The Ex: To Call Or Not To Call?

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Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

11 жыл бұрын

What you should do when your girlfriend dumps you & the last time you tried to talk her into getting back together it didn't go so well. The pros and cons to calling her after only a few weeks of not hearing from her, instead of walking away and meaning it. Why the overwhelming feeling that you should call her when you have not heard from her in several weeks is simply another manifestation of needy pursuing tendencies.
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Пікірлер: 138
@will4evermoore
@will4evermoore 6 жыл бұрын
Pleading NEVER works but walking away does
@montyklark1043
@montyklark1043 Жыл бұрын
What do you mean ?
@kellyjford1
@kellyjford1 11 ай бұрын
@@montyklark1043no begging for a woman to stay with you or date you.
@toniserb
@toniserb 4 жыл бұрын
Your words are addictive, going through a rough patch and YOU keep me in a positive state of mind! Thank you!
@Anonymous-kh3eu
@Anonymous-kh3eu 4 жыл бұрын
Antoniu Serb you’re in the right place. I’ve been watching him for years and read his book, it changed my life. I’ve been with two of the women of my dreams since I learned from him
@joeb5578
@joeb5578 4 жыл бұрын
I used to be the guy that Coach Corey talks about in the beginning. I've finally gotten to a place that I'm real comfortable with myself. It's taken about 5 years to get to this point. It's a great place to be. Hallelujah. :)
@tylerhatfield3238
@tylerhatfield3238 5 жыл бұрын
I waited two days after she suggested a break up. "Sorry you feel that way. Give me a call WHEN you change your mind!" 2 days later... "im sorry babeeeeee" hahaha
@Giovanni-01
@Giovanni-01 4 жыл бұрын
Good man, update?
@benhartart9487
@benhartart9487 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you didn’t take her back
@mauro0626ify
@mauro0626ify 7 жыл бұрын
Many guys try to "heat up leftovers." Lmfao
@kingjohnny7215
@kingjohnny7215 5 жыл бұрын
..leftovers belong in the trash !! everything better fresh.
@kamseumelanie5911
@kamseumelanie5911 4 жыл бұрын
No body is à leftover everybody is an ex of somebody at a given time unless they are still virgins
@mkowboy13
@mkowboy13 3 жыл бұрын
Ya and u no wat that tastes like lol freakin perogys or macaroni
@PauleePessimist
@PauleePessimist 8 жыл бұрын
When you move like a jellyfish, rhythm don't mean nothing, you go with the flow-you don't stop.
@JohnDoe-ef3nv
@JohnDoe-ef3nv 7 жыл бұрын
Don't plead to get her back. "WHy???" the strongest negotiation point is to be able to walk away and mean it. she dumped you b/c she doesn't feel as strongly as she used to. he keeps texting and pursing her, b/c he has a scarcity mindset. He's like the roomba who keeps bumping into the corner. Tell her "Give me a call if you wanna work things out" and then walk away. ----- spoke to her after a month and did not push for anything romantic and was cocky/funny, being light and playful in their interactions.
@stevensjoseph95
@stevensjoseph95 5 жыл бұрын
The most amazing encouragement not to be weak. Thank you Corey.
@daze507
@daze507 3 жыл бұрын
If your ex had BPD just forget her because once discarded permanently, you can be sure you don't even exist for her and if you do, it's definitely not in a good way. You wouldn't want the toxicity back in your life anyway.
@jaep0719
@jaep0719 4 жыл бұрын
Corey you came to my life at the perfect time...my 2 year old relationship was about to be over because of me chasing but I suddenly stopped after seeing ur videos. Now I’m the man in the driver seat again!! Thank you so much sir. I’m reading ur book.
@AffyisAffy
@AffyisAffy 5 жыл бұрын
Leave the door open is #1 if they dump you. If someone doesn't contact you after dumping you after no contact it says a lot about their ability to love, forgive, and reflect. Basically their capacity to love you over time and how important you are in their mind from day to day. If you act before them you will never be sure that they care enough to maintain a second go around, and it will cloud your new relationship with insecurity and doubt. Think before you give in and contact them. You may get them back, but it does have a cost. And that cost may haunt you. Better to maintain no contact and work on yourself on your own timeline than to count down 30 days focusing on them and the past.
@suiretnodnotgnihsaw6950
@suiretnodnotgnihsaw6950 5 жыл бұрын
I didn't read this fully. But thank you, I'm at the point where I want to cave in. Thanks so much. Genuinely appreciate your comment.
@suiretnodnotgnihsaw6950
@suiretnodnotgnihsaw6950 5 жыл бұрын
I get it. It's sad I'll still think about her but it's time to move on.
@christopherarmstrong2710
@christopherarmstrong2710 2 жыл бұрын
4:42 What you focus on in life is going to expand. Where attention goes, energy flows (T Robbins) 18:30 If a woman doesn't respect you, then she can never love you. It totally will not happen. 21:30 Expressing weakness as a man does not create attraction, it actually has the exact opposite of that.
@HerSunHisMoon91
@HerSunHisMoon91 11 жыл бұрын
Sigh. Corey, you're a strong inspiration. I want to become someone like you seriously, but educating women with relationship.
@jackbravo2172
@jackbravo2172 7 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you don't teach that 30 day no contact strategy bullshit, then start contacting the girl cold after that cause in nearly all the situations I've seen under other Coaches video's that teach that, they either got ignored or short unemotional responses and it can be very discouraging but yet I'm sure it does work for a few but it's got a low success rate.
@sshuteandrew
@sshuteandrew 6 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!
@renep7008
@renep7008 5 жыл бұрын
34 days NC, after being dumped. I broke NC, and texted her, “hey, how have you been?” She texted me back all excited, and singing a different song, telling me how much she had been thinking about me. Im taking her out on Sunday. Corey Wayne (Bad Ass) + Brad Browning (30 Days) =‘d Success!
@MultiFreddy34
@MultiFreddy34 5 жыл бұрын
@@renep7008 Browning is a fucking nerd. At least CW tells it the way it is. Browning is a charlatan.
@CharlesFerraro
@CharlesFerraro 4 жыл бұрын
Rene P yah well what happened? My guess is you took her out and it didn’t go anywhere. You counted your chickens before they hatched.
@EASTSIDECHR1S
@EASTSIDECHR1S 10 жыл бұрын
I wish I watched your videos 3 months ago
@forcado1979
@forcado1979 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the update Joey S.
@Zsuluap
@Zsuluap Жыл бұрын
doesnt matter. You have to watch these videos. Fail at what the coach teaches and after that you know he is telling the truth and you have examples of how everything went wrong compared to the teacher.
@echdareez
@echdareez 10 жыл бұрын
Damn, this is the 50th [or so] video I've watched and wish I would've seen this one 6 months ago. Broke up (I was in love and I felt like I didn't get the attention I was hoping for) and sent a mail after 2 months, best new year wishes at 4 months and a final mail some weeks ago. Pathetic, brought myself down, no self-respect so never again. Back to being an alpha male that I always was, let the next woman now show that she's really into me.
@CharlesFerraro
@CharlesFerraro 4 жыл бұрын
How has life been treating you since this message?
@echdareez
@echdareez 4 жыл бұрын
@@CharlesFerraro This is rather odd : I've posted this more than 6 years ago... And it's strange to see myself being so let-down in myself back then... And also being so honest about it in such a public 'forum'. But thanks for asking :-) As it happens to be, I did indeed resort to becoming that self-confident "me" that I was before and met my wife (oh yes) about a year later. And I realized that true love is... unique... special... and you just 'know' if the other half is as invested in the relationship as you are. If she isn't : don't waste your time, move on, don't look back - there's someone better out there somewhere. Enjoy being single while you're going about living your life, enjoy doing the things you love doing, hopefully meet new people and ...never...contact...an...ex...again... :-) We're all different and there are certainly no golden rules in that game called 'dating' but there are a few certainties and a few pointers that you pick up along the way. But the biggest one might be : just enjoy your life and the many paths you take during that life - even the 'wrong' ones will be a source to grow as a person and these 'lesser' experiences will (hopefully) make you just a tad wiser and hopefully a bit stronger ;-)
@CharlesFerraro
@CharlesFerraro 4 жыл бұрын
Dimitri G wow that’s great news that you got married. Did you guys have kids? A family is all I really want at this point in my life. I hope your shitty ex is alone and miserable and also jealous of how far you’ve come.
@echdareez
@echdareez 4 жыл бұрын
@@CharlesFerraro Thanks so much :-) That's indeed great news and rather unexpected (never expected to pop the question at my age). And as for kids : alas, she has 2 kids from a previous relationship (16 and 14 already) and I'm already too "old" (just became 46) to have kids of my own :-) Besides : our life is filled with other activities/priorities so we don't have the time or the energy to raise up a kid. And I genuinely and sincerely hope you can find that perfect and loving partner to start a family. But don't let that be your main focus, I know that the feeling can be overwhelming at times but you can't force it (unfortunately). And also my thanks for the support for my shitty ex ;-) We broke up in September and in October she was already dating another guy - got knocked up 2 months later and the last info I had was what I saw when I sent that final mail. It seems she wasn't alone and miserable :-) But honestly : whatever she is doing right now - I don't care and hope you'll understand that I'm also not willing to investigate :-) Our time together was... whatever it was... positive and negative... That time together became a few (distant) memories and I've built so many more memories with my wife in those 5 years that we're now together which have filled up that big box of memories and moved all the other memories to a small room for archiving purposes :-)
@CharlesFerraro
@CharlesFerraro 4 жыл бұрын
Dimitri G wow... that’s horrible how that went down. Really horrible. I wonder if she’s a single mother at this point or if the baby kept them together.
@oliverprieto820
@oliverprieto820 3 жыл бұрын
I love you coach! You keep me in the state of mind i should always be in! Give this man an oscar lmao
@SvenS2
@SvenS2 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you coach. You literally turned my life around!
@crittela
@crittela 5 жыл бұрын
Damn bro your.. After reading your book twice and watching over 70 of your videos... I was kind of sceptical.. But now.. bro your on fucking point. Very impressed my guy. Good job and thank you for everything and making me see things cleary for the first time in my life.. And I use to think I was the man lol after taking in as much of your knowledge as I can thru your vids and book ive become a bull. Thank you agian.. Going to be booking a paid phone session soon, looking forward to actually meeting you. Keep up the good work.
@thehealthbodyfitness
@thehealthbodyfitness 6 жыл бұрын
Coach corey is so Right 💯 100%
@369Keyz
@369Keyz 4 жыл бұрын
Great video!
@CamiloDiazBogotaDC
@CamiloDiazBogotaDC 4 жыл бұрын
Great video coach !! thanks
@hhcoach
@hhcoach 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this coaching log coach, really powerful for me right now
@juanmespinoza65
@juanmespinoza65 7 жыл бұрын
"Hits head with book !'.....Come on man !
@azibou972
@azibou972 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks coach!
@CriticalBlue
@CriticalBlue 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice Corey. This is just what I needed in a time of weakness.
@freddiehall6433
@freddiehall6433 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@PTRT-ShawnBizanos
@PTRT-ShawnBizanos 5 жыл бұрын
I told her what I wanted and walked away. This shit sucks, but I know I'm not wasting my time anymore.
@garycortesi8406
@garycortesi8406 5 жыл бұрын
I’d love to ask out 100 women in the next 90 days if I could run into 100 women I’d want to ask out. Where is this vineyard of attractive women? Lol
@Xenfenix
@Xenfenix 4 жыл бұрын
True true
@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52
@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 3 жыл бұрын
The point is to ask out the first 100 girls you run into. Even if they are fugly. You gotta get the No's out of the way before you get to the yeses.
@brandonx6
@brandonx6 10 жыл бұрын
this has help me so much i just got dumped 3 days ago while it was our 2 years and two months..she went through my phone when i dont go through hers and dont like doing stuff like that cause i trusted her but we broke up over a picture on my phone that was post to be a joke between me and my buddy yeah i know i should have told her about it but i thought it wouldn't be a big deal but i guess i was wrong but these vids you have made coach corey has helped me alot and i will test myself when i go out Saturday with all my buddys.but the way i look at it and this goes in generally for all guys if we do ask girls out all we going to get is a yes or no the big thing is we got nothing to loose so at the end is im happy im single now i got no more BS drama im less stressed out
@Giovanni-01
@Giovanni-01 4 жыл бұрын
She was insecure then bro. But I hope you're getting on well anyway
@MegaDylancool
@MegaDylancool 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻
@tbsdrummer87
@tbsdrummer87 3 жыл бұрын
Corey streaming live from his cheek-clapping bed
@Zsuluap
@Zsuluap Жыл бұрын
Well coreys advise is the way to follow. But if you reach out after month or two without attachment and she blows you off. Then eventually it does not even matter if you called her or not. its a no go anyway
@michaelmccorn6762
@michaelmccorn6762 8 жыл бұрын
Epic
@kingjohnny7215
@kingjohnny7215 5 жыл бұрын
Call your Ex? Hell NO !! ...why? that's why she your Ex ! My Ex try to contact me from time to time, I never give her the time of day, I never will, ...wish I never met Her in the first place !! Best thing that ever happen to Me is getting her out of my life, keep it that way !!
@ennuiescence
@ennuiescence 11 жыл бұрын
Corey: i told her to "give me a call if you change your mind." She called! however, I admit that I shouldn't have told her my feelings for her, but I did. Our situation was different, however, and there was a big misunderstanding.
@ramapramudana3104
@ramapramudana3104 6 жыл бұрын
Hello Coach, how if your crush or your ex giving you an invitation for her wedding? Should I come ? In fact of matter I totally walk away, but I'm confused cause her family is well known to me, her brother is my mentor? Anyone can suggest? Thanks coach @coachcoreywayne you are awesome!
@SpartanReserve870
@SpartanReserve870 8 жыл бұрын
GF dropped the bomb on me and it hurt like nothing else...went no friends no contact. I read the book 5 times and got her back after 4 months!....well that's not it after all that I basically got complacent and it caused issues I just didn't know how to handle or recognize...causing attraction levels to drop... I take fault! (but did recognize a bit of passive aggressive w her, which takes real skill to deal with...but I think it would of be preventable if I passed her testing) Any way back to NC and on my 7 th read....so do read the fuckin book 10-15 times! - another note, when reading I hear my voice in my head but on the beginning of this 7 th read it's the coaches voices in hear..wow
@SpartanReserve870
@SpartanReserve870 8 жыл бұрын
^ its the coaches voice I hear now
@mt2oo8
@mt2oo8 8 жыл бұрын
Well done! What happened anyways? Did you go no contact? How long did it last? Did you actively try and talk to her? Needing advice. Reading the book nearly everyday like a bible honestly
@LesiureBoy
@LesiureBoy 7 жыл бұрын
Gawd, I'm such a moron. I broke up with my ex in a pretty bad way a few months ago and ended up looking like a total jackass. She lost all respect for me especially because I called her 4 times within that period. Having come to grips that it's totally over today, like a total moron, I accidentally called her when I was trying to block her number from my phone book. This forced me to send her an awkward text saying it was an accident. The Universe definitely has a sense of humor at my cost:(
@tarkanyilmaz6905
@tarkanyilmaz6905 7 жыл бұрын
I stopped contacting .after 3 months she texted me couple of times saying she missed me and again after a month. I never responded expecting an apology. Now that I know calling itself is a form of apology and if you wanted a proper one you could get it after you meet her. It has been 2 months since she texted me. Sad . I wish i had watched it before. I can't just text her now can I? It has been 6 months since I stopped texting. Never call/text ex . They will definitely call you seeing that you respect yourself. Believe in yourself. Seems like i lost my chances with her but I am still with my honour and respect
@damnson7870
@damnson7870 6 жыл бұрын
Tarkan Yilmaz text back after 3 months Do the same like she does
@sshuteandrew
@sshuteandrew 6 жыл бұрын
Trajan Yilmaz - there aren’t hard and fast rules when dealing with matters of the heart. Every situation and journey is unique- you should reach out if you think it could be well-received. You’ve given her time and space, now test the waters!
@artistrahhul4244
@artistrahhul4244 5 жыл бұрын
Problem is that in India you don't find too many girls that easily. I am stuck with this disrespecting girl and I get back to her just because I don't get to meet any girl on a scale equal to hers.
@brendanmcpike184
@brendanmcpike184 2 жыл бұрын
Clay Andrews is an “ex back guru” for lack of a better term and he has a coined term of “active no contact” where you work on yourself, your mental and emotional world and self control. My advice to guys reading this is if you ever did reach back out to a chick at the very least use Corey Wayne’s basic principles as your “active no contact”. You’re obviously breaking a rule though which I wouldn’t recommend, but hey, rules are a replacement for being present in the moment. Always just keep in mind whatever you do or don’t do in any given moment shapes the dynamic between you two and sometimes less is more and 100% of the time you should just go work on yourself. You have an idea generally what’s wrong with you if you dug and searched painfully deep enough. Good luck gents(there’s no such thing as luck; luck is preparation meeting opportunities)✌🏽
@jchad3229
@jchad3229 4 жыл бұрын
Skip to the 13:10 mark before you watch the video.
@willkjj4455
@willkjj4455 6 жыл бұрын
Kinda miss the intro now
@siulong1394
@siulong1394 2 жыл бұрын
Corey, in three days is going to be my ex birthday who dumped me for some other dude. I've been in no contact for the past two months, since she dumped me. I'll follow your advice and I won't with her, even if this is going to cost me. Btw, in 5 days is going to be my birthday and I bet she won't remember about it.
@jayrayatt
@jayrayatt 4 жыл бұрын
Listen to Corey! 13:11
@romansedano6251
@romansedano6251 7 жыл бұрын
fucking love your style of ciaching
@kingjohnny7215
@kingjohnny7215 5 жыл бұрын
Why you want to change anybody mind? She either love you or she don't, .. there's either chemistry or their ain't. Nothing can MAKE chemistry, it's there or it isn't. When it's there it's magnetic, & even if you drive each other crazy & don't want to love her. Damn you just love her anyway. Cause real love is crazy, (specially the first time..lol) ain't no formula, first love is deaf dumb & stupid.... But Corey Wayne giving great advice, he's on point. Wish I knew the stuff he talk about years ago, time & money saver. Men get your life together like an Alpha do, & you won't have to worry about any woman, you'll have options. Love just come at the right time, & believe in God, find your purpose.
@mav1877
@mav1877 11 жыл бұрын
Good advice,if the girl reaches out, should you suggest a definite date or wait until she brings it up?
@robinforrest1736
@robinforrest1736 5 жыл бұрын
But Mr Wayne what if they get back with an ex and get engage?
@staceyswope3438
@staceyswope3438 6 жыл бұрын
Advice? What if your behavior turned your ex off and made him lose faith in your relationship and led to his breaking up with you? Should I still not pursue after being broken up with? My boyfriend broke up with me three months ago and after limited contact via texting with my initiation, and two periods of no contact that lasted one and two weeks, he began to warm up to me. He even agreed to get together with me three times, but it was simply physical and he was still emotionally shut down and not ready to talk about us. However, he hasn’t been dating anyone else and he’s just taking time to be alone. I feel that since I pushed him away with my anxious behavior, I thought it might be better to build a positive rapport with him again. I also don’t want to make our relationship only a physical one.
@terrodar19
@terrodar19 Жыл бұрын
im in a small town and its gonna be quite difficult to find attractive women for me to start conversations haha…. I’ll do my best
@pei0476
@pei0476 7 жыл бұрын
Would this same theory work for women as well? It's not so much as to wanting an ex back, but really setting out the vibe to be treated as priority and not as an option. Would walking away and never look back work for woman too? Just wondering.
@Rage-_-Quit
@Rage-_-Quit 2 жыл бұрын
Women like the chase. Him making her his priority would result in her dumping him. Him chasing her after she dumps him would result in her dumping him. So probably not.
@sshuteandrew
@sshuteandrew 6 жыл бұрын
What if your behavior turned your ex off and made him lose faith in your relationship and led to his breaking up with you? Should I still not pursue after being broken up with? My boyfriend broke up with me three months ago and after limited contact via texting with my initiation, and two periods of no contact that lasted one and two weeks, he began to warm up to me. He even agreed to get together with me three times, but it was simply physical and he was still emotionally shut down. However, he hasn’t been dating anyone else and he’s just taking time to be alone. I feel that since I previously turned him off with my anxious behavior, it might be better to build a positive rapport with him again. Advice? I also don’t want to make our relationship only a physical one.
@solidn6
@solidn6 6 жыл бұрын
@Stacey Just go no contact, if he reaches out again then meet him, but no sex. If you keep giving him sex then he will have no reason to get back together in a relationship.
@sshuteandrew
@sshuteandrew 6 жыл бұрын
solidn6 - Thanks for your advice! I feel I’m in a much stronger place now, as I’m not feeling an urgent need to see him anymore. I’m doing so much better- I feel time is on my side! 💞
@khgriffi
@khgriffi 6 жыл бұрын
Stacey Swope I disagree with @solidn6. You should be doing the 3H’s - hanging out, having fun, and hooking up. I think Your problem is you haven’t changed your behavior. He broke up with you because of your anxious behavior (not sure exactly what that entails) and you are still exhibiting that same kind of behavior by pursuing him and convincing him to hang out with you. No contact is not a period of time between contacting him. No contact is you walking away and never looking back until he contacts you. It needs to be his idea to want to get together with you, not you convincing him to hang out. He needs to sort through things on his own without your influence and in the meantime you need to assess your anxious behavior. Then if he does decide to come back, again it will be his idea and he will be able to see you’ve improved your behavior
@solidn6
@solidn6 6 жыл бұрын
@khgriffi I was saying it from my point of view. If I broke up with my ex, but later decided to contact her, and found that she is still willing to have sex with me when where not even together, then I wouldn't bother or even think about getting back together. I'm getting her time and sex, what more do I need?
@sshuteandrew
@sshuteandrew 6 жыл бұрын
khgriffi - Thanks for your advice....I hear you loud and clear!! 👍 In the past six months I have reached out to my ex periodically and still tried to convince or persuade him to be with me - which is part of that anxious behavior that is triggered by time and space. The past six months apart has been a real challenge for me as I become more secure with myself and content being alone, without a partner in my life. What I have been doing the past six months obviously isn’t working out for me. I’ll go no contact for a few weeks and then reach out and sometimes he’ll agree to see me and sometimes he won’t, but each time it’s simply physical and nothing else. He’s still emotionally removed and refuses to talk on the phone or talk about us. Our infrequent time together is short-lived and leaves me feeling empty. I don’t want this new guy, I want the guy that was giving me his all and and wanted me by his side. And, I agree, until he comes to his own conclusion and wants to reach out to me on his own and wants to give us another try, then I do need to release him, focus on myself and being happy in spite of not having him in my life. I want the guy who brought me flowers and gave me his heart. I won’t be happy settling for anything less with him. I still believe in our connection and I believe in our feelings for each other. Now, I need to let go and believe in the best. I still love him unconditionally and want him happy and out of his self-described “funk,” but I can’t create his happiness for him.
@shreyaspanda
@shreyaspanda 4 жыл бұрын
He follows law of attraction Cool!
@jerryjones2054
@jerryjones2054 4 жыл бұрын
Reaching out to her shows weakness which women really hate, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT HER. You must wait and there is a HIGH probability she will contact you. When she does dont freak out and be a beta or she will go away again...
@Wirnax
@Wirnax 5 жыл бұрын
Hi I have a problem guys.. I went no contact on a girl that blew me off, what I mean is she cancelled dates, took time to respond me. From being very hot she went very cold. After 10 days she texted me saying she misses me and she doesn’t like the fact we are not interacting like we used to. I texted for few minutes and asked her out on a date. She said she is ill and can’t make it. So I said it’s ok and told her to come back when she will figure out her schedule. After 2 days she again wrote me basically saying that I went cold on her and she thinks that I’m mad at her. I told her that I’m really busy and don’t have that much time and asked her why she is thinking that way. She responded that these just her very weird thoughts. I’m strong, i’m dating other girls and I can resist the urge of writing to her. But did I miss the opportunity to ask her out again after those 2 days? Should I ask her out in few days? Or should I JUST WAIT UNTIL SHE REACHES OUT AGAIN and If she does I’m just going to ask her out . Guys out there, give me a hand please :))
@scottfitzgerald5309
@scottfitzgerald5309 5 жыл бұрын
Wait for her to reach out again. If she thinks a lot of you it's only a matter of time before she contacts again.
@bguy86
@bguy86 4 жыл бұрын
If she’s cancelled more than two dates without trying to set up for a new one . Ignore all her attempts to reach out and drop her like a bag of dog shit. She’ll do this forever . She’s just begging for attention and when she gets it she moves on. Worst chicks to talk to or date honestly
@dogmgfuckshitmcgee4656
@dogmgfuckshitmcgee4656 4 жыл бұрын
Dude she bailed on you and went a long time without talking. Who cares move on. No need for this long post.
@austinnguyen9107
@austinnguyen9107 2 жыл бұрын
2:17 4:22 9:20 10:30 11:40 13:02
@latriciachapman1767
@latriciachapman1767 6 жыл бұрын
I have a question ,my ex husband stays in my house ,I took him back cause he said he is in love with me ,but after a matter of time he started back up again with the dating sites , spending time with his friends and and put his friends above me ,I have lost interest in being with him ,I can't trust nothing his says ,I don't call or text him anymore ,I'm just going 4ward with my life , learning to just be free we don't sleep together ,and yes he does drugs so I want be apart of his life style so that tells me I'm not worthy to be in his life ,he just uses my house as a place to eat and sleep ,we don't do anything together ,he wants to be in my business ,but he doesn't won't me in his business , please give me some advice ,I think I'm doing the right thing buy not calling or texting him , please give me your insight on the ,I ended it with him cause I got tired of being last in his !!!!!
@solidn6
@solidn6 6 жыл бұрын
Kick him out of your house. His using you. wtf
@sumimichannel
@sumimichannel 5 жыл бұрын
Kick him out as soon as possinlem
@meldavid8993
@meldavid8993 8 жыл бұрын
My ex and I have not spoken a word to each other for 6 months, he got a girlfriend the same day we stopped talking. Anyways he randomly out of the blue messages me asking me how I am and said he genuinely wants to know how I am doing. He than goes onto say how he still cares for me and it's more genuine than before and that he's still here for me... Does this mean anything?
@sheldonkostynuik1739
@sheldonkostynuik1739 8 жыл бұрын
Maybe he got dumped lol. Or he is going through a shitty time in his relationship. But he could in fact be missing you.
@johngarbarzyk5549
@johngarbarzyk5549 7 жыл бұрын
+Mel David. So give us an update. What happened with the guy?
@dogmgfuckshitmcgee4656
@dogmgfuckshitmcgee4656 4 жыл бұрын
If you’re not gonna update don’t write it ;)
@SavedByGraceThroughFaith8
@SavedByGraceThroughFaith8 2 жыл бұрын
@@blair5475 lol
@aumnamashivaya4
@aumnamashivaya4 6 жыл бұрын
where the hell s the"contact me"??
@naseerahmed7138
@naseerahmed7138 6 жыл бұрын
i m ur fan i want to meet u
@mikevg5200
@mikevg5200 6 жыл бұрын
I've been watching your videos and waiting for a challenge I can do to move myself forward... Guess I'm asking out 100 women... feels terrifying. Will update in 20 days Well shit, that was a much MUCH more difficult than I would care to admit. I only managed to walk up to 58 women and get 6 numbers. At the very least I'm grateful that my anxiety towards approaching gorgeous ladies has diminished greatly
@CharlesFerraro
@CharlesFerraro 4 жыл бұрын
Ooo so what happened with those six?
@mikevg5200
@mikevg5200 4 жыл бұрын
@@CharlesFerraro dated one for 6 months. Realized that as I am I was unable to bring my real self into the relationship and thus ended it. I have been building myself up, mentally, spiritually, and financially since then and am now looking for my future wife with similar outlooks, personal goals, as well as desire to help humanity
@CharlesFerraro
@CharlesFerraro 4 жыл бұрын
Mike VG wow that’s really wonderful news! How old are you? And how do you plan to help humanity?
@mikevg5200
@mikevg5200 4 жыл бұрын
@@CharlesFerrarochronologically almost 34 and one step st a time. Currently helping to feed kids at an orphanage and as my finances get better I want to help with their education and with their development as aware and responsible humans. Little steps man. What brings you to this page Charles?
@princevegeta3787
@princevegeta3787 5 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say definitely fucking not.
@dongshalong6096
@dongshalong6096 8 жыл бұрын
Please help Corey. When ex started contacting me 4 months ago... I asked her out twice. she turned me down both times. She has started contacted me again.... do I invite her out again? or go with the short chat and "gotta shoot, keep in touch" ??
@jail4BillandHilaryClinton
@jail4BillandHilaryClinton 7 жыл бұрын
Dong Shalong she blew you off twice. if she wants a date she should ask you first. do not ask her out.
@stanleed.harold5457
@stanleed.harold5457 2 жыл бұрын
She wants to know if she can still control you. She has to put 100% of the effort and come to you You don't meet her anywhere.
@silvasilva6328
@silvasilva6328 7 жыл бұрын
How can I contact him?
@xXMr.BushidoXx
@xXMr.BushidoXx 7 жыл бұрын
silva silva by phone email usps ups fedex or by sms. lol
@ihatefacebook31184
@ihatefacebook31184 11 жыл бұрын
Where are u at, man? Lol
@pushinsdaddy9902
@pushinsdaddy9902 4 жыл бұрын
8:15
@koearanfanjungkook1373
@koearanfanjungkook1373 7 жыл бұрын
are you dating anyone
@joshuamac6302
@joshuamac6302 4 жыл бұрын
No one believes that it can go for a second time?
@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52
@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 3 жыл бұрын
The odds are literally 1 in 100. It could work out, but would you risk it at those odds?
@haroonsangma6295
@haroonsangma6295 6 жыл бұрын
How To get rid of my girlfriend because I have some family problem
@solidn6
@solidn6 6 жыл бұрын
Dump her? Idiot.
@SavedByGraceThroughFaith8
@SavedByGraceThroughFaith8 2 жыл бұрын
@@blair5475 lol
@realsporttv3600
@realsporttv3600 5 жыл бұрын
My ex invited me to her house to help her fix some stuff I went and render her help.we made love and she started telling me how much she miss and love me.That she wants me back.She confess that her Ex actually came to the house the reason she broke up wit me and ask me out of her place But claim they had quarrel and she didn't allow him touch her.she ask me if I still love and still want her to be my girlfrd.i responded by saying i have always love and wanted you but we have to take things slowly.she said she won't chase me instead incase I don't bliv her confession and want her back though she already knew she has lost me.i left her place n told her I would check on her some other time though she never wanted me to go that night but I insisted. Is been a week now we haven't call each other since I left her place and i just discovered she blocked me two days ago on whatsapp. PLS WHAT SHOULD I DO?.SHOULD I BE THE FIRST TO REACH OUT TO HER AND TAKE HER ON A DATE.? IS SHE TELLING THE TRUTH? WHY DID SHE BLOCK ME NOW?
@nikolaramic
@nikolaramic 5 жыл бұрын
Don't panic,she blocked you to see your reaction...
@dogmgfuckshitmcgee4656
@dogmgfuckshitmcgee4656 4 жыл бұрын
Block her if she messages you.
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