shay’s problem is she wants a man to love her before she can even love herself

You don't get close to men by listening to them shit on their BM. That right there should've showed you who he was.

“Shay is my best friend” this is exactly why I don’t like that whole “best friend” bs

Shay has spent her entire television career capping for men that never respected or claimed her. True "pick me" behavior.

This woman has been on TV for almost 15 years .. wow.. for men that didn't show her respect nor loyalty .

Her third eye was definitely CLOSED lmaooooo

take a shot every time Scrappy says "at the end of the day" and "ya feel me?" lol

I think blue was feeling Shay on the low he wanted a piece of shay😮

I never seen a special connection between them. All they ever talked about was Erica 🙄

Those hair styles went through some serious evolution...

"Scrappy I made some fruit" "If you _made_ the fruit, you'd be a flower" 😆

Shay’s loyalty was hardcore one of the things I really like about her

Shay’s problem was that she was too worried about hating and fighting Erica when scrappy was the problem that lied to both of em.. She’s crazy

On a positive note Shay has one of the best natural bodies on tv!!!!

Shay is the epitome of a woman who never received genuine healthy love in childhood. She is used to being walked over, looked over, ignored. She developed a harden sense of self to be able to survive and deal with what she didn’t get but that hardness is a lie but she will continue to go through what she go through until she really address it. It’s good to see she closed that Scrappy chapter after he disrespected her on stage. Pleasure P can’t even act like he really got feelings for Shay or Gabby he look lost during that argument 😂

I’m glad Shay hit Joy 😂😂😂 and Bobby was at the reunion shocked because he thought their attachment to Trina makes them untouchable 😂😂😂 Joy got touched…..hard to

scrappy's favourite words are "ya feel me" and "at the end of the day" lmao

She was Scrappy rebound for both his engagements damnn🤦🏾‍♀️

Shay seemed giddy about Erica not knowing but It didn't bring him any closer to choosing her.

Shay is the only women I know who became a star based off of chasing men who don’t want her 😂

I hope shay one day finds peace and self esteem. She's an example of an unfulfilled woman, has the looks, but so empty inside she uses men to fill her up

Scrappy really played her I actually felt bad for her

I love all the positivity y’all giving shay us women need to start being there for each other instead of tearing each other down

I loved how Trina checked Joy. She was very transparent and gave her the real.

Scrapp really did her bad. He didn't even claim her at one point and he even popped the question at Ericka in front of her like man sheesh.. Luckily she bounced back 👍🏽

"How dare you throw my mom's empanadas, and for what? For Pleasure? Ay, por favor..." 🤣🤣 that line tickled me so much lol

When pretty Ricky tried to get back together killed me they didn't even have the same body shapes nomo 😂😂😂😂😂😂 i was like y'all just needa let it go y'all had y'all time 😂

She acts like she knows what’s between Erica and Scrappy but deep down he still loves Erica. He never wanted something serious with Shay from the get go !

Scrappy really dribbled Shay in every way shape and form. 😭✋🏾

Shay never had any true loyalty from any of those fake ass people & I hate that for her because she seems like a cool, passionate person. The ice cream throw & land was iconic tho.

The whole time he kept talking about Erica in the beginning! Shay should've known he was still involved with that woman 🤦

VH1, please do a "at the end of the day" compilation. 😂

Lmaoooo 🤣 after Shay ran down the list of all the things scrappy did .. he said that’s it 😭😭😭 men really ain’t shit .

From what I understand Shay is the reason Scrappy and Erica got on LHH. Apparently Shay had a meeting with Mona and informed her that she was dealing with Scrappy. Then Mona met with Scrappy and he brung Erica and Momma Dee along so Mona casted all of them and didn’t let Shay and Erica know about each other. Mona also did the same thing with Mimi, Joseline and Stevie J. Chile Mona chaotic.

That wig on the thumbnail was playing with her😂😂

For Trina to check her cousin in such a real, but loving way for what happened to Shay, makes me respect Trina even more. It also shows she really loves her cousin, and considers Shay a true friend. Trina is a real one forever! I want Shay to stop always feeling like she has to always flip. She must really learn the power of holding her peace when necessary. I am a fan of Shay, and want to see her win win! If she does not, learn to control her temper, it’s gonna pull her down quick!

There will be a day when Shay's body and soul won't even entertain the type of men she came across... I'm rooting for nothing but the best for her

Shay’s problem was focusing on being in with a man instead of focusing on her personal goals.

Next to New York, Shay really milked the hell out of reality TV and made it work for her

Let me just say this to women: Stop going into these “situationships” with more questions than answers. You have the right to go into something being fully aware of what’s going on. Quit giving these dudes your body and your heart and finally asking for a relationship expecting it to be that. If you’re looking for a relationship put that out there in the beginning so you know whether you’re wasting your time or not. Speak up and don’t be scared. If he’s as great as you think he won’t play games with your heart and he will be on the same page. If a dude says, “Let’s just see where it goes” go the other way. He doesn’t want you, he just wants to play with you until what he wants come along. Stop wasting your time and your tears. Get with someone who wants what you want and no less. He won’t ever buy the cow if he’s getting the milk for free.

Within the first three minutes he let her know not to equate herself to Erica when she said, “ Same for me?” And he hit her with the, “ It’s only been 2 weeks.” 😭😭

The fact that she didn’t want him to defend his baby mother regardless of they are together or not, speaks about her character. Ain’t no real man gonna allow any man to disrespect the mother of his kids if he truly has respect for her.

U can tell the chemistry wasn’t there on his part.he used her every time Erica and him argued.thats messed up.

"Shoulda , woulda , coulda" - takes me out everytime 😂

I like Shay and she is a cutie but I swear she wasted her best years on dudes who didn't care about her and definitely didn't luv her she is one of those women who seem to never learn from previous mistakes/relationships hopefully she will get the rite man in her life oneday

I swear, Shay walks into the beauty supply store and asks for the worst fitting wigs they have and buys them out. LMAO!!!

Shay deserves to be happy! I pray she gets to be happy, she’s sooooo loyal.

I love how Trina kept it real with joy without taking her side because their related💙

One thing about Shay, she defended herself to the end!!! 😂😭

Shay is one of those chicks I can't help but like. She needs to value herself more though, Scrappy treated her like trash and she took it because she thought he was better than her . NO BABY GIRL NOBODY IS BETTER THAN YOU, LOVE YOURSELF

I love how Trina checked tf outta joy

The best of Buckeey and her crunchy wig collection 😭😭

They had to put the blonde wig in the thumbnail....it’s like throwing salt in an open wound.

Shay is yelling for her voice to be heard, she needs to love herself and God will provide the right man for her

Shay is gorgeous and a loyal woman. Glad everything’s going well for her now.

“How can we fix the issue” Shay: “With these hands” 😭

I got irritated everytime scrappy went to shay to f**k but kept bringing up his bm... EVERYTIME, he really made my girl a side chick trifling

Should've been titled 'The Evolution of Shay's Wigs' 😭

Shay be wearing those Tyler Perry play wigs.

She cant ever let go of the past. That's something that holds you back.

Shay must learn to love herself more than these man Who don't give a damn about HER

Dudes is crazy. If Shay did to Scrappy what he did to her he would still be bringing it up.

Shay was way too invested in their (erica & scrappy’s) relationship. If she had to keep asking every time she saw him she already knew what was up.

I like Shay. I just do. She's just real and blunt with her feelings.

“When I ain’t got nobody to talk to I come holla at you” is that supposed to be a good thing?

I wanna know what evolution? She still fighting for men and for no reason. Iyanla even felt that there is no change lol let’s thank KZfaq for the hope in her change

She just want somebody to love and be around real friends that reciprocate the same energy she gives off!

23:22 🤣🤣🤣the friends acting like they don't know where pleasure is

Scrappy to Shay: When l aint got nobody to talk to , l come holla at you...What?!?😂

Blue is shaped like one of those small fridges you see in hotel rooms 🤣

Shay had an interview where she revealed that she got scrappy on the show..so thanks to her we have Erica and iconic Momma Dee in that order..I can see why Shay felt extra betrayed but Hopefully she’s doing better now

Crazy! Blue gave her more than all the men who claim they love her.

I don’t feel sorry for her. She seen all the signs, and ignored them lol

That wig in the thumbnail, y’all dead wrong!! 😂😂

Moral of the story.. if their words and their actions don’t match walk away from that dude. Shay should’ve put scrappy in the corner where he belonged and leave him alone. And don’t ever fight with a girl over a man. If she wants to keep him, fine, but you don’t have to.

“You hurt my “LITTLE” feelings”and then starts crying 😂

I hope no one is laughing too hard at Shay's behaviour, sometimes a lot of us women take a man's potential rather than himself as is which can lead to heartbreak and 7s as a fool. I hope she's in a better position now for herself 💙

Notice how Pleasure stayed by the other chic side and didn't see about Shay?

These men will drive you crazy ,then call you crazy.

That shit was spectacular's fault cuz he gon look straight in the direction P was in 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂

Sheesh you can tell these people have never held a regular job because they can’t even be around people they don’t like for 5 mins 🤦🏾‍♀️

Shay is GORGEOUS, just stunning. Sis just needs a therapist and she'll be straight!

The cover photo did Shay dirty with that helmet on 😂😂😂

Say what you want but Shay has an amazing NATURAL body!!!!

“He’s mine.Biznayee” girl you crazy!

i love how trina wasn't bias in they're argument, and checked both of them.

Shay is the only love and hip hop cast member that has managed to be so real I feel like I really know her and she is my friend lol

I love Amaras hair and the fact we all ain't the damn same!!

That was not her place to discredit Pleasure P group members 🙄

the ice cream scene was so iconic😭💀

😂😂😂😂she hit a nerve…..exposing that boy’s bad credit😂😂😂😂

Shay was a placeholder

P took that bite of icecream fast af😂😂

The wigs. Oh lawwd the wigs 😂

Y’all 😂😂😂😂 THE THUMBNAIL (blonde wig on the LEFT) 🥴😭😭 vh1 know they Messy!

I just had an epiphany…. Shay is actually a sweet person who has unfortunately saw the good in the wrong people. As far as men, she dated them for potential which is always a big No no. Nobody is perfect, we’ve all had a moment or 2 that we’re not proud of. I hope she falls in love with herself and embraces her feminine side. I really think she’s a diamond in the rough. 💯🙏🏽💎💖

Spectacular face when shay asked about P 😂.

Her throwing that ice cream? Always a movie 😂😂😂

Shay wig look like it was on backwards

That blonde wig in the thumbnail reminds me of when George Washington used to wear his powdered wigs.