Eight minutes and twenty five seconds of pure common sense, well done

From the other side: I was attracted to my husband because he treated those around him well, even people he was in a position of power over at his job. He wasn't a doormat: his no meant no, and he wasn't afraid to say no. But he was fair and consistent with everyone, followed through when he said "yes" to something, and he tried to help people around him and treat them with respect. Eight years of marriage and three kids later, he's shown himself to be a terrific husband and father (and I tell him so often). That strength at the service of others stuff really does work if a committed and healthy long term relationship is what you want. It doesn't mean being a weak doormat, it means having a sense of justice even when it doesn't benefit you to be just and following through on your word.

You're a good role model and your straight-forward way of communicating is very effective and refreshing, Greg. Please keep it up, it's much needed and appreciated.

I think in the absence of fathers (good fathers) a lot of men are seeking advice from “Top Gs” on social media. Men who have someone giving them good advice on the world (and women) on a regular basis don’t need to seek it elsewhere. Andrew Tate was a perfect example. He said his father was never around much, so no one ever gave him love or advice (or anything of substance) on how to be a man…so he I am assuming he fell back on material stuff (cigars, cars, etc) as what it is to be a man. It’s the blind leading the blind and overall just sad.

I like it when you have these sit down advice chats. They are good reality checks for me. Your words bring up good points that make me critically reflect on my own life for a while. They also tend to motivate me to get some work done, which is nice. Have a nice day!

This is why one of my favorite manly men in fiction is Aragorn. He is almost the perfect depiction of the “servant king”. He is very masculine and the first to go into battle, while also being loving, loyal, humble, and wise. This is such a great video!

Somebody make this man go viral! I don't have social media, somebody help!

I've done Dubai+cars+guns and it's fun. For a while. But it's a bonus, not a way to live a life.

This channel is great. It shows you can give advice, review movies etc. Without being bitter and angry.

I'm a woman but this video gives me a bit of hope in the world. I've had to unfollow a lot of male political KZfaqrs because their comments sections were honestly depressing and anger-inducing with how they lumped all women into the same box. I hope to find a good husband with the same values as you one day. Please keep up the amazing work! 🙏

Agree with you 100% on male leaders being in positions of service. The Bible does say that wives should submit to their husbands, but it also says husbands should live their wives as Christ loved the church. It logically follows that the husband should respect his wife, help his wife, ask her for her opinions, and put her needs (and the needs of their children) first.

4:40 is just so true, my bro from school is like this but can’t see why he’s unhappy, and why he keeps on ending up with girls who fucks around with him

I know so many guys who complain that women always cheat on them. Whenever I probe further it's always some chick who they met on some hookup app, talks about how promiscuous she is, does her makeup like an onlyfans model, or a combination of the three. Then it's a constant tirade of "women are all whores", "you can't trust women", etc and they never piece together that maybe they should stop actively seeking out the worst possible candidates for a long term relationship.

Have people already forgotten that the term "Alpha Male" was corrected by the man that kinda coined the term. He went back on that term, however others disregarded him and still use it to this day. It still makes absolutely no sense how it's used.

You're saving people and don't even know it. Today was a tough one for me, but now I feel better after watching this, the bad toughts went away; thanks chief! :)

They are monetizing on the vulnerabilities of young men , in doing so , it become hateful towards women as well as towards themselves . It is surprising that they always talk about on self improvement and maintaining distance from women but their whole existence depends upon women whether its hatred or defining woman or controlling them . They are literally deriving their manhood from the women. I think these men need "self love " first ....one has to talk about phenomena "men policing other men" because most of these happen because men judge other men on these toxic values ..Men need other men's validation for realization of masculinity. It is the other men who will judge you more or look down upon on you if you don't have a "HOT "girlfriend and likewise you will feel devalued if you don't have a hot girlfriend like your male friend

Excellent video. Well thought out and articulated.

The people who watch those videos don't really want to be "better men," they just want an excuse to keep being assholes.

I don’t think the manosphere is about “being a good man”. It’s about self improvement and understanding that as a man, no one is going to come save you. It’s about knowing that as a man, you don’t have to accept what society is trying to shove down your throat. What men want matters. It brings awareness to the current state of relationships in an era of modern feminism and blatant misandry. You’ve seen this on full display in our entertainment. I think the manosphere has some valid lessons on what it takes to protect yourself as a man in today’s society. Honestly, married men have already gotten out of the game, so they don’t know what it’s like anymore. I say this as a married man myself. I wouldn’t want to be single right now, but I’m glad the manosphere exists. Without it, all we would ever get is one side of the story, and it’s been that way for YEARS. That’s why we have corporations like Disney trashing their male audience in order to boost female egos. The manosphere isn’t perfect, but it’s finally here, and I say it’s about time. To all the young men out there, take whatever good actionable advice you can from the manosphere and cast aside what doesn’t work for you, but don’t dismiss it outright. There is value to be had there.

Thanks for your advice, man. You seem like a good man and a good father, and your advice seems sound and genuine. Thank you. I will do my best to be a better man to my fiancé, and a better father to my children in the future. Thank you.

appreciate your content!

People like Andrew Tate understand the problem but have the wrong solution. Materialism and narcissism isn't the solution. Being a husband, a father, a community member, serving others and serving God is the real solution.

The best positive video I’ve seen in 3 years.

The manosphere has turned masculinity into a utilitarian, selfish mindset. The reason i respect my dad is because he always tries. He's flawed but he shows he cares and he, like my mother, is a rather selfLESS person. Manosphere doesn't get this, they're a reaction to neo fiminism, they're about "humbling" women and competing with them, pretty much the mirror image of what they hate most.

Bravo! Finally, a completely sounded, non-toxic and purposeful real advice for those lost ones.

Very nicely said. Leadership in the household begins and ends with humility. Being willing to serve in all aspects of parenting, marriage, and life in general is the most important thing of all. That being said, there is also a problem with countless women taking advantage of this in relationships (my own included for over a decade) until I started asserting my worth to her and establishing boundaries. My wife stopped treating sex like a weapon or a treat, and started focusing on my happiness as much as I was focusing on hers.

"And one other because some boy couldn't do his job as a man". Absolutely savage😂

wow, I love that cardboard play button.

There's real issues that men are facing. Society dumps on them at every turn. They will inevitably seek out help.

Great video, the manosphere is mega cringe. I have been happily married for 20 years.

probably the first person break down that movement like this ✊🏽✅

Attracting women into your life is simple. Be FUN. That's it, if you are fun to be around people will want to be around you. That's step one in Attracting women, real fucking complicated.

Greg the issue today is being a GOOD MAN is not good enough anymore! Let me make myself VERY CLEAR as well I 1,000,000,000% agree with you! Several of your qualifications that you've stated women stop looking for! 😩😵‍💫🤦🏾‍♂️

You shouldn't let anyone tell you how to live. Figure shit out for yourself and follow your own path.

Whenever I see discourse about masculinity, it’s always either horrible people like Tate, or a gaggle of people screaming about how “toxic” men are and there’s never any other option. I’m sick of it.

Thankyou for being the elder brother I never had...

Thank you for speaking the truth 👍

Get this man a mic !

Truth!

on a side note if you need to away tip toe around someone in a relationship its a good time to move on cause that just not healthy

Wisdom

From Christian perspective this is the truth.

Typical ham & egger mentality. Good luck in front of the judge.

Although I disagree that the man *should* always be the leader, I can’t really find much fault with your perspective. And I’m a dreaded feminist, of the non-woke, second wave variety. In my marriage, who “leads” in any given situation depends on our individual strengths. Big impactful life decisions? I have the final say, as my man is rather hot-headed and ruled by feelings, which he acknowledges. Getting shit done day by day, like a financial savings plans with a concrete end goal? HE has the say, as I live in my head w abstract concepts and so lose track easier, so he’s better at that stuff. I’m big-picture, he’s detail. I’m surprised you didn’t mention The Big Grift. I think the main reason these manosphere ideologies are so contradictory and poisoned with counterproductive misogyny (other than the copium) is that happy, self-actualized men make for poor repeat customers. Have you seen how much these sheisters charge for their “workshops” and shit? The advice cultivates shallow materialism, preventing true inner contentedness, and pushes away any good women with the misogyny, only attracting user-types which further cements their misogyny, thereby creating a vicious self-fulfilling prophecy where the man desperately consumes everything these “gurus” shit out. Keeping that 💰 flowing!

Andrew Tate is a product of Western Society. There's a reason a non-Western version of him isn't as prolific.

Almost everyone I know has been basically worshipping Andrew Tate. Thank you for the refreshing perspective

Thanks for making this. More men need to hear from men how toxic this red pill crap is. My marriage is on the rocks thanks to red pill advice I didn't realize I was following. My best friend of 30 years helped me get through a difficult time in my relationship back in 2020. He was like a relationship guru. But as problems arose last year, he started giving me some really questionable advice. He told me that if we argued I would have to tell her to "shut the f*** up" because it would put her in her place; That treating her like shit will release "masculine" energy which will make her respect me more. And if I were to ever open up my feelings and show vulnerability I'll lose her because that's "feminine" energy. Something felt off but I trusted him. Well, now we're unofficially separated. It wasn't until after the fact that I learned about the red pill movement and I realized where my friend was getting all this advice from. From day one, I hated Fresh and Fit, Rollo Tomasi, Andrew Tate and all those other con men. I think it's too late for my friend though. He's gonna be single forever.

Exemplary logic.

God tells us as men to be a leader to our family, as He is to us, to be like Jesus. That means first off that we should be an example of love, humbleness, truth, and righteousness. We should serve our families and protect even if it means death, a man's responsibility as the leader, means also being the one who should lay his life down, both physically, and metaphorically, to support his family. When it comes to whether your wife and children will respect you, the best we can do is show them love, wisdom, and understanding. If you want a better sex life? Try to understand your wife, talk to her, be patient, be loving, be understanding, be sacrificial. If you want your kids to respect you, show that you are slow to anger, wise in thought and actions, and compassionate, firm in your beliefs in truth and righteousness. A man doesn't demand respect, he gains it through his actions, actions that make people want to follow him, and want to be with him. God peace

how come you say your local religious organization and than further and that sentence say the S word now i'm just confused 😅

Best video you have ever done. Lose the swearing though.

Interesting. So you're suggesting that just IF - we follow the example that Christ set as a servant and align ourselves with what the Apostle Paul tells us men in Corinthians - our relationships will improve? Hhhmmmmm.....

I am too a happily married man that recently came across the Red Pill/Manosphere movement. However, you seemed to disagree more with the messengers than the message, namely Andrew Tate. Men need to have these discussions about relationships, marriage, family, purpose, and social and political constructs. I appreciate that you disagree with their approach, but your argument is based on conjecture and personal viewpoints. While the Manosphere's position is based on data points pulled from government and corporate agencies. The common sense reasoning you are using does not match the majority of men's reality. I would encourage you to take a deeper dive into the Red Pill movement and the statistics. The movement is not about making men better but making men more aware of what we are up against in Western society dominated by social media.

No offense, but I hope you'll stick to talking about movies.

3:03 I don't really agree here. Everything I'm about to say can be applied the other way as well, it's just less common that men sexually starve their wives. It's easy to make an emotional case that women don't owe men sex but that's just bs in a marriage. The only marriage where I'd concede that point is one where the wife has no issue with her husband getting his with someone else freely if she's not interested. You marry that man and take him off the market, in a just scenario anyways, and you also remove all other women from his plate. Now he has zero sexual outlet but you. You are the only one in the world that he can have any sexual contact with based on the terms of the marriage and we're telling women they don't owe their husbands sex? That's literally the only thing he's not allowed to outsource lol. He doesn’t need you to clean, he can get a maid. He doesn’t need you to cook, places do that already. I don't like having other people raising people's kids, but he can get people to do that too. The only thing he's not allowed to go to a third party for is sex, and that's what people want to tell wives they don't have to do lol. If we're not having sex, why are we married? Why is he wasting his time, effort, and money on you if you don't think it's your responsibility to keep him sexually satisfied? That doesn't make any sense. Now I'm not advocating for sex slavery of women, but the only thing that separates a good friend and a spouse is sex. I didn't marry my wife to be her friend. I was already her friend. I could've kept doing that without risking my assets. I married her for sex. You're a Christian yourself, even the scriptures plainly tell married couples that your bodies don't belong to yourselves but to your spouses and to not neglect to "come together" except for a time that's agreed upon by both of you. Starving your spouse of sex is just as wrong as cheating on them honestly. So, if you're a woman who doesn't mind him fulfilling his needs outside the home if you're not feeling it then good on you, this isn't for you. But if you expect that man to only have sex with you and no one else, for the rest of their natural life then it's a moral and scriptural wrong to make your husband do without for a month, a year a decade, all of which is commonplace now because this "women don't owe their husbands sex" bullshit lol. I agree with everything you said other than that one statement, and I'm not disagreeing because I think wives should be MADE to have sex with their husbands because I don't, but if they starve their husbands then they are absolutely failing at being a wife. I don't care if they keep the house up, I don't care if they are taking very good care the kids. If they aren't fulfilling their husband’s sexual needs then they are just a live-in maid/cook/nanny, and then they act like the husband is the dog when they step out to wet their willy. Husbands absolutely have duties in marriage, and when they fail at them, they are rightfully called out, as you did to your friend, but then we turn around and act like wives don't have any responsibilities, or that husbands not doing a good job is an excuse for them not putting out and it's not an excuse. She's just as wrong as he was, and him doing better isn't even a guarantee that she'll start putting out. What happens if he makes those corrections and comes back later and says nothing’s changed? "Sorry bro, looks like you're just gonna deal with it, your WIFE doesn't have to put out if she doesn’t want too you know." What nonsense lol. I'll put it this way. It's like you telling a child that it isn't their parent's job to make sure they are fed. Who the hell else's job is it? It's not the kid's responsibility to feed him/herself. It's like the government making themselves the only supplier of electricity then telling the public that it's not their job to provide them power. Where the hell else are they gonna go for power? It feels nice to tell someone they don't have to do something they don't want to do but it destroys marriages and causes weaponization of sex. "Hey boo if you get me that new bag I want, I'll do that thing you like." "Oh you don't like the food I made? Let's see how much you like a month without this pussy." "Honey, you think I can have you tonight?" " Why, what have you done for me lately?." No man would've be supported or applauded for telling a woman "Hey boo if do that thing I like, I'll let you eat the food I bought." "Oh you don't wanna have sex tonight? Let's see how much you like a month without this roof over your head." "Honey, you think you could buy me that bag I told you about?" "Why, what have you done for me lately?." If those statements sound abusive but the statements from the women don't then welcome to the modern world lol. The problem is though, that women can withstand all that because they can get a job while married. No one ridicules women for working in the mainstream. What can the man do? Not a damn thing and any attempt to plead his case, like your friend, results in "it's not her job to give you sex." Anyways love your content.

I'm sorry sir but the moment you said you were married you kind of declared yourself as a lapdog any married man isn't happy marriage is the worst mistake of man since WMD was created and atleast WMD can win you wars marriage doesn't do anything. I agree with the rest though.

yeah another guy telling you what it means to be a man

This is literally the only video I have given you the thumbs down.