The Church Finally Fights Back Against Fake News

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@WordsofMormon
@WordsofMormon 5 ай бұрын
The Church Needs to Sue AP for libel. I’m super willing to see our tithing dollars fight back against the slime in the media.
@shireecox122
@shireecox122 Жыл бұрын
So good to have you three back together again.
@evanmichelson7229
@evanmichelson7229 Жыл бұрын
I’m an active member. I’m aware of another abuse situation exactly like the Bisby one. My belief is that the help line did not understand the Arizona law and was giving incorrect information to bishops here and creating terrible situations. A very good member of my stake who is a lawyer sued the church for practicing law without an Arizona license. He lost the law suit. He is still in a calling requiring great trust. I hope this has been corrected. I don’t think there was evil intent by the helpline but they are responsible for the situation of which I am aware.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
There really aren't that many people saying the church or its helpline had evil intentions, as in they desired to make someone suffer. The argument is that the church cares more about it's image and it's funds than it does about doing the right thing and protecting people from abuse Edit: in other words, their priorities are out of line with Christ's teachings
@evanmichelson7229
@evanmichelson7229 Жыл бұрын
@@jonbaker476 Something is definitely not right here. I hope it gets corrected.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
​@@evanmichelson7229 fair enough
@bradhardisty1652
@bradhardisty1652 Жыл бұрын
Down here in Pensacola, I had no idea what you guys were talking about. It's not in any news cycle here. It would be great if all these types of things could completely stop but they come up now and then in every church or school or in any situation where there is opportunity for somebody who shouldn't be in a position like that. The only thing that we can do is prosecute and then see if there is a way to change processes to protect better in the future. It's sad that these things can happen.
@realtomtomeny
@realtomtomeny Жыл бұрын
Yay to the Church and Yay to the MM's for bringing it into more light.
@dhr161
@dhr161 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad the church realized that when a news source lies and defames you, you need to stand up and correct the record. People will believe the lies if you don't respond. Too often we let lies circulate without response and don't defend the church - which is partly why so many people get misled.
@RurouniTenShins
@RurouniTenShins Жыл бұрын
Where was the defamation or lies? The bull of the article came from legal documents acquired in a FOIA request.
@lkv1321
@lkv1321 Жыл бұрын
@Veritas liberabit vos many sat back for 2,557 days and didn't do a damn thing. I couldn't sleep knowing a child was abused, her mother was battered and the bishop knew about it.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
​@Veritas liberabit vos they literally stood back and let a little girl be sexually abused for multiple years when they knew about it and had the option and power to put a stop to it... I don't think that word means what you think it means
@hereandnow3534
@hereandnow3534 Жыл бұрын
The church is quick stand up and protect the good name of the church. If only they would do the same for children.
@Ziplock95
@Ziplock95 Жыл бұрын
YES!! This is what we need. We finally have seen the Church take a STRONG stance against our oppressors. We won't tolerate it anymore. I love it.
@clearstonewindows
@clearstonewindows Жыл бұрын
It's because it's about kids.
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
Children were raped. And the it's the church being oppressed...Holy crap - the persecution complex is strong... 🤢
@clearstonewindows
@clearstonewindows Жыл бұрын
@@cabbagebaker did you watch the video? The reason people are mad and the church made a statement is because it's about protecting kids and how important that is. I feel like your words cut both ways
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
@@clearstonewindows I did. I'll tell you why I'm mad. The church **talks** about protecting kids while, in this case at the very least, they failed in their actions egregiously. I'm an unbeliever but I'm no "anti-mormon" in the sense I want the church to burn down. And yet the church absolutely needs to do better when it comes to protecting kids. These PR statements mean nothing- they are what I'd expect from any real estate, hedge fund corporation looking to minimize the damage - not from God's One True Church. I for one hope these kids take the church to the cleaners and anyone who feels they are oppressed because of cases like this should take a long look at why they feel that way. 🤷‍♂️
@Allthoseopposed
@Allthoseopposed Жыл бұрын
“Our oppressors”? Really?
@emilywilson9632
@emilywilson9632 Жыл бұрын
I just noticed this article about an hour ago. I'm so glad the Church isn't just taking this on the chin. I wish you guys would respond to John Dehlin's shows on this topic. The AP Article was like Christmas for him.
@jasonhall4223
@jasonhall4223 Жыл бұрын
The church should be knocked down by this. Anyone arguing that the Helpline is structured to protect victims, is wearing blinders.
@alatterdaysaintonfire5643
@alatterdaysaintonfire5643 Жыл бұрын
I love your show it offers the public especially a Latter-day Saint on fire a place to get info on such topics as you speak of today. I agree animals have no place in humanity especially those who harm children as was discussed today. But we must remember that redemption is for all, even those who were at one time the Laminates who then buried their weapons of war. Even though we must use extreme consequences on those who violate humanity, but we often forget that our mortal existence is as small of a moment in the scale of eternity as if it never existed at compared, but to us as mortal being, it is our entire existence, because we have nothing to compare it to outside of the reality in the which we exist.
@lkv1321
@lkv1321 Жыл бұрын
They can redeem themselves in prison, and keep them away from innocent people.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
yes and it was also Jesus that said it would be better for them to drown in the sea than to be let free after doing something so atrocious
@3DFLYLOW
@3DFLYLOW Жыл бұрын
Listen to yourselves. Oh it's not as bad as they say guys. Absolutely incredible.
@lumanwalters_
@lumanwalters_ Жыл бұрын
Yes . The author of the ap article also uncovered what was going on in the Catholic Church. Brad. Buddy. The reason it seems like it's a "wildly different situation" is because this time it's about your religion instead of someone else's. It could be that you are too close to the situation to see this from an unbiased point of view. This is a church you've spent many, many hours defending so I would imagine there could be just as much evidence as there was in the Catholic Church but you won't ever be able to see it. Abuse is happening in the mormon church. I've seen it happen to people I love. The church has to own up to it and it has to do better.
@dcarts5616
@dcarts5616 Жыл бұрын
The exmo community has an axe to grinde against the church they used to belong to and that they conveniently claim to have “abused” them for having standards. If they say anything, 99% of the time it’s a lie or so nuanced that it is inaccurate and only shows their bias. I always know that when an exmo or angry soon to exit jonbaker, or JH or MS type member speaks, it’s usually not true. I hate that this happened, I feel bad for all involved. The abuser will be held to account, the abused will probably suffer the rest of her/his mortal life due to the abuse, and those who were involved will always question how things could be handled better in the future. I’m glad that the “most honest news company on Earth” got taken to task for being liars.
@mda78803
@mda78803 8 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@Cyber_Cowboy
@Cyber_Cowboy Жыл бұрын
16:13 "and where's their helpline" Um we start with the local police department or 911 if necessary. How is that for a helpline to start out with?
@Telavian
@Telavian Жыл бұрын
The bishop could have reported anonymously if he was really worried.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
@@Telavian On a personal level, yes, report w/o calling help line or terminate pedo. Too much "niceness" over "correctness" has permeated Church culture.
@gateway6827
@gateway6827 Жыл бұрын
These 3 guys are theater guys, which is appropriate for what Mormonism is.
@WARDRADIO
@WARDRADIO Жыл бұрын
***yawn*** great dad joke dude.
@robbhays8077
@robbhays8077 9 ай бұрын
Agree with Brad. We don't know what the Bishop knew. Something doesn't add up here.
@RamseyDewey
@RamseyDewey Жыл бұрын
I’m halfway through this podcast and I still have no idea what is being discussed. Is there some kind of link to the story?
@j.d.jessop1495
@j.d.jessop1495 Жыл бұрын
Man this sucks…
@hereandnow3534
@hereandnow3534 Жыл бұрын
There are 2500 lds Boy Scouts that have filed suit. The hotline isn’t transparent. We do not know how many calls, how many lawsuits, how many settlements.
@jameshasapoint7628
@jameshasapoint7628 Жыл бұрын
I love The Church of Jesus Christ and stand forward and defend her; but the helpline exists only to protect the corporate assets of the corporation.
@danascully7358
@danascully7358 Жыл бұрын
According to you, that means that the brethren don't care about helping the bishops or the victims. Sorry, I don't buy it. It may be there to protect them but that isn't the only reason.
@oneal187
@oneal187 Жыл бұрын
@@danascully7358 “brethren don’t care” You nailed it
@mr.hansholmes2367
@mr.hansholmes2367 Жыл бұрын
You love lies.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
I sincerely respect your ability to speak honestly and not give in to group-think just because church members are pressuring you
@BenAnderson1
@BenAnderson1 8 ай бұрын
I would love to see you post all of your content on Rumble.
@mca4093
@mca4093 Жыл бұрын
People do shitty things. Large organizations have beaucratic failures.
@tgrogan6049
@tgrogan6049 Жыл бұрын
12:43 So the hotshot lawyers on the hotline were “confused “ about Arizona law??? WOW! It all makes perfect sense !!! 🤮
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
The AZ, UT, CA, MA (& more) laws are all somewhat weird. The Church was sued by a pedo's wife (last year?) for Bp reporting her husband to police. It's not that simple.
@tgrogan6049
@tgrogan6049 Жыл бұрын
@@BlueHalfVision And it was thrown out!
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
@@tgrogan6049 Yet the concern to operate within Caesar's laws exist. I personally say, "Report (or remove pedo's from mortality regardless of state law." To advance general narrative that ANY church hides abuse committed by a mere congregant is ridiculous. THAT was Rezendez' thesis and headline.
@noespensos
@noespensos Жыл бұрын
Hey dad, what does what-about-is-mean? Here son, check out this KZfaq video:
@WARDRADIO
@WARDRADIO Жыл бұрын
Son: “what Is ‘church derangement syndrome’ dad”? Me: “just read the comments section on our video kid…”
@vegadog3053
@vegadog3053 Жыл бұрын
It's a system that fails too often and needs to be restructured.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
I agree. The American journalist monarchy fails WAY too often. How are reporters allowed to receive? I'm glad we agree.
@vonsowards1297
@vonsowards1297 Жыл бұрын
What?! Fake news reports fake news and enemies of the Church use it to get gain! I’m shocked!! Also, I said this on the live stream video but I am going to say it again just to hammer it home: We need y’all to have on these peeps: -Shad Brooks from Shadiversity and Knight’s Watch -Micheal B Rush who wrote A Remnant Shall Return -Meghan Farner from The Latter-day Disciple Podcast -Greg Matsen from Cwic Media -And always more Jacob Hansen!
@shireecox122
@shireecox122 Жыл бұрын
Greg Madsen. For sure.
@utahtrucker1372
@utahtrucker1372 Жыл бұрын
The Church has a Spine?? 😂 That’s awesome, lately it’s felt like they were turning woke.
@lkv1321
@lkv1321 Жыл бұрын
Woke: "alert to injustice in society, especially racism" more people should be woke especially a church with Jesus Christ in the name.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
give it another twenty years. that's usually how long it takes for them to change their doctrines and policies to fit the era
@westonwoodbury3011
@westonwoodbury3011 Жыл бұрын
The policy should be protect the victims no matter the consequences report every time? Is it not true that for every state if the child is in danger you can report? It should be law the you have to report! It should be law that you can’t be sued for reporting! So it does seem that by telling them not to report your trying to protect the bishop the church and indirectly the predators while the child continues to suffer, screw that! What am I missing? I always want to defend this church, which I love. Help me out here!
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
We'll said. The Church is WAY too nice to the world and it's culture. Lets punch the world squarely in the nose.
@BrendonKing
@BrendonKing Жыл бұрын
I am no friend of the church, but in this instance I think it's safe to say an individual dropped the ball without throwing the whole org. under the bus. I think the bishop screwed up big time by not following through and reporting this to the authorities; I think the individual the bishop received consultation from screwed up by inaccurately interpreting AZ law. A few parties could have done more, and an injustice resulted from this. That's how it be sometimes. I think people who take it to go "oh the church defends predators" is just looking for some chaos to revel in.
@latterdayskeptic
@latterdayskeptic Жыл бұрын
Love how you can’t spend more than 5 minutes talking about your own church before shifting blame to exmormons and John Dehlin. Never forget, Joseph Smith married a 14 year old and multiple under aged women.
@WARDRADIO
@WARDRADIO Жыл бұрын
You are not a skeptic, intelligent, or enlightened. You’re a base, tribalist who fools himself into thinking his sophomoric musings are intelligent thoughts.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
Remember- At the time, age of consent laws weren't universal, nor are today's age. As recently as 2000, Colorado age of consent was only 1 year older (15).
@alwaysentertained
@alwaysentertained Жыл бұрын
It was made abundantly clear in this episode that the blame was placed on the abuser, non Skeptic. Did you even listen?
@jesustheechrist714
@jesustheechrist714 Жыл бұрын
Wait why did @Midnight Mormons delete the last comments on this thread?
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
@@jesustheechrist714 A guess- MMs didn't. Period. Cardin has integrity even if he disagrees with something (And I don't even know him, outside of his local L.A. mini-celebrity status). Possibly a direct report to KZfaq or AI algorithm. I've had my posts mysteriously vanish on several YT channels. Important- The way a certain group jumps to "victim" status, blaming those who they dislike, is telling. It's EXACTLY what many comments here do- Charge Church conspiracy instead of Church mistake.
@daftPirate15
@daftPirate15 Жыл бұрын
It isn't fake news, though. The AP article pointed out that as a result of the use of this help line, a child's abuse went unreported, continued, and was repeated on another child, when it didn't have to be. That's factually true. The church detailing the timeline doesn't expose any conflict with what AP reported: Adams made a confession, Herrod was advised not to report, Herrod continued to meet with Adams and involved his wife without success, and at any point after the confession Herrod was legally free to report the abuse to authorities and didn't. Adams' excommunication doesn't change or impact that, nor does the frequency of his attendance. There's no implication at all in the AP article that Herrod knew anything he couldn't have back in 2011. Is there genuinely something about these details or this timeline that you feel recontextualizes the premise that Herrod, with a confession of abuse in 2011, was advised not to report it to authorities despite there being no legal reason he could not, and that this was bad? All that's actually "called out" in this statement is info that doesn't pertain to the problem. Even in the court proceedings the church asserted that its defense is not based on Herrod being legally prohibited from reporting, but rather that he was not legally *obligated* to. Speaking to Brad's suggestion near the beginning (4:22) that Herrod wouldn't have withheld a report if he knew the extent of the abuse, he knew *a lot*. Leizza Adams' sentencing hearing has the interviewing agent's testimony that Herrod told him that Adams admitted to both the nature and frequency of the abuse in this "limited confession". This seems like such a weird approach. Cardon's on there saying more than once, "Yeah, someone dropped the ball here." Even mentions later that it's heinous to rely on getting an abuser to self confess. Yes, that's right, because the AP article is a real, accurate story, and not fake. The families (the article mentions 3 cases in different states) claims that this system can be misused in a way that keeps abuse reports from reaching the proper authorities is borne out as accurate. Brad's pointing out how this is coming from the same person who helped expose abuse in the Catholic church; is it safe to assume you felt that was accurate and/or necessary reporting? But now it's highlighting a problem in the LDS church, and we need to view it with caution? We do agree that if bishops are being advised not to report abuse, that's a problem right? Especially when no law prohibits them, as was the case here? But really, even if doing so came with the risk of a lawsuit, it should simply be policy to report. We should be grateful this problem, this vulnerability, has been exposed so that it can be fixed, not praising the church offices for having enough "spine" to fight back against, ultimately, victims of abuse whose suffering was made worse by this problem, in a statement that probably ought to have been made along with acknowledgement of a substantive change instead of ending with a "Let's be better."
@lkv1321
@lkv1321 Жыл бұрын
100% correct. The church usually corrects bad policies etc. from the bottom up, thank goodness, hope it will again.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
well ducking said my friend
@danascully7358
@danascully7358 Жыл бұрын
Here is what I can tell you... EVERY SINGLE CHURCH and EVERY school and EVERY govt org and every business, at some point, has abuse that has not been dealt with perfectly. They may have chosen to not do anything or didn't have enough information/ evidence to do anything or something else along those lines. I was severely abused by my boss at my last job. So were other women. I came forward with 14 pages that I read to the Assistant superintendent and gave them names who would corroborate what I said. THEY DID NOTHING. People aren't perfect. They make decisions that come back to bite them in the butt. Are the brethren trying to do the best they can? Yes, I believe they are. Are some decisions going to be bad decisions that affect others negatively? Yes. Because, again, ppl are imperfect and every group, however you break it down, is imperfect.
@daftPirate15
@daftPirate15 Жыл бұрын
@@danascully7358 That's fine. I'm not asking that they be perfect, or expecting them to be. I'm asking that we honestly acknowledge when they're not and use it to improve, instead of trying to depict those discoveries as "fake news" or being pleased with the church "fighting back" against, what? Irrelevant timeline details? Though we're dealing with imperfection, it doesn't mean relaxing the standard to excuse shortcomings. It means tackling those shortcomings to better meet the standard if and when the situation happens again.
@tgrogan6049
@tgrogan6049 Жыл бұрын
How did what the church did PROTECT THE VICTIM from danger??? “Seek counseling “ Really ?? some kid is getting raped and you tell the rapist to “seek counseling “
@madmanmanx
@madmanmanx Жыл бұрын
You missed the entire point of the entire podcast. Your hatred blinds you.
@emilywilson9632
@emilywilson9632 Жыл бұрын
The Bishop thought he was prohibited from reporting it. You can argue about the law, but that's what he believed. The Bishop after him thought that too.
@Telavian
@Telavian Жыл бұрын
@@madmanmanx I think you did. Who cares about the letter of the law. Shouldn't the LDS church do what is right and let the consequences follow? Why do they have a hotline that is connected to a law firm in the first place? It is so they can CYA.
@tgrogan6049
@tgrogan6049 Жыл бұрын
@@madmanmanx Nice mind reading! Ad Hominem is the name of the game for you guys! “Hey bishop I am raping my daughter but only a little bit” Bishop: “Wow I think you should repent and get counseling…… durr durr” Really?????
@tgrogan6049
@tgrogan6049 Жыл бұрын
@@Telavian My point exactly! So much for “absolute morality “!
@Telavian
@Telavian Жыл бұрын
I am sure in some cases the hotline helps however in other cases, like this one, it doesn't go far enough. The main question is why is the LDS church doing the minimum reporting possible? Should they not be using their massive power and wealth to seek to protect victims as much as possible? Why not lobby to get a state and federal laws to protect reporters of child sexual abuse and require reporting?
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
​@Veritas liberabit vos are you serious? that's what you got out of his comment? the problem IS THE CHURCH. Why are they not vying for more protection? why are they actively choosing to report the bare minimum? why is it the government's job to constantly make sure the church is being Christlike and doing the right thing? the government made them quit polygamy, the people pressured them to get rid of racist teachings, and now it's supposed to be the government that makes changes to help the world once again and protect sexual abuse victims? pick up the damn ball for once and stop blaming other people for the church's bad decisions. the first step of repentance is admitting fault. the Brethren need to practice what they preach
@hereandnow3534
@hereandnow3534 Жыл бұрын
@Veritas liberabit vos gods church should do the right and moral thing and not the legal minimum.
@harshitgarg419
@harshitgarg419 11 ай бұрын
mistakes happen and going to jail often has the opposite affect of what people hope. hence by being gracious we hope to demonstrate that even the worse among us are able to recover. however, personally, I think the definition of abuse needs to be watered down, too easily met.
@willbresette3851
@willbresette3851 Жыл бұрын
The LDS church did a great job here and I’ve got to give them mad props. As a Catholic, what the bad priests and bishops in the Catholic Church has done with many of the abuses is just heinous. I just want to add a few things to the seal of confession real quick. Confession was laid out biblically in John 20:21-23. There are 4 requirements for a valid confession: contrition, confession, penance, and a resolve to never do it again. In other words, in order for a confession to be valid the person must be sorry for their sins not just because they dread the loss of heaven an the pains of hell, but most of all because they love God and have separated themselves from God (contrition). Next they must confess their sins to a priest who has the jurisdiction from his bishop to give confession in their diocese, which includes confessing what happened and as many details surrounding the situation as they can give to get the point across (confession). Then the priest gives them a penance to do after making a confession, which can vary depending on the type of sin committed. For really public scandals like murder and others, a public confession is required for validity, and many times that means going to the authorities and turning yourself in. For less serious things, penance of prayers are usually given. Finally there must be a resolution to never do it again. This doesn’t mean it won’t happen again, but it does mean you must avoid any near occasion of it happening again to the extent of it being possible because you’re a fallen creature with the temptations to do it again. If any of these 4 are lacking, then a valid confession is not present and the one will not enter heaven with a mortal sin still staining their soul.
@rconger384
@rconger384 Жыл бұрын
Hi Will. We have steps for valid repentance that sound so similar. I remember teaching them as s missionary in Scotland and Northern Ireland back in '79-'81 and I would say the principles are the same as what you laid out here even if we use different glossary. BTW- Props to your Archbishop Carlo Vigano who when he was being attacked for not being progressive enough said: "The Truth is always discriminatory whenever error places it into question." Such fortitude in the face of ambivalence about The Truth! Such courage in the face of overt corruption! If you want to read something of what we have I will put here on a link in the next comment space.
@lkv1321
@lkv1321 Жыл бұрын
I don't give a damn about the abusers soul, I do give a damn about the victims. Let the abuser suffer the consequence. And maybe they can redeem themselves.
@suzannedehaven6775
@suzannedehaven6775 Жыл бұрын
I live in Arizona....the mormon bishops are mandatory to report any kind of abuse by law....I bet CPS of Arizona dropped the ball in this case....and maybe some of the cops did too...
@devinbateman243
@devinbateman243 Жыл бұрын
Arizona Laws 12-2233. Clergyman or priest and penitent In Arizona, the law is that a clergyman cannot be compelled to testify what was confessed to him in a courtroom setting unless the privilege is waived by the penitent. IT IS A TESTIMONIAL PRIVILEGE ONLY. Read it, it's referenced above. This means that there was absolutely no legal prohibition on a bishop from reporting to authorities in Arizona. In Arizona, clergy are also not required reporters (a recent bill in Arizona that would have required clergy to be mandatory reporters failed, no doubt because of, at least in part, lobbying by the church). So when the bishops found out about the abuse they had the choice to either report or not. It's Kirton McConkie job (the "hotline") to know these laws inside and out, for every state. No doubt Kirton McConkie knew the bishops could report without any legal consequence, and they advice to the bishops not to report. Why? It seems to be a matter of policy, concocted by the church and it's lawyers, that when bishops don't have to report, the standard advice by the church's attorney's is not to report. This begs the question, from a policy and procedures perspective (meaning the actual actions taken by the church, not just the words condemning child abuse, which is the most obvious thing in the world to condemn) does the church prioritize it's own interests above the victims? A reasonable mind could conclude it does!
@crunchymamakat6656
@crunchymamakat6656 Жыл бұрын
This^^^
@Telavian
@Telavian Жыл бұрын
Of course. The church wants to do the absolutely minimum required so they don't suffer consequences. However what about the victim? Does the church care about them?
@tgrogan6049
@tgrogan6049 Жыл бұрын
@@Telavian Church comes first!
@devinbateman243
@devinbateman243 Жыл бұрын
@Veritas liberabit vos Anyone can be sued for any reason. I can go down the courthouse and file a lawsuit against any entity that exists for any reason I make up. The issue is what are the chances of that lawsuit succeeding, under the law. So the Oregon women sued the church, but it was immediately dismissed because the bishop had immunity, by law, when he reported. The litmus test isn't whether a lawsuit might happen, but the whether the lawsuit is successful or not.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
@@Telavian Wrong. Watch the two MM episodes again.
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
Holy crap...I had no idea who Tom Kimball was before this podcast. Based on this show I've looked into him. Here's what I've discovered based on the experience of the victim herself. She was abused at the age of 7 by her teenage uncle (the aforementioned Tom Kimball). She reported this abuse to her bishop (who was also the local SHERIFF!! 😠) about 6 or 7 years later as she attempted a return to church activity. What did this bishop do? Did he arrest this man? Did he get this poor girl's parents involved? Nope...he gave her the Miracle of Forgiveness and encouraged her to repent. 🙁 Another 5 or so years later she reported the abuse to her family. What did they do? Shunned her. Go ahead and judge the exmo community, I don't know enough to say if the judgement is unfair or not. But I do know another bunch of victims could've been avoided if the church had just done something when abuse was reported to them. Go listen to Dayna Kimball's story and judge for yourself. All of this just makes me sick...
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
@Veritas liberabit vos No argument from me. I hope you hold the church to at least the same standard. EDIT: What the heck dude? Why did you delete your post? You said: *Tom Kimball was a VERY bad ex Mormon who deserves to burn in h-e- double hockey sticks. Only (ONLY) 3 days ago Dehlin removed podcasts with his buddy, Tom. SHAME ON DEHLIN FOR LETTING TOM OFF THE HOOK FOR CHILD ABUSE ALL THESE YEARS!* I agree, those who allow for the abuse of children should feel enormous shame. Dehlin had a podcast up. I have no idea what he knew about Kimball's deeds before it all came out. Did he knowingly enable the abuse? I've seen no evidence of such. The church had a confessed abuser of the worst kind in the Bishop's office "counselling" with him for years. This is according to the court testimony of the investigator in this case and his interviews with the bishop. The Truth shall set you free, brother.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
@@cabbagebaker Absolutely : ) So at worst, I see clergy mistakes to be corrected.
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
@@BlueHalfVision That's one way to put it I suppose. I would personally use much stronger language.
@danascully7358
@danascully7358 Жыл бұрын
The family sounds very messed up. If he was the sheriff, then maybe he knows the law better than you? I don't think the book The Miracle of Forgiveness was for her to repent but to help her forgive. If you are trying to make things always seem their worst, you'll always be able to find that angle. Why not try and search for the truth? Sounds like your biases are too much for that.
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
@@danascully7358 Listen for yourself- Latter day Survivors podcast, Dayna Kimball. Family is Mormon royalty (victim's words, not mine) and yes. Very, very messed up. I think I try very hard to determine the truth and not let my biases cloud my judgement. I have no irrational hatred for Mormonism, I know many wonderful members - there are some good things about Mormon culture. And yet, I'm not sure how one puts the best spin on child rape? Or those who do not immediately report it? 🤨
@delburroughs171
@delburroughs171 Жыл бұрын
I am a active member and aware of a bishop did not do the right thing and let the molester go free.
@WARDRADIO
@WARDRADIO Жыл бұрын
You mean he disobeyed Church policy?
@justjamie7577
@justjamie7577 Жыл бұрын
The reporter tried to make the church look as bad a possible but didn't bother to go after the mother who knew this was happening.
@t5l239
@t5l239 Жыл бұрын
The helpline is to cover Liability. Shred. The Bishop was told he'd be sued. The Bishop knew, because of the confession, that the man's abuse with his minor daughter AND Infant was recorded and online.
@fightswordradio3735
@fightswordradio3735 Жыл бұрын
Cardon going full send at 31:00
@RurouniTenShins
@RurouniTenShins Жыл бұрын
But I mean… the hotline clearly puts liability first…
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
Wrong. Watch both episodes again.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
​@@BlueHalfVision Wrong. You're just saying nonsense again with no facts or evidence.
@adamwineera
@adamwineera 5 ай бұрын
Is it true that Joseph and hyrum smith publicly taught that polygamy was a practice of the devil.. and those who practiced it would go to hell.. can you find this public talk for us to read for ourselves.. and do you think there is a connection to that evil practice and the evil practice of abuse
@joeoleary9010
@joeoleary9010 Жыл бұрын
The church’s published policy on its official website, titled “Protecting members and reporting abuse,” instructs bishops, branch presidents, and stake presidents that “the first responsibility of the church in abuse cases is to help those who have been abused and to protect those who may be vulnerable to future abuse.” But that's not really true, because it's also the Church's policy that confession of abuse LDS clergy is confidential where allowed by state law.
@Telavian
@Telavian Жыл бұрын
Do the minimum required to CYA.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
In the AZ case, the severity was withheld from Bp by both parents... And Bp was too nice. Bishops simply need to live a higher law (report or hang pedo by mill stone, etc.), which is Gospel.
@HelibearWomble
@HelibearWomble Жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌 it’s good to hear the church talking with some of that pioneer fire 🔥
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
I know! We need some Mountain Meadows energy up in this business!!! Gotta get things done am I right?
@HelibearWomble
@HelibearWomble Жыл бұрын
@@jonbaker476 🤨
@barryrobertson1620
@barryrobertson1620 Жыл бұрын
What is the AP doing about the abuse in the Southern Baptist Convention?
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
... And in ALL secular organizations, politics, Atheism, etc. Good rhetorical : )
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
I coach minor league sports. They have done WAY more to keep kids safe than anything the church did while I worked in the youth programs. But sure, keep whining that whataboutism. It's a great look...😐
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
You're literally displaying here that you care more about the church's image than the victims. instead of recognizing an atrocity and trying to fix it, you're concerned that the journalist doesn't seem fair to you because they're not pointing out other religions' atrocities at the same time as your own? You feel like you're being picked on? That's your concern, and not the fact that the church leadership made the decision to advise a bishop not to report child sex abuse when he could have? That's pathetic
@barryrobertson1620
@barryrobertson1620 Жыл бұрын
@@jonbaker476 did you say the same thing when people attacked the Catholic church years ago when evangelicals attack them for the same thing? Or maybe you're just someone who thinks that dealing with sexual abuse in one denomination over another should be more open than the one you belong to.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
@@barryrobertson1620 what? Yeah of course I said the same thing with those other churches? What are you talking about?
@shireecox122
@shireecox122 Жыл бұрын
I guess I have no idea what this case is, cuz I’m totally lost here. Will someone please explain.
@annsertrue8782
@annsertrue8782 Жыл бұрын
Man in AZ, who was a border patrol officer, abused his daughter. Confessed to the bishop, bishop called church helpline which is manned by Kirton McConkie. Bishop was told by helpline not to report the abuse to the police. Dad continued abusing daughter and later abused another infant daughter. Church is currently being sued by the children who were abused. Dad was eventually excommunicated. Due to posting video of the abuse online he was eventually caught, arrested and committed suicide.
@shireecox122
@shireecox122 Жыл бұрын
@@annsertrue8782 so sad
@tgrogan6049
@tgrogan6049 Жыл бұрын
24:39 what the heck is a “limited confession “ sounds like legal weasel words to me!😧 If the guy confessed to “abusing his kid” in any way any decent human being would have reported this to the cops FULL STOP! This squirming legal “limited confession “ nonsense won’t cut it!
@tgrogan6049
@tgrogan6049 Жыл бұрын
Kwaku’s certainly yucking it up taking it very seriously 😐
@jesustheechrist714
@jesustheechrist714 Жыл бұрын
And he or someone from MM insults people in the comments who raise valid questions and debates sadly. They are deleting many that are debating too.
@mr.hansholmes2367
@mr.hansholmes2367 Жыл бұрын
He's a convert. Obviously he did not do his Research.
@annsertrue8782
@annsertrue8782 Жыл бұрын
@6:46 What experience do you have in this matter? Do you have friends or family who have gone to a leader about abuse and it was handled differently? Because I have both friends and family who have gone through it and all of their experiences were that the church put protecting their name, above protecting the victim. If children are being put at risk, if protecting them is not the priority, then it is a giant and needs to change. It is what they are making it out to be. Stop making excuses and instead push for change.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
That's a strong extrapolation and implication We ALL clearly know of many "hang 'rm high" Bishops... which Dehlin decries constantly.
@annsertrue8782
@annsertrue8782 Жыл бұрын
@@BlueHalfVision No clue why you are bringing bishops into this when we are talking about the church's helpline. My family has had personal experience with the helpline, and Kirton McConkie, as have several of my friends. The helpline is there to protect the church, not the victims and that needs to change. Not sure why you are bringing Dehlin into this, can't stand him or his hipocrisy.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
@@annsertrue8782 Because the human factor at many levels is in question.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
Brava. I'm grateful we see Dehlin and the Religion of Anti Mormonism for the discussing group they are. Hang in there, sister. You, me, and the MMs are a good team, then : )
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
​@@BlueHalfVision I genuinely recommend seeing a psychological professional
@Joshsd88
@Joshsd88 10 ай бұрын
I'm a year late to the party but why in the world are you wearing a $cientology necklace Kwaku?? 😅
@Hamann9631
@Hamann9631 Жыл бұрын
You brought up that Radio Free Mormon claims he doesn't owe people anything and is not his brother's keeper. He is claiming to not have a law over himself. I wonder if that is what the Lord is getting at when he describes people going to a different place than the Celestial Kingdom. The Lord describes those going to one of the other places as, "who died without law."
@kirklandmeadows
@kirklandmeadows Жыл бұрын
You did nothing wrong but you're striving to do better
@bemorebetter5343
@bemorebetter5343 Жыл бұрын
Hi my new favorite podcast, I know this was 9 months ago, but in future videos, if you’re discussing an event, please explain upfront what happened for those who don’t know. Or at least put it in the description. I had to stop the video to find the news story you were talking about. Thanks! Keep rockin’ on
@HoratioIsHere
@HoratioIsHere Жыл бұрын
Got to hand it to you guys, you got how to make absolute statements from a low base of understanding.
@madmanmanx
@madmanmanx Жыл бұрын
Hey! Blue Meanie is back!
@HoratioIsHere
@HoratioIsHere Жыл бұрын
@@madmanmanx Man, why did you guys go there with this episode. BTW I have been around, just lurking and observing and being entertained from time to time.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
Are not this AP reporter and his editor king's of low base of understanding? You correctly answered, "Yes" because you read the facts from all other legit sources. It's easy to spot hit-pieces against the Church since Dehlin, Runnels, RLB, et al have been SO discredited by truth and reason.
@HoratioIsHere
@HoratioIsHere Жыл бұрын
@@BlueHalfVision yeah I reckon Dehlin is a douche. He has become a parody of anti Mormon thinking. He is irrelevant here. But saying “what about…” really means nothing. Are you at all aware of the legal issues these guys are blowing off jokingly in this video? Like Utah lawyers providing legal advice to people outside the region they are licensed to practice? That what this comes across as is a smoke screen for a poor response from the church based on a loyalty? Please, go back and think about this. Put aside the need for your church to always be right. God all fucking mighty, you people scare the shit out of me.
@ericredd5590
@ericredd5590 Жыл бұрын
Let go one step further. Lets eliminate the pretense the LDS Bishops have discernment or the ability to determine when Jesus Christ has or has not forgiven someone. Eliminate the need for confession.
@sherryhyde565
@sherryhyde565 Жыл бұрын
I'm from the South, a millstone ain't good enough...
@tgrogan6049
@tgrogan6049 Жыл бұрын
Why don’t they tell the Bishops to call the police immediately!
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
gotta save face or else the tithings won't continue to flow in
@DannyAGray
@DannyAGray Жыл бұрын
Hot damn! Yeah, I mean, child abuse of any kind is a hot button issue for me too. But damn, the church definitely got this one right!
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
What? How the hell can anyone can come to that conclusion?
@DannyAGray
@DannyAGray Жыл бұрын
@@cabbagebaker uh.....maybe because that's my opinion on how they handled their statement. Is that okay? Do I need to be seeking your approval before formulating an opinion? 🙄
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
@@DannyAGray Wha? Asking how one possibly formulated an opinion is demanding you to get my approval for said opinion? Ok...weird take. You suggest the church definitely got this one right. In a case that allowed the continued rape of 2 children for nearly a decade. You're entitled to your opinion but it may possibly be bat shiz nutso. So sorry I asked you to justify it. 🙄
@DannyAGray
@DannyAGray Жыл бұрын
@@cabbagebaker but I don't owe you a justification for my opinion... unless you're saying my opinion needs your approval. Also, did you not hear or read the statement from the church? They didn't "allow" the abuse to continue; they couldn't have because they didn't know about it! Are you paying attention at all??
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
@@DannyAGray 😂 Just so I'm clear on your position: "I will make definitive statements in public but when asked how I came to these definitive conclusions my response will be - _that's just like...my opinion, man_ - and - _I don't owe anyone an explanation for my definitive conclusions_ -" Have I framed it correctly? Sheesh...the level of discourse in this world...social media has been our undoing...😂 As for who knew what when: 1) What exactly he confessed to, we do not know. EDIT: We actually do have some evidence of what he possibly confessed to. The investigator testifies to the bishop's knowledge in the sentencing hearing of the mother. It is NOT limited or one time as suggested by the PR response!! 2) We know for certain the confession was significant enough to merit a call to the "help line". 3) We know it was significant enough to encourage the **criminals** to go to the authorities. 4) We know the visiting teacher had fears for the safety of the children. All this 2 years before this guy was excommunicated. 5) My understanding is the wife and kids were active members of the ward and she was the pianist in the Primary. These were not under the radar inactives. Do you know what most rational people do in a situation like this?? Get the experts involved - the police, CPS etc so they can determine exactly what the hell is going on. And not only did these lay members do nothing (which perhaps can be excused by sheer ignorance) the church's law office told the bishop not to report. In a state where it appears there was no legal barrier from doing so. Claiming the church didn't know cannot be justified at all in, like...my opinion, man. But sincerely brother, I hope you have a wonderful day.
@halodisciple8459
@halodisciple8459 Жыл бұрын
Pulling out the muskets. Oops, not supposed to say that cause it's triggering.
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
You guys are hilarious. A news article says "mean" things - PULL OUT THE MUSKETS!! Children are getting raped - AwKshUaLly, iT's cOmpLiCaTeD. Some of these comments are a friggin' trip...
@thelawofpsychegnosis9228
@thelawofpsychegnosis9228 Жыл бұрын
Interesting
@lkv1321
@lkv1321 Жыл бұрын
The church did wrong and now they have to figure out a way to dig themselves out of the trouble they're in.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
No dig out needed. At worst a mistake. ALL Churches just need to be more careful. Don't forget - You cannot let AP off the hook for super sloppy reporting/hit-pieces.
@lkv1321
@lkv1321 Жыл бұрын
@@BlueHalfVision I cannot let the church off the hook.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
@@lkv1321 I cannot let cynical, destructive, nihilistic, hopelessness promoting Antichrist & journalist smears against a highly good organization (which occasionally errs) off the hook. How about we merge to improve heavenly family and mortal religion instead of dissolving it?
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
This is literally all the church does nowadays. They're on constant damage control. Not a lot of foresight for a religion that regularly speaks to a living god that can see the future...
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
Either way you wanna slice it this shows that the church's top priority is protecting its name and protecting against lawsuits
@buzzwatching
@buzzwatching Жыл бұрын
If you look at the twitter comments many come out and say "ive worked in the help line." They make stuff up to be a witness.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
I guess it isn't any different than a man claiming that an angel came and told him he needed to marry his beautiful teenage maid and have sex with her all in the name of Jesus
@Cyber_Cowboy
@Cyber_Cowboy Жыл бұрын
You're making it sound like the helpline is available for members to call. Even if that's not what you think that's how you're coming across. The helpline is is only available to the leaders
@danellsworth9922
@danellsworth9922 Жыл бұрын
Great work, guys.
@BlueHalfVision
@BlueHalfVision Жыл бұрын
LOVED the Faith Crisis 101 ppt & video you dropped this week.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
nah
@nealljones
@nealljones Жыл бұрын
This girl's family failed her. Her mother and father. For years. The limited confession didn't allow for reporting by the LDS bishop. The LDS bishops follow the law. AZ law is what it is. The bishop needed the victim's family to self-report. They didn't.
@nealljones
@nealljones Жыл бұрын
@@harryhenderson2479 Could have if he acted alone, never called the hotline, or otherwise improvised when complex situations arose while bishop. You present an ill-advised hypothetical. But this bishop did what he (& all in his shoes) was to do and called the hotline. And the Church attorneys advised against reporting, given insufficient, unwilling witnesses. The attorneys wanted another witness or for the mother to report, based on the limited confession. No other witness existed and mother, father refused to self-report. This LDS Church leader in Arizona followed the Church's processes and protocols. Bishops aren't to improvise. Are you an attorney? Worked much with attorneys? Guessing no is the answer. I've found it's best to follow the law and sound legal counsel. Got an attorney brother, 2 other brothers in law school, and have paid attorneys lots of $ during my career. Their advice is not to be ignored. To listen to inexperienced Monday-morning quarterbacks isn’t a terrific idea, in many cases. Even if you are or at least project a well-intentioned (if naive) position...
@thelawofpsychegnosis9228
@thelawofpsychegnosis9228 Жыл бұрын
The problem with listening to a one sided argument like happens with anti mormon dissenters is like hearing a one partners reason for having a divorce...
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
Who's listening to one-sided arguments? I've heard the churchs' take, considered it, and find it to be largely PR bs.
@six1nyne
@six1nyne Жыл бұрын
@@cabbagebaker doesn't matter what u view it to be will it stand up in court is the question the church is concerned with. No amount of apologizing or I'm sorry will fix what was done. Those who are apart of this church know this church and know that if somthing failed it will be reevaluated and looked at with a fine tooth comb and what adjustments need to be made will be made. We have full faith in our church what do u believe in? What's done is done a lot of blame can be passed around and will be passed around and the church is preparing gor that eventuality I don't have a problem with the churches stance so far. Whatever happen to innocent until proven guilty. And we can talk about the little girls innocence but it's not the bishops job to ensure the safety of ward members in their own homes that responsibility falls to the parents first and foremost that's where the failure occurred. The church teaches principles and morals opposite of what that father and mother did for the child/children they had every opportunity to succeed and u can bet volunteer members were behind the scenes trying to help a broken family heal. Side thought I wouldn't wish bishop on anyone not my worst enemy. If you want to make a moral judgment that's fine. But facts are what morally justify or condemn a person. The church has every right of u believe in the judicial system to get the facts straight as they see them. Like I said we can play the blame game all day but I know like millions of other members of this church is those bretheren are round that table with relief society presidents young women's presidents reevaluating and figuring out how to prevent this from happening again. Yall want to throw the bishop to the wolves but first let him have his date with the legal eagles. I c nothin wrong with how my church responded to slander. How's that puddin taste?
@thelawofpsychegnosis9228
@thelawofpsychegnosis9228 Жыл бұрын
@@cabbagebaker i have watched almost every mormon stories episodes. I have watched and listened to almost every ex- mormon and anti mormon showing that the Human Beings that run the church have faults and failings. Anyone can find fault in anything or any decision. Incidentally I don't believe the church is what it claims but I would say that being LDS is not the worst of beliefs or lifestyles.
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
@@thelawofpsychegnosis9228 I haven't watched Mormon Stories in years (I find Dehlin hard to listen to 😁) But I agree 100%. I know many great LDS believers who find much fulfillment in the church. There are some ex-mormons who should find some hobbies. And yet the church can and does do harm. It can be a better place.
@thelawofpsychegnosis9228
@thelawofpsychegnosis9228 Жыл бұрын
@@cabbagebaker i have never heard any LDS leader say they are perfect...quite the contrary so I wonder why anti mormons love to judge
@WookyWarrior
@WookyWarrior Жыл бұрын
Its clear by comments here and even some statements made in the podcast that the law isn't clearly understood by many. So here are some points to consider. Firstly abuse against children is egregious, but the law doesn't get to be thrown aside because we don't like the crime committed. And the law has always been about protecting the rights of individuals, criminal and otherwise. The law has allowed that when it comes to individuals dealing with religious institutions/churches, there is an allowance for confidentiality between worshippers and the clergy. Meaning that confessions that involve admission of crimes cannot be given to law enforcement to be enacted upon because the confessor has an accepted right of confidentiality with the church. This is one of those aspects of separation of church and state. The church, meaning a bishop who is told disturbing information, cannot act as an authority of the state. In Utah at least, I know there is an exception in the law that if a clergy believes that abuse or a crime is continuing and that not reporting will endanger more people, then they can inform authorities. Not sure if this is the same in Arizona or even what the deeper nuances of this case are. The point is, for a church organization to exist, it must operate within the bounds of the law. It cannot be the law unto itself no matter the crime. Remember our Father in Heaven is in control. The worth of every soul is great in the eyes of God. The healing power of Christ is complete and eternal. His kingdom come, HIs will be done.
@jesusrocksmygoddamnedsocks8931
@jesusrocksmygoddamnedsocks8931 Жыл бұрын
Millstone for you.
@erin4885
@erin4885 Жыл бұрын
If I find out a man is raping his daughter and filming it there is not a law that could be created that would stop me from SAVING THAT LITTLE GIRL. Anyone who cares about children FEELS THE SAME.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
ah yes, god gave us the precious gift of agency so that we can learn to sit silently and let authority figures think for us...
@WookyWarrior
@WookyWarrior Жыл бұрын
@@jonbaker476 if you don't know the world around you, the context inlaid with the decisions every individuals makes, and especially the nuances of the laws of the land that govern our lives, how could you ever fully utilize your agency in your own decision making process or even know what things need to be changed. Maybe people need to be better educated before they go spouting self righteous babble.
@jonathanduran8669
@jonathanduran8669 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your videos guys! Do you guys have a podcast? I couldn't find it.
@eleanorbrace2324
@eleanorbrace2324 Жыл бұрын
It's on u tube under MIDNIGHT MORMONS and it is very good.
@mr.hansholmes2367
@mr.hansholmes2367 Жыл бұрын
Great vids for the Brainwashed.
@Yocarisfastlike
@Yocarisfastlike Жыл бұрын
This guy got kicked out of ByU
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
who?
@Nick-iw3ol
@Nick-iw3ol Жыл бұрын
Again… exmormon isn’t a religion nor does it claim to have all the answer and speak to god…
@ericredd5590
@ericredd5590 Жыл бұрын
Kwaku, “We are upset with the bishop and the State.” The bishop picked up the phone to call a hotline and followed legal counsel that allowed abuse to continue for years. The hotline does not protect victims. The church system failed these two children. Trying to get someone else to report while having a confession from the abuser and sitting on your hands is pathetic. Then the church in its 2nd statement claims this type of response should be sufficient is even more pathetic. If the church does ever report abuse in states that do not require then why in the hell did they not do it in this case? Make you ask the question if the only report if required by law. Feel free to go on your anti-exmormon rants and your false equivalencies on another topic, but it’s time to admit the church needs to address serious problems with abuse and reporting.
@crunchymamakat6656
@crunchymamakat6656 Жыл бұрын
I’m with you on this one. Church shouldn’t even have a hotline. All cases of abuse should be sent directly to authorities. Insane people ever think otherwise.
@rconger384
@rconger384 Жыл бұрын
What if political and police authorities are corrupt (as they are) in some places?
@crunchymamakat6656
@crunchymamakat6656 Жыл бұрын
Having a hot line and encouraging clergy to call the church (tithing)funded hotline in case of abuse automatically puts the victim at risk. There should never be a hotline that the church put into place. So it is the church that’s to blame along with the clergy that’s involved.
@ericredd5590
@ericredd5590 Жыл бұрын
@@nancid5265 The church is a corporation that has policies and procedures in place to protect it. You and I think we are members of gods one true church. Let's separate the two for a moment. The corporation has its name and more money and assets than you can imagine that need to be protected legally. The corporation is very good at doing this. They pay lawyers huge sums of money to ensure that all liabilities are taken care of. The corporation actually pays hundreds of millions of dollars to quiet and disappear many potential legal issues relating to abuse by leaders and members. They are so good at it that you don't even know a fraction of the legal matters that are constantly being litigated and or settled out of court. So, If you are a member of gods one true church, then please take no offense when I or others call out the corporation when they fail to protect a 3 year old and eventually her sister from a monster who confessed his actions to a mormon bishop and was told by the corporation to sit back and try and convince SOMEONE ELSE to protect this little girl and here sister from a monster. One thing is for sure, your prayer hotline may or may not work when you reach out to god, but the hotline to the legal team for the LDS church always picks up. If you follow their counsel you will be protected and told exactly what to do. Your moral compass is not needed.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
It's not even that the church dropped the ball. They frickin punted the thing off the field into the parking lot in the attempt to make it so no one could pick the ball up at all
@zionking2634
@zionking2634 Жыл бұрын
No you wouldn't. You would say they're Boomers and that's just what they did in their time, no prophet is perfect. this doesn't hurt my testimony. 11:40
@myscape06
@myscape06 Жыл бұрын
How many details are needed to report or justify reporting? Two bishops knew what happened during the 7 year period of abuse. Both were able to report. They were told not to. The liar is the church. Look at the questions asked when bishops call in to the helpline. Each of you acknowledge the victims. Each of you admi you don't know the details. However, one video points out exactly what the bishops knew by the bishops' own admission. Defending the church will not solve this inappropriate helpline issue. The church is at fault for not reporting and there are several cases that verify this as an ongoing problem. Bishops call the Police when churches are vandalized but not when children are abused.
@thenowchurch6419
@thenowchurch6419 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. No one is above the law regardless of being a leader in a One True Church or not.
@emptybusseat
@emptybusseat Жыл бұрын
Latter Day Bad Takes is a more appropriate name for your channel. Interested in how this video will age in a few months.
@Cyber_Cowboy
@Cyber_Cowboy Жыл бұрын
You guys are arguing the wrong points. I'm not sure if you are lying or the point of the argument is going over your head. No one is concerned if there is a helpline or not. The problem people are having is the leaders are instructed to call the helpline before contacting the police if they contact the police at all.
@rconger384
@rconger384 Жыл бұрын
What if police were corrupt and complicit in some places?
@bradwitbeck
@bradwitbeck Жыл бұрын
I think having a helpline to help you understand the right way to contact police is a good thing. This is one instance of a failure of that system and we don’t have enough information to know where exactly that failure happened. It’s clear the helpline is there to help protect people, and we all agree it’s a tragedy that it didn’t protect these kids this time.
@annsertrue8782
@annsertrue8782 Жыл бұрын
@@bradwitbeck The helpline is there to protect the church, not the victims. This is not an isolated incident. Protecting the victim is not the priority and that needs to change.
@bradwitbeck
@bradwitbeck Жыл бұрын
@@annsertrue8782 I get where you’re coming from, but I actually don’t think those things are mutually exclusive. I also think the helpline’s main job is to help protect victims. This is an instance of a failure of this system, it’s not demonstrative of systemic failures. Hopefully we can find something that can be changed to better protect victims in all of this.
@annsertrue8782
@annsertrue8782 Жыл бұрын
@@bradwitbeck Problem is there are countless stories, including those of my family and friends, that are similar to this. The problem isn't a bishop making a mistake, the problem is the advice bishops receive from the church's helpline, which is run by Kriton McConkie. Change will never happen so long as the reality of the situation is suppressed, ignored or denied.
@Canut0
@Canut0 Жыл бұрын
Great show! Liked how you called out exmos hypocrisy with a timeline ... SAVAGE!
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
8:30 It's not that people want a bunch of kids to be abused, it's simply very satisfying to see Mormons be wrong and be shown that their leaders aren't wonderfully glorious people who should be put up on pedestals as if they're some kind of angelic ministers. the reason it's satisfying is because of how insufferable many LDS people are about their faith. The LDS church has dozens of books written about why other faiths are wrong or bad and it's fun to watch the members squirm and wail and gnash their teeth when their leaders are caught doing the exact same things. I don't necessarily feel that way but that's what I think they're feeling
@jonanfalcon8056
@jonanfalcon8056 Жыл бұрын
The Bishop should have called the police.
@LatterDaySigma
@LatterDaySigma Жыл бұрын
I’m convinced ya’ll are the 3 Nephites in present day 😏😏😏
@WARDRADIO
@WARDRADIO Жыл бұрын
Thanks man :)
@mr.hansholmes2367
@mr.hansholmes2367 Жыл бұрын
Lmao Chomo jo wants to marry your daughter.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
Kwaku isn't white, which means that he hasn't been righteous enough. So this isn't a possibility
@anniecooper7530
@anniecooper7530 Жыл бұрын
Of course the church’s own literature will say the helpline is for helping the victims…that doesn’t validate that that’s the priority. You guys are quick to criticize the Catholic Church when something like this happens. You believe those victims. Hope there isn’t hypocrisy involved on your part. Exmo helpline:911. Lol, that’s the point many of us are making haha.
@anniecooper7530
@anniecooper7530 Жыл бұрын
I don’t blame the bishop either, he did what the people with more authority than him told him to do.
@BakerPlumbing1956
@BakerPlumbing1956 Жыл бұрын
It's never a surprise at what the is whitewashed amongst the enemies of the Church and the microscope used on their criticisms
@tgrogan6049
@tgrogan6049 Жыл бұрын
13:20 “ dealt with in good faith to the Nth degree by the church “ You guys should work for Baron Munchausen! 🤣🤣🤣
@brycejones9997
@brycejones9997 Жыл бұрын
This video won’t age well
@mr.hansholmes2367
@mr.hansholmes2367 Жыл бұрын
Right. They will be left behind.
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
I don't think I can put into words how much I hate this episode...the degree people will go to justify their tribe is gross. Anyone who thinks the helpline to Kirton McKonkie is there to "help victims" is delusional. I'm not familiar with this Kimball guy, I'll look into it. It's fascinating to see you guys suggest his case is "cut and dry" while the LDS church's response to this particular case of abuse is "complicated". I'm fascinated at the personal moral lines in the sand one will draw. You go hog on the evils of the Catholic Church and their scandals but defend the LDS church because they have not "moved a seminary teacher around" 🤔 I've seen zero evidence that the bishop, Kirton McKonkie, or the LDS church cared about the victims in this case beyond perhaps sadly shaking their heads and shrugging their shoulders. In fact the church's lawyer has described this lawsuit by the victim as a "money grab". What a piece of garbage. There are plenty of abuse cases in the LDS church, they are easy to find. They include bishops and seminary teachers and youth leaders. There are plenty of documented cases where victims and abusers where told not to involve the authorities. Your tithing money has no doubt gone to millions of dollars in settlements. These claims of "other people suck too" are ridiculous. Do better.
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
@@petejohnson1524 Sure. Direct me to these experts, I'd love to see these takes.
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
@@petejohnson1524 My search is by no means exhaustive but so far this is the best I can find from an old Deseret News article: *Counselors and attorneys who deal with child sexual abuse cases unanimously praised the **_idea_** of a hotline, although some characterize it as belated and merely an attempt to ward off legal liability.* *"Far be it from me to question their motives," said Marion Smith, a retired sex abuse counselor and founder of the Intermountain Sexual Abuse Treatment Center. "But it concerns me that they feel it necessary to run it through their team instead of saying that any abuse has to be reported to police, which is the protocol anyway.* This is an article from 25+ years ago. Hardly glowing praise and it seems not much has been improved since. Again, if you have better info I take no issue being proven wrong here.
@jonbystrom9410
@jonbystrom9410 Жыл бұрын
Amen! My respect for Midnight Mormons is evaporating.
@emilywilson9632
@emilywilson9632 Жыл бұрын
Anyone who thinks the Church has a cover-up conspiracy only does so because they already hate the Church.
@cabbagebaker
@cabbagebaker Жыл бұрын
@@petejohnson1524 Sincere thanks. As with a lot of this stuff, trying to get the details is a daunting endeavor. Based on my amateur investigation it appears the church received recognition from these groups largely thanks to monetary donations. I couldn't find any specific praise for the helpline procedure other than from church lawyers and lay leaders. But sincere kudos to the church for the donations, I appreciate them putting some of their money to good use. As for the nuances of what possibly could've happened had an investigation been initiated, that is, IMHO, a pointless what-if that we have no actual evidence of being a reason for any of the decisions made. And even if it were, are you ok with this? Oh well, dudes' a border agent...guess we shouldn't get someone to investigate this...you know, cuz of the ol' boys border agent club...🤨 Perhaps of interest, the executive director of the National Children's Alliance had the following to say about another, unrelated case dealing with helpline shenanigans: **Teresa Huizar, the executive director of the National Children’s Alliance, a group that advocates for stronger abuse-reporting laws, said she found the document “disturbing” because organizations such as the Mormon Church have a legal and moral duty to report child abuse. “It is one of personal and institutional integrity,” Huizar said.** I'm very curious what she'll have to say about this case. I'd be very surprised if there is much lauding. 🤔
@ericredd5590
@ericredd5590 Жыл бұрын
Brad, if you think the helpline is to help victims then your clearly out of touch. Police help victims we know that for sure. It even falls under the risk management department and forwards to the legal team and not the Presiding Bishop who one would think would be able to confer with god about saving little children.
@bradwitbeck
@bradwitbeck Жыл бұрын
Eric, have you read any of the documents to do with this case? Have you read any of the responses from people who used to work for the helpline? It’s really easy to just say people are out of touch, but in this episode, we literally read to you the Church’s response where they illustrate who works on the helpline. They’re people who care about kids and helping victims. I’m convinced enough of that.
@ericredd5590
@ericredd5590 Жыл бұрын
@@bradwitbeck Are you talking about the group of people in risk management handling the initial calls or the lawyers the bishops are quickly handed off to? I would not double the people are good and that they would help victims if the legal team would allow it. Lets not get lost in other cases that we know nothing about. This case is a real example of a bishop doing exactly as the church instructs and yet 1toddler and eventually her sister paid the price for the failed response that was directed by lawyers. Find SOMEONE ELSE to report?? Pathetic Also, are the hundreds of millions of dollars paid to other victims of abuse by the church paid to help them or keep the quiet about their abuse? I have not read them to answer you question. I have seen the form that people in risk management use when they receive a call. They quickly determine the risk the church may have, that take only first names and then destroy the form at the end of the day. I would be skeptical of anyone finding out more on their own and risking any additional liability before handing them off to the legal team. You know what happens when good people do nothing. Nothing gets done and good people and good churches just move on and then feel outrage when someone calls them out on it.
@bradwitbeck
@bradwitbeck Жыл бұрын
@@ericredd5590 do you know if the Bishop just turning the guy in would have affected the admissibility of evidence? Maybe the counsel for them to turn themselves in had something to do with that. Again, we don’t know what was confessed, and as far as I’m aware, neither of us is a lawyer in Arizona. You assuming bad intent on the part of the helpline is just that: an assumption. Also, you seem very confident you know precisely what happened. I’d like to know what sources you have to help you get such a clear cut idea of what went down. I’ve read the actual court transcripts from the mother’s criminal trial and let me tell you, there’s a TON of stuff about this case that’s incredibly unclear. I agree with you, let’s not get lost in cases we know nothing about - including this one. Neither of us knows the details of the case. I get that you’re pissed about the situation. I am too. But misdirecting that emotion toward the church helpline when you don’t know what actually happened isn’t useful. It doesn’t help the girl who was abused, and it doesn’t help prevent future abuse. I think we’re on the same page in that neither of us wants future abuse to happen. At the very least we want it stopped as soon as possible wherever possible. My belief is that having the helpline will lead to that outcome. It’s clear you disagree. The trouble is, we don’t have enough information to clearly support which one of us is right. We don’t know what was confessed. We don’t actually know what the Bishop was advised to do. We don’t know how much the Bishop or helpline knew. We don’t even know what the guy was excommunicated for - there are two possibilities. We don’t know the intricacies of Arizona’s Laws. (I’ve read at least 2 that apply to this case, but I don’t know if there are more) We know some kind of confession was made to the Bishop. We know the Bishop called the helpline to try to understand what to do. We do know the Bishop requested the family turn themselves in and that both the husband and wife refused to do so. We know that the visiting teacher actually tried to offer help to the wife to get her out of the situation even though she didn’t have a clear idea of how bad the situation was (assuming you’ve read any of the relevant records to this case). We know it’s an absolute tragedy. Again. I think it’s unreasonable for us to pin exactly where the failure happened, even though we agree there was a failure in the system. Was it something to do with Arizona’s law? The Helpline? The Bishop? The Confession? We don’t know. Hopefully the Grand Jury investigating this case makes a call and we’re able to fix whatever flaw in the system allowed for this abuse to happen.
@ericredd5590
@ericredd5590 Жыл бұрын
@@bradwitbeck if you thought a three year old girl was abused in a sexual way by her father because he told you so in an interview, (as has been stated in this case) would you report or would you rely on a hotline that your church (which you believe is the one true church and is led by prophets) has set up to dictate the steps that must be followed? The church could have defended the bishop with its vast wealth for doing the right thing instead of promising him protection for doing it the "legal way"! Protecting the victim was not the priority. It would seem not even on the radar. Even with all the great people on the phone and the great bishop and the great mormon lawyers and prophets and apostles and god leading the one true church.
@bradwitbeck
@bradwitbeck Жыл бұрын
@@ericredd5590 your question demonstrates your lack of understanding. Of course I would report, but I’m not a Bishop in Arizona. I don’t know how the law in Arizona handles confessions given given to clergy. I don’t know if there are legal ramifications that would make it so the guy can’t be investigated if I do report. I am of the opinion that I personally wouldn’t care and I would report anyway, but we also do not know just how much that Bishop was being lied to by the abuser. Again. We don’t know if the fault here is with Arizona law, with the bishop, the helpline, or the actual confession. It’s super easy for you to speculate and say “wouldn’t you report sexual abuse if you knew about it” but unfortunately, as all the court documents would attest, this situation is more complex than that and you strike me as smart enough to understand that. Again, there’s a trial happening right now that’s investigating this. We don’t know the verdict yet because we don’t have all the information. Hopefully whatever they find helps us change whatever system it is that made this abuse possible, whether it’s Arizona Law, How Bishop’s handle confessions, or how the helpline operates.
@brothers_of_nod
@brothers_of_nod Жыл бұрын
Earned a subscriber.
@mr.hansholmes2367
@mr.hansholmes2367 Жыл бұрын
You must like Lies.
@jonbystrom9410
@jonbystrom9410 Жыл бұрын
Unsubscribed. Endorsing child abuse is not why I subscribed to this channel. So grotesque!!
@WARDRADIO
@WARDRADIO Жыл бұрын
Sorry man. Never endorsed child abuse… have fun hanging out with the ex-mo’s that do.
@Telavian
@Telavian Жыл бұрын
@@WARDRADIO Because he is unsubscribing then he is an ex-mormon child abuser. Makes sense.
@jonbaker476
@jonbaker476 Жыл бұрын
@@WARDRADIO Translation: If you're not with us then you're against us.
@kathyharbarger13
@kathyharbarger13 Жыл бұрын
@@WARDRADIO Many of us who have unsubscribed from this channel are not ex-mos, but faithful Latter-Day Saints who want to see our church do better when it gets it wrong. Your knee jerk reaction of calling those who see things differently from you ex-mos is very telling. It's too bad to, because when you stick to rational arguments, instead of going tribal, you're quite good.
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