THE MOST EMOTIONAL VIDEO I WILL EVER MAKE | STARTING OVER

THE MOST EMOTIONAL VIDEO I WILL EVER MAKE | STARTING OVER | Life Update

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This is deeply personal to me and probably the most emotional video I will ever make. I'm sharing it because it is only fair to share the downs as well as the ups.
Thank you to everyone that has supported me so far, I hope to have your continued support whilst I go through this very difficult time. My marriage may be over but my life is not.
Let's start this new chapter together and see what life has in store for us. Onwards and upwards as they say.
See you in the next one.
Dela.
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@bcaiqs Жыл бұрын

As a single divorced woman , I’m so sorry to see the pain in your face and hear it in your voice . I wish you and your family all the best . If I could do it all over again , I would have fought for my marriage because the carnage is not worth it . Seek counseling even though you are now single and make sure the kids mental health is taken care of as well . When all the dust settles, the kids are the ones who get the short end of the the Divorce stick and continue to suffer way after both adults involved have moved on . I pray for the best God has for you and your family 🙏🏽

@brigey Жыл бұрын

Wow, what a shock. When I met Kwame at Melcom a few years ago, he proudly showed me your picture and he was beaming from ear to ear. I was so surprised and happy to meet the husband of natural ghana girl. Though I'm really sad to hear this news, I will be praying for the both of you 🙏

@MoniqueTchimanga Жыл бұрын

This is truly sad, 👑Dela. There is no need to feel embarrassed. I love your honesty in dealing with your audience. Thank you for sharing your story with us. A separation is painful and can happen to the best of us. You are a strong woman who has inspired and is inspiring many. Many of us are really wishing you well, that’s why you will make it through. My prayers are with you and your beautiful family. May the Most High God guide your path, give you more strength and inner peace. 🤍

@moretodela Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏾

@ahnamohr5966 Жыл бұрын

A lot of us have been in your shoes, you’ll get thru this ❤ Be strong!

@AfroMillennialMomma Жыл бұрын

I noticed the change in the videos but I would've never guessed. Sorry for the loss of you guys marriage and I pray that the entire family is able to adjust. Give your self time to mourn. You are still a family unit, just redefined. Try not to feel guilty about your new life path. I'm praying for God's best for you both and the kids. ❤️

@irenedenchi7564 Жыл бұрын

I've been there and it is difficult at first but as you stated, people DO change! I've witnessed it first-hand and was in disbelief for the longest time that the person I thought I knew would treat me this way. (I'm not making an assumption about your situation here. I'm just telling my story). However, once the shock gradually wore off, the most important lesson I learned was realizing that I had to continue putting one foot in front of the other and keep it moving because the world was not going to stop turning while I licked my proverbial wounds; it certainly would not wait until I caught up. No! Time is the most expensive and irreplaceable commodity we have and can never be recouped once it's spent. I never anticipated becoming a single parent but stuff happens and I know everything happens for a reason and I'm all the better for it. Twenty-six years later, I'm still standing and my son has grown into a fine young man! If you're a praying girl like myself, I'd suggest reaching out to Our Heavenly Father. He will never leave you nor forsake you and He'll climb this mountain WITH you. I wish you all the best. This too shall pass.🙏💌

@moretodela Жыл бұрын

Amen

@shani4470 Жыл бұрын

Needed this comment! Amen. So sorry to hear about the loss of the marriage NGG but put God and yourself first.

@AyiviTV Жыл бұрын

Hi Dela, excellent delivery...a class act under difficult circumstances. I respect your decisions. Thanks for sharing and abundant blessings to you all🙏🏾

@delia8892 Ай бұрын

Well said and Amen!

@awuah Жыл бұрын

wow! I would never have guessed that in a million years. You guys had so much chemistry

@edmcgeman5084 Жыл бұрын

Same exact sentiment. Lost faith in humanity

@kofig5519 Жыл бұрын

Yeah. My cynical self would really want to doubt this.

@kwadwoefah2014 Жыл бұрын

If there is no 3rd person involved, NEVER SAY NEVER....allow the storm to settle down and let's see what the future holds. I pray love wins.

@lyslr5401 Жыл бұрын

Your transparency and vulnerability is truly inspiring as well as your strength. I have no doubt that from here on out the rest of your life’s journey will be amazing for both you and your kids. Things happen the way they do for a reason. Sending you hugs and well wishes.

@user-vg5rw8jq8t Жыл бұрын

Praying for you both and the children🙏🏻

@suitelife1781 Жыл бұрын

You’re absolutely right, Life be lifing. So happy you’re doing what’s best for you and your children. I’ll be praying for you and your family. With love from Atlanta, GA. Valerie

@blessedbarsoap8935 Жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear that. Praying for the family. Hang in there sis. God is your strength

@SB-gw2fr Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing...continue to keep the Alight y in your midst. Sometimes in life, we continue with situations because of family, pride, public perception and stigma...this is the time to be you and the healing with follow - much love to you and the family.

@ritasackeykaydea1736 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing hun. I know it not easy but you’ll get through this. You are strong and just surround yourself with those who care and can fill in gaps. God bless xx

@sandiin6885 Жыл бұрын

Sending you hugs and love from Philly. The challenge of each day will make you stronger and ready for restoration. Keep your eyes on the Lord and He will order your steps.

@denisediallo9735 Жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear that. Keep your head up. Sending good thoughts.

@MandaK4111 Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear this Dela. Thank you for sharing. wishing you all the best with this next chapter, can’t wait to see where life takes you 🤎

@christalborn77 Жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear that💙 we all got stuff no need to be embarrassed. Much love

@ajomomandela9845 Жыл бұрын

Peace and love to you my sister. Best wishes going forward for everyone concerned.

@rui37CdjOe Жыл бұрын

All the best! Hang in there. Sending blessings upon blessings to you!

@Thekwane12 Жыл бұрын

BIG hug! That’s all - be kind to yourself in this difficult time.

@daisylanham2353 Жыл бұрын

Keep looking up, getting up and going up.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@insidehildaslife6329 Жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear that! It’s not easy, but we pray for the best. God’s plan is the best.

@msmercy5280 Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that . Wishing you the best of luck in raising the kids . May the good lord protect your family in this difficult times 🙏

@ladyghana5603 Жыл бұрын

Well Blessings to you and your family! and stay strong 💪🏾 life will work out things in due time

@amorkor4 Жыл бұрын

Awwww all we ask you to do is stay strong. As you say, life happens. Hope all works out for you. We love you and are here for you. ❤️

@l.e.sparklesfkaelliesparkl5875 Жыл бұрын

😩Praying for the best outcome for the entire family- esp the Kiddos🙏

@Jennifer_Appiah Жыл бұрын

Many blessings to you beautiful! Sending you so much love! A wonderful new chapter awaits you. Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together. ❤🙏🏾

@bernardm470 Жыл бұрын

All I can say is wow! Praying for you all. Be strong!

@kwabenaglizzy3993 Жыл бұрын

Wow, didn’t expect this video but sending my prayers and love to the both of you and the kids

@84tahlia Жыл бұрын

You are strong, you’ll get through this. Sending prayers for the WHOLE family. ❤

@pramaccra3106 Жыл бұрын

Peace Dela. It is very brave of you to share this information with us. I wish you well. Yes life happens and life goes on. Forward we go.

@mootsooblankson9294 Жыл бұрын

Sending you lots of positive energy and love. Stay strong and know there’s a lot of bright light at the end of the tunnel.

@Luv2TravelWithWave Жыл бұрын

You are such a strong woman. Life happens and we heal. And move forward. Sending my love.

@adomaadjei584 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your truth, Dela. Stay strong my friend. Best of luck to both of you!!!

@TheClickClick Жыл бұрын

May God continue to Bless and keep you safe and best for the future. Love you and what you do. Thank you for all the content. Thank you for sharing with us.

@maxwellyao7696 Жыл бұрын

Stay strong Dela!!! I pray for strength and God willing, you will find your feet in whatever you do! Blessings 😊

@abitofsparkle1dee616 Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry to hear this news , may your new journey lead you to peace & happiness x

@mercyquartey5492 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing Sis 💕. Praying for you and your family as you navigate through this difficult time. God’s got you and He is always faithful 🙏🏾💕💕💕

@josephbrown1573 Жыл бұрын

Wow Dela I am really shocked, I really didn't see this coming . You know what's best for you and your kids .Stay strong, and all the best to you in your future endeavors.

@aadwoaaa Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry to hear about that. Sending you much love. Stay strong ❤

@anitaasare5166 Жыл бұрын

Life must go on sis. I know you made the best decision for you and the kids.

@AkuaOkodie Жыл бұрын

More strength to you queen, so long as there is life there is hope. This is an event not the end of your life. Focus on your healing and creating a beautiful life for you and your children.❣❣❣

@chantellea9938 Жыл бұрын

I haven't watched whole video, but I'm so sorry for your split. Due to the move and having and the arrival a little one I thought everything was fine. Stay strong sis! Praying for you 🙏🏾

@lanaosei9181 Жыл бұрын

This is so sad . Feel like crying. You two were just adorable together. Hope love will find a way to bring you two together 💖💖

@MrLionLC Жыл бұрын

love???? more like common sense, and duty to family, n raising the children to give them the best chance to succeed at life

@ladyf5217 Жыл бұрын

Sorry for this. I hope you continue to grow and be great ❤

@tantiouskitchen582 Жыл бұрын

Wow what a shock!! Praying for both and the children...Hugs ❤️❤️💕💕

@Mrsmcovington007 Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for you and your family. Don't be embarrassed. Everything is working out for your good.

@benoniavah4811 Жыл бұрын

sorry to hear that Dela. I pray for strength for you in these times. stay strong. much love ❤️. thanks.

@Annani22 Жыл бұрын

Sending love and strength your way! Onwards and upwards!

@ArabaWaters Жыл бұрын

Wow this is so hard. Especially sharing with the whole world. Brighter days are ahead sis 🎉

@rukyfitnessbooster8799 Жыл бұрын

This was definitely too much of a shock but I also understand that people change. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray for the little ones. ❤

@MaisonJiJi Жыл бұрын

You are a beautiful person and all will iron itself out. Better to have a "friend " and peace. Thank you for sharing

@MsEast8 Жыл бұрын

You have absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. It takes such strength to leave a relationship, when you believe it's not working for you. You have to do the right and best thing for YOU. You've got this, you will thrive. Sending you a huge hug.

@moretodela Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@lolaojomo7805 Жыл бұрын

Loved you both - sending hugs and kisses to you both. You are so beautiful! You'll both be fine xxx

@JC-ty3zq Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear this,but I guessed it.WISHING you the BEST in your LIFE

@jamesnyaho1282 Жыл бұрын

Say strong, Dela. God will see you through.

@NanaAshanti Жыл бұрын

You are super classy. You are going to do great all by yourself, sis. You got this!

@lorettadavis6944 Жыл бұрын

Life happens, just know we are here for you. Stay strong for your kids.

@ededdie2741 Жыл бұрын

Good luck with your channel. The video quality is EXCELLENT : brilliant pictures, beautiful background, editing on point, you are eloquent, etc.

@MiscellaneousMeMe Жыл бұрын

Oh Dela my love….I hope you, Kwame and the children are all coping well with this transition. Life happens….and like you said people grow apart. I hope your whole family thrive in this new chapter. Thank you for sharing love ❤

@RoseTheAfropean Жыл бұрын

Wow, I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m sending you lots of love, strength and courage. You don’t owe anybody any explanation but we are grateful that you wanted to share this with us. Marriage is hard, I have a feeling that marriage in Ghana is even harder for returnees… a lot of cultural differences and pressure from outside. Take the time for you and use this time to reflect. I pray that you all find a mutual understanding for the sake of the kids. Co-parenting or as a married couple again. Good luck and don’t get sucked into anything that’s not for you. ❤

@RepentandBeSaved Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that it will be hard especially on your children but you'll pull through with time 🙏

@walterhunter3353 Жыл бұрын

We will keep you lifted up in prayer. Good morning from Dallas Texas

@Ind2nd Жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear about this situation!! Stand Tall!! 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️

@efreeholdings1575 Жыл бұрын

Omgish. Hugs to you!!! I have been on your page (on my other profile) since yall moved. Please take care of yourself and the children.

@AmmaMama Жыл бұрын

May God comfort and guide you and your family! You are beautiful, strong and very professional.

@nekalynch8101 Жыл бұрын

You all have our support. I am praying for the family. 💗

@elizabethfrimpong5928 Жыл бұрын

Wow this is indeed a shock for myself and many others. Stay strong❤, sending peace to you and your family 🙏🏽

@tlm9836 Жыл бұрын

So sorry for this. Keep your chin up - you are doing great!

@dotty65 Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear this Dela. Ive been through this and know how hard it is. Be strong, big hugs to you ❤

@belindapohl2483 Жыл бұрын

O my God...This hit me like a huricane...i just love the both of you together...i hope you both make the best decisions concerning the children, house and every thing you had together....I respect your decision...but truely pray there would be a possibility of working it out...God bless you.

@philipquashie6615 Жыл бұрын

You will be fine my dear. Just stay strong for your kids. Such is life, we move. Lot of love.

@akedareyes5014 Жыл бұрын

A Warm Hug For You And The Children! You And Kwame individually have our Love, Respect and Support.

@nanayeboah1049 Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear this, you are a strong woman. Be kind to your self and take care of the children, may the good Lord protect you both.

@babsp3081 Жыл бұрын

Dela I am sorry to hear this, may God give you and your children strength to move forward, bless you and thank you for sharing🙏🏾❤

@mavisburke495 Жыл бұрын

Wow, hopefully both of you will find peace and do what's best for the children who need each of you.

@appias95 Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry to hear your news. You seem to have fought hard. I can only imagine what you have had to endure till this time. Be encouraged that many people have gone through this before. Others were able to build a better life than before. Others were broken and never picked up again. You have the power and the choice and God’s help to set your direction. We are behind you and will always appreciate who you are and your great work here! Xxxxxx ❤

@evedel1291 Жыл бұрын

Wishing you all the best Dela. Sending you lots of love and hugs. It is not easy but you are strong and you will be fine. God got you!

@yvonnegoh2715 Жыл бұрын

What a shock! You were a model family to me. I am so sorry to hear this. I wish i had a magic wand to make this go away.

@theunwrappedfamily295 Жыл бұрын

Well done Dela on speaking to your truth. Not only brave but graceful.

@samuelasare2457 Жыл бұрын

Wow I can't believe it. Am I dreaming? All I can say is, if there's no abusive in your relationship, am sure you can work it out. It's lovely seeing you guys together with the children. Please try your best to solve this situation if he's also willing to try 🙏🏽. THE DEVIL IS A LIER!!!!!. please am hoping to hear a reunion 🙏🏾

@JMBM8822 Жыл бұрын

Nothing to be embarrased about. Life happens. It will get easy with time dear. Hang in there. Hugs♡

@jaycassa Жыл бұрын

Our prayers are with you both 🙏🏾

@MsApplehead01 Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that Dela, trust that you know what’s best for you and your family. ❤

@saywhatworld2023 Жыл бұрын

New chapter Sis! All the best to the both of you and hopefully Co-parenting will be positive for the children

@26nadz Жыл бұрын

Howwww 😢 I even thought he was just busy working but wow I can’t believe this …wishing you all the best 🙏🏽

@doreenobeng Жыл бұрын

I’m super sorry to hear… you guys had such fab chemistry. Praying for you both and the children. God bless you all 🙏🏾❤

@SunkissFlower Жыл бұрын

Stay strong, Dela. May God comfort you on every side.

@sabbyq3895 Жыл бұрын

Making a decision for the GREATER GOOD. Been where you are right now. I wish you ALL well during this tuff transition. You will be just fine. Chin up and stay strong Della 😊.

@mabelayivi9584 Жыл бұрын

OMG! Yes am really shocked cos you had so much chemistry. But it is well and I agree with you. Praying for God's strength to move on. It isn't gonna be easy but God s on your side.

@fos-b2537 Жыл бұрын

Love you so much sis,may God see you through this difficult times.

@akuastruth Жыл бұрын

Wow...a womans intuition never fails. For weeks I have read you probably because I been there before. Take time for you Del and pray as I pray for you💜

@ferdinanddiabene1638 Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry to hear this. I'm actually in shock because I never saw this coming but such is life, so please, do stay strong for yourself and the children.

@carolineburke412 Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear but you will get through the emotional Rollercoaster ride. Keep your head up and faith in yourself. And whatever faith you believe in.

@Vimac08 Жыл бұрын

Wow so sorry Dela. Wishing you all the best 🙏🏾

@sarayahoo Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear this sis. My God's Grace continue to surround you and your family.

@patriciafacey258 Жыл бұрын

Am so so sorry to hear this Dela, can see the sadness in your eyes. That said you have to do what's best for you. Praying for you, Kwarme and the children 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾