I think about this music video a lot. There are just so many little moments that make it memorable. Whoever the actors and director are are outstanding; this is my idea of what a music video should be.

I played this song on repeat the last night my brother was alive because he loved you guys. I think this song is forever going to mean something to me

Yet another band I discovered through my kid....damn good.

This makes me miss something I was never a part of

The acting/directing in this video is better than most high budget films.... damn that was an amazing music video

I have lived this experience, and let me tell you: the bliss and ecstasy does not compare to the level of heart-destruction that occurs after it's all over. Be careful guys n gals.

This song to me is about how important it is to be okay with being alone. Because if you can't be okay being alone with yourself, how will you be okay being alone with someone when everything else has stopped? During the silent moments, during the boring ones. When everyone else has left the party, and it's just the 2 of you, are you both strong enough individually and together that you have a great foundation? That you can sit through the silent or boring or still moments together and still feel just as happy. Or did you need the craziness and chaos of the party around you to keep you together? Because at the end of the day, when you're in a relationship, it comes down to just the 2 of you. Nothing else matters but how the 2 of you are together, separate from everything else.

It's been a long time since I've felt something watching a music video. That was awesome.

When a music video looks as the song sounds. And this is amazing

This night was great. They ended up playing a quick set after we finished up filming for the night. Menzingers in a living room is something I’ll never forget.

Guy who directed this vid needs a goddamn oscar..

Man I partied with these guys over a decade ago at my singers house after they played a show with us in my town before they became huge. It's nice to see how far they've come since then.

Idk how but they just perfectly deciphered how "You don't care if anyone is watching" can mean two completely different things, 1:29 and 2:35 . Man. Thats crazy

Nothing like this music video late at night while drinking a beer to remind you of a dysfunctionally manic relationship. The lows were frequent and the reason I ended things, but god dammmit the highs almost feel worth it on nights like this. I hate her; I miss her.

im a music video freak. ive been obsessed with watching music video my whole life, and I watch them everyday.. this is my favorite one. its just so well done.

It's the little things my mind commits To etch behind my eyelids Like getting stoned when we wake up Coffee grounds and coffee cups Your silhouette in high top sneakers And hardcore from laptop speakers The classics to the more obscure From Minor Threat to your old roommate's band Like a kaleidoscope in vibrant hues I navigate around your tattoos Said you got that one on a whim when you were breaking up with him And that Matryoshka Russian doll That lines your shelf from big to small What a way to start anew To shed your skin and find the old you Everybody wants to get famous But you just want to dance in a basement You don't care if anyone is watching Just as long as you stay in motion We put miles on these old jean jackets Got caught up in the drunk conversations But after the party, it's me and you After the party, it's me and you With a new outlook on everything we see From high upon this rooftop over South Philly To the nights we lose our self control From the sex, from the drugs, from the rock and roll Everybody wants to get famous But you just want to dance in a basement You don't care if anyone is watching Just as long as you stay in motion We put miles on these old jean jackets Got caught up in the drunk conversations But after the party, it's me and you After the party, it's me and you After the party, it's me and you After the party, it's me and you

I wish all music videos were made by Kyle Thrash.

My marriage has been falling apart for a long time and every scene of this video feels like a biography. It hurts but it’s beautiful

I've watched this over 30 times and well I can't get over the song and music video, best music video I've seen in years.

It won't happen, but I want every song from this album to have a music video. Greg & Tom's storytelling is unmatched right now in punk rock. This video was everything I originally wanted and more. Props to these guys and Kyle Thrash!

This band, God this band, just puts their finger on the pulse of a moment, a feeling, a time in our lives when things were there worst and the best all at the same time. More than likely we've all moved on from that moment where responsibility and life didn't get in the way and we were free to be whoever the fuck we wanted to be. But then a song like this hits the speakers and it all comes back. There's something special when music that can do that.

Hands down best song off the album, maybe simply just their best song.

Yeah this video is pretty amazing. It shows every emotion felt throughout a relationship - the fun, excitement, laughter, are all here. Then onto the fighting, crying, hating. Such a rollercoaster of emotions captured so well in this song and video. A+

kyle thrash music videos are always the fucking best. especially when they're for amazing bands like the menzingers, holy shit!

That guitar tone in the intro lets you know everything you need to know about how this song is gonna make you feel.

Videos like this (and Kyle Thrash videos especially) always remind me that there are a million versions of a million stories happening everywhere around us. Mind blowing.

The scenes 1:29 and 2:35 Both describe how "You don't care if anyone is watching" can blatantly mean two different things. You don't care if anyone watches us have sex, or fight. Whoever directed this, you're a god damn talented dude

This band is New Found Glory for 90's kids that are almost 30 now.

I love and relate so much to the story this song/video tells. Ive been in a couple of these amazingly disfunctional/codependent relationships. They are paradoxical in that from my experience the passion and companionship experienced compared to that of which most would call a "healthy" relationship is greatly unsurpassed. The inseperable attraction, the sex, comradery, usually drugs, reckless devotion, and what i call the "Bonnie and Clyde" or "Sid and Nancy" mentality are what make these relationships so intensely devoted yet highly destructive. For me memories of this type of relationship comprise equally the best and worst memories of my life. I think what happens is a rare phenomena when two rebel kindred spirits discover, come to understand and identify each others true nature. While this sounds ideal for any relationship the issue is the "rebel" side of their nature (for lack of a better word, character flaw would be innacurate of what im describing). These are characteristics and behaviors that when paired with another spirit with its own unique characteristic/behaviors tend to ideally balance each other out. When the two aforementioned "kindred rebel spirits" meet these potentially damaging characteristics are embraced, brought to the forefront and exacerbated. Again, from my experience these two souls form a perfect storm of unflinching loyalty, unhealthy infatuation, lovedrunkeness, the melting of each of their individual needs and identities and more often than not at the very least borderline substance abuse tendencies. The merger described above often devolves from an intense unparalleled bond/romance to a codependent, drug riddled embodiment of chaos and debauchery. The end of which usually for me signaled a trip to rehab, a requisite changing of phone number/address and emotional scars which usually take me a couple years to move past. Dont get me wrong. Im not entirely denouncing this type of relationship. As i said before the love and connection i felt in these relationships is still to this very day incomparable and unmatched. I wouldnt trade that experience of having felt so intensely about and forging an unbreakable bond with another person for anything. Was it highly unhealthy behavior that ultimately ended in an equally intensive chaotic heartbroken dischord? Absolutely but experiencing this vast, complex range of feelings/emotions concurrently with someone else is what comprises the best parts of being human. Of course the destructive nature and woes that follow would comprise the other nature of being human. You either get burned by the fiery passion, learn from it and move on/heal or it consumes you and a departure in a fiery blaze of debauched, codependent glory is inevitable. I have personally experienced two such relationships. One sent me down a dark path where once passion and burning love reigned but were replaced by vengeful anger and spiteful indignation. I didnt understand what the saying "a thin line between love and hate" really meant until embarking on that darkest of journeys. The second aforedescribed scenario culminated in a trip to rehab followed by a still to this day ongoing process of self rediscovery and emotional healing. Sorry for the longwinded sappy verbal diarrhea, but seeing this video dredged up intentionally buried feelings. I felt it necessary for cathartic ends to tell my story of life,love,sex,violence and heroin as I relate it to this song/video. I would love to hear similar stories from others. When im feeling robotic from the work/eat/playiflucky/sleep cycle i watch this video and take a stroll down debauched memory lane to remind me im still human and was fortunate to know the absolute best and the infernally worse the human experience has to offer. #noregrets #theanarchyandtheecstacy # lovemolotovsandrevolution

first time in years a music video has made me feel something. This one touched my soul, it was a throwback to everything my current relationship has gone through in these 4 years I've been in it. Beautiful, and it adds extra meaning to the song, which is not an easy thing to do. Congrats, guys.

I'm an 'old' punk rocker from NJ. Played in bands and with bands my entire high school and college years. This band reminds me of those days. Fantastic nostalgia and a fantastic band.

at one point in my life, this was so exact. i don't feel nostalgia, i feel dread that i won't go back...not from lack of trying, but from the bridges that faded away as everyone else grew up.

i don't think i can ever hear this song without crying. what i've lost. what is gone. it's ok she didn't stay. she just left a lot of scars that will never heal. it's ok my friends moved back home. the cops still barge into our old haunts on noise complaints no one made. the only regret is that i let it all go to my head.

I'm sure half the people watching this video had already imagined most of it while listening to the song. So good. Gave me chills!

This is literally the 5000th time I've seen this song since its upload. Singing along to this song feels surreal.

I get it. We were young. I was 21, she was 19. It was absolute CHAOS. But within that chaos, was something absolutely fucking beautiful.

This is the first music video in years that made me feel something special. Not good, not bad, but something different. What a masterpiece.

99% of people watching this are thinking of someone’s they miss more then they’d like to admit.

One of the most underrated bands in the history of everything

To my old friend Mac, I hope you still get to dance in a basement here and there. Thanks for being a friend and an example. Love you man.

This video reminds me of the series Skins. The parties, drugs, alcohol, romance, struggle,... I love it

This is my song for my husband, we had a lot of parties back in the day but it was always just us the morning after. This music video was my late teens/early twenties, honestly didn't know if we'd make it out alive..

This song is so amazing. Theres an undoubtable melancholy yet a sense of happiness in chaos. Beyond happy I was introduced to this.

This is my favorite song in the last 10 years

What a beautiful love song.

This looks like a season recap for Shameless. I dig it.

Like peering into the last 7 years of my life. Goodbye, old kid. Time for lots of growth, alone. And sober.

I think this is my favorite music video.

Saw them with PUP and Cayetana on their European Tour! I just wanted to see PUP but was suprised by how good this band is. One of the best concerts iv'e been to and amazing line up

I don't think any pair of music and video will ever surpass this.

One of the most relatable, heart wrenching songs AND videos I've listened to and have seen in forever. Thanks guys!

Incredible video all around, but imo the best shot is when the 2nd chorus comes in when the lead actress leans down to scream into the camera then it jumps to her lifting her head up off of the bar. Amazing stuff.

Late 2019? Anyone else on this masterpiece?

This video used to make me miss my ex; I recently realized how nice stability and comfort are.

GONNA SEE THESE GUYS AGAIN!!!! WOOOOOO!!!

To the guy who directed this MV, you should be proud man. We're proud of you.

The quick part at 2:15 where she looks at the food being made, instead of her boyfriend, felt so real. Looking at anything else to avoid what's in front of you, is such a big part of destructive relationships. The direction for this video was amazing.

saw them last week, this song hit so hard live!

Man. This song fucking jams. The second I watch the video, it completely changes the vibe. Fine line between head banging and crying.

The more I listen to this song the more it hits home to life

This song has been hitting me tough recently... I've been with my partner for 14 years, and we both have separate lives and other relationships. We've been through so much together, and no matter what happens, we are still ride or die for each other. Its such a special feeling. After the party, it's me and you....

This is like a trailer for a Netflix series with a dope soundtrack. Man I'd watch the fuck out of that

My favourite "love song". And "Strangers Forever" is my favourite "break-up song".

I listen to this song every time I miss her and I can't help crying inside, I light a cigarette and just look at the night sky knowing as the only consolation that the Lord at some point will let me be back in his arms and she in mine. .. It's so hard...

Well. shit. I was right, the whole album is fucking amazing.

Boyfriend sent this to me one day while we were fighting. Probably one of my favorite songs now, reminded me that in the grand scheme there are more important things to worry about then the little stuff. (More music videos for this album pls!)

Never watched such a fitting and absolutely beautiful video to go with hearing the song for the first time.

Went thru a break up 2 years ago with my longest relationship. Made me start playing music and skating again. Hearing it now reminds me why i started again

This video almost makes me miss being in a dysfunctional relationship.

Its so shitty that the loves like this we experience usually end up backfiring on us in the worst way. Thanks Menzingers for writing this song

Lived this when we had a shitty one bedroom apartment. Nothing matters when you have each other.

I lost my best friend this summer. This was our favourite song. Cherish your loved ones.

Why have I only just found these guys on my pop punk travels... rocking 🤘

Since i couldn't find any comment that gave credit to the actors, They are Alexandra Chelaru and Chris Petrovski :)

Every time I watch this I think about my wife. It hurts. I know you're done babe, but I'd give anything to come home. I love you. More than anything in the world. I love you.

This video is an ode for allworking class couples 🖤

These guys are both amazing actors.

Wow! They won me over. I'm a fan

For those whos feelin so emotional about that incredible music vídeo, lifes just an adventure wich no one gets out alive. Keep that in your mind, do what you want to do, be kind to people, win money, be free, stop feeling guilty, listen to those songs, chill. I wish the BEST to ALL of you.

Always keep coming back to this song..moving on sux wish the party was over already.

I wish I found The Menzingers early in my younger years !!!! You guys Rock , keep it up . Thanks for great tunes

Just discovered this band, and I gotta say it's growing on me. It's got a hot water music kinda sound to it

Album of the year. Song of the year. Video of the year. Band of the year

I'm not crying you're crying

this makes me miss not having a care in the world and just having reckless fun with friends

The partys long been over and we're STILL together..damn havin a soulmate is crazy! Seriously I shouldn't even be here but she helped bring me back three (3) times! I wouldn't change a thing..well maybe 1 er 2 things but thats it!

Let’s be honest; this is the best band of the 21st century.

cant begin to describe how amazing this song is,possibly this will go down as their best track (IMO) and for once its so nice to see a video that matches the song.I love how it tells a story of love,loss,hardship....ah I better stop now....too many teenage memories flooding back,cheers!

That Restorations coffee cup 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

Kyle thrash is the king of making bad ass punk music videos

I had a lump in my throat watching this - so so good!

The type of love these two are experiencing is the type of love that is decribed as riding the line of "love and hatred." Although most likely to happen young, this type of love can appear in anybody's life at any age. You have two rebellious spirits fusing together to create a whirlwind of emotions a "healthy relationship" wouldn't be able to compete with - as the downs of the relationship create a false sense of high when the ups do occassionally come around - a yin and yang sensation one could say. This sensation usually happens within the youth as they are experiencing new emotions more often than mature adults, and are accustomed to the emotional instability that frequents their youth as a part of growing up. Not to mention, the beginning stages of alcohol use or abuse, as they are completely new emotions and highs, that at that age, one isn't experienced enough with. So you have a whirlwind of new emotions (love and substance abuse) forming incontrollable feelings and thoughts while sharing this journey with another carefree and like-minded soul, you head straight into the tornado of souls that leads to confused and explosive arguments which in turn, correlates to wildly emotional and passionate sex. This kind of passion frequents people who grew up with a rough childhood, as they are used to the chaos that these relationships hold. You add the normalcy of chaos and dip it in a pool of love, and you're met with the destructive infatuation, the substance abuse, the chaotic spontaneous nights, the passionate make-up sex, the highly emotional arguments, and hidden insecurities, all to create the perfect storm of passion, love, and chaos. Some of these relationships make it out alive, some end up as scars on people's hearts forever. The passion for life one shares as a youth is the same energy they put into relationships, only this relationship adds an extra variable to the mix; the rebellious spirit. The majority of people in their youth feel they hold this spirit, but the truth is - its only the small majority that can truly be spontaneous and live without any security or stable variables within their lives - and that's where/why this relationship becomes so explosively passionate and yet has the potential for complete destruction and toxicity at the same time. Two souls that have lived their entire lives without the emotional attachment to very much, suddenly find an undesirable need for each other. Their rebellious spirits aren't accustomed to emotionally relying on someone, and now that same spirit is telling them they cannot live without the other person. Through the rebellious nature they try to fight it but know they can't. So they let themselves fall harder than ever before as they're not used to balancing such emotions - the rebellious spirit feeds off of extreme's of emotions, thus allowing them to fall really hard - and the other rebellious soul goes through the same thing, thus creating an unbreakable bond as the souls finally feel connected to somebody similar. When you get older, you can still experience this same passion through same shared rebellious spirit, although you lose the yang that comes from the fighting, (as you're more mature and have a better grasp on your emotions) you fill it with other adrenaline filled adventures with your significant other to continue the passionate sex, and to grasp the need for the rebellious spirits to fulfill their love for a highly emotional and passionate relationship. It's also good to note that passionate relationships as such, require the perfect person to share it with, you can have everything you want in a person and the passionate spark be non-existent. For those of you who have found something similar in this video, embrace it and do whatever it takes to keep the spark alive, it is very possible to share this fueled passion many decades later into a marriage. One of the greatest gifts about getting older is to share this same passion and youthful love with somebody minus the toxicity and destruction of the immature arguments.

This is amazing, gotta say. Also, the video/story reminds me of Shameless.

This video makes me cry every time. I was 18 in 2005, a wonderful girlfriend and unlimited time in the moment was this….

Guess watching this video after a painful breakup wasn't a good idea after all. Still love this song though

am i the only one who listens to the album almost everyday? it means a lot to me, and i'm still 23 😂

This song makes my heart hurt in a good way. Perfect.

This reminds me of the hundreds of rock shows I went to.... Vans warped tour was always insane!!!

One of my favorite songs and music videos of all time

The fact that this song is not in the billboard top 10 proves the world knows nothing about quality music anymore