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May God free everyone who watched this video and is dealing with these situations. I pray for healing and restoration in Jesus Name

Lord save me....set me free from this toxicity and demonic forces.

The narcissist will always give you a big dose of love in the beginning then start acting like you don’t matter when they have you hooked on their love and probably amazing sex. It was never love it was just an addiction to a fake person! Amazing articulation of their strategies! Thank you for this video!

God brought me here for a reason at the right time before I said “I Do” 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

This is one of the most painful thing I've ever been through.

God please break all soul ties that have tied me to toxic people and that of anyone I have a soul tie with . Break all the bounds with these people. Memories and all .Like it never happened in Jesus name .

When an empath meets a narcissist is a perfect storm ⛈ 😳 WOW

Sometimes because you know God , you keep trying to forgive & heal the relationship, until depression, physical aches pains, becoming emotionally confused, spiritually drained, reclusive, exhausted , that's just a few of the harmful results.... This video is so profound!!! Thank you

I’m 20 I was in a relationship with a narcissist for 3 years. I was the empath who also formed a bond through trauma bonding. The narc drained all my happiness and energy. He abused me mentally, physically and emotionally. Very controlling and possessive. After really getting to know him, I realized he had no sense of self, he didn’t like himself, very insecure, empty. He just had a built up persona.. God revealed and showed me SO much stuff. He showed me how evil and demonic he was and his family was. He saved me literally. I had to pray over and over for God to give me the strength to leave this person. I couldn’t so God ended it for me. The pain I went through when it ended was like I was going through withdrawals. My spirit, my soul my everything was longing literally for him. I couldn’t sleep, nothing. I felt so used and drained. I got through it though here I am 2 years later and I’m so blessed. I still think of him almost every day and I’m still working on that. I loved this video & the fact your enlightening others. I definitely subscribed!

An "empath" is simply a person who is addicted to the vast amounts of hormonal rushes of cortisol and adrenaline/endorphins that are released when dealing with a narcissist. The fighting and the arguing release "fight or flight" hormones (cortisol) and the make-up, honeymoon period afterward release endorphins; a rollercoaster. Once a person's body is accustomed to these heavy doses of hormones, they find it difficult to let go of the relationship. Like any drug addict, they are so physically accustomed to the hormones they have a hard time changing their behavior. This is why empaths constantly seek out the same toxic relationships; they seek out the hormonal rush. They are consciously or unconsciously attracted to mates with the same toxic traits because they know that they will receive the flood of hormones they crave. This is also why empaths find healthy relationships to be "shallow" or unsatisfying: healthy relationships do not flood them with hormones, and while this is a positive thing, it makes an empath feel like the relationship is "empty." It is difficult for empaths to overcome their addiction BUT IT IS POSSIBLE. The first step is realizing what is happening and why: it's a physiological addiction. The second step is to DECIDE to live a healthier life. No amount of advice can change a person who doesn't want to change; while they can help you, no therapist, psychologist, or psychiatrist can do this FOR you, you must choose it for YOURSELF. With time, you CAN end the addiction and find real love. But you won't find true love until you can love YOURSELF enough to make life choices that will enhance your life rather than destroy it. The third step is TIME; you must give your body the time it needs to HEAL. You must seek out support and surround yourself with people that truly care for you. You must give yourself the time to get accustomed to the peace that comes from breaking the addiction. This also means NO CONTACT with narcissists and with people who raise a red flag. Their problems are not yours, neither do you need validation from people who are not qualified to GIVE IT; MOVE ON. The fourth step is to find a PURPOSE for your own life. When you are focused on your purpose and become good at what you do, you have neither the time nor the inclination to seek out people who will distract you from it. Empaths suffer from low self-esteem; they are usually people who have been raised by narcissists and are constantly trying to validate themselves to the parents who were unable to give them the emotional support they needed growing up. They replay this scenario in adulthood, and pay a heavy price for it. LET IT GO. If your parents weren't good people, acknowledge it and move on. YOU can be a good guardian to YOURSELF, and you should be. Peace and love to everyone here, I went through this myself and I was able to overcome it. YOU CAN DO IT. I hope this helps.

Having a soul tie with a narcissist feels like an addiction. I've never been addicted to drugs but I can imagine the struggle of someone who knows something is bad for their health but not being able to rid themselves of the desire to have it. This is what its like trying to leave a narcissist. You know they are bad for your health but you find every excuse to keep them around. You even stop hanging with family and friends just to hide the fact you are still involved with them. Yea, its that bad. Well, im a week and a half of being discarded for the umpteenth time and this time im fighting hard daily just to keep him blocked from calling me. I hope I can stay the course and fight the temptation but I still hear that tiny voice telling me I need him. I pray that God continues to give me the strength. You can not fight the urge without God right by your side! I am slowly but surely coming out of a dark place that was leading me to a place I never want to know. My family is fighting hard with me as well to keep me from going back down that road to destruction 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

I finally let go of a toxic relationship with a narcissist. I feel like I've finally gained my peace and freedom back 🙌. There are days where I question myself on where I might have went wrong and how I should have changed the way I responded to certain things. The sad truth is we were never supposed to be together in the first place, God even showed me a vision regarding this man and what I saw is exactly what played out throughout our relationship. I felt emotionally drained, worthless and felt like I lost a sense of myself. I couldn't function properly, I was always sad and depressed. My mind could only focus on the failed relationship. A week wouldn't end without me shedding tears. He used to tell me I was crazy and dramatic and the more I internalized the negative words the more I started thinking that maybe there was something wrong with me (its a lie from the enemy).

That soul tie is very strong it nearly killed me, the Narcissist wanted my soul, once you start to walk on eggshells you lost your self by trying to save the Monster it's chaotic and destructive, You will never have peace or harmony, know resolved issues, it's a rollercoaster ride from Hell, Only God can break that soul tie, I am free I Thank God everyday he delivered me from the enemy, I never experienced such evil in my life, God bless everyone who encountered that kind of evil!

In order to break the deadlock of a narcissistic abusive relationship, the empath must give to themselves the gift of desperation (GOD). The narcissist comes into our lives to teach us to build those boundaries. To learn to balance our feelings and our thoughts and to learn to discern the difference between frivolity and love. As an empath I always thought that I could fix things in others. That's playing God. In this area I have been agnostic. The gifts of intuition and intuitive thought need to be bridaled by discernment. So balance between our thoughts and feelings can only be achieved by enlarging on our spiritual lives. Understanding spiritual principals and being a disciplined learner of such is the key to freedom. Thank you for your work brother.

I'm convinced God led me here tonight. I've been struggling and having an internal battle with myself, wondering why I couldn't let this man go. Now I understand. I pray that I'll be emotionally, mentally and spiritually set free. Thank you Jesus for guiding me here🙏❤

Im on a serious healing journey so I've noticed why he blocked me an got upset was bec he realised he cant manipulate me as he did before yes all my relationship were Co dependant I was everyone life saver but im trying very hard to heal an break myself from this behavior

When my narc ex saw me getting stronger, and totally transform! Aaaaaand just when he thought he was "the man" well something shifted and he began to have issues in every column of his life. Long story short he was curled up in a lil corner crying talking about how low his self esteem was. We split of course 👏but I've transformed so much my relatives are jus happily blown away, in regards of how much I've "queened up"

We are in a spiritual battle with these demons.....

The sad thing is the narcissists really think that You're dumb and that they are getting over on you not knowing that you're very intelligent and don't believe a darn thing they say when they say they love u never believe it go BY THEIR ACTIONS I ALWAYS GO BY ACTIONS but that soul tie had me stuck so glad its over!!!!

“When a relationship ends with a narcissist, for an empath, it is traumatic and leaves a demonic longing for closure and twisted sense of guilt that I have done something wrong and that the narcissist can change” this hit a nail on the head, now they're on gods path and your the demonic spirit smh,

And the worst thing of it all is how they tell everyone that YOU are the bad person , that YOU are the poison. After they sucked out all you have to give and it still wasn’t enough, mentally drained you, they will want to tell the whole world how terrible you are! And they all believe it. And I still wanted him back again and again. This is the worst thing that ever happened to me. This video is a blessing. Thank you !! I will watch it over and over again to never forget !

Trauma bonding is no joke.

OMG, this describes my life and I want out of this mental war.

Before I knew he was a narc I had a dream where he wanted to be intimate with me (thing that never happened) but when I opened my eyes he was growing fangs like a vampire. The Spirit of God revealed his true nature months ahead of time. Thanks for the teaching. I’m on my way to healing and wholeness

can you pray for me? that God will break all soul ties for me and restore me, and pray for my family.

I feel the most toxic narcasstic relationships is when it's your own MOTHER

I would say I am a recovering co-dependent and definitely an empath. What I've come to know is that a narcissist and co-dependent are shadows of each other. And, until we get the deep healing we need (rooted in abandonment and rejection) we will ALWAYS find ourselves in these MAGNETIC relationships!

God gave me the strength to walk away I was dying slowly

Abstinence is the only way

Another good point 👏 The codependent is starved for love 💕 The narc is avoidant of love 💕 The narc throws bread 🥖 crumbs or tiny bits of affection Bread 🥖 crumbs so the codependent is never satisfied or full/ always hungry for more .... ****ah ha moment 🤔 💭

You are the only person I’ve seen nailed Narcissism & codependent too the bones

They are like the devil hating on good as they are jealous and envious of the good in u thank u

I was sitting in my car crying my face off LITERALLY about my breakup and I was watching a random video and THIS popped up in my feed. JESUSSSSSS JESUSSSSSS JESUSSSSSS! I'm a gallon person and I fell in love with a pint person. I ended it about a week ago and this video was everything I needed. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! My friend recommended your book and I never ordered it, and then I sent her THIS video and she responded...THIS IS THE SAME GUY THAT WROTE THE BOOK I KEEP TELLING YOU TO BUY! WOWWWWWW. LOOK AT GOD! This video was CONFIRMATION. THANK YOU! Ordering book now! I feel like a burden has been lifted off me. Sorry this was so long. This was a #godsend.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

My God... Cover me Lord, cover me with your blood dear Jesus.

The "trauma bond", for me, came from having to rely on a person that I could never actually rely. That right there can change a person in ways that even I can't explain!

I have tears falling like a waterfall. I have trauma bond. Lord, please bring healing and restoration to my soul.

Yes Pastor Blakes. This is true. My daughter's father strategically selects the women he dates for his needs & if the woman wakes up & realizes he doesn't love her & thats he's using her, he calls her selfish, attacks her verbally & then will serial cheat. He did it to me & all his gfs. There is a saying that says a selfish man is a thief. That is a narc. You never get back what you put into a relationship with them.

A narcissist is a jezebel spirit

You nailed this 100%. I realized this is why my whole life has been stolen from me... I thought it was just my mom, but when I "escaped" from her and went to my dad's, who promised to help me, I found out he is just as bad, even worse because he hides it. It is the final piece of the puzzle, for why I have never been able to find love, because my parents both drained it from me, and I thought I had to give everything of myself to be loved, which never came. AT 52 years old, I'm finally learning to make my needs important too.

Amen! I have attracted Narcissists my entire life and I’m learning to Rebuke them in Jesus’ name Amen!

126 unlikes? Obviously Narcassists unhappy you've revealed their stratergies!

I’m so glad I’m Single ... I’m learning so much !!!

"You're on top and you're going higher. God has more in store for you." A blessed seed to plant in my heart. Thank you pastor.

I know exactly what your talking about. I'm going thru this now!!! But God can definitely deliver!!! I'm a living witness to that. I was a crack addict for 18 years and for the last 12 years I've been set free!! THERE'S NOTHING TO HARD FOR GOD😇😇. Thank you

This spoke to me today! I was in one of the relationships you spoke on Pastor and I spent the longest time trying to figure out WHY I was so connected to this person who treated me with such disregard! When you truly surrender your life to God - he takes away toxic relationships, pain, hurt and disappointment! I am a living witness that you can have life after narcissists! He did it for me, and he can do it for you too!!

When I was toward the end of my relationship with a narcissist monster, I did not know at the time why I felt this way, but I knew without a doubt I was going to die or was in the process. Never in my life before, have I ever felt without a doubt I was dying or going to die soon. Its was very creepy and unexplainable at the time. Now I am out, God has wrapped me in his arms and as I begged and prayed for help and protection, God has graciously giving it to me. Even after 4 years of no contacts I still struggle with these horrible "ties" sometimes. I have to constantly pray for protection and for God to change my mind and help me to fight the emotional pain he inflicted on me. I would not have ever believed ANY man could or would have this kind of power over me. Demons do exist, put on your full armor of God! You have to have Gods armor to fight this kind of evil... 🙏💔

Narcissism is the biggest blessing of my life. It has fired my heart to help forge my faith and returned me to myself. I believe my soul's mission is to break through these relationships by understanding myself. I have been very toxic and I have been seeking these relationships. Deep within my soul I know I could not have woken up from the illusions of this world, if not for my painful experiences. I needed to learn that even feeling people can be destructive. I needed to learn that ignorance in the name of goodness or Godliness is especially destructive. I needed to learn that I have to learn to pave my own way. I needed to learn that my anger is not always bad, but is a protection of myself. We must learn to tap into God and break this bond to ignorance that controls so many of us. When we are free from this we will be free to give Love and Truth in the world like it needs! We must fight to be free of these things, we will only win the fight by finding God within ourselves and honoring ourselves as Holy. We are made of Love, we are strong enough to defend that Love in ourselves and others. Find You, Find God, Find True Freedom. That's what your narcissist is hear to teach you.

I need help... loving someone who does not love you back and keep going back lord help me☹

Thanks for the anointed teaching for empaths. We need this. The narcissists are literally capable of killing us if we don't know any better about what they are ☺ God bless you.

Whew! This was spot on Sir! I was the empath and was in relationship with a narcissist ex for 7 1/2 years. So glad that God helped me break free of that!

This presentation is SO needed from a Biblical perspective. Christians are dealing with this just as the World. Thank you for your hard work. God can deliver, ask Him. If you surrender and submit to God He can heal like nothing else can. Amen

Really great presentation, concise & real. Thank you for your time, may all of us heal from these twisted, toxic individuals.

It took me getting ill with chronic pain to realise that I'm an empath and my entire family are narcissists. God finally woke me up to realise that I can't help them. I have to help myself. Finally I'm breaking free.

Great video..I'm in this situation right now. I wouldn't be in this situation if I just followed my instincts. My gutfeeling😩Almost 2 months narc free..No Contact! Thank you🌹

This sums up perfectly what I could never put into words. It quite express what I was feeling and going through. Thank you so much for this breakthrough!

Great content! I’ve come to find that the narcissistic personality is the leviathan spirit. Pride. That’s what needs to be prayed against. I love the breakdown and I would just add spiritual ways to break free. It’s powerful when we can use psychology and faith to move toward healing!

So glad to see a pastor bringing this type relationship to the attention of those who may be suffering a soul bond with a narcissist . One thing people need to understand is this is happening in the church as well . Many narcissist are hiding behind the bible . They know scripture well and want their prey to believe everything is their fault , and use scripture to back it . Thankyou for explaining in such detail . You have brought light to many . God bless you !

I was with a narcissist, I didn’t realize he do such a thing, we got married and he slowly broke me down to the point were I was left with nothing, he beat me when I discovered his ways and blamed me.. I’m not the only one he’s done this to but I was the first to discover who he truly was, I was in my lowest point in my life, I was so traumatized, he hurt me in every way possible, I did feel like I was gonna die.. it took me so long to get myself back up and it’s been over a year and I’m still struggling getting back up. He has changed me forever but I thank God I didn’t stay bitter. I describe him as a monster

This message was exceptional! Your explanation of the narcissism, empath and soul ties, was simply phenomenal!!! Thanks for your contribution!

Thank you wholeheartedly for that prayer. It has given me strength and I'm thankful God sent this message thru you. May you be blessed for blessings you give to people.

trauma bond is an addiction to hope.... more deadly than any drug.... thank you so much...

I think that I'm an empath/codependent/love addict - that's why I'm such a narc magnet 😪😭

This video has helped me start the process of true healing and release. Thank you!!!

This helped me I’m in a sole tie and trauma bond. It’s the most difficult relationship I’ve ever been in.

Intermittent reinforcement damages the neurotransmitters in the brain. Honestly you have to rebuild the dopamine levels. You can do it with prayer but if you wanna go it more quickly you would need Wellbutrin & w mood stabilizer. But also God too! But if you wanna speed up the process go to the psychiatrist & start seeing a psychologist and go to church & bible study. Watch RC Blake’s KZfaq videos and listen to only gospel music to rebuild the spirit and do exercise and clean up and be really clean. ❤️💕 this helped me get over my narc instantly. I started becoming unbothered by him. And I just ended up blocking him and now I’m chilin trying to rebuild my life.

My God 😔😔😔... I am trying to heal from this.

I needed this today. I am an Empath. You hit every point. Bless you for sharing yourself. All the love.❤️

Thank you, Pastor. You impacted my healing, NPD survivor life greatly tonight with your clarity concerning such a chaotic and destructive disorder. God bless you and your family. 🙏💛✝

I lived and have lived 41 years of marriage who called himself a preacher with this narcissistic person I was the empath on January 30th 2018 the narcissist left me homeless because I said I would no longer support or agree with this type of teaching and living there was going on in our home and outside of our home I am so grateful to the most high God for what he did I didn't understand it at first because I was hurt but I understood that God was protecting me possibly saving my life I am in the process of healing and it may take years to heal but he'll I will pray for us women out here who has been manipulated who have been religiously taught that we are to stand by our man well I'm standing by the most high and standing for the most time now glory to the most high God for teaching ❤️

You nailed the description between Narcissist and the Empath!!!👍🏽👍🏽💪🏾💪🏾

This video was so helpful and makes so much sense. Me, I’m an empath and have definitely been with some narcissists. Thank you.

Thank you, this brings so much clarity . Your amazing and God is good💗

After Being Discarded I Still Struggle With Letting Go Of The Narcissists.I Know In My Heart That This Person Means Me No Good.This Person Emotionally Abused.& Beat Me Dwn So Bad.After 2 Yrs I'm Trying To Get MySelf ToGether.They Are Very Sick Ppl.

My narc killed himself. The day before my birthday. I don't want to be tied to his soul.... ever. We were divorced for a few years. Sad. Thanks for this. 💗

WOW, spent the whole day study in depth all the headings raised in this video and it took me deeper than I imagined. I didn't even realise I was still being held back by incidents from my past. God has now opened my eyes to see them and I know He will deliver me from them all. Thank you Pastor Blakes for this teaching. May God continue to bless you in his service.

Thank you so much Pastor R.C. Blake’s! I just got out of a relationship with a narcissist. This video really helped me to know that what I’m going through happens in these situations and how to overcome by forgiveness! Thank you for sharing this video.

Well said💯 Iam 40 yrs old and the man I was in a relationship is 50 yrs old we dated for a year and a half at 7 months he proposed to me I said yes, at the 16 month mark we had a disagreement very petty one at that I told him we made a agreement every time before we get off the phone to say I love u to one another he always did this one time I said we didn’t do it god forbid one of us passed on cause we all know we are not promised the next second when I said we both should not have done that his eyes bulged fists clinched he said I want my ring back, I could not just remove the ring off my finger their was to much meaning behind so he said iam going to go now and looked at me I gave no response as he walked out my front door he took my only pair of car keys and house key I acted as if I didn’t know but my intuition knew, the following morning I asked him to bring me my keys after going bck and forth he came he said give me the ring u can have the keys so I said it’s ur choice to take it off my hand I stuck my hand out he took the ring off and I got my keys I silently walked away in pain 2 weeks went by not a call of sorry or closure so I thought I was going to have a nervous breakdown and sign myself into a hospital I said to myself u lived through so much u are strong u will get through this so then I blocked his number in case he would have gotten out of his stubbornness and called a month has gone by no contact I meditated, I pray, I go to the gym, I go on nature walks, and I researched narcissist and did not even know the entire time he was one, since he’s gone I got my mental clarity back and so many doors have opened for me🙏😇🙌❤️🙌🏾💯✅

I wish I wasn't an empath. It feels like curse. Thank you for this video.

Thank you very much . you just save my life from falling apart with pain...I just now breakup from narcissist and to hear you make me send him free . I feel saved and loved that I see clearly, the real face of the narcissist. please continue with your kind and good help. Thank you

Very enlightening. Thank you for putting into words and explaining in a clear way what I have been experiencing these past three years. Knowledge and understanding is power and after watching this video I feel empowered to make the necessary changes in my life so I can be happy again.

You are spot on! I am empathic, we draw those who need healing as well. Sometimes you don't even realize it. I am highly sensitive, you can know that they aren't any good, but we rationalize giving them unlimited opportunities. I almost had a mental breaking point, but thank God, I know God!!

I know this to be truth. I am an Empath that had only attracted Narcissistic Men.

Thank you for studying this topic, understanding it, believing that it happens and speaking on it. I’m not sure why you are so in tuned with what is happening in these toxic relationships, but I’m thankful that you do. Your content Is relevant and helpful. I wish this info was available many years ago for me but I’m grateful my children can learn before their lives are turned upside down even further. Knowledge is powerful even though they hate what they know.

OMG I am the Empath & he is the Narcissist!!!! Ended with him going to jail for Agg. Assault.. Praise God I Have a way- making, life sustaining, Author & Perfecter of my Life.

"Only God can deliver you", and He has delivered me and I thank God !!! Thank you.

This was really helpful. I couldn't quite understand why I let people continually do me wrong and I​ kept them in my life.

I really like your perspective on Narcissism, very clear and fair. From this licensed therapist to you, THANK YOU!

Powerful, pastor! I've listened to many many KZfaq teachings on this subject and you explain it so clearly! And I appreciate how you see these issues in The Bible and bring it to light. Keep it up!

I'm ending a marriage with a man I believe to be a sociopath with of course narcissistic traits. When I reflect back to how we met and how fast everything went, the little intricate details make sense. I associate with your description of an empath. However, I'm just now learning this about myself. This is how he was able to latch in to me so easily and it seemed like I had not my soulmate. People need to be warned. A sociopath or narcissist can truly ruin then mental state of innocent/naive person. We have been married for 7 months and within the first month I started seeing a totally different person. It was scary.

After my relationship ended with the Narc, I found out I am an Empath & a Codependent, the perfect victim for a narcissist. This is the only good thing that came out of my relationship with this evil person. I now have boundaries and I am learning to take care of me first. It has been a very sad journey but everyday I get stronger. Thank you for your words and wisdom

This has been the most powerful message to me yet. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. May we all break these ties that bind us to the narcissist.

Thank you, thank you, thank you, Amen. Today the light came on with regards to a trauma bond and forgiveness ... I left just over a year ago and have been fighting this battle and did not understand it, or put a word to it. "It's not longing... its bitterness" at being so betrayed and hurt in SO many different ways. Wow. Thank you for bringing this to the light. This is such an important message for so many people suffering at the hands of a narc. Bless you. Thank you Lord, you are the Almighty One, the Alpha and the Omega, I praise your name and thank you. I am the righteousness of God through Jesus Christ. With God for me, who can be against me. Amen.

First of all Bishop 🙌 Thank you for acknowledging the definition of an Empath! Your the 1st Pastor I've heard to say this🙋

Lived this nightmare for almost 30 years! Had to free myself by pouring love into myself!

Learning so much and receiving such insight! God bless Pastor! I'm just now realizing after close to five years that I was in relationship with a narcissist and I the empath. Thank you so much!

The moment I watched this video it gives me clarity to all of my questions.. narcissist no more..God delivers me, it gives me freedom..thank you so much for making this video💖💖💖

Pastor Blake's this is very powerful and accurate. Narcassist never totally move on because they see you as an extension of themselves . Especially if you were a good supply. They just start playing musical chairs. The final discard usually comes from you! Thank you God Bless you abundantly:)

I left my narc husband last year. Hearing your message helped me understand that I don't have a soul ties to him. Thank you.

Wow!!! I was just delivered from this subject yesterday. I didn't want to be a part of this situation anymore. Even though the relationship I was in was only 3 months old, I just couldn't! It was draining me physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Glory to God. God, thank you for saving me. God bless you Pastor Blakes. I shared this video with my daughter so she could also share it with her friends. I have subscribed to your channel, liked it and now commenting. Bless you Man of God.