The main reason for breakups and divorces is SELFISHNESS. It is all about what one EXPECTS from the relationship. Whereas our Patriarchal parents knew it was about GIVING, not taking. It was about sacrifices for the partner and the family. Today it is all about ME, MYSELF & I and OUR happiness. And since everyone knows over 90% of divorces are by women, its always about the woman’s happiness. She cares not about her partner or the marriage. And usually it is always about MONEY. Money SHE wants; materialistic things SHE wants; always looking for something better.
@TriStateThrifts2 ай бұрын
god bless ya brother, brain is unwashed.
@klankie12 ай бұрын
damn, i just added my own comment and now i read yours, almost the same.
@blueturquoisett84482 ай бұрын
It works both ways, cannot paint all women with a broad brush.
@ameerhenry65522 ай бұрын
I have been witness to this and yet here I am after the break up thinking about how could have done more to keep the relationship or how I could have provided more for her eve though she was making more money then me.
@heshamamin27652 ай бұрын
100 % ture
@Maurice181Ай бұрын
Best Sadia commentary ever. She can go sideways sometimes, but this is spot on.
@NostraVita882 ай бұрын
This Woman is sooo right. I love to listen to her.
@raycoss96412 ай бұрын
That is so True,personal insecurities,Trauma bonds,co dependency
@timpope17452 ай бұрын
When people have alot of choices, they make stupid,selfish choices, and commintment takes disipline and self controll and most people have become to lazy to commit to anything except starring at their cell phone.
@kirkstewart-vf6hg2 ай бұрын
The fact is it takes two to tango regardless of if one person has more toxic traits. It's never ever just one person's fault. Communication is tantamount to a healthy relationship ...
@justone32432 ай бұрын
Absolutely. It's 50/50. The problem is, some traits are difficult to identify but can be as harmful as the obvious. So you can't judge one of both more just because they look more friendly
@alaalfa88392 ай бұрын
Sam Vaknin says only way to deal with narcisist is to become narcissist…..then break up and find your true self again, your true personality….that narcissism is contagious, and narcissism is just a self defense to someone elses narcisism.
@ameerhenry65522 ай бұрын
Agreed. And I have been trying to get my ex to go counseling together but she keeps telling me im the one that needs it not her 😢
@jeannemontore14512 ай бұрын
Sometimes it is one person’s fault
@klankie12 ай бұрын
it's our individual selfishness and emotional instability. We "want something" in a relationship without contributing equally. We don't want to work on ourselves
@otsienocharles7300Ай бұрын
She is right in this
@christopherdixon23102 ай бұрын
We don't want to project on ourselves because that would mean that we are broken. Easier to blame and project our insecurities on others.
@AlexanderMuylle2 ай бұрын
I have given up a long time on having a relationship. From the beginning I make clear I am just in for friendship ...and that I enjoy too much living my life alone. At least I am honest from the outset
@RichardHorcik32202 ай бұрын
She is good, very good. 💯
@hectorconteras38652 ай бұрын
Wow! She's spot on on Manny things.
@philippang072 ай бұрын
GOLD.
@kimnorjaxon1598Ай бұрын
WOW ! Thank you, that was eye opening!
@marija0682 ай бұрын
Pure perfection!
@bhc5496Ай бұрын
100% agree Sadia
@bhc5496Ай бұрын
I reply again, EXACTLY. 100% accurate. Thank you
@786GGАй бұрын
im not with shamile. for ten years we were barely together. the only reason hes stuck to me now is cause he knows im clean and a money maker. hes going real soon anyway.
@aquadisiak935729 күн бұрын
Happiest people I find are blue collar Latin families. They have fewer options, and strong family ties. There fun is centered around family gatherings. The more you have the more you want.
@TheZygomaticus12 ай бұрын
That was like a Miss Universe ultimate answer. Clear as the sun explanation. It’s like the masculine and feminine traits are lost. The advancement of humanity becomes its greatest enemy, in a sense. Money comes and goes, Beauty fades, Character stays. ☀️
@TokyoTaisu2 ай бұрын
so wisely spoken
@civilapalyan6253Ай бұрын
I love this woman
@matheusstotti13 күн бұрын
OK SENSEI - LOOKING TO PUT LIGHT ON MY INSECURITIES
@Happy-Me.Ай бұрын
If she's lied in her past you can't trust her no matter hiw much she tells yiu that she has changed. As Maya Angelou said: When a woman lets you know who she is believe her!!
@chadsensei-ue6jn2 ай бұрын
Neuroses, neglect or abuse.
@bobdon80832 ай бұрын
This is a generalisation and please dont shoot the messenger but Unfortunately some women in their youth make bad choices and pick rich boys pretty boys bad boys immature and irresponsible men men with multiple kids by different women etc and all the men that other imnature women tell them they should desire. Women crave excitement and entertainment in their youth and don't want to be bored. Some Women make bad choices until they are in their late 20s early 30s and even into their 40's and blame all men for those choices then look around and there's no one left.There were nice guys that wanted them but they were too boring or nerdy or not cool or macho enough when they were young. Their mothers should be educating them on the kind of men they should be looking for not their immature friends. By the time they realise its often too late. Most women make great choices and have great long term relationships based on sound practical decisions and don't judge books by their covers but look deeper. We all often pick the same kind of partner when young and have a type and keep making the same mistakes and if you could just have guidance when young this could go a long way to leading to happy healthy long term adult relationships. Until this dynamic shifts it will only get worse.
@ryanbain6182 ай бұрын
Truth!!!!
@gwynnielsen50812 ай бұрын
This is SO incredibly true. So many people entering relationships don't take themselves into consideration at all. This is exactly what we need to do: take a personal inventory. The problem is that by the time we work things out with ourselves, the persons of interest might have taken off with others who might be more together :). When you get to certain age, you are so messed up from life experience that you are better off keeping things platonic so that there aren't any expectations.
@user-jw1bl4hq9j2 ай бұрын
LOYALTY TO ONE WOMAN ONLY ……🤷🏻♀️
@josephpimentel7671Ай бұрын
Gambling problem
@user-mq1bm9he3bАй бұрын
Yes, when the average woman makes her filter and guard up as women are ready to share the Chad , the average man has to find a solution, but cheeper. So, phonograghy come to heel without responsibility. One of friend told this concept 29 years ago, we all laughed at him. It is truth.
@antonyohenderson12 ай бұрын
What's her page
@paulsaragosa3712 ай бұрын
Godspeed u women's prideful women's self entitled and their own actions 🎬 their actions makes them more difficult for their actions makes them feel women's health insurance companies are filing bankruptcy and car loans can also require additional credit card number and financial aid to God bless you all and
@paulsaragosa3712 ай бұрын
Women's are going camping up and in side the world s global depression and the suffering muddy camping trip with your family momas itas provides you with all your endeavors women's
@stephenmoist6232 ай бұрын
We NEED more Traditional Women ! Men are leaving our Country to find Traditional women in other countries where American men are well respected !!!!!
@mikestoneking4992Ай бұрын
my wife is very boreing now
@melwest1407Ай бұрын
He's looking at these attention seekers ,but he would go mental if I posed in the same ways, sick of it,woman have made woman's lifes harder ,
@rosaliemarie46202 ай бұрын
Is this video Black and white??? Or am I becoming color Blind
@TokyoTaisu2 ай бұрын
original is in color
@nerizamontoya65122 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 lol
@peterm2152Ай бұрын
give us a break....
@pharaohcaesarАй бұрын
I make sure any woman who wants to be with me knows exactly what they can and cannot expect from me. I explain my boundaries and my expectations. I explain what I can offer and what I can not. I don't try and hide myself. I don't believe in lying. I do have a dark side to my personality and I explain to them before hand what will trigger that bad side from coming out. I'm like a two sided coin. I can be the nicest sweetest person you've ever met or I can become the worst nightmare you can imagine. I like to explain my personality this way. I am like a dragon. I love to be in my cave with my princess and my treasure. I am a very sweet and protective dragon. But just don't ever forget that I am a dragon.
@kingrichard72842 ай бұрын
Nana i always this question why dont u answer me once and for all" is it true that lucifer is the most beautiful angel of all the angels?." I want to hear it from your own mouth thank u.
@Contractwiththeuniverse.2 ай бұрын
Long live pornography!!
@user-zz8hl8se6tАй бұрын
For porno? i dont think sex movies is a reason at all, just watch it with her and be honest
@davideboiardiАй бұрын
What are her qualifications? I never agree with anything she says.