They may _SEE_ the dilemma, but will change NOTHING! They'll go to their death-beds blaming the men.

Trying to explain anything to women now is impossible. They have MORE than enough information and examples proving that what feminism taught them is wrong and backwards and 100% counter intuitive to their entire biological nature. A woman asked me recently WHY men want traditional women and traditional roles, she claimed that men just want control or something, I replied very simply. "No, because the roles WORKED, for all of time. Now, because women do not want to be in their role, there are no relationships that work. You women have broken the cycle that literally got humans to where they are today." She just scoffed at me and dismissed what I was saying. Explaining simple thigns to women today is impossible because they cannot break out of their cognitive dissonance that feminism has brain washed into them. Its simple if your objective in your thinking. Women are losing, not men. Men, for all of time, have died without procreating. Women though, women need men. If men do not validate women, they start losing their mental illness and I mean, just the data on womens mental health nowadays is, fucking tragic at best. Idk, women have dervalued themselves by becomming high value. They became men and now are upset to find out that men arnt attracted to that.

The fact that women basically fought tooth and nail to become men just astounds me. Like, us men are kind of bamboozled by this. Women basically had a free ride. Im a single man, 33, my house is spotless, my fridge is stocked, my house looks like a woman may have decorated it because a woman sort of did. What im saying here is simple. Being a house wife is extremely easy to do and the fact that women are on mass choosing to NOT have such a simple existence is beyond me. Men have always had the short end of the stick and as a man, I honestly didnt mind. It was nice knowing im providing for more than myself for a bigger cause. What personally bothers me is that my mother is a true feminist woman. She received 2 senatorial recommendations to officers scool during her enlistment. Was the first female mechanic int he marines to lead the maintenance teams for fighter jets. She then tackled corporate america in the 80s and ended up starting her own company in the 90s that turns 26 this May. In 1997 my mother was the only woman in America that was leading the charge on advewrtisments on the internet, the creators of Google called her in 97 and she turned them down(it took all of us over a decade to stop shitting on her for that, probably her biuggest regret in life, can see it on her face, sad) She raised 4 kids by herself. She is a remarkable woman indeed. She, HATES these women. She despises them. She doesnt understand why they are so bad. My mom had the saddest thing to say to me in my mid 20s. She said "Im sorry tony, but I pray you never get any of these women knocked up. Im glad your brothers gave me grand kids but I am happy you didnt. Youre a good one, they would destroy you." These women today, (i always forget mto say this, western american women.) are just a complete waste on men. Women, through feminism, have totally ruined any tangible value to have at all. I told a woman I dont date women with social media and she wouldnt leave me alone about it. I asked her would she date a man that used to do heroine and she said if he made enough moeny and im like, bruh, are you women just fucking retarded or what?!

its funny women of yesteryear used to know this, or it was passed down. It wasn't until the age of resentment and hatred towards men that this valuable life lesson was lost. I do wonder if the study that pointed out over half of women over 30 will have no children and never have been married will come true. Sad if you ask me, but this isn't the future i asked for its the one that has been presented before me.

Don't forget the flip side of "quotas" is tearing down men in high status jobs (or getting prospectively promoted to them) to make way for a female (who may or may not be up to the task at this stage of career) which aside from the usual issues has an impact on the dating pool....

Now let's turn that shit around, m8! ;))

@@GreatRetro I do not know if we can? It is embedded in all animals long before we evolved into humans. The buck that wins the horn butt wins the mate. The bird with the best dance wins. The alpha pack wolf mates with multiple females, etc. As a man the only thing we can do is win. I am fat and I realized as it crept up it it was not female nature but the fact she can do better why I am single on these dumb channels. Time for me to fast and do lap band and hit the gym. I already took care of the career a year ago for 23% more pay and left my former employer. I got a newer car and house comes next. Once I lose 90 pounds I will be a good option for my future gf as who is not obesse, owns a house, and earns 100k. Not many guys meet that. You do the same sir and good luck!

@Pawwel Mussial No need to type that. So what if she is? She maybe one of the few who love her man which I commend.

​​@@00000kll I concur. The best ever GF I had did anything I asked her to do for me. She even rode a greyhound bus for two days, something I never asked her to do, so she could be with me. She also jumped from a plane at 10,000ft to impress me. Her actions told me she was willing to go the distance (horizontal & vertical) to be with me.😊

But what do they offer ??

"Nowadays they just bring children from other relationships and expect you to bail them out of their poor choices all whilst treating you like shit." Yep... never date single mommies. They ALWAYS have problems.

My gf is peaceful. But she's from Vietnam. Look out of the country my guy.

I am in a similar boat only younger, i swore off dating for a while when i was un uni and a few years in the field. I had my exes in my 20s cheat for a "better deal" so i became a better deal now most of the women on the market are really messed up. last one was a complete lunitic reading into everything i did assuming the worst and demanding i "remain on call for her" - answer phone at 2am on a work night.... what the fuck is going on? is it just me? i see some family and friends with women but even they have issues. Like my best friend now any time we wanna chill he has to "GET PERMISSION" before we go to the gym/rock climb. wtf.

@@CilbraxGaming Two of the women I dated were Vietnamese though Americanized. Problem with going out of the country is you have to STAY there or the western mind virus will infect them when you bring them back.

@@GameMusingsWithRaziel oh god you speak truth, the mind virus is after them, when i met her i tried my best to inoculate her, i think it worked but you have to remain vigilant. shes about to finish college but very early on i laid down the ground work. listen if your a feminist or a democrat or whatever, break up with me, then i tried to make sure she understood her college isnt really trying to educate her in her field only in feminism and in hating straight white men. then she was able to see it before she took certain classes. i showed her all kinds of things kevin samuels included and talked to her alot. im sorry to hear they got infected but if you're very assertive about it, as in you wont accept any of that shit in your house. maybe it can work.

Wao, what a sad story. If it was like you said, she'll have her consequences and won't be good for her, but you will be blessed. Forgive that unthankful woman and enjoy your life, brother. Jah bless!

well, he LOVED that woman@@thezoldics7648

@@thezoldics7648 on some real shit. 48 laws of power my dude...

Hope you're doing okay.

I am so sorry this happened to you. As a man you did your job and I commend you for it.

The good news is, there are still those of us who enter into relationships for companionship and building a family, not just because we "need" a man.

@@seeker4wisdomight? Only seeing a relationship from a purely selfish perspective is doomed to failure. Clearly, such a person doesn’t want children (after all, children don’t provide “value” 🙄). If someone is purely selfish, of course they should remain single and childless and advocate for themselves to live the most materially secure life possible via their own efforts.

Women in that situation need men in the same way men in that situation need women. People will get lonely.

@@seeker4wisdom "The good news is, there are still those of us who enter into relationships for companionship and building a family, not just because we "need" a man." From the man's point of view, even if he finds a woman like this and marries her. She could change on a dime and screw the hell out of him and don't mean in the bedroom... and he is helpless do anything about it or to stop it. He's into her with a mortgage and two kids which she will soon be taking all from him and using the kids as leverage to get everything else she wants from him and to get him to bend over and take it. Even if she doesn't do it.......... She can..... and what man wants to put himself into that position?

@@Cyberpunker1088 Women need the cooperation of men period. There would be no "successful" women if it weren't for the men keeping the economy, infrastructure..etc. going. Oddly enough, even OnlyFans "models" who get paid tons of money and have cars and homes still NEED men provide to these things, including keeping OnlyFans running so she can charge for pictures of her azz.

Yep. It's weird to me that women have so many little hidden unspoken demands, such as "he doesn't need to just be financially well-off, but also financially well-off in a high-status way." If you add up all those hidden demands, nearly everyone gets excluded. And the tiny group that remains is the same group that every woman wants, and hence someone from that group probably isn't going to commit to specifically the woman in question. He's probably going to choose someone who is hotter or younger than she is.

Bravo! Correct. I "appear" to be average toi below average. My income is $50k$ But my assets are hidden. Other than my wardrobe ( and broken submariner) when "on the prowl" or out on a date, I never divulge Anything. I show up in one of my favorite work trucks or my Honda motorcycle.i try to meet in a parking lot So I may see the reaction. The gambler song by Kenny Rodgers always comes to mind. NEVER show your hand, especially on social media

I have a friend. A physician. Has a Ferrari. He goes on a date with that damn car and wonders why they are all golddiggers

Yep, I know many of the same. It's culture. Culture says men are working class incompetent idiots and women are some godsend. All about title and bragging rights to women, and some men.

It's not snobbery. It's ignorance. They are ignorant.

Nothing to gain but everything to lose (money, child support, house and kids).

@@marriagecausesdivorce7540 "Nothing to gain .." Well .. access to a warm hole when she grants it. But, yeah - that's about it!

@@M0viLover when she feels like upholding her end of the bargain. don't worry, if she never does she'll take half!

Modern society is an absolute nightmare for not just us.

Proverbs 21:9

I more than agree with this. Zero judgment about status, and a man who is kind in character and not just superficially "nice".

I listened to women my entire life, now at 31 I feel so betrayed and lied to by modern women/feminism.. Now I just plan on playing it safe by going with a woman who is lower socioeconomically than me. I still want her to have a job, but I lost a good chunk of my life being alone.

@@jenniferlee7167but are you truly willing to support a man like that forever? I just think on paper this looks good for some women but in reality it really isn’t .. we shall see though

@@joaquin67women and men have both been lied to

Laughing hysterically at the female commentary. Ladies, it’s your actions we assess, not your cliched words.

An issue that women created for themselves.

@@shawnhampshirehick101 is that news?

You forgot to add Women: Men and women should be treated equal

@@arewestilldoingphrasing6490 Women: Unless we can be treated better.

This is actually funny but true.. Im insecure about being a single mom.. Because guy standarts in dating is like i text.. you meet me..we have sex. Then im gone.. Maybe im not good enough for men standarts hehe cos I cant take those one night offer

Exactly! Women want an educated, intelligent, high-status, high-earning man. Instead of being fit, feminine and friendly to attract that man (because that's what *HE* wants), they get their degrees, work their careers and become boss-babes never realizing this TURNS. MEN. OFF. (i.e.: repulses men)

Never EVER be in a relationship with a woman who even hints or you suspect feels that she is superior or the breadwinner or the alpha in a relationship. It will lead to disaster and millions of children born to such relationships have their life ruined when it eventually breaks up or end in constant fights.

Gloria Steinem said much the same, only she saw it as progress.

Imagine, due to their solipsism, working their butt off for 20-30 years to suddenly realize there are two people in a relationship. The other person also has needs and they are not the same as yours. To find out our needs, all they had to do was ask (and listen to the answer) without the predictable shaming tactics of "who hurt you, small dick energy, live in your mothers basement". The fact that men communicate overtly, they would get the answer with no word salad and riddles. And it is usually these women that want to lead!? Where the hell are you going to lead me when you have taken yourself on a 30 year detour.

@@steve3131 "We have become the men we wanted to marry" Rollo usually credits Steinem when he says it.

Yip and that day can come out the blue even without a weight loss or a salary increase, at any given day. Best to just assume the Woman you are with is capable of anything at any given moment and live accordingly.

@@thebesttheworst2277 My exwife dated me after she got her teaching credential and bachelors and left her other husband because she didn't want to be dragged down by him as lower middle class. ... not before. The last gf I had dated me and dumped her exbf when she got the lap band and lost 175 pounds ... not before. I met one girl at Bumble which I fooled around with. She left her husband after she got a promotion to a VP and told me I can't be with a man still making 13.50/hr who is not at the same level. ... not before the promotion. I see a pattern if you ask me? The last girl I mentioned dumped me for a guy who owned his own company even though my salary was not that much different from hers because she deserved better. She even told me she makes plenty of dough to not have a man take care of her but she still left him and me because he had to out earn her. Oh and I had a flight tire on new years and she deamed me incompenent because my loaner tire is only good for 25 miles and didn't get that changing the tire is not a solution until a tire place was opened. Idiot.

Because females are constantly being fed they deserve better. Men are also waking and demanding better deals.

I'd have to argue, we are ALL still wired like it's 1000 BC, metaphorically. And that perfectly explains why this experience is so difficult for women to go through. Men are programmed to want to provide and protect their family, as those behaviors gave them the best chance at securing mates and continuing their genetic line. Men feel personal fulfillment doing these things, for this reason. Women are not fulfilled in the same way doing those things, so it is much more challenging for them to do so. Western society in general, and feminism in particular, has been telling women they can have it all, they can be a girl boss, they can have kids whenever they are ready, and they will be able to find a partner that checks all their boxes. At best, this is a fantasy, and I think it's more accurate to say this is a lie. Men and women prefer certain qualities in each other for very good reason, gender roles evolved for very good reason, and pretending like those things aren't true isn't helping anyone, especially the future generations. I would also remind you that the squeaky wheel gets the grease. The loudest complaints are heard the most, but they are not necessarily representative of whole. There are lots of women out there (and men!) who very much see relationships as a team, and value loyalty and fidelity. They just aren't shouting it from the rooftops on social media, so it's not nearly as visible as say, 35-year-old women complaining they can't find a good man.

@@patrickhall6627 While a lot of women might still see relationship as teamwork, the legal framework is not really on the male side in general. She can on a flick of the switch changed her mind and you are screw due to the western legal framework

This is why i'm single as a man, i don't need a woman and i am not sacrificing my peaceful life for some sex.

Exactly... all the time, I thought the same

Yes, that was called co-dependency, not love. People had no choice but stick with whomever they were able to find fast and early. Some got lucky, many didn’t.

@@jayc342009 Yes as a divorced single woman that’s exactly how I feel.

AI will soon do most of their jobs but I don't see it cleaning sewers and unblocking drains and making things -at least not in the immediate future.

​@@normangoldstuck8107robots doing that will still need raw materials. My guess is eventually within 10 years the shat will hit the fan.

Nobody's pushing anyone out of the workplace. There are vacancies all over the world in high-paying jobs requiring skills and expertise. The question is: what sort of skills and expertise do you have?

Men are also being removed from higher education. No fee male wants a blue collar man, even if he makes 150k a year. Oh well, the west brought this buffoonery on themselves.

@@LisaCulton no men on Earth ask to receive high paying jobs just because they are men. And if you are gonna answer that women were banned from voting or working without their fathers/husbands approval for many years I will answer with: “how many decades have passed since that?” And you could continue with: “but some “experts” see some gender differences in mean-median salaries or sex ratios in certain jobs”. And I would argue that is due to biological preferences and you would argue that they are social constructs… etc. and we would reach no conclusion

exactly. radical problems requires radical solutions.

Well, who is having the child?! Why are all the men in the comment section forgetting that men cannot make life? Men these days have seriously deteriorated into feminine men. The so-called doctor running this dumb channel is a feminine man.

That professor sounds like they had higher standards, and thus more respect, for you than for the girls, who he probably thought were less capable. Maybe. That's my I tuition on reading your comment. It's not the obvious answer but seems like it makes more sense (because I agree that what you described about the professors actions doesn't make a lot of sense)

There is no such thing as "equal." Whamin have ALWAYS been spoiled and privileged and they will ALWAYS want MORE privilege and complain about being "oppressed." There is nothing more two-faced, pathetic and lacking in integrity than a whamin.

Well, good for you for taking care of sick family members, but statistically that thankless task usually falls on women. And there's a study that shows more husbands leave their wives when they become seriously sick (cancer) than vice versa.

@@lorrilewis2178 Using unsourced unvalidated statistical claims on the internet to downplay the relevance of someone else's lived experience is an interesting choice. I can't say I see the merit, but maybe I missed something?

@@lorrilewis2178 I'm not sure those stats tell the whole story. I have heard that women will wait out the period of sickness till the man gets better, then divorce him, so they don't appear to be heartlessly abandoning the man in his time of need. The wife of the guy who does the Dad Starting Over podcast is a doctor, and when she was working in an oncology ward she noticed that the husbands of women with cancer were very solicitous, while the wives were less so, and seemed to be working out who to move on to when the man passed. Since women are hypergamous and look to a man for strength, a man who is sick and dying will lose most of his appeal.

U à lucky specimen, fella!

Then why are you on this channel? Just curious.

Bet she's fat, bald with hairy legs. All you say is...yes dear! Lol.

In modern terms, 35 years ago, you bought a winning $50.4 billion dollar Powerball ticket and have been reaping the rewards ever since.

Good for you!

Great advice madam. We the manosphere approve!

unfortunately i think many of the so called "boss babes" will take your advice and label it as "misogyny"

" Take advice *from the women who have the life that you want* " 🔺💯

❤

This has to be the best advice of the topic I’ve ever read. I’m someone with a high paid career as background, but have paused it for motherhood, yet I haven’t been completely disconnected from the career world and my husband and I are building our little empire together. Our family has the best of both worlds.

Oh, she"ll take it all, allright

@@adamjuneau6287 Yep, and what she'll give back will be something superficial, like her "pretty face(which is basically a canvas for all sorts of cosmetics)"

Once it's seen and understood it can never be unseen. I had a fight with mom today. The only solution is don't show any emotion that causes her stress.

I think it’s the way many are socialised

@@tyan_ldn it has to do with the mother and father and what they NOT telling the daughter

@@RitaMcCloud and how the mother publicly treats him in front of her as well as how she talks about him behind his back

@@tyan_ldn my parents are nothing but ashamed of me and my life. Mom probably avoids talking about me at all costs. My dad tells everytime we talk that he talks to psychologists about me and he tells me that they say to him don't talk to your son, it's not good for you. Isn't having thought police disguised as the mental industry perfect cover?

Yeah but…..Women brains don’t work like that.

It’s cuz most men are cucks and allow it to happen. This generation fucking sucks so bad. They ruined the damn world and now we have to live in it

Some women are just not 50 year marriage material and will divorce regardless. The wives of billionaires (Elon Musk, Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos), the wives of Chads (Tom Brady, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp), the wives of funny men (Chris Rock, Robin Williams, Russell Peters) find a reason to divorce their husbands even if they themselves bring nothing to the table.

Do you really tell them that?? That’s being realistic, and hilarious 😂 😂

The son probably isn't going to find a rich woman to marry, unless he's high status or very hot or something. Just because women have the wealth, doesn't mean they'll date down. They'll just all chase after the incredibly small group of top guys, and cope with their loneliness via wine and cats.

I know you were joking but a better message would be to preserve your value to your daughter and create value to your son.

@Greg Samurovich No, no, no, tell your son to get rich as well. Seriously, selection for women is based on height and wealth. If your son is underperforming in height consider asking a doctor if growth hormone therapy could help. Women are turning down men under 6'2'' (not even 6'). Look at "The Economist" article from March of this year. Seriously do NOT slack on height and wealth. Redpill/Blackpill are wrong when it comes to facial looks, they place too much value on it. They are right when it comes to height though. Get your son to get Wealthy / Tall > Fit (under 20% body fat) in that order. Even good looking men are getting scraps on dating apps, the ones who aren't are the tall/wealthy. Good luck to your progeny! And even if he isn't good looking the only way he can change that is through surgery if he is desperate enough and surgery costs money and time.

​@@lightworker2956 Exactly. There's a study showing which wage brackets of women vs men pick of the opposing sex. What happens is NOT that women pick hot guys, is that the wealthy women become EVEN MORE voracious for the top earning men. So everyone wants wealthy men but the ones who want them EVEN MORE are WEALTHY women.

It’s a super power to learn how to enjoy sitting in a room Alone! Very few people will ever learn this

Exactly bro. Im in my late 30s and still experiencing this same challenge. There arent women who want to be with US and to climb together the hurdless of life together WITH us. And even less for men who don't feel to have childrean, I just want a loving partner as I can be to a woman. I battle between the loneliness of not being loved and chosen and the peace and freedom of not being with the wrong woman

No such thing as "romance" except as a pie in the sky beta male fantasy. No woman is looking for "romance." It's fairytale nonsense.

Marriage used to be seen as a cornerstone of life, now it is seen as a capstone.

Yup. If she didn't want you in her prime, don't take her in her decline. Good luck brother.

Same. I find women so boring and banal.

@@ericlarousse1149 go date a man then. Problem solved 😁

I hate to break it to ya, but women always are ready to settle down with the right man. If she says no, it's because she thinks something better might come along.

This sounds like a mix of a 1.cope 2.male-feminist, humble-brag 3. virtue signal "One-night stands with beautiful women bore me. I want a woman so we can TALK about deep issues. I can't find a woman intelectual enough to talk to." 💀

@@canelareina3795 That's exactly what a normie would say.

What country are you talking about. I’m asking for a friend.

Passport -Bros- *Kings* finding true companionship and happiness really warms my heart. 💯

This man is a lawyer

​@@jhylton4274 A doctor could be a mathematician or physicist. It is an honorary title.

We are the prize, though. That's why there's so many videos like this.

@@LisaCulton Not really. These vids are for men most of you deem not good enough. The ones "high value" do not need these and they are the prize most women go for (and end up getting used by). It is pretty simple: the scarcer is the prize. Which is more rare? A good looking woman or a man who is: tall, handsome, has style, has confidence, has success, has money, has ambition, is intelligent, is adventurous, is fun, is charming, in good shape and the myriad of other attributes women come up with? Don't delude yourself: you are not the prize, that is the high value men you all go for.

@@ready2 These videos are for "better living through Psychology". The creator of the videos says it himself. Women have been the prize throughout history and nothing has changed about that. The only thing different in the past 50 years or so is that the prize can decide who wins and gets to go home with it. 😂 Good looking available women are extremely rare.

@@LisaCulton That would only be true if modern women would be capable of lowering their ridiculous standards and go with the average Joe. Until then they will have to be content with sharing those rare men. Good looking women are a hell of a lot more common than men with all the traits I mentioned. Women only have their looks and that fades away with age. All the crap modern women do that they think matter to men? Men with options (precisely the ones women are after) don't give a damn about those. As long as women's standards are so much higher than men's they will artificially create scarcity of men and thus ultimately making them the prize. Simple as that.

Because of the pathetic thirst of far too many men. Many of us have been there putting up with drama and toxic behaviour from a woman who was a raging bitch bought a total smokeshow so we put up it. Of course this never ends well but dick thinking rarely does end well

You can fake being poor or in debt.

Tbh modern dating isn’t great for women either. The ones I talk to don’t seem to like the current dating landscape

Not just a bank/financial security, they also see you as a way to make cute babies who they will get custody of (but you get to pay for them and her via child support).

@@tomaszsosnowski9279 Yup. My cars are 2008 and 2004, and both paid for over a decade ago.

@Brien Meen Boo hoo they created the modern dating culture just like the mee too movement and believe all women. They are reaping what they have sowed over the decades. Maybe in 50 years or so when we Men are appreciated and alot less humans are here then things may reset by I'm not optimistic about it.

agreed. Peace is simply too valuable to men.

Offset what?

" it doesn't offset less alone time, less autonomy, the physicality of pregnancy, lost of income from pregnancy, child rearing expenses, etc" Correct me if I'm wrong, but most of these are all things that women WANT rather than dread - at least up to a certain point. Less alone time - if you don't want less alone time, you shouldn't be in a relationship at all. You should instead be blissfully single. Pregnancy - this is seldom a case of "I didn't want to be a mum but it was necessary so I could be in a relationship". If you really don't want kids, there are plenty of like minded men. Child rearing expenses - again, given the previous statement this would apply anyway to any woman who wants children. They don't grow larger just because you have a partner - actually, they're larger for a single mum putting children in a nursery. These should not be thought of as "the price of being with a man" - rather, these are the motivations that make women (and men) make an effort to have a relationship in the first place.

I’ve always said to most men in serious relationship if it’s really worth the immense amount of effort to keep her happy? I see in most cases it’s not even close to being worth it because the effort/reward ratio is so lopsided in favor of effort .. most men need female validation though - the thought of being a bachelor just doesn’t sit well with them

I am divorced 2 times, 1st when she finally had paid her debt and 2nd when the house she now lives in was fully payed. I‘m not done with women, but the future ones will gave to blame some of my boundaries to their predecessors.

So you think if someone like Jay Z was a woman he would have gotten with a man as handsome as beyonce even if he was just a college graduate with a job paying $150k? Never ever possible. A man as handsome with such career prospects and income, except he is a shameless gold digger will never sleep with a woman as ugly as Jay z or marry. We see it till today how a man born with nothing exceptional can save himself and his lineage if he works hard or gets status and he can get a very beautiful and well educated while looking like spoilt milk (the owner of bar stool being another example) but for women if you are born ugly your financial success only guarantees you won't die of hunger. You are still shamed for being too successful and your success is seen as something shameful. Plus, No one will help you climb the ladder like they help beautiful women. An ugly woman is the bottom of the barrel.

So true. A man's self-esteem is tied to his sexual success. Even if it's only once. Whats worse is society constantly talking about women's promiscuity and sexual freedom. It gives a young man the false impression that if he's not having sex he's a loser. I've contemplated the idea of the legalization of prostitution. Would that help young sexless men whose hormones are raging? It's a complex question.

@@markadams9946 Prostitution is legal. Soliciting is not.

@@markadams9946 I live in a country where prostitution is legal, has always been. But even so, there is a social stigma attached to it, and a few solid reasons for that: - it is considered dirty, which is plausible (and which in turn leads to whores being seen as second class human beings) - it is expensive, so an average earning man whoring regularly will lack the money to impress - you are expected to achieve your sex via "honest competition" on the dating market, paying for it makes you a bit of a loser. Prostitution also has the problem that the kind of women you would want to sleep with tend to have a lot better alternatives in life than offering sex for cash. They could at least offer it for a commitment from a man who can support them. So in order to satisfy the market, you will always need a fair share of relatively unattractive women, as well the modern equivalent of slaves, meaning poor, often foreign girls who are kind of stuck in the situation (for all kinds of reasons, like being illegal, or not having an education or whatever else it would take them to quit and find a regular job). So, no, prostitution is not a solution, or if it is, it apparently does not work for the majority of men.

@@Volkbrecht thank you for sharing that perspective! Interesting. I’m not an advocate, but it sounds very similar to the situation we have where it is illegal. The difference is that prostitutes (men/women) can not elicit help from the police when they are abused because they are considered criminals. It would be interesting to see how it works out for Nevada. I find it ironic that the radical feminists support sex workers. Freedom of choice. It’s never about men though. In some countries men are the criminals and female sex workers are the victims. That’s a perfect example of gynocentrism. Sorry didn’t mean to deviate from the subject of the thread.

Blue collar skills are very underrated! An office worker will scream when a mechanic charges to fix a wheel bearing, why don't they do it themselves?

A week ago I had an argument with my girlfriend of 3 months, or maybe she is ex girlfriend now, we have a pause or something. She said that my life is monotonous and that it is one of the reasons she is not attracted to me anymore. I can cook, work with wood, I can repair electrical stuff, build computers, I know farming, I do sports. But she felt like that is monotonous because most of the time I don't need to do all this stuff and instead I work at MY OWN company and also play volleyball. She only saw that I do those two things. I even repaired electricity ar her house and she wasn't impressed by it. Her mother loved it though 😅 She is also still a student without a car license and mostly works student jobs like hostess work or coloring her hair for hair dye testing. My life looks boring to her because she is doing a different job every week and has time to do other stuff meanwhile I have responsibility of keeping a good buisness at my woodworking company. I can't understand her. Apparently we meet again in a week for a concert that we wanted to go at before the argument.

@@mynameisjeff9560 I feel for you man, been through similar experiences. I think when they're younger they equate stability = boring. They haven't had enough life happen to them to know just how precious stability is, and get their ideas based on their single friends and social media highlight reels. Flash over substance.

@@new_game2589 yeah she is 21 and I'm 25. She is not a spoiled girl by any means though. Always paid for herself wherever we went, even on the first date. I never felt like she was expecting me to pay for her even though I make more money. She even helped me at my company a few times when she wasn't able to get her own work. But I can see that she always wants to do things and go somewhere and my work doesn't allow me to just leave for 2 weeks and go on holiday. Maybe once a year. I'll see how it will go next saturday. How she will feel about us

@@mynameisjeff9560 I would suggest you start seeing other people!

You lie. Many women choose to have babies outside wedlock and share a higher value male while the lower values ones will die out

There is a price for success. Let them pay it with their loneliness.

Pure baloney. Many many many women have zero problems being alone. We have more friends on average.

@@lorrilewis2178 Being a single woman in your 20s and 30s is pretty fun. But being a single woman in your 40s isn't for most women. Let alone being single in your 50s. Or 60s. Or 70s. The average woman may say that she's fine with that, but then the average woman is either lying or not realizing what life is like as a 60-something single childless woman. I don't deny that there's a couple of women who probably will be genuinely happy at 60 without a partner or kids. But that's not the average woman. Meanwhile a married woman in her 60s may very well be happily looking after her grandchildren.

@@lightworker2956 Why do you think a 60-year-old woman can't have fun in life? That's really weird.

Well said & Excllent observation.

They’ve got nothing else to sacrifice nor offer if they’ve sacrificed their femininity 🤔 Imo. If a woman is gonna date down, she can, but she won’t be faithful. The man won’t be respected! Best leave these types of women alone.

May I add that both men and women have proven that they can be selfish but in the west, modern women have *overwhelmingly* proven to be selfish such that it is rare to find a decent human being and to top it off it is celebrated and incentivized socially(friends, family) , culturally (f〰️ism, only▪️fans) and legally (family court, child support etc) for example a wife can cheat on her husband or get pregnant by another man and family and friends will try and convince the one cheated on to 'man up' and not let the innocent child grow up without a father or courts will still make the husband who has not cheated to still pay alimony in a no fault state... 🔺

Yea loved the realness of that

Guys in terrible marriages are lonely as are divorced guys who just see their kids every other weekend or who barely see their teenage kids as they are too busy or have been turned against the father. I think being alone is actually quite common regardless of relationship status.

As a woman I absolutely agree. I have gone further and become more successful without a man’s shenanigans and energy drain. Depends on the guy for sure. But men aren’t really showing up as the men of my Dads era. That’s for sure!

@@SEVENTHREEANDNINE I think the men are responding to changes in women.

Don't do it. You marry now and she'll clean out your retirement money.

@@davidehl323 It is great to hear that very slowly, more and more guys are finally realizing the juice isn't worth the squeeze, and that marriage is a horrifically biased and one-sided contract that rewards one party while financially ruining the other party.

neither nor, most of the time the juice isn't worth the squeeze

@@TheyCalledMeT Agreed. I'm entitled to my own success and mental stability, which is also why I'm single.

@@mathias1dk well.. there where times and there are places where you face far less entitlement, more cooperation and appreciation, but those places are extremely rare today in the west

Thankfully post nut clarity is a thing for men. After dumpster diving on a slow Tuesday night, they suddenly wake up and leave when they realize what they just did.

Guys in terrible marriages are very lonely as are divorced guys who just see their kids every other weekend or who barely see their teenage kids because they are too busy or have been turned against the father. I think being alone is actually quite common regardless of relationship status.

Easier said than done.

@Carl women who take on masculine characteristics are rarely attractive & rarely make good partners….the feminine virtues (among women) have fallen out of favor….but this makes it easy for many men to stay single & stay sane.

Yep. Been there, she really did make my life miserable.

>women feeling empathy for men That is wishful thinking. Women are incapable of that.

Agree but I do struggle with the recent desire to smash gender roles. It’s really messing up modern dating dynamics

@@brianmeen2158 the changing of gender roles are related to all the other changes in society. The greater reliance on technology and living in bustling cities inevitably changes up dynamics in our social lives as well.

I can't agree even more. But humans have vast, vast empathy holes, and don't wonder about it. Some examples. The Christians, who read the bible, and gave those bibles to slaves thinking of themself, they are good people. Talking to a feminist about self-destruction rate of men, seeing their very predictable reaction, while they are thinking for themself , they wanna get equality regarding both sexes. And finally what people are thinking about, if they should remember about most terrible times in history. I bet almost no-one is thinking about the Belgians in the Kongo then.

We found the simp!

Yep. I've gotten more support from the men in my life, while the women in my life were often the "deal with it" / "man up" types.

That's right. Maybe try asking a successful career woman how she will use her understanding of corporate accounting or [insert professional skill here] to benefit the household.

Good lord. High-earning women aren't letting their homes go to hell in a hand basket. 🙄 Nor does earning a high salary mean a woman is not fit, attractive, empathetic, or altruistic. I don't think you actually know any of these women. They are people - not cartoon villains.

@@thecurrentmoment Her understanding of corporate accounting or (insert professional skill here) PAYS HOUSEHOLD BILLS.

​@@lorrilewis2178 I'm married to one. And she's married to a retired combat veteran and current CEO who taught her everything she knows about keeping a home, because when I met her she had been convinced by feminists that learning any type of domestic skills would prove she was a victim of the patriarchy. The next time you hear a fem-bot start shrieking about toxic masculinity, I challenge *YOU* to remember "they are people, not cartoon villains." And FYI, my body count rivals my confirmed kills, and with a handful of exceptions they were all "high-earning women."

@@advhawk6455 Your wife had ideas that keeping the house going was toxic, but MOST women take care of stuff and more often than men do. Why does your body count come into it?

You mean rich and handsome. Just handsome works only in high school.

@@oemj7147 Well, if you're rich and handsome, you can date just about anyone. But if you're "only" a guy hot, there's still an endless amount of women who want to sleep with you, no matter how many flaws you might have. If women can't find a hot + rich guy, they'll typically sleep a bunch with the hot guys first before they eventually settle down with the rich / stable / reliable guy. So being a hot guy = tons of sex.

It's a great time to be a 6'5" handsome guy

@John S. ジョン・サラ Hey! (I said to myself) I didn't know I had such a nice butt.

I tell people this all the time. An eternal 22 year old Asain that has the Best option. A on/OFF button. She can be customized, the 😽 can be Replaced in some models. Women have made themselves "unavailable" and in the near future obsolete. When animatronic woman are available in mass production & available for $10,000$ then it's Game on.

Well, if you're a 10/10 guy, you'll probably still want a real girlfriend. Because if you're a 10/10, she probably does want to sleep with you all the time, and she probably is kind and feminine and pleasant to be around. Or at least, you can pick a woman who is. It's more like the 7/10 and lower guys, with whom women aren't completely happy and so they withhold sex or they nag. It's those kind of guys who may go for the AI girlfriend.

@@lightworker2956 Nobody stays 10/10 for very long. Man or woman.

We're already paying for everything and having the babies. LOL

@@LisaCulton Unfortunately those babies aren't turning out well adjusted

Women have been paying for themselves for ages now! Where have you been? The ones complaining are the ones wanting men in their lives JUST TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING

@@garcher2 Who are you to judge? I also know multiple women (professional women at that) who were dumped and abandoned by their men while they were *pregnant* (!) and ended up raising the child alone and those children turned out to be well-adjusted, successful adults.

​@@LisaCulton well just because you know a few people who haven't grown up to be fuck ups doesn't mean they don't exist lol. The fact is that the majority of the inmates in the US come from single parent households.

I've had friends with young daughters who have told me that their is a high percentage that identify as bisexual. They said that it's considered the cool thing to do. I guess that's one way to get around the hypergamy problem.

@@markadams9946 Unfortunately the rate of domestic violence among women partners is higher than heterosexual partners. They also divorce more frequently than married heterosexual couples. And most interesting, married gay men have a lower rate of divorce than all other gendered paired couples.

Your problem is that you care about your feelings… or that you need vindication at all. Masculine men develop and internal locus of control. They do not rely on others for validation

Most of the lower status men will either die out or be fodder for enrichment for guys like Andrew Tate and this guy.

they do this now, have been doing it. it's nothing significant tho.

​@Yung Bali The way society is structured right now, even if everyone becomes a hustling baller, there's still plenty of guys who will be forced to flip burgers. Society as it is now needs an underclass who works for minimum wage to keep society running. So even if everyone become super smart and hard working and motivated, there'll still be a small group of rich successful guys who get all the money and sex, and a huge group of undersexed guys. This is not a temporary freak accident, even back in ancient Rome they had a ton of peasants and a few incredibly rich guys. The only time in history when the average guy could reproduce wasn't that one time where everyone worked hard and smartly. The time in history when the average guy could reproduce was when women needed to be married to a guy in order to not starve to death, and casual sex / having multiple partners was simply not an option.

They already do. Then they whine about men being cheating dogs.

It's already happening very frequently.

If you don't meet a partner in high school or college age like you did, during the development process, the chance of a successful marriage drops significantly. Combine that with the circumstances of our modern society and you have a culture of childless, loveless 30+ year olds who are basically limited to hookup culture.

You guys deserve the world! You two better stick together, 'cause it's madness out here. I wish that would happen to me, but more and more I see it's not likely. 😅

You are very lucky. Remember that when there are bumps in the road and don't give up.

Umm You dated older at a young age and found an older man. Like it’s suppose to be 😂

They want micro-inequality for their personal situations in an overall macro-equal environment. The problem is since they all want it, the overall effect in society is a contradictory desire for macro-inequality and macro-equality at the same time. And instead of dealing with the impossibility of this conundrum internally, they offload the blame onto men for not making this paradoxical demand of theirs, possible.

@@justlurkin yep, victim mentality and deflection. Epic hamster wheel logic going on

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