The Green Pill Coach - Fahim Faruk: Feminism, Red Pill, Green Pill & Prophetic Masculinity - Part 1
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Күн бұрын00:00 - 07:58 Intro, Fahim's Bio & when we first met
07:59 - 10:05 What is feminism?
10:06 - 11:45 Feminism & the theosophical society
11:46 - 14:24 Different feminism’s & unifying theme
14:25 - 15:24 Was 1st wave feminism just about women not being property?
15:25 - 16:28 Islamic values & practices that 1st wave feminists (& all feminists) would have a problem with
16:29 - 18:30 Ottoman Shaykh Mustapha Sabri on men who supported feminism in order to dissolve responsibility
18:31 - 20:30 The 1st & 2nd wave feminist might argue they did not get much support because of class differences & women were dominated by male hierarchy
20:31 - 25:00 Are some forms of feminism compatible with Islam?
25:01 - 28:09 The need to deal with social & philosophical issues by building from the Quran & Sunnah
28:10 - 36:25 What are the major contradictions between Islam and feminism?
36:26 - 37:21 Islam’s view on gender relations is complimentarian, it creates a harmonious Allah-centric society
37:22 - 38:37 The non-negotiable ideological assumption that men and women are & should be treated the same
38:38 - 43:41 Some sisters suffer from cultural and personal trauma, and they attribute the cause for the trauma to Islam, they do not get help and then adopt feminism as a solution, how do we deal with these sisters?
43:42 - 51:07 A discussion on simps and tyrants
51:08 - 53:07 Are distortions of Islamic masculinity causing feminism? (And a discussion on why feminism is the cause of the problem)
53:08 - 56:05 The other distortion of masculinity: the tyrant archetype
56:06 - 57:43 How would the tyrant archetype push some sisters towards feminism?
57:44 - 01:00:42 The education system and the social architecture is creating these distortions of masculinity
01:00:43 - 01:02:08 The need for Prophetic masculinity
01:02:09 - 01:04:19 What is red pill? (Backtracking to clarify previous comments)
01:04:20 - 01:05:44 Many of the so-called alphas males are weak and the importance of fatherhood
01:05:45 - 01:07:25 Prophetic masculinity is compassion & forbearance within the red lines you enforce
01:07:26 - 01:08:10 The simp archetype had domineering, narcissistic mothers
01:08:11 - 01:10:17 Men who are more aggressive can be trained into softness if they open their hearts, however it is harder to for a man who is very weak & emasculated to develop strength if he was not shown earlier in life
01:10:18 - 01:16:16 What is red pill?
01:16:17 - 01:16:47 Historically, in most patriarchal societies, especially Islamic ones, authority & responsibility come together. As a man, authority without responsibility is tyranny, & service without authority is enslavement.
01:16:48 - 01:18:07 Islamically wives are described as captives, & men must treat them well unless there is flagrant immorality. There is Islamic instruction on how to be corrective
01:18:08 - 01:24:21 You have described the origins of the red pill movement, however what are the fundamentals of the red pill movement?
01:24:22 - 01:25:46 The idea of high value is skewed ideologically, the Islamic definition is holistic
01:25:47 - 01:29:26 Is Islam & red pill compatible?
01:25:27 - 01:30:33 The danger of “take the good, leave the bad”
01:30:34 - 01:32:06 Gaining knowledge from other civilisations & the relevant ahadith & the need to be grounded in the Islamic tradition
01:32:07 - 01:35:32 Definitions matter, the influence of liberal attitudes, & the need for Islam
01:35:32 - 01:38:25 Are red pill & feminism 2 sides of the same coin?
01:38:26 - 01:39:14 What is more problematic: red pill or feminism?
01:39:15 - 01:41:03 Tate, Sarsour & RIS
01:41:04 - 01:44:13 Good leadership is self aware, realises mistakes & moves forward positively
01:45:37 - 01:51:23 Intro to the Green Pill? (Including a beautiful poem by Shaykh Mustapha Azam)
01:51:24 - 01:52:54 Muslims should ask “What would the Prophet ﷺ have done in this situation?” to solve the masculinity crisis
01:52:55 - 02:13:41 The history of Green Pill & its principles
02:13:42 - 02:14:27 Defining male & female natures, dispositions & differences
02:14:28 - 02:16:16 A hadith on the male & female dispositions & roles
02:16:17 - 02:20:10 Constructing Green Pill
02:20:11 - 02:28:16 Examples & scenarios of what you teach
02:31:18 - 02:34:07 Every context requires different treatment & a lack of scholars teaching men (& discussing vulnerability)
02:34:08 - 02:35:09 Khadilja’s love described & the distortion of her life
02:35:10 - 02:38:41 Being clear on Green & how to join?
02:42:06 - 02:44:48 Green Pill mentoring e.g.: a wife who backbites
02:45:47 - 02:47:54 Do it with love & a commitment to their wellbeing
02:45:55 - 02:51:10 The detriment of being too soft on the young generation & positively reinforce submission
02:51:11 - 02:56:23 On Q4:34, authority & traditional commentaries
02:56:24 - 03:09:59 Q4:34 needs to be properly addressed & another Green Pill mentoring e.g.: a wife who has let herself go
03:10:00 The need for more & a part 2
@HamzaTzortzisOfficial Жыл бұрын
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@pursuitofgrowth5518 Жыл бұрын
Ustadh Hamza just a suggestion. It would be better if you use picture of people in the video in the thumbnail. It would be more eye-catching and we would not miss your video in scrolling.
@ArjunSingh-rs1ut Жыл бұрын
Asalamulekum Brother Hamza, May Allah strengthen you and bless you. It would be better if you could do it full screen. Have the each person talking in full screen.
@ismailmiah821 Жыл бұрын
@@ArjunSingh-rs1ut I think its more engaging to see the other person's reaction to person talking as well.
@walisaidi4049 Жыл бұрын
This discussion has started off well, but my initial reaction is that there's an over emphasis on feminism and refutation of feminism amongst the younger Muslim men of the dawah scene. I think it's been done to death to be honest. Anyone with a basic l/fundamental understanding of Islam will know that feminism spreads non-islamic views..at the very least. I think there should be more focus on issues actually challenging Muslims and Muslim families, such as tyrannical husbands who use religion to justify their oppressive rule within their household. This is a far more damaging issue facing Muslims and Muslim households, which actually uses our religion to justify it, but yet there is hardly any time given to it. Focus on this issue needs to be of paramount importance.
@CoppersOnTheRun 6 ай бұрын
MashaAllah, extremely good episode! May Allah bring success to Fahmi’s mission, it is much needed. On a side note… interesting what you mentioned about red light therapy, it would be awesome to see a collaboration with Team RipRight, you both seem to be trekking a similar path. kzfaq.infoVbjWHufFzOw?si=BWmv59F5yAUOokSj
@younusimam-thesalamproject6340 Жыл бұрын
Amazing! Br. Fahim has been my coach for years, he saved me at my lowest point and I am married now thanks to him. May Allah preserve both of you, cannot wait to listen.
@TheGreenPillCoach7 Жыл бұрын
Much love bro 👊🏽💚. Barak Llahu fikum! Ameen.
@alenk93 Жыл бұрын
@@TheGreenPillCoach7 Brother Fahim, where can we reach you for coaching resources? Jazakallahu khair
@mecha_engineer 11 ай бұрын
How can we reach out for coaching?
@dillyhussain7692 Жыл бұрын
Masha’Allah, a very beneficial discussion. Jazakallah khayran brothers, may Allah (swt) accept it from you both, ameen. 💚
@HamzaTzortzisOfficial Жыл бұрын
JazakAllahkhayr for giving this channel the honour of your presence and comment habibi.
@son_of_alandalus Жыл бұрын
This was one of the most beneficial videos I have seen on the Internet thanks to both of you
@alib7489 Жыл бұрын
Only 16 min into it and absolutely riveting so far - Jazakallah to both brothers.
@fauziajasia2548 Жыл бұрын
1 hour into it, there are so many subtleties in the discussion and Fahim"s views mashaAllah...jazakallahu khairan for introducing me to his genius.
@alenk93 Жыл бұрын
This is brilliant Subhanallah. I’ve listened to many videos on these contemporary issues from Jordan Peterson to Andrew Tate… and this is the most pure and insightful message on navigating the social storms around us. Jazakallahu khair and PLEASE pump this topic up. Get on more podcasts and invite people like Andrew Tate, and other influencers to discuss these issues with Fehim and Hamza.
@mohpat9989 Жыл бұрын
Mashallah excellent discussion
@fklcci Жыл бұрын
Hamza I am Turkısh, ı am muslım alhamdulıllah. I wish you success. Congratulations. God help you, brother.
@luqi5 Жыл бұрын
Did Br. Fahim write a book on this. Would def. buy it.
@emptyingthecup Жыл бұрын
Great work, Fahim. The ultimate goal of theosophy is to use the gender/sex binary in order to undo it completely. This occurs through a process that today we can call transhumanism. Slowly, through out history, the sex binary was attacked first by introducing nominalist philosophies that put the very foundations of knowledge, that is, first principles rooted in essences, into question. Then it began to deconstruct gender, eventually disconnecting it from sex. Now it is attacking the very notion of sex and the sex binary, that there is even such a thing as 'male' and 'female'. Then after that, as early Theosophists wrote, the goal is to achieve or evolve towards a species that is both 'genderless and sexless'. In their vision of enlightenment, this is what the evolved or enlightened human is.
@CurrentAssistant Жыл бұрын
Fax
@zero_not_a_hero 9 ай бұрын
What would be the point of that?
@nahidnoor6421 Жыл бұрын
I’m watching and I’m thinking - this is brilliant Allah humma baarik ❤
@noormuzamil9850 8 ай бұрын
Where are you from
@sofiagold4255 Жыл бұрын
I would like to have heard more from Fahim about the clear contradiction of feminism and Islam, however Hamza did allude to that at the end. And more ahadeeths about marriage. More examples from the sunnah, especially when the prophet (saw) boycotted his wives for a month. I think the case Fahim mentioned about the politician's daughter, generally the daughter would have grown up in a household where there are maids and servants to do everything for her. Perhaps she assumed her husband would also provide maids and servants too. Nowadays, many kids do not serve their parents. So automatically they won't be serving their husbands. This is a huge problem especially in the Bengali community. Fahim gave an excellent answer about the wife gaining weight, the husband must lead his wife into doing exercise together. Hamza gave excellent advice on how to 'tell off' your wife in a loving way if she is doing haraam. MashaAllaah this was a very good talk. And may Allaah reward you and aid you with your coaching programme. Ameen. I think we all need some of that Green Pill!
@TheGreenPillCoach7 Жыл бұрын
Barak Llahu fikum for your thoughtful feedback and comment! Ameen to your generous duas! I really enjoyed this duo with brother Hamza for all those reasons you mentioned. I didn't even mention that the client I was referring to had to end up paying 300K in his divorce settlement to his deeply oppressive ex-wife because his family feared her family would use their political strings to harm them back in Bangladesh. This was after already paying her 100K worth of jewellery for the marriage itself. It was absolutely jarring...a grave lesson learned in the hardest way. I did mention the core contradictions earlier when I said that feminists couldn't reconcile why Islam asserts: (1) Only men were chosen as the Prophets and Messengers upon whom be peace and blessings (this would be seen as men reaching higher epistemic and moral authority than women), (2) Only men can be the Caliph, Sultan, Imam, head of the household, guardians, mainly men were judges and are preferred to be judges over women, etc. (3) Wives must obey their husbands generally and can't opt for a "my body my choice" attitude in sexual relations, (4) The male Prophets and Messengers upon whom be peace and blessings were infallible in a range of ways, including in their dealings with misguided women (5) Men can discipline and correct bad behaviour from their womenfolk in accordance with the Shariah and the Sunnah of the Prophet salla Llahu 'alayhi wa sallam And I also highlighted that feminism has occult dajjalic origins which seek to subvert gender and the family institution by inverting male and female roles and even forms (now with the LGBTQ movement). I wanted to add these dimensions in because our discussion was broad and needed to cover the "big picture" instead of honing in too much on one topic at the expense of the rest. It still ended up being 3 hours lol! In-sha'Allah I will definitely go into more particulars in future segments where I can dedicate the entire time to just one topic. Allah bless you and thank you for taking the time to watch it all!
@sofiagold4255 Жыл бұрын
@@TheGreenPillCoach7 JazakaAllaahu khair. Yes you mentioned all of that. I agree with you that looking at the bigger picture took precedence. It's sad that your client's divorce payout turned into a huge amount. May Allaah reward him with something better. Ameen. Looking forward to the next discussion between the two of you.
@UnwaveringLion Жыл бұрын
JAK, to both you of who revive the teachings of Prophetic masculinity. I was first introduced to Br. Hamza after watching his debate with an atheist, and also when he would sometimes collab with Mohammad Hijab and I instantly looked up to him as such an insanely wise and humble character and it was one of the first times I truly felt proud to carry the name Hamza. And now I am introduced to Br. Fahim who I also relate to right off the bat since I come from a desi household in Canada and go to the University of Waterloo which is right beside Wilfred Laurier! Allah (SWT) clearly has a plan for all of us. I also really resonated with the tyrant archetype in my own family and with discussions I've had with friends. It is more prevalent in the desi community in Canada then you would expect, maybe not to the same degree, but definitely have seen the impact on the womenfolk and even myself growing up of a mix of both a tyrannical and absent father in the psychological sense. This video has been an amazing insight into being a true Muslim Man and Inshallah I shall re-start my journey to becoming one right now. Thank you both and may Allah bless you and your families.
@Muztang010 Жыл бұрын
Barak Allahu feek hamza for introducing us to this gentleman
@Haris-ny3sw Жыл бұрын
Allahumabarik really enjoyed this episode!
@sulaymansowe6427 Жыл бұрын
Very insightful indeed! Jazakallahu khair for sharing bro Hamza
@limitlessxmarketing4358 Жыл бұрын
Fantastic video, brother Fahim shares wonderful insight! Looking forward to more great videos!
@Muztang010 Жыл бұрын
Allahuma barak , refreshing brother great video.
@ashikelahie6035 Жыл бұрын
Phenomenal Discussion. A much needed one. I love both brother for the sake of Allah. May Allah bless and reward you.
@431266237 Жыл бұрын
Absolute legend with an absolute banger podcast mashaAllah
@MZD15 Жыл бұрын
I have watched it completely and recommend everyone to watch it. It's great informative video.
@grinningchicken Жыл бұрын
Wow this is great puts so much into context
@lordgreat6051 Жыл бұрын
The poem teared me up a bit very informative inspiring and beautiful podcast thanks guys
@ren.8137 Жыл бұрын
Fahim please make a course on how to become more grounded as a man, less simpy. Im not a simp for women but I was raised to be less masculine in a christian household (muslim now). I would buy it in a heartbeat
@jawwad1189 Жыл бұрын
Go to the Alpha Muslim course by brother Gabriel Al Roomani
@mohammadnurfiqri2831 11 ай бұрын
He has a telegram group and also gives personal coaching.
@raffatperveen3150 9 ай бұрын
Jazzak ALLAHU Khairain Khathera brother Hamza fitrah and heart touching program for bringing it up in the current situation of the world
@areebr6888 10 ай бұрын
Salam akhi, I thought you were pakistani for like 3 months. mashAllah its so nice to see someone of European descent to resemble the conduct people who would be raised with Islam.
@khaledabuaishah Жыл бұрын
Mashallah great work
@publicpm8809 Жыл бұрын
MashaALLAH Amazing work brothers
@محمّد.09 11 ай бұрын
Mashallah Barakallah 🤲 keep up with this good work 💟🕋
@mostaq9779 Жыл бұрын
Always give a humble introduction and let the content that is to follow speak for itself. That might put some pressure on the guest to deliver. Let them grow and flourish with having expectations.
@ren.8137 Жыл бұрын
Its better when you hype them up
@abdul2499 Жыл бұрын
what an eloquent and knowledgeable guy Allahuma Baarik
@sipan_pb Жыл бұрын
Great Podcast
@zakeeyaali Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah an excellent podcast that I thoroughly enjoyed. May Allah SWT bless you both for your sincere efforts.
@MZD15 Жыл бұрын
I have watched it completely and totally recommend everyone to watch it.
@bestamii Жыл бұрын
Thank you hamza abi
@caravanbell Жыл бұрын
At this moment I learned a new word - 'Gynocracy' inspired by 'Democracy'!
@hydragons Жыл бұрын
Yeah around 1:15:10
@RahamanWaheed 10 ай бұрын
Alhamdullilah for both brother Hamza and Fahim! May Allah ﷻ preserve them both & bless them in this Duniya and Akira ! Jazākallahu Khairan brothers 🙏🏾
@Chaos4190 11 ай бұрын
Dear Hamza, I'm glad you've taken on this topic and provided an alternative to those other cancerous movements. I do think in order to get people's attention more is to feature more examples & scenarios into smaller 10 minute videos. I also believe you might want to take a more assertive and challenging tone, especially to the Red pill. I could have told you to be more aggressive but I don't imagine that's your style. What I do imagine you being is tactful in how you challenge these people. I think you need to fight fire with fire in order to knock some sense into them. Otherwise I fear the good advise on offer here will be overlooked. Looking forward to more videos.
@mohamedlabrini6415 Жыл бұрын
Thank you hamza. May Allah subhanaho wa taala bless you
@raffatperveen3150 9 ай бұрын
Masha Allah this brother is unique with Intellectuality and understanding may ALLAh swt take work from him Ameen
@publicpm8809 Жыл бұрын
Proud of having brothers like you, May Almighty also make me and others in our Ummah to contribute something good to the society for the sake Almighty, Ameen
@freeman7983 6 ай бұрын
Baraka ALLAHU fikoum
@user-fy1nd9rl6x 11 ай бұрын
May Allah ﷻ protect & preserve you and allow you to both continue doing good work and increase us all in Iman, Islam & Ihsan In’shaa’Allah.
@mohpat9989 Жыл бұрын
Mashallah may Allah bless you brothers
@lordgreat6051 Жыл бұрын
Also if or when inshallah you make the part 2 for this could you please touch on how women should do like the right way when the men who are not trying to better themself like it could help men understand the relationship dynamics with more responsibility and explain on the beating part on 3rd stage like disciplining in what scenario
@NormalPersonIhope Жыл бұрын
women also need a green pill coach ----desperately
@grinningchicken Жыл бұрын
Fax
@raffatperveen3150 9 ай бұрын
Jazzak ALLAHU Khairain Khathera brother Hamza Alhamdulilah you bring unique perspective of Western world and let people know the lslamic perspective is the greatest SubhanAllah
@Bambino2440 9 ай бұрын
19:40 👏👏👏
@1stname365 Жыл бұрын
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
@Nihanth-tl4tv Жыл бұрын
Brother hamza i need your take on black pill (genetic determinism) I'm partially affected by it's ideology
@educationsearch3188 Жыл бұрын
❤
@raffatperveen3150 9 ай бұрын
Ameen Ya Rabbul Alameen to lqlas and sincerety
@MasoodKhan-so9hv Жыл бұрын
You can be rich and still be a simp. The example of will smith being a high value is not a good example because high value includes more then just having money, it can include more Muscles, being a leader, knowing how to fight and being grounded in principles.
@TheGreenPillCoach7 Жыл бұрын
Will Smith has money, muscles, height, looks, status, has gotten some fight training etc. So, no -- it was an appropriate example to demonstrate the point being made: most TRPers have a shallow understanding of 'high value'. There is indeed such a thing as being high value, and it has real world consequences. But, most don't understand it well.
@MasoodKhan-so9hv Жыл бұрын
Jazakullah Khair for elaborating brother, I don’t remember you mentioning him being in fights in the podcast.
@cegun1841 Жыл бұрын
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@Mzz321 Жыл бұрын
Jzk!!!
@RZA413 Жыл бұрын
Please can you confirm the telegram channels?
@bestamii Жыл бұрын
Please turkish subtitle?
@snakejuce Жыл бұрын
Just translate it with AI. It's easy and free to do. Many such APIs and web apps that allow it.
@snakejuce Жыл бұрын
@AwarenessOfDay Who said it has to be 100%?
@jorgebravo4544 10 ай бұрын
Islam says, There is no recommendation, there is no teaching that governs who should be older and younger. So both ways is permissible.
@roaanaser9921 Жыл бұрын
58:02 totally! also our islamic community also I agree 100%
@roaanaser9921 Жыл бұрын
41:08 Alto , and that caused corruption to be honest, also be patience in a very unjust way
@myhacking5891 Жыл бұрын
Mashallah
@HiddenAdamO 11 ай бұрын
❤❤❤💪💪💪
@grinningchicken Жыл бұрын
Guest has the same name as me😃
@AlphaMaverick1111 11 ай бұрын
ﷺ
@sanan11 Жыл бұрын
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@RayOfHope8 Жыл бұрын
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@HacksnTips1 Жыл бұрын
Hey Hamza, I was an atheist back in 2020 but then I started looking for truth and found this deen to be correct logically, but after sometimes in 2021 I started experiencing immense amount of doubts which resembled global skepticism, somehow I managed to get rid of couple of chains of doubts but few of them are still there and they have absolutely made me intellectually paralyzed for I don't feel like anything could be true coz there will always be uncertainty in every belief system, no one is having absolute truth. Here is on major chain of thought that troubles me : Why do we affirm that God maintained a particular pattern prior to the miracle of muhammad pbuh let's say the split of moon or any other miracle where miracle entails breach of the pattern in order to signify his prophethood . Why do we say that if we don't have absolute evidence that the universe does actually followed a pattern prior to this miracle. There can be possibilities of civilizations witnessing that what we call as miracle as something usual but they didn't penned it down or the transmission was not reached to successfully to the successors . If the conclusion is not absolute then how can we categorically state that he was a prophet of God because he was aided with miracles or breach in normalcy. And if we accept it saying that it's most likely a breach then does that means the possibility of it could be wrong is not quelled and if it's not quelled then wouldn't it make us hesitant to believe that " The only true relegion is islam" and if we are hesitant then wouldn't it cause anxiety and that uncertainty cause something else could be true which we are missing at this point hence we should keep studying other ideologies to quell that uncertainty arised from that non-absolute evidence which i assume can never br quelled in any other ideology at all. What should be our threshold to deem something as absolutely true and stop our journey of seeking true word of God? If the split of moon or something like that of quran is present at any instance of time in the universe then wouldn't that make these extraordinary event be a usual thing and not a breach in normalcy. I mean we can interpret it as a continual pattern where the gap between occurrence of split in moon or any such event is 20000year , so it's just a pattern like solar eclipse or lunar eclipse and we don't deem it as miracle so why should we deem split of moon or any such physical supposed miracle as miracle . In short : By virtue of us humans not being omniscient we definitely don't know many fact about the universe so what we call as extraordinary event just because we didn't heard about it in history and in our lifetime could just be something which did happened few thousand years back and may happen again after few thousands year . So it can be a mere continual pattern of universe which then is not a miracle or a support from God but rather a usual pattern which happens after a long long time interval . Now people can say whatever is documented has to be taken as a basis of historical knowledge and as a means which tells us about what happened and what didn't in the universe. But i am saying there could be things whose documenation were lost or maybe many things weren't documented at all. Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence. I think the burden of proof is on the one who is saying that these events are miracle , and they have to shun all these subtle possibilities which is embedded in their claim in order to make it coherent and absolute otherwise the uncertainty will still be there which opens up the possibility of islam being wrong which then can induce anxiety and i don't know how to calm my mind to one way of life as this quest for truth seems like a never ending process.
@user-kf5uh2gz5m Жыл бұрын
Salam, brother. Even if we grant that the moon splits and rejoins every couple million years, it would definitely breach normalcy if it happened right at the exact moment when the Prophet ﷺ told people to bear witness to the miracle. Same thing applies to the other miracles. It's not merely the fact that an extraordinary thing occurred, but that it occurred right when the Prophet ﷺ instructed them to occur. Imagine that the moon splits every ten-thousand years, and that when the Prophet ﷺ told people to witness the moon, it split at that exact moment. It would be quite the coincidence! But this can be collapsed to a more fundamental issue. How do you even know anything? Applying this level of skepticism would lead us to deny the most basic facts about reality. Try applying this criteria. "If I were to use this level of skepticism, could I deny that my mother is in fact my mother?" Btw, are you in contact with any scholars or students of knowledge who can help you out if needed?
@ponderer9311 Жыл бұрын
My mind is like if God would have wanted me to recognize truth, he would have left a way to figure out answers to all these questions. Also, they are not illogical, they just seem kinda impossible to figure out as of now due to maybe my current status of knowledge or maybe it's humanly impossible to be certain about anything? If it is impossible to attain that intellectual certainty then I feel like I should stop saying that x is true and rather say X could probably be true bcz Idk it can wrong as well and it's just my bias that makes me believe in x and not y, bcz neither do I have absolute evidence to reject Y and nor do I have absolute evidence to believe in x. I feel like everything anyone believes in is a leap of faith and everyone could be true and everyone could be wrong. There is no way I think anyone can claim anything to be absolutely true. I feel sad because been crying for guidance for 2yrs only gave me this realisation that there is no such thing as divine guidance. Plus, the thing about my mother being my mother, I would say I believe in it because that's how society works and that's how humans survive bcz somehow this is what suits our animal instinct . Even if I agree it is wrong( it could be) I would still want to do that with that uncertainty. And I think same is the case with major world beliefs, even though I know it is not possible to attain intellectual certainty or absolute truth, I still want to be spiritual or believe in God bcz that's what my instict wants ( it could be wrong that God exist but again It's hard to digest this fact that I cannot be certain about anything and this world is all about what our instinct wants ). I absolutely had bad experiences with people who are deemed to have knowledge, for their behavior towards my question was condescending and pathetic.
@ishxyzazolchak Жыл бұрын
Go to sapience institute and you can book I think a free consultation to speak with someone. There is no need to dump all your points of doubt in public
@FreeStoreStuff Жыл бұрын
@@ponderer9311that's a little hilarious, to be honest your going to be radically inconsistent regardless because as you said everything is taken on faith, your doubt is itself an action that you think your taking which you believe in and it could in fact be an evil demon who is in the control of your mind and pressing doubt on the control button, or it could be that right now a train will break through the ground from below you as you read this flying you to andromeda, or it could be that the next time you doubt you will melt into the sky, or it could be and on and on and on for infinity, there are about an infinite number of skeptical scenarios, truth is Allah could of done that and many other infinite ways to limit and play around your senses, but it appears its impossible for you to maintain consistency, here's my faithful assumption, despite saying what your saying you probably relapse in this "bound" state, a bound state simply means that your way is such that there are certain beliefs, instincts, desires that can't help but be there even when you doubt them, even doubting your doubt and doubting that and try to attempt to go on for infinity is not maintainable, if you want to try you can but it appears you were thinking that your thoughts are yours and that I am not an AI talking to you, and that the second you turn off your phone that it will come alive and swallow your testicle crushing them into mint and feeding them to the disabled wall floating through the sky, there is an article on Yaqeen called Ibn Taymiyyah Radical skepticm, I ain't saying you will defintly resolve the issue, but look into him as that topic relates deeply to your current state of mine as well as other radical forms of skepticism
@FreeStoreStuff Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah I just realised you could also doubt the doubt making the mistake that your faculties are even supposed to be doubted even though they are fallible and weak to an infinite number of skeptical scenarios, Allah knows best
@itsmevsme1156 Жыл бұрын
Wow wow wow
@momonasri8611 Жыл бұрын
44:26 brother hamza why the violent 😂🤣😂😂😂. Have you been watching mortal kombat lately. Overall fascinating conversation
@roaanaser9921 Жыл бұрын
59:00 may Allah bless him YOUR FATHER ameen
@renkylo2179 11 ай бұрын
I watched the video & convinced that Green Pill is a concept that is beautiful in mind but lacks directives in reality. So Red pill is the way to go.
@Oo786oO Жыл бұрын
I thought Sheikh Abdal Hakim Murad came up with the Green Pill....
@jorgebravo4544 10 ай бұрын
Afghanistan - Domestic violence is so common that 85 per cent of women admit to experiencing it. 60% of all women report being victims of multiple forms of serial violence. Afghanistan is the only country in which the female suicide rate is higher than that of males.
@razer0072073 Жыл бұрын
1:15:42
@mosawermomand8697 Жыл бұрын
I love you for the sake of Allah ustad @hamza
@youteubakount4449 10 ай бұрын
How do you "enforce" anything with a woman properly? Is it a matter of admonishing, then not going in her bed and so on?
@aali8874 Жыл бұрын
وَعَلَيْكُم السَّلَام وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ
@jorgebravo4544 10 ай бұрын
The Personal Status Law of Muslims, 1991, allows the marriage of a girl from puberty. Ten years-olds can be married with judicial authorization.
@Bambino2440 9 ай бұрын
Same thing USA just 100 years back. Our biology says we are ready to be mothers as young as 10. It is natural
@fklcci Жыл бұрын
We want Turkish subtitles. We Turks love you. WAKE UP People wallahı WAKE UP ❤
@Pakistanicecream-z1x Жыл бұрын
Turkish subtitles are available by clicking on the 'settings'-wheel near the bottom right of the video. Then you click on the following selections: Subtitles, English (auto-generated), Subtitles CC, Auto-Translate and Turkish.
@muslimyoungadult4931 Жыл бұрын
The second you start ascribing to any ideology that is man made you automatically concede to the fact that this perhaps is in some way superior to Islam, which is a blasphemous assumption as there is nothing greater than the laws made by Allah for us in Islam Therefore we cannot take any model guidance from any other ideology except for Islam.
@jorgebravo4544 10 ай бұрын
The Prophet said, "Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?" The women said, "Yes." He said, "This is because of the deficiency of a woman’s mind." (Bukhari,
@bluffiblaffi 11 ай бұрын
16:28 it’s shuyukh not shuyuق hhhhhhh
@TheGreenPillCoach7 10 ай бұрын
Jazakum Allahu khayran.
@jorgebravo4544 10 ай бұрын
The Prophet said, "I looked at Paradise and found poor people forming the majority of its inhabitants; and I looked at Hell and saw that the majority of its inhabitants were women." (Bukhari,
@jorgebravo4544 10 ай бұрын
Quran is great fo me - . 'If a man invites his wife to sleep with him and she refuses to come to him, then the angels send their curses on her till morning.' (Bukhari)
@facilitator999 11 ай бұрын
Habibi, I want to call you a simp f2f, 1m, your rules. I could use that £1k.
@HamzaTzortzisOfficial 11 ай бұрын
🤣 Let's go. I will be ready.
@m_saqibali Жыл бұрын
44:35 challenge accepted
@goaltoinfinity3966 Жыл бұрын
Is he Bangladeshi?
@TheGreenPillCoach7 Жыл бұрын
I have roots to West Bengal, but I'm not Bangladeshi myself.
@goaltoinfinity3966 Жыл бұрын
@@TheGreenPillCoach7 জেনে ভালো লাগলো। বাংলাদেশে ইসলামি বইয়ের দোকানগুলো কখনো সুযোগ হলে ঘুরে দেখার দাওয়াত রইলো।
@jorgebravo4544 10 ай бұрын
Men are managers of the affairs of women because Allah has made the one superior to the other. (Maududi, vol. 1, p. 329)
@jorgebravo4544 10 ай бұрын
In many Islamic countries and around the world, child marriages are common practice. Girls below the age of 18, and often far below the age of puberty are forcibly married to older persons (sometimes in their 50s and later)
@hosseinturner3792 Жыл бұрын
Why are young people and all these online influencers so concerned with masculinity these days? It smacks of insecurity and seems highly dysfunctional. We have the Sunnah of the Prophet, and that is enough for us. As a married father of two, realising that we already have a model to follow requires no further discussion. You can find it all in the seerah and the hadith.
@NormalPersonIhope Жыл бұрын
that's what they are saying , they are explaining the sunnah of the prophet peace be upon him, and why shouldn't we be concerned about masculinity , we have a crisis of masculinity , we need men , the insecure ones are the problem, we need more secure men, and the way to that in prophetic masculinity, and that leads to better societies
@NormalPersonIhope Жыл бұрын
@@mindbodyfitn3ss then why are you here
@TheGreenPillCoach7 Жыл бұрын
We've addressed your questions in depth. I suggest you watch this interview if you actually want an answer my brother :). There is insecurity and there is a lack of guidance on issues related to masculinity for many people growing up in entire societies that have destroyed traditional models of gender and family dynamics that used to be common for centuries. Simply telling them vague platitudes or about how your own family has good guidance does nothing to solve the vacuum they're in. Add to that the fact that most people are wholly unqualified to engage the Qur'an and Sunnah independently and draw practical solutions for their relationship problems (especially when religious leadership suppresses authentic narrations and fiqh) and you have a recipe for disaster.
@dmytoe5679 Жыл бұрын
@@NormalPersonIhopethe fact that you called it insecure shows how female influenced you actually are 😂
@NormalPersonIhope Жыл бұрын
@@dmytoe5679 um who is insecure?
@sammu Жыл бұрын
Women be crazy
@jorgebravo4544 10 ай бұрын
They are like garments unto you as you are like garments unto them” (Q 2:187).
@AS-gr8vf Жыл бұрын
Bro why you target desi woman? I seen far worse in non desi woman
@MustafaAli-lb8dq 10 ай бұрын
Because desi's are mostly ignorant. He is not wrong. Yes things have improved a lot but still many things remain unsolved due to poverty and lack of education.
@teksong3595 10 ай бұрын
I've been watching a lot of Hamza's and Mohammad Hijab's videos and love them both and this gentleman in this video for the sake of Allah. But wallahi I've been through half of this video and it barely made sense or have benefitted me. 90% of it was talking about how bad Feminism, simps and red pillers were, with no solutions provided. The only benefit you provided was the comparison between first wave feminism and the extreme feminist ideologies that came after that.
@teksong3595 10 ай бұрын
As I listened more the video it got better, focusing on feminism itself more and naming names.
@TheGreenPillCoach7 10 ай бұрын
@@teksong3595 keep listening brother. Then go to part II because that's where we actually focus on practical solutions and examples of coaching. I spend the vast majority of my time actually coaching brothers, but this particular interview was an opportunity to explain the nature of the problems clearly. That's because we can't have communities accept solutions when they don't even understand or accept the nature of the problem affecting so many people.
@teksong3595 9 ай бұрын
@@TheGreenPillCoach7 Thank you for the work you do and may Allah bless you and your work.
@chasna4546 Жыл бұрын
35:25 I don't agree with that woman and whatever she said about blame, but still, Faruk's interpretation of Prophets being "infallible" is wrong. They were not infallible. Not in the sense of being incapable to make mistakes or even fall into sin. They avoid it through the help of Allah. The Qur'an states clearly that Prophet Yusuf (a) would have advanced towards Zuleykha as well, if it were not for the help of Allah. "And the lady, in whose house he lived, tried to seduce him. She locked the doors ˹firmly˺ and said, “Come to me!” He replied, “Allah is my refuge! It is ˹not right to betray˺ my master, who has taken good care of me. Indeed, the wrongdoers never succeed.” She advanced towards him, ***and he would have done likewise, had he not seen a sign from his Lord***. This is how We kept evil and indecency away from him, for he was truly one of Our chosen servants." (12: 23-24)
@chasna4546 Жыл бұрын
@@andalusialove What you say isn't incompatible or disagreeing what I said. Prophets were not infallible. They only had infallibility in certain situations where Allah preserved them. They were capable of committing mistakes, and some of them made such mistakes, like the Prophet who burned an ant hill. They would have committed worse, but Allah's help held them back from them, because Allah wanted to preserve their mission and message. The idea is that the mission and Allah's mercy is what gave them the position. Nobody has an inherent value above others besides what Allah gives or holds from.
@celestialsignal Жыл бұрын
@@chasna4546 Imam Nawawi commented on the hadith you are talking about. I'm reproducing the hadith and the commentary: Abu Hurayrah may Allaah be pleased with him narrated: "I heard the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) saying: "An ant bit one of the Prophets, and he ordered that the anthill be burnt. So, Allah inspired to him, 'Is it because one ant bit you that you burn a nation amongst the nations that glorify Allah? Why did you not kill just one ant?" [Al-Bukhaari and Muslim] An-Nawawi may Allaah have mercy upon him said in his book Sharh Muslim: "The scholars said that this Hadeeth is interpreted to mean that in the legislation of that Prophet may Allaah exalt his mention it was permissible to kill ants and burn them with fire. Allah did not blame him for killing and burning the ants; rather, he was blamed for killing and burning more than the one ant (which harmed him). The saying of Allah ‘why did you not kill just one ant?’ means, why did you not punish just the one ant that bit you, because it alone transgressed against you; as for other ants, they are not guilty. However, it is not permissible in our legislation (in Islam) to burn animals…" It was a relative mistake, not because it was a sin, but because it wasn't the most merciful path. However, it was also not one that he would be accounted for. There was merely a superior alternative that Allah held this Prophet to the standard of. Therefore, they are still infallible when it comes to committing sin. They are capable of making error relative to the optimal course of action. Otherwise, they are ma'sum and do not act other than according to their shari'ah. Qadi `Iyad in al-Shifa’ said that the Jumhur of the Jurists from the schools of Malik, al-Shafi`i, and Abu Hanifa, agree that the Prophets are protected from all minor sins because one is required to follow them in the minutest matters. It is even reported from Malik that this is obligatory to believe. From: seekersguidance.org/answers/islamic-belief/how-are-the-prophets-protected-from-error-and-sin/
@chasna4546 Жыл бұрын
@@celestialsignal Again arguing on details and for the sake of rhetoric. A whole paragraph quoted to show me that the prophet mentioned didn't commit sin but a mistake. Exactly what I said. Nothing in this is against what I said. Nobody is special unless the help of Allah is involved. Without it nobody would be able to maintain a pure state. Prophets were chosen for a mission and this is why Allah kept them from sin. Allah gave them status and Allah maintained it. Us and them and all else would be nothing without Allah.
@celestialsignal Жыл бұрын
@@chasna4546 It is not semantics. You made a hard claim: "They were not infallible. Not in the sense of being incapable to make mistakes or even fall into sin. " Terminology matters. Understanding what a sin is matters. Understanding how a mistake is defined matters. Infallibility is with respect to good and evil, and understanding their quality of not sinning is necessary to our belief. You're getting hung up on believing that their infallibility is mutual exclusive from Allah's protection when they are infallible BECAUSE of Allah's protection. You have to answer why you're treating them as mutually exclusive.
@chasna4546 Жыл бұрын
@@celestialsignal Yes, infallibility is defined as being flawless, incapable of ever making any mistake. No human ever fit this category. Even prophets. They fit the limited capacity of a psyche and body, and all that comes with limitation. Otherwise they would be outside the scope of what being human means. Their "fallibility" was smaller than ours, as they were held back from sinning by Allah. But they still had made mistakes, every single one of them. And, like the verse from the Qur'an concerning Yusuf (a.s), they did have the capacity to even fall into sin, although it didn't happen because of their status and mission as prophets. It was Allah who held them back from falling into sin. We respect Yusuf (a.s.) for the status Allah has given him. Without it, he would have been like any other Yusuf that passed through this world unknown to us. The primary focus is on archetype and not the one who embodies it. So ultimately our respect is directed to Allah.
@jorgebravo4544 10 ай бұрын
I guess you have no problem with these laws
@jorgebravo4544 10 ай бұрын
Very hateful dialogue
@user-rq5yr6dn7q 11 ай бұрын
Red Pill is toxic.
@RayOfHope8 Жыл бұрын
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