 ай бұрын

Your creative skills are awe inspiring❤

@Sudeshsspanchal 10 ай бұрын

Love your content ❤️❤️❤️

@ericswinton8742 10 ай бұрын

I love how you still have to be an extrovert for this

@Werdxp 10 ай бұрын

Another great video Ben

@baneinvestment917 10 ай бұрын

Do one just in brad Pitt. I know people only see his face but I think they are attracted to his personality over his looks.

@tobiaseaton200 6 ай бұрын

if he only had the face he'd be another high fashion stonefaced model. but theres a reason he was the leading hollywood man in 80s and 90s

@itachiuchiwa6875 6 ай бұрын

I already smile like this while talking, but instead of this confidence it’s that nervous smile

@chai_lattes 10 ай бұрын

Can you do a video on how to engage other people to ask you questions back? I feel like conversations with people I'm still getting to know never really go anywhere. I'm curious about them, but I'd also like to be shown that same curiosity. Anyone else having this problem?

@hipnhappenin 10 ай бұрын

Maybe start off with talking about you first. Like, "I recently started getting into x hobby. Have you heard of x or what is your experience with x?" I don't think you should worry about being self-absorbed. Odds are they don't mind you giving some information about yourself, they're just too clueless to ask

@chai_lattes 10 ай бұрын

@@hipnhappenin I've tried that before, but whenever I share something about myself that could be used as a jumping off point to further conversation, the response is so dull. Like they don't really respond one way or another. Not much interest or reaction, definitely no follow up question. So I'm just like...?😂 It's really strange because even if I like the person, the interaction feels a little lopsided and perplexing, and I walk away feeling kind of lonely for a couple days. I do think it's mainly an issue of people not knowing how to, so I'm trying not to think so deeply on it and focus on what does work for me within the friendship.

@c.s2193 10 ай бұрын

@@chai_lattesThere’s also the possibility that the person you’re trying to talk to has no interest and is just being nice about it. I’ve been on both sides, it’s frustrating

@NA-hz6ic 10 ай бұрын

This is a tip from one of their other recent videos about Chris Pratt: "Learn having fun with yourself." Then, when you are out or in a conversation, look for ways you could have some fun. This time you are not in the conversation to learn something about someone else or getting yourself noticed. You are simply trying to have some fun for yourself. Side effect: People will find you interesting, but you won't even care anymore ;) If you try it out, please let me know how it went

@chai_lattes 10 ай бұрын

@@c.s2193 There's a possibility😂 It's definitely an insecurity that comes up for me. 1) The awkwardness and difference in communication style makes me feel lonely, and 2) Do they even like me??? Sometimes the beginnings of friendship can be awkward and clunky. I really appreciate that these friends make an effort to message me and make plans that we actually follow through on. Hopefully, we can break down the wall of awkwardness together.

@js2sgamer951 10 ай бұрын

You should make a video about the tv show 'would I lie to you" It shows really good examples of charismatic and funny people, great story telling, good and poorly executed banter. I would love to know how the hosts of the show are seemingly effortlessly funny and why when other guests sometimes attempt to make a joke it doesnt get received as well.

@Fwransen 10 ай бұрын

nice, simply what i need

@TheHumanRanger 10 ай бұрын

Be your best self!

@Ubi22 6 ай бұрын

Good stuff thank u

@MusicAutomation 10 ай бұрын

Be extremely attractive

@ethanbrunt7755 5 ай бұрын

A Duchenne smile is not just wrinkles around the eyes, they have to come in at an angle to be a genuine smile

@CygnusX-11 9 ай бұрын

the problem is that most people will mistake your kindness for weakness

@josephrosati9921 8 ай бұрын

Best video you've made :)

@J0yB0mbad1l 10 ай бұрын

Gwyneth Poltrow's story about BP is so cool🔥

@rae5954 9 ай бұрын

You should do a breakdown of Barney about his charisma and charm! (from how I met your mother) It would be a super helpful video

@abaker4692 10 ай бұрын

Smile, always. Move with confidence. Know your worth.

@iamapat 7 ай бұрын

I love how the video cuts to Jimmy Fallon laughing as he says you don't have to force the laugh

@yuvaldemayo0 10 ай бұрын

love it, thank you

@Iksiksinski. 13 күн бұрын

This is my one of Favorites stories / i never Forget

@BD-or5yh 9 ай бұрын

Was a huge Brad Pitt fan before and now I’m a even bigger fan!

@itsabdelg 10 ай бұрын

bradd pitt starring this youtube video too be like 😂

@pandeni4512 4 ай бұрын

This is my favorite yet coz I have a similar personality

@itismeanttobe 10 ай бұрын

i already do these things thanks to your videos . PHEW that's a relief. I find myself overthinking it sometimes but i realized these tips are just guidelines for your inner self everybody has a unique strength of expression

@Tropdop 26 күн бұрын

This one hit different.

@homiekeen23 9 ай бұрын

My problem is I am quiet + awkward + insecure + not physically attractive 🙃🙃 I need to be remade completely 😂

@Lyf-3276 9 ай бұрын

I do feel that status and looks naturally help though

@nahorletap 10 ай бұрын

I recommend for you guys to make a video on Jon Zherka. Dude is so charismatic, yes he says some crazy stuff but every podcast he's on and every video I've seen him on, he's always the star of the show. I watched both his podcasts with Bradley Martyn, I watched them both, start to finish.

@homiekeen23 9 ай бұрын

We need more womens examples 🥲

@joegreat98 9 ай бұрын

i was at a party and i tried to strike a conversation with a group of guys i never met and found myself in an awkward situation not adding anything to the conversation. they were busy speaking about somebody I didn't know. how to have a good conversation finding yourself in the situation i hust described?

@egb8728 7 ай бұрын

Ask them how they know one another. Wait for the moment you have something in common. That’s you’re in.

@sarkakulova5071 9 ай бұрын

More for introverts please

@Bekbolot-mw1gb 10 ай бұрын

I would like to see an analysis of Damon Salvatore's charisma from the Vampire Diaries

@andriyzolotov 10 ай бұрын

Guys, you're the best

@kevinsims2876 3 ай бұрын

4:15 I was one of those guys that said "girls don't like nice guys" and it was painful of the idea to think nice guys finish last but the problem is I didn't have insight. If there was a grizzly bear in the group I wouldn't nearly give her the attention as a 10. Just let things happen and be in the flow of the moment and give props to people where you see fit without it becoming nauseating 💁🏽‍♂️

@jgprice9990 9 ай бұрын

The advice in this video is really good but why do i feel like it never works irl for me.

@axtonjcranston1064 10 ай бұрын

Your advice is great and all, I've seen many of them, but you use professionally trained actors in so many examples, they are in situations and have natural skill to use these tricks, it's not really transferrable to normal daily life for the rest of us. You should use broadcasters, interviewers, or ted talks or even student demo reels of what works and what doesn't. Anything to make it more realistic for 99.9% of the population.

@jeffzest8393 10 ай бұрын

Valid point. Actors can make articial appear genuine. Further, actors generally have great upturned symmetrical smiles to go with good looks. Advice may have merit, just more difficult for most to execute.

@pawelp9219 9 ай бұрын

Fully agree.

@TheSodaShop 9 ай бұрын

But on the other side, wouldn't you want to learn these skills from the best of the best?? The guys are so good wouldn't you want to observe them??

@jackthefrog80085 3 ай бұрын

Thank you, now i am good at humaning

@etylenodiamina 9 ай бұрын

Hi guys, 3rd season of The Morning Show is out now. Please do Cory Elisson!

@MarkRayner1998 10 ай бұрын

Has anyone done the program? Is it worth it?

@facubeitches1144 10 ай бұрын

How to be extremely likable using 7 words.... um, ok. "I have free cocaine for everyone here!"

@vonunterberg4313 10 ай бұрын

I have a problem that people like me on the first day, but get more distant when we continue to meet. Why is that?

@user-ff9rx7kq2g Ай бұрын

I would say I love this video and thank you, but I'm an introvert

@liljoe3378 9 ай бұрын

can you make a Channing Tatum charisma video? it would be nice

@imomuganda 10 ай бұрын

This channel in a nutshell: Be kind.

@PumperPanda95 10 ай бұрын

How do I do that Duchenne Smile?

@davidfariello3972 10 ай бұрын

Be really good looking if you are quiet is the message.

@conor2079 10 ай бұрын

Next video on Michael Scofield from prison break. Pleaseeee Btw nyc video

@Lemon-Aid_01 3 ай бұрын

Him:- "Watch something you know will make you laugh before you go out" me: who sees my brother's face right after he wakes up everyday:

@TonySoprano007 10 ай бұрын

Please do Tony Soprano

@godloveskaren 10 ай бұрын

Summary of the tips is at 8:10.

@matthewthomas9189 7 ай бұрын

Man, in addition to being that handsome, Brad Pitt is also charismatic AF.

@captaindusk8097 10 ай бұрын

that random soprano clip 😂

@MommaOsoIrish67 3 ай бұрын

I'm now in my 50s. I've owned my own custom built home, I've been homeless, and everything ib between. I recently didca luttle self reflection on my dreams..what they used to be, and what they are now. I used to dream of being married, the big house on land, 2.5 kids, the shining new car, "white picket fence" life. Now, my dream is to have a safe, sound roof over my head with a comfortable bed, a reliable vehicle,and enough mobey to pay my bills without worry, pay for my medical needs and to keep healthy food in the fridge. I don't NEED designer clothes. I don't NEED flashy jewelry or the newest tech. Would it be nice to be able to travel and see new places? Yes. Would it be fun to be able to purchase something i see just because I want it? Yes. But I don't NEED to have enough money for those kinds of things in order to be at peace, to be happy.

@AmerigoGadsden 10 ай бұрын

I'm a hard-spoken introvert.

@mattnguyen1672 10 ай бұрын

Can you make one about aragorn

@EscapeRealityMedia 5 ай бұрын

what if your smile scares people asking for a friend

@TheRealHerbaSchmurba 10 ай бұрын

@carpediemearth 21 күн бұрын

Despite Brad Pitt being widely considered one of the most attractive men in the history of famous people, notice how the comments aren't all "be attractive", as they are in the videos highlighting women. When 90% of Brad's fame and supposed charm was from his attractiveness.

@United_Wings 10 ай бұрын

Amazing

@dowhatnow3560 4 ай бұрын

Adam Sandler was starstruck in that interview with Brad

@oyeeHunter 10 ай бұрын

Does it Mean Brad pitt is an Introvert 😮😮❤❤❤

@eristhdr2733 Ай бұрын

Alright….got it 1. warm soft body language 2. capture hooks with kindness 3. threaten harvey weinstein 4. join some academy

@peted2757 9 ай бұрын

Do a video on asap rocky

@dalecooper9942 3 ай бұрын

I have a secret habit of silently becoming Brad Pitt, and that makes me attractive

@cezreycor 2 ай бұрын

The lifekind. Perchance.

@miqueiassilvanascimento7331 6 ай бұрын

Vídeo top

@sentientAl 10 ай бұрын

aww I had no idea brad Pitt had a sweet personality

@isaisa967 9 ай бұрын

I feel like I am naturally charming. But I still get rude glances and people treat me like I’m nothing. I go to Uni here in Texas and I attended a frat event and literally everytime I was speaking theses people would roll their eyes

@scientiaorbis 9 ай бұрын

So maybe you might not be as "naturally charming" as you think?

@sancho608 9 ай бұрын

You’re probably just very cringe and socially unaware ngl

@TheGreatGYROFLUFF 6 ай бұрын

Does anyone know how to prevent the resentment response that people often have later down the line after you help them in a time of need? It's not an uncommon occurrence when people feel an immeasurable dept to someone who helped them for them to turn it into resentment to free them from the cognitive dissoance.