THE DAY I DECIDED TO CHANGE MY LIFE |luxury minimalist wardrobe bag collection, slow buying AD

Рет қаралды 28,686

Күн бұрын

The first 1,000 people to use the link will get a 1 month free trial of Skillshare: skl.sh/colourfulnoir07221 Hi everyone, I'm Eileen 😇 This video is a little bit personal-- I shared the day I decided to change my life. Growing up, I was always told to work a certain job. And when I got that dream job, I wanted to chase that dream life. Yes, I mean a life where I got to buy designer bags quite casually, splurged on eating out, fancy coffee, and more. While things looked good on the outside, I felt tired and empty deep down. Mostly, I didn't feel like I owned my time. To keep such a lifestyle going, I had to keep working really hard. My wardrobe kept expanding, my designer bag collection kept growing, my jewellery kept getting more expensive. Sadly, I reserved no time for myself and my wellbeing. Luxury minimalism changed my life. I now shop responsibly, adore my small designer collection, and live my life more fully. A bit of intentionality can really change the trajectory of your life and I hope you join this journey with me xx
OTHER VIDEOS YOU MIGHT LIKE
Decluttering gone too far? 50% of my designer collection gone
• DECLUTTERING GONE TOO ...
Why I Stopped Shopping At Chanel. • Why I Stopped Buying C...
Luxury Minimalism Changed My Life • How Luxury Minimalism ...
20 Things I Stopped Buying • Things I Stopped Buyin...
WHAT I WORE IN VIDEO
White top (really comfy and flattering), size L. bit.ly/3yjFoYx
Hermes CDC bracelet in Ombre lizard and palladium hardware
Diamond earring bit.ly/3Nr5eBR
Necklace bit.ly/3gUcExh
(so cute bit.ly/37Gwol2)
Watch bit.ly/2pUxlTy
similar bit.ly/30rOKUb
classy and simple bit.ly/3bC3544
READ QUICKER
I absolutely love learning by listening to Audiobooks now and I highly recommend Audible to anyone with a hectic schedule. Try is free for 30 days! You will love it.
amzn.to/2LkDL7j
MUSIC: Epidemic Sound (get one month free share.epidemicsound.com/x7y3rb)
Disclaimer: This video is kindly sponsored by Skillshare. However are opinions are 100% my own. Some of the links included in my videos are affiliate links. Purchasing an item(s) via the affiliate link doesn’t affect the price you pay. Instead I MAY receive a small % commission for sharing these items with you. I do take the time to choose my affiliate links so thank you in advance for trusting me and using these links as it helps support my channel.
#luxuryminimalism #luxuryminimalist #designershopping
Thank you for watching this video about how I decided to change my life by embracing luxury minimalism and intentional living. A luxury minimalist's wardrobe might be smaller but her life is fuller for sure xx

Пікірлер: 207

@chidenisee 2 жыл бұрын

I actually sold all but one of my luxury bags in the last 2 years. I sold 13 bags and 90% of my clothes and shoes. I was to preoccupied with designer and not life and enjoying my family. I wasn't hitting my financial goals. Now I actually don't miss any of them and if I buy something I will now make sure it's something I actually want, and need and only after I have hit some goals first.

@paigemurray4946 2 жыл бұрын

I had 20 luxury items. I sold all but one. It’s a key/card holder that I use every day. I am so glad I got out of the luxury mindset. It’s so freeing to find joy in the simple pleasures of life.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

That’s inspiring! Thank you for sharing xx

@KateKay28 2 жыл бұрын

@Saffanna “Want AND need AND only after I have hit some goals first.” Great words to live by.

@KateKay28 2 жыл бұрын

@Saffanna As someone that used to try to tell myself that, I always felt that was a line pushed to justify the spending/overspending (even I felt it was BS when I wanted to buy said bag 😂)

@KateKay28 2 жыл бұрын

@@paigemurray4946 Good for you for finding what truly matters. 👏

@broughttoyoubynmblake 2 жыл бұрын

“You don’t need it all, to have a happy life,” Preach sister! 👏🏾

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

😉

@jayjaytailor 2 жыл бұрын

I feel you are an 'old soul' Eileen; you are a very wise young lady! I know that you maintain that it has taken you until fairly recently to understand where you went wrong; however, some people sadly never get to that point! I have also said this before and I'll say it again: you never fail to amaze me how you continue to come up with inspirational weekly topics that not just interest me, but your loyal KZfaq 'family'. I hope we (as a community) can continue to inspire you to keep doing what you're doing!

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

What means a lot, JayJay! Honestly I feel so blessed to have this amazing community. It’s taken me this long to share my job and home life because I’m usually slow to warm up but this community makes me feel safe to share xx

@Buttercookiesssss 2 жыл бұрын

Whenever I feel like I want to spend again, I always watch your videos to remind myself I don't need them. Grateful for what I already have, will probably explore lower brands like polene etc for daily use. Thank you Eileen xoxo

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Glad to help 😁xx

@lauramorales3952 2 жыл бұрын

Never before would I have thought you were a dentist. I am too. I’m an orthodontist. 😊

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Laura, it’s lovely to see people in the same profession here xx

@IS-gk4jf 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful transparency. Thank you❤ True we don't "need" alot. A few good pieces will last a lifetime if you look after them. Learning and reading not only educates us on subjects,but also we learn alot about ourselves.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Definitely! I’m so happy I picked up reading again, it’s been nourishing xx

@fantenylo6736 2 жыл бұрын

Did not watch your video for quite a while as I am going through one of my toughest time in life. It is not easy to face the loss of your beloved ones within 2 months … my furry kid passed away in April and my grandma passed away in June 🥹 I was really stuck in these months and spent a lot recently. However, these luxury items did not ease my pain. I thought your video seems like a reminder to me. Thank you Eileen.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear about your losses. I lost my dad years ago and the pain never really left, but I've learnt to deal with it a bit better. I'm glad you found some comfort from my video xx

@villanelle5279 2 жыл бұрын

My husband had a liver transplant 2 years ago and I soothed myself through buying expensive things. I’m working on this “addiction.” It’s not easy to break, but somewhat relieving to know I’m not the only one who does this to ease the trauma.

@waisalebasiyalo2260 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, I can relate to this so much, I'm still a student spending silly amounts of money on things that are not needed. I'm starting to realise that living in your means is nothing to be sad or ashamed about, it teaches you the importance and the value of money whilst making sure to manage it properly. Loved the video as usual. ❤

@roseg1333 2 жыл бұрын

Yes well said! Moderation, balance, and gratitude is key in life in my opinion. Just being grateful for a great cup of simple coffee, relaxing shower or bath, a cozy bed and delicious warm meals, and time with family. Being grateful for these simple things makes life so so beautiful and rich. You took the words right from my heart ♥️🥰🕊🙏🏼☺️

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you liked the video, thank you xx

@positivelyhappymom3238 2 жыл бұрын

I love your views. I want luxury too but I’m kinda of a girl who don’t mind repeating my bags , jwellery, clothes etc. Over the years I realized I am happiest when I buy something I absolutely love and keeping wearing it !!

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

You definitely sound like a rational shopper, kudos to you xx

@ST-rb4cu 2 жыл бұрын

I dont ever comment but as a fellow dentist, just wanted to say hello and that I think your content is great! I only follow 2 “luxury” youtubers and both happen to be dentists, feels so relatable at this stage of my life

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Aww hello there! Thank you so much for your support xx

@jobassal6748 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your journey. I have also learnt over the years that happiness comes from experience, from spending time with family & friends, from hobbies that we enjoy.. it comes from the things we do rather than the things we own. Another great video. Xx

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Words of wisdom! xx

@tanechkaamericanochka4839 2 жыл бұрын

Are you a dentist?Such an amazing profession.You are making people healthy and beautiful.And you are making us happy creating this video.Thank you very much for your hard work ♥️👩‍🦰♥️

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

You’re too kind😇 thank you xx

@patrice7p 2 жыл бұрын

Dear Eileen, you are such an inspiration for me! I was stunned to learn that you are a dentist too 🥰 , and I learned a lot from your experiences. I love your minimalistic, simple and straight to the point style. , so refreshing ! Boring ??!!! Not at all ! Just stay as you are , you lovely soul! ❤️

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

That really means a lot, thank you xx

@mixedandknot5911 2 жыл бұрын

Your honesty is impressive and on point. I am on the path of buying less and looking put together with minimal purchases and reserve for the future.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Xx

@llkoolbean4935 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful message. Always inspiring. I love your drawings!

@SimplyMeLux 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this thoughtfully made video. Much needed. You are so right about priorities, moderation and focus. 😍

@SaraBiancaBentley 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Eileen! Just want to say that you seem like such a lovely, kindhearted person and your videos always impart me with a peaceful calm :) I really agree with your perspectives in life and applaud your honesty and, of course, style ✨ Always looking forward to your next video 🌸

@merb.3576 Жыл бұрын

What a lovely video: great message and good images, especially those with your beautiful little boy. 💓💞💕

@ColourfulNoir Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much 😊

@InspireAndGrow 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you make more content like this! Beyond handbags, you have a lot of insights

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I definitely will! Thank you xx

@DogMomStephanie 2 жыл бұрын

I look forward to your video every Sunday evening! I’m loving the minimalist approach you’ve taken and I think you always look so put together. I’m sorry trolls think it’s ok to make rude comments. I can’t understand why they think it’s ok to type a rude comment but know it’s wrong to say it to a person’s face.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I'm really lucky most of my audience are really lovely and kind xx

@joannarivera2275 2 жыл бұрын

You are a pleasure to watch, Eileen. The lessons you share exude so much humility and impart so much on your viewers. Thank you❤️

@isusestecalea921 Жыл бұрын

Hun ,you are a wise persone! I have receive many good advices from you! Love you!🥰

@ColourfulNoir Жыл бұрын

Oh thank you! Xx

@rebeccabrambila1592 2 жыл бұрын

I find myself obsessing over potential purchases & I am always shopping online. I think it’s a habit that comes out when I’m stressed. I have a one year old boy & although I like being a mum, I’m exhausted all the time. Shopping is a kind of escape. I know it’s not a healthy habit & I have tried to cut down, but it’s hard.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I understand that sentiment. I used to shop when I was bored, stressed, unmotivated- basically any kind of negative emotion would trigger me to spend. I didn’t think I would ever be content with the ‘simple things’ in life but when I took myself out the rat race, everything became clearer. I hope you find your peace soon. Sending you lots of positive energy xx

@Enchanteralle 2 жыл бұрын

There are new bags and luxury items every season. It is impossible to buy all of them and use all of them. Having nice pieces to enjoy or as a reward for hard work is great, but it shouldn’t be an obsession or a necessity. At some point it gets overwhelming to keep up with trends and finding stuff sitting in your closet unused. I don’t understand how some ppl unbox new bags or items every month or every few weeks saying it’s their dream xyz. I sit there thinking: what happened to the stuff last month? The pandemic has taught me to slow down and live more minimally.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

The pandemic definitely reinforced the idea the minimalism is the way forward cx

@anneliberntsson3023 2 жыл бұрын

Your insights make you shine more than any diamond or sparkling logo could ever do! To me, this was a very special video. Thank you! ❤

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

That really means a lot, thank you xx

@MarMarSnatched 2 жыл бұрын

right now i love riding boats with my husband!!! i still shop but i hardly buy anything. the habit is dying down or getting old

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Riding boats sounds cool!xx

@susanngin3481 2 жыл бұрын

Everything happened for a reason. Able to enjoy simple life everyday is a blessing. We r only one so owning few luxuries bag or jewelleries be a minimalist is better than one owning too many luxuries items n keep worry whther safe or collect too much dust this will cause mental stress n mindset torture.. . ...we live for ourself n not for others.....so contd what one believe n do it....indeed Eileen video is an inspiration to others like me too. ..tks for sharing...😊

@RosaLisa1844 Жыл бұрын

Beautifully explained, I agree wholeheartedly being a dentist myself. Balance is all we need.. and the older we get, the more we appreciate that golden middle way in so many facets. Thx for all your lovely videos 🤗

@dianeb2349 2 жыл бұрын

What a great video. Thanks so much. I totally agree and I’m glad you feel great and happy.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Diane! Xx

@shawndavis7878 2 жыл бұрын

Aww! I love when you share videos of you and your son. Thanks for always giving good life advice and keeping us focused on the important things in life. 🥰

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for always showing up! It’s always a pleasure to have you here xx

@hananheakal6942 2 жыл бұрын

Love your messages, insights and outlook on “things” and life. Your videos help me stay on track with my own luxury minimalistic journey and quest to be intentional about everything I do - not just with buying. Thank you; you’re always inspiring 🌹

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Your message really made my day, thank you Hanan xx

@kkauffman01 2 жыл бұрын

I love how honest you are. I need to take a look at my spending, and you really gave me some great things to consider when doing that!

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words, Katie xx

@noodlemaiden7619 2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right Eileen. And it's not about knowing you should manage your money differently, you have to experience it to really feel what you need and want for your life. Thanks for sharing your thoughts so well. Hope you and the family are surviving well in this heat 🌞

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I was born and bred in the ever-so-hot Malaysia but this heat is quite intense! Melting lol xx

@shanejobs2457 2 жыл бұрын

You never disappoint! Thank you for this video. 💕

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

That means a lot, thank you xx

@vivistar_1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing! Listening to you can also change my life☺️💓

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

That’s sweet of you! Thank you xx

@zedrickapolloshorts6515 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Eileen for sharing the journey you're into. So inspiring!!!❤️❤️❤️Jianice💚

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you jianice! Lovely to see you here xx

@briannumme9337 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the sharing your thoughts and exposing your vulnerability!

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support Brian 😇

@Kworldreview 2 жыл бұрын

Stop by to say hi. Thank you for make a reminding video. It means a lot. I’m a dentist too and started a master degree. That’s the beginning I started to collect luxury pieces. I don’t know how come I come so far maybe I might get some stressed from studying😂. I still have some pieces to collect and then I promised myself to quit buying luxury pieces and go back to the normal life that I used to be. Cheers to you

@conniepleasantnails 2 жыл бұрын

I think I can see a transformation in the way I look at life having less. I see it in you too and your last photo says it all, family is what’s important and you still looked cute 🥰

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

That’s so sweet! Thank you xx

@fcicabyss74 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Eileen, I always love watching your videos coz it's always make sense! Much love and God blesses you and your family always 🙏 ❤️

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you xx

@bellewong4127 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot for sharing this honest and heart-to-heart video.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Lovely to see you belle xx

@tamiewert808 2 жыл бұрын

Your recipe for a happy life is excellent!! Love your videos!!

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! xx

@ryeofoatmeal 2 жыл бұрын

'how I shop wouldn't affect anyone but myself' truer words have never been spoken!! I think many people overlooked this part

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

😊

@chantaltq 2 жыл бұрын

I love it that you included short clips from your everyday life: your work, your lovely boy and also the beautiful scenery at the end. I'm at a point where I don't own much luxury items and ironically, I think it's mostly due to social media. I had been chasing for "the one" dream bag for so long, watched countless unboxing and review videos such that the bags I once desire no longer interests me anymore. It's as if I own the bag (albeit mentally) and that I simply got tired of it. Of course there are certain bags that I still desire from time to time but a part of me is still not 100% sure. I guess I'll figure it out one day.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I think you’re nearly there! The fact that you’re at peace with having the bags “mentally” tells me you’re on your path to wanting less xx

@jessier.cardona6062 2 жыл бұрын

You are so sweet and brilliant, .Eileen. Always sharing knowledge and good vibes. Take care and GB

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for always showing up, Jessie xx

@sugarbabetvxq 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your journey with Eileen. I really appreciate it. Your video here has really resonated with me. I was also at a stage few years ago whereby I thought when I could afford more and buying things for myself would make me happier as my parents couldn't really afford in buying me things when I was younger with a vision that they wanted to save hard to afford my brother's and my education to study overseas. I was always buying so many SLGs thinking that since it was smaller and cheaper it was something I could afford buying handbags or something else not thinking that overtime, the total spent exceeds the amount that could have been spent to travel and experience new things, or buying just that 1 handbag that I really admired. Ever since I got married, it hit me hard thinking that luxury minimalism is the key, and I don't end up sacrificing everything thinking I can't own a few. I agree with you on luxury minimalism that I can still enjoy the few luxury items that I own and just not going overboard and not spending more than what I earn. Also I realised over time, I am a low key person, and am not the type who loves to wear different bags to work on a daily basis, so there was no point in wanting to own so many bags or jewelleries if I was the type who likes to dress simple and that I don't mind wearing the same jewelleries again and again. Also when I got married, I started to realise that if I didn't spend too much money back then on just buying unintentionally, I could have saved up a lot of money for something else better in my life. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Thank you for helping me remember and continuously keep this promise to myself. :)

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story with me! I find it so relatable and I’m really happy for you that you found the joy of owning less xx

@niquebernales9756 2 жыл бұрын

This resonated well with me. Thank you for this!

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being here xx

@karenphu998 2 жыл бұрын

I’m exactly at the same point in life......... Because of my state in life.....I find your open discussion behind ‘’luxury items’’ is refreshing. I stop buying luxury items...for now......and so......I’m on my journey call FIRE movement............look into it fir yourself...... Thanks again for sharing.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, Karen! I’ve been following the FIRE movement for 4 years now, so glad I found it because otherwise life really would be stressful and draining xx

@dawncopple3953 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Eileen. I enjoy your videos so much. You have such an elegant style; not boring at all. As a matter of fact, after watching your video where you introduced us to LilySilk, I purchased several of their cashmere sweaters. You were correct when you said their cashmere feels soft and comfortable. I absolutely love them. Please continue sharing your journey and ideas. The information you provide has definitely helped me when deciding on which items to bring into my life. 🥰

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

That really means a lot, thank you for being here xx

@fcmotavalli 2 жыл бұрын

This is so relatable! Well said! 👏🏻

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you xx

@ymirkina 2 жыл бұрын

Your drawings are so adorable! I would love to see more of them in a video 😊💕

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😀

@AVL71 2 жыл бұрын

Great sharing! Am reminded once again to count my blessings and enjoy what I already own. Indeed, the thrill of checking out handbags via YT videos and finally owning that bag is losing its appeal to me. The happiness doesn’t last.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing xx

@kristinrogers2586 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for making this video! I can relate as a fellow dentist. I have been much happier with having my freedom of choice when it comes to enjoying my life and the money I make.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Oh hello there! Thank you for your message, it’s lovely to hear from someone in the same profession xx

@macakombucha4816 2 жыл бұрын

Your videos are such a blessing, thanks darling 😘😘

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you xx

@litavee4549 2 жыл бұрын

Love this video Eileen 💞

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you xx

@jucaja 2 жыл бұрын

Always looking forward to your videos 💜

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

And it makes me happy to see you here xx

@lsbdabarkads2761 2 жыл бұрын

I always love your content, Eileen. You are a dentist, like my sister! ❤ I'm lucky to have found your channel at a time I was starting buying designer pieces. I really planned of getting only a few, to save money.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support xx

@maijam6709 2 жыл бұрын

What a wise and lovely video Eileen ❤

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

@rosetulip1231 2 жыл бұрын

I completely understand. I look at my designer bag collection and now ask myself do I really need over 20 Classic Chanel bags????? Do I really need my birkin bags??? I’m so glad I came across this video, YHANK YOU.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I agree, sometimes we forget to take a step back and reflect on what we really need in life. Often, it’s way less than we think xx

@princeeverlove 2 жыл бұрын

Lady Eileen...a fresh breeze on a summer day✨✨

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you xx

@jeannettedeluna3431 2 жыл бұрын

You inspire me! Thank you!

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you xx

@Nikki_yourbroker Жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this ❤

@angelamelum4304 Жыл бұрын

Much needed video for me today. Thank you.

@ColourfulNoir Жыл бұрын

I’m glad you found my video helpful! Thank you, Angela xx

@mindbodysoul8214 2 жыл бұрын

Eileen, this was such a beautiful story told. One that is true with each of us but only a few will get it. Love your cut aways. You are gorgeous, your wardrobe is gorgeous(I'm almost there BTW 😘). I'm so happy you have found piece and happiness. Thanks for the Inspiration.💖🌷🌻🌺

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

It always makes me so happy to see you here xx

@evetteleary5599 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Thank you.

@Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb 2 жыл бұрын

The biggest lesson from this video is to take steps improve our lives and not care so much of what others think. I feel like a lot of over consumption is due to caring about what others think and comparing ourselves to others. Treating ourselves to something nice once in a while as a special treat is nice but over over consumption is overwhelming.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

100% agree! It's a pointless exercise to try to impress others xx

@luxurybagheaven Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your lovely content and inspiration. And hello from Scotland ❤

@ColourfulNoir Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! xx

@grassroots8165 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this!

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being here xx

@rzrollon 2 жыл бұрын

You are my favorite luxe vlogger!

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

You made my day, thank you Riza xx

@m.h.t1286 2 жыл бұрын

💖 Investing in our homes is another wise way to spend money. Whether it’s a fresh coat of paint, a new kitchen or bathroom, an entertainment patio in the backyard or solar panels…all will add value to our homes & we get to enjoy, it’s a win win…been there, done that, I can’t recommend it enough xox

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I agree! Funny enough, we’re having some home improvement done at the moment seeing Isaac is growing up and needs more space xx

@nida1990 2 жыл бұрын

I worry about money all the time Eileen. I earn a decent living but recently things have gotten out of control! Hopefully, one day, i will worry less when I will have enough money! IMHO, you can’t “enjoy” life if one is constantly worried about money!

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I understand! I hope you find the joy of having less soon, it really is refreshing xx

@parisryan5950 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your video. I like your balanced approach to life and 'happiness'. I also like nice things, but would only buy them in a fiscally responsible way. They do bring joy to me, funnily, as they are not only luxury items but also artworks, such as my beautiful Rolex. Black Friday sales are on this weekend, I was tempted to buy things that I don't need, then I watched your video and decided against buying out of FOMO. I like your saying of 'being intentional', and will take your advice to heart.

@ColourfulNoir Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad my video helped you to be intentional xx

@yeelinhee169 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for another useful video. You are sensible and articulate ~~

@ColourfulNoir Жыл бұрын

Thank you xx

@Handbaglvoer 2 жыл бұрын

I’m feeling guilty now cuz I just made an online purchase an hour prior to watching this video. I has always wanted it cuz all the KZfaqrs were raving about it. Its something I don’t need and it’s a coach cassie 19. I got the 10% code and I clicked check out. I honestly not sure I’m going to use the bag cuz I have other nicer bags, I’m guilty for purchasing it cuz I don’t want to miss out for not having it. I need to watch your videos more so I could stop buying. I want to be happy and enjoy what I have , instead of keep trying to make myself happy by purchasing and spending money. 🥲

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you find the joy of owning less soon cx

@princessnerd7266 2 жыл бұрын

Great advice♥️

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you xx

@elizawang9232 2 жыл бұрын

I wish I can achieve that superpower as you in one day! Very much inspired.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

You can do it! Sending you lots of positive energy xx

@villanelle5279 2 жыл бұрын

I didn’t realize you are a dentist. I come from a family of dentists. Your demeanor must be so calming to those patients who are phobic. I’m currently on the journey of buying less but better quality. Also, I’ve found that when I sell my designer bags, I don’t miss them, but initially, have anxiety about doing so. It such an eye opening experience.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words xx

@glsnk8326 2 жыл бұрын

Bonjour de Belgique, j'aime beaucoup vos vidéos et aussi votre aura. Vous êtes simple et avec une voix reposante. Merci

@ella_encantada 2 жыл бұрын

Lovely video. I was curious as to your profession and was surprised you’re a dentist! I thought maybe an executive. I also enjoyed seeing the snippets with your son and your home.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I myself can’t believe I’ve done the job for nearly 13 years lol xx

@bagsandlifestyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the video!

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for showing up xx

@simplybeauty2730 2 жыл бұрын

I really love your video, your minimalist idea, I wish I can be like you. I’m now feel kinda bored with all the shopping and luxury stuff.. ita a never ending journey. But honestly, it really don’t get me to anywhere.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for showing up xx

@gorgeouss79 Жыл бұрын

I resonate with so much of what you're saying in this video! Of course, my personal life is different = I live with my elderly mom and cat, and taking time off to travel is not easy what-so-ever! It's quite hard to leave and take time off to enjoy traveling. This is why I've poured my "fun money" in luxury items. I work so hard throughout the year [up to 50+ hours a week] and I recently have told myself that I deserve to spend on myself and enjoy some of life's pleasures. Honestly, I'd rather travel and explore the world. But how can I do that? I don't have a partner or friend that would even do that with me. I have a big family but the other day I had to go on a work trip and it was very difficult to go for 3 nights / 4 days to travel. Everyone has excuses as to why they can't come sleep over and be with my (ehem, our mom / grandma). I feel stuck in my life. I accumulated so much luxury goods the past 3 years and I found myself selling most of it online. I didn't even want those items. Why did I buy them?! :/

@gorgeouss79 Жыл бұрын

I used to be much much better at investing the majority of my income in the stock market. I'm glad I've kept my 401k at the max. Other than that, I try to do the Roth but then that's it. I found myself sick of investing and "being good" and just wanted to take a break to enjoy some items. I just went overboard and bought everything. :/

@ColourfulNoir Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing with me! I was obsessed with shopping before and then I was addicted to decluttering. Now I believe everything can be done in moderation. It’s ok to treat yourself once in a while, but I hope you still take care of your priorities xx

@symoursacarescarusos7190 Жыл бұрын

Omg! I’m so happy to know that you are a dentist like me!!!

@ColourfulNoir Жыл бұрын

❤️

@Debbiesdilemmas 2 жыл бұрын

Eileen as always very wise words. I’m so happy that I was never interested in luxury at a young age. I also was never much of a shopper. My husband and I have always been like minded when it came to our finances. I’m sure I’ve mentioned before but paying off our mortgage and having some financial freedom was much more exciting to us than spending frivolously. Now in our late 50s we are financially better off than we ever imagined we’d be. It’s the best feeling knowing that you have a home paid for and enough money to retire. Our main goal is to travel and spend quality time together with friends and family. I can still buy a bag or two during the year if I want and know that we will still be fine. He also has things he likes to buy but he also buys knowing he can get a return on his investments. I know if we had been big spenders in our early years that we never would have been so financially free.🥰🥰🥰

@m.h.t1286 2 жыл бұрын

So true! Real estate 20 years ago were more affordable than now, making mortgages easier to pay off…relatively…as our income weren’t as high as now & costs of living were lower…somehow we managed… A balance in life is best…spend less than you earn will give you the financial freedom. Some might have reached that freedom & now able to enjoy their fruition, whatever that might be…first class flights & exotic holiday locations are no different from buying expensive jewellery or splurging on luxury goods xox

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Debbie, thank you so much for sharing this! I hope your story will I inspire more people to keep their priorities right, because it really does pay off xx

@Debbiesdilemmas 2 жыл бұрын

@@m.h.t1286 where we live in Canada it’s nearly impossible to get into the real estate market. I feel for young people starting out.😢

@sams3015 2 жыл бұрын

Very wise words

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you xx

@Hansel-8888 2 жыл бұрын

Could not agree with you more 😻

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

😇

@yevheniiam3827 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your video! I had to leave my home due to the war with just two suitcases for myself and my son. We really do need less than we’re conditioned to believe in the modern society.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through. Thank you for sharing this, I hope you and your son are doing well xx

@rhondafrazier8205 2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful video! I am a minimalist in luxury. I prefer to own less! For me, it is freedom! I like to have my money growing for a very happy and secure future! My husband and I travel a lot. Those shared experiences are more important to me than accumulating a lot of stuff! ❤️

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!! A good life is made of small meaningful moments, but things xx

@athena3865 Жыл бұрын

No one has it all, Eileen, and that's ok.

@wakingthesun4935 2 жыл бұрын

How did you acquire your Birkin bags? Did you have to go through all of the purchases at Hermes?

@setfuiyong1464 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Eileen, I love your content. Would you mind to share where did u get the jumpsuit ？thanks ！

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

It’s from a brand called passenger xx

@CarolinaZ501 2 жыл бұрын

Dear Eileen, you have made such wise and inspiring choices! I feel so much less alone with regards to my life choices because of channels like yours. I am not a fan of a huge amount of consumption. But I am definately not a fan of the die hard 'thou shalt only own 100 possesions including your toilet paper roll' kind of minimalism either. There's a happy, commen sense medium, that probably looks a bit different for all of us. Thank you and take care!

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Haha your comment made me laugh so hard! Thank you for showing up xx

@墨紫月 2 жыл бұрын

I had one of those birthdays last week. 🤪

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Happy belated birthday xx

@墨紫月 2 жыл бұрын

@@ColourfulNoir thank you Eileen

@mariachiucinco7601 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this amazing video. Can you recommend a good book ?

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Maria, I have a book list on my website colourfulnoir.com xx

@mariachiucinco7601 2 жыл бұрын

@@ColourfulNoir thanks

@jenneverendingstory 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Eileen,if you dont mind how much is your hermes birkin bag ? Ty

@parishers6351 2 жыл бұрын

Google

@ladycrystalr-u.s.a 2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@emilytam8569 2 жыл бұрын

Hope you are ok Eileen. If you like reading, give this book a chance ‘Soul Keeping - by John Ortberg’. God bless you. Take care. x

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the book recommendation, Emily! I'll definitely add that to my book list xx

@haiji1996 2 жыл бұрын

Does COVID have anything to do with your conversion to minimalist? I heard that many dentists have lost earnings due to COVID.

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

I would say only partly. I was already doing minimalism before COVID anyway. I had a 2-month break during COVID, but when I went back, demand for cosmetic work surprisingly increased. However, COVID did make me value freedom even more, it's reassuring to know you don't have to rush to join the workforce if you're not emotionally ready xx

@songsenkei 2 жыл бұрын

*Dentistry seems super stressful. And owning a practice is even more stressful. Have you thought of a career change? Or maybe whittling down 5 days a week of work to 4 days a week?*

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Yes I started pursuing FIRE years ago and it allows me more options which I’m thankful for xx

@songsenkei 2 жыл бұрын

@@ColourfulNoir What is FIRE?

@leesaferrell5659 Жыл бұрын

@@songsenkei Financial Independence Retire Early

@lanafeulner4083 Жыл бұрын

I invest in a personal trainer for my neck issues. I pay $500 a month for the membership and personal trainer. I am 60 and look 40. I notice dentists have problems with their backs and you have a very demanding job. You need to focus on your health first and luxury second. A few bags are good and that's all you need. You are much younger but have a more demanding job. Just realize that your health should be your priority. I have Chanel bags I don't use but are strictly investments. I know you say that's not an investment, but it can be if you choose the right bags. I only use them for special occasions and have a very large investment in stocks. Diversification is what you need to focus on. I always feel the best investment is in yourself. You are very talented. You are beautiful and just relax and enjoy life.