Hi Chad can you try to contact me, you know how it works here... please????

I want to hire you. I have an addiction called "nobody hears me" and the NH anonymous group ghosted me

You will love all of Dr. Gabor’s work! I started with, “When the body says no.” How unresolved trauma creates illness in the body and so forth. Welcome to the fan group!

We need a transcript. Can you make one (or obtain one)?

I want to invite friends and family over to watch this video and have a discussion around it. I think this is one of the most important psychological interviews ever recorded.

So potent on their own, to see them together is such a treat.

that emoji implies sarcasm, which i don’t think you mean, do you?

I totally agree. Two of my favorite human beings.

Can I add to your list Gabor’s son Aaron, a tenacious and principled truth teller.

@@odiferousmusky1299 I follow Aaron's Substack and Useful Idiots. It was mentioned that Gabor will be on Useful Idiots, which is exciting news.

Omg I love these two too. Lol when I saw this interview I watched it immediately. Brilliant and good people! ✌️💯

Agree. A match made in heaven. Such clarity. And such efficient communicators.

Exactly. The number of genuine investigative journalists unafraid of speaking truth to power has dwindled seriously.

Elite, you can also trust TYT programs, I recommend.

@@gusmarokity6482 Thanks, Gus. I used to do those folks. So many talking heads now are repeats of what we find out through 'due diligence' on a daily basis.

Try MultiPolarista by Ben Norton and Amit Sengupta.

@@gusmarokity6482 I disagree. Cenk only cares about winning and making money. The journalism is notnprinciple and grounded in truth.

Died and gone to heaven lol. Now if Chris brings in Michael Hudson....✨⚡

So true, so very true.

Lack of interpersonal love you mean, some people will destroy you with THEIR self love lol!!!!

@@averayugen8462 wouldnt it be intrapersonal love?

@@averayugen8462 Not their self love, their self loathing masquerading as such with relentless self aggrandizing aka narcissism.

People are supposed to learn Self Love by BEING loved.

i was wondering if there was a relation there. i enjoy Aaron Mate's analyses almost all the time.

In the Realm saved my life

I could listen to these two talk for weeks. Two tremendously well read individuals with wisdom grounded in experience among the suffering of the world... It's a shame to restrict their conversation to any topic.

I totally concurr!!!

Too generous. This man is a workaholic with a sleep deficit. Sadly, his generosity is to our benefit🙁

Prayers.

one day. it is possible.

It is always now. Past is gone. Future is not here. Embrace the gift of the present ❤

O, you poor thing...have you not heard of Dr. Bessel van der Kolk? He actually tells you how to fix trauma. GM just likes to hear himself talk.

@@cosmos1927 Those sound interesting. For me, I embrace the precepts of collectivism, but I've never thought about how government by consensus could affect interpersonal and familial relationships. Thanks for the recommendations, I'll check them out.

We see these traits play out in America's addiction to permanent war. Permanent war, requires permanent censorship & permanent propaganda. The US has intervened militarily in other countries 251 times since 1991 - Congressional Research Office info - excluding covert ops. In all its history the US has fought nearly 500 wars with 251 of them being in the last 30 years.

Good decision!!!!

I can relate. I find myself more and more interested in my very early years that I don't really remember. I'd love to know how my Mom & Dad interacted with me, as well as my older siblings. I imagine that you would have absorbed the trauma of your father's death very powerfully through the grieving of your Mother and other loved ones. Maybe asking your Mom about her feelings and reaction to the death might help you better understand it's impact on you.

Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m glad you made that connection. My father was not emotionally available nor did he play with me or feel comfortable hugging me. I’m 73 now and am just connecting the dots. Is it possible for me to have a healthy relationship with a man? My father died from a brain tumor in 1988. He was 65.

@@SusanPrattDesign ya that is hard. I've already resigned myself to a loveless life, so I don't really have any answers for you. Sometimes "don't know" is the only answer, which is to see yourself as a spirit inhabiting somebody who went through these things that you had to witness. Sometimes I say, these things didn't happen to ME. I witnessed these things through the eyes of a human being that i was placed inside of. A wise person once told me, memories are just stories. We watch them in our heads like movie reels and like any normal person feel the emotions. I was once instructed to think this way and it can help in the moment of despair to see your memories as someone else's movie. It's strange psychology and it almost hurts to say your own painful experiences were not yours as though you're dismissing the pain. But the idea is to be free of the pain, so it does need to be dismissed, just in the right way. That way is by not seeing yourself as trapped in a movie, but as the one who is watching the movie. Then you can get an objective look when you aren't the object being hurt, and I find that it helps me work through painful memories. The only difficult part was the memory of emotion that I couldn't connect to an actual event. I couldn't play out a movie and watch objectively, it was just this raw feeling floating around my psyche. Now that I've made the connection, when I'm in pain I can tell myself that I'm watching the movie about a 2 year old who loses their father, struggles and overcomes. And since it's a movie, I can pause it whenever I want and come back later or just choose to watch other things.

@@SusanPrattDesign Yes Susan,it's possible for you even now to have a healthy relationship with a man.My background is parallel to yours.I am your age and have been in a relationship with a kind soul for 13 years, who is 29 years my junior.We are both artists and this helps.I value my time alone and so does he.We are very connected and grateful to be in a relationship.Don't give up!

I hope you can get qualified support on your healing journey, Mr. Campbell. Listening to this interview is an excellent beginning! Perhaps someday also attending one of Dr. Maté's retreats in Mexico. This present painful phase ("sitting with" your bypassed trauma - "idleness" - , seemingly overcome/sublimated by your well-rewarded work addiction/career) could be the beginning of an amazing new chapter of the last third of your life. There is an opportunity here for a glorious recovery, Rob, that could simultaneously soften, inspire and heal backwards and forwards across the generations. I believe your entire family will benefit from your burgeoning transformational experience and the ripple effect will elicit and enable a deeper, much more joyful kind of trust and love, 'a peace that transcends/surpasses understanding' (Philippians). I wish you God speed, courage, strength and victory as you like Michael begin your battle with the dragon of your past.

You worked 20 hours a day in an office? 20 hours multiplied by 5 days = 100 hours per week. I often find it hard to believe when people say they work 100 hour weeks. If you have a commute of 1 hour, that means you sleep for 3 hours per day. I often think people exaggerate a wee bit.

One possibility is to check out the work, especially the latest work of Dr. Richard Swartz - IFS or Internal Family Systems, and the work of Bessel Van der Kolk (his book is called 'The Body Keeps The Score' and resources mentioned here). Gabor Mate's books mention both these and other resources and healing paths. He also talks about work and other addictions in his books (including the latest), and most specifically 'In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction'. Best wishes on your healing to great wholeness path.

Never too late to feed your soul.

Profit indeed! WHen Dr Mate says, there is a major gap between the body of science and what gets taught at med schools, I couldn't help thinking of the enormous gap between the existing climate science and the direction the gov'ts of the world are taking on the climate crisis.

😂Understand!

I often find myself thinking about the history behind inequality and one thing that recently struck me was that white people dominate America today because of actions taken hundreds of years ago. Like, we are as the founding fathers wanted, to ensure that generations of their progeny (white) continued to dominate, if only through imposed austerity in a post-racialized world. The slaves got what they wanted and here we are as descendants holding onto that power. It makes chasing wealth seem like such a fraud.