The Hard Truths of Your 40s 😢

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Жыл бұрын

A 42 year old man describes how it feels to be 40 compared to being in your 30s and 20s. He then offers some life advice and perspective on what it's like to be 42 years old.
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@ohwowitspau
@ohwowitspau 11 ай бұрын
I’m 40. My advice to younger people is to let go of the ones who have hurt you, you have escaped them. You are free. Embrace those who care for you, these are the people who check up on you, listen to you and value you. Don’t let social media pressure you. You don’t have to be a “somebody” but be someone people can look up to. Always save money. Do not buy things that are not important, you don’t need 20 purses or 60 pairs of shoes. You just need a few comfortable shoes. Be kind to anyone you encounter and don’t let people intimidate you. We all make mistakes and we all have insecurities. Reward yourself once in a while. Travel if you can.
@sweethoney11
@sweethoney11 11 ай бұрын
tq sir! ❤❤
@midnightscreamer2481
@midnightscreamer2481 11 ай бұрын
Beautiful advice, I screenshot you just to remind myself what's really important.
@alluringbliss4165
@alluringbliss4165 11 ай бұрын
I need that, hard for me to forgive and let go
@YuyiLeal
@YuyiLeal 11 ай бұрын
Wonderful comment!!!
@AngelOnEarth0614
@AngelOnEarth0614 11 ай бұрын
Great advice. I had to screenshot your comment . I hope you don't mind
@paulmarsh8974
@paulmarsh8974 Жыл бұрын
I'm 69 and can honestly say that you're a spring chicken at 42...
@rarebreeds8738
@rarebreeds8738 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@Rrrrcc4666
@Rrrrcc4666 Жыл бұрын
oh Uncle Paul i am 36 and i feel like 60 yrs old. I feel like is this it? I working like a dog and on weekend be happy and on weekdays stay sad and also, the depression that hits on Sunday night to go over again another Week of rat race. 😭😭
@jinxc1620
@jinxc1620 Жыл бұрын
that's a nice age
@razor8507
@razor8507 Жыл бұрын
Nice
@CobraHigh
@CobraHigh Жыл бұрын
You don't know the suffering of my generation. At 40 we've already lived several lifetimes. 9/11, the stock market crash, the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq, crushing student loan debt most of us can never pay back, under employment, social media destroying lives and dividing society, with new daily Hashtag movements, cancel culture, woke culture and ofcourse let's not forget the pandemic. We're just waiting for the next catastrophe and it should be here anytime between now and the next two years.
@theriffguy8237
@theriffguy8237 Жыл бұрын
Never make someone a priority that doesn't reciprocate.
@TheFlareMind
@TheFlareMind 11 ай бұрын
True
@CrazyPanda688
@CrazyPanda688 11 ай бұрын
Aka modern women
@sammujkic7869
@sammujkic7869 10 ай бұрын
WTF get in shape omg 42 wow
@ayaexplores
@ayaexplores 10 ай бұрын
i needed this
@Cocoisagordonsetter
@Cocoisagordonsetter 10 ай бұрын
@@ayaexplores You got this!!!!!
@Josh-99
@Josh-99 11 ай бұрын
This man speaks the trust. I'm 45 -- almost 46 -- and my wife, who is about the same age as me, received a cancer diagnosis last year. She beat it, but it still got me wondering why I was working so much, especially when we own our house, have zero debt, have plenty of cash on hand, and have lots of money saved for retirement. So I pared back to part-time work and started doing things I enjoy more, especially spending more time with my wife and my friends. I don't need to be wealthy, I just need to be happy.
@john.premose
@john.premose 10 ай бұрын
If only billionaires could see things that way
@Cocoisagordonsetter
@Cocoisagordonsetter 10 ай бұрын
@@john.premose Why are you worried about rando people?
@john.premose
@john.premose 10 ай бұрын
@@Cocoisagordonsetter what are you even talking about?
@john.premose
@john.premose 10 ай бұрын
@@Cocoisagordonsetter and I'm worried about them because what they do affects my life.
@dsvet
@dsvet 10 ай бұрын
Working hard when you were younger has afforded you the ability to do these things now.
@rickholland6695
@rickholland6695 Жыл бұрын
Enjoy life while you're young. Work to live, don't live to work. The decades of wear and tear can really take a toll on your body. I am 62 now and an EMT/Paramedic Instructor. In my late teens, 20s, 30s, and even into my 40s, I was lifting patients, slowly destroying my body. My wife, Penny, was also an EMT/Paramedic. She lifted patients until she was in her 40s as well. Then, she transitioned into medical dispatch. I look back. Penny and I worked a lot of hours (24-hour shifts). However, we worked the vast majority of our EMS careers together. So we were able to enjoy work more than most because we were partners both on and off duty, building a successful life together. I knew Penny for 43 great years. We lived together for 30 years, married 15 of them. Unfortunately, she passed away suddenly in 2020. Nothing lasts forever. Enjoy it all while you can. I love and miss you, my wonderful wife. But life goes on.
@Eclass96
@Eclass96 Жыл бұрын
💯%
@DubG9
@DubG9 Жыл бұрын
God bless you, Sir!
@gtorr47
@gtorr47 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss, Rick. Happy to know you and Penny shared some great moments in this ife time 💗
@richardjames1751
@richardjames1751 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss bud
@leefunkera
@leefunkera Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear my man. It seems you met your soul mate! Truly blessed you are to have experienced that. So many can live a lifetime without that luck and never find their true mate! 💕
@ResistanceQuest
@ResistanceQuest Жыл бұрын
I'm 40 this year. I realized I spent my 30s not making money or having fun, but worrying and waiting for something to happen. I believed I was special and something would just come through for me, or "one day," I would start working hard enough to bring about my inevitable success. If I could do it all over again, I'd a) listen to my heart more, b) choose a different career, c) accept that nothing is a given, nothing is permanent, and no one else can help you but you
@pigeonlove
@pigeonlove Жыл бұрын
I'm 43 and preparing to go to university for 6 years for a complete change of career basically because it might be late now but less late than in the future 😂
@natedog69420
@natedog69420 Жыл бұрын
appreciate this. im 26. ur 40, not old. just older. focus up and work hard
@ResistanceQuest
@ResistanceQuest Жыл бұрын
@@pigeonlove good for you mate. That's awesome! What are you changing to and from?
@ResistanceQuest
@ResistanceQuest Жыл бұрын
@@natedog69420 I appreciate that. When time is gone, it seems so precious that it can feel like it's all run out when it's really only down a notch or two. Hope that makes sense lol. But you're right. I have time. And I will focus, dammit! (saying that to myself) Cheers 🤜🤛
@the_true_hier_to_the_sharingan
@the_true_hier_to_the_sharingan Жыл бұрын
I needed this.
@coolbreeze8820
@coolbreeze8820 10 ай бұрын
I'm in my 40s, and I feel the same as I did when was 20.
@steved6269
@steved6269 4 ай бұрын
I call BS lol. Not the same...maybe similar, but let's not get crazy 😎
@coolbreeze8820
@coolbreeze8820 4 ай бұрын
@@steved6269 Nonsense, if you take care of yourself.
@derrickbelafonte1423
@derrickbelafonte1423 4 ай бұрын
I mean I'm 38 and I don't feel anything,I also did 10 years in prison so I'm really 28 spiritually 😂​@@steved6269
@diegoandrescortes9278
@diegoandrescortes9278 4 ай бұрын
​​@@steved6269dude you are still on your prime until 45 if you just took care of yourself over the years , like 40s are not considered old at all is an age when are starting to build up wisdom from experience , no muscle loss you still can do all things you used to do back then when 20 as long as you are healthy
@WalkingWithAlex
@WalkingWithAlex 4 ай бұрын
Same. Better in some ways
@sphinx_8872
@sphinx_8872 Жыл бұрын
Not in my forties yet but if there's one thing my 30s have taught me it's that it's good to have goals and dreams, but it's the journey not the destination that really matters.
@CookRugbyCinemaTravel
@CookRugbyCinemaTravel 10 ай бұрын
That's the poem from Kavafis, "Ithaki"
@aaronlebabo3927
@aaronlebabo3927 Жыл бұрын
"Some men are old at 30, some are young at 80" Joseph Murphy
@cameliap1146
@cameliap1146 Жыл бұрын
Don't fool your self. It's simply not true. Just words said by elderly people trying to feel better .
@pitt5674
@pitt5674 Жыл бұрын
FU
@takezomiyamoto1390
@takezomiyamoto1390 Жыл бұрын
or so they say
@mikec4487
@mikec4487 Жыл бұрын
@@cameliap1146 not true at all I ve met people who died jn the early thirties of health complications from an unhealthy and there is people in there. 60s that can bang out sets of 20 on the pull up bar
@adrienhenao3256
@adrienhenao3256 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@krisweaver7524
@krisweaver7524 Жыл бұрын
One thing I learned through my 20's: Don't waste time on people who don't have your best interest in mind. Your circle will be smaller, but much more productive.
@philipoconnor2236
@philipoconnor2236 Жыл бұрын
What happens if the person themselves doesn't have their own best interest at heart??
@fab956
@fab956 Жыл бұрын
@@philipoconnor2236they will gravitate towards bad people and they will “destroy each other”
@alswearengen6427
@alswearengen6427 Жыл бұрын
Why would anyone have your best interest in mind? From your comment, I guarantee you don't have anyone's best interest in mind, other than your own.
@igloozoo3771
@igloozoo3771 Жыл бұрын
I give people the room to change. I don't automatically cancel them. I am glad I didn't cancel my parents. I see them as my friends now and individuals even though they weren't the best parents growing up. Being a forgiving person is a better advice. Burning too many bridges will eventually make you the only person on an island of one.
@romystumpy1197
@romystumpy1197 Жыл бұрын
Very true,
@wizardofahhhhhhz
@wizardofahhhhhhz Жыл бұрын
He is spot on. I’m 40. My niece asked me why I was tired the other day and I told her that I’ve been tired for the last 7 years 😩😂
@intelligentmeditations8378
@intelligentmeditations8378 Жыл бұрын
I'm guessing you haven't heard of shilajit? Look it up, completely natural, it's minerals and it gives you so much energy among many other benefits
@annanajduch5201
@annanajduch5201 11 ай бұрын
Get a complete medical evaluation
@MrJamesdryable
@MrJamesdryable 10 ай бұрын
That's your fault. Don't drink, eat healthy, exercise, hydrate, prioritise sleep over absolutely everything else.
@wjb4578
@wjb4578 7 ай бұрын
​@@bookofrhymes225no, it literally is easy. Nothing is forcing you to have unhealthy habits. You choose to drink, you choose to eat junk food, you choose to have horrible sleep hygiene, you choose to not work out. I'm saying "you" in the general sense, not you personally because I don't know you, fyi.
@wjb4578
@wjb4578 7 ай бұрын
​@@MrJamesdryablepreach
@wheathusk2499
@wheathusk2499 11 ай бұрын
When they said health is wealth they weren't kidding. In my 20s I chased success and finances in my 30s I was stressed and burnt out now focusing on health and living slow
@rubenssz
@rubenssz 10 күн бұрын
I'm 34 and I'm reducing sugar intake drastically. It's one of the best things I've done. Makes it so easy to be fit you can't believe it. Also, your skin, your energy levels, your sleep, your focus, almost everything has been improving. Great really
@greyeyed123
@greyeyed123 Жыл бұрын
I'm 48, and I feel like if I DIDN'T prioritize money in my 20's and 30's (or at least getting myself on a path to money), my 40's would have been MUCH harder. It's easy to say other things are more important than money when you've finally achieved financial stability. When you have no financial stability and DECADES of your life are looming in front of you...money is indeed important.
@greyeyed123
@greyeyed123 Жыл бұрын
@9λ I do that also. I just have more money to spend on better food choices than I did 30 years ago.
@kgs_7186
@kgs_7186 Жыл бұрын
I'm 51 and I'm glad I grew up in the era that I did. This society today is a god damn joke.
@D-A-N-
@D-A-N- Жыл бұрын
Most people who made money later on said that money is not the most important and they wasted their life on losing time with loved ones because of it . Perceptive my f
@warewareno
@warewareno Жыл бұрын
@greyeyed123 I’m glad you said this. Because I definitely feel the same. It’s like the hierarchy of needs. If not having money, like being sick and missing pay, will result in you not having food, rent money, transportation, etc. money becomes important really quickly. All these people saying money isn’t important change their tune when you mention words “invest”, “have”, “borrow”, and “me”.
@mr.nobody2401
@mr.nobody2401 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@loxley75
@loxley75 Жыл бұрын
Best thing about life in your forties is the lack of toxic people. By this time you learn that you don't need to keep them in your life, you can just...let them go!
@nicolettakouris
@nicolettakouris Жыл бұрын
Yes! In your 40s you finally prioritize your own happiness.
@kathyhansen2820
@kathyhansen2820 Жыл бұрын
It's good you figured that out at a young age. Many people never do.
@Jp18888
@Jp18888 Жыл бұрын
That’s encouraging to hear. I’m nearing my mid 30s, been drowning under so much Toxic people in the past three years as I’ve hurt and been learning slowly to see them for what they are through many tears, anger, disappointment, anguish etc… going through a healing process now but the realization of what you shared comforts me greatly. I guess all I’m feeling and going through now is the process and journey of weaning off the wrong people in life and becoming more acquainted with the standard of healthy loving peeps I truly deserve in life. By my 40s, I can look back on all this and bask in freedom in this arena of life ❤
@Kruz3r
@Kruz3r Жыл бұрын
I'm already doing it and I'm on my twenties.
@ihnmefgfu16428
@ihnmefgfu16428 Жыл бұрын
Is it ok to cut off an old friend if you feel anxious everytime she tries to contact you? I kind of feel guilty but i don't have the energy or desire to meet the friend
@Vanessa_L
@Vanessa_L 10 ай бұрын
I’m 42 and at the best shape of my life. Life & age is what you make it. I work A LOT…on top of being an it project manager i have vacation rentals. I manage to exercise and meditate at least 1.5 hrs a day 5-6 days a week. Sometimes 7
@Davebro38
@Davebro38 4 ай бұрын
I agree I'm 53 and feel unstoppable. Health is wealth
@user-ce4pt6nn6l
@user-ce4pt6nn6l Жыл бұрын
Stay in shape and take care of yourself and you won't be exhausted all the time at 42.
@intelligentmeditations8378
@intelligentmeditations8378 Жыл бұрын
That and shilajit that stuff is a fake changer (completely natural it's minerals)
@GTRrocker84
@GTRrocker84 11 ай бұрын
No work still makes you feel like shit. I’m 39 and in shape and am exhausted all the time
@gagejoseph91
@gagejoseph91 11 ай бұрын
Incorrect. It has literally nothing to do with physical fitness. That is disturbingly reductionist.
@user-ce4pt6nn6l
@user-ce4pt6nn6l 11 ай бұрын
@@gagejoseph91 fitness, nutrition, and healthy lifestyle. The rest follows. No excuses.
@gagejoseph91
@gagejoseph91 11 ай бұрын
@@user-ce4pt6nn6l Understanding, individual care, and an open mind. No excuses. People cannot be reduced to simple catch-all answers. Anyone who says otherwise is selling something. Some of the happiest people I've ever met are massively overweight. Thinking that fitness solves mental issues is a red flag, my man.
@davidw5532
@davidw5532 Жыл бұрын
I’m 43 and feel the best I have ever felt in my life ! It’s all about staying fit and eating right!!
@elsie9434
@elsie9434 Жыл бұрын
Yes yes & yes 👌🏾👏🏽❤️
@shantideva30
@shantideva30 Жыл бұрын
same age, same feeling o/ greetings
@boilerhousegarage
@boilerhousegarage Жыл бұрын
Don't you get nagging pains, sore and locking joints? I used to work out a lot and did several martial arts, but my right hip is knackered now and I get these pinching pains in my torso (don’t know what it is, doctors were useless).
@preityb200
@preityb200 Жыл бұрын
i do not agree with this man ,i am 40 he looks way too old and not fit. My energy is somehow the same as i had i my 20s,only reason i am tired is because of taking care kids and aging parents along with a career .Also i do not agree with taking your time in 20s ,pls .....20s and early 30s are about setting goals and making money and a great career.By late 30s and 40s ,If you have a house and enough money in your bank account now is the time to enjoy with kids and family........i learnt from my mistake ,i had a good start in career in my early 20s but i switch my career in my late 20s and my entire my 30s are spent in motherhood ,so my finances are not that good but i am working on it now .I am a woman so i am still considered successful but for a guy i will definitely recommend figuring out what you want to do in your life and working hard for it. Also by 30s pay attention to your diet,eat healthy,......you will thank yourself in your 40s
@lukesky8531
@lukesky8531 Жыл бұрын
Say word lol. Low key, he big as hell he’d feel better if he ate better. I drank and ate like shit forever. I lost 30 pounds when I quit drinking, and I stopped eating out. I’m in the best shape of my life. Im only 37 but I know 42 won’t be bad if I keep this up. 🤷🏾‍♂️
@conorgrogan
@conorgrogan Жыл бұрын
My Grandpa (RIP) was probably about 90 when he told me what age he would be again if given the chance. I honestly remember expecting him to say 20 something or close to that. Without hesitation he said "60. Life clicked a lot for me at 60". Will always be glad we had that conversation because it was a perspective I needed to hear. Just goes to show ya, really.
@sobeidalagrange7129
@sobeidalagrange7129 Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👍👍👍🫡🫡🫡😎😎😎😻😻😻
@jorgesaltus9885
@jorgesaltus9885 Жыл бұрын
Lovely❤
@vegetossgss1114
@vegetossgss1114 Жыл бұрын
4 DAYS WORK WEEK FOR A BETTER WORK PERSONAL LIFE BALANCE!
@sarahbilotta8814
@sarahbilotta8814 Жыл бұрын
I love this.
@riphihe
@riphihe Жыл бұрын
me2 (needed to hear that)
@sarlaccstapeworm990
@sarlaccstapeworm990 5 ай бұрын
As someone who's turning 45 this year,, I can vouch that he's absolutely correct. I tend to try to take things in more these days. As opposed to when I was in my 20's & 30's, when my motto was, "don't bother stopping to smell the roses, you can always smell them when you're running with them in your hand". Damn,, how wrong I was.... It doesn't pay to burn your candle at both ends, people.
@christineyoung8345
@christineyoung8345 Жыл бұрын
I'm 45. I think one of the biggest shift is realizing how important family is. When i was in my 20s,life was all about fulfilling my dreams, "finding myself." Then I realized I am not that important. Love is the driving force of life. Cheish those that deserve your love. Love well and love hard, it's worth it.
@natureswhisper1397
@natureswhisper1397 11 ай бұрын
Amen to that! There's nothing more important than love
@someguycalledcerberus9805
@someguycalledcerberus9805 10 ай бұрын
I've realised this at 15, and have been saying this to all my peers all the time. Real human connection is the only thing that matters. Find someone you can love and who can love you and stay healthy. That's it. Unfortunately, I have never succeeded.
@BodyAndSol96
@BodyAndSol96 10 ай бұрын
​@@someguycalledcerberus9805I agree but sadly I haven't succeeded yet either. It is difficult to find true deep soul connection.
@imogen4535
@imogen4535 2 ай бұрын
​@someguycalledcerberus9805 Relationships are probably the most important thing overall but they're not the ONLY thing that matter. If you want good ones you still need a strong sense of self that comes from spending time alone
@austenhead5303
@austenhead5303 Жыл бұрын
I'm 43. I too am exhausted. My advice to younger people: The older you get, the harder it is to make friends. So make good friends. Be picky. Don't invest time and emotion into people who don't value and respect you as they ought, but also don't discard good people because of trivial reasons. You'll only have enough time to develop close ties with a handful of people - so choose wisely. As for money, don't throw it away on expensive luxury items which depreciate in value within a short time, such as flagship phones. Save up and buy smart things, like realestate.
@damnjustassignmeone
@damnjustassignmeone Жыл бұрын
I’m curious why you’re exhausted. I’m in my mid-40s, and I really don’t get it.
@austenhead5303
@austenhead5303 Жыл бұрын
@@damnjustassignmeone The daily grind, dude. Full time job, and then the constant maintenance of living space, car, body, paper work. Add elderly parents getting increasingly needy. No support from anywhere. Never enough time. And I'm lucky enough to still be healthy and to have no kids.
@damnjustassignmeone
@damnjustassignmeone Жыл бұрын
@@austenhead5303 Huh. Well, I have a gut and a small old house. So maybe that helps. Hear you about work though. I feel like there’s almost no job that’s not a ton of hours and stress. That much is true.
@htadelle
@htadelle Жыл бұрын
@@austenhead5303acts. Well said. The daily grind is exhausting and all that adulting entails.
@kellyvariste4831
@kellyvariste4831 Жыл бұрын
Oh these or facts for sure! Well said.👏👍
@Sig_716
@Sig_716 Жыл бұрын
I’m 40, I feel 100 times stronger and better than I did in my 20s-30s.. The key is to stay in shape
@pigeonlove
@pigeonlove Жыл бұрын
I think he meant mentally
@robertsnellgrove2664
@robertsnellgrove2664 Жыл бұрын
Advice everyone should pay attention to, without good health and strength you will struggle later in life. 💪☺️
@AyanAli-py7ci
@AyanAli-py7ci Жыл бұрын
​@@pigeonlove omega 3
@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894
@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894 Жыл бұрын
@@pigeonlove mentally lm 100% better wisdom comes with age
@paulhelden
@paulhelden Жыл бұрын
Faster and stronger
@MrPicklerwoof
@MrPicklerwoof Жыл бұрын
In my mid-40's. I have one piece of advice to young people: Stop worrying about what others think of you! Forge your own path and be yourself. Become happy and comfortable with who you are. Do not put on an act or maintain a persona. That was my biggest mistake and it took me around 20 years of adulthood to finally figure it out.
@Stevo-klo45453
@Stevo-klo45453 5 ай бұрын
I enjoyed my 20’s and early 30’s and have not recovered in my mid 30’s since Covid; it shock my life up and I’m not in a good head space
@allikohcysp
@allikohcysp Жыл бұрын
I’m 42 and after doing literally nothing with my life through my 20’s and most of my 30’s, I feel life is just beginning. Smoked weed, drank alcohol every weekend and spent my disposable income on stupid shit. Fell in love at 36, now 4 kids later I just bought my first house and working every spare moment I have. No regrets. The single most important thing I’ve learned is that you need to take care of your health. You can have everything in the world, but if you don’t have your health, you can lose it all in an instant. All that smoking, drinking, unhealthy eating, unhealthy lifestyle will catch up to you and it will hit you all at once and hopefully it’s not too late when it does.
@michaelchia6972
@michaelchia6972 Жыл бұрын
That’s awesome you empowered yourself and grateful for your health. continue to be grateful and that joy you feel will one day bless others who want it. Like you posting here, keep encouraging to get better daily and each step. But take the time to be still and reflect. All the man’s miseries from not being able to sit quietly in the room alone.
@allikohcysp
@allikohcysp Жыл бұрын
@@michaelchia6972 thank you for your kind words 🙏🏽
@hockey_hungry
@hockey_hungry Жыл бұрын
This actually feels good because I'm 27 and do all the partying you just talked about. If your saying i have 10 more years to fall in love and eventually have kids. God damn this is gunna be a good 10 years haha.
@VansSpartacus
@VansSpartacus Жыл бұрын
I agree..
@eatlovetraveloutthere
@eatlovetraveloutthere Жыл бұрын
Very true!
@mamadoom9724
@mamadoom9724 Жыл бұрын
I’m 42 and I actually felt way more exhausted in my teens and 20s. I was pretty tired in my 30s too. Physically I feel better than ever for some reason.
@Carlos_Spartacus
@Carlos_Spartacus 11 ай бұрын
What are you doing differently???
@3DPTR
@3DPTR 10 ай бұрын
Same here, I feel more energetic now, I think is because I go to the gym every day, maybe..I try not to eat junk food
@mamadoom9724
@mamadoom9724 10 ай бұрын
@@Carlos_Spartacus I definitely eat way less junk food. I eat fast food like once every two years and make most my meals from scratch. I still have low energy but it’s not painfully low like when I was younger.
@koppeFL
@koppeFL Жыл бұрын
I’m in 40. Honestly, money is more important than so-so friend. Cut so-so friends. Money won’t disrespect you. Money won’t disappoint you. Money is what you need to have comfortable life. Don’t believe people say “money can’t buy happiness and health.” Because to be happy and healthy, you need money. I might change my opinion in 50s and 60s.
@lilyviolette2189
@lilyviolette2189 11 ай бұрын
True 👍
@ShadaeMastersAstrology
@ShadaeMastersAstrology 7 ай бұрын
I’m liking the idea of earning money with friends 😅
@enneaf1676
@enneaf1676 5 ай бұрын
Money isn't sentient, nor can you eat it or drink it. Gain knowledge first, then lose material attachment
@ShadaeMastersAstrology
@ShadaeMastersAstrology 5 ай бұрын
@@enneaf1676 Can’t eat money but try walking into a restaurant and ordering something to eat without it.
@universal3024
@universal3024 Ай бұрын
There are unhappy people with a lot money. Miserable ..
@andrewvo8395
@andrewvo8395 Жыл бұрын
Here’s what I’ve learned at 41. All these relationships that you stress over in your early years, the sacrifices you make to “make it work” usually ends up being a complete waste of time. My message to all you guys out there. Focus on making money, not to be rich, but to be able to buy time… time to do whatever the hell you want with your life. Whether that’s traveling, reading and doing nothing, taking care of others… don’t waste your time trying to make a woman happy, because you can’t. Make yourself happy first and foremost. That is all.
@jared3519
@jared3519 Жыл бұрын
😂😂 divorce court got another one 😂😂
@favianpliego559
@favianpliego559 Жыл бұрын
I’m DEAD 💀
@michaelchia6972
@michaelchia6972 Жыл бұрын
it’s great that you are looking inward first. But only start relationships when you yourself are overflowing with joy and emotional maturity to share with a partner. Life is good and life goes on. No man is an island, so make the best of life with its ups and downs.
@Kenny-Ross
@Kenny-Ross Жыл бұрын
Love it! We’re on the same wavelength. I just turned 41 back in December. I’m single, never married, nor have children. I’m on a South American adventure with a buddy of mine who is 31 and also single, never married and no children. We talk about this all the time. Staying focused on yourself, making money and doing the things you want to do. If we were tied down with a wife and kids we wouldn’t have been able to do the things we’ve done in our lives. Or even a girlfriend we would be tied down.
@ben-cl5in
@ben-cl5in Жыл бұрын
True 100%
@travissmarion
@travissmarion Жыл бұрын
I'm 44 and the most important thing is "Quit caring what others think about you". And you can pick your friends, but not your family... Some of the people closest to you (family) are the ones talking about you behind your back.
@yeshalloween
@yeshalloween Жыл бұрын
Oh totally. I realized that a good portion of my family are actually some of my worst enemies because I trusted them and love them and they should have been there for me and yet they are the ones most damaging to me and speaking ill of me whenever I’m not around
@codeeater0
@codeeater0 Жыл бұрын
@@yeshalloween I know what you mean. And what was given to the family was unconditional, and I was too young to see what they were really like.
@t.f.6297
@t.f.6297 Жыл бұрын
#facts 👆💯🙌🏾
@dixoncesarean3338
@dixoncesarean3338 Жыл бұрын
This talking behind your back thing, isn't it what everybody does all the time when talking about others? Does it make it ok if it's positive things even though talking behind one's back? In this case it's not spreading rumors, just talking behind one's back, like a parent discussing the child's future but not in front of the child.
@VansSpartacus
@VansSpartacus Жыл бұрын
I agree with you, we can pick our Freinds, life partner but not our Family….
@Casey-summer
@Casey-summer 8 ай бұрын
People grappling with the difficulty of meeting essential expenses often encounter this situation due to inadequate savings during their working years. The decisions taken in readiness for retirement carry extensive consequences, as demonstrated within my own family dynamics. Despite my husband and I having equal tenure in civil service, differing investment approaches yielded disparate results. Guided by a financial advisor, We are both retired and still earn monthly from our investments.
@disney-hefner
@disney-hefner 8 ай бұрын
Indeed, that's accurate. I'm currently in my mid-50s. My husband and I were on a similar path until a couple of years ago when I decided to shift my investments to his wealth manager. While I haven't quite caught up to his accumulated profits over the years, I'm at least earning more now. I'm generating income even before retirement, and my retirement fund has experienced remarkable growth compared to what it would have with just the 401(k). It's quite amusing.
@lilyhershey1
@lilyhershey1 8 ай бұрын
It's regrettable that many individuals lack access to such insights. I understand why people might become anxious. Insufficient information can indeed pose significant challenges. Personally, I've been able to generate over $25k passively simply by investing through an advisor, and the best part is, I don't need to exert much effort. Regardless of economic fluctuations, skilled wealth managers consistently deliver returns.
@louie-rose7
@louie-rose7 8 ай бұрын
​ *@kristenpierce8661* Could you guide me on how to get in touch with your advisor? My funds are being eroded by inflation, and I'm seeking a more lucrative investment strategy to effectively utilize them.
@lilyhershey1
@lilyhershey1 8 ай бұрын
Do your homework and choose one that has strategies to help your portfolio grow consistently and steadily. ‘’Camille Alicia Garcia” is responsible for the success of my portfolio, and I believe she possesses the qualifications and expertise to meet your goals.
@louie-rose7
@louie-rose7 8 ай бұрын
I've taken the initiative to research Camille Alicia Garcia online and verify her credentials. I'm impressed with her expertise, and I've reached out to her to share my financial market goals in detail.
@Ayztee23
@Ayztee23 11 ай бұрын
Workout and never stop. You will feel better, look better and more importantly move better as you age.
@erdevon3257
@erdevon3257 Жыл бұрын
Staying fit,healthy and flexible is the priority
@M_SC
@M_SC Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you neglect your kids emotionally
@lostcrouton5342
@lostcrouton5342 Жыл бұрын
@@M_SC how did you even jump to that conclusion?
@maureennjerin.5552
@maureennjerin.5552 Жыл бұрын
​@@M_SC 😂😂😂😂 are you having a different conversation?
@manny57
@manny57 Жыл бұрын
@@M_SC I think you may be a Bot, that's programmed to say that line to 1000s of people who mentions "fit and healthy"
@Gary_Winthorpe
@Gary_Winthorpe 11 ай бұрын
@@M_SCsounds like you 💨 your dad
@ephermallove
@ephermallove Жыл бұрын
My father passed away at 42. He suddenly was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer at age 40. He was the rock of our family and was in the mindset that he needed to work constantly to provide for the family-sometimes 60-70 hour weeks. In his final years, he finally was able to slow down and he said that was the “happiest he’s ever been.” Don’t forget to enjoy the moments, friends, and especially your family.
@kirerunte1046
@kirerunte1046 Жыл бұрын
Yup not working is great so that's what I prioritize, enjoy the depopulation and collapse since work doesn't pay a basic living anymore cuz I'm not killing myself for money that doesn't buy the basics anymore
@ResistanceQuest
@ResistanceQuest Жыл бұрын
Wow that messed up. I'm sorry for your loss 💜 I lost my dad when he was 54. I hope he was happy; he was a little bit of the quiet type. Be well :)
@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894
@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ prays
@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894
@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894 Жыл бұрын
Tomorrow not guaranteed to anyone
@god563616
@god563616 Жыл бұрын
My Dad died at that age too
@GlobalAdventurer
@GlobalAdventurer 10 ай бұрын
Money actually means nothing the older you get. Health is #1 and Experiences.
@iks9120
@iks9120 5 ай бұрын
Oh it means a lot. Just try to be old and without money at the same time. You actually can survive and be enough well with not much money in your younger days..because you have better health then, more strength,much more job opportunities and chances. When you are old, all you have is what you made Till then and yourself.
@GlobalAdventurer
@GlobalAdventurer 5 ай бұрын
@@iks9120 The older you get you should have a retirement account and not be working. And health insurance. That's why I said your health is #1 not money.
@enneaf1676
@enneaf1676 5 ай бұрын
I love all this bs over money as though the lot of you would not lose your minds the second a government collapses under its own weight. I asked people at xmas dinner what they would do if banks, politicians, and government evaporated tomorrow (which would mean their retirement as well, since that is all done through government stuff) and all I got was an awkward silence
@HankNarrowUrethra
@HankNarrowUrethra 4 ай бұрын
...probably because they were trying to enjoy Xmas dinner!@@enneaf1676
@khairiyusoff5040
@khairiyusoff5040 4 ай бұрын
try poor
@Ioana850
@Ioana850 11 ай бұрын
44 here! I’m living my best years. Kids are grownups and me and my husband enjoy life. Sacrificing over the years and the hard working has payed off.
@steventoms7940
@steventoms7940 Жыл бұрын
45 and feeling a lot healthier and centred than when I was in my 20s
@genghischan69
@genghischan69 Жыл бұрын
I hope I'll have the same to say when I'm 45.
@timesseven589
@timesseven589 Жыл бұрын
can you give some advice how you become healthier than when your at 20s
@steventoms7940
@steventoms7940 Жыл бұрын
@@timesseven589 don’t smoke weed/tobacco, eat nutritious food, don’t drink much at all, practice yoga every day. Have an active job.
@davidserlin8097
@davidserlin8097 Жыл бұрын
💯
@mariadominguez116
@mariadominguez116 Жыл бұрын
Enjoy every day. Im 44 and I have no idea how fast the years went. 😢
@bogrunberger
@bogrunberger Жыл бұрын
So true. It seems like just a few years ago I celebrated the new millenium and graduated high school. I can't believe it when I see young adults that were born after 2000 - it just blows my mind.
@michael7286
@michael7286 Жыл бұрын
Time goes by so fast but at 44 you are still VERY YOUNG.
@Jadetarot_45love
@Jadetarot_45love Жыл бұрын
Me too girl! What month were you born? I was October
@bradnadeau6553
@bradnadeau6553 Жыл бұрын
I’m 44. I wish I didn’t buy into the hype of home ownership and new cars so early. I should have spent my 20’s living more.
@millevenon5853
@millevenon5853 Жыл бұрын
Did you ride the cock carousel?
@readpoetssociety219
@readpoetssociety219 Жыл бұрын
47 and now harvesting 25 yrs of work. Time flies.
@kidz9998
@kidz9998 10 ай бұрын
TIME! One thing you can never get back. That’s why you spend it wisely.
@BobbyMcGee_2023
@BobbyMcGee_2023 Жыл бұрын
I am in my mid 40's and the advice I would give a young person is save your money and prioritize trying to retire as early as possible. Nothing else is worth it. Try to escape the rat race as soon as you can. That's all that matters. Trust me on this.
@iam_topg
@iam_topg Жыл бұрын
26 here, thanks for these words i really needed it 💕 this is exactly my thoughts
@jammie2475
@jammie2475 Жыл бұрын
Wish i had known this. I started investing last year and i'm 39. I'm afraid of how late i'm going to have to work before i retire. If i had known what i know now, I would have hopped on that FIRE movement.
@artugert
@artugert Жыл бұрын
That does matter, but there are things that matter MUCH more than that. You will die some day. At that time, you won't give a crap when you retired.
@GoldKingsMan
@GoldKingsMan Жыл бұрын
43 here, and agree with this statement.Stay on your grind gents!
@amorepsyche808
@amorepsyche808 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely with you, the rat race is tge worst
@omariparker3769
@omariparker3769 Жыл бұрын
I’m 41 and have the same energy as when I was 21. Less time to do stuff, sure, but I have more money. It’s not as exhausting as he says.
@chineloblessed4628
@chineloblessed4628 Жыл бұрын
Ditto
@steveh5307
@steveh5307 Жыл бұрын
It all depends. You may not be that busy but he obviously is. Many people are in their prime earning years and hold senior positions in their career. There's a lot to do. A college buddy is a VP at a company. Another is a Sr Manager. Another is an attorney. They're all extremely busy and exhausted. I'm just a Sr Engineer and luckily, I'm not that married to my job. Maybe 45-50 hours a week. It all depends by person how exhausting their life is. Heck, some of my friends aren't busy at all. They're unemployed. LMAO
@sandyny
@sandyny Жыл бұрын
Everyone is different man
@simasoumi5551
@simasoumi5551 Жыл бұрын
It depends how busy you are not everyone isbthe same, but at 40 usually someone is at a well paid career position but has to manage things at work and most probably a parent...so deffy more hectic then a life of a 20 year old..m
@arlenparker5138
@arlenparker5138 Жыл бұрын
you have to take care of youself more and prioritize nutrition.
@moshicute2201
@moshicute2201 11 ай бұрын
I'm 40..., and I think money is way more important than "friends". People leave me when I hit the lowest level in my life. I have to fight and survive alone for myself. Money is my only security since I have no one. I even give up social media and use a little of my spare time scrolling on KZfaq and Tictoc. I wonder how it feels to be financially free like him....
@user-ki2ft6ot6v
@user-ki2ft6ot6v 10 ай бұрын
Thats true
@Ozmni11
@Ozmni11 8 ай бұрын
Same, I'm mid forties and my advice to me in my 20s would be save your money. Surround yourself with people that make you happy and appreciate you. Don't try to fit in or worry about hurting others because nobody worries about hurting you. Also, avoid stimulants like a bad plague.
@SIB_COMEDY
@SIB_COMEDY Жыл бұрын
About to turn 45, and realizing that if I'm lucky I'm at the midpoint of my life already, and that it's time to make my dreams and passions happen, without giving a damn what anyone else thinks.
@MrMoG2030
@MrMoG2030 Жыл бұрын
I feel u Mark. I'm in my mid 40s as well and I feel like it's now or never with going after my dreams....no more excuses and no more explaining myself to anyone.
@PjORourkeflyelyfe
@PjORourkeflyelyfe Жыл бұрын
I decided this at 25, 11 years ago. Cheers to all gents who take risks and go for it!
@almondjoy112
@almondjoy112 Жыл бұрын
Get at it
@jackedkerouac4414
@jackedkerouac4414 Жыл бұрын
Well said. Started a business at 47 and I don’t count the others since this time money is incidental to doing something I love not the other way around
@swiftkarma4436
@swiftkarma4436 Жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly I'm 45 also
@ASMRyouVEGANyet
@ASMRyouVEGANyet Жыл бұрын
People in their 20s typically don't prioritize their health and take their healthy bodies for granted.
@IamRocque
@IamRocque 11 күн бұрын
I’m on the opposite side of that. I prioritize my health and so forth on because I want to at least live a long life. I am worried about retirement and etc because it’s not easy to save anymore like it was for past groups.
@jpete3027666
@jpete3027666 Жыл бұрын
This guy says he feels exhausted. I’m 44 and I honestly feel better physically now that I did in my 20s.
@bubediscuss
@bubediscuss 26 күн бұрын
Yeah, no disrespect to this guy but it doesn't look like he's got his nutrition dialed in, which is literally night and day for energy levels and mental fitness
@morisn
@morisn Жыл бұрын
When I was 42 over a decade ago, I thought I was already old. I see this man and I now think he's a young man. How relative life can be. PD: he has actually more white hair than me.
@mypersonaltestgia2704
@mypersonaltestgia2704 Жыл бұрын
😅
@ztkrx
@ztkrx Жыл бұрын
ha ha, me too. l’m 52 and have none, it makes a person look old before their time.
@davidaustin902
@davidaustin902 Жыл бұрын
I'm 40 and this guy said exactly what I would have said.
@user-ke5kw4lg6l
@user-ke5kw4lg6l Жыл бұрын
Me too
@gardeningandtruecrime8504
@gardeningandtruecrime8504 Жыл бұрын
Exhausted 32 year old married mum here.
@Biggest5
@Biggest5 Жыл бұрын
@@gardeningandtruecrime8504 keep going now u have your kid to live for as well. Good luck💚
@m.ta.r.6443
@m.ta.r.6443 Жыл бұрын
Just turned 38 on the 3rd and This puberty crap is just always gonna hurt. I wonder when it stops for most people.
@takezomiyamoto1390
@takezomiyamoto1390 Жыл бұрын
im 41 and I do not agree with that at all
@rolsonDotcom
@rolsonDotcom Жыл бұрын
I'm turning 50 in a week. This gentleman is right on the money about TIME. Don't waste it. You never get it back. You don't have all the time in the world. The work you put in today in your 20's and 30's will reap rewards when you hit your 40's, 50's and 60's. Also...you're never too old to make a change in your life. Work hard and never give up.
@HarmeetSinghBrarOfficial
@HarmeetSinghBrarOfficial Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this ❤
@vegetossgss1114
@vegetossgss1114 Жыл бұрын
4 days work week !
@thetruth1167
@thetruth1167 28 күн бұрын
I agree with this guy apart from i think money is still very important but he's right when it comes to 40s being miserable no energy, no time and endless stress
@casuallyceltic
@casuallyceltic 9 ай бұрын
Man, I wanna live in whatever world he's living it where money isn't important.
@dustincartie3502
@dustincartie3502 Жыл бұрын
I’m 40 and in my prime. It’s all a mindset. Power of the mind is phenomenal
@nweeezy
@nweeezy Жыл бұрын
yeah I'm around there and sometimes I am straight lusted over by the opposite sex and that RARELY happened in my teens/early 20s Yes, you are right - internal dialogue is key
@roberthart3989
@roberthart3989 Жыл бұрын
@@nweeezy This is so positive and nice thank you, I'm feeling crazy most of the time because I'm not where I want to be right now but actually you have a point
@Owyourhurtingme
@Owyourhurtingme Жыл бұрын
If I had to pick an age to be for the rest of my life it would be 40. The best age.
@schmingusss
@schmingusss Жыл бұрын
@@nweeezy They want you now because you are more financially secure. That's all. They'd still rather have sex with guys ten years younger than you.
@nweeezy
@nweeezy Жыл бұрын
@@schmingusss A stranger doesn't know how "financially secure" I am when I dress like a bum and keep to myself....you are referring to attraction, I mentioned *lust* (quite intentionally, i might add...)
@artkidolee2162
@artkidolee2162 Жыл бұрын
I realised money is VERY important in my 40’s. Maybe this will change when I get older
@TM-173
@TM-173 Жыл бұрын
that's bc Biden took over and inflation is the highest in 40+years
@HotShotsDynamo
@HotShotsDynamo Жыл бұрын
It’s really important until it’s not (when you reach a threshold)
@cameliap1146
@cameliap1146 Жыл бұрын
It's always important till you have enough to be confortable and secure.
@pacifist1360
@pacifist1360 10 ай бұрын
Like my yoga teacher once said, "the most important thing you can do in life is to love and take care of yourself so that you can love and take care of others". Because if you don't respect yourself how are you going to respect other people? And always of course try to find the positives and embrace them, super important one as well.
@aestheticman2662
@aestheticman2662 11 ай бұрын
I am 66 and can confidently say from my own experience that whatever this 42 year old dude says is EXACTLY right Nothing less. However, as you get "younger" -- toward 60s - everything will turn to normal and you will not feel that your age is "exhausting" anymore. God bless!
@missgui4400
@missgui4400 10 ай бұрын
It’s okay to age.
@mr.bluenotedoobop
@mr.bluenotedoobop Жыл бұрын
I just turned 41 and I’m in the best shape of my life and I also prioritized how I work out, eat and just general self care. I realized I’m also in the best shape vs my 30’s and 20’s because I also prioritized my mental health. Even though I always took care of myself physically starting in my mid 20’s, I never took care of my mental health until my late 30’s. I always felt like I was running empty, workaholic who was always “grinding”, but all I was doing was always running myself into the ground and it was difficult to prioritize things I loved to do and people I wanted to be with. Work hard people, but def set aside time for things you love to do and people you care about.
@anaz5918
@anaz5918 Жыл бұрын
Everyone is different not many people have choices of having a balance life especially when it comes to work or personal problems like taking care of a family member. While I do take care of my health and I still try to workout 4/5 times a week I don’t judge people who don’t because you never know what they are dealing with on their every day life .
@antispiritanimal3467
@antispiritanimal3467 Жыл бұрын
I'm interested, could you specify what you mean by taking care of your mental health? I'm 23 and I think and reflect alot on my mental health but I don't do therapy or something. What has done the trick for you?
@mr.bluenotedoobop
@mr.bluenotedoobop Жыл бұрын
@@anaz5918 100% I find that it's easy to judge people, but realistically you never really know what someone is going through unless you really know them extremely well. One thing people can use more of is kindness.
@justinwmusic
@justinwmusic Жыл бұрын
Everybody has a different list of regrets depending on the choices they made
@Aggie4life77
@Aggie4life77 6 ай бұрын
Very true!
@florencedaniel2007
@florencedaniel2007 10 ай бұрын
Thank goodness you brought this up! Truly, investing has changed my perspective on how one can succeed in life; working multiple jobs isn't the optimal way to attain financial freedom and unfortunately, we discover this later in life. Currently earn as much as 10 grand weekly and this has improved my financial life. Great piece!😊😊..
@florencedaniel2007
@florencedaniel2007 10 ай бұрын
I would recommend you get started with a professional broker that will guide you through the process and trade for you while you get the daily profit and rewards.
@RodolfoNelson-sx1ck
@RodolfoNelson-sx1ck 10 ай бұрын
Do you mind sharing info on the adviser who assisted you? I'm 39 now and would love to grow my portfolio and plan my retirement
@florencedaniel2007
@florencedaniel2007 10 ай бұрын
Francesca Wilson Financial is my portfolio-coach, I found her on CNBC where she was interviewed, I looked up her name on the internet. Fortunately I came across her site and reached out to her, you can verify her yourself.
@Jayden12934
@Jayden12934 10 ай бұрын
Making a 100 grand in passive most be one of the best feelings you had in a long while. You must be glad you requested for her services .
@mariancounsellor
@mariancounsellor Жыл бұрын
I’m in my 40’s and loving life! I actually felt more exhausted when I was in my 20’s not physically but emotionally.
@kayflip2233
@kayflip2233 Жыл бұрын
I'm 42 and tremendously enjoyed my life, primarily because I have loved ones around me and have been a remote worker for 20 years. I travel around the world for several months out of the year and have had a lot of adventures that wouldn't have been possible in any other era unless you were super wealthy. I feel lucky and look forward to the next 20 years of travel and seeing my kid grow up.
@maggiepp7997
@maggiepp7997 Жыл бұрын
Hey, can I ask you what do you do for living that you can work remotely ?
@Jennilovesmakeup82
@Jennilovesmakeup82 Жыл бұрын
Im 40. Prioritize your dreams and passions. Don't worry about what others think of you....if you love what you do then do it. Prioritize your health and mental well being. Enjoy nature, family, friends. Save money. Improve humanity. Spread kindness and empathy. Smile and help eachother. Be yourself and be proud of who you are. You are beautiful ❤
@AmanSingh-xb5bn
@AmanSingh-xb5bn Жыл бұрын
Appreciated..
@Filthy_Larry
@Filthy_Larry Жыл бұрын
I’m 41. I live to smoke pot. Been doing it since I was 17. I work a good job and make good money. Weed is finally legal in my state and now I just keep smoking and playing video games.
@Hariz111
@Hariz111 Жыл бұрын
A very crisp insight of the life by this man, which many so called influencers have trouble finding the right word to put it in to perspective
@DLFfitness1
@DLFfitness1 9 ай бұрын
He sounds very self aware. So many are masters of self delusions these days.
@iFryTube
@iFryTube 2 ай бұрын
Or some people just live better lives than you could possibly ever imagine because you are incapable of living your life to the fullest.
@brendanwilliams8235
@brendanwilliams8235 Жыл бұрын
Guys in their 20s are going around asking people in their 30s and 40s questions as if they're 103
@kirerunte1046
@kirerunte1046 Жыл бұрын
Because the 103 year old boomer destroyed his kids financial future so who cares what they think?
@ResistanceQuest
@ResistanceQuest Жыл бұрын
I think it's still important though. 40 *is* like 70 to younger people
@Sunshine-lo6vd
@Sunshine-lo6vd Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 pretty much 😂
@mysterious7092
@mysterious7092 Жыл бұрын
​@@kirerunte1046boomers are in the age of 70s & 80s he's not a boomer.
@Sankara561
@Sankara561 Жыл бұрын
I know, like "Tell me O wise elder"
@kimbaa.g.4038
@kimbaa.g.4038 Жыл бұрын
I’m Female, 35, and thriving… I eat well, workout, Married, no kids, good job, I invest and spend my money on travel not material things. I hate drama and enjoy the simple things … So young people don’t fret just make good choices
@greenytaddict
@greenytaddict Жыл бұрын
Same, just turned 35 and learning to appreciate things I didn't when I was younger.
@StardustDNA
@StardustDNA 10 ай бұрын
Not just time, but health is important too. You find that out for sure.
@Thegingerbreadm4n
@Thegingerbreadm4n 5 ай бұрын
The problem is not everyone believes in the science which explains the health… For example my parents don’t know that dumping paint thinner into the ground next to your well (your main water source) can pollute it and affect your health… they also don’t believe black mold is deadly and that spores don’t exist… you can’t inhale spores… etc. Just knowing that is what my college educated and former gov employee boomer parents believe… I can’t imagine what uneducated parents would believe.
@saijanaswamy7210
@saijanaswamy7210 11 ай бұрын
Money IS impt. The number of times i lost sleep or cried myself to sleep worried sick abt not having enough, not having any money, "do i have money for food"? "Can i keep roof over my head?" Money is also what allows you luxury, being able to take care of you, travel (if that's what you want)
@MariaAyersCoaching
@MariaAyersCoaching Жыл бұрын
I'm 43 and not exhausted. It's all about preventative maintenance. Always have an exercise routine, always prioritize self care, always spend time in nature. If you do these things, and don't spend your free time in front of a television, you will feel younger longer.
@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894
@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894 Жыл бұрын
You can not abuse your body and expect it to last. Also listen to your body see doctors
@puhistagram
@puhistagram Жыл бұрын
He said he is working all the time, not watching TV. He is a man.
@graduke1
@graduke1 Жыл бұрын
I felt very strong at 40 but late 40s there definitely is a drip off in your physical capabilities even as a fairly active fit guy. However, a fit 40 is better than a heavy drinking no exercise guy in their 20s or thirties.😅
@johnconde8837
@johnconde8837 Жыл бұрын
I am 54 always take care of your body health is the most important , nothing else matters if you are not healthy. Always put family and real friends first jobs will come and go , stay away from that material life it drains you .
@mineandmine4528
@mineandmine4528 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the wisdom. 😊
@Journeestothesmokeymoon
@Journeestothesmokeymoon Жыл бұрын
A fellow 1968er. I am sitting on my couch after major surgery after having cancer scraped out of me and some parts taken out. I was working out twice a day before they found the 13.5 tumor. Always outside with the dogs....I was feeling weaker and having more pain than normal. But I didn't think it was cancer. My advice to women or those who love women....ovarian cancer is a silent killer. Just because you go in for your woman check does not mean that they are going to find ovarian cancer. It's hard to detect until the last stages. Bloating, gas and other problems are signs of ovarian cancer. I'm not sure what I could have done differently at this point other than recognizing signs something is wrong....happy 2023 everyone.
@melmac3464
@melmac3464 Ай бұрын
RIGHT ITS EXHAUSTING 😫 I'm terrified to see how draining anything older than this is ...
@sallyb871
@sallyb871 26 күн бұрын
I'll tell you it's utterly exhausting.
@AJayQDR
@AJayQDR 11 ай бұрын
I am 44, healthy, good career, house, happy family, 2 good kids… my advice to younger people is don’t listen to anybody who tells you enjoy yourself and live in the moment. Teach yourself discipline, be good to your family and relatives, make good friends, stay away from negative and toxic people specially the opposite sex, always learn, always remember you are just starting your life and anything you do has a potential to create a habit that will stay with you for the rest of your life, create good habits.
@46FreddieMercury91
@46FreddieMercury91 Жыл бұрын
In my teens and twenties I was sprinting. The years have gone by and I realise life is actually a marathon. Time is the great leveller for us all
@canchero724
@canchero724 Жыл бұрын
Death comes for us all. Thank fuck for death. But until then, enjoy life
@mrmurphy895
@mrmurphy895 Жыл бұрын
I like this analogy. I’m 37 now and feel like that moment where you’ve been sprinting for a long time and realise you need to change pace.
@Eclass96
@Eclass96 Жыл бұрын
💯%
@Rjcuatrocinco
@Rjcuatrocinco Жыл бұрын
Realizing this in my early 30s
@cincereqoutes8844
@cincereqoutes8844 Жыл бұрын
@@Rjcuatrocinco realized this in my 20s. I dont want to get to my 30s too fast. I want to slow down and enjoy time now.
@Nines_Rodriguez
@Nines_Rodriguez Жыл бұрын
I am 49, doing Martial Arts and reading books like hell. I feel far better than when I was 20.
@lionelgrisbane-ud87
@lionelgrisbane-ud87 Жыл бұрын
Keep telling yourself that my brother
@theworldisimmense
@theworldisimmense Жыл бұрын
@@lionelgrisbane-ud87 im 29 about to be 30 in a couple of months and I definitely believe him. If I had the chance to go back being 18-22 again I Wouldn’t but I’ll definitely take 24/25 again.
@user-bl1ds6cj8t
@user-bl1ds6cj8t 11 ай бұрын
Wow, i am 49 too and totally tired
@dena264
@dena264 27 күн бұрын
Any book recommendations? :)
@Nines_Rodriguez
@Nines_Rodriguez 27 күн бұрын
@@dena264 Depends of the genres you are interested in.
@User_me_1509
@User_me_1509 10 ай бұрын
I think exactly opposite in terms of priority. When I was in 20s I thought money is not important, now I think it’s the most important for your family and life.
@SXLEOPARDSKINNED
@SXLEOPARDSKINNED 10 ай бұрын
It’s so fucking true what he say guys pls pls listen to him. & follow your heart ❤
@scott7521
@scott7521 Жыл бұрын
I turn 50 in 12 days and can't believe it's finally here. That being said I do a lot more and appreciate a lot more now than ever. I eat really well, I don't drink and my life is definitely not as chaotic as it once was. There's more of a peacefulness at times and I feel like I have less to prove. A quiet life is not a bad thing.
@hopeisit1347
@hopeisit1347 Жыл бұрын
I’m 42 and still have no clue what career to follow..Would lover something that I didn’t have to work with people
@pippo1785
@pippo1785 Жыл бұрын
It’s not a easy burden finding a work you love I think it’s the thing that will give you more peace of mind in your life I’m in that search still at 38
@abbyc.4215
@abbyc.4215 Жыл бұрын
You have to pick one that meets your basic needs, allows you to save, and one that enables you to do some (not all) of the things that you want. I'm a foreign language teacher in the states of all places, and while I don't always love my job, I do love that it allows me to be able to save over 20k annually (single, no children) and spend my summers travelling throughout Europe and Latin America. Yes, I deal with disrespect and extreme immaturity from my students, but I do find some joy in it as well. My advice would be to not look for fulfillment through your job/ career, rather use your job/ career to be able to do the things that you love and are passionate about. Wishing you the best!
@hopeisit1347
@hopeisit1347 Жыл бұрын
@@abbyc.4215 thank you so much for your advice…It’s the backstabbing and rude work colleague that gets me down
@eyespy3001
@eyespy3001 Жыл бұрын
@@hopeisit1347 To put it bluntly- leave. Quit that job if it’s a bad work environment. There’s no shame in leaving a job that’s bad for your mental health. Hell, you don’t even need to find a different career or better job. A lateral move to the same job, but at a different company or location, could vastly improve your life by getting you out of a toxic environment and negative mental state. Not only will you feel empowered by having freed yourself from a shitty situation, a change of scenery may lead to new opportunities. From my own personal experience, I left one job I was at for a decade, where I thought I was happy and had friends. Little did I know I was actually languishing at a place that was incredibly toxic in terms of people. I got out of there and took a similar job somewhere else (two places, actually), and I met some of the best friends and mentors that I still have to this day. I have learned and grown so much after leaving that toxic job. The moral of the story: you have the power to leave and improve your life. Go do it
@hopeisit1347
@hopeisit1347 Жыл бұрын
@@eyespy3001 Thanks for your reply..The unfortunate problem is that it’s healthcare I work in as a radiographer and I have moved three times and it’s exactly the same in each hospital…Honestly it’s terrible and the worst of it is the women, they are so bitchy and rude
@shahnawazalam9571
@shahnawazalam9571 11 ай бұрын
This is our time on the planet, so make it worth ❤
@lenwoodturneriv6169
@lenwoodturneriv6169 5 ай бұрын
So far, my 40's have been the best. It's not so much that 'things;' have changed, but how I see them and the way I feel about them has changed. My 40's feel 'old enough to know better, but still young enough to act on it'.
@MalluStyleMultiMedia
@MalluStyleMultiMedia Жыл бұрын
When I was in my early 30s, I took almost 3 years off from work and enjoyed my time. It was a good experience.
@joaofrederico7361
@joaofrederico7361 Жыл бұрын
But how did you survive?
@MalluStyleMultiMedia
@MalluStyleMultiMedia Жыл бұрын
@@joaofrederico7361 I had a rental property and I lived overseas. Stretched that dollar.
@ictechpro9192
@ictechpro9192 Жыл бұрын
That’s awesome!
@RamjiRao_Listening
@RamjiRao_Listening Жыл бұрын
Machane. Kuuy. Nattil evideya ? Me from maapranam . Jai beva rage 😎👍🤓
@MalluStyleMultiMedia
@MalluStyleMultiMedia Жыл бұрын
@@RamjiRao_Listening 😂😁 njan 10 🐘 place … manasilayo?
@gascon861
@gascon861 Жыл бұрын
This is a nice series, I enjoy hearing other people's take on life through their experience
@sylvialupehernandez9154
@sylvialupehernandez9154 Жыл бұрын
How old are you?
@user-xi8qj1sj2l
@user-xi8qj1sj2l 11 ай бұрын
time is more important than money when you are young ❤
@sarahdoanpeace3623
@sarahdoanpeace3623 Жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more. Feeling this at 39
@phamtrip
@phamtrip Жыл бұрын
Same here thank you...cheers from Vietnam
@firstnamelastname8217
@firstnamelastname8217 Жыл бұрын
I'm 45, on my next birthday I will be 46. Thank you for attending my TED Talk.
@MZ99698
@MZ99698 Жыл бұрын
Fascinating stuff
@cinemaximum5654
@cinemaximum5654 Жыл бұрын
Your Ted talk is like a fine wine
@evil_seagull
@evil_seagull Жыл бұрын
I'm 40 and I'd say definitely prioritize money, you're going to need it.
@Kenny-Ross
@Kenny-Ross Жыл бұрын
Yes! Prioritize money. Then once that's taken care of then you can move on and focus on a relationship. You'll have more peace of mind.
@unclefester831
@unclefester831 Жыл бұрын
FACTS💯%
@dmsjt5181
@dmsjt5181 Жыл бұрын
I think he’s referring to thinking money will solve all your problems, chasing a dream of having a certain size house, cars, etc. If you make smart decisions with your money and can live below your means, you’ll do great. But the reality is most people aren’t actually using money to accomplish the things they really want or would really make them happy.
@margottfon330
@margottfon330 Жыл бұрын
​@@dmsjt5181 and the absence of mony will create all the problems you listed. Old and with no money... wohaaa... you would agree that this aspect should be going uphill, not downhill, wouldn't you..
@margottfon330
@margottfon330 Жыл бұрын
Yes, despite time is more than money, it includes money AND further down the road one will need more of it...
@th1s1kat
@th1s1kat 3 ай бұрын
I’m 41 and I am really starting to feel like i got the hang of things. Looking back, i can’t believe I survived my 20’s and 30’s and i’m glad those years are over. 40’s are great!
@PancitSuperstar
@PancitSuperstar 7 ай бұрын
Being in the early forties is a hard pill to swallow...though I highly appreciate video confessions about it, like this one.
@Wanderlust073
@Wanderlust073 Жыл бұрын
Stay fit, and make sure you’re doing something with every minute (work, fun, learning, etc - never idle). The good and the bad gets amplified in the 20 yrs between 20 and 40. Make good choices that benefit you later and don’t leave you run down, tired and filled with regret.
@likewise4Gaming
@likewise4Gaming Жыл бұрын
I’m 47 and this poor guy is making me feel like my life is over. 😂
@ronnierahman8543
@ronnierahman8543 Жыл бұрын
😂
@Gforu81
@Gforu81 Жыл бұрын
Same
@OnPointFirearms
@OnPointFirearms Жыл бұрын
You're doing fine with your David Goggins lookin' ass. ;)
@Batony
@Batony Жыл бұрын
Lol
@vinuthaize1
@vinuthaize1 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@TheChrisvining
@TheChrisvining 9 ай бұрын
The same guy who says don’t prioritize money and do prioritize your time says he is working ‘all the time’..
@javiismael1480
@javiismael1480 Жыл бұрын
I’ll be 40 this year and I cannot cannot emphasis this to young people, save money, work harder and smarter then you’re doing now. Pay attention in school, college and university and get a degree which matters. I didn’t even go uni and I’m working along side people with degrees, it took me a while to get here based on experience but had I got a degree when I young, I’ll be way higher then what I’m today. But I’ve been there done it and now I can only advice young people.
@efrainquevedo6148
@efrainquevedo6148 Жыл бұрын
A lot of these people say the same thing. "Take your time" or "relax"... I feel it.
@monotheistAli
@monotheistAli Жыл бұрын
Yeah
@itsisk2043
@itsisk2043 Жыл бұрын
Stress = heart attacks and many other negative things.
@flowertree2732
@flowertree2732 Жыл бұрын
I’m 41 years young and I still feel quite young. So teach its own,we are all different. Tired yes some days but I was tired somedays in my 20s/30s too. Age is such a perspective thing. Also I really try to take care of my mind/body/soul. I feel blessed and try to wake up with a grateful heart everyday. I say🦋I made it another day. Definitely don’t try to people please anymore. As well accept myself wrinkles/ cellulite all superficial things I think my body is amazing for what it does not what it looks like. Until the day I die I will keep trying to be best version of myself/ keep learning/ keep experiencing new things/ being silly and just try to enjoy the gift of life without paying much attention to the nonsense that some humans put in the world. Ex nay on drama and toxic negative garbage! ☮️ ❤
@MotorolaGuy
@MotorolaGuy Жыл бұрын
If you want to experience new things watch the film Level2021
@elsie9434
@elsie9434 Жыл бұрын
45 young thanks to Jesus Christ This is me every day thank you for sharing this::: this is the truth ppl @flowertree is blessed with wisdom and discernment 👌🏾👏🏽❤️🙏
@U4sweat
@U4sweat 3 ай бұрын
he is absolutely right. immortal, invincible.. and not living in the moment. we learn about that in our 40s no doubt.
@AnteMeridiem11
@AnteMeridiem11 10 ай бұрын
I am 41. And my advice to my younger self would be to find your real passion (which is not illegal/immoral of course) even if the society says that will earn you less money. Stay true to yourself and give life your best shot.
@commentarytalk1446
@commentarytalk1446 10 ай бұрын
Agree 100% with this. It's hard if you don't have opportunity to try things in childhood and then are forced to make money to survive, but if one can learn what sort of thing you wake up each morning and say "I want to do this/enjoy doing this!" then you're living every precious day and youth are the best quality days of your life due to the body's natural vitality then. I think it's also easier to build a happier future from that basis too.
@thedslist7787
@thedslist7787 Жыл бұрын
Iam 45 and will retire in 4 years o have a 2 year old daughter and life has been great I don't feel old and I take it one day at a time
@elizabethwall8063
@elizabethwall8063 Жыл бұрын
I’m 46 and so far really enjoying my 40s. Except for some muscle soreness when I wake up, I feel great. Around the time I turned 40, I became truly aware of how short and precious life is, and I started to take much better care of my body and mind. Now I’m much healthier than I ever was in my 20s and 30s, and I’m so much calmer, more centered, and happier. I have also completely stopped caring about what people think about me (which is extremely freeing!) and I feel more motivated than ever to pursue my goals and dreams. My kids are older now and much more self-sufficient, and although I loved having little kids, life is a whole lot more relaxed now. The 40s are great!
@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894
@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894 Жыл бұрын
The little you loose in your body the more you gain in wisdom
@ilmarinen79
@ilmarinen79 Жыл бұрын
Nice!!
@mcculler50
@mcculler50 Жыл бұрын
He hit it On the nose ✨🫶🏽 we understand as our time is about to be up all that hard work (modern day slavery no matter what color you r when it come to the work field) it’s not worth it you lose so much to gain things you can’t take with you at 41 I thought all that material stuff mattered my time family peace and joy is what matters the most. I would like to die in peace not in should of could of… peace and light to this man 🙏🏽✨🌸 May he get some rest ✨
@davidfischer1971
@davidfischer1971 Жыл бұрын
thanks for this channel. makes me appreciate life in a way i did not before.
@jasoncarson369
@jasoncarson369 Жыл бұрын
I'm 45 and I feel more invincible now than I did in my 20's. Life is all about perspective. Tell yourself that you're limitless and you will be. Tell yourself that you're exhausted and you will be. Simple as that 🤷
@vegetossgss1114
@vegetossgss1114 Жыл бұрын
4 DAYS WORK WEEK FOR A BETTER WORK PERSONAL LIFE BALANCE!
@Prince-lo3nz
@Prince-lo3nz Жыл бұрын
You can also live in self denial
@jasoncarson369
@jasoncarson369 Жыл бұрын
@Prince yea go for it 🤷
@ultramaleX
@ultramaleX Жыл бұрын
Preach!!!!!!
@sperez3275
@sperez3275 Жыл бұрын
@@hhjhj393love that. Any tips? For constantly improving, but keeping workload (or at least stress) small?
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