The Cornish Knitter -saved WIPs, body confidence, community building, and knickers.

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The Cornish Knitter -saved WIPs, body confidence, community building, and knickers.
Hello, I am Jane from Falmouth in Cornwall, UK. I am an avid knitter and owner of Stitches and Cream, a yarn shop specialising in natural fibres and British yarns.
www.stitchesandcream.co.uk/
It's been a while since we last spoke! Allow me to update you on the progress of my WIPs (Work in Progress) after taking into account all the great advice you gave me on my previous video. I'll also be talking about my latest knitting and crochet projects.
I share my thoughts on ageing and ponder on why we let other people's opinions affect how we feel. And I'll tell you one of my most embarrassing stories, which involves Spanx.
Finally, I'll reveal what I've been working on in the background - creating a more inclusive and engaging online community that everyone can participate in. The Cornish Knitters Flock is almost here, and I hope you'll join me in creating and shaping a global community of knitters and yarn enthusiasts.
Thank you for watching, and please like, subscribe, share with friends, and of course, comment! I will try to respond to as many as I can.
Find me on IG: @stitchesandcreamfalmouth
The Cornish Knitter Flock launches on 22nd May - registration is open for 10 days until 31st May 2024 www.stitchesandcream.co.uk/th...
What I am wearing:
Ranunculus www.ravelry.com/patterns/libr...
WIPs projects mentioned!
Loppe Socks by Fiber Tales
Sian by Elizabeth Doherty www.ravelry.com/patterns/libr...
Harlow Hat by Andrea Mowry
Love Note by Tin Can Knits www.ravelry.com/patterns/libr...
Olive’s Wrap by Knitting for Olive
Cosy Comfort Crochet Blanket by Shannon Long www.ravelry.com/patterns/libr...
Tadami Shawl by Ito in Loop of London www.ravelry.com/patterns/libr...
Strodie by Kate Davies Designs www.ravelry.com/patterns/libr...
Deep Sea Dickie by Valerie Ng www.ravelry.com/patterns/libr...
Half + Half Triangles Wrap www.ravelry.com/patterns/libr...
Current projects:
Garden Cardigan by Ankestrick www.ravelry.com/patterns/libr...
Yarn: @MakeDK by Fibre Co. www.stitchesandcream.co.uk/pr...
Polina Pullover by Teti Lutsak www.ravelry.com/patterns/libr...
Yarn: Cumbria Fingering by the Fibre Co.
All at Sea Gansey Socks - our own Sock Club design
Yarn: John Arbon Exmoor Sock www.stitchesandcream.co.uk/pr...
Honorary mentions:
Iolair Yarns www.iolairyarn.com/
Wild and Bare Fibres www.etsy.com/uk/shop/WildandB...
Lammermuir Wool www.lammermuirwool.scot/

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@paperandtwine 9 күн бұрын

Your comments about body confidence struck a chord. I’m 60 next year and have felt that I’m becoming more invisible over the past few years. I’m not ready to be old, still feel 17 inside. You are a strong woman, Jane, dress for you and wear what makes your heart sing

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 9 күн бұрын

Thank you. I am fighting that feeling of getting older all the time and like you feel young inside so can totally empathise with you ☺️

@paperandtwine 6 күн бұрын

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@Ceylon.55 Ай бұрын

Lovely to see you again Jane and i must say i totally can relate to everything you said. I am 68 and a petite lady who has always enjoyed fashion and i have a strong dress sense. I realise that now i dress much more age appropriate, but still enjoy looking nice and neat. You are right in that inside you still feel much younger. I run and keep fit and try to look after myself. I lost my dearly loved husband from cancer 18 months ago and am learning to live a different life. Don't let anybody upset you, it is very thoughtless of young people to comment on how people look. My daughter was born in Cornwall and we lived there for many years. I am determined to visit again and will come into your lovely yarn store. Thank you for a lovely podcast x

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you for your lovely comments and so sorry for your loss. That must be so hard. Do come back and visit. We will give you such a welcome return home 🥰

@juliemccullagh3962 Ай бұрын

Hi Jane, I once heard someone say ‘Other people’s opinion of me are none of my business’. This works wonders for me and makes me smile every time….very freeing! Please don’t allow these rude people to get you down. You are a lovely lady and always look fabulous. Great episode 💕💕

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

What a great saying! Thank you I will remember that one now ☺️

@lydiaporter2281 Ай бұрын

Its a pact .😅❤X

@snowbirdtbd3688 11 күн бұрын

Be yourself. Don't let others determine your style. I have my own style and it is purely for comfort. I am in my late 60's. My blue jeans aren't frayed or ripped. I don't look look like I have been poured into too tight leggings and body rolls showing. When people point their finger at others, they need to look at the three fingers pointing back at themselves. Chin up. I can honestly say I am not judging you on appearance. I watch for the knitting and crafting content and the joy it brings to me.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 10 күн бұрын

Thank you so much. What a lovely comment 🫶

@Balder24975 Ай бұрын

We’ve all been there- us older women being shushed or invisible or pushed into a box or treated as not worth investing in. Whereas older men are usually treated with respect from the outset, we have to earn it all of our lives. It’s horrible and probably linked to how we were brought up and how we are all bombarded by youth and perfection being the yardstick everyone is measured by. Thanks for addressing this. Your knitting is beautiful and so are you!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. It was ever thus wasn’t it. It doesn’t feel like we have shifted the dial much in how women and men are treated and viewed as we get older 🙄

@NYGram119 Ай бұрын

Im turning 60 this year, and although never bothered by age before, I find myself thinking more about this one. BUT then I tell myself that at 60, I have the blessing of watching my two children making their way in the world, having fun with my three little grands, celebrating 37 years of marriage, and wisdom that only comes with years. I'm striving to be thankful, and I hope you will, too. You're beautiful, Jane, and are giving us all so much❤!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. I found turning 60 a reflective time, especially as a I lost a dear friend suddenly literally a few weeks before and we were the same age. It made me thankful for everything I have and determined to make the most of life whilst I still can ☺️

@janetredinnick9715 7 күн бұрын

I loved this podcast! I was ahead of you most of the time 😂 I’m 66 and have a treatable but incurable cancer and that gives you a whole different outlook on life! I don’t care what people think or say, but I don’t keep my thoughts on anything said to myself 😂🤣

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 7 күн бұрын

Sorry to hear about your treatment and condition. Good on you. And thank you for reminding me that what others think is irrelevant it’s how it makes US feel that’s important 🥰

@lydiaporter2281 Ай бұрын

Hi Jane I so understand how you feel.You know I notice how much older I look when I go to my hairdresser,I'm 67 .I look in the salon mirror and I feel so old and not at all what I'm feeling inside ,the two just dont marry up, if you know what I mean .The last time made me quite depressed tbh.Keep doing what you luv and take no notice of offhand remarks and I'll stop looking in mirrors ha ha .xx

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Oh goodness. I dread a hairdresser session. Glad I need glasses and the mirror looks all blurry to me 😂🤣 let’s form a pact. You don’t look in the mirror at the hairdressers and I will smile and ignore the nasty comments 😜

@marilynwheatley2363 Ай бұрын

Oh Jane. What a hoot your Spanx story was. I laughed so hard because I remember wearing those for my daughter’s wedding and being SO uncomfortable! I can certainly identify with ALL your comments on aging and I’m much older than you. Get ready- more is coming. By the time you reach my age you’ve completely faded into the woodwork. I find it rather amusing. I just frogged several projects that had been on long vacations around my house! It was so cathartic. I felt like I had a new lease on life. I love your podcast and always look forward to a new one. Thank you.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much. Yep they are garments of torture and I have given up trying to squeeze into them anymore after that experience. From your comment I am sure you never fade into the woodwork 🥰

@maggiewarrington2319 Ай бұрын

Lovely to see you, I totally agree with your thoughts. I’m 71 and coming to terms with being older I think, not easy at all! I’m so looking forward to joining the flock, I only have one friend who knits near me and no local knitting community to join. So this very exciting! Much love xx

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Yay. Thank you. ☺️ it’s not easy getting older but I am learning ☺️

@valeriethomas7562 Ай бұрын

Im so sorry you experienced that Jane. I'm 63 and also experienced a sense of being invisible now that I'm older. I have to admit it angers me when I hear some think they have every right to judge another...and what is also so comical is that 'They' will also age. Anyway you look lovely

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much. ☺️ I agree they will hopefully get to our age and let’s hope things will have improved!

@1karenoliver Ай бұрын

I'm 61 and proud! I wear lots of bright colours and knit in bright colours and wear exactly what I want (within reason). We are creatives, and therefore have our own unique styles which reflect that and if people don't see that or "get" that then that's up to them and doesn't affect me. I feel quite sorry for people who don't knit 🤣

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Absolutely love your attitude. I need some more to rub off on me but I am getting there ☺️

@margaretgerth1067 Ай бұрын

Hi Jane, you are one of my favourite podcasters. I love your knitting content but also identify so well with your outlook on life as we age. I’m 73 but don’t feel even close to that and I remember my Mum saying the same thing. She lived to 93. It’s amazing how we brush off compliments but take a criticism so to heart and dwell on it. When I was still in my early 60’s a young clerk in a department store called me “dear”. I am 5’10” and dress smartly and I worried about it all day! I lost my lovely husband when we were 58 so I know growing older is a real privilege. I’m going to,look into your new group as it sounds perfect. Love your scenes of Cornwall as I have mentioned before. Born in Surrey, England and came to Canada when I was 14. I’ve been back but never to Cornwall. Soon, I hope. Thanks for being “you”. 💞 Margaret in Surrey, British Columbia.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Hi Margaret. Do come back soon and thank you for your lovely comments and for sharing your story. I am sorry that you were widowed so young. The word ‘dear’ is so patronising isn’t it? II would have felt that too 🥰

@user-gk2tp7lz5v Ай бұрын

What a lovely podcast, I can relate to big girl pants too and aging and sometimes being invisible too, I am 63! It’s a pity you overheard the comments as it’s hard not to listen, but we can’t change other people’s opinions. You always seem to make lovely choices of your clothes and colours too that suit you. I am envious of your summer knits you wear as I have yet to make mine! I hope in sharing your thoughts you realise we can all relate to this too x

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. I know that many of you relate to my experiences and it’s lovely to be able to share them so we can all support each other 🥰

@evelynszpyrka2550 11 күн бұрын

Hi Jane, some people are just rude. Nothing is private anymore since 9/11. With that said, don’t be embarrassed, I would’ve taking it from the guards and slap their hands. lol 😝 love your knits ❤ and podcast! I’m embracing my age 60! Love it

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 10 күн бұрын

Thank you. Go girl 😉

@sylvieboulanger8155 Ай бұрын

I'm 70 and never cared about other people's opinions. However I must say, that, like you, I'm always surprised when I see myself in the mirror or in photographs.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Haha. Good for you and just don’t look in the mirror anymore then we can think that we look like we feel inside 🥰

@jilliankonig2759 3 күн бұрын

In reference to your age comments, I think young people have become to making anonymous comments about others, but are now saying those thoughts aloud and have forgotten civility (if they ever possessed it). Their own insecurity and focus on appearances has been amplified by social media. They think it's important. I look back and remember spending way too much time making sure that my shoes and accessories went together, and my clothing was just so. I can honestly say that at 69 I no longer care about self-appointed "influencers". I don't understand why anybody cares what some 20-year-old thinks is the latest great thing. I rarely look in a mirror, unless I'm getting something out of my eye. It does no good to focus on being self-critical. It is much more important to enjoy this phase of my life, despite being a 24-7 caregiver to my disabled spouse. Knitting is my escape, and I enjoy the creative outlet.

@suehillman7189 Ай бұрын

I really enjoyed this vlog, thankyou. Your story about your spanks was hilarious. I’m soon coming down for my annual holiday in Cornwall, but this year as it’s my 60th year I’m spoiling myself with 3 weeks. I normally visit Falmouth several times whilst I’m down. But I have never spotted your shop. I only found your you tube Chanel at the beginning of the year. I will definitely come along and say hello. In the meantime thankyou for the great vlog.

@suehillman7189 Ай бұрын

Next Friday, the 24th. Excited.xx

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Please do! And let me know when you are around so that I can say hi in person ☺️

@joscott5729 Ай бұрын

Thank you Jane for a lovely podcast. Regarding your train trip. I imagine because you wore something bright you were noticed and some people don’t like it as they probably don’t like to stand out as they don’t have the confidence themselves. The fact you were the topic of conversation shows you weren’t invisible which is a good thing, so continue to wear bright clothes with confidence. I am 52 menopausal and love clothes and will always wear what I like. X

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

You go girl. Keep that confidence high. Thank you for reminding me that it I was at least noticeable 🥰 a great way to look at it

@pamroebuck4764 Ай бұрын

Totally with you on getting a little older and I certainly feel invisible. You always make fab choices in what you wear when podcasting and what right does anyone have to judge you anyway. I hate the fact that our bodies change so much after menapause ☹. It's good to share r we feel.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. I wasn’t anticipating such a change would happen and we have to learn to adapt to it but I must admit I often struggle to do it 🙄

@christinepatmore9060 Ай бұрын

You cant please all the people! Be your beautiful self... Wear what you love that makes you feel good,make up,knitwear,clothes,whatever Dont let other people affect how you feel about you Do what brings you joy xxx😊

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. Usually I am fine and just ignore it but it got to me that day. I gave myself a good talking too later 🥰

@kspiceknits Ай бұрын

So excited to have discovered your lovely podcast. Loved your Spanx story and we share the same pattern interests including the Garden Cardigan (I knit two in a row), many Ranunculus, and have had my eye on the Polina pullover for a long while. Thank you so much, looking forward to your next episode!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Yay, thank you! ☺️

@seamancarol5407 Ай бұрын

So lovely to see you and listen to you this morning. It was just what I needed to remind myself that us ladies of a certain age are amazing and have so much to offer. Being part of this wonderful community has definitely helped me reinvent myself. Thank you for sharing your struggles, they resonate and help me try and not dwell on the opinions of others. Love your humour, your work to bring people together and last but not least your beautiful yarn, knitting and crochet. Have a lovely day you amazing human xx

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you lovely. 🥰 I just try to be honest about my life. Both the good and the bad and I am glad it resonates with people. ☺️

@ivyshawl-song1994 Ай бұрын

Loved your chat about body confidence and the feeling of being invisible. I'm right there with you! I would love to hear more about how you modify a pattern you love to fit your own body or style.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. I will talk about that soon 😍

@marinalenzi3150 Ай бұрын

I just discovered your channel and it’s been such a joy! I adore your insights about knitting and life.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much!☺️

@lynnechinnock4020 Ай бұрын

Oh Jane, my heart went out to you ❤️ the world is such a cruel place, I’m 69 & a retired nurse, I worked within the NHS for 44 years I loved my job, I’ve been retired for a few years & I, like you feel invisible somedays, but please believe in your self, you are beautiful, you are loved, just learn to love yourself. On a slightly different note, the story of the knickers had me in stitches 😂literally! Big hugs xxx

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much. I am usually able to shrug it off but for some reason that day I couldn’t. We need to be proud of our age don’t we and all that life experience! ☺️

@nancymorgan5505 Ай бұрын

I can relate being 69 and I have learned not to worry about what other people think. I dress comfortably for myself. 😊

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Good for you Nancy. I am usually pretty resilient but it caught me at an unguarded moment I think 🤔

@EileenK64 Ай бұрын

Love your podcast. I’ll be 60 in September and I don’t feel that old AT ALL! (Not that 60 is old I think it’s young 😃) Beautiful blue sweater!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. Thankfully 60 is no longer ‘old’. We are in our prime 😜☺️

@ansomemaid Ай бұрын

Thank you Jane for all the knitting content, but also for your thoughts on ageing. I'm about your age and sometimes feel that the world isn't particularly kind to women as they get older. It's lovely to follow someone who I can relate to and who makes the kind of clothes and I would feel happy knitting for myself.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much. I agree I think women can have a hard time as we get older. 🥰

@PawfectPastimesAmo Ай бұрын

I hope your mum is recovering well. In this day and age of ‘be kind’ and anything goes, it’s very rude of anyone to comment let alone where you can hear. One day they will learn gaining age is a privilege and not a given right.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

So true. Thank you mum is ok now but we will keep an eye on her for more episodes. ☺️

@tinawalker4237 5 күн бұрын

You're right , why do we care. I think it's human nature to care about what is said about you. I can understand how hurt you were. Awful that you heard the comment. You are always looking wonderful. I think you are a lovely caring person. Sadly those younger people who commented I would think are not nice people, perhaps as they age they will feel differently. Keep being you, you touch many people. 😊

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 4 күн бұрын

Thank you for such lovely comments 🥰

@shelleycollett322 Ай бұрын

Love your podcast, your knitting, your travels and your thoughtful comments. At 63 I can relate to the ‘oh you knit’ comments & the invisibleness we sometimes experience. As they say, we have to smile, ignore & find our own tribe who we connect with. Comments are still a bit deflating though!The spanx story is brilliant - brought back some uncomfortable 😂memories! Your audience appreciates the effort that you put into your podcasts.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏻 I truly hate Spanx and I hope younger women of today don’t feel the pressure to wear them. Us more ‘mature’ ladies have learned the hard way 🤣

@deedeadman3657 16 күн бұрын

Thank you Jane. Remain a strong woman and shake off those feelings. Your business ethics in terms of supporting other business women is admiral. The knicker conversation made me smile. We had to do P.E. in our school uniform knickers if we forgot our kit. I doubt schools can even do that now!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 13 күн бұрын

Oh I remember that too 🥹 thank you ☺️

@epiphany8276 Ай бұрын

Full circle back to M&S knickers here! Invisible when with my daughter and visible when with my mum who has sadly just passed at 94. At a recent family do I was happy to be told I looked 10years younger than my 70 years! Thanks for a thoughtful podcast. Jane.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

I am sure you do look 10 years younger 🥰 I love a pair of M&S big girl pants too 😜

@nancylorenzutti3453 Ай бұрын

Hello!! I had to stop the video to comment on what you were saying about people making you feel bad , of course we are affected by cruel comments or negative comments, but I have learned to value myself no matter what, we all have to keep reinventing ourselves ! I’m 71, I love my family and my hobbies, but I’m a bit of a recluse by choice cause when I was in a very difficult time people just avoid you, they don’t want anything bad to rub off on them, there are what I call exceptional people, no malice , no bragging , no agenda, but they are rare, believe me, I promised a cat I had and when I put him to sleep I promised him I wouldn’t let anyone do that to me, I e make me feel unimportant, sorry for the rant, I love the yarn !!!!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story. I am so glad you are in a better and more confident place. I surround myself only with people I trust and know an authentic so I don’t have many close friends but they are the best. ☺️

@MayMcLeod-tv3tt Ай бұрын

Great episode! Love your outlook 😊

@user-pf8uh8lo6e Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing Jane. I could totally relate to what you said. I am 66 years old and still working because I want to and because it gives me purpose. I lost my husband when I was 63 which really changed whatever future we had envisaged. I’m still smiling and moving forward, but adjusting to my new normal can feel very isolating.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you and so sorry to hear about your loss. That must have been devastating. Keep smiling and enjoying life. We have so much still to give 🥰

@MrsKWheatley 13 күн бұрын

I am approaching 60 and am always on the look-out for people whose style I admire and can emulate. You definitely fall into the category of someone whose style I admire. I know that negative comments can upset us disproportionately - and I hope that my positive comment can go some way to counteracting the little know-it-alls on the train. If they are lucky, they will dress in as individual and as stylish a way as you (dare I say, us?) when they are no longer the age that the media champions. Chin up, Jane - you're bloody brilliant xx

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 12 күн бұрын

Aw thank you so much 🥰

@sharons5723 Ай бұрын

Great episode. Love the gansey socks and would love to purchase the pattern.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. I will let you know when we release it 😊

@maureencandlish8292 Ай бұрын

Thanks for another great podcast I love it when my notifications say you’ve got a new one out. A funny story I have happened a few year ago when a young mam with two small children was trying to persuade her children to give up their seat on the bus for me. The oldest one was happy to do that but the younger girl didn’t want to. Anyway the older one started saying to her sister that she had to get up for very very old people because they will die soon, haha, I’m 70 next month but inside don’t feel it. I met a woman I know recently who is in her mid eighties and I commented on how lovely her coat was and how she suited the colour. I seen her again the next day and she said she hadn’t stopped thinking about my compliment to her and how it made her day. It just shows how one comment can drag your mood down when another can do wonders for your day. Anyway I’m rabbiting on, will go and check out your community post. Loved the St Michaels mount video. Take care and see you soon x

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you for such a fabulous story. Haha that made me chuckle 🤭 I always try to compliment people if I can as I know how it can make us feel. Sometimes people are taken completely by surprise when I do as they are so not used to people saying nice things to them. 🥰

@nixkbing1192 Ай бұрын

Jane, you are very visible to people who are able to look closely. Thank you for another varied episode!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Oh thank you! What a lovely comment 🥰

@marniewilliams8523 Ай бұрын

Hi Jane, love to watch your podcast and love all your knits as I have knit quite a few of the same. As for the very rude younger people on your train journey let's hope no one makes disparaging comments about them. Getting older is a privilege not a given. I had breast cancer 12 years ago and that definitely makes you realise what's important and what's not and their comments are definitely not important. I'm 59 next birthday and I'm loving being older far more than when I was in my 20's/30's, mind you that might be because our first grandchildren was born 5 weeks ago. Please don't let nasty people bring you down. Looking forward to your next episode xx

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you and congratulations on becoming a grandma/nan. What a lovely reason to knit too! 🥰

@georginabird9354 Ай бұрын

I’m now 70 so can relate to your comments , and I’m certainly not ready to give life up just yet , I’m absolutely loving your podcasts , love the sock , will the pattern be available to us that don’t belong to the sock club , I would love to knit that for my son , who loves his hand knitted socks , I’m really keen to try the amble yarn , is this really good for all socks knitting , and I totally agree ,I don’t like this patron idea or buy me a Kofe , but certainly interested in becoming a flocker , and also thinking of joining the sock club , but money dictates what I can or can not do xx and I’m sure you will know what I mean x x x ❤

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you for your lovely comments. Yes Amble is great for all socks. It is so soft and squishy. I can provide the Gansey Sock Box and pattern but it isn’t available generally at the moment. Maybe in a few months time. 🥰

@jillfoster6369 Ай бұрын

Hi Jane, I would have spoken to these people and asked them “if they were talking about me”. I was just thinking how good you looked and then you told us this story. You wear what you like and what makes you feel good. Does not matter what anyone else thinks. It’s all about what you feel. ( whoever you are). As for the knickers - look at the M&S high leg, high waist lace & silk knickers. £12 a pair but fabulous and worth every penny. Just bought a red pair to match all the others I have. Great vlog so thank you. Go and walk tall now and know you nail it ⭐️👏

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. M&S here I come! X 🥰

@lindaturner2980 Ай бұрын

Jane you are gorgeous, inside and out! As I’ve got older I’ve become comfortable in my skin and really don’t care what anyone thinks about me - that’s their stuff, not mine. No-one is entitled to judge another - although we all do it (but not necessarily out loud!) Young people naturally tend to have a rather limited perspective on life whereas older people can be critical of the young - that’s how it goes! BUT it’s our choice how we respond emotionally and whether or not we let other people’s comments affect us. Rejoice and be happy with who you are - you are unique - and special to so many people, family, friends and your on-line community and we love you for who you are. Enjoyed the podcast and the trip to St Michael’s Mount. Love & gratitude, Linda x💕🧶🧦🐑💕

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you Linda for your lovely comments and advice. I am usually pretty resilient but that day it just got to me which it shouldn’t have done ☺️

@knitsbystephanie_ Ай бұрын

Thank you another wonderful episode! A few years ago when I was in my late 20’s I lived in a house, my housemate commented on what I was wearing (was about to go out) and how maybe I should reconsider it as the clothes were a bit “young” for me (I’m sure she was well meaning). I replied that I didn’t appreciate her comment and I would wear what I wanted, and she never commented again 😊 I also get your thoughts about people’s stereotypes about knitters; a couple of years when I told some people in my family that I had started to knit, I was asked “but isn’t knitting just for old ladies” (I’m currently 32 years old). I was shocked how some people can be so ageist and sexist! I love your focus on inclusivity and building a community and I can’t wait to join The Cornish Knitter’s Flock 🥰 I’ve got a few knitting friends where I live, but I’m looking forward to connecting with even more people and get inspired and just be a part of a wonderful community.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much ☺️ . I am glad you want to become a ‘flocker’ too 😜

@Meredith36 Ай бұрын

I want to tell you you’re a blessing for the community you’ve created and are creating, as well as your honesty. Lol, I’m in my 30s and own a whole thing of spanks and shape-wear- your story was hilarious. I’m sorry you had to experience that nonsense with those young people- people are fools at times. They'll be rethinking things if they are lucky enough to grow older. Take up space and embrace yourself! Happy knitting and crocheting 💚🧶💚

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🤗 that was definitely the last time I tried to squeeze myself into those Spanx 😜

@maryp1224 Ай бұрын

Thank you Jane for a great podcast. I can relate to what age my mind is compared to the mirror! and the knickers story had me laughing! your thoughts/teachings are always such an inspiration to me. And than you for your travel videos....this one was so beautiful.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

You are so welcome! 🤗

@suebrown436 Ай бұрын

Such a lovely episode Jane. Your story about the interview and the Spanks being found in your handbag was just so funny, and so easy to imagine and sympathise with your embarrassment! A lot of what you said about the age thing resonated with me - I am older than you but feel exactly the same way. I love to knit the latest designs by women far younger than me, and I know I'm not going to look anywhere near as good as they do, but it gives me a lift to wear something I've made myself, in beautiful yarn, that is just that little bit different. We must learn not to take other people's comments to heart, hard though that may be. Thoroughly enjoyed the walk across to St Michael's Mount with you!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. Yep I accept they will Look different wt but that’s what’s make them unique as they are different on many bodies! Never ever wearing those Spanx again. It cured me of my vanity 🤣

@monicamarshall8273 Ай бұрын

I used to be so bad at worrying what others think and trying to avoid drawing attention to myself. Spent a lot of my childhood/teen years being bullied at school etc. and consequently went out of my way to avoid bright colours and only wear baggy clothes etc. Looking back now, obviously I would have just stuck out like a sore thumb 😅. Finally at a point where I can just be me and ignore other people's opinions and it's so freeing. I still find it upsetting that some people decide to express their opinions about how others look, and I feel a bubble of anger on your behalf hearing this as I know how it can impact someone's confidence. I've finally realised, we can't please everyone so I'm just gonna do what I can to please myself and just be myself. Just remember, you are a wonderful, fabulous person and just be you ❤

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much. It is great to hear how you have learned to be self confident and not pay attention to your inner childhood experiences. I am with you on finding out as I get older that we can’t please everyone, or be liked by everyone, and that is liberating 🥰

@thebooknitter Ай бұрын

Please Jane frog what does not.give you joy. Deciding to frog is also so liberating and then reporposing the yarn is the best you can do. I do agree that age for many seems to be stopping wearing bright colors or things you would love to make for yourself because what other think. I admire those that still would make that decision and I aspire to be like that too

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Me too. I am working on it. Frogging was wonderful once I had done it I felt much lighter 😊

@karenwhite2601 Ай бұрын

Unfortunately there are some unkind people (and not just youngsters) who think they have the right to criticise others. I would have been affected by the comments too as I've never had much self confidence and do take others opinions to heart. However as I get older (I will be 66 next Sunday) I am trying to be less sensitive. I do wear what I like and what makes me feel good which includes colourful garments. That is progress as for years I would only wear black as I didn't want to be noticed. If I ever get to Cornwall again I will pop into the store to see you. I always look forward to, and enjoy watching your podcasts.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. You are always welcome here 🤗 as we age we do tend to shrug off some of our inhibitions it was on that day I was affected by it. Heyho I gave myself a good talking too later ☺️

@christinehoag7585 Ай бұрын

First of all you are beautiful and you need to own that!!! Second I’m sorry for thoughtless words that caused you distress. I love your content and that you make those of us “of a certain age” as well as others feel so very welcome. Keep being you because you do it so well!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much!! 🥰

@carotrike Ай бұрын

Hope your Mum is ok, I have heard that the COVID jab can cause irregular heartbeat and it sounds as though that is a thing for her. Please wish her well from me. As a person of 66 I si agree with you about how we feel! Isn't it hard not to be effected by the thoughts about how we look, isn't it? It's like when a nasty customer walks into your shop, it can have a major bearing on your day! Never mind about someone offering you a seat! I have never minded about that, they are just being courteous! It's like when a man holds a door open for me, or even a small child, it just reminds me that there are still some good humans in the world who value me! And I think you look lovely in what you wear on camera😍

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Aw thank you. Mum is ok thanks and after some investigation I think you are right about side effects of this vaccine. She has had a few episodes before but this really knocked her. Hopefully we can get to the bottom of it but I appreciate your thoughts ☺️

@cathrineghent9826 Ай бұрын

Thoroughly enjoyed your podcast Jane. Can relate to everything you mentioned, I am a few years older than you. I have always admired your energy and enthusiasm for everything. I have chosen to retire this month after a long working life and I am dreading it because I am on my own now after my husband died very suddenly 2 years ago so not how our retirement was planned for sure. Getting better at not caring what other people think but not easy after a lifetime of worrying. I totally get what you say about being a knitter, none of my friends are knitters or my family and even my sister made a comment the other day ‘I’m not ready to sit and knit yet’ I let it go, as unless you are a knitter/crafter I don’t think you get it do you. I have put my name down on the waiting list to become a flocker and must say although I am feeling quite nervous about it as never done anything like it before, also quite excited too. Take care 😊

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Hi Catherine. Thank you so much for sharing your story and thoughts and sorry for your loss. Hopefully by joining in with the community you will be able to find like minded people and be inspired by some of the things that are knitting. I like am having to learn to ignore what others think but reading some of the comments from others has given me the confidence to try harder. ☺️

@jacquipiper4641 Ай бұрын

Don’t let others determine who you are I’m 83 and I love bright colours and wear what I love. Luckily I live in the tropics and bright colours are on everyone. I find our community is very accepting of everyone.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🥰

@christinebrown6154 Ай бұрын

Another lovely inspiring podcast. I have watched you since you started & really relate to what you knit & what you say. So refreshing to hear you being honest about body confidence. Thank you Jane from a lovely sunny warm Glasgow 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much! I am so glad you got some sun too ☺️

@debbiehoskins3171 Ай бұрын

Thank you Jane for another great podcast as always I enjoyed the knitting content, the chatter and your visit to St Micheal’s Mount looked stunning I felt like was there with you. Understandably you were upset by the cruel comments made to you I think most of us have been through the same and felt as you did. Glad you are able to put it behind you. Love the blue cardigan you’re knitting the colour looks great on you. X

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much. ST Michaels was lovely at this time of year. ☺️

@Mynextknit Ай бұрын

I love your videos, thank you so much for all the work you put into them and for taking us around Cornwall. I was watching a tv show that was filmed in Cornwall this week and it was so fun to see places you have taken us in another show. I’m sorry someone was not as happy with your outfit as you were, my grandmother always said to “consider the source” I can’t imagine anyone who makes comments about the appearance of others is very confident about themselves. You are very much seen by me and appreciated. ❤

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you I appreciate your kind words. I am so glad you enjoy my little jaunts around Cornwall. Because I know how much people enjoy them it makes me get off my butt and go and visit all these places ☺️

@Mynextknit Ай бұрын

I’m so glad you do!

@elizabethparkes683 Ай бұрын

Hi jane please don’t let other people’s opinion put you on a downer about what you wear or look. You are a positive lady and a pleasure to watch. Young people forget that they will be our age one day and my not have the vitality you have. I love a pair of belly warms now

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Haha me too. Comfort over fashion any day. 😜

@healthpowerbites9618 Ай бұрын

Hi Joanne you are a beautiful woman inside and out. I had the pleasure of meeting you, albeit briefly, when we came to Polzeath, Cornwall for our holiday - we came over to Falmouth specially to visit your yarn shop after seeing you on KZfaq. Pease do not pay any attention to people's unkind opinions - worth noting that in some - in fact most - no ALL situations where poeple make unkind remarks about others is really because they are not happy WITHIN and WITH themselves. Not nice to be at the receiving end believe me I know, but please don't let it affect you - you have this choice even if they chose to be unkind. Unfortunately the world is full of ugly stuff but thank God we have the beautiful gift of loving all things knitting as an antidote to it all. You keep going and doing what you do (and wearing what you want - your knits are beautiful!) BTW getting older is I a gift too - Those younger people hopefully will get to experience it!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

So so true and thank you for such lovely comments and for sharing your thoughts. 🥰

@OllieandMay Ай бұрын

It was lovely to see you pop up on my KZfaq feed Jane, always enjoy your podcast, had a chuckle about the Spanks! Not sure I would have been Impressed of overhearing someone on the Tube commenting on my dress, I’ve been on the London tube many times in the colder months and everyone wears Black!! I’m sure I would have given them the Death Stare at least! I’m turning 69 this month and I Certainly don’t feel my age, whatever that is? I dress to what make me feels comfortable,if I see a garment I like I buy it I don’t think wether it’s age appropriate, to an extent. Twin set and pearls are no longer a thing, well not here in Australia, I have sewing friends that are in there 80’s who dress more modern than myself! So I say dress what makes you feel good and try not to take it too personally, if that happens again give them the Dirty Look! 😂 Love the idea of the Flock Club I will check it out… I’ve started crocheting small Hexies for a blanket using scrap yarn, I follow Sandra from Cherry Heart designs.. always love the out and about walks at the end. Take Care and Thanks xx❤

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. I just need to like myself more I guess at times but I am usually better and don’t let things affect me so much. I will practice my death stare 😉 I enjoy a bit of crochet now and again and also follow that channel. It’s great 😊

@OllieandMay Ай бұрын

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@tracycharalambous5223 Ай бұрын

Another lovely podcast Jane. Glad you made those decisions about your Wips. Personally I think you look great. Negative comments about appearance says more about the lack of confidence in the person making the comments & it's usually an attempt to fit in with their mates. Don't let it burst your bubble. Looking forward to new kits coming to the shop. X

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much! I gave myself a stern talking to that evening 😉🥰

@tracycharalambous5223 Ай бұрын

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@dorothyrainey1141 Ай бұрын

You would think that when you reach an age that others' opinions shouldn't matter at all! We have been programed to believe that! Time to change the mindset! Spanx is the modern term for a girdle!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. Definitely time to change how we are perceived by society 🥰

@Nicole-we4re Ай бұрын

Love your chats and knitting . Can totally relate to becoming invisible as a person once you reach a certain age especially if you decide to age naturally ie grey lol. But mostly able to ignore negative comments but as you say occasionally make us doubt ourselves. My motto just do what makes you happy it’s their problem not yours❤

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Absolutely!! Thank you ☺️

@Pinguinpullover Ай бұрын

Perfect timing, so happy to see you Jane :) I just sat down with my knitting and a glas of something nice and thought I´d see what´s new.. and there you are. Marvellous. I love your videos, you are always a pleasure to watch and listen to. So, now I´ll see what´s new with you All the best, Pinguinpullover / Su

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

That sounds like the perfect way to spend the evening (knitting, wine and a podcast) enjoy 🥰

@ruthmcniff4765 Ай бұрын

I watched your podcast earlier today and I keep thinking about your experience while traveling. Unfortunately, maybe 🤔 with social media, people are forgetting that we’re all humans and have feelings. I cannot understand why people think it is okay to write unkind comments and in your experience actually voice unkind thoughts aloud. I’m 69 and I too notice that others see me differently now. I think it’s important that I try to stay true to my own values. I think to check my appearance before I leave the house to see if one or to changes might look a little nicer- perhaps earrings or a fresh top. I am retired so my home uniform is very casual 😀. Thanks for getting us thinking 💭!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

You are so right Ruth. I feel that people who comment behind a screen have got quite personal and viscous at times. I bet you look amazing every time you step out the door ☺️

@LindaNixon-ws4ge Ай бұрын

I’m working the GARDEN CARDIGAN with silky wool

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Oo would love to see how that is turning out ☺️

@RuthStevens-ks9we Ай бұрын

Hi Jane, just enjoyed your latest episode 18, so agree with all you.say especially about age and knitting . I am older but still like all new young designers & patterns

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Yay. There are so many of us out there 🥰

@janemellowes674 Ай бұрын

Hooray, I need an excuse to sit down….have been in the garden all day planting things 😊

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Perfect! 😉

@anneb.8633 Ай бұрын

Thank you for a wonderful episode. Growing older…❤❤❤

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

You're welcome 😊

@LindaNixon-ws4ge Ай бұрын

Always enjoy your podcasts.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Yay, thank you! ☺️

@FayGavigan-sr5dy Ай бұрын

Lovely to have you back again. Please do not listen to rude uncaring people. You always look so elegant. You do you, wear what you want and only listen to people whose opinion matters to you. As I get older I think to hell with appropriate x

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you Fay. I am trying to get there but just sometimes I let people influence how I feel. I am trying to just be me 🥰

@FayGavigan-sr5dy Ай бұрын

And just you us more than good enough x

@patsyvincent9483 Ай бұрын

I enjoyed your podcast.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! ☺️

@marywalton6900 Ай бұрын

Thanks for the podcast especially the updates on your WiPs decisions. Can you buy the gansey sock pattern anywhere? Loved it.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. The Gansey Sock pattern will go up for sale in a couple of months time. We design exclusively for Sock Club and then release them at a later date. I am glad you liked it ☺️

@lynnmcentire4014 Ай бұрын

I’m sorry that you had that experience. I will admit thinking the same thing but I would never hurt someone by saying it out loud.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. We all form judgements in pour heads don’t we but I agree let’s keep them to ourselves. 🥰

@valeriecarroll6811 Ай бұрын

Oh Jane I watched your podcast twice it resonated with me so much. I will be 70 in November and have campaigned actively my whole life for social equality so I’m no shrinking violet. A few years ago I noticed people talking over me and not listening to me. I foolishly thought that they must be hard of hearing. Don’t let the comments of other people take your joy. Isn’t it so disappointing that it was other women who did this🙁. On a better note where can I find information about joining your community. I’ve looked on your Instagram page and can’t find any ‘live’ post. Xx

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Totally agree. We women should support each other 🥰 I have put a link in my notes to the flock but go to my website www.stitchesandcream.co.uk and click on the ‘Cornish Knitter’ tab you can sign up there. If not email me on jane@stitchesandcream.co.uk and I will add you ☺️

@LulubelleH Ай бұрын

Your story of the unkind comments - I bet there were many other people who saw you that day and thought you looked fantastic. Really. I always (inwardly) cheer when I see stylish, colourfully-, and interestingly-dressed older people. Never join the beige brigade! I don't subscribe to arbitrary restrictions that limit who people are and what they do. Why be bland when you can follow and indulge your curiosity and what fascinates you? I love your podcast. x x

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Oh thank you! ☺️ I do try to embrace colour as I agree the world is too beige sometimes. I just wish that people would be kinder to us more mature ladies sometimes as hopefully one day they will be there and my hope is that they will find the world a bit kinder x ☺️

@wendyosullivan232 13 күн бұрын

Hi Jane love your podcast, sorry about your experience on the train, the young are so rude thease days probably because of all the rules and parents arent allowed to scold if thats the right word like we were hope you know what im trying to say they are not taught right or wrong so they know that they can get away with anything that they do.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 13 күн бұрын

Certainly society is changing. I think they forget they will hopefully get old one day 🙄☺️

@Fionadilston Ай бұрын

Check out Iris Apfel and how she dressed ....

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you I will ☺️

@michellechappell6243 14 күн бұрын

Love the garden cardigan i will order same wool from your shop how many balls did it take i am a uk 12

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 13 күн бұрын

Thank you. I used 8x50g balls 😊

@Pinguinpullover Ай бұрын

About strangers commenting on anyone´s looks: Just ignore them. Whatever feeling of superiorty they might have today, time will take care of it. And some day, if they are lucky, someone will comment on their outfit and it will not make them feel bad for the rest of the day. I am 62, and about two years ago decided that I was never ever going to wear uncomfortable clothes again. Since then I have been getting confused looks, hideous comments and praise - all for the very same, self-made skirt and blouse outfit. People are funny. So, let them talk. YOU need to feel good. It´s your life, your body, your happiness. I love my very comfortable dresses, skirts, shirts, trousers und knitwear. And I am proud of what i made. And plaese, don´t even think about the tweed and pearls. That´s not you. Maybe one day it will be and you will wear it with as much grace and confidence as you are now wearing the Ranunculus. Thank you for this wonderful, honest video and the lovely trip I so do envy you for living in Cornwall, Germany is nice too, but you really hit the jackpot. Have a great weekend, Su

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

You go girl. Totally admire your approach. Twin sets and pearls are a long way off (if ever!) for me. I just need to grow a thicker skin sometimes 😉

@barbararamsbottom113 Ай бұрын

Hi Jane. Your knickers episode made me laugh out loud. I had a similar experience a few years ago. I was in Rome and went to see the Vatican. As it was very hot I had put a spare pair of knickers in, just in case I was a bit sweaty and damp. I had a light backpack which had to go through a security scanner. Next thing I knew I was surrounded by Vatican guards, muttering KNIFE. Of course, my bag had to be emptied in front of all the curious tourists. I just wanted to earth to swallow me up when they pulled out my knickers (M & S big pants). My darling husband thought it was hilarious. The knife they had seen on the scanner was actually a big thick zip on my bag

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

🤣😂🤣 oh my at least mine wasn’t in a place of worship 😂 I wonder what they thought. My husband would have walked away and left me in disgust. Thank you for a good laugh x

@francescaquinn4129 Ай бұрын

Don't let people pop your bubble! Dress how you want and be YOU! Age disgracefully if it makes you happy! Everyone if they are lucky get older (and be grateful for it!) Confidence is attractive, SO HEAD UP AND TELL THEM TO KEEP THEIR OPINIONS TO THEMSELVES OR TALK QUIETER!

@francescaquinn4129 Ай бұрын

And have you seen the state of some of them?!😂their opinions are hard to fathom with when you see where they are coming from🤯🫣

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Haha love your confidence. Usually I can shrug it off but it probably caught me at a vulnerable moment and I allowed it to affect me all day. Unfortunately I think many of us take comments to heart but would like to be more resilient. I totally agree. Getting older is a privilege we should be grateful for. I just need to follow your lead more ☺️

@francescaquinn4129 Ай бұрын

@@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 I'm so sorry they made you feel like that, you are amazing and kind and all the lovely things most knitters are. Try and remember that x Teenagers! Honestly! I have two and quite often they talk nonsense 😂 (happily, mine are sensitive enough not to speak like that about anyone ☺️)

@valeriecarroll6811 Ай бұрын

By the way….I’m 😊delighted you ditched the spanks 🤣

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Me too!! 😜

@suemayo6825 Ай бұрын

Thank you for a great video, again. I’ve been to your website and registered interest in the Cornish Flock, but just received an email to say you’ll be in touch. Is that correct, as I’d hate to miss out on the sign up info. Take care x

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Hi Sue. That’s fine I received your email and you will get more info very soon ☺️ thank you ☺️

@suemayo6825 Ай бұрын

@@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 great, thanks Jane. Now to save so I can join in :) x

@amycole8974 Ай бұрын

A while back someone criticized me on something, I just turn and said " really, sorry you feel like that" she turned away looking very sheepish. Here's another one for, when my daughter was young she said to me one day, Wendy, who is a girl in her class, said, I don't like you. I said to my daughter, I hope you said, well that's your fault not mine.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Well said! I think social media has allowed people to be so much more critical and judgemental too. And they can hide behind their screens so can be quite viscous. I love your advice to your daughter. I hope she did what you suggested ☺️

@francescaquinn4129 Ай бұрын

What a wise woman you are 💖

@suzannejones5992 Ай бұрын

Someone said to me God is merciful as we get older he takes our sight so that is harder to see ourselves.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

I don’t have that excuse. I have had to wear glasses since I was 3 🤓 even had those awful NHs glasses and an eye patch as I had a lazy eye. Oh the shame 😳

@carolrogerson8287 Ай бұрын

I believe that aging is a privilege and to be celebrated…..I am horrified at all the anti aging products pushed on women and the fetishisation of youth….a woman happy in her own skin is beautiful whatever age or size she is….aging is a natural process and not something to be hidden away or scorned…its just ridiculous! Wear what you love! Make what you love! you are beautiful and hold a unique place in the world! ❤

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Aw thank you. I agree I am happy to age appropriately but some seem to think that once we get to a certain age we have nothing to offer. But we do! All the experience and knowledge is so valuable isn’t it! 🥰

@alisonhughes2164 Ай бұрын

An interesting episode. But I feel you need to rethink your feelings about people standing up for you on the train. My friends and I - who are 10 - 20 years ahead of you were just saying how grateful we are these days. If some-one stands up for you they have not only seen you but valued you enough to give up a precious seat for you!

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Really good point it’s not them as I appreciate the sentiment and offer but it’s me that is surprised as I never feel old enough to need it 😜😌

@judithtaylor6916 Ай бұрын

Young people today wear very boring mute colours. Grey, beige. Feel the same way I look in the mirror and sometimes feel down with the increasing wrinkles. But hey, we have got there to whatever age we are. They havent. As hubby says. I have had 2 children with 4 miscarriages, a hysterectomy. Dont be ashamed of your body.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

So true! Thank you for sharing and I agree I do think we should be proud of our bodies and how they reflect our experiences of life. That day I just let it get to me and I know so many women feel the same way. 🥰

@juliamorrisey5541 Ай бұрын

I think that it is easy for young people to be critical. That 'mean girl's tendency may take longer to out grow. I am 71 and was talking to my brother about those days when I could not comprehend being this old. Funny how our perceptions change as we age and accumulate more life experiences. I know I look older than I feel but I don't care what people I don't know think. I am sorry that thoughtless girls who have no manners, made you feel badly and sabotaged your joy in the day.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

Thank you. Partly I was annoyed with myself for letting it affect my day but there are times when it hits home. I am usually pretty resilient 😉☺️

@sheonaghgall5010 9 күн бұрын

Frustrated that you are not showing pictures in THIS video.

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 9 күн бұрын

Sorry but they were all in the previous video

@virginiaanderson8875 Ай бұрын

What kind of group? Were they just chatting or pin pointing out what you were wearing? How rude. Embrace your age. We aren’t kids any more but have to have the self confidence to be who we are……….

@stitchesandcreamfalmouth9563 Ай бұрын

I agree and usually I would ignore it but let it get to me that day and it hit me thinking about how judgements from others impact us sometimes. I say be kind to everyone ☺️