The Holiday - Iris: "I know how you feel"

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The Holiday (2006) - Heartbroken and needing a change of scenery to "get away from it all", total strangers Iris (Kate Winslet) and Amanda (Cameron Diaz) agree to switch their living environments with one another. Iris moves from London to L.A. to live in Amanda's home while Amanda moves from L.A. to London into Iris's home.
Director: Nancy Meyers
cast: Kate Winslet, Cameron Diaz, Jude Law, Jack Black
The Holiday (c) 2006 Columbia Pictures, Universal Pictures, Relativity Media
IMDB: www.imdb.com/title/tt0457939/
music: "Iris and Jasper" by Hans Zimmer & Hollywood Studio Symphony (OST)
(c) 2006 Columbia Pictures Industries Inc.
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@persianwolf4915 Жыл бұрын

This was definitely an Oscar winning performance for Kate Winslet. We can all relate to her pain and story.

@kellypond7377 Жыл бұрын

I can I was in love with a guy at my work. We worked at a nursing home. But he was getting married. The day after the wedding the bride brings in the wedding DVD for all of us watch but I couldn't it just broke my heart😢😥

@interestedparty3159 Жыл бұрын

For sure!

@JFadel 8 ай бұрын

She’s been snubbed way too many times!!!

@ILoveJapan28A 7 ай бұрын

Agreed I loved her in this definitely my favorite role of hers so relatable

@SarahBeth9811 6 ай бұрын

Definitely ❤

@sweetheart037 8 жыл бұрын

I always skip to the parts with Iris because her story is so relatable and I really feel her pain

@asteven8 7 жыл бұрын

AJ N My thoughts exactly!

@avinvkn7896 6 жыл бұрын

Me aswell

@hothotheat3000 4 жыл бұрын

Cameron Diaz is a vapid idiot in this movie. Should’ve been all Iris.

@alking7655 4 жыл бұрын

, I believe, if anything, her storyline is more about the initial rage you can feel when you've been betrayed and how you immediately want to get out of the situation. Cameron is the catalyst in the story that pushes the story into its initial drive. Iris is about the pain you feel from a manipulative one because the pain is caused by someone she genuinely loved, even if he didn't love her in return. The toxicity is that it weirdly can make you love them more. As she says at the start of the film "The ones handicapped without the use of a good parking space." But yes, Iris is SO relatable.

@rosiepestel7836 4 жыл бұрын

I know I love her too...

@alerubalcavacetina750 8 жыл бұрын

"I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible. And how it can actually ache in places you didn't know you had inside you. And it doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends... you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. And how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that, however long all that may be, you'll go somewhere new. And you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. And little pieces of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade" wise words god damn it! I love this movie

@dheeraj7592 8 жыл бұрын

soo true :)

@a.b.5615 6 жыл бұрын

Ale Rubalcava .

@sudhakarmaddela2202 5 жыл бұрын

Such a sweet words nd trueluyyy....sinked...for my life toooo....i jus this part frm the whole movie...☹️☹️

@gargidutta2733 5 жыл бұрын

True

@billymadison1471 5 жыл бұрын

Why does love have to hurt so much!!😭

@secretxla 8 жыл бұрын

I was waiting for Jack Black to blurt out "....Well, f*ck, you need this more than I do."

@TheDauntless2468 5 жыл бұрын

Kate Winslet was absolutely amazing in this movie. I felt like she blew everyone else out of the water. I would watch this movie just for her (and I don't say that very often about an actor/actress). This is actually one of my favorite movies now...

@googlebarbaralernerspectre2581 4 жыл бұрын

Don't worry Barbara Lerner spectre has huge plans for ya babe

@davy209 Жыл бұрын

I honestly think that Kate Winslet was really the only thing good about this movie (and Jack Black since all of his scenes were with Kate Winslet) because without her, the movie would have been absolute trash!

@catherinepoirier3879 Жыл бұрын

''You'll go somewhere new and meet people that make you feel worth while again'' Iris was right, by the end when Miles suggests he come to England for New years, he tells her ''I've never been to England''

@BDog54 9 ай бұрын

One of the most heartbreaking things Iris says is this speech is 'those years of your life you wasted'. You can tell that realisation for her is particularly painful by the emotion in her voice. She realises she has invested so many years of her life in this man, who I genuinely believe she would have married if he had committed, so in love with him was she. He was the ONE to her, and whilst she's not ridiculously old, she is clearly in her 30s and was probably imagining herself as wanting to settle down soon and have kids. Instead, this man has wasted years of Iris's life by manipulating her with false love and affection, all for his own pleasure, whilst courting another woman and ensuring he had something more serious to fall back on, with little care as to how alone this would leave Iris. So little respect did he have for her, he believed she would willingly continue to be his 'bit on the side'. Iris could have spent those years getting to know someone who saw her for how special she was, and created something real and deep. Instead, she lost herself and her own precious time over someone unworthy. She has to live with the self-loathing of having been so blinded by love, that she made allowances for his twisted behaviour, and the fact she will never get those years of her life back. That's true heartbreak. Having said that, I'm glad she was able to see the light and made that snap decision to go to the US, otherwise she and Miles would never have crossed paths.

@raechel5069 4 жыл бұрын

He listens and responds to her, makes her laugh. He even made a piano piece for her, so sweet Miles. Top of that, a one woman guy. He's not the hunky, strikingly attractive, sexy type, but his personality shines through. Sweet, loving, and kind. I want a husband like him. Could my Miles be out there?😂

@meganroberts8721 2 жыл бұрын

Yes he is

@davy209 Жыл бұрын

I feel like Mike’s personally is what makes him attractive and Iris and Miles make such an adorable couple!

@frankinsaneandmyrrh1202 Жыл бұрын

I hope you find someone sweet who makes you happy! :)

@likhithac6526 7 ай бұрын

I dont think so and I feel people like miles are written by female authors but i hope this is not true

@auroraamanda1927 4 жыл бұрын

six years of unrequited love and i’m finally letting him go, then this movie made me cry over him again :)

@rosiepestel7836 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I know it's hard. I am going through the same thing. This movie really hits home for me.

@juanarocha8629 4 жыл бұрын

The part where she says 'It doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get or gyms you join' I felt that

@kiks399 Жыл бұрын

well gym is working for me so far tbh, but I did have to show up consistently for myself 5 days a week to get there... I'm not exactly all glued back together yet but I'm getting there.

@adityaHB456 Жыл бұрын

Yes i'm living this whole scene..and still dont know how to get out of this

@khfan4life365 Жыл бұрын

“Well, f*ck, you need this more than I do.”

@bearyinterestingjokes 7 жыл бұрын

This is an awesome movie that every girl needs to see! It teaches women to not settle for 2nd choice (example Jasper) but wait for someone who loves you unconditionally, that not only wants to expend time with you but also puts you 1st place in his life. One of my favorite movies!!!! : )

@Concerto86 6 жыл бұрын

I love it too and Kate Winslet is exceptional in it. Seriously one of her best performances.

@ryanoskam92 5 жыл бұрын

Not only girls, guys can also relate with this story, trust me....

@Probablylani 5 жыл бұрын

it is so hard ESPECIALLY when 2nd has been around for so long and your love for them had grown so much to a point it almost becomes motherly when it isn't bad. You feel obliged to help them, change them; make them happy. But something we often forget that we need to remember: Who is going to be there to make YOU happy? Who will be there to pick up the pieces?

@shubhasree_7794 8 ай бұрын

@@ryanoskam92I dont think so

@cartergirl3of3 5 жыл бұрын

I just found out that the man who my heart's been devoted to for 4 years is getting married. I never thought this movie would become my reality,

@Probablylani 5 жыл бұрын

damn, i am so sorry to hear that. but 4 years is quite some time. the one you deserve won't make you wait and leave you heartbroken. best of luck.

@rosiepestel7836 4 жыл бұрын

Yes have hope. Hopefully you met someone new. But live in hope. Good luck I am in the same boat as you!!

@HK-zh8ul 4 жыл бұрын

Same here Sis and thts the most terrible feeling anyone can ever go through.

@stacysaint-ilma781 2 ай бұрын

I am so sorry that you’ve been dealing with that.

@rachelupchurch6119 8 жыл бұрын

my life in 3 minutes

@vasabivasabi3453 5 жыл бұрын

I hope you found your love!

@arifditta4115 4 жыл бұрын

Hang in there miss Rachel Upchurch, You'll find your true love!

@rosiepestel7836 4 жыл бұрын

Me too...stay strong!!

@preeti5283 4 жыл бұрын

In 2.53 😂

@loriwise236 4 жыл бұрын

Going Over Every Detail..

@rosiepestel7836 4 жыл бұрын

I know...

@dietdrpepper15 Жыл бұрын

Matthew Hussey always says 'never invest in someone on how much you like them but on how much they invest in you'.

@shaniakayeyenna 9 жыл бұрын

Most heartbreaking scene

@talesfromprincesajesa Жыл бұрын

I feel bad for Iris, but at the end, I'm so inspired that she came to her senses. You can tell a LOT about a person by the way they treat their partner. If he valued his actual GF, Iris would have never been in this situation. The way I see it: she dodged a bullet but the other girl has to live with someone insecure, childish, untrustworthy, indecisive. He has to go through life always searching for his next conquest, never being satisfied with what he has. Everyone in this dynamic is suffering, but at least Iris is aware enough to make a change. You couldn't pay me to be in a marriage with someone like Jasper. Condolences to his future wife.

@kamlashah4628 Жыл бұрын

This scene really hits you emotionally inside out..hence why it's one of my favourite films

@marguio5853 3 жыл бұрын

This scene is a good example why she's "The Kate Winslet!" One of the Best Actors of all time.

@otterlly4981 Жыл бұрын

I just ended the same situation with someone. Someone I worked with, someone who kept coming back into my life with those really painful half promises that went nowhere, someone who didn't seem to care that I was so angry whenever I was left crying because plans were once again cancelled or I was once again left confused by his wording. By his own admission, he wasn't someone that was there to help me solve my problems, he was "just a distractor". And I really have no excuse for wanting to believe that he would be a better person "the next time". This movie came on christmas night, I haven't watched it since I was a teenager, but this time this scene made me bawl. It really hits differently when you've been through it.

@interestedparty3159 Жыл бұрын

I'm not afraid of storms for I'm learning to sail my ship ~Louisa May Alcott

@scottswenson383 Жыл бұрын

No doubt about that...been there as well, and much like Iris in the movie I also had an epiphany moment when I realized that this girl I cared so much for was simply not who I thought she was or wanted her to be. When that realization hits you and you understand that its not you that is missing out...its them, the healing can begin and you start moving forward and getting over things. Just wish that the whole process would have been a bit more expedited...the whole mess hung over me like a storm cloud for far too many years.

@krystasites9034 Жыл бұрын

Yes it does. But you dodged a bullet. Narcissistic behavior should be tolerated

@adityaHB456 Жыл бұрын

Yess i'm going through it right now.. I know she is not good for me, i can understand everything, but its too hard for me to let her go at this moment..dont know how to survive.

@sbaby-np5hy 7 ай бұрын

Abousbly! Because I've been through something like this when I watch that scene it's like are you kidding me and all those old feelings just come flooding back because I remember what it was like until I got over it where you just sit back and all you want to do is cry.

@Amanda_Zamora 6 жыл бұрын

The words she says in this scene makes it so true and real that you can relate to it because you been there and how at times it can linger around you even when you move on. 😢

@rosiepestel7836 4 жыл бұрын

So true...

@meganroberts8721 2 жыл бұрын

Time will always keep moving, it's been 13 years and I am still there

@adventourista856 Жыл бұрын

so true even when you have moved on, you still feel the sting of that heartbreak in a different manner than it first hit u,this time the pain is profoundly liberating

@jessyng3854 10 ай бұрын

Being treated as an option and come back to you when you stop giving them the attention. And yet still never stated clearly on their intention. I can totally understand the feeling

@LSSYLondon 7 жыл бұрын

This is probably one of the greatest relationship movies around. She opens by perfectly describing unrequited love. The most painful kind of love. I put The Holiday right up there with Last Night, 5 to 7, Cheri, Gigi, If a man answers, Married Life, Sex and Mrs. X, The VIPs, Dangerous Beauty, When Harry Met Sally, Somethin's Gotta Give.

@davy209 Жыл бұрын

@ChennnyHu 5 жыл бұрын

Watching this scene after a heartbreak gives me all the reason to cry as much as I want, yet to believe, I will meet someone new eventually, however long it might be.

@Rebecca_Bailey 5 жыл бұрын

My ex made me feel like this last year. Now I’m having to have therapy because I need help with getting my confidence back because he destroyed every bit of it that I had. Even though we weren’t together for years, he said all the right things to me and convinced me that we had a future together.

@juliasidin6851 2 жыл бұрын

I still and always comes back here just for this part. I can still relate to this although it happened as old as this movie was..

@chelsia11501 5 жыл бұрын

She nailed it! My heart is broken :'(

@Elisheval 8 жыл бұрын

my favourite movie and my favourite scene So real.

@rosiepestel7836 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, so real

@alexandrahouse269 6 жыл бұрын

Everytime it breaks my heart 💔 I adore Kate so much x

@Stamari84 Жыл бұрын

I felt the pain of this and it’s not even my life

@QuietlyCurious 2 жыл бұрын

No one talks about how truly beautiful Kate looks in this movie. She's like radiant.

@Keana43 5 жыл бұрын

She has always had me with her acting for love.

@Loislaulife Жыл бұрын

how to make me cry in 2 mins

@adrianlopezm1011 6 жыл бұрын

Amazing actress KATE WINSLET.

@andreamccarns-fierstos7517 5 жыл бұрын

This is so relatable. When my ex and I broke up last year. I was devastated and my heart was ripped out and I totally understand what she means. It’s hard and rough especially with how much you loved that person.

@steflondon88 3 жыл бұрын

Man, I love this movie and Kate Winslet.

@mruv5944 5 жыл бұрын

Legendary scene 😭

@NK-it4um 9 ай бұрын

Okay wow! Top notch acting by Kate Winslet all throughout this movie. From the moment Iris asked her co worker "Does it look like i'm crying right now." I really wanted to comfort her and give her a hug. However moments like when she first arrived in L.A and stuck her head out the window of the taxi and said "This is amazing!" and when she arrived at Amanda's house and was very excited was extremely adorable. Miles is a lucky man to have Iris and Arthur is right Jasper is a schmuck.

@subhasishdey9754 7 жыл бұрын

just breathtaking!

@ameliagray9290 4 жыл бұрын

"I know it's hard to believe people when they say 'I know how you feel' But I actually know how you feel You see, What I'm trying to say, is, I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible. And how it can actually ache in places that you didnt know you had inside you. It doesnt matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends, you still go to bed every night, going over every detail, and wonder what you did wrong or, how you could've misunderstood. And how in the hell for that brief moment, you could think you were that happy. And sometimes you could even convince yourself that he'll see the light and, show up at your door. And after all that, how ever long all that may be, you'll go somewhere new. And you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. And little pieces of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you've wasted. That will eventually begin to fade."

@krystasites9034 Жыл бұрын

She was so lucky to have dodged that bullet. We never see it in the moment but we are. He would never have been faithful to Iris. Miles was the right one.

@SempraLaura 6 жыл бұрын

I was in a similar position and she nails it.

@rosiepestel7836 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, she does!!

@rocknroller1986 4 жыл бұрын

I love this movie, mostly because of Kate Winslet and Jack Black's storyline. I hope they will do another movie together?

@khfan4life365 Жыл бұрын

If someone is ghosting a woman as beautiful as Kate Winslet, what hope is there for the rest of us? 😳

@interestedparty3159 Жыл бұрын

I'm not afraid of storms for I'm learning to sail my ship ~Louisa May Alcott

@jonathanprinters 8 ай бұрын

Keep meeting new people you’ll find people who appreciate you

@tessy28 7 ай бұрын

Relationships are not about physical beauty but human connection.

@betsyveritas1055 6 ай бұрын

It's a movie-she' an actor playing a role. There is hope for everyone.

@betsyveritas1055 6 ай бұрын

Besides, it's not about beauty.

@RAch711baby 5 жыл бұрын

This just happen to me and he does want to keep in touch because "thats the only way I see us getting back together" his words not mine....I'v seen this movie a lot and just recently I really listen to this and I cried cause its just to real typing this makes me cry. cause everything she said is so true I never thought I could find the words to express this feeling and she did it for me so thank you

@vandaxo 4 жыл бұрын

My favourite Xmas Movie. Iris’ pain is relatable and just so real! 😩 “Little pieces of soul will finally come back....🥺😔”. A great movie, men need to take notes from this.

@shutupandeatasmr4498 5 жыл бұрын

Me and my friends use to have a tradition of watching The Holiday and Just Friends during the winter time and we would get drunk and cry while watching this movie haha.

@Elisheval 5 жыл бұрын

OMG that is a perfect combination! I love both those movies!

@adyrockstarb Жыл бұрын

Such an awesome tradition😃

@adyrockstarb Жыл бұрын

Such an awesome tradition😃

@shutupandeatasmr4498 Жыл бұрын

I brought the tradition back and I hosted at my apartment in 2021! 💙

@Willismcnillis Жыл бұрын

Yeah, yeah I know it’s a film, but to think that someone could cheat on the most beautiful English rose that is a Kate Winslet breaks my heart.

@ameliecarre4783 Жыл бұрын

I agree. I do love Rufus Sewell quite a lot, but making Kate Winslet cry that much is unforgivable.

@oliverconway6960 3 ай бұрын

@@ameliecarre4783 Don't hate the actor, hate the character. And appreciate the actor for making you hate the character as much. Jude Law reminded me of that just by being in both this film and Captain Marvel.

@ameliecarre4783 3 ай бұрын

@@oliverconway6960 Oh don't worry, I adore the actor.

@alexchaidez941 2 жыл бұрын

One of my favorite monologues ever! I literally know how she feels! I am her 🥺

@subhasishdey9754 6 жыл бұрын

kate winslet at her brilliant best!

@adventourista856 Жыл бұрын

my favorite part in this movie!!!

@vousetesmonamour 8 жыл бұрын

i would marry kate winslet in a heartbeat.

@VenuGopal-ci5uz 5 жыл бұрын

Me too

@B1uelamp 5 жыл бұрын

Luthien same!

@fantasy8835 4 жыл бұрын

I also marry with 😊

@mary3naaa500 3 жыл бұрын

She’s a legend!

@alicestocking1359 3 жыл бұрын

Most underrated movie ever! Amazing cast ❤️

@MsAppleofhiseye 4 жыл бұрын

I spent 10 years feeling this way and part of that 5 of those 10 years was spent getting over them emotionally. It was hell. Absolute hell. It still brings tears to my eyes because I really did love this person so very deeply. This scene reminds me of that. However, now I'm ok. Jesus has healed my broken heart and gave life to my crushed soul and spirit.

@rosiepestel7836 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my god, me too...I get you...only thing is Jesus or any other god for that matter was never there for me, he just watched me suffer!!

@deepthikurian803 2 жыл бұрын

On the same track sister... Jesus mended my broken soul as well...

@chloereynolds3705 9 жыл бұрын

I love Miles :)

@skyblues1357 3 жыл бұрын

You can feel everything she says... Very relatable... Wonderful actress! 💐✨😍

@lukis_gatra 7 ай бұрын

Recently I am in Iris' position, this guy really took advantages of me, waste my energy and my time, he's already with somebody else but he still doesn't want to let go of me. I thought meybe we could be just friend, but I was wrong, I still love him, and this gives me ache whenever I remember he's already with someone else. My brain knew I should stop whatever this is, but my heart really wanted to stay and hoping one day he'll be back with me. Until I watch this movie few days ago, Iris really inspired me, and the next day I just brave myself to call him and get over whatever this twisted, toxic thing between us. It's painfull, and it's hard, but I believe, something good will come out of it.

@ramakrishnakota6108 7 жыл бұрын

Well relatable.....The best part of this wonderful Flick

@fionar6506 8 жыл бұрын

It's the truth though. :'( 1:10

@luisana20 3 жыл бұрын

She described so well my pain, I’ve gone to the gym in tears and it’s true, it doesn’t matter you’re still broken inside

@angeleyes_1412 3 жыл бұрын

Kate is absolutely a brilliant actress! I loved her as Iris.. her part and pain are way too relatable.. feeling as small and insignificant as humanly possible 😭😭

@tajmahal5572 9 ай бұрын

Love this scene

@indiiedreamer 5 жыл бұрын

Makes me cry everytime

@snk3017 4 жыл бұрын

Perfectly expressed all feelings in words

@SLOTHSRIDEUNICORNS Жыл бұрын

"Well fuck, you need this more than I do."

@gigliolarusso1047 8 ай бұрын

Beautiful

@Ebeling1026 7 ай бұрын

One of my favorite films!

@ashishkazad3028 Жыл бұрын

Yes, those event of our life eventually fade and we start to live again...

@adsjac3 8 жыл бұрын

I don't if he'll ever pass by this part of KZfaq, but I'll take this chance. 2 years ago, I met this Korean guy. I immediately liked him. We became good friends. It took me a year to gather all my strength to tell him that I like him. He came to a party we threw for a friend's birthday. He was sleepy and I sat there beside him... I just took his hand and I told him that I like him. He did not answer me. The day after that, we never spoke the way we used to before. It felt like he was avoiding me, so just to protect my heart from more pain, I built this high wall between us and I started to avoid him. I would sometimes pass by him on the hallway or see him flirting with other girls on the other side of the office. I would sometimes see him glancing at me but I know it's just my imagination that I think he likes me a little bit. I know that if he really likes me, he'll find ways to be with me. But he doesn't. Now, every time I see him, my heart feels like it's being torn into pieces. I think I don't just like him. I love him.

@sterlingm2688 7 жыл бұрын

Ads Jacildo Best of luck!

@ando1135 6 жыл бұрын

sorry to hear. sometime i wish i didnt feel so much like the people that neglect us...my emotions are my sleeves and its hard to roll them up sometimes.

@twnyc3129 6 жыл бұрын

Hey, I just wanted to say I know what you’re going through. Your post was from a year ago so I hope by now you’ve moved on.

@rosiepestel7836 4 жыл бұрын

Yes good luck, I felt that way about a guy in high school. I know how it feels to hope a guy is glancing at you when he really isn't!! Good luck, I hope you have met someone who cares about yiu the same way you cares about him!!

@JFadel 2 жыл бұрын

People should be honored that someone loves them. Even if the feeling is not mutual. He’s a coward for leaving you hanging. And you don’t want to be with cowards that play with your heart.

@sonalikasahoo9038 5 жыл бұрын

It's an awesome movie ,very relatable

@shellyzepeda 6 ай бұрын

She is one of my favorite actresses and this is one of my favorite scenes in this movie. She hits home ♥️

@MariAleAgui8907 4 жыл бұрын

💔😭 "What I'm trying to say is I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible" Literally gets me everytime. Still trying to find the little pieces of my soul 😭💔

@rosamejia2171 Жыл бұрын

One of my favorite movies 🍿 ❤

@elghaiebsalma6908 6 ай бұрын

Well by the end of this year and since i'm having the same pain as Iris, i really really hope that everyone can heal and find happiness for the rest of our lives ❤❤❤❤

@marysol3426 4 жыл бұрын

I love this movie

@dawnbartle123 4 жыл бұрын

A captured moment x

@kristinb5121 6 ай бұрын

Usually I’m not a fan of these compilations, but this was good. Without the need to move the story along, it allows the viewer to stay with Kate the extra time needed to feel the depth of her heartbreak.

@parvathiw7096 3 жыл бұрын

Hi 2020....i absolutely love this movie

@MidnightAsmr84 5 жыл бұрын

Best Movie ❤

@Kish79able 2 жыл бұрын

Kate is such a fine actress!

@eliakimjosephsophia4542 5 жыл бұрын

It is always best to stand in integrity even if that means being in aloneness. A man that is a two-timer, will always be a two-timer. The signs of a two-timer are always there if you have your eyes and ears open. I remember I met a guy abroad, he was born in England. While dancing with him Spirit spoke to me and said, "We have someone else planned for him". We became platonic friends and just before I left the country he admitted he had been seeing five different woman at the same time. I had a lucky escape, saved by Spirit. Big smiles.

@christinaandriani6087 Жыл бұрын

Wow this is a very great advice, thank you so much!

@catrionabruce3 4 жыл бұрын

God, this movie is so good. More people need to know about it!!

@therapeuttic 3 жыл бұрын

Best writer ever 🥺🤍

@mjparadero7046 4 жыл бұрын

I love this movie!!!! 😘😘😘😘

@monikagin Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the edit, it makes sense, even after years, truely gut punching how women take the blame on themselves for every misunderstanding guy

@user-ox9fg8wd9j Жыл бұрын

Rest in peace 🙏

@lisasmart14 4 жыл бұрын

Best part of the movie.

@snowflake2653 4 жыл бұрын

Listen. l know it's hard to believe people when they say, ''l know how you feel.'' But l actually know how you feel. You see......l was......seeing someone back in London. We worked for the same newspaper. And then l found out that he was also seeing this other girl, Sarah......from the Circulation Department on the 1 9th floor. lt turned out that he wasn't in love with me like l thought. What l'm trying to say is......l understand feeling as small and as insignificant......as humanly possible. How it can actually ache in places that you didn't know you had inside you. lt doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get......or gyms you join......or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with girlfriends. You still go to bed every night going over every detail......and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. And how in the hell, for that brief moment......you could think that you were that happy? And sometimes you can even convince yourself......that he'll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that......however long ''all that'' may be......you'll go somewhere new. And you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. And little pieces of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff......those years of your life that you wasted......that will eventually begin to fade.

@rosiepestel7836 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the movie monologue!!

@SanDhampir 6 жыл бұрын

nicely edit

@hearmeout9424 3 жыл бұрын

This story of iris is my life

@dushankumaravel1202 9 ай бұрын

Not in the same situation but somewhat similar. It definitely ache in places inside you.

@kimmynguyen8910 5 жыл бұрын

Uhm u love someone who cant and will not love u back. And he treats u like u r everything to him. Story of my life😂😂😂

@universegivemefaithintheun2574 7 жыл бұрын

This movie is on my tv right now which is fate maybe lol. My ex just told me last Saturday he is engaged but still wants to continue to be friends. We've been separated 4 months. Trying to get through this is tough but I have to let go and trust I'll heal like Kate Winslets character says.

@cindynguyen4156 6 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry. Sometimes, when people tell me "it'll get better" "this is the best thing he could've done for you" etc. I just don't like hearing it because I still feel that dull aching pain. So instead, I'm sending you love, and warmth. Grieving has no expiration date

@universegivemefaithintheun2574 6 жыл бұрын

Cindy Nguyen This was the first time I've ever been in love and first time I've had my heart broken ( At 36 mind you). So to say that this has been one of the hardest and most painful things I've ever been through in my life is an understatement. Thing is I've had my fair share of men wanting to commit to me but I never felt the same way back....except this time. I'd never met such a kind, good hearted, sincere, funny, witty, sarcastic, inspiring man in my life. He is still that man.....just not mine and letting go has been hard. Especially since he has been trying to hold on to our friendship and connection, as we had a deep one, but I know that's not healthy for me right now. Thank you so much for your kind words, you're so right. I am a positive person and am moving forward but I HATED when friends or family said stuff like that when the pain was unbelievablly fresh and real. I know they mean well but still. It's ok if someone says " "I'm so sorry, I know your in pain, this just plain sucks. I'll be here if you need a friend." Which your words were equivilant to :). Seems like you truly understand, and it means a lot. Just to know someone is there is enough and "silver linings" or stuff like " you dodged a bullet" or " he did you a favor" just irritates the wound in my heart. It's been a long grieving period, trying to get my confidence back and let him go at the same time. I'm in the process of healing and finding me again but it's been a slow process. I still feel that dull ache in my heart. But I'm working hard at achieving my dreams and maybe all this staying busy and distracting myself w passion work can truly turn into true happiness soon if I keep focused ....and I can be happy without him again. It WOULD help if he didn't contact me and try and hang out. I wish he'd just let me heal properly. I've cut off communication twice but somehow he still manages to wiggle back into my life and I know that is my fault for letting him back in, but I truly do care about him and wish him the best..... But its just too painful to keep in contact knowing he has a fiance. I told him we'd always be friends but that I needed time to heal and one day in the future we could be friends again. But after 2 weeks he'll just message again trying to be in my life. I'll just have to find the strength to do what I need to do for me. You're a beautiful soul Cindy and I can feel your love and warmth inside my heart. I'm sending all my Gratitude, Appreciation and Love to you. I know I'll have my hard days and some days I still just want to cry, but it truly helps that even though I don't know you, you do understand that grief has no expiration date and everyone heals on there own time. Have a lovely night Cindy :)

@sandy-xi3nx 4 жыл бұрын

@@universegivemefaithintheun2574 same pain here,please tell me that you are ok 2 years later...

@joshkresnik6402 2 ай бұрын

I was treated this way, it wasn’t deliberate I know that for sure, but I also know I didn’t deserve to be treated like that and that I deserve better. I relate to her in a lot of ways it’s crippling

@refiamelek 4 жыл бұрын

❤️

@vasantiveeramallu Жыл бұрын

💔

@nicolewinters 2 жыл бұрын

😭🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭

@ando1135 6 жыл бұрын

this just doesnt relate to women, it can relate to all people in any kind of relationship....i have a close friend ("close") who is kinda like this...i dont have many friends, just a couple, and i feel like this scene relates to my situation with him...i just feel so small around him, like i dont really exist...like im taken advantage of while i give my all to the friendship. How dumb am i to still call him a "close" friend?

@TheAFGFilms 5 жыл бұрын

Same here. Had close friend who turned out to be a jerk and just used people.

@paisleyprincess7996 4 жыл бұрын

My life. For 11 fucking years. Hurt me so badly I needed therapy. I still keep him around cuz I still love him, and he makes me feel like a nothing. I want to just walk away but he’s my “truest” friend. The one who knows my heart and has it. Completely. I’m only kept around for god knows what...He isn’t even having sex with me. It hurts like hell