THE FIRST YEARS OF MARRIAGE : TIPS TO MAKE IT WORK

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THE FIRST YEARS OF MARRIAGE : TIPS TO MAKE IT WORK

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Straight talk about marriage, no jigbiti! My friend Tomi joins me to talk about the first few years of marriage, the challenges and tips to make sure you are enjoying your marriage not enduring it! We touch on relating with in-laws, resolving conflict and more! If you are not subscribed join the family by clicking bit.ly/1mq1DGq and let's be friends on Instagram / sisi_yemmie . If you miss me during the week, you will find me on my blog www.sisiyemmie.com
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Location: Lagos, Nigeria (West Africa)
I'm a Nigerian Food and Lifestyle Blogger documenting bits of every other day in my life with my son, Tito and husband Bobo.

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@princeemmy2132 7 жыл бұрын

thumps up to this video. my girlfriends loves your video and each time she will ask me if you have posted any new video, though shes white i have to explain everything to her that you said in pigin English lol. she now asking me if she can meet you when she comes to lagos, i said ahhhhh, i dont even know you

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

Yay! My love to your girlfriend! LOL. Hopefully we will meet!

@RichmondSajini 7 жыл бұрын

To the point of reading and attending conferences, I think there should be more books and conferences for men on how to be good husbands as well. It almost feels like there's a general assumption that men automatically make good husbands and it is women who have to adjust to the man's nature to become a suitable wife, but there's absolutely no effort required in his part.

@joeekeator9271 7 жыл бұрын

Richmond Sajini i tire..their's no relationship/marriage conference I have seen for men; atimes I do wonder and ask myself why so..

@delindawilliams3935 7 жыл бұрын

Richmond Sajini so true! I was the one going to the conferences, seminar,and doing all the reading,even understanding the bible,he just wanted to be a cave man and rule,until a younger woman came and he throw the marriage away for her. Now she throw him away and I'm no longer available. He's still in the cave trying for young girls.lol

@OneMellMell 7 жыл бұрын

Richmond Sajini It is so true, what you say. I think because we're called to be the "helper" of the man. Everything from a teaching point is weighted in our direction! I believe that this is so because men are deemed as "simple" once you as wife are doing all that's right by him, you will have him eating out of your hand so to speak!😕 I heard a teaching recently and the statement was made that basically if you treat your hubby like a King, there's nothing he wouldn't do for you.... As one who is single female looking and in on this subject, I feel the burden of building a good relationship is very heavily pitted 80% to the woman's role which is VERY scary. So far what I think is that woman have so much to loose as they enter marriage. I have yet to see or hear a teaching that shows me what a woman can gain from marriage (just in the sense of balance like the ladies suggested )😯 It's a very deep decision to make, being married.....!

@tee_obi 7 жыл бұрын

Such is the plight of Nigerian women who are married. Then you begin to wonder if the marriage would be sweet if only one party I'd putting in all the hard work involved. Whatever happened to raising boys to be gentlemen

@Successfamilytv 7 жыл бұрын

Hmm

@JAchica11 7 жыл бұрын

That little girl is wise beyond her years! She's a blessing to her family! 😊

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

She is!

@nkylondon7892 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi Yemi, I found this video interesting and quite funny. Your friend can talk oh! She had some valid points but its very obvious that both of you are still very young in the game of marriage. All I can say is "paint the portrait of your marriage with your own brush and colours don't borrow." Marriage is not "one size fits all." I've been married for almost 23 years now, so I say that with some authority. If your are both (hubby and wife) happy in your marriage, then your marriage works. It does not matter what anyone else thinks. The "agreement " is between the both of you. That said, agreements change with time because people change and mature as the years go by. You cannot expect the girl/boy you married in their 20's to be the same woman/man in their 40's. Life happens so you learn to adapt together. Cracks happen when people refuse to be flexible. It's all about happiness.😙

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Nikky udoye Wow. Thank you ma. we are young that's why we name the topic tips for early Marriage. we are learning daily too. We will get there too. God bless you ma

@nkylondon7892 7 жыл бұрын

MRS FIKKY Just do what you feel is right for you in your marriage. You can only be a queen in your household if your husband treats you like one. That said, your happiness lies in your own hands. Never give anyone the key to your happiness. Marriage is not by force or a prison sentence. You have a right to be happy and the right to walk away. Also marrying for any reason apart from love is setting yourself up to fail. 💑

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

You are our Oga at the Top ma, I am barely a baby in marriage. Awesome advice you have given! I am so glad you watched and contributed, your experiences are very valuable to us!

@nkylondon7892 7 жыл бұрын

SisiYemmieTV Thanks Sisi! I got married at 22 and now have 4 kids aged 21, 18 and 13 (twins). I am blessed that I found my soulmate who loves, respects and treats me like a queen👑. I started watching your vlog by late last year. I was well impressed to the point I bing watched all your episodes in a few weeks! I have even introduced you to a lot of my friends (aged mid 30's to early 40's) over here in London! We love your work, so keep it up, you will go far! Our regards to Bob and little Tito too. I can't wait for him to start talking so we can hear what he has to say about mummy's life! (PS: I don't answer to Ma... Just call me Nikki or Nky).😂

@EniolaHu 7 жыл бұрын

Nikky udoye oya collect medal for marriage experience. What did you say that Sisi Yemmie didn't? Instead of you to just kindly add your repetition, you're bringing her experiences down because you've been married longer.

@hawtnsweet 7 жыл бұрын

First year of marriage - keep everyone else out because, invariably, you will both fuck up (MAJORLY) and you don't need witnesses that will not allow you guys to forget. Everything else you guys already said (thumbs up). Will definitely subscribe to Mrs F. She too make sense.

@anita6055 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi your friend is so pretty!! love her already❤

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Anita Thank you dear. you are beautiful too.

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!

@OmabelleTV 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi, I've been married for 7yrs but I picked up valuable things from this video. You guys just kept me in check. Thanks a lot🙏

@LuvMattazTV 7 жыл бұрын

Children are really sensitive. There was a day I had a serious argument with hubby about a general topic, we were not fighting oo. Our 4years old suddenly said, "Ema Ja" ( Don't Fight), he was almost crying. We were really surprised. So, Parents should be mindful of the kids. Prayer and commitment help to sustain a marriage. Thanks for sharing Mummy Tito

@janesfix9095 7 жыл бұрын

We like your friend.. her personality is interesting/ entertaining.... invite her on your vlogs more often, there's chemistry between the both of you... GREAT ADVICE!!

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

JaneFashion Fix Thank you.

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

LOL... We live so far apart but we will see how we can make that happen!

@hephzibahhepsie5087 7 жыл бұрын

MRS FIKKY u beautiful

@liz7196 7 жыл бұрын

Sisyemmietv. Great talk you and your friend made here. We had the same topic on Sunday in church and the speaker first point was agreement. I agree with you guys with all those points. Wow what a small world! your friend's sis in-law was my course mate back in the university ( Otun Motunrayo ) I use to admire a girl pics on her Facebook, it's your friend's daughter . well done guys

@pinky1489 7 жыл бұрын

This was very insightful. Your friend is full of wisdom. You should have a marital/relationship series with her as your reoccurring guest. Love her personality.

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

pinky1489 Thank you so much. we will work something out.

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

This will be considered!!! Thank you

@GracefullyKaren 7 жыл бұрын

You can never change someone. My mother always says that. Communication is key 🔑. Prayer is another key. Kids pick up on things quickly. I liked how Tomi explained to her daughter that sometimes things happen and adults argue. Great video ✨

@bubeorjingene 7 жыл бұрын

Your friend is such an amazing lady ... I really like her ''no dey send attitude'' I totally agree with you on the issue of reducing the display of love on social media, it doesn't portray the intensity of Love instead it kills it Love you Sisi

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching and commenting!

@Kingsdaughter68 7 жыл бұрын

She's wise beyond her years. 👍🏽

@RubySuze 7 жыл бұрын

New age wives don't know how 'stay'...it's so true. I think the Hollywood has glamorised and contoured marriage. I also think that people haven't been so open about the issues they have faced. Loved your realness in this video.

@naomiscloset9951 7 жыл бұрын

Ruby Suze hey Ruby 😍😍

@michaelfarmhand 7 жыл бұрын

Really nice, I was smiling all the way - I've been married 28 years and i agree with everything you both shared. Will be passing this on to my daughters

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Tade Agbesanwa wow. Thanks for watching and commenting ma. we will be like you some day. God bless you.

@bnelsonosas 7 жыл бұрын

MRS FIKKY you are a blessing to your husband.... I love you

@delindawilliams3935 7 жыл бұрын

If you start with friendship,good communication, honesty,and trust,the rest will fall into place when they say they love you.

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

Yes, starting with friendship is the best. Thank you so much!!!!

@g0374 7 жыл бұрын

Lovely video! I am a man oh...and I love that part, "if he beat me, I will tie him up and beat him". I was shouting, "PREACH SISTA!".

@Funmiilola 7 жыл бұрын

omg this is my daughter's atitude as well too and she said to my husband dad i don't love u anymore for shouting on my mum. but had to tell her we were just having a conversation that i love her and her dad so much....i learnt u just need to control one self in front of the kids

@catherineanne5698 7 жыл бұрын

Well as for me the greatest thing that makes marriage successful is the fear of the Lord which is the beginning of wisdom. The truth is that Jesus is the founder/initiator of marriage so why not let Him from the onset even before marriage to be your life coach and therefore endow you with the peace and contentment that worldly wisdom/advice cannot give. Which then enables you as a couple to bear the right fruits as you let Him build Himself in you. I believe with this marriage becomes more of a journey embraced with a blessed union with Christ being the centre/glue.

@TeddysT1 7 жыл бұрын

I am just married a couple of months now and I am so happy for this video ... it is true at times I am like who is this man, he was not like this when we met and dated..june will be 4 years since we dated but 2 months since married and have lived together for only 6 months ... it's been hard because we have never lived together... sometimes I'm like this house is too small everytime I turn around he is there 😜😜😜😜. I have to apply some of the things I ladies mention because as u we're talking I saw some of myself .. like I am so used to doing my own thing.. I will have to work late and I won't even call to say that and he will call just worried about me..immo do better ... thanks ladies ..

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Tams Daley God will grant you all the wisdom you need.

@CordiallyCornelia 7 жыл бұрын

Stormie Omartian is the author you meant to say!!! Wonderful woman with great prayer books. More people should read her stuff, she has substance

@Pint890 7 жыл бұрын

Just my quick 2 cents: the bible doesn't ONLY instruct the wife to submit to the husband. People often just quote the first part of the passage for their patriarchal ends---read a few sentences down and it ALSO instructs to SUBMIT to each other. After the submit and respect part there is more. I can't stand it when people halfass quote bible verses when they haven't read it themselves or pick and choose what to quote. In all I enjoyed the vid--new subbie. 😀

@Chichichikito 7 жыл бұрын

Tomi is Bae. She is full of plenty marital gems.

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Chichichikito Correct Babe. Thanks. lol

@evanonyi9974 5 жыл бұрын

What of when he is killing you emotionally... And never accepts his faults.. are u telling me that he should live with that?

@nikt6198 7 жыл бұрын

waowwww I'm glad I stumbled on this video,been married for eight months now but dis is my second month living together with my husband and its so difficult for me,at times I feel he's changed a lot,tanks for dese tips and praying God gives me de wisdom and strength to run my home

@mariengalamemballesube932 7 жыл бұрын

So refreshing to hear y'alls take and advice and shared experiences on marriage because some new age wives dey too form like say we don't have those good ole' values. Communication, love, commitment, sacrifice (oh! that is true love - sacrificial love) and work!!! Marriage is a constant work in progress til death do you part. Thanks for making this video and keeping it real!

@lizjaiyeoba7796 7 жыл бұрын

very insightful. May your marriages continue to be a BLESSING to everyone IJN!

@princessnwosu5005 6 жыл бұрын

SisiYemmie this video was LIFE. So many important messages for those single, engaged, and even married for the first year. Please do a series like this. Great stuff!

@mojiife 7 жыл бұрын

This is my first time commenting on one of your videos (I have binged watched and re-watched several). I love you! Thanks for having your friend share with us, very insightful and necessary. I have been married for 6 years now and you never stop learning, like you guys mentioned. That statement about agreement is a major key. I have been able to let go of things that didn't pan out the way we wanted because we agreed on the decisions before making them. My mom drums this point as well and she has been married to my dad for over 30 years. This is why I don't comment, I write epistles.... Lol. Thanks again for sharing your world with us. God will continue to bless you and your family richly.

@mojiife 7 жыл бұрын

And God's continued blessings on Tomi and her family too. She is Bae!

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

mojiife Thanks for watching. God will continue to bless your marriage.

@angelmumoluwaseun4871 7 жыл бұрын

great advice. to God's glory I have been married to the same for 31 years and it takes both investing in the marriage. Allowing GODLY WISDOM to rule us. When you submit the God way the love will flow. I pray that God will marriages whole again in the church. enough of divorce here and there. well done

@sharonemordi 7 жыл бұрын

your friend is very down to earth.lovely lady like you.

@lifeofmaryam3900 7 жыл бұрын

Words of wisdom, May Allah increase your knowledge and strengthen your homes 💙❤️friendship goals

@bolaifeobu7675 7 жыл бұрын

thank you so much for the advice. I'm approaching 1 and a half of marriage and these are awesome reminders for me. I agree with you about the agreement. the secret sauce too I believe is a willing heart and moldable Spirit. marriage is also work. you have to work at it. it's like a farm. you have to tend to every aspect and never neglect anything.

@adedolapo_sun 7 жыл бұрын

Mrs Fikky was so real and original about the subject. God bless her. Great advices from you two.

@thedietdiary 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi please what camera and lens do you use your videos are so clear and on point... We never fight in front of our kids. Never! Every couple needs to stop that. We decided on that even before we got married.

@susiebae339 7 жыл бұрын

Love this video! But you guys forgot to mention the most important thing GOD

@SittaLuvz 7 жыл бұрын

Awwww, I loved this. Thank you for sharing ladies.

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!!!!

@mixedblessingsam8708 4 жыл бұрын

Great talk. However building your home does not preclude building your marriage. It does not mean you stop dating. That's the reason most people simply exist in marriage instead of thriving and blossoming. You cannot stop doing what you were doing before you got married. It keeps the romance in the marriage which is the missing ingredient in most marriages. Married without romance.

@asana36 7 жыл бұрын

Well done. I enjoyed soaking up all the wisdom from you two beautiful ladies. God bless xoxo

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!!!

@verasaturday3025 7 жыл бұрын

this video was made because of me, a big thank you to the both of you.

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Vera Saturday God bless your home

@verasaturday3025 7 жыл бұрын

+MRS FIKKY Amen!!! thank you so much

@lanrefolorunso3011 7 жыл бұрын

Good combination! I admire your friendship. I really enjoyed this one. Weldone

@doreenonekalit9888 7 жыл бұрын

Read other comments after mine. So by popular demand your friend has to have a permanent guest spot in your channel you both has great chemistry 👍👍

@tee_obi 7 жыл бұрын

Lol. I remember when during marriage classes the instructors usually thought Hubby and I were siblings. They thought we looked alike

@FonkengDolly 7 жыл бұрын

August will mark our 1 year anniversary omg it's a tough journey 😢😢😢truth be told we have our good and bad days but in everything we give thanks to God The past months have been challenging chia 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@The_Cruise_Fam 7 жыл бұрын

The hubs and I were like little kid play play love ooo. Like we were really young. But all the same we are like friends than say hubs & wife 😜😆😁🤣😉😊 I agree with everything you ladies have said. The hubs and I been married 7yrs and its all sweet. Being real and true to oneself is certainly crucial in marriage. I've heard some females say they can't use the restroom in front of their spouses.....Mennn, thank god for how he created me. I'm real.com I ain't got nothing to hide. One thing for sure is that you can always tell marriages that great both parties don't be stressing about shit..... Thanks for sharing ladies....awesome video. #SN: There's no manuscript to marriage both individuals have to make it work if indeed there's TRUE LOVE.

@jareya 7 жыл бұрын

Excellent video! You and Tomi are both lovely, wise, down-to-earth ladies - it's so easy to see why you're friends.

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

jareya Thanks

@MabelAshine 7 жыл бұрын

i am so impressed with ur conversation and words of knowledge especially those posting stuff on facebook

@Flourish_today 7 жыл бұрын

Richmond you have a very valid point.

@amarachiosademe8179 7 жыл бұрын

thanks, these tips are wonderful. Very helpful especially the real life examples, helps so much. The reality of everything is what I love. thank you Sisi & her lovely friend.

@feliciasjourney1437 5 жыл бұрын

Great video. Thank you for sharing. Another tip, don't let any family member or friend force or deceive you into marrying the wrong person. Or be forced into an arranged marriage.

@waakaaboutgyal 7 жыл бұрын

Mrs Fikky is da BEST! I will definitely share this video with my sister that will be getting married next month, by the grace of God. Thanks Sisi Yemmie for making this video. Muchos appreciated!

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Zomiks202 Thank you for Watching.

@peaceadegbenro6614 7 жыл бұрын

I love your friend so much. Please bring her to this channel more often

@FemiOGD 7 жыл бұрын

Your friends mannerisms and gesticulations is so cute!

@joeekeator9271 7 жыл бұрын

@7:04:05 that mosquitoe slap she gave you at ur back 😁😁😁 you can really tell both of you've really come a long way...😁

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

LOL a very loooong way!

@chinenyeewuzie932 7 жыл бұрын

Am about to get married and am so so happy I heard this. It has really opened my heart and mind. I have fears not for the man am about to end up with but myself... I can vex for African 😠. My vex dey make me vex for myself. But am happy that with what have heard here I realise that I have more work to do. Thank you Anuty sisi and mrs fikky

@kemtee_ 7 жыл бұрын

hahaha. Hey Mrs Fikky, I'm happy for you. Appaz you have a supportive/cooperative husband. It's good to be able to take the stand: "there's nothing I can't forgive my husband for". That's great!!!.

@purpearls1353 7 жыл бұрын

This is my best video. Thank you Sisi Yemmie and Tomi. You guys nailed it in the most easiest way

@JAchica11 7 жыл бұрын

I love this one! Great lessons! May God continue to bless and keep you ladies, your husbands and your children in Jesus' name!

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

Amen! Thank you!!!!!

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Amen. Thank You

@ekuniegloria4141 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks Sisi for sharing and your friend is amazing.

@ladyobammy7251 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi yemmi this a request on behalf of us subscribers. Please bring Tomi more often on this topic, titled Sisi marriage talk session , pls n pls . Thanks

@thenilessecret 7 жыл бұрын

I love this video and I love love love both you and your friend. I listened so closely to this video word for word. You guys are young in marriage. Me I'm a new born, I got married the end of 2016 to a really wonderful man and like your friend said sometimes I have to wonder when the other shoe is going to drop. He really is so sweet. I love videos like this I like to listen to people that not only have experience in marriage but people that see things the way I do. Marriage is NOT about ok I like you today and next week I don't like you I want out of the marriage. I believe in being in it for the long-haul. Except for domestic abuse like you guys said😕😤. I really enjoyed this video I can't express that enough I hope you guys have a lovely day and I hope you guys do more videos together. God bless you both and your families.

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

thenilessecret God bless your home deae

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

God bless your marriage!

@malajm84 6 жыл бұрын

people can change but they have to want to

@pamelaokoloba6630 7 жыл бұрын

Nice, I love this video. Sometimes I don't feel like getting married because of what I see around me nowadays.

@ecalosiy 6 жыл бұрын

I totally love your friend . She be real girl. Please include this as a permanent feature and segment in your vlog.Mbok!Love it

@okbrume 7 жыл бұрын

Love positive but real videos about marriage!

@Phab35 7 жыл бұрын

This was awesome Sisi. Love from America!

@adesholz6127 7 жыл бұрын

Something to learn always, even though I have been married 11year thanks you sis and her friend xx

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Adesola Efunbajo WOW. God bless you.

@adesholz6127 7 жыл бұрын

MRS FIKKY God bless you too x

@shadele17 7 жыл бұрын

Wow! Really enjoyed this. Lots of wisdom from Tomi. She kept it💯

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

shadele17 Thank you.

@beverlymua 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi yemmie am a teenager and I admire ur family and marriage and your baby, may God increase you . Lol. I can't wait to have my own family but I feel like I need you to please do a video on teenage relationships, dos and don't. What to do, what to expect etc sex and all dat. It will be useful to myself and other teenagers too, please sisi 💙thank you in advance

@lovejohn1224 7 жыл бұрын

beautiful friend u got

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!!

@zaynabneriah2505 7 жыл бұрын

Aww Sisi Yemmie i love this video so much, am not married but i learnt, u shld do dis more often... ur friend is so pretty, God bless her and may the Devil not steal their marriage in Jesus name... Amen....

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Zaynab Fola God bless you. Thanks for watching.

@idaahinoamtessia460 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi Thank you so much for this video, i'm ivorian and my Man is nigérian, you help me a lot understanding a lot of things. The cultures are different but Love is One. God bless u gurls . I love your friend she is so real and said the truth.

@topeebenezer1795 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi Yemmie .This is another educative and enlighten presentation you have made in recent time. Keep it up. abeg tell your friend to elaborate on the benefit of inter tribal marriage . I grit you

@jokofreeman8540 7 жыл бұрын

put God 1st in ur marriage..

@GracyGrace 7 жыл бұрын

so impressed hearing this from two great Nigerian woman

@AbujaYummyMummy 7 жыл бұрын

i liked that this was honest especially the cheating part.

@Cindy4ctv 7 жыл бұрын

sisi yemi this is very educative wise advice. agreement is agreement oh. I l laughed when you both talked or monitoring people, thats very true.😊😉

@nanceedadson 7 жыл бұрын

very lovely message,God bless you and your friend.

@uchegbumaryjosephine9746 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi I love you and but I love your friend more. This topic was meant for me. Thanks

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Uchegbu Maryjosephine Thank you so much.

@damilo.f 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi, we love your friend o. So wise and interesting. would really love to see more of her ❤❤❤

@ifeyjenny 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi ur video have don a lot for me both cooking and lifestyle, the budget video u did with yomi early this year have really helped although I have no been consistent with it but that video is always ringing in my head.i just got engaged march 13 wedding coming up this Xmas in Nigeria (Owerri) me and my partner live in two different countries,it have not been easy but I thank God I can visit him anytime I want to.this video taught me a lot,things said here are things me and my partner do already like not going to bed angry everything must be sorted out before we go to bed,keeping malice why u are in a distance relationship can destroy a lot so we try our best to avoid that,thank u sooooo much to you,bobo Tito and the almighty MRSFIKKY.pls reply me on how to get this ur hair

@ShesBeauty_ 7 жыл бұрын

Soooooooo much wisdom; well done ladies, I loveeeeee it❤️❤️❤️❤️ I have learned so much

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Beautiful Me Glad you did.

@mimadominicnyamweya8799 4 жыл бұрын

i need a friend like Tomi... i need someone who gives it to me straight jare!

@siasaquee2473 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi, your friend is cute and wise. 🙌🏾

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Sia Saquee Thank you

@OyinHunnieTV 7 жыл бұрын

loved every minute, had to share.

@sallydavey6934 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi Yemmie, I have an idea for you. :-) you need to add this type of sessions to your channel. Your friend is a talented speaker. She's got content. I can watch both of you all day. you really compliment each other. all the best.xx

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

SuperSalStar I am humbled. Thank you.

@phairfullymade8582 7 жыл бұрын

Sisi very nice of your friend to join you!😎 yes we bring together what becomes one.Each marriage is different but the oneness comes in agreement of how you best handle your affairs together so at the end of the day it's both one,tfs God bless!💕 ✔ out my last vid will u looking to boost 👍this easter & month of April for '👍❤Jesus'

@YvonneJack 7 жыл бұрын

great information..from two beautiful women..

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support as always Yvonne!

@Ivie.J_Tv 7 жыл бұрын

Great topic !! Really enjoyed it

@SisiYemmieTV 7 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you did Ivie!

@chidinmaonwuana6322 7 жыл бұрын

lovely video, insightful.. i like your friend, shes straight forward. my grandparents did 50 yrs this year, im still single as number 1, but hope to have a beautiful marriage.

@TheKembiElizabeth 7 жыл бұрын

I really like this video, ms. Yemisi and Ms. Timi. Although I am not married, I am in a very serious relationship. I like your points on openness, respect, honesty, communication, and agreement. We're both trying our best in this areas and it's really helping. No secrets! There's no need for it. Amos 3:3 "can two work together, except they be agreed?" All in all, thank you!

@msupgrade9036 7 жыл бұрын

So informative! Thank you SisiYemmie and Mrs Fikky you both are blessings!

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Niccoli A Thank You

@kings6538 7 жыл бұрын

OMG Mrs FIKKY you are so so adorable i love everything about u.You are a melange of brain plus beauty I can't go without subscribing . Mr Fikky is one one lucky man hahahah.

@chidinmaanumnu3739 7 жыл бұрын

Be determined to make it work. Determination is also important. Well done. I feel at home with you. Keep up the good work ✌

@doreenonekalit9888 7 жыл бұрын

Tobi is amazing. Loved her she looks like a young college student. Please invite her again.And you are really rocking that Afro . You look so pretty. Love even the kids noise in the background. So funny when you said someone is about to have a spanking.. Marriage is tough but beautiful when both parties agree to forsake all others i.e. Selfish ways!!!!!and commit 💯 of themselves for the blessings of the Union! I have been married for 20years, my parents for over 60years. For me, I tell young women to learn to pray!!!Ask God for WISDOM and to equip in the spirit with knowledge and understanding in your daily life. PRAYERS!!!!!!! Brings wisdom, peace and progress in all areas of you life. I'm a Stomie Omartian fan major👍👍Love her books. Great gift for every woman. Thanks so much for you and Tobi sharing these tips! More Blessings 🙏💕

@tomilolakomolafe8352 7 жыл бұрын

Doreen Onekalit WOW you are one of those that make us believe marriage is good. 20 years! (In Falz Voice) I say weldone ma. lol. Thanks for watching ma.

@vivianewoma 3 жыл бұрын

Wow,I'm just watching this ,it's totally insightful and educating 💖

@theresa2604 7 жыл бұрын

I love your friend Sisi Yemmie. You are beautiful women and very inspiring. There was so much gold in this video. I definitely took something from this. Goodluck to you both.

@damilolaelias7927 6 жыл бұрын

I love her... she's very real and thank u so much for the lessons and encouragement. God bless u both maam

@Sugarfly653 7 жыл бұрын

to me marriage doesnt take long to click. but if is taking too much ride is not worth waiting for the others

@ebilicioustv2644 7 жыл бұрын

my 2yrs old niece will tell her dad pointing at him n saying stop it... daddy stop it... stop shouting at mummy... she's barely 2 sef n can talk very clearly... gosh!!?

@ujunwa5194 7 жыл бұрын

sisi girl! ! very informative & interesting. . y'all are right marriage is 50/50...& communication is the key ..ur friend said ignore the the message. .to her hubby . I'm like really..what's the drama for then..very funny Lol!!