Cooper is the most accepting judgmental person i have ever seen

For Cooper's mom. Baby girl refers to a man who is comfortable in his masculinity, adorable and quirky. It's basically a term of endearment.

Shout out to the girl at the beginning who straight up said whooping children is abuse, you're on the track to being a fantastic mom 😎

So, I'm a parent. Not a gentle parent, but I don't hit or yell at my kids. But that doesn't mean giving in to your kids demands and tolerating disrespect. Discipline can also mean taking things away, giving them things to do that they aren't normally responsible for, or having to earn things back. Discipline doesn't always mean hitting.

“He’s a 10/10 but he wants to slap his girlfriends kids” is probably the most realistic version of that joke I’ve heard 😂

as a black person you have every right to roast tf out of that guys hair lmaooo

I interpreted Tristan's comments as both "she's too lenient" and "I don't know what I can and can't do here". Kids can be raised too leniently, so they don't follow rules and they don't listen to others. And he, as the boyfriend, might not have been sure what he could do. Can he put the kid in time-out? Can he take away privileges (ie screen time)? It's a weird line to walk. I don't think the implication was that he wanted to hit the kid, though.

14:39 I wanna defend homeboy here, I had a neighbor I was friends with works from home while his partner worked out of home and he ended up being a babysitter more than a boyfriend, his girlfriend didn’t even let him put her kid in timeout, either because gentle parenting or because she didn’t want him disciplining her son. But at some point you have to understand that your child care provider, whether it’s a partner, paid stranger, or family has a right to discipline the child, now always ALWAYS make it clear discipline ≠ hitting

Imagine being there and the woman your talking to says “I don’t believe in physical discipline” and you respond with “I would beat my kids” then wonder why she rejected you

You can tell Cooper has never laid a hand on Gustav....my man didn't even FLINCH lol. Proud of the healthy relationship you have with your pupper.

I also really respect tristen for not wanting to date a girl with kids because the trauma kids with single parents (not just mothers PARENTS) go through being introduced to the dates and partners just to see them broken up is terrible. I know not all single parents introduce their kids to their partners but I still think it would be hard for all parties even the ex partner after building a relationship with this child just to never see them again

This young man is so self aware you can hear his internal monologue in between his commentary and I’m subscribing

I love how the most horrible people who say the most out of pocket things are always the most surprised when they get buttoned, like you can see the confusion, the hurt on their face as they ask "why'd you reject me?? I only said I kill babies and eat their bones, why would you hit the button faster than humanly possible??"

The button really is just a series about Cooper judging people at this point

watching his rant about not buying a new car, while having bought one, is so real. i made a terrible decision & everyone needs this lecture

The misconception that gentle parenting makes kids spoiled is not only false but is more of a testament to parents who misunderstand gentle/responsive to mean allowing their kids to do whatever they want. In truth, gentle parenting is referring to a style of parenting where you treat your child with respect all the time, even when providing structure that they may not like. An example of this: if a child is complaining about going to bed, “I understand that you don’t want to settle down and go to bed, but you need to be in bed. Would you like me to read to you or sit with you for a bit as you fall asleep?” The options will vary as this is just one example. For perspective, a parent following parenting as we’ve seen might say “that’s too bad, go to bed” or something along those lines even if not as aggressive. The second example fails to show respect (would you accept being spoken to that way? Or want your kid to tolerate it when they’re older?), doesn’t validate the child in any way (this makes them feel unseen and as if their own feelings and desires don’t matter, not good for the self esteem), and it’s just not effective due to the aforementioned reasons. As someone who’s been a nanny for over 10 years and has seen and what happens when real gentle parenting takes place Tristan’s comment gives “I have 1 experience with gentle parenting and therefore I decided it makes kids spoiled.” Doubt he did any research to see if his prior partner was practicing proper gentle parenting before coming to that conclusion. Really infuriating because the opposite of gentle parenting is what we’ve seen for too long which is parents thinking they are authoritarians in their children’s lives from minor to great degrees. This kind of parenting leads to just as many issues as the “I just let my kid do whatever” parenting. Neither are helpful and real gentle parenting can honestly raise a better human race. Really wish people would do their research before they throw out uneducated opinions like that.

for cooper’s mum: babygirl is the most prestigious title you can give to a person, period. it means you raised a wonderful son who also has a really cool dog!

I love how this man goes off topic a lot, basically doing side quests with his mind and I love it so much because that's how my brain works too lmao

Cooper: Goes on a whole rant about how if unfair for her to not want a guy that is uncut Cooper a minute later: "its okay to have preferences" *I just find that so funny

I literally double took and smiled when the second guy came up. He was so attractive. This show is wild. 😂

for coopers mom; babygirl is what we call people who are precious and loveable, and a little silly goofy. it's just a silly little way to say "wow, he's so funny and precious" (and other things like that)

“Drag queens should be able to drag queen” and “GAY RIGHTS GAY RIGHTS GAY RIGHTS” is iconic

The fact the dog didn’t flinch when he raised his hand shows that he has actually never treated his dog like that, that is adorable 😿

As someone who just took the SAT, Cooper calling himself "circed-up" is just what I needed today

The fact Gus didn't flinch AT ALL, just proves how much he loves his dog. If literally ANYONE raises a hand, I instantly jump twelve miles.

“I don’t care whose kid it is - go over there, grab a tire iron and just start swingin” killed me. I’m dead. And I want this guy at my funeral.

Learning that Cooper listened to Hozier made me so indescribably happy. I love it when people love and appreciate the same things that I do!

I just stumbled upon this channel and have a missing piece in life. As a cosplayer, lover of What We Do In The Shadows, and someone who appreciates comedic commentary, this video offers everything I need and more. Thank you for existing, sir.

Learning that Cooper listens to Hozier was like when you're reading a book and all the plot threads are starting to connect. Of course he does, yes, that makes perfect sense. We need a Tier List (tipsy or not) of Hozier songs.

For cooper's mother, baby girl essentially means a sweet ol' boy, the nice type, the precious type. It is mostly used for people who look like the "bad boy" at first glance but are actually very soft. A cutie if you will.

31:40 as a woman named Kacey, this was more supportive than anything I’ve ever heard🙏

That's not even a mullet, that's a skullet.

I love that when he raises his hand and pretends like he's about to hit his dog he defends himself so adamantly but really the dog's reaction is all the defense he needs He didn't even flinch you can tell he wouldn't hit him XD

I would actually love to watch a video of Cooper showing us all what each painting is and why he likes them.

bro i love your videos and id rather watch them rather than the original videos (the button in this case) itself, it feels like a conversation you truly have mastered your craft

18:42 verbatim this is my motto!!! It’s so wild to hear someone else talk about used cars like this, I love it!! I’ve never had a car payment and I’ve been driving for almost 20 years 😊

Reading everyone explain babygirl to Cooper’s mom is almost as entertaining as watching Cooper’s emotional rollercoaster around the morality of judging others. 😂

cooper is so relieving to watch when u have adhd, cause usually i cant focus on a youtube video and i gotta like pause and take breaks multiple times in order to finish it, but cooper just goes on so many tangents that im always stimulated and i never lose focus lmao LUV U BBYGIRL

When cooper raised a hand to Gustav and puppy didnt even flinch, that's so wholesome you know he treats him well 🥹

I love the part where you (briefly) mention the Bible and feel the need to palette cleanse by chanting "gay marriage" and "trans rights". As a queer person and former christian, this just really amuses me~

A guy not letting his girlfriend have guy friends is a huge red flag, but here I think it's countered by the green flag of talking it out and taking it on a case-by-case basis. I like this guy.

cooper the what we do in the shadows reference was impeccable i love you

I don’t think I was ever able to sit trough a 45 min video until this one and fr I just discovered this channel not too long ago and it’s so good I love your videos

"An uncut gem" is quite a beautiful way to refer to whether or not someone has been circ'ed. Every video, Cooper manages to surprise me. Kudos dude 👏

Cooper. COOPER!! I randomly came across your videos today, this is my second one watching. Let me tell you, you have made me laugh louder and harder than any other channel has managed to accomplish in a very long time. You are awesome, please keep it up LOL!!!

The button is if Omegle made a dating show

Seeing cooper yell “RUNNN‼️” and then INSTANTLY regretting it and frantically explaining why he cant yell is so fucking funny😭

Okay I'm paused at 15 min in so i could be wrong, but i don't think that tristan thinking the kid is spoiled by his partner's "gentle parenting" necessarily means he thinks corporal punishment or authoritarian parenting is okay. There's definitely uninformed people who think "gentle parenting" means no parenting at all and they can produce spoiled rude kids. That said, if he DOES mean he thinks the kid should have been spanked and parented in an authoritarian style, I would also pass on him. I do like the hair and nails though, idk what those other girls are on about.

7:27 well that aged well

5:01 i love how the dog didnt even flinched, it shows how the dog trust and was never hit or exposed to any harm by the owner even behind cameras

"Are you circumcized?" The button was so outta pocket for that-

the fact that your dog didnt flinch when you pretended to hit him speaks a thousand words.

I think that it’s really cool that you like Percy Jackson!! Recently I got into the books and hopefully I’ll be getting the rest for my birthday (it’s in two days!!) so it’s cool to know that one of my favorite KZfaqrs also likes it! On Halloween I actually went as the girl version of Nico Di Angelo (he’s my favorite character). Just something I found cool and wanted to share!!

as a european the circumcision thing is so weird to me 😭

I'm ftm and you're basically my transition goals tbh, and the only person I would gladly have call me babygirl

For Cooper's mum: calling someone (especially men) babygirl is just a way of calling them cute. Like calling him a sweetheart or a cutie pie, but more joking in tone :)

I’m new here and I love you bro!!! You are so goofy in such a good way. You remind me of myself when I get all excited and start talking too fast and stumbling over my words - or forgetting them - and just rolling with it all while smiling. Anyway. I’m happy to have found your channel. I look forward to your fun commentary. 🤘🏼

I love this man so much. This video is like watching myself give commentary on a show because I never stfu

I think what Tristan meant was that he wasn't allowed to discipline, a lot of parents don't like it when their current partner starts acting like a parent to their kids.

god i love this man so much he literally makes my day

My one thing about him calling the women fake is that a lot of women switch to a “fake” or nicer demeanor as a way to protect themselves…

11:42 for miss cooper , that’s the definition of babygirl

to cooper's mom: We say cooper's a baby girl because cooper's actually three babies in a trench coat! And the leader is a girl! I hope this helps!

“Uncut gems” had me on the floor 😂 I hope copper finds the nicest of all the nice girls he seems like a angel.

The "but that's me" has infected my mind thanks to Cooper

31:30 Lazlo Cravensworth, what we do in the shadows. That was a really good impression!

That 'uterus' dance had me cracking up EVERY.SINGLE.TIME

For Tristan's case, gentle parenting can often go too gentle. My boyfriends neighbors are gentle parents and they kinda let go of their kids in general. They don't teach them to be calm at certain points or to use inside voices or to not try to peek over the fence into others backyards etc. Those kids are screaming and rioting all they and they never say ANYTHING. Only when one gets hurt they come in and do they lecture them about their behaviour and safety? No. They go "oh my baby come to mommy lemme kiss your booboo". One could kill the other and they wouldn't lecture or anything they would go "oh baby were you scared? Are you okay? It's okay mommy is here!" Like don't yell at your kids but damn step up and give them a stern talk at some points Edit: "that's just neglect" I know that, but that's what the parents call gentle parenting. Their excuse is they need to see how the world works for themselves and learn how to deal with it alone. These kids are 3 and 5 btw!

The Drake comment aged well..

You are genuinely one of the funniest people on KZfaq 😂 don’t stop being you

This is a message to coopers mother (explaining the phrase baby girl) 8:31 So basically 'baby girl' is fandom slang a male fictional character or celebrity of whom one is extremely fond especially a "bad boy" type reinterpreted as adorable,quirky or secretly soft hearted. Obviously theres alternate meanings so thats only one of the meanings hope this helped!

as a woman who loves fantasy and is still incredibly mad i wasn't born as an elf as is my birthright, IF YOU HAVE A SWORD. IF YOU ARE A MAN WITH A SWORD. SHOW ME. THATS MARRIAGE MATERIAL

I think the lyric you were originally thinking of from unknown/nth was the line “Do you know, I could break beneath the weight Of the goodness, love, I still carry for you That I'd walk so far just to take The injury of finally knowing you” but got sidetracked by his musical genius from work song because that song has so many Pslams-esque lyrics and overall SLAPS

I am loving your style with the paintings, would love to see a house tour please 😊

I have never seen such an accurate depiction of my ADHD in Cooper's tangents this entire video before 💀

I 1000% get where Great Value Drake is coming from when it comes to disciplining children who aren't yours-it can be a very tricky thing. "Discipline" doesn't always equal corporal punishment, it can be something as simple as verbally correcting a child, putting them in "time-out," taking away certain privileges, etc. So, I'm almost certain what he was getting at is that-being that he was at home with his exes child all day long-he was apprehensive about what his role was as an authority figure. If the child is acting out and being unruly, is it within his right to use his better judgment on how to correct the child, or does he just let the child run all over him because he's not the child's father? It's a tough spot to be in, for all parties involved.

why have i not discovered coopers channel earlier ??! i have never been this entertained by youtube content hes so real i love it

The first ever video I got to watch from your channel is this one and today and I do not regret clicking on this video at all and just wanted to let you know you made my day so much better. Just thought I’d let you know.😂 thanks for the funny video

I liked Tristan a lot. He's self assured, and nice to look at. Since he works at home, it's not fair for him to be expected to be a free babysitter. He should be allowed to have some form of discipline if she works away from the home.

When I watch cooper it always feels like FaceTiming a good friend to gossip about others

26:12 I love hozier and his pen belongs in a museum and seeing cooper’s appreciation for the woodland king felt so good in my soul

I am new to this channel and for 3 days I have been watching your videos! I can't get enough! I've never heard someone say someone is being "a little toot in a half" before. Too funny. I love the videos!

Juuuuuust for the record, there is often a discrepancy between people with kids and their new partners (not brand new, whoever they are moving forward in their life with, you know, moving in with or marrying or whatever) as far as discipline goes. A lot of people with kids don’t think their partner should discipline their child ~at all~, no matter what, even if it’s telling them not to jump on a bed or sending them to their room for something. I don’t know if that was Tristan’s issue, but it was definitely mine in a past relationship, so I get feeling awkward about maybe wanting to tell the kid to be quiet when he’s working or send the kid to their room or something, and maybe his ex didn’t like that. 🤷🏻

Cooper's rant about new cars comes at a time when I'm literally shopping for a new car. I feel attacked 😂

15:02 Gental parents don't yell either. That's probably what he wanted to do. "This is what will happen if you make this choice & you'll be responsible for the consequences/mess." is kinda what they do. It takes immense patience because they try to not yell. I'd be a no-touchy mom if I wanted kids.

im always high when i watch your videos and my favorite parts when you jokingly belt out worship songs because its funny af and reminds me of home hahahahah

Two things. 1) You are absolutely correct about Ross and Rachel and 2) The only thing more tragic than no one finding love on the button is Cooper getting cut off mid explaining his background

This episode had a suspiciously large amount of normal people, it's so uncomfy for me to see people on this show actually capable of carrying conversation and having genuine discussions. It felt wrong

Hearing you scream about Hozier, especially Unknown/Nth is literally so real. Love that song and album.

Normally I can’t watch a whole video but cooper can make me laugh and I can actually watch the whole thing with my adhd

Honestly one of the funniest series to watch is Cooper reacting to the button, never gets old

I have never been more seen and understood when I heard Cooper talking about new cars. Thank you. The number of people who don't like that I like and prefer used cars is astounding.

This is hilarious and your production is amazing 🤩 hope you’re enjoying your new place🎉😂

You are so chaotic and I’m here for it

Most of the things Cooper says is such a green flag. He has golden retriever boyfriend energy and I love it so much

this video is just 45 minutes of cooper simping for the tristan and casey

Cooper's Mom: Everyone is rocking the Baby Girl descriptions, so I'm just going to say thank you for helping mold such an amazing man. We need more Coopers in the world. ❤

yessssss i love that you watch what we do in the shadows ❤ that show needs more love

I love binging these button episodes while doing jigsaw puzzles 😂

"You are Kenough, you dont have to whallop your kids" was an iconic line tho lmaooo 🤣😭💀