"The opposite of love is indifference" is a phenomenal line

RIP Madeleine Robillard Sept 12 2000 - July 22 2020. I love you babe , this was our song.

Who is from 2024

I hug myself so tightly while this song plays.. and I cry... I cry for all those wasted years when I didn't love myself..😢

i cant be the only one thats just randomly clicking on different songs from different bands that are recommended by youtube and just falling in love with evey single one of them

I have a tattoo that says "its better to feel pain than nothing at all" 3 years sober now=]

Lyrics: She'll lie and steal and cheat And beg you from her knees Make you think she means it this time She'll tear a hole in you, the one you can't repair But I still love her, I don't really care When we were young Oh-oh, we did enough When it got cold Ooh-ooh, we bundled up I can't be told Ah-ah it can't be done It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all The opposite of love's indifference So pay attention now I'm standing on your porch screaming out And I won't leave until you come downstairs So keep your head up, keep your love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, keep your love And I don't blame you, dear For running like you did all these years I would do the same, you best believe And the highway signs say we're close But I don't read those things anymore I never trusted my own eyes When we were young Oh-oh, we did enough When it got cold Ooh-ooh, we bundled up I can't be told Ah-ah it can't be done So keep your head up, keep your love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, keep your love Head up, love Head up, love Head up, love Head up, love

Even though it is now 2023, and the song is alreayd out for more than 10 years, I find myself consistently revisiting this song at least once every month, and I am confident that I will continue to do so for countless years ahead. There's something special about The Lumineers and specially this song 💕

It's *SEPTEMBER 2021,* let's see how many legends are listening to this masterpiece ♡

Trying to forget someone you loved is like trying to remember someone you never met.

Someone once said "The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference." I asked that person "Then what's the opposite of hate?" She said "I asked myself that question a few times. Turns out the opposite of hate is forgiveness." I said "How?" She said "Indifference is when you don't care enough to love someone. Forgiveness is when you don't care enough to hate someone."

27/09/2023, Location - Kenya. The song never gets old. Much love from this side of the universe ❤❤

To everyone who is here - You have a great taste in music

"It's better to feel pain than nothing at all"

my husband of 37 years died in my arms while listening to this. i’ll never forget you henry. this song makes it all worth it :’)

The beauty of this song is undeniable.

From the million love songs out there this is the only one that hits me hard. It's about unconditional love and how even if it hurts it's still better than nothing, and well, I'm a very cold person who has never loved that way and it makes me sad to think what I'm missing, and even if I wanted to I can't just love someone like that, I'd rather feel nothing than deal with the pain. I see many people here because they relate on loving someone who didn't love them back and all I can say is: Love is NOT a mistake, don't regret loving, love is the only thing that can make you grow, whether it brings you happiness or pain, just know life is all about ups and downs and nothing lasts forever, so if you're in a good place, cherish it, and if not, know it is not forever.

This music video reminds me of being a little kid and looking out the window while listening to music and pretending to be in a movie.

Still one of the best songs out there . 10 years later , killing it still !!!!!

This song hits me so hard every time i hear it, it's just so hard to explain. I knew it basically since my school years, listening to The Lumineers briefly from time to time and simply moving on to other bands and genres. I came back to this band and this song after a terrible break-up caused by me, my problems and what I did to my then-girlfriend for about a year, a friend for about four. I listened to it time and time again throughout several months alone, working on myself, bettering my mental status and overall mental health that caused all the problems. A year passed, fate made us cross our paths and come closer again, heal our scars and become a pair once again. Nearly two years from then, I'm listening to the song in our house, we're a few months away from our wedding and expecting a baby. Coming back to such hard-hitting songs makes you realise how far you've come and how many struggles you endured because of - and for this stubborn love. Stay strong Friends. It will be better one day - if you believe it and work towards it, eventually it's gonna happen.

Thank you The Lumineers, Official Sponsors of my heartbreak

The director of this video deserves a nod. The vision for this video was so artistic as well as the cinematography--it's beautiful

So many people would stumble around in darkness if it wasn't for such talented musicians , music that touches the soul will always be timeless , I'm glad I had the privilege to enjoy these rare talents 🫡

“She’ll tear a hole in you, the one you can’t repair, but I still love her. I don’t really care.” Can confirm

I cried from this video.. I am a newly divorced single dad with full custody.. I was weeping openly..

My mum would play this to me and cry, she was a single mum who went through a shitty time and it was really hard to take care of me.every so often I return to this song and have a good cry, and then hug my mum

imagine how lumineers gave us opportunity to see such dramatic "series" by songs, every song - stubborn love,cleopatra,angela and etc. are combined into 1 story, thi is cozy, oh my god.

So I used to think this song was about unrequited love. Basically loving someone but not being loved back but the more I listened to it I feel like it's about ones ability to keep loving after they have been hurt over and over again. So the song is about love itself and the journey to find it. True love is one of the hardest things to find in life if you find it you are definitely one of the lucky ones. some people never find it. the more love fails you the more apprehensive you are to love again. Maybe I'm wrong but it made more sense to me when I started thinking about it that way. Keep your head up y'all ❤❤❤

Keep your head up, keep your love Head up, love Head up, love

Fear is temporary, but regret is forever

Stop worrying about the girl that broke your heart. Start bettering yourself. Make her regret it, the one that’s truly meant for you will find her way to you. Head up kings, they’re are 4.5 women out there waiting to meet you ! STAY HARD

"I don't care, I have no luck; I don't miss it all that much" That's an idiosyncratic Peach of a line! The 90's and 00's were biblical, man! ❤

I just discovered this masterpiece and I'm 7 years late better late than never aight?

If I had to say.. It reminds me of my fleeting knowledge of what my mom used to look like. I don't remember her much now.. I just remembered she used to look beautiful.

I lost a dear friend in the spring and finally came to understand the line, its better to feel pain, than nothing at all. Its better to have loved and lost than never known love at all. So the loss and the grief are okay because they mean I had the chance to experience something valuable to begin with

The Opposite of Love is not hate - it's Indifference. It is a mantra that is so true and it is something I've passed on to many. Do not let love escape....It leads to indifference.

I am confused by the comments I have read to this video lol... I don't think it has anything to do with beauty, or a mom and daughter... My opinion is that the interpretation of the song is that life changes (her mom and dad splitting), there are always bumps in the road (the car accident) but there are always people going through similar things and you are never alone (couple arguing)... if you just look out the window you will see amazing things though, from other people that is :) Keep your head up... Love is worth the risk and life is worth the hurt... We all are special and beautiful and it is a reminder of struggles and our triumphs through those struggles... Just my opinioin, at least...

Now that I am in my 60s and looking back at my life and all the countless mistakes I've made, the things I did and even worse didn't do. I've decided screw it I'm not going to waste a single second worrying about my fuckups, they are far too many of them and I can't do anything about a single one. I'm instead going to be who I am and take my life where I want it to go. If friends and family support me and most do great. If not so be it.

My dad passed away December 2020, he was a fan of the Lumineers pretty early on. One thing I can remember him doing years earlier was sending me this music video and saying something along the lines of “no matter what happens I will always love you”. Of course being in my preteens I did not really think much of it. He and my mom did not have the best relationship but they tried for my sister and I. Almost two whole years since he has passed and I can’t even remember how long since that text message, but listening to this just fills me with this indescribable feeling. One that is painful and sends aches all over me, but slowly turns into a weird sense of comfort.

Having a daughter taught me the differences I had between my mother. When the mother looks back at her child at the end of this clip, it brought me back. How I forgot that initial bond. My own child reminded me of that loss and grief that comes with that process.

Brought me to tears, reminds me of my childhood

Its been a while since I listened to this song. Its bringing back so many feelings right now.

The emotions this song evokes here are palpable. I pray we all find those things we seek. Keep your head, my love ❤

This song has made a great difference in my life, and it’s helped me get through some tough times. Thank you so much Lumineers for helping me get through my troubles.

"It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all." Those lyrics continue, after all these years, to remind me that I am alive, when I need it the most.

What I love about The Lumineers is they have a mystery tucked within every song. I've listened to their songs thousands of times, and I still pick up on a new hidden meaning or message every once in a while. The songs mold to fit everyone 's different lives and stories, which makes it fun to read how everyone interprets each one.

It's 2023 we still can't get enough of this masterpiece 😍

It’s 2023. and I’m still here for it. I would die listening to them. The Lumineers was now part of my life. I grew up listening to them and Grow old listening to them.

The Lumineers really do be a breath of fresh air in music. They just hit different.

It's sort of hard to imagine that everyone we encounter through life has lead an entire life just as we have. It's crazy to wonder what the real story behind the many eyes we look into might actually be. It's a beautiful life people. Despite our many flaws we still make it work. Love what you have while have it.

It is November 2023. How many legends are still listening to this song? ❤️

I first met my husband when I was a freshman in high school. He joined the Army when I was a jr. When I was a senior he broke up with me, because he was getting deployed to Afghanistan. I have never felt so much pain in my life. I was crying for a month straight. This song came up on the radio... my pain went away little by little everyday I listened to this song. It gave me hope again, after he got back from Afghanistan. I went off to college, and he drove from Texas to see me in North Dakota...he surprised me. He asked me to marry him. I said no at first, because I was so angry with him...but I stilled loved him.. 4 days later he asked me again, and I said yes. This song really is amazing!! It will never get old.

LYRICS She'll lie and steal and cheat And beg you from her knees Make you thinks she means it this time She'll tear a hole in you, the one you can't repair But I still love her, I don't really care When we were young Oh oh, we did enough When it got cold Ooh ooh, we bundled up I can't be told Ah ah it can't be done It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all The opposite of love's indifference So pay attention now I'm standing on your porch screaming out And I won't leave until you come downstairs So keep your head up, keep your love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, keep your love And I don't blame ya dear For running like you did, all these years I would do the same, your best believe And the highway signs say we're close But I don't read those things anymore I never trusted my own eyes When we were young Oh oh, we did enough When it got cold, Ooh ooh we bundled up I can't be told, Ah ah, can't be done Keep your head up, keep your love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, keep your love Head up, love Head up, love Head up, love Head up, love

It's March 2023 and I will always listen to this song!! It honestly reminds me of my life and my brother always says to me, "keep your head up Nancy!"

These songs have gotten me through so many hard time, just saw them perform last night and they never fail to empress. The vibes were immaculate, hands down the best concert i’ve ever been to!! The stars aligned last night.

If the little girl had not smiled at the end, I would have cried the rest of the day..... It is the natural resilience of youth that makes us overcome problems as a child we could never cope with as an adult.

This video hits me in a different way. My Daughters mom pretty much just left in the middle of the night. Literally. The first thing I did after seeing all her stuff gone in the middle of the night, while I was at work; was to hug and cry with my daughter. I have been the single Mom/Dad for the past 4 years going on, since. I keep thinking and wondering if maybe I was way too lax in our relationship after 20+ years, or did too many wrong things. I never cheated, did drugs or whatever. Just had some real bad timing and luck go away. It's taken me years to start to climb out of a major depression about it all. So, a song like this relates in a different way. I've done everything in my power to keep HER "head up". Lets just say it's been a real struggle. - - - My head? - Idk if it'll ever be back "up". :-/

This song is awesome. "The opposite of love's indifference." What a lyric.

i fall in love w this song everytime

"It's better to feel pain than nothing at all; the opposite of LOVE is INDIFFERENCE". I have heard this song many, many times over the years (I've played it myself, I was a bartender for 10 years so others played it many times, I play it still obviously) and somehow missed that little truth nugget in amongst the pleasant melody. Love and hate are sister emotions, if you want to leave someone behind become indifferent. I know this doesn't suit well with everyone but forgive those who hurt you. Not for them, but for you. You forgive them yourself and they fade away.... it's a nice feeling.

folk = beatiful the lumineers = amazing

I've listened to this one so many times, but today's the first time I paid attention to the video. As a single mom doing the best I can for my baby, this song hit me right in the feels today. Thank you Lumineers ❤️

This song for a lot is about losing someone, for me, it’s me I lost. Struggling with balancing my ego and pride, not to mention alcoholism and anxiety. This song lets me feel something other than my own pain.

The is adorable. This is sad. This is lovely.

such a genuine innocence on little gal's face..

I thank the universe for this song and healing video. We all feel lost sometimes, maybe most of the time, as the little girl we feel the fear of facing things that we don't know how to deal with, maybe sometimes bigger than us, and we can't chage, and we feel like wanting someone to take care of us, but as the little girl, just open the window that is blocking the air and the joy, the wind will relieve your pain and you're gonna be allright. Just keep your head up love.

This song came up on my playlist while on a solo trip across the country. Was on a bus in a new city I have never been to. Listened to this song just walking around and exploring. It was the first time in a while I felt alive.

Love when she rolls the window down and lets in happiness. Adorable wrinkled nose. Just love this video.

this is art.

The Lumineers deserve much more❣

This song brings a different perspective on relatively bad/toxic love, and explains his experience thougholy, and it's done in such a beautiful way. I love it so much! Great job guys 👏

"It's better to feel pain then nothing at all." Such a powerful quote!

She'll lie and steal and cheat And beg you from her knees Make you thinks she means it this time She'll tear a hole in you, the one you can't repair But I still love her, I don't really care When we were young Oh oh, we did enough When it got cold Ooh ooh, we bundled up I can't be told Ah ah it can't be done It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all The opposite of love's indifference So pay attention now I'm standing on your porch screaming out And I won't leave until you come downstairs So keep your head up, keep your love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, keep your love And I don't blame ya dear For running like you did, all these years I would do the same, your best believe And the highway signs say we're close But I don't read those things anymore I never trusted my own eyes When we were young Oh oh, we did enough When it got cold, Ooh ooh we bundled up I can't be told, Ah ah, can't be done Keep your head up, keep your love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, keep your love Head up, love Head up, love Head up, love Head up, love Songwriters: Jeremy Fraites / Wesley Schultz Stubborn Love lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.

The fact that my mother (a teenage mother of me when her and my father were only 17) used to blast this song with me while we drove to or from goodwill and her mother’s house (where we lived) and it’s now the anthem of my life hits hard. She would always cry when it played and keep singing despite that, I always keep singing no matter how hard I cry when I hear this now. I love her, even if she had some extreme faults, she did her best, and she still does. Amazing young woman, and I’ll always love her no matter how much she’s hurt my heart❤

If I could think of a song that summed up all my thoughts, feelings, and Morals over the past year it would be this “it’s better to feel pain than nothing at all” strong, and powerful words that I think people tend to forget and I know I’m young, but I feel like we live in such an indifferent world. empathy is a powerful tool never let anybody take it, to quote from Chris Cofer “never let anybody’s hate Rob of your compassion”

I am soo thankful for music like this. I'm late to this type of music as I used to listen to dance music. Today I have discovered the lumineers & Noah Clouds song "Love is not enough" Its been a good day.

"She'll lie and steal and cheat And beg you from her knees Make you thinks she means it this time She'll tear a hole in you, the one you can't repair But I still love her, I don't really care When we were young Oh oh, we did enough When it got cold Ooh ooh, we bundled up I can't be told Ah ah it can't be done It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all The opposite of love's indifference So pay attention now I'm standing on your porch screaming out And I won't leave until you come downstairs So keep your head up, keep your love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, keep your love And I don't blame ya dear For running like you did, all these years I would do the same, your best believe And the highway signs say we're close But I don't read those things anymore I never trusted my own eyes When we were young Oh oh, we did enough When it got cold, Ooh ooh we bundled up I can't be told, Ah ah, can't be done Keep your head up, keep your love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, my love Keep your head up, keep your love Head up, love Head up, love Head up, love Head up, love"

this song and the video reminds me of my life (mostly childhood memories), with all the pain and the happiness. also tells me about relationships in life. sometimes they just don't work anymore and the beautiful things become bitter. after they got divorced, my mom took me and moved to another city. after that, it was a whole another page and a start of a new chapter in her life. we always had long car rides every day (since i know myself) due to her job and even though i was very little like this girl, i remember exactly this scene, her hair flowing in the wind, her eyes checking me and smiling, sometimes holding my hand, together singing the songs playing in the car, me watching outside from the window and getting lost in thoughts and dreams... just, brings back so many memories. we had no one, just the two of us all these years and she sacrificed a lot for me, sometimes it's easy to get caught up with life and take our loved ones for granted. i love her so much and i'm going to try my best to show it to her constantly and make her life easier and happier like she always tried to make mine. thank you for this amazing song, you know it's a masterpiece when it gives all these different feelings, thoughts and memories to its listeners

Heard it for the first time today on sky radio...quikly looked it up on KZfaq and listened to it for about 10 times until I rememberd all the words to be able to sing along😊,Oh, and I'm 75 years of age😂

There's no such thing as a bad Lumineers song. It simply doesn't exist!

This brings me back to third grade. My teacher would play this song in class a lot. I asked her for the name and I would listen to it like everyday. I listen to it now, and I just want to say, Ms.Bell If you see this, it's Batia. You were the best teacher I ever had. I hope your doing well

This video has two layers for me: 1. a mom and her daughter leaving the girl's father, and the two of them finding happiness, and 2. a woman leaving her old life behind and her inner child finally feeling safe and happy!

I LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS SONG. I play it for my daughter who is 4 now. Ive played it for her, her whole life. She loves it. And the video. Ahhhh... this song keeps me going.❤

"The opposite of Love is indifference" prefect quote for our ego driven, materialistic society.

The coolest revelation about this song is that there is only one woman in the car, and she's driving. Her younger self is in the back, and the handoff of her ring is the desire of the woman to return to that innocence she had as a young girl.

Hace 10 años me paso un Accidente que me dejo lisiado hasta la actualidad, pero de no ser por eso nunca hubiera conocido a esta Increíble banda, irónicamente 10 años después KZfaq me lo vuelve a Recomendar 😊... Gracias The Lumineers por siempre estar aquí ❤

This one always hits the feels so hard. Memories of a love lost are always so painful.

"It's better to feel pain, Than nothing at all" Same as, "Better to try and fail, than never try at all"

Did anyone else well up with tears when the little girl pulled the ring off of her mother's finger? This is a beautiful, inspirational song...but I am so glad I didn't hear it until now. The pain still lingers...although it has dwindled. A year ago I couldn't have watched this without openly bawling. My heart and sympathies go out to those still in the midst of that sting of a divorce. With a child or children involved, there is simply no explanation of the devastating emotions one could convey without having been there. You think to yourself that nothing could possibly hurt you as bad as you're hurt when it happens until you see it in the eyes of your child and learn what its like to feel pain for someone else. The divorce is bad enough...but when you see your ex use the kids as a pawn...I'm sure those of you familiar with the scenario understand.

You guys were the greatest in 2022 Edmonton, Alberta. Thought you were good on speaker, can faithfully say this band is the best live, you all are magically. 💜💜💜 Thank you for such a great show.

Always makes me think about what kids go through with a split family! Love this song in so many ways. Out of respect for both sides, but the kids see it all! ❤️❤️❤️

I believe this song is perfect for the numbness, apathy, and complacency that so many of us have fallen into for the past 5-10 years. So nostalgic yet timeless

His voice is so raw and beautiful. I'd love to see them live.

Honestly when you have some many words that touch you it's a blessing

“And I don’t blame you dear, for running like you did all these years” hits me in the feels

Ok, i have to be honest because i was scrolling threw nearly every commentsection of a Lumineers video and i just love how everybody is really honest and tell about their memorys and mistakes they made.

damn, my childhood was difficult. it's hard to look at a little girls hand without crying. maybe someday, those wounds will heal.

Adoro esse banda....😊

It's May 2023, let's see how many legends are listening to this Masterpiece ❤

people keep on saying today's music is like shit, but to me there are still good musics being made today. this one is an example.