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@DorianDevelops11 ай бұрын
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@stephengambill481511 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for this Dorian. I'm currently in a huge career transition, from being a pastor for 24 years now into software development. It is an unsettling time for me with many uncertainties, so you video was a good reminder to focus on what is most important, being grateful, and being faithful at what is currently at hand.
@Dominknows9 ай бұрын
Why the change if you dont mind me asking.
@stephengambill48159 ай бұрын
@@Dominknows Hey man, thanks for asking. I was burnt out, and not doing well personally. While I loved what I did for many years, it was time for a change and I waited too long to act on it. My wife knew it, close friends knew it, but I wasn't sure of how to exit and where to go. I was forced to face change, and am still groping a bit in the dark of just what path to take. I've completed a full-stack boot-camp, but as I'm sure you know Jr. dev jobs are hard to come by currently. But I'm committed to move forward and find the way.
@Dominknows9 ай бұрын
@@stephengambill4815 right on brother. So even after completing your bootcamp, one month after posting that comment, still no luck on a job? Thats unsettling, im sorry. How are you making money…? Do you have job prospects, whats next? I only ask you specifically, because I feel your position is very unique, and unlike the average person being that you’re a former pastor.
@stephengambill48159 ай бұрын
@@Dominknows Thanks again for asking and your concern. I finished full-stack boot-camp at the end of June, and done "all the things" I'm being told to try, and nothing, not even an interview at this point. I've been told that my age and life experience contribute significantly to this, but haven't been able to talk to anyone who is hiring at this point. It is the case with all my cohort, and we attended a school that typically has a 91% placement rate. Seems like we are in a tough time. As far as making money, nothing at this point. I've considered digging deeper into the Webflow world and going that route as a freelancer.
@peterhuang14318 ай бұрын
@@stephengambill4815 isnt developer more hard work than a pastor and a work in a house of god? from a strangers point of view
@JenJHayden11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your vulnerability. ❤
@derickcoleman515910 ай бұрын
Such an amazing an powerful message. People now a days don't slow down to really appreciate what we have and where we are in life. It's a battle I've been dealing with for a couple years now. Life is about balance and gratefulness. Thank you for your videos they are great and inspiring.
@RjTheTrigun11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for being honest about your life. Your channel has REALLY helped me mentally and given me perspective.
@PD.Artist10 ай бұрын
Hey Dorian. I really appreciate that you stay authentic with your channel when youtube is often so clickbaity and generic. Thank you for keeping it transparent and real.
@HartOfTheKnicks8889 ай бұрын
This was necessary to hear. Sometimes we don’t realize this a lot. Thanks for this bro🙏
@mohamadallan854811 ай бұрын
damn bro you're a wise dude. This video really got to my heart thank you god bless you and your family
@ludovicf11 ай бұрын
Really inspiring Dorian. I've hoped you would get where you are right now. Congratulations on reaching this stage in your life.
@justinb21711 ай бұрын
Honestly, this is probably your best video yet.
@sheikhadnan407411 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us Dorian. Really helps us out
@joryiansmith11 ай бұрын
Wow this is really well done man, thanks for sharing ❤
@mateenkhadem11 ай бұрын
Thanks for these great thoughts you shared man
@mbilalchishti10 ай бұрын
thank you Dorian.
@andrewduffy142511 ай бұрын
I needed this video today.
@anoutinabil7 ай бұрын
Very well put, Dorian! You’re a great story teller in a way that makes your personal examples relatable even though they’re super different from what a viewer like me compares them to.
@fushi78539 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video I really needed it
@Nighthawk1179111 ай бұрын
You are awesome dude i love this new type of videos that you are making i can relate so much and you give me courage to keep going man thanks a lot...keep up your good work
@boyar30339 ай бұрын
Your content is wholesome and I can actually learn and understand things.
@thedarthcow0111 ай бұрын
Really good reminder.
@cesarvialpado10 ай бұрын
Thank you
@alepereira80611 ай бұрын
Man your video about BJJ is motivating me to pratice this art thanks for your point about the all thing.
@beyonderaatrox167011 ай бұрын
Great video man 😃 I like that line of thinking - the grass is greenest where you water it
@MohamedAshraf-vh3jo11 ай бұрын
Dear Dorian, just seeing your video notification amongst all the regular useless content on KZfaq gives me a lot of relief. I am a huge fan for your for a least 2 years now. Thanks a lot! Love from Egypt.
@ShmeegleSon11 ай бұрын
Excellent video my dude
@kentauskas10 ай бұрын
Loving the new content !
@buzzdrew710 ай бұрын
I love your content, dorian. Right now, I'm doing basic computer support. I'm in a great job, and have been thinking of getting into something more challenging like programming, but more on the machine learning side of things. I like the reality checks you give cuz I find myself thinking "man, I'd be so much better off if I was in programming", but then I realize that can have its own issues. Goals are important, but I don't want to make it my obsession. Sometimes, I can neglect time with the wife if I can too caught up in machine learning projects.
@annegriffiths10994 ай бұрын
We are often too quick to want the grass on the other side, sometimes it better to stop and work on making your grass greener.
@user-qu8fb4jd8n10 ай бұрын
yo Dorian, I am 19 in university and really find you an inspiring role model. and come every few days to check if you posted any new videos, keep being yourself and can't wait to grow up with you over the years through your videos.
@johnwu798511 ай бұрын
Love your videos.
@aaron735210 ай бұрын
I enjoy this type of content as well. It helps. 😌
@jamesbell814811 ай бұрын
Always helpful and nudge me in the right direction 😊
@deeoree10 ай бұрын
so i recently quit my plumbing job because i wasn't happy and was only there because i was told it was easy and high pay, i recently turned 21 and waa working as a construction plumber for 8mo and wasn't happy because i just couldn't imagine doing this my whole life with kids and family, so a week after my birthday i quit and turned to into web dev, i always had a passion for computers and just online stuff since a kid so i made a big decision to quit my job and go to a web dev bootcamp and start from there but i start in 1 month so meanwhile i been studying myself by learning how to do little by little on youtube, i have no idea what im doing but i am learning this is all new to me but i enjoy it im from worcester, massachusetts. i would appreciate and open to all advice and tips you guys would have for me. 🙏🏽
@heyyayyo10 ай бұрын
Your content is sooooo awesome and relatable! And I've unsubscribed from nearly everyone. You create amazing stuff, which makes us reflect about life in general. Super helpful! Hats off to you man for keeping it real and being quite unique on KZfaq. (Please don't take this as pressure to make a certain type of content. Post when you like, what you like :) PS: Can't remember how I found your channel, but it wasn't cause of the coding videos.)
@livingoutloud42105 ай бұрын
I have a literal GIG syndrome story. I used to envy my neighbour's lawn and one day as I drove home she was standing at the fence that divides our yards.. Seh wanted to talk to me about somethinh so I went over tontalk to her. For aome reason I looked over at my lawn and it was so beautiful. I was shocked. Feom then i stopped wishing my lawn was as beautiful as hers and it made me learn the lesson of appreciating what I have instead of wishing I had what others have.
@MrBorjify8411 ай бұрын
Beautiful video ❤
@cosminb472711 ай бұрын
Hi Dorian. I managed to start my IT journey last month with an internet support job. Now I'm studying for CCNA
@DiabeticGameGuy11 ай бұрын
Great video. Can you let me know where you get your b-roll? It's so amazing.
@B.D.E.11 ай бұрын
It depends, for those people stuck in abusive relationships or families, or without access to a job they deserve, or for countless other reasons, the grass truly is greener on the other side. Doesn't mean you don't have to keep watering it to keep it green.
@eddiedelgado652110 ай бұрын
Good stuff
@bogdandashinskiy11 ай бұрын
I watch your channel during year. You one of the persons who inspiring me, and help with different aspects of life. It's always interesting to know your opinion, because it is not like others. Your channel giving mental energy to complete my dream. All our people have one dream, stop ʳussian invasion and get rid of occupants on homeland. In this time it's important to work, for make donation on army, humanitarian aid or just support ecomonics. Thanks, Dorian. I wait to watch your videos in peace
@mikebucur846111 ай бұрын
Nice video. Keep in mind though that the other side also faces its own unique set of challenges.
@timphan563611 ай бұрын
I too got a dumbass tattoo at 22. Great video!
@astrosky399411 ай бұрын
1:40 Can you share your desk set up?
@manojmurali74624 ай бұрын
I like your jacket. Can you tell us where you bought it?
@electrictrojan67198 ай бұрын
You can't beat yourself up for simply not knowing about these things earlier in life, one of the most insidious things about poverty, including "relative poverty" is the narrowing of horizons. One can grow up literally having no idea what a happy working life is where people value you for your enthusiasm and abilities and encourage your contribution.
@matheusl.994711 ай бұрын
if there is something we can all agree you are great is video making
@MJ-xl5jz11 ай бұрын
It's funny. Living in Germany, I often think, "Life is shitty here" and that the USA is better. In the USA or elsewhere, you may dream of Europe. Software engineering is rarely a piece of cake. It's continuous learning until you retire, and if you have started late, you have to beat people with years of a headstart. It's not a bad profession, but do not expect it to be a dream job.
@DA-wr9uy10 ай бұрын
awesome video
@ShaiVibes11 ай бұрын
I love these non-coding related contents ✌🏽
@joeaustin29199 ай бұрын
In Europe they don’t have modern sky scrapers
@alepereira80611 ай бұрын
Now about this video, i think some times is valueble during the 20's do 20's things, becaue we just don't are mature yet. Taking my example, during my 20's i play a lot of video games, in fact i play video game since 8, now im taking my experience with games to be a game developer and taking my experience with no life balance to bring it up now in the 30's. Well i think we always learn.
@RandyLe-cb2eb11 ай бұрын
Wish there was grass on other side of the moon n mars
@larrytron199211 ай бұрын
Hey you're a strong person, big love from a fellow software developer 👊
@michalbezpalec10 ай бұрын
Hello, I am from central Europe, life s**ks sometimes its totally ok, but i don't really think that let's say betterhelp will help you, at the and its all about you, as we say "fortune favors the prepared."
@warrickzalle424011 ай бұрын
It is my sincere belief that embarking on a journey to India may ignite the path towards growth and unlock the profound meaning that you seek.
@ThapeloMachaka25611 ай бұрын
keep watering that grass bro
@badxradxandy11 ай бұрын
Isn't better help something not to use? Thought most people stopped promoting it? Anyone want to answer?
@janghardy10 ай бұрын
Everything takes time and patience. I know for me the grass is greener when the grass seed is healthy and taken care of. It’s that simple..
@lorettarodman911710 ай бұрын
Ah dang, I guess it’s good I’m colorblind
@JackTheRipper-nw6wk10 ай бұрын
How often do you play video games these days?
@aspirativemusicproduction213510 ай бұрын
Yeah, have to focus on your pond and not on other frog's pond.
@suryapratapsingh78589 ай бұрын
Keep making these realistic videos
@LocalLialec10 ай бұрын
S tier content
@JohnDoe-gf5he11 ай бұрын
Of course the grass is sometimes greener on the other side.
@HaikesXO3 ай бұрын
How badly did you regret that tattoo when were the miller came out lol
@joeaustin29199 ай бұрын
I wish the world would slow down its become to fast paste
@53strat5511 ай бұрын
Watching this after dropping another girl that tried to get close with me. At least I can get back to coding lol.
@joeaustin29199 ай бұрын
Greener greener rubbish,don’t compare your self to other people, the journey matters not the destination, although sometimes the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
@laurah.76962 ай бұрын
Cancel culture has made things worse too. Like just dump the person you have for the one that looks newer and exciting.
@RandyLe-cb2eb11 ай бұрын
R u johnny sins ?
@NicholasD-tn6cn11 ай бұрын
What does it matter if you get rich. You're going to lose it all when you die. You are going to sacrifice decades of your life chasing wealth. Just work hard day to day, invest your money wisely, and compound interest will make you rich.
@shermansmith694610 ай бұрын
How bout stop watering the grass because it's a waste of water and put in some succulents
@gees165811 ай бұрын
first comment
@gees165811 ай бұрын
i was here
@Ezacary11 ай бұрын
Only god can take us to the other side, u need god in your life dorian just like everyone else