Thank you! I bought your book some time ago and started reading it but didn’t get passed the first exercise/question. I think I just managed to overwhelm myself with my thoughts 😅 I’ve been thinking of picking up the book again and this was exactly what I needed to get going. 😊

I am an African American non binary..watching this right now lol. Dara your tone helps soothe us while exploring our journey of gender discovery. Thank you as well.

Thank you for reading it here, I've been curious about it for a while :-) It *is* interesting how we change! I like how authentic you are ^^

I ordered your book about a week ago and it's supposed to arrive tomorrow!

HI, , Dara , , , So good to be able to enjoy another of your wonderful vids/blogs!! Re; the reflections on your glasses, , Having college + 10years of professional photographic, ,in-studio & outdoor experience, , I offer, some low cost/' easily employed remedies for eliminating this objectionable issue: light is reflected at the angle of incidence, , ,so,, just turn your head so you're not facing directly into your, primary light source,( or any other specular light source) ,Or, , move your light source so it's at greater angle to your face,,either from the side or to a higher elevation, , , OR ,, best option:: procure a polarizing lens to attach to your photographic recording devices' lens . . .a bit of experimentation, with the implementation utilizing either of these options ,should produce the resolution you seek . . Good Things to you, ,Dara!!!

I think the lock down will force a lot of people to self reflect. I know it brought up a lot for me. Im now in counseling working on my identity. Ive been curious about your book for a while now. This video shows it might have helped me way sooner.

Great timing! I have been stalling on the book since your last video. I was just thinking AGAIN today that I need to start moving past the first chapter, and here is the promised upload! Looking forward to this video after work!

Dara, you are a lovely person. I'll try to buy your book as soon as I can, I think it will be very helpful to have a sort of guide that you can check and read whenever you feel like and that helps you to explore your gender identity. As a non-binary person myself, I really appreciate all the content made by other non-binary people, because it makes me feel better with myself knowing that there is people going through the same struggle as me who have the methods to say "it's okey to be like we are". Thank you for your book and all your thoughtful videos

Very helpful! I’ve been feeling so down lately that I can’t do this. This is the hardest journey of life! Thank you for the videos

I really appreciate this!! Thank you so much!!

I just realized that you signed my copy. Thank you so much for this. I am enjoying reading along with you.

Thank you for reading it. I ordered it and went through it and myself. I found it very helpful.

thank you, thank you! i really want to buy this book now, please keep reading it x33

Thank you for this. I bought your book on recommendation by my therapist and stalled after ch. 2. You reading it feels as though I'm connecting more fully and am looking forward to completing it along with you and others. Your time and effort to help other is truly inspiring in a time when it is most needed.

It's a great book. I worked through all of it with my psychologist, and it certainly changed my life for the better. It's good to go through the process slowly, and the workbook really helped me not get overwhelmed trying to figure my entire identity out all at once. I can say truthfully the help of your book- with the amazing support and encouragement of my psychologist- saved my life. ♡♡♡

Excellent!! please keep them coming

Thank you Dara.

Bird Person identifies as Bird Person

Wow. It will be 8 months for me on 6/24. I have come quite a ways with much more to do. I’m excited and nervous but can’t wait to continue. Sabrina

read this in 2017 when initially started gender questioning, it will be fun to revisit and rethink now :) Much love to all trans and gender nonconforming folk that find themselves here.

I've been interested in your book for a while and now used your offer :) could you tell me when I should expect to receive the digital version after sending the money?

Any thoughts on overcoming resistance to transition?

I paid 1.99 for the pdf. How will I receive it?

so um... you mentioned that people can add in the comments about phrasing and terminology and such? I noticed that you used the terms "female or male pronouns" to refer to "she or he" pronouns and while I only use they pronouns nowadays, this makes me uncomfortable and I have heard others express discomfort with the gendering of pronouns in this way as well. after all, many people who are not female use she/her pronouns and many people who are not male use he/him pronouns. I hope you see this and find it helpful.