Jarvis always says Jordan is the British version of him, but what if he's the American version of Jordan? 😶

I can't tell you what a relief it is to be able to listen to guys just talk and be friends in a way where I, as a woman, feel pretty comfortable that the conversation probably isn't going to veer into gross misogyny or rape jokes or something. I love your energy and I love your friendship!

Explain to me again why this podcast isn't called "Jarvis and British Jarvis"?

I think you guys could take on Danny Gonzalez and Drew Gooden in a "We are the Same Person" contest

Jordan's moustache looks like it's made out of felt.

I guess im new here, i left auto play on and woke up in the dead of night wondering why one of the McElroy brothers was going on about CBD gummies

ran into this while tryin to find something to ground me during an anxiety attack. Ended up listening to the whole thing. Yall are really captivating, thanks guys, love it

I do not say this lightly: you guys are THE first podcast I've actually been able to just sit and listen to and I've tried dozens. I don't know what exactly you're doing right, but keep doing it!

the same man talking to himself while distinguishing his alter ego with a mustache

I don't know if either of them will see this but I super appreciate two grown men talking about their feelings openly. I've struggled with a lot of self hatred Because I wasn't living up the some sort of manly standard. I really appreciate you guys putting positive energy out there like that. Much respect.

I have been diagnosed with severe ADHD since childhood and THC doesn’t work in the “stoner” way for me either.

When you started talking about mental health it really made me feel nice. Um I'm just not allowed to talk about that stuff often so I'd be okay if someone just talks about being a big depression, even if it sounds a little silly. Either way, it was really therapeutic to hear you talk about it.

Yesterday I watched an episode decrying "cancel culture" which is total nonsense to me. Happy to see Jordan point out that "cancel culture" is just people reacting to shit you did that they think is wrong. Loved it.

41:42 when Jordan says “we don’t love one of you.. and we’ll let you figure out who” that actually ages well with what’s come out about Gus 🤭

Not gonna lie, I kind of love the bits where they're just completely still, listening to D'Angelo clips in complete silence. Very John Cage.

Jarvis has ADHD too? Does everyone I watch have ADHD? Where were all these ADHD people when I didn't know I had it?

I love at the 55 minute mark when Jordan is listening to the clip and you just see him processing what he's hearing while Jarvis is mouth breathing excitedly. I love that we can't hear the video

I love the fact that when you are sharing your emotions the way the screen is split it often looks like you are putting a hand on each others knee in an understanding way.

So weird to watch this after the D'Angelo stream like I hope you consider him a friend after casting a pod for three hours

They start talking about Shane at 44:30 if you’re wondering.

"Everyone was killing people at the time"/"We're currently in a different time" Lol I love your arguments against that ridiculous "it was okay at the time". You guys are the best

I love these consistent uploads 🤩🤩

It's so rare for me to be compelled by younger men podcasting together because it's usually a meandering, boring mess but I really liked this.

I repeat: thank you d'angelo for introducing me to this channel this energy is so good across the board

The solid minute of Jarvis breathing discordantly while listening to Shane’s garbo. I enjoy this. Also I feel very comforted hearing someone else talking about ADD, less alone in the struggle to quote “blaze it”.

Y’ALL OKAY i’m about to over share i’m so sorry i’m an adhd recent psych graduate who studied adult adhd drug use for my thesis and you’re both p spot on that the boost in paranoia and the limited effects when smoking up are related to adhd. it’s cause your dopamine machine is funky so it reacts differently (that’s also why people with adhd get sugar cravings!!) lots of people with adhd use stimulants (caffeine, adhd meds, nicotine, etc) or alcohol as their substance of choice, because the stimulants help boost your dopamine levels and the alcohol can help manage your anxiety about any social issues or symptoms i always get excited about seeing other people with adhd also knowing stuff about adhd it makes me feel much less Weird about how many journal articles about adhd i have lying around jsyk i appreciate you

I thought Mozart's comeback was a more realistic goal...

the intelligence in this podcast is exponential

I'm like a year and a half late to the game, but I just wanted to share my weed experiences since I don't get many opportunities to do so. I have an artificial electrical tick in my brain that misfires every 3-4 seconds, causing my brain to spike in activity then flatline, which results in seizures. I've tried typical anti-seizure meds and nothing has worked. When I was 25, I was desperate for anything to help me just be a normal functioning human, and a friends suggested trying weed. First time I smoked, it was like a fog cleared in my brain and everything got quieter and calmer in my head. I could think clearly for the first time in a very long time. I was raised in an environment where "drugs are evil" so I was very ashamed that a drug was the only thing that helped me at all. I tried to function without smoking and I would end up sitting in the same spot staring at a wall for upwards of 5 hours, and I wouldn't be able to remember what I had done or whom I had interacted with the previous day. My brain malfunctions so drastically that I haven't been able to hold a job after the age of 20 because 5 minutes after being told to do something, I would forget someone even talked to me. The only way I can function without seizures and memory loss is to smoke week every day, and I struggle with that fact. I feel like I should just be able to struggle through my mental issues like normal people do, but when I'm sober I forget to even feed myself or my pets, which is dangerous for my health and theirs. I've had to accept that if I want to be "normal" I can't be sober. It sucks, but it's the only thing that helps. I don't have ADHD or anything, but when Jarvis said weed doesn't do anything fun for him, I understand that. I don't have hallucinations or feel impaired at all, just sometimes I laugh at things more easily. I don't have any issues with paranoia either. Anyway, long ass weed rant over, thanks for reading if you made it this far. ^-^

There was absolutely no time where racism, pedophilla and bestiality was okay. If fact-if Shane fans could continue to ignore the issue-they would. In fact, they do.

"Is Eminem cancelled or something?" really explains how I feel about everyone nowadays too well

Just chatting to say I think you bring up an interesting point about why people do different forms of art and the elitism of critiquing but I will say a number of reasons that people find many Adam Sandler *written and produced** films- which is a lot of work no joke, "not as good" has to do with how often they are sexist and problematic. And a similar critique for the Medea movies. Just wanted to say that because I think it should be acknowledged when we are looking at someone's full body of work. Its not just Adam Sandler does some bad movies and some good movies...he writes and produces arguably problematic work. Not trying to cancel anyone just a point to think about.

All of Shane punchlines are "it was a joke!!"

Takashi69 was convicted of sex crimes against a minor. Just thought it was kind of weird to not mention that in-video considering you guys tend to call celebrities out for their problematic behaviors.

Shane Dawson is a very good demonstration of why child sexual abuse=/=pedophilia, it's just power and not caring who gets hurt--as well as a good demo of why equating the two gets people off the hook. Shane's clearly not attracted to kids, or unable to control himself. He thinks it's funny. He doesn't care. He's not hot and bothered, he has power and he thinks it's hilarious and no one is stopping him. That's child sexual abuse. The idea that pedophilia and sexual abuse are interchangeable is why people don't think to consider his behavior sexual assault/abuse. Because abuse is always about power, and it isn't a mental illness. He doesn't have an involuntary attraction disorder, he's a prick.

I’m coming to this one late, but I just want to express how beneficial the two of you are to conversations like this. You are nuanced, your each have a slightly different lens through which you see the world, you are empathetic, and you clearly work to educate yourselves. Based on the few episodes I’ve seen of Sad Boys so far, I feel like you could have make a positive contribution to any dialogue. Keep at it. ❤️🤗

when jordan started talking about how his day was really bad and he punched a filing cabinet and jarvis was just like "careful," and jordan made a joke and jarvis like still took him seriously to be supportive my face was just like 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

watching this while high is the best jarvis just singing "sMoKe wEeD eRrYdaY" really speaking some kinda way rn

"it was a different time" - i hate that excuse because it doesn't matter if it was socially acceptable at the time because it was never okay and it was always bad. Not only that, it wasn't even socially acceptable just you didn't realize

1:14:18 Bo Burnham was in his late-teens to early 20s, making content for people who were primarily the same age as him. Shane Dawson was in his early 20s making content for children and young teens. The dynamic between the two is incredibly different. If Bo Burnham were the same age as Shane Dawson, he wouldn’t have made the same jokes. In fact, there’s evidence to this point: look at the way Bo Burnham directed Eighth Grade. If Shane Dawson had any hand in that, he would’ve made incredibly tasteless and downright predatory jokes sexualizing the children in the movie. Bo handled the material with tact and even the darker themes were treated sensitively. There is no excuse for Shane’s past content. As someone in their mid 20s, I could not imagine making the “jokes” he did, let alone thinking they were funny coming from someone else.

27:08 I actually worked with a guy like that. He does BJJ and buys into ALL of the toxic masculinity shit. He'll constantly offer to help me carry stuff from one end of the lab to the other but in a really condescending way, like he's my "knight in shining armour" or whatever BS. But then our lab had an intruder one evening (I work in a hospital lab in downtown Toronto; there's a lot of homeless patients, most of whom are harmless but sometimes, they're on drugs and this stuff happens). I was in the front area near the opening that the intruder climbed through, and he was in an area just behind the front. He LEFT ME ALONE WITH THE LADY HOPPED UP ON DRUGS. We later found out she had a needle on her, but luckily she was so out of it when she came to the lab that I'm not sure she registered that I was even there so I was unharmed. But all this talk about how him being the STRONG MANLY MAN and his implying that I'm a weak, tiny woman and then...well thanks, dude.

What a beautiful couple of people talking to eachother.

Not to be That Bisexual, but... Jordan's collarbone... I'm looking RESPECTFULLY

That's really crazy. I've never heard of anyone else like me. I've got ADHD, and similarly- I have joked that i would be the WORST drug addict ever because the first time i didn't have any on hand ..I'd forget I had any interest and I'd just never do it again. I smoked (cigarettes) on and off from the time that I was a teen- and out with friends a a bar, I could totally blow through a pack .. Then go home and not smoke again for 6+ months because I just never bothered to buy anymore... But the next time I'd be out and I'm standing there, outside in line behind someone smoking ... I'm ready to bum one off the guy next to me.

Wow I've never thought about how smoking and adhd don't mix well together, because how you explained it for you Jarvis, is the exact same for me! I was always wondering why my anxiety and paranoia spiked so high for over 2 yrs when smoking, and when I took a break I noticed that it decreased a considerable amount. But never thought that it could be connected to my adhd. Thanks for sharing a cool video guys!

I honestly thought this channel was gonna be abandoned ngl

tell me why jordan is literally so gorgeous😀

a lot of people that say “it was a different time” weren’t even old enough to remember the time they’re talking about

This podcast is such a great source of comfort for me... seeing your friendship and being so comfortable with eachother and the internet about your mental health is so helpful and positive.

i have severe adhd and honestly i find that smoking helps calm me down when i don’t have my meds. but i get prescribed the heavy stuff at the highest dosage and thank god for weed helping me through it all

Sad boyz 2 men (sorry)

Y'all look like fraternal twins. Great pod 🖤🖤🖤

I don’t think Jarvis means to do this - I think he’s just so excited lol but he cuts Jordan off often here and /or says “yea” and proceeds to speak over Jordan when Jordan isn’t finished lol. I only notice because I do that sometimes too but it’s because I’m just so excited about what is being discussed.

The clips y’all were watching (D’Angelo and Shane and such) didn’t show up in this upload. On the video it looked like you were just sitting silently with nothing happening.

Got my snacks, got my coffee, prepped. Go Sad Boyz!!

Please don't abandon this podcast for two years I need this WE NEED THIS

Is Jordan's moustache fake?If not,it's very impressive.

I think as a someone who has a poor sense of comedy and isn’t the most socially aware this has genuinely been very enlightening. I really hope I haven’t been just making people uncomfortable and hope to talk with this to my therapist😅 but thank you for the direction!

Love listening to both of you guys. Attractive men who are intelligent is a breath of fresh air

Hearing yall open up helps me feel human in these isolated times. My sleep schedule and mental state have been out of my control lately. It's reassuring to hear others are going through it and perservering

Pulling the Community episode but producing Cuties is such an indictment of the way producers handle content moderation in their products

I find it a very odd that Shane supposedly did things with animal and the furry that he had on was caught doing that (along with worse things.)

Jordan's sleep issues are such a mood. While my issue is not a time zone problem, I am still awake constantly. My best and only friend is a HUGE night owl and sleeps the entire day. If I want to talk to them, I have to stay up stupid late. They will go to bed at seven in the morning. It is really rough when you have to compromise one need for another.

As someone who’s felt the need to stay quiet about my assault due to the way most people think of my abuser as a good person, it was extremely validating to be reminded that not all people believe that the mans reputation and livelihood need to be “protected”. Too often in any scenario I see people victim blaming. Whether it’s saying that “you shouldn’t have brought up that persons past actions” even though those actions may have directly caused you or other people harm. Or even just straight up telling people that they don’t have the right to have been hurt by something because it didn’t happen within the last 5 minutes. Time doesn’t automatically mean that someone has changed for the better either. I’m sick of seeing people use “it was in the past” as an excuse. Chances are when gone unchecked, people don’t unlearn what led them to their mistake, they learn instead to better mask their behaviours so that they receive less backlash.

In the beginning when you said “Hi kids do you like violence?” I thought you were about to start singing the fnaf 2 rap I-

i gotta thank you guys for having this podcast. being able to put this on in the backround, and just listen to idle chatter is really nice. it feels a bit like i’m hanging out with friends, and it adds a bit of normalcy to my day. thanks! :)

It is currently real sad boi hours.

"Did you ever have a stoner moment?" Me in college: "Do I smell high?"

That opening line just unrepressed my memories of when I was an edgy middle schooler only just discovering eminem

this is probably the only podcast i can listen through and even work on schoolwork while listening. lov you guys.

Jordan’s skin is so good

Thanks for the Trap Lore Ross recommendation. Now I know what I'm going to watch the rest of the day/month!!

I didn’t know this is what I needed tonight but I’m thankful I found it.

i didn't know jarvis and jordan were youtube channels i just had these sad boyz videos recommended to me a few times and started watching

Why do Jordan’s eyebrows look so perfect??????

Loving this upload schedule ✨

Ah, saying they only like one half of the Gus and Eddy podcast Really aged well huh

All crime and dodgy actions take place in the past! "It was a different time" yeah bud, everything's a different time! The past!

I’m like really glad this came up on my recommendations cuz you guys are really interesting. I’m definitely going to keep watching you guys.

cishet white guy 1: *punches wall* cishet white guy 2: sick dude!!! Haha great way to display ur emotions haha so gnarly jordan: *punches wall* jarvis: careful 🥺 im here for you 🥺 i got you lovie

This is old but as someone who is also not addicted to any particular substance, it’s straight due to two things. 1: I have zero object permanence as a neurodivergent person as well so when it’s gone it doesn’t exist. 2: literally everyone in my family are addicts of the juice and/or hard drugs at one point in life (like literally no one in my direct “blood line” has been straight laced or even casual par takers) so my tolerance goes high really quick. I have to take tolerance breaks from Tylenol and Advil, sometimes certain cold medicines. And yes I have chronic illness on top so life is hell.

I’m fairly sure the Always Sunny blackface was meant to be a Rachel Dolezal thing, like Dee is trying to be a political spokesperson for the black community with blatant blackface. It’s cringy but it’s referencing a real event. Shane was actually just doing a minstrel show.

damn there aren’t a lot of people here

I’m sooo happy I found y’all 😭 feelin blest

Jarvis, I'm subscribed to so many of your channels. XD This must be how those 1,2,3 Go fans (who I suppose must exist) feel.

I hate the excuse "it was different times" . Slavery was in a different time and still doesn't mean it was ok. There's tons and tons of examples of this. I agree with Jarvis it doesn't excuse it. I think the internet is modded and protected more now than it used to be. Love the pod:)!!

This is really enjoyable and soothing to listen to, cheers guys!

i love listening to your guys’ podcasts 😁

People have been blaming fangirls forEVER. David Bowie had sex with teen girls and everyone wants to pretend it didn't happen or to blame those teen girls! It's disgusting and it has been happening since the beginning of time. It wasn't a "different time". The things were wrong and people did know that.

"Maybe I should take over the bloods" Under appreciated joke imo

wait i think the beginning is the first time i've ever heard jarvis curse LMAO

Oh man. This podcast makes my adhd brain happy. Idk what it is about it but I can fully process what is going on enough to listen to this. And I can multitask with this on and still process. Y'all are magic

nice pod boyz

woww i didn't know they started uploading on this channel again

The comment about cancel culture is so on point. That's why I hate calling it cancel culture. I'm all for what we call cancel culture but it's not cancel culture. We should call it accountability. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Wow, very good pod. I was watching it and getting ready for bed, and kinda had a panic attack because I was paranoid that I was having an allergy attack... But I had just smoked weed and ya'll happen to start talking about getting paranoid when smoking! Helped me feel a bit better :))

Mmmm I don’t think your dislike of weed is an adhd thing, I have severe adhd and my feelings toward weed are...the opposite of disliking it lol

The "name a website" bit could have been the perfect opportunity to plug your patreons haha

I love the 30 seconds of jarvis breathing into the mic. Quality content!!

i watched the clip about shane dawson on the highlights channel but jarvis''s commentary on him is so good i had to watch through that part again